Like you, I badly wanted to give a great wedding speech that would make my younger brother feel not only proud but also express how much I adore him.
But, juggling work and my wedding plans were a real struggle so I could hardly think straight. Besides, I had so many ideas swimming in my head that I didn’t know where to start, let alone find the right words that would express my deepest admiration for him and his beloved bride.
I Was Totally Helpless
I spent countless hours, sometimes deep into the night, but things didn’t work out as I had hoped for. I finally came up with a rather boring speech. So, I decided to seek some help online and that's when my mom told me about Dan and his team who had earlier helped with an amazing mother of the groom speech.
This Helped Me Out!
However, I was skeptical when Dan and his team said they could help get me a great wedding speech even if I hated speaking in public. They say nothing ventured, nothing gained. So, I took a leap of faith when I found out that I didn’t have to pay first to get my speech done. That allayed my fear because I had nothing to lose.
I quickly got started by first filling out this form as I really wanted to make a difference with my speech.Dan and his team delivered what they promised and I loved it. When I was called to deliver my speech, the room was dead silent and most of those who knew me were not really expecting much from me because they didn't know me to be a great public speaker.
But I proved them wrong this time around. I spoke with poise, flair, and confidence and everyone was stunned. My brother was so proud of me and he even gave me a warm, loving hug.
Those who thought I'd disappoint got it wrong! Dan and his guys asked me how my speech went afterward and this was the note I sent them after the wedding (Please note: Kindly click on the image below to make it legible)
Anthony's not the only one we have helped. We helped another nervous person whose testimonial is in his own pen below. We have helped several others give memorable speeches too, So, your case is not hopeless. There’s hope for you.
Please see the image below
We have helped several others give memorable speeches too. So, your case is not hopeless. There’s hope for you.
Wedding not too far away? Or happening in less than 24 hours?Trust me, we can deliver!it doesn’t matter if your speech is today, tomorrow, next week, next month, next year,... we can make things work for you
''The wedding was GREAT. There were about 120 guests. About 15 people came up to me afterward and told me I gave a great speech. I had to tweak it a little because of my tardiness getting it to you but, it all turned out great. Thanks for all your help. I really appreciate it''- Phil Australia
You see, all these persons you have just read about are mere mortals like you and me and many were scared to death about this whole wedding speech thing.
But they all decided to take action by asking our wedding speech consultants to help them give incredible wedding speeches and we didn’t let them down.
The groom's wedding is a very special milestone in his life and you shouldn't let him down in anyway. Which is why we are here to help you give a wedding speech that will blow everyone away, even if you are an experienced speaker or you just hate speaking before an audience.
Yes, if you are expecting nothing less than a very special, beautiful, unique, and memorable speech.
Yes, if you are overwhelmed by the pressures of work and the wedding preparations and don’t have the time to put together a very meaningful speech, so you can have peace of mind
Yes, if you want the groom, your friends or siblings, his family, your family, children, friends, and wedding guests to shower you with very sincere compliments…just imagine how you will feel
Yes, if you are not good with words and you feel you’re not a natural writer and you are struggling to find the right words but still want to give a great speech.
Yes, you get so scared anytime you’re asked to say something before an audience and you really want to save yourself from any form of embarrassment on your big day.
Yes, if you are not too eloquent or not too sure if you are on the right track.
Yes, if you absolutely hate speaking in public or feel this is not your thing but you want to make your brother or friend feel very proud
Yes, if you have a day or less to the wedding and you are worried that you might make some horrible mistakes
Yes, if you are a good speaker but you still want someone to look over or review what you've come up with!
Wedding not too far away? Or happening in less than 24 hours?Trust me, we can deliver!it doesn’t matter if your speech is today, tomorrow, next week, next month, next year,... we can make things work for you
Just imagine leaving your entire presentation in the hands of skilled wedding speech consultants who will take away your pain of spending hours thinking hard and long about what to say and what not to say.
Also, envision being patiently guided to say something that will leave a favorable impression on the mind of your listeners.
And also imagine the thrill and feeling of excitement and pride you’re going to experience when the audience leaps onto their feet and scream and shouts and even sing your praises.
Won’t you love that? I hope you do...
Ok, I am Interested, What’s the Cost?
You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.
Why? As you know, the current health and economic crisis have caused severe hardships for most people.
Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.
Yet, some couples are still getting married and giving speeches like never before.
Nonetheless, not everyone could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.
So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.
Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.
So, please take advantage of it now even if the big day is in the future.
Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video, and the groom, your friends and family, and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.
So, please take advantage of it now even if the wedding day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.
Oh Ok, How Then Do I Get Started Since I Want To Get On Board Right Away?
After that, we will send you a very short questionnaire to fill out via email! You only have to check your email a few hours after you have made your request.
Then, you fill out the questionnaire sent through your email, and please have it sent back to us…
We will confirm receipt of it…If something is not too clear, we will ask you to clarify…If not, we will send you a wonderful draft in a couple of hours if this on very short notice….If not, after a few days
Then, you look it over and tell us if you are okay with it or you want to amend it till you are happy with it--although we always get it right even with the first draft.
Finally, we would ask you to pay for it.
Just a reminder of what you pay after it’s duly completed.
You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.
Why? As you know, the current health and economic crisis have caused severe hardships for most people.
Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.
Yet, some couples are still getting married and asking their friends or siblings to make best man speeches.
Nonetheless, not everyone could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.
So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.
Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.
So, please take advantage of it now even if the groom's big day is in the future.
Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video, and the groom, your friends, friends and family, and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.
So, please take advantage of it now even if the wedding day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.
Please note: Your speech draft comes with a proven and simple tip to master your speech or remember your speech just as you want it without carrying a paper with you.
Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise, and clarity!
''Hi Dan,
The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice). Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.
All the best,
Matt''
Please note: Don’t fill out this form if you’re a dishonest individual. This offer is for a limited time.
You don't have to worry about paying our per speech for now.
Forget about money and let’s write something for you. We believe in the values of honesty and integrity and we think you should be happy with our work first.
So, Here Are The Benefits You Get When You Get On Board!
A great speech written by our wedding speech consultants that reflects what you want to say exactly
We coach you on how to use your voice to make your speech very exciting.
We show you a simple but often overlook strategy to rehearse your speech even if you have a very poor memory. This method is used by great speakers like Obama and was used by Abraham Lincoln and his compatriots
The most effective way to get your entire speech into your head without memorizing your speech. Guaranteed to help you even if you have a very poor memory or your memory is like a goldfish…most of our clients still wonder where we got this idea from. This ensures that you don't read off a sheet of paper...
Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise, and clarity!
''Hi Dan,
The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice). Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.
All the best,
Matt''
Ways to include humor in your speech and what it takes to do so
Like you, I badly wanted to give a great best man speech that would make my younger brother feel not only proud but also express how much I adore him.
But, juggling work and my wedding plans were a real struggle so I could hardly think straight. Besides, I had so many ideas swimming in my head that I didn’t know where to start, let alone find the right words that would express my deepest admiration for him and his beloved bride.
I Was Totally Helpless
I spent countless hours, sometimes deep into the night, but things didn’t work out as I had hoped for. I finally came up with a rather boring speech. So, I decided to seek some help online and that's when my mom told me about Dan and his team who had earlier helped with an amazing mother of the groom speech.
This Helped Me Out!
However, I was skeptical when Dan and his team said they could help get me a great wedding speech even if I hated speaking in public. They say nothing ventured, nothing gained. So, I took a leap of faith when I found out that I didn’t have to pay first to get my speech done. That allayed my fear because I had nothing to lose.
I quickly got started by first filling out this form as I really wanted to make a difference with my speech.Dan and his team delivered what they promised and I loved it. When I was called to deliver my speech, the room was dead silent and most of those who knew me were not really expecting much from me because they didn't know me to be a great public speaker.
But I proved them wrong this time around. I spoke with poise, flair, and confidence and everyone was stunned. My brother was so proud of me and he even gave me a warm, loving hug.
Those who thought I'd disappoint got it wrong! Dan and his guys asked me how my speech went afterward and this was the note I sent them after the wedding (Please note: Kindly click on the image below to make it legible)
Anthony's not the only one we have helped. We helped another nervous person whose testimonial is in his own pen below. We have helped several others give memorable speeches too, So, your case is not hopeless. There’s hope for you.
Please see the image below
We have helped several others give memorable speeches too. So, your case is not hopeless. There’s hope for you.
Wedding not too far away? Or happening in less than 24 hours?Trust me, we can deliver!it doesn’t matter if your speech is today, tomorrow, next week, next month, next year,... we can make things work for you
''The wedding was GREAT. There were about 120 guests. About 15 people came up to me afterward and told me I gave a great speech. I had to tweak it a little because of my tardiness getting it to you but, it all turned out great. Thanks for all your help. I really appreciate it''- Phil Australia
You see, all these persons you have just read about are mere mortals like you and me and many were scared to death about this whole wedding speech thing.
But they all decided to take action by asking our wedding speech consultants to help them give incredible wedding speeches and we didn’t let them down.
The groom's wedding is a very special milestone in his life and you shouldn't let him down in anyway. Which is why we are here to help you give a wedding speech that will blow everyone away, even if you are an experienced speaker or you just hate speaking before an audience.
Yes, if you are expecting nothing less than a very special, beautiful, unique, and memorable speech.
Yes, if you are overwhelmed by the pressures of work and the wedding preparations and don’t have the time to put together a very meaningful speech, so you can have peace of mind
Yes, if you want the groom, your friends or siblings, his family, your family, children, friends, and wedding guests to shower you with very sincere compliments…just imagine how you will feel
Yes, if you are not good with words and you feel you’re not a natural writer and you are struggling to find the right words but still want to give a great speech.
Yes, you get so scared anytime you’re asked to say something before an audience and you really want to save yourself from any form of embarrassment on your big day.
Yes, if you are not too eloquent or not too sure if you are on the right track.
Yes, if you absolutely hate speaking in public or feel this is not your thing but you want to make your brother or friend feel very proud
Yes, if you have a day or less to the wedding and you are worried that you might make some horrible mistakes
Yes, if you are a good speaker but you still want someone to look over or review what you've come up with!
Wedding not too far away? Or happening in less than 24 hours?Trust me, we can deliver!it doesn’t matter if your speech is today, tomorrow, next week, next month, next year,... we can make things work for you
Just imagine leaving your entire presentation in the hands of skilled wedding speech consultants who will take away your pain of spending hours thinking hard and long about what to say and what not to say.
Also, envision being patiently guided to say something that will leave a favorable impression on the mind of your listeners.
And also imagine the thrill and feeling of excitement and pride you’re going to experience when the audience leaps onto their feet and scream and shouts and even sing your praises.
Won’t you love that? I hope you do...
Ok, I am Interested, What’s the Cost?
You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.
Why? As you know, the current health and economic crisis have caused severe hardships for most people.
Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.
Yet, some couples are still getting married and giving speeches like never before.
Nonetheless, not everyone could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.
So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.
Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.
So, please take advantage of it now even if the big day is in the future.
Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video, and the groom, your friends and family, and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.
So, please take advantage of it now even if the wedding day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.
Oh Ok, How Then Do I Get Started Since I Want To Get On Board Right Away?
After that, we will send you a very short questionnaire to fill out via email! You only have to check your email a few hours after you have made your request.
Then, you fill out the questionnaire sent through your email, and please have it sent back to us…
We will confirm receipt of it…If something is not too clear, we will ask you to clarify…If not, we will send you a wonderful draft in a couple of hours if this on very short notice….If not, after a few days
Then, you look it over and tell us if you are okay with it or you want to amend it till you are happy with it--although we always get it right even with the first draft.
Finally, we would ask you to pay for it.
Just a reminder of what you pay after it’s duly completed.
You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.
Why? As you know, the current health and economic crisis have caused severe hardships for most people.
Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.
Yet, some couples are still getting married and asking their friends or siblings to make best man speeches.
Nonetheless, not everyone could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.
So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.
Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.
So, please take advantage of it now even if the groom's big day is in the future.
Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video, and the groom, your friends, friends and family, and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.
So, please take advantage of it now even if the wedding day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.
Please note: Your speech draft comes with a proven and simple tip to master your speech or remember your speech just as you want it without carrying a paper with you.
Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise, and clarity!
''Hi Dan,
The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice). Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.
All the best,
Matt''
Please note: Don’t fill out this form if you’re a dishonest individual. This offer is for a limited time.
You don't have to worry about paying our per speech for now.
Forget about money and let’s write something for you. We believe in the values of honesty and integrity and we think you should be happy with our work first.
So, Here Are The Benefits You Get When You Get On Board!
A great speech written by our wedding speech consultants that reflects what you want to say exactly
We coach you on how to use your voice to make your speech very exciting.
We show you a simple but often overlook strategy to rehearse your speech even if you have a very poor memory. This method is used by great speakers like Obama and was used by Abraham Lincoln and his compatriots
The most effective way to get your entire speech into your head without memorizing your speech. Guaranteed to help you even if you have a very poor memory or your memory is like a goldfish…most of our clients still wonder where we got this idea from. This ensures that you don't read off a sheet of paper...
Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise, and clarity!
''Hi Dan,
The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice). Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.
All the best,
Matt''
Ways to include humor in your speech and what it takes to do so
Here’s how to quickly and easily get freelance online writing jobs on the side on a regular basis
This post is for you if:
You really want to get regular online writing jobs on the side without working your ass off.
You really want to get freelance side hustle online writing jobs so you can earn some cash on the side.
You really want part time freelance writing jobs that will make you so much loved and respected!
Have you wondered why it’s so hard to find good freelance online writing jobs online? Unless, you are lucky like the writer in the video below, then you know how hard getting freelance online writers consistently can be.
Just like you, I once thought of finding good clients who’ll value my skills was only a dream until God showed me how to find online freelance writing clients on the side using the Backyard Gold mining Method!
Wondering what that method is and how it works?
Please bear me with and I’ll tell you what this is all about.
By the way, I want to give you proof that it works, so here are a few thank you notes I have gotten as a result of using this unique method.
Here’s note # 1(Please click on the image below if you can't see it)
Here’s note # 2(Please click on the image below if you can't see it)
Here’s note # 3(Please click on the image below if you can't see it)
Before I unravel the secrets, let me illustrate with the short story below.
From Russia selling Alaska in 1867 to the USA when it was less valuable, to the burning of the Library of Alexandria, many costly mistakes have occurred in history that shouldn’t have happened in the first place.
But none is as costly as what happened in the United Kingdom. According to the Independent Newspaper, James Howells, an IT worker from Newport, claims to have unintentionally dumped a 7,500-bit coin in mid-2013.
At the time he bought that precious metal, the value of the crypto currency was around $ 130 and he stored the details of his transaction on his hard drive. James recounts that after he had stopped mining for bitcoins; the laptop he used was broken into parts and sold on ebay.com.
But he kept the hard drive at home knowing pretty well it contained his bitcoin private keys so that if the currency became valuable someday, he would still have the coins he had mined.
In mid-2013, he decided to move out with his family to a new apartment.
During a clear-out, the hard drive — then worth a few hundred thousand pounds — was mistakenly thrown out and put into a general waste bin at his local landfill site, after which it was buried on-site!
In 2017, he found out that the worth the amount in dollars was over $80 million! Any lesson(s) learned from that story? You see, most freelance writers are like James. Wondering why we are like him?
That’s because we often overlook opportunities right in our backyards when we are desperately looking for onliehwriting jobs on the side. Believe it or not, there are golden writing opportunities online in your village, town, city, state or province but most writers don’t know how to tap into this rich goldmine.
Most freelance writers make a lot of costly mistakes and it hinders them from grabbing their fair share of this underserved market.
So, let’s first find out what these mistakes are and then I will show you how to easily and quickly get good speech writing jobs in your backyard using the novel Backyard Goldmining method of prospecting for clients.
Costly mistake #1
Dreaming Big When You Can Start Very Small
As you’re pretty much aware, the highest paying gigs out there are government or corporate speech writing jobs and that’s what most of us have our eyes on.
While there’s nothing wrong in dreaming big, it takes big, bold steps to accomplish big dreams. Being a corporate writer comes with a lot of perks, but it’s so hard to land ideal clients unless you’re well well-connected or have access to key decision-makers.
If you’re very lucky to have those gigs, you’ll be laughing all the way to the bank!
But, let’s face it. It’s very stressful and it can shoot your blood pressure through the roof like a rocket ship due to tight deadlines and pressures.
Go for it if you get better at working under a great deal of stress…but remember, it might take you a while to get your foot in the door.
….Well that takes me to costly mistake #2
Undervaluing Yourself, And Your Skills
Did you know clients measure your worth as a writer based on your sense of self-worth?
Let me ask you this. What do you think it’s the best thing to do when things get tough as an online writer or even when you are trying so hard to get clients consistently?
You see, most people think by pricing low, they will get a handful of clients. Well, that might help in the short run, but you have to work for long hours just to earn something meager.
Instead, you have to position yourself as an authority by providing your prospective clients with valuable information in the form of tips and advice and you’ll have more work than you can ever imagine.
That’s essentially how the Backyard Gold Mining Method Works and I will tell you more about this proven method very soon. Just stay right where you are.
That takes us to costly mistake #3 and it has got to do with…
How You Look For Clients Online
In this day and age, the smartest thing in the world you can do when you want the best gigs is to look online.
So, when you go to Google.com or your favorite search engine and pop into your search box: speech writing jobs online, you will find results like:(Please click on the image below if you can't see it)
That might be a lucrative offer…but will you be willing to quit your main job and leave your family behind to work so, so hard at NASA?
Just imagine the freedom that comes with being your own boss or working from the comfort of your home, or even doing this on the side and earn some extra income?
When you use the proven, revolutionary Backyard Gold mining method, all that can be very possible.
Let me use the concept of mining so you can get it better.
There are two types of mining.
As you can imagine, extracting gold from rocky areas like mountain tops, undergrounds can be so risky, tiring and very tasking.
I often liken that procedure to looking for speech writing jobs online.
That explains why it’s so hard to break into mainstream freelance writing because the competition is so stiff.
The second is shallow or surface mining.
If you’re lucky to live near a river, stream or an area inhabited by waterfalls, there’s a probability that you might find gold if you go gold panning.
Looking for clients in your backyard has connections to getting awriting job right in your backyard.
Let me illustrate further with this example.
Suppose you live in the state of Alabama or wherever
P.S This can be done in any part of the world please….that’s just an example
Did you realize that most folks in Alabama and those in your state are looking for writers to help them put together words for the following social occasions:
Weddings
Funerals
Christening or baby dedication
Graduations
…plus a whole lot more
By the way, I want to show you how you can profit from these social occasions.
To give you an idea, let’s take my favorite: funerals and figure out the total number of people looking for help with their eulogies.
Let’s use the keyword planner tool. What’s that?
Whenever you look up something on Google, Google's keyword planner takes into account your search trail and jots down the total searchers in a given period.
Ok, let’s use that tool to determine the number of searches for eulogies…This is what we will get: (Please click on the image below if you can't see it)
Well, there are sub-categories for the keyword under consideration.
Eulogy for dad
Eulogy for mom
Eulogy for son
Eulogy for daughter
Eulogy for co-worker
Eulogy for friend
…Do you see where this is going?
Just imagine how much money you will make on the side if you write for only 10 persons if you charge only $100…That would be a cool $1000! Not too bad if you’re just starting out!
You stand to earn more if you dedicate more time to this.
Are you beginner? And are you looking for proven ideas about how you can get entry level online writing jobs regularly with ease? If so, please stick with me for a while and I will share with you…
How to easily and quickly get freelance writing jobs on a regular basis without the usual stress and hassle
How to get part-time or full-time freelance online writing jobs that pay you extra cash on the side
How to get online writing jobs on the side that gives you a deep sense of joy, purpose, and fulfillment!
Before we get into the whole thing, let’s look at this short story as it holds the secret to getting the best freelance writing jobs out there.
Once upon a time, a husband and wife and the wife’s aged aunt went on a trip to a certain country in Europe. It had been 10 long years since they last traveled. When they got there, the old woman was a real pain in the butt.
She could complain so much a donkey would lose his hair listening: the food, the weather, the hotel room, the power situation in the country, the people, and even the law. She even insulted that country’s queen. It was a law in that country that if a family member offends the authorities, all its members must be punished.
As a result, all three of them were sentenced to corporal punishment in the form of fifty lashes. But because the nation did not wish to be seen as hostile to visitors, the queen agreed that each be granted a wish before receiving their punishment.
The wife asked that a pillow be bound to her rear end and her wish was accepted and she was given fifty lashes afterward. On seeing her niece’s pain, the old woman asked that a pillow be bound on her back and another pillow be bound on her rear end.
Her wishes were granted as well and she too was given fifty lashes.
''Sir, I want this to be done before I am flogged. Please bind that old lady to my back before you hit me like a slave.
Don’t give me fifty. I need one hundred strokes '', the husband pleaded!
''Request granted!'', the officer yelled.
''Please….please….please… don’t kill me…I didn’t know he was going to make that crazy wish…Please have mercy on me. Just don’t do it! Remember, we are in the land of wishes. So I wish to be free '', she said sobbing like a baby.
''Hey woman… if wishes were horses…beggars like you would ride… you are going crazy! Bind up her up guys!''
Have you ever found yourself in a similar situation like that old woman?
Yes, I bet you have.
I think you’ll agree with me when I say that life as a writer is not that easy for most of us.
Sure, a lot of us have great skills and talents.
But have you ever wondered why we do our very best to find great clients out there only to eat the crumbs that fall from the client’s table? If you are lucky enough to have applied the tips and ideas in these video and have several clients asking you for help, then you should thank your lucky stars.
But, let’s face it, how many of us are this lucky? I feel very sorry for you if you’ve ever worked so hard for a client only to be ripped off or not even paid what you’re really worth.
Well, I don’t blame you…But, I am happy to share with you why that happens from time to time and then I will show how to get the best freelance writing jobs (fast and easy) using what I call the Backyard Gold mining Method of writing — but more about that later, so please stay tuned.
Now, back to our main point.
I remember back in the gold days, finding a client was like slicing a warm loaf of bread.
My quest to become a freelance writer began in 2003 and I recall how elance.com(now upwork.com) listed so many lucrative writing jobs on its portal with a handful of writers bidding for their fair share of the ''writing cake.''
With the growth of the internet, all that changed for good. Social media has even made things a lot harder.
Before those technological advances arrived, a diligent writer living in San Marcos, Texas had a fairly easy chance of getting his work published in local newspapers and magazines and journals.
However, in recent times, that same writer has to compete with other talented scribes from places like Honiara, the capital city of the Solomon Islands. Hence, the competition has become so intense!
With many writers chasing few opportunities online, writers like you and me tend to experience the economic theory of supply and demand.
Simply put, more writers chase a few golden writing opportunities.
This persistent problem affects all of us and made me cry like a little child almost 10 years ago!
Here’s the full story. Like you, I have always believed that every writer should be properly compensated and was hell-bent on not trading my writing skills for nickels and dimes.
To make the most of my skills, I looked everywhere for the best writing jobs available.
My bills were due and with a family to take care of, all I could do was to search for something juicy to supplement my income as an English teacher.
I applied to just about everything freelancing writing sites you can think of and boom, I found this site:
So, I clicked and clicked and took their tests in joyful anticipation.
Two days, I got this email:(Please click on image if you can't see it)
Now, let me ask you this: ‘’
What would you have done if you had received that note?
Well, upon further inquiry, the support team said my essay was very good but my college certificate was forged!
I couldn’t believe my eyes when I read that and I could hardly sleep at night because of the desperation I was going through.
Then, I heard this little voice in my head, ‘’ Dan, why not let it go and move on with your life. You still have a teaching job. You have to be thankful for that’’
Yes, I loved teaching but how on earth could I call it quits when my pregnant wife was out of work and I was the only person doing my very best to put food on the table.
Besides, I had spent 10 years online without any real sign of success and to give up meant I had wasted my precious time and resources all those years.
I have told family and friends and loved ones that there was money online and I wanted to prove a point, so quitting wasn’t an option at all.
After returning from church one afternoon, I had this idea that opened the floodgates to getting clients consistently and I have nicknamed it the Backyard Gold Mining Writing Method.
Ever since that discovery, this unique and proven method has changed my life dramatically, and I am incredibly thankful to God for that.
Now, I am no longer scoffed at by my family and friends but I live a truly happy life and have fewer money worries.
You too can get the best freelance online writing jobs (even if you are a beginner or have no experience) if you apply what I am going to share with you right here on this page.
So, just keep reading and I will show how you can use that method to get online freelance writing jobs clients fast and easy even if you have no experience or you are sick and tired of not getting the best writing jobs on a regular basis.
Even if you are doing so well, you can still use this method to earn extra cash on the side.
You don’t have to be complacent because when your clients feel the heat in their businesses, two things will happen to you.
You will either:
be dropped like a stone to the bottom of the ‘’freelance writing ocean’’
Or…
be asked to slash your fees drastically and it will affect your personal finances drastically
That’s why you need this overlooked method.
But, first, let’s examine how this method works.
This technique reminds me of the California Gold Rush when gold was first discovered in California by James Marshall at Sutter’s Mill near the city of Coloma.
At the time, gold was discovered in river beds and miners used the method of panning to get the precious metals in their own backyards.
Did you know that there are so many writing jobs right where you are or in your backyard?
Sadly, most writers don’t even know they exist. The few who do, don’t know how to get the benefits.
You see, this method is all about using your writing skills and talents to write very simple letters, notes, and speeches people in your village, town, city, and state or province desperately need on a daily basis and be paid for it in days.
This is something you should consider with the utmost seriousness because it’s the fast track lane to getting clients and be paid in days….not in weeks and months….
In fact, I got 3 clients within a week after stumbling upon it and you can too!
Ok … let me open your eyes to the opportunities available here by giving you a sure proof because the proof of the pudding they say is in the eating…
How often do you attend social occasions like:
Funerals
Birthdays
weddings
I guess weddings are your favorite on the list. Now, let me ask you this simple question. Can you identify any opportunities from those bulleted points?
Don’t worry if you can’t because I will help you out.
First, let’s examine the opportunities in the funeral market.
As you are pretty much aware, so many people die every day where you are and even around the world. It’s quite sad, but it’s a fact.
Well, as part of the funeral customs, traditions, and practices, friends and family and loved ones of the deceased have to write simple notes and letters and even give tributes or funeral speeches to comfort those left behind or celebrate the life of departed friends and loved ones.
Every day, those people consult ‘’Professor Google’’ to ask for help and if you give those searchers what they really want, they will ask you to put together something meaningful and even pay you for that.
Do you still have doubts? Don’t worry.
To give you an idea of the size of the market, let’s use Google Keyword Planner so you can get an idea of the number of people searching for letters of condolence and sympathy.
By the way, the Google Keyword Planner is a Google product that tallies your search inquiries. For example, if 1000 people are looking for product views on Google, it keeps a record of their search trails and records the total figures.
Here’s the result:(Please click on image if you can't see it)
That image looks blurry, but if you click on it, you will notice that those looking for such letters in the given period were(1k-10k)
Ubersuggest, an amazing google keyword planner alternative gives us a perfect snapshot of what the actual figures are for our search term(Please click on image if you can't see it)
Amazon.com even further corroborates our search inquiry by demonstrating that people are ready to pay for our subject matter. See the reviews left on this page:(Please click on image if you can't see it)
Believe it or not, the opportunities are so vast. We are not done yet. Let’s go on.
I can still take this a step further and we will see that people are looking for obituaries
Again, ubersuggest and google’s keyword planner give us some answers as we can see below:
Image 1:(Please click on image if you can't see it)
On top of all that, there are eulogies or funeral tributes. Friends and family of the deceased are looking for ideas to help them give inspiring and heart touching eulogies.
Okay, let’s go back to find out what the search volumes using our favorite tools.
First, let’s use Google’s keyword planner tool.(Please click on image if you can't see it)
Second, let’s go for Patel’s ubbersuggest tool
Again, here’s evidence that folks are buying stuff on eulogies…let’s get back to Amazon.com
Now, imagine helping only 10 folks write their eulogies, obituaries, etc at a fee of only $100 to start with.
That would be an extra $1000 in your pocket…I think that wouldn’t be that bad as a freelance online writing beginner , right? Considering the fact that you will be working for a few hours.
Remember, funerals are not the only social occasions. There are birthdays; weddings and wedding anniversaries etc. and people need you to help them with all of that.
The sad news, however, is that you won’t find those folks online.
Wondering where to find them? They are right in your backyard where there’s practically no competition like the mainstream freelance writing job market where you have to compete with so many writers from the remotest part of the earth.
Thankfully, the smartest brain ever called Mr. Google has done a fantastic job by introducing what it calls Local SEO and that holds the key to get all those clients.
While there’s nothing wrong with sending pitch after pitch to editors and hope and pray that you will find a respectful client, you can’t go wrong with using this unique method to find freelance writing clients right in your backyard.
It doesn’t matter if you’re doing fine, you can still harness this and earn extra cash on the side to help you take good care of your family and friends.
It works and I have gotten letters from people in my backyard and beyond using this method...see notes below.(Please click on image if you can't see it)
And payment deposits like this:(Please click on image if you can't see it)
Just imagine having your phone ring off the hook as neighbors, friends, and even total strangers call you to ask for help and be paid for that without spending so much time on it.
Here’s how to easily and quickly get freelance writing jobs from home(remote)
This piece is for you if you really want
Get daily freelance online writing jobs from homethat you can complete quickly and easily!
to get effortlessly get part-time or full time online writing jobs on the side to help the bills
to hone your skills and get paid for it— without waiting for months to be paid….
to make a difference in the lives of others with your gift of words
There are some successful freelance online writers out there. Videos like these ones below can give you an idea of how make some good money on the side from freelance writing.
But let’s face it. Knowing where to find good freelance writing jobs can be like going to a goldfield to look for gold with your bare hands. I think you’ll agree with me that lots of online writing jobs abound online but very lucrative ones are so hard to come by.
Even if you are lucky to find very good ones, you will still face very stiff competition from writers all over the world. But what if I told you there’s an untapped niche with virtually little or no competition you can do remotely or from home.
Do you really want to know what that is? First, let me give you the background story.
A few years ago, I tried so hard to find freelance writing jobs and nothing worked for me because I just didn’t want to trade my precious time for dimes and nickels. I wanted ‘’freelance gold’’ but it was so hard to find until God showed me the way and turned my life around for good.
Well, I know how you might be struggling to get good-paying freelance writing jobs on a regular basis and I promise to show you how you too can get freelance writing jobs on a daily basis without waiting for so long to hear back from an editor or even waiting for several months just to get a paycheck!
You see, before the California Gold Rush, San Francisco was a sleepy little town with a small population and no one dreamed it would someday be ‘’the gold capital’’ of the world in 1849 until that discovery.
James Marshall was working on a mill for his boss James Stutter when he discovered some shiny flakes on the banks of a nearby river. And so, he took it to his boss and when the duo tested those substances, they found that it was indeed gold!
They kept it to themselves but rumors spread to the nearby towns and cities and before long, people were migrating from all over America, South America and even parts of Europe with only their pickaxes and pans.
It’s believed that there was so much gold in the mountains of California and beyond that, you could pick flakes of gold from the ground. That mind-blowing discovery changed everything about California from that moment on and the rest they say is history.
That story has got quite a lot in common with finding freelance writing jobs in your own backyard. Believe it or not, there are so many untapped online writing jobs in your own backyard and I am so surprised no one is trumpeting it.
Well, I will show you how you can get all those jobs using a proven method I call the Backyard Gold mining Writing Method.
Before we get into more details, let’s get a few things right. During the ‘’internet stone age’’, internet usage was restricted to a few countries.
When it opened up to the rest of the world, vistas of online writing opportunities became more accessible and writers from every background found a voice. I remember back in 2002/2003, you could easily find work on elance.com (now upwork.com ) and the pay was okay as there were only a handful of writers on the platform.
Things have changed in recent times given that, there are so many freelance job sites like:
That might sound like good news considering the fact that there are more opportunities for writers. But, as you are pretty much aware, those platforms have so many freelance online writing jobs that really don’t pay well.
Take, for example, a writing job I saw that promises to ‘’pay’’ a writer $10. That figure sounds ridiculous to me. Worse still, some clients rip writers off! That’s so sad!
In this day and age, we can earn more and be treated with respect if we find decent clients on a regular basis or have built a solid track record of success.
According to this report, the number of freelancers will increase in the years ahead. That certainly will come with rapid growth in the number of blogs, online journals, and so on.
What that means is that more writers will flood the market for those gigs.Well, Robert Schuller once said tough times don’t last but tough people do. While this is true, freelance writers who really want to get excellent online writing on a consistent basis, will either have
specialized
Or
Think outside the box
First, let’s talk about specialization.
As you are pretty much aware, those who earn more in any field are mostly specialists. Take the case of a heart surgeon vis-à-vis a general practitioner.
For example, let’s take a look at this job advertisement.
Now, let me ask you this: Do you really have what it takes to get that job.
I don’t because I don’t meet the job specifications. Do you? Well, if you have that skill set, then you might get this job pretty fast because few writers might probably give it a shot.
Well, if you are lucky to get that job and do a good job, your client will be more than happy to send future assignments your way. But, there’s no guarantee that will last forever.
As you know, when things take a nose dive or there’s a corporate takeover, you might be ‘’laid off!’’ so to speak. What if I told you there’s a niche that can withstand all these external threats!
Wondering what that niche is? Ok, these simple brain teasers might give you a clue.
Were you baptized or dedicated at birth?
Did you graduate school?
Have you ever attended a wedding?
Have you ever been to a memorial or funeral service?
Are you married?
Have you retired or you have a few years to go?
Are you a member of any club, association or organization?
I could go on and on…
If you nodded your head in agreement while going through those questions, then, you have it takes to make the most of this niche. Believe it or not, people like you and me are looking for folks like you to help them write simple letters and speeches for social occasions.
Sadly, however, those jobs are not posted online.
Wouldn’t it be great if you find those online writing jobs on a regular basis?
Ok, let’s talk to Prof. Google or your favorite search engine so we can get a fair idea of how to get those jobs.
Let’s use the Google keyword planner tool…Ever heard of that? Don’t worry if you haven’t. Well, it’s a Google product that records your search inquiries.
To be clear, whenever you are looking for any information on Google, the keyword tool takes note of your search trail and store it in their database.
Okay, I want you to make it fairly simple and easy to understand, so, let’s go back to the questions I asked you earlier.
Here’s a replay in case you can’t remember any of them.
Have you ever been to a wedding?
Have you ever been to a funeral?
To get an overview of the size of the funeral and wedding market, let’s use the keyword planner tool to find the number of online inquiries for weddings.
Did you notice how vast the size of the market is?
You see, those searchers are not looking for ideas and tips to help them put together their scattered thoughts together to form meaningful letters and speeches.
If you are lucky enough to write for only 10 of those ‘’Googlers’’ or searchers, then you will earn a cool $1000 if you charge only $100…and as far as I am concerned, that’s a complete no-brainer.
Most of those searchers are right in your backyard: state, province, town, city, country and are desperately looking for help and you will get fantastic results you get when you use the Backyard Gold Mining Writing Method To Get Clients.
Just imagine how you will feel like if you could only grab a tiny slice of that market? Wouldn’t you love that? Just imagine having your phone ring off the hook as neighbors, friends, and even total strangers call you to ask for help and be paid for that without spending so much time on it.
The good thing this won’t take too much of your time. You can do this on the side and earn some extra cash. You see, in every town, city, state or province, people are searching for ideas on the speech categories we looked at and if you provide them with good ideas and tips and advice, they will be very happy to pay for your services.
Want proof? See payments my clients sent me.
How to get those ''freelance online jobs'' clients?
You don’t have to look far because they are right in your backyard and you have to position yourself as an authority on speech writing(even if you’re starting out) by giving them: ‘’ How to Write Tips’’ and you will be laughing all the way to the bank.
I am Atheba Jean Daniel a.k.a Dan Jean
I am a freelance writer and creator of the Backyard Method of Finding Clients. Since 2017, I have been using this unique but overlooked method to easily find writing clients regularly. This unique but overlooked method helped me earn an extra $2216 a month. The good thing is, I earn cash almost every other day from April through October each year using the Backyard Method. For the other months of the year, this happens every week.
Here’s how to easily get excellent freelance online writing jobs or gigs on a regular basis even if you are a beginner
Looking for freelance online writing jobs? But, don’t know how to find the best ones out there because they seem so hard-to-find?
Just stick with me for a while and I will share tips and ideas with you about…
How and where to quickly and easily find freelance writing jobs online using an untapped method called The Backyard Method
How to find entry-level online writing gigs using an easy-to-follow method I will be sharing with you
How you can easily find online freelance writing jobs as a beginner
There’s nothing wrong with looking for freelance clients the normal way. You sit to write a query letter and send it out and wait and pray that your work is commissioned by a newspaper, magazine, blog or website. But, the truth is that the competition for such jobs can be intense and demanding. Well, videos like these ones can help you get an idea of how to get remote online writing jobs.
Well, if you are online writer, then you know how hard getting clients on a regular basis can be even if you decide not to give up. Like you, it wasn’t so easy finding great freelance writing clients on a consistent basis. I was drowning in debt in 2013 and needed some cash to support the family. I spent hours behind the PC to find writing gigs. But, months of research yielded very little result.
Burned out and exhausted, I accidentally discovered that the best clients were actually in my own backyard and not online as I presumed. This discovery led to an avalanche of writing orders far more than I could have ever imagined.
Before we get into this in detail, let’s see how this story can help you get an idea of how you can use The Backyard Gold mining Method to find online freelance writing jobs or gigs on a regular basis.
Once upon a time, a young man lived a happy life with his family. He lived in a close-knit community and was highly respected by everyone due to his hard work and kind heart.
Even though he wasn’t too rich, he could support his wife and his two boys. His first son was 15 years old and his other child was a month old cute baby boy.
As time passed by, he was axed from his job due to a corporate takeover and this affected him and his family deeply. He wasn’t himself after the sack. And so, every day, he thought long and hard about how best to turn his naked fortunes around.
What kept his hopes alive was the smile on the little baby’s face as he vowed to love and protect him all the days of his life.
Not too long after that lay off, he went around the neighborhood knocking on doors and asking for all kinds of handouts.
Three(3) years later, those provisions were not forthcoming because the only factory that employed most of the townsfolk shut down too, leaving a whole neighborhood in need of daily bread. Jerry began to grow pale and thin like a stick.
One starry evening, he met an old friend at a wedding reception and this longtime friend looked like a prince, so he thought he could at least be of help.
Having dined and wined, both friends began to talk about how their past lives, their present lives, and what they looked forward to, in the near future.
It turned out that Mike traded in gold and diamonds, and Jerry was so intrigued when his friend offered to show him how he too could trade those precious metals.
A month after the two had met, Jerry sold the last car he had in his garage and gave half of the proceeds to his wife, pocketed the rest, and then bought a few stuff so he could join Mike in the ‘’Land of Gold.’’ With a few clothes on his back, he ventured out one early morning but his wife wouldn’t let him go.
Anita held the hem of his shirt and said: ‘’Honey, are you leaving me and the kids or what?’’
‘’I just hate to see you suffer! I have had enough of this mental torture.
Life has not been kind to us lately. So, I’ve to go find something for you and our kids. If I don’t, we will perish. ''He kissed his wife and kids’ goodbye and Anita couldn’t hold back her tears as her husband got down the winding stairs.
Their older son in his little shaky voice asked: ‘’Dad, when are you coming back? ‘’
‘’I don’t know…Maybe soon’’ Jerry’s voice quivered with emotion.
Having arrived in a foreign country, he found a job desilting rivers just after a month he’d arrived. He toiled day and night and sent home the little cash he got.
One day, something exciting happened. His employer signed an agreement with a gold mining company as gold had been discovered in the middle of the river where he worked day and night. Over time, his new bosses noticed his hard work, dedication, and commitment and moved him up the corporate chain. As a part of his remuneration, he was given a little ounce of gold.
He left his job after working there for 10 years and came back home to start his own business as the local economy was making a slow comeback. But, he made a mistake. He invested a huge amount of cash into a flourishing business near where he lived and lost quite a fortune.
I don’t know what went through your mind as you read that story. But, please let me ask you these questions?
Do you think Jerry made a right move leaving his wife and children behind in search of new opportunities? I know your guess is as good as mine…Now, do you think he was thoughtless when he invested in that firm on his return home? I know that has stirred up a heated debate right now in this speech writing class!
That scenario brings to mind what Russell Conwell wrote in his landmark book, Acres of Diamond.
In that book, he wrote that “Your diamonds are not in far distant mountains or in yonder seas; they are in your own backyard if you but dig for them’’
I thought Russell got it all wrong when I first read that because I didn’t understand what exactly what that meant until I discovered how the Backyard Gold mining Method of getting speechwriting clients works!
This method is all about finding untapped online writing jobs people like you and I need on a daily basis. Have you ever considered that?
People in your backyard need freelance online writers like to write simple letters, notes, and speeches on a regular basis. Believe it or not, finding writing clients using this method is way easier than the traditional way of soliciting for clients where you have to send one several letters and cold emails in high hopes that you will get some feedback.
Ok… Let me explain how you can effortlessly get clients using this unique method. So, please go grab your pen and paper and let’s do this together.
Where do you live currently?
Fort Lauderdale in Texas?
Auckland in New Zealand?
Tokyo in Japan?
Cairo in Egypt?
Havana in Cuba?
London in the United Kingdom?
Just asking for your location because you can do this no matter where you live in God’s big beautiful world.
By the way, let me illustrate with the state of Texas to help you discover how to find opportunities right where you are. The United States Census Bureau gives us a clear demographic insight into the state of Texas, as you can see below.(Please double click on image if it's not too legible)
To give you an idea of how to find the best opportunities out there in Texas, and even in your own state or province or region…, we can divide the year 2023 (could be any other year) into four quarters:
Q1- January-March
Q2- April- June
Q3- July-September
Q4- October- December
Reminder: This equally applies no matter where you live…The state of Texas is used solely for instructional purposes. Let’s now look at a few events or social occasions that take place in the First Quarter.
Of course, we can mention
- Birthday parties
- Weddings
- Funerals
- Retirements
As you are pretty much aware, there are a whole lot more.
Let’s switch over to The Second Quarter:
Let’s dive in…below are social occasions that happen right where you are or in your own backyard:
Birthday parties
Funerals
Retirements
Weddings
Graduations (usually May through June)
Let’s move on to The Third Quarter:
Here are social occasions that take place right where you are or in your own backyard:
Birthday parties
Funerals
Retirements
Weddings
Wedding Anniversaries
Finally, events that take place in the fourth quarter right where you are or in your own backyard:
Birthday parties
Funerals
Retirements
Weddings
Wedding Anniversaries
Thanksgiving
Christmas
Have you noticed that I keep repeating social occasions like…
Birthdays
Weddings
Retirements
Funerals…
That’s because they occur frequently throughout the year so let’s use one of those occasions to find the size of the market. As you know, weddings and funerals do occur every now and then, but I want us to examine the ‘’funeral market’’ because of its vast size. If we still have time, we will do the same for birthdays.
This cool tool seems to forecast the number of deaths per year in the US.
Well, if that’s something to strictly go by those average figures, then, 2, 270,200 funerals services are held in the US alone every year.
You see, whenever someone dies, friends and family and loved ones of the deceased send out letters of condolences or sympathy notes. Some family members and friends will have to deliver eulogies as well.
Ok…Let’s say, our neighbor, let’s call him Uncle Seth just passed away a week ago. As part of the funeral rites, practices and traditions, his relatives, friends or co-workers might be asked to give eulogies at his funeral or memorial service.
Guess what? All these speakers will resort to the internet to find information on giving memorable and inspiring eulogies. Google has done a fantastic job of coming up with the Keyword Planner Tool.
Wondering what the Keyword Planner Tool is and how it works? I am glad you asked!
Whenever you (or anyone) look for something on Google, the keyword will keep a record of the total number of searches.Let’s use that tool to find out the total number of people looking for eulogies.(Please double click on image if it's not too legible)
Did you notice the total number of searchers? Just imagine how happy you would feel if you could write for only 15 of these searchers every month? That would be a cool $1050 if you are charging a mere $70 as a beginner! I think that wouldn’t be that bad as a beginner right?
The good thing this won’t take too much of your time. You can do this on the side and earn some extra cash. You see, in every town, city, state or province, people are searching for ideas on the speech categories we looked at and if you provide them with good ideas and tips and advice, they will be very happy to pay for your services.
Want proof? See payments my clients sent me.
How to get those ''freelance online jobs'' clients?
You don’t have to look far because they are right in your backyard and you have to position yourself as an authority on speech writing(even if you’re starting out) by giving them: ‘’ How to Write Tips’’ and you will be laughing all the way to the bank.
Thankfully, the smartest brain ever called Mr. Google has done a fantastic job by introducing what she calls Local SEO and that holds the key to get all those clients. It works and I have gotten letters from people in my backyard and beyond using this revolutionary method.
Just imagine having your phone ring off the hook as neighbors, friends, and even total strangers call you to ask for help and be paid for that without spending so much time on it so you can spend quality time with family and friends.
I am Atheba Jean Daniel a.k.a Dan Jean
I am a freelance writer and creator of the Backyard Method of Finding Clients. Since 2017, I have been using this unique but overlooked method to easily find writing clients regularly. This unique but overlooked method helped me earn an extra $2216 a month. The good thing is, I earn cash almost every other day from April through October each year using the Backyard Method. For the other months of the year, this happens every week.
Looking for groomsman speech examples or templates? If so, you are at the right place at the right time because right in this place, I am going to share with you how you can model your groomsman speech after groomsman speech examples.
The wisest thing you can ever do when you are asked to deliver a groomsman speech is to look up several examples online.As you know, however, the vast majority of wedding speakers just reproduce the examples they find online without actually figuring out what goes into writing such speeches.
I remember that about 10 years ago, I had this wedding speech example on this website and a groom from South Africa asked me to review his toast and I was a little surprised that he had copied my speech word for word without modifying it.
This is partly due to the fact that most groomsmen don’t know how to alter their speeches to make it uniquely theirs. But I still feel that’s your best away out of what would ordinarily be a very stressful situation if you are a complete loss for words or don’t have a way with words.
But first, here’s something you have to take note of before you write down your thoughts.
If you have never delivered a speech before, it can be pretty hard to get your ideas off the ground. This can stress you out and make you conclude that you are just going to say anything about your friend or brother: after all, saying something is better than saying nothing at all.
Guess what? By watching a few videos on youtube.com or on your favorite video platform, you will be a step away from figuring out how groomsmen speeches are made.
So this is what I want you to do now. Please grab a pen and note pad and watch this video clip. As you do, write down ideas you think can help you say something about the groom and bride. That can at least help you calm your nerves a bit.
Groomsman Speech Video Example
Speaking of calming nerves brings to mind how fear can thwart your efforts at making your friend or brother proud. If you are a little worried or not quite sure how this whole thing would turn out because of your views about public speaking. But you need not worry at all.
I have spoken at several events and I get the nerves whenever I am asked to deliver a speech. But, that feeling starts to fade once I utter the first few words.
So, in a sense, nervousness is not meant to hold you back from putting yourself out there, but a reminder to put your house in order before you venture out.
What that means is that you have leave past speaking failures in the past and constantly focus on your groomsman speech and you will be empowered from within. When all is said and done, preparing well ahead of time makes you less nervous and it actually goes away when you are handed the microphone.
With that in mind, the question to ask would be: how do you prepare for this? We saw earlier how watching video clips can help put you in the mood for right ideas to come to you. Other fantastic resources you can model your groomsman speech after are groomsman speech examples and templates.
I would like to share an example with you. After reading it through, we are going to review it in great detail so you can use the tips and ideas gleaned from our analysis to write your own script.
Here Is the Groomsman Speech Example
Hello my name's Steve and I'm Gavin's best man, although I'm sure Gavin will have a new name for me by the time I've finished this.
When Gavin asked me to be his best man I was initially thrilled at the prospect. Unfortunately it didn't take long for this feeling of wellbeing to dissolve into utter apprehension as I remembered the last time I had to stand up in a room full of people..… I was found guilty and fined £300. “Wait for laughs to finish”
I have known Gavin for over 10 long years now. When I first met him in college he was loud, aggressive, rude, abusive and swore a lot, but just look at the man he's become now…..nothing has changed. Whilst at college we discovered a local nightclub called Winkers. I would regularly witness Gavin's unique, raw, undiscovered style of dancing in Winkers that left the women speechless. By speechless I mean absolutely none of them would speak to him.
I'd like to mention Gavin's good points. Gavin is intelligent, caring, trusting and good look…look… (Look at Gavin) “I'm really sorry Gavin; I can't read your handwriting”
One of Gavin's strongest traits is loyalty; he is a Leeds United fan after all. A team that has done nothing except disappoint him and betray his hopes and dreams for the past 5 years. If that is anything to go by Sarah doesn't have to make any effort for the next 5 years, she can make him miserable, and break all her wedding vows and generally walk all over he……and he'll still feel that things will turn around come August.
Gavin used to a good runner as a young man. Unfortunately Steve soon convinced him that getting plastered in the Black Horse in Chorleywood was the way to go instead. It certainly was a shame to see such a promising athletic career go down the pan at the tender age of 12.
Many of you will be aware that Gavin and Sarah have recently purchased their first house together. This house does require a bit of DIY work, and anyone who knows Gavin will know that he is not exactly a DIY king. However, in order to get the house looking good he assures me that since moving in he and Sarah have been banging and screwing at every opportunity.
In the run-up to the wedding Gavin had something on his mind that was bothering him, so he decided to ask the Vicar about it. “Vicar” he said, “what do you think about sex before marriage?” “Well”, said the Vicar, “I'm absolutely fine with it as long as you still get here on time”.
Gavin is a generous man, and demonstrated this to all his friends during the stag weekend. I'm not talking about the champagne he bought for us all; I'm talking about our visit to the go-cart track. Whilst racing he consistently let everybody overtake him with absolutely no thought for himself. Talking of stag weekends, that brings me nicely onto the next subject.
The stag weekend
The stag weekend was difficult to organise, partly because I had to do it and partly because getting money out of some of our friends is harder than getting blood from a stone, Rawcliffe was out as we have been banned from most pubs there, therefore we decided that we had to go further afield, so a stag night was changed to a stag weekend.
We thought about Dublin, but it was no good, we had already been there and they hadn't forgotten. We tried Amsterdam, but were told politely not to bother by the Dutch authorities so in the end we settled on Newcastle.
This town was a good choice for two reasons. Firstly, it was far enough away from home for none of us to be recognised and secondly it was far enough away from home to prevent Gavin from doing his usual Saturday night party trick of drinking like a fish for 2 hours, hurling abuse at his friends for being ‘lightweights’ and then hailing a taxi home at 8pm on his own in a drunken state.
Fortunately this didn't happen, not because Gavin wasn't drunk, it was simply because no Geordie taxi driver in their right mind would let a shaven haired Southern drunkard into their cab dressed in a French Maids outfit
Sarah
When I first met Sarah my impression was of a beautiful, witty, charming, clever, friendly and thoughtful person. But she soon ruined this by agreeing to marry Gavin.
Speaking of Sarah, I would like to say how beautiful she looks today in that fantastic dress … Gavin likes it too as he thinks it blends well with the rest of the kitchen.
Gavin truly is a lucky man today marrying Sarah; she is a wonderful lady who deserves a good husband … so I think Gavin has done a fantastic job at marrying her before she had a chance to find one.
Sarah has become a good friend since I have known her. She is kind, thoughtful and caring and I know her father pulled her to one side just before the wedding to give her some advice on three things to remember:
Aisle. As it is the longest walk you'll ever take
Altar. The place where 2 become 1
Hymn. This is where the congregation celebrate your coming together
Sarah certainly took this advice to heart; indeed I heard her muttering the three words under her breath as she walked down the aisle “AISLE ALTAR HYMN”, “AISLE ALTAR HYMN”,
Messages
In the days leading up to this marriage I thought it would be a good idea to seek out some wedding advice from our mutual friends so that Gavin and Sarah can benefit from their wisdom:
From Ben Lumley:
“Gavin, I muttered a few words in church and I was married. A year later, I muttered a few words in my sleep and I was nearly divorced”
From Derren Maggs:
“Gavin, marriage is a thing that puts a ring on a woman's finger and two under the man's eyes…”
From Dave Bevis:
“Gavin, getting married is like going to a restaurant with friends. You order what you want, and when you see what the other fellow has, you wish you had ordered that instead”
Finish
Seriously though, it is traditional for the best man to slate the groom in this speech, but in Matt's case this has been difficult as he really is fine person who has always been loyal and supportive to his friends and family. I know that in Steph he has found his life partner and I know they will be truly happy together.
I'd also like to thank the bridesmaids and ushers today for their invaluable contribution to the wedding, I'm sure you'll all agree with me that they all look wonderful.
So, finally (get a glass in your hand):
Here's to love, laughter
And happily ever after.
As Matt and Steph start their new life
Please stand and toast the new husband and wife
Ladies and gentlemen……the Bride and Groom
If you read it once more, you will realize that the above example is built on this structure:
Introduction
Body or content
Conclusion or ending
Let’s start with the Introduction. The introductory or opening remark in speechwriting is like being on a first date with a girl you really admire. You’re most likely going to score great points if you make the right first impression.
So, it is with starting strong. Most people have become accustomed to hearing several boring wedding speeches and if you can start and end very well, your speech will be the most talked -about at the rehearsal dinner or wedding night.
There’s nothing wrong with starting like this writer did:
‘’ Hello my name's Steve and I'm Gavin's best man, although I'm sure Gavin will have a new name for me by the time I've finished this. ‘’
As you can see, that extract is uninspiring to say the least. What if we could spark excitement by using any of these ideas?
First, you can start with a love quote to make it very romantic or emotional. You may use one or more of these quotes.
‘’Love isn’t something you find. Love is something that finds you’’- Loretta Young
‘’Love is shown more in deeds than in words’’- Saint Ignatius
‘’Love is that condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to your own.’’- Robert A. Heinlein, Stranger in a Strange Land
‘’Love is like the wind, you can't see it but you can feel it.’’- Nicholas Sparks, A Walk to Remember
‘’To love is to recognize yourself in another’’- Eckhart Tolle
Second, you can make it a little dramatic by starting with a quiz. That sounds ridiculous, right? Ok, just imagine how happy everyone would be if you make a small quiz using basic details about the bride and groom and gifting a few gifts to participants who had the answers right.
To give you an idea, you can ask for the full name of the name of the groom or bride and give a small gift (chocolate) to that person who got it right. You better give it a try!
Third, if you are musically gifted like this guy, you can write a simple song about the couple. You may also modify the lyrics of a well-known song everyone can sing along to.
Fourth, if the wedding day coincides with either the groom’s or bride’s birthday, just comment on it and ask everyone to join you in singing a happy birthday song(for fun) before you get into your groomsman speech. I am sure the celebrant’s family and friends will be happy to know about this.
Now, let’s look at...
How to Use Groomsman Speech Examples to Write the Content Of your Speech
Writing the body or content of your groomsman speech should be an easy task. But it’s not so for many wedding speakers because they have many ideas of what to say but they struggle to put their ideas together in a more organized and cohesive manner.
If you are struggling to put down your ideas together in an orderly manner, this simple but effective plan can help you out.
So, this is what I recommend you do now. Grab a pen and notepad and block out time for yourself and write your responses next to each question.
What was the feeling like when the groom asked you to be his groomsman?
How did you become friends?
When did you become friends?
What are your shared interests?
What are your most memorable moments?(Write down so many anecdotes and pick your favorites(one or two)
What do you really admire about him?
How has he impacted your life?
What you can do now: Use your answers to write a first rough draft. Then, you can trim it down for a second draft until you get it done right.
And that brings us to the last item on the list:
How to Write the Conclusion of Your Groomsman Speech
The ending of your speech is as crucial as the opening remarks because when it’s all said and done the audience will remember your closing remarks the most.
The first groomsman speech example concluded with these lines:
‘’ So, finally (get a glass in your hand):
Here's to love, laughter
And happily ever after.
As Matt and Steph start their new life
Please stand and toast the new husband and wife
Ladies and gentlemen……the Bride and Groom ‘’
However, that closing remark is not particularly remarkable. You can make things very exciting and memorable by using any of these techniques.
First, if you or the couple are Christians or deeply rooted in faith, you can use some bible verses from the bible to wrap up.
1 John 4:18
New International Version
18 There is no fear in love. But perfect love drives out fear, because fear has to do with punishment. The one who fears is not made perfect in love.
Second, you can gift the couple a nice gift before you go back to your seat.
Third, you can modify the lyrics of this song and close with it. If you can do it well, everyone will laugh out loud. You can probably sing it if you have a good singing voice. For example, I were ending with this song, this is how I would alter the words of the song.
(Name of your friend or brother here…I once heard this song and I think it will be good for you both)
Hey honey, have you gained some weight in your rear end?
The dress you wear reminds me of my old girlfriend
Where did you get those shoes? I think they are pretty lame
Would you stop talking cos I’m trying to watch the game?
If you are a man who wants to live a long and happy life, these are the things you don’t say to your wife(comment: replace wife with name of the bride)
Did you notice how I personalized the song? That’s what you can do to add fun to your groomsman speech?
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You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.
Why? As you know, the current health and economic crisis have caused severe hardships for most people.
Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.
Yet, some grooms are still getting married and their family and friends have to say something about them.
Nonetheless, not everyone could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.
So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.
Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.
So, please take advantage of it now even if the wedding day is in the future.
Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video, and your friend or brother, family and friends, and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.
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All the best,
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Ways to include humor in your speech and what it takes to do so
Looking for great ideas and tips to help you write a great groomsman wedding speech? Just stick with me for a while and I will share with you everything you need to know about…
How to write a great groomsman speech even if you don’t have a way with words
How to model your groomsman speech after groomsman speech examples or templates
Plus so much more
If you have been asked by the groom to stand by his side on the most important day of his life, then you can be sure you are someone he really looks up to.
So, you have to do your very best to make sure his wedding day goes by without a hitch. When it comes to writing and delivering an amazing groomsman speech, most groomsmen fail to make the desired impression and they ended up making boring speeches.
Being a groomsman is as an exciting opportunity to tell a good story about your friend or brother and I am going to help you do just that in this piece. Before then, let’s first look at few things you need to know before we get off the ground.
If you have never made a groomsman wedding speech your whole life, then it makes sense that you first get a fair idea of how great wedding speeches are made. Guess what? The best place to look for ideas if you are new to the game is to watch a few videos on youtube.com
So This Is What I Recommend You Do: Grab your pen and notepad and watch these video clips. As you do, write down tips and ideas you think you can weave into your own presentation.
Here they are:
Groomsman speech Video Example
Video groomsmen speech examples or templates are not the only resources you can make the most of. Well-written groomsman speech examples or templates are another option that can help you come up with great tips because the really good ones contain so many great ideas you can adapt and work into your wedding speech for the groom and bride.
In the next few lines, I would like to share with you a funny groomsman speech example or template. After we have read through it, we break it down step by step so you can figure out how you too can make a memorable groomsman speech even if you don’t know what to say.
Here you go:
Groomsman Speech Example/Template
Hello my name's Steve and I'm Gavin's best man, although I'm sure Gavin will have a new name for me by the time I've finished this.
When Gavin asked me to be his best man I was initially thrilled at the prospect. Unfortunately it didn't take long for this feeling of wellbeing to dissolve into utter apprehension as I remembered the last time I had to stand up in a room full of people..… I was found guilty and fined £300. “Wait for laughs to finish”
I have known Gavin for over 10 long years now. When I first met him in college he was loud, aggressive, rude, abusive and swore a lot, but just look at the man he's become now…..nothing has changed. Whilst at college we discovered a local nightclub called Winkers. I would regularly witness Gavin's unique, raw, undiscovered style of dancing in Winkers that left the women speechless. By speechless I mean absolutely none of them would speak to him.
I'd like to mention Gavin's good points. Gavin is intelligent, caring, trusting and good look…look… (Look at Gavin) “I'm really sorry Gavin; I can't read your handwriting”
One of Gavin's strongest traits is loyalty; he is a Leeds United fan after all. A team that has done nothing except disappoint him and betray his hopes and dreams for the past 5 years. If that is anything to go by Sarah doesn't have to make any effort for the next 5 years, she can make him miserable, and break all her wedding vows and generally walk all over he……and he'll still feel that things will turn around come August.
Gavin used to a good runner as a young man. Unfortunately Steve soon convinced him that getting plastered in the Black Horse in Chorleywood was the way to go instead. It certainly was a shame to see such a promising athletic career go down the pan at the tender age of 12.
Many of you will be aware that Gavin and Sarah have recently purchased their first house together. This house does require a bit of DIY work, and anyone who knows Gavin will know that he is not exactly a DIY king. However, in order to get the house looking good he assures me that since moving in he and Sarah have been banging and screwing at every opportunity.
In the run-up to the wedding Gavin had something on his mind that was bothering him, so he decided to ask the Vicar about it. “Vicar” he said, “what do you think about sex before marriage?” “Well”, said the Vicar, “I'm absolutely fine with it as long as you still get here on time”.
Gavin is a generous man, and demonstrated this to all his friends during the stag weekend. I'm not talking about the champagne he bought for us all; I'm talking about our visit to the go-cart track. Whilst racing he consistently let everybody overtake him with absolutely no thought for himself. Talking of stag weekends, that brings me nicely onto the next subject.
The stag weekend
The stag weekend was difficult to organise, partly because I had to do it and partly because getting money out of some of our friends is harder than getting blood from a stone, Rawcliffe was out as we have been banned from most pubs there, therefore we decided that we had to go further afield, so a stag night was changed to a stag weekend.
We thought about Dublin, but it was no good, we had already been there and they hadn't forgotten. We tried Amsterdam, but were told politely not to bother by the Dutch authorities so in the end we settled on Newcastle. This town was a good choice for two reasons. Firstly, it was far enough away from home for none of us to be recognised and secondly it was far enough away from home to prevent Gavin from doing his usual Saturday night party trick of drinking like a fish for 2 hours, hurling abuse at his friends for being ‘lightweights’ and then hailing a taxi home at 8pm on his own in a drunken state.
Fortunately this didn't happen, not because Gavin wasn't drunk, it was simply because no Geordie taxi driver in their right mind would let a shaven haired Southern drunkard into their cab dressed in a French Maids outfit
Sarah
When I first met Sarah my impression was of a beautiful, witty, charming, clever, friendly and thoughtful person. But she soon ruined this by agreeing to marry Gavin.
Speaking of Sarah, I would like to say how beautiful she looks today in that fantastic dress … Gavin likes it too as he thinks it blends well with the rest of the kitchen.
Gavin truly is a lucky man today marrying Sarah; she is a wonderful lady who deserves a good husband … so I think Gavin has done a fantastic job at marrying her before she had a chance to find one.
Sarah has become a good friend since I have known her. She is kind, thoughtful and caring and I know her father pulled her to one side just before the wedding to give her some advice on three things to remember:
Aisle. As it is the longest walk you'll ever take
Altar. The place where 2 become 1
Hymn. This is where the congregation celebrate your coming together
Sarah certainly took this advice to heart; indeed I heard her muttering the three words under her breath as she walked down the aisle “AISLE ALTAR HYMN”, “AISLE ALTAR HYMN”,
Messages
In the days leading up to this marriage I thought it would be a good idea to seek out some wedding advice from our mutual friends so that Gavin and Sarah can benefit from their wisdom:
From Ben Lumley:
“Gavin, I muttered a few words in church and I was married. A year later, I muttered a few words in my sleep and I was nearly divorced”
From Derren Maggs:
“Gavin, marriage is a thing that puts a ring on a woman's finger and two under the man's eyes…”
From Dave Bevis:
“Gavin, getting married is like going to a restaurant with friends. You order what you want, and when you see what the other fellow has, you wish you had ordered that instead”
Finish
Seriously though, it is traditional for the best man to slate the groom in this speech, but in Matt's case this has been difficult as he really is fine person who has always been loyal and supportive to his friends and family. I know that in Steph he has found his life partner and I know they will be truly happy together.
I'd also like to thank the bridesmaids and ushers today for their invaluable contribution to the wedding, I'm sure you'll all agree with me that they all look wonderful.
So, finally (get a glass in your hand):
Here's to love, laughter
And happily ever after.
As Matt and Steph start their new life
Please stand and toast the new husband and wife
Ladies and gentlemen……the Bride and Groom
If you go back to read the whole thing once more, you will realize that the whole speech evolved from this structure or outline:
Greetings
Short-self introduction
The introductory remarks or how to start the groomsman speech
Share memorable stories about the groom
Share some good stories about the bride
Share their beautiful qualities and how they complement each other
Ending of the groomsman speech
Having seen these ideas, let’s take each point one step at a time.
This is our first idea:
Greetings
I think you can write this without blinking an eye, right? Ok, this is how the writer captured it.
‘’ Hello my name's Steve and I'm Gavin's best man, although I'm sure Gavin will have a new name for me by the time I've finished this.
When Gavin asked me to be his best man I was initially thrilled at the prospect. Unfortunately it didn't take long for this feeling of wellbeing to dissolve into utter apprehension as I remembered the last time I had to stand up in a room full of people. I was found guilty and fined £300. ’’
Let’s look at the next idea:
Short-self introduction
A lot of times most groomsmen begin their wedding speeches without letting everyone know who they are and their relationship with the bride and groom. That goes against wedding speech etiquette. It’s always a good idea to introduce yourself before you start your speech.
This cliché always work:
For those of you who don’t know me, I am Graham, proud brother of the groom.
To make it funnier, you can say it like this:
For those of you who don’t know me, I am Graham, proud brother of the groom. Of course, I am the wiser, more handsome, silly older brother of the groom. My friends here call me cucumber because it’s my other nickname. I actually have like two other nicknames….those sound weird.... So just for tonight, I would like you to call me Mr. Graham Cucumber!
Did you notice how I managed to make you smile with that little introduction? If you are the brother of the groom, you can humorously thank your mom and dad for their love and support.
Then, you should thank everyone for coming out from far and near to support the couple.
We are not done yet. Let’s look at the third idea:
The introductory remarks or how to start the groomsman speech
Your opening remarks is undoubtedly the most important part of your groomsman speech but most wedding speakers don’t it so well because the vast majority of them are accustomed to starting with remarks they have heard at weddings.
This is how it was exhibited in the above example
‘’ Hello my name's Steve and I'm Gavin's best man, although I'm sure Gavin will have a new name for me by the time I've finished this. ‘’
As you can see, those opening lines are not so impressive. I know it can sound cliché for most groomsmen to say that but that’s always on the lips of those speakers.
Having said that; I am going to share with you ideas about how to make your introductory remarks very unique and special.
First, you can start with a nice song everyone can sing along to and your speech will be a hit. You can get an idea from this talented guy.
Second, you can start with a joke. It could be an inside joke, a joke about your friendship, or you can even start with a funny story about what happened before your brother was born or any hilarious anecdote that occurred during your childhood.
What you can do now: Sit back and reflect and write down happy memories you’ve had with the groom and bride.
Third, you can simply make your speech rhyme. Just look at this example…
Ok…here are a short poem you can modify too for your groomsman speech
Today, my brother has taken the most important step in his life
He has chosen to marry a special woman on the most important day of his life
There’s no greater joy for a man to find that she’s found a woman to love his whole life
What a perfect way to start life with someone you love
And when life gets tough, he can find someone to hold and to love
Love is sweet when you share with someone you love . So love one another and you will find that love is the best gift there is.
Let’s get on to the next point:
Share memorable stories about the groom
You’ll agree with me that there are so many stories you can share about the groom. But it gets hard to know which stories to choose from; especially if you have had several wonderful moments with your best friend or friend.
So, it makes sense that you winnow down the stories and pick at least two great stories you would like to go with.
This simple mental exercise can help you do that. Put on your thinking cap and write down answers next to each question:
When did you meet him?
What drew him to your side?
What do you really admire about him?
What memorable stories would you like to share with the wedding guests(write several of them down and pick two or three from the pool)
How has he become a better person over the years?
Action tip: Write down answers to those questions and use them to write a rough draft which you can always go back to trim down and refine.
The game is still on…let’s look at the next idea:
Share some good stories about the bride
If you have known the bride for a very long time, just write down many stories about her and just use what you are comfortable with.
Please note: If you don’t know her too well, just say this: ‘’ you are happy that the groom has found someone to spend the next chapter of his life with ‘’
In that same vein, you can humorously comment on how they complement each other or look good together.
Finally, let’s look at…
How to write the ending of the groomsman speech
I love this quote by Maya Angelou that says that people will forget what you said; people will forget what you did but will never forget how you made them feel.
That is to say that if you conclude with some memorable lines, people will never forget how you made them feel. So, have to do your best to end on a strong note.
If you have nothing to say, you can end with this:
‘’ Seriously though, it is traditional for the best man to slate the groom in this speech, but in Matt's case this has been difficult as he really is fine person who has always been loyal and supportive to his friends and family. I know that in Steph he has found his life partner and I know they will be truly happy together.
I'd also like to thank the bridesmaids and ushers today for their invaluable contribution to the wedding, I'm sure you'll all agree with me that they all look wonderful.
So, finally (get a glass in your hand):
Here's to love, laughter …’’
Besides that, you can end your groomsman speech with one or more of these proven ideas.
First, if you or the couple is rooted in faith, you can end with a prayer or this bible verse.
‘’ 1 Corinthians 16:14. ."Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love..."
Second, if you are musically gifted, you can modify the lyrics of this song and wrap up with it.
Third, you can end with a good quote about marriage or love, even if you are not married. Here are some examples to help you end on a strong note.
“A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person.” – Mignon McLaughlin
“A great marriage is not when the ‘perfect couple’ comes together. It is when an imperfect couple learns to enjoy their differences.” – Dave Meurer
“Never marry the one you can live with, marry the one you cannot live without.” – Unknown
“A good marriage is one which allows for change and growth in the individuals and in the way they express their love.” – Pearl S. Buck
“Experts on romance say for a happy marriage there has to be more than a passionate love. For a lasting union, they insist, there must be a genuine liking for each other. Which, in my book, is a good definition for friendship.” – Marilyn Monroe
P.S: Most best men do this...Have you ever considered it? Want to write and give a great best man wedding speech but can't seem to get started because you don't know the exact words to use or where to start?
Or not too sure if what you intend writing will be well received by the guests?
Let's help you make the groom and your family and friends proud and let the wedding guests say great things about your speech.
Here’s what one nervous person called Glen sent over after the wedding was over.
Hey Dan, I just wanted to thank you once again for the speech you wrote with me. My goal was met afterward, I was told by many "what a beautiful speech" and received a standing ovation. I couldn't have done this without you. God Bless Dan!- Glen, U.S.A
Want to know how he did just that? He got on board our wedding speech program and one of our talented speech consultants helped him out.
This is a letter someone sent to us after we've helped him with his tribute(You can click on the image to read it)
Ok, Is This Offer For Me?
Yes, if you are expecting nothing less than a very special, beautiful, unique, and memorable speech.
Yes, if you are overwhelmed by the pressures of work and don’t have the time to put together a very meaningful speech, so you can have peace of mind
Yes, if you want the groom and your family, children, friends, and wedding guests to shower you with very sincere compliments…just imagine how you will feel
Yes, if you are not good with words and you feel you’re not a natural writer and you are struggling to find the right words but still want to give a great speech.
Yes, you get so scared anytime you’re asked to say something before an audience and you really want to save yourself from any form of embarrassment on his big day.
Yes, if you are not too eloquent or not too sure if you are on the right track.
Yes, if you absolutely hate speaking in public or feel this is not your thing but you want to make your friend or brother feel very proud
Yes, if you have a day or less to the wedding and you are worried that you might make some horrible mistakes
Yes, if you are a good speaker but you still want someone to look over or review what you've come up with!
Wedding not too far away? Or happening in less than 24 hours?Trust me, we can deliver!it doesn’t matter if your speech is today, tomorrow, next week, next month, next year,... we can make things work for you
Just imagine leaving your entire presentation in the hands of skilled wedding speech consultants who will take away your pain of spending hours thinking hard and long about what to say and what not to say.
This is another letter someone sent to us after his wedding.(You can click on the image to read it)
Also, envision being patiently guided to say something that will leave a favorable impression on the mind of your listeners.
And also imagine the thrill and feeling of excitement and pride you’re going to experience when the audience leaps onto their feet and screams and shouts and even sing your praises.
Won’t you love that? I hope you do...
Ok, I am Interested, What’s the Cost?
You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.
Why? As you know, the current health and economic crisis have caused severe hardships for most people.
Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.
Yet, some couples are still getting married and asking friends and family to give speeches like never before.
Nonetheless, not everyone could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.
So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.
Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.
So, please take advantage of it now even if the big day is in the future.
Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video, and the groom, your friends and family, and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.
So, please take advantage of it now even if the groom's big day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.
Oh Ok, How Then Do I Get Started Since I Want To Get On Board Right Away?
After that, we will send you a very short questionnaire to fill out via email! You only have to check your email a few hours after you have made your request.
Then, you fill out the questionnaire sent through your email and please have it sent back to us…
We will confirm receipt of it…If something is not too clear, we will ask you to clarify….
If not, we will send you a wonderful draft in a couple of hours if this on very short notice….If not, after a few days
Then, you look it over and tell us if you are okay with it or you want to amend or edit or revise it till you are happy with it--although we always get it right even with the first draft.
There will be an opportunity to give feedback and ask for edit…
Then, you pay for it
Please note: The information collected through the questionnaire is only for the purpose of writing your speech. I wouldn't even need it if I could read your mind. So, your information is very confidential and no one will know about it.
Just a reminder of what you pay after it’s duly completed.
You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.
Why? As you know, the current health and economic crisis have caused severe hardships for most people.
Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.
Yet, some grooms are still getting married and their family and friends have to say something about them.
Nonetheless, not everyone could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.
So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.
Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.
So, please take advantage of it now even if the wedding day is in the future.
Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video, and your friend or brother, family and friends, and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.
So, please take advantage of it now even if the wedding day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.
Please note: Your speech draft comes with a proven and simple tip to master your speech or remember your speech just as you want it without carrying a paper with you.
Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise, and clarity!
''Hi Dan,
The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice). Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.
All the best,
Matt''
Please note: Don’t fill out this form if you’re a dishonest individual. This offer is for a limited time.
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We coach you on how to use your voice to make your speech very exciting.
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The most effective way to get your entire speech into your head without memorizing your speech. Guaranteed to help you even if you have a very poor memory or your memory is like a goldfish…most of our clients still wonder where we got this idea from. This ensures that you don't read off a sheet of paper...
Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise, and clarity!
''Hi Dan,
The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice). Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.
All the best,
Matt''
Ways to include humor in your speech and what it takes to do so
Looking for well-written bridesmaid speech examples and templates to help you write a sweet bridesmaid speech for your sister or friend?
If you are, then you are in the right camp because I am going to share with you how you can model your bridesmaid speech or toast after excellent bridesmaid speech examples or templates.
Whenever most bridesmaids think of making the bride proud with their wedding speeches, they resort to copying bridesmaid speech samples they find online without actually figuring out what goes into writing a great piece. If you can figure that out, you will end up writing a lovely bridesmaid speech with remarkable ease.
Most bridesmaids don’t know this. But there are two kinds of bridesmaid speech examples and templates that can help you out.
They include:
Bridesmaid speech video samples
Well-written bridesmaid speech templates and examples
Bridesmaid speech video examples complement its written counterpart as they give you an idea of what to say and what not to say. For example, if I had to deliver a speech at my sister’s wedding and have no clue, then the best thing to do is to watch a few video clips on youtube.com or on your favorite video sharing platform.
That way, you can put yourself in the mood to help you express your ideas convincingly. By the way, here are two great video clips you can watch and learn from. So, sit back, relax, grab your notepad and write down ideas and tips that resonate best with you.
Here are they are:
Bridesmaid speech video example #1
Bridesmaid speech video templates #2
Now, let’s look at two great bridesmaid speeches. Afterwards, we will analyze the second example so you can easily figure out how to write the content of your speech without breaking a sweat.
Here they are:
Bridesmaid Speech for Sister Example
I would like to thank Just Ten Things for posting this example. Thank you
“Good evening everyone.
First and foremost, I wanted to extend a heartfelt congratulations to the newlyweds. Melanie & Ben, it’s been nothing short of an honor standing beside you today as one chapter of your love story comes to a close and the next begins. I mean it when I say I’m so happy for both of you. Thank you so much for letting me be a part of your big day.
Many of you know me, but to those of you who don’t, I’m Jennifer, Melanie’s older sister and Maid of Honor. In all honesty, I can talk just about anyone’s ears off, but give me a microphone in front of a large audience and even I get a little bit of stage freight. That being said I’ll do my best to make this short and sweet with one objective: to cry fewer tears than our mom. Someone check the rain gage!
To Melanie, my sister, my friend. Growing up with you over the past two and a half decades has been one of the greatest blessings of my life. Never in a million years did I ever imagine I’d get a little sister and a lifelong best friend in one roll of the dice, but I did, and for that I’m so grateful. I have so much love and respect for you;I hope you know that now and never forget it.
“We have such differing personalities, but at the core we’re so much more alike than we’re willing to admit. We share a lot of the same stubbornness, passion, and genuine desire to shine a brighter light into this world.
We’re both too nosy for our own good, but that’s okay by me. When we fight, we fight hard, but we always come back to each other because we know we couldn’t stand being mad at one another for more than what, an hour? We share little secrets and always say, “Don’t tell anyone yet”, but one or both of us always ends up blabbering to mom because let’s be real, Brandl’s can’t keep secrets.”
As you know better than most, there was never a dull moment in the Brandl household. 1 bathroom for five people meant there was often 1 person showering, 1 person on the toilet, and 1 person at the vanity at any given time. Privacy was a luxury none of us were afforded. Maybe that’s why we’re so close.
“Growing up, we were pretty much inseparable. You always looked up to me as a role model and I tried to be the best one for you. There was, however, one small mishap a time or two. Like when I dared you to stick your tongue to the steel patio railing outside in the middle of winter, promising you it wouldn’t get stuck.
You listened to me and stuck your whole tongue onto the railing and it got stuck so bad I thought we’d have to call 911 to get it off. When we finally got it pulled off, you cried so hard, ran upstairs, and stuck your tongue into a pillow the rest of the night; I felt so bad making you swear you wouldn’t tell dad.
And then there was the time you took a candy bar from the Arpin concession stand without paying for it and I used it as blackmail to get you to do all sorts of stuff for me. When you wouldn’t listen to me, I’d look at you and say “I’ll tell mom about your stealing.” You were so scared to get in trouble and I rode that one out a litttttle longer than I should have. Sorry about that.
We’ve made some of the best memories together, memories that we still laugh and talk about today. As we’ve grown older, we’ve grown to be more inseparable than our younger selves ever were. And it makes my heart so happy to have such a friend in you.
When I went off to college and moved halfway across the country, I know it was hard for both of us. No longer could we hangout every minute of every day. But we learned to fill our void with FaceTime calls (LOTS of FaceTime calls), always there giving each other advice, ranting about something or another, and plotting our next travel destination. ”
“In all of our travels, I will always cherish our Florida sistercation road trip the most. After spending several days relaxing at Clearwater Beach and stopping at every WaWa gas station we passed, we traded the beach views for our first Disney experience. That morning, we left Tampa to drive to Disney (well, I drove, you slept all the way to the Magic Kingdom gates), spent an entire day at the park, then drove to West Palm Beach after Disney’s late night fireworks show.
The drive from Orlando to West Palm Beach was 2 hours and we both agreed to each take a 1 hour driving shift. You offered to go first so I could take a nap before I drove the 2AM shift. Less than 15 minutes later we were doing a Chinese fire drill off some dark highway because I woke up to find you hovering over the steering wheel holding your eyes open as hard as you could. You got in the passenger seat and 5 minutes later, you were snoring. All the way to our hotel. You’re not a very good copilot.
“While I’m sad I can’t always be around all the time, I’m so happy you and Ben found sustaining happiness with each other. Ben, you’ve been around for so long I don’t even remember the first time I met you as Melanie’s official boyfriend. I just remember teasing her once I found out, singing “Mel and Ben sitting in a tree, k-i-s-s-i-n-g”. We welcomed you to the Brandlfam back then, and couldn’t be more excited that you’re still here with us today. Welcome to the family!
It’s been so fulfilling to see the two of you grow together over the years. Ben, I’m so happy knowing my best friend has found the truest kind of love and confidant in you and I couldn’t be more excited to watch the two of you blossom as husband and wife.
As you begin your new journey together, I wish you both the most fun filled life, a life where you grow to love each other more every day, never stop exploring, and always find new, exciting ways to keep the spark ignited.
May you always remember to compromise (and by compromise, I mean do exactly what Melanie wants, when she wants, and how she wants), apologize, laugh it off, and prioritize the needs of one another. You’ve made it this far, there’s no doubt you were meant to be together. I can’t wait to celebrate with you tonight and all the years to come.
So cheers to you, Melanie & Ben, and cheers to love, happiness, and adventures near and far. My only request is that you promise to save a little adventure in life for me. Melanie, I hear you’ve never been to Costa Rica and I see a sistercation in our future. I mean, someone’s got to show you around all the beautiful places I got to see when mom let ME go all those years ago.
Lots of love to both. Cheers! ”
Bridesmaid Speech for Friend Example
I would like to thank WeddingBee.com for posting this example. Thank you
Hello everyone. My name is Natasha, and I am very happy to be here tonight to celebrate the wedding of my dear friend Mary to her new husband Felix. Mary you look absolutely stunning tonight. Felix is one lucky man!
If you don’t know the story, Mary and Felix met each other at her sister’s wedding almost 3 years ago, and it was love at first sight.
No distance could keep them apart, and even from the Dominican Republic, Felix serenaded Mary over Skype and text messages. His charm and sweet words soon won her over, and she took a leap of faith in love and moved to the DR to teach for a year and of course be close to Felix.
And now Mary and Felix, because of the trust you had in each other and in the love that you shared, you are finally able to live and love together as husband and wife, and even in the same country!
To the beautiful bride Mary: we met back in first grade, and I am honored to still be one of your closest friends and celebrate with you on this special day. Typically the maid of honor gives some marriage advice. I am not yet an expert on marriage, but I am an expert on Mary.
I know that Felix will not only be your husband but your new best friend. So Felix I would like to share some insights from Mary’s very old best friend to her new very best friend.
Felix, if you ever upset Mary, just remember that she loves ice cream. And if you really upset her, try French fries dipped in a chocolate shake.
Mary will not be afraid to knock sense into you when she feels necessary. I once said the wrong thing and she threw a pillow at me, which happened to contain a hardbound textbook. Who keeps books in their pillows?
Felix, a word of warning, Mary was a hurdler in high school. So don’t stand in her way, because she can and will jump over you. But only if you can handle caffeine hyped Mary.
If you ever get tired of her talking, just send her out for coffee with some friends. But, only if you can handle caffeine hyped Mary.
Mary is the queen of procrastination, and she seems to do her best work in the middle of the night. Felix, uh, you can take advantage of this…
Felix you are now prepared for all that lies ahead. You have chosen a wonderful woman to be your wife and all I ask is that you take good care of her and always keep her laughing.
Let’s move into action. If you study both examples in great detail, you will realize that both speeches in built on these basic elements:
Introduction or opening remarks
Body or content of the speech
The conclusion or ending of your speech
As with every write-up you will ever find, speeches are built on that structure. So, it makes a sense that you also center your ideas on those same points to make the writing process a breeze.
Having said that, let’s start with….
How to start a bridesmaid speech for your sister or friend
The extract below is the opening lines of the first and second wedding speech.
Please look at the extracts in the first example:
‘’ “Good evening everyone.
First and foremost, I wanted to extend a heartfelt congratulations to the newlyweds. Melanie & Ben, it’s been nothing short of an honor standing beside you today as one chapter of your love story comes to a close and the next begins. I mean it when I say I’m so happy for both of you. Thank you so much for letting me be a part of your big day.
Many of you know me, but to those of you who don’t, I’m Jennifer, Melanie’s older sister and Maid of Honor….’’
Compare that to the second example.
‘’ Hello everyone. My name is Natasha, and I am very happy to be here tonight to celebrate the wedding of my dear friend Mary to her new husband Felix. Mary you look absolutely stunning tonight. Felix is one lucky man! ‘’
You will agree with me that’s what we often hear from most bridesmaid at most wedding reception or at the rehearsal dinner. Guess what? They are both good in my opinion. But those opening remarks don’t do a great job to draw the wedding audience into the body of your bridesmaid speech.
Your opening address should entertain and inspire the wedding crowd right from the start. What that means is that you have to put in a great deal of thought and effort into doing just that.
You might be wondering how you can make your opening lines stand out? I am happy to share a few proven ways to make yours unique and special.
First, if you have a great singing voice, you can start off by singing the couple’s favorite song or any other song everyone can sing along to like this talented lady did.
Second, you can start with a fun fact. If the wedding date falls on the day they got engaged, you can let everyone know about this.
Third, there’s a good chance that if the bride or groom is getting married on their birthday, the joy of the wedding day can overshadow the birthday. But, you can still wish them a happy birthday or simply lead your family and friends to sing the celebrant a happy birthday song.
Fourth, you can start on an emotional note by starting with a quote. Any of these quotes can help make your opening remarks very special.
The most beautiful discovery true friends make is that they can grow separately without growing apart.” — Elisabeth Foley
"Love has nothing to do with what you are expecting to get–only with what you are expecting to give–which is everything."–Katharine Hepburn
"The greatest happiness of life is the conviction that we are loved; loved for ourselves, or rather, loved in spite of ourselves."–Victor Hugo
"When you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody, you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible."–Nora Ephron
“There is nothing I would not do for those who are really my friends. I have no notion of loving people by halves; it is not my nature.”
Jane Austen
Here’s how I would use the underlined quote to write a captivating opener.
I was with Melissa on the mountain when Dan went on one knee and said that Melissa, what are you waiting for? When you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with someone you love and care for, you want to rest of your life to start as soon as possible.
I have always known Dan to have a kind heart. So, when he popped the question, tears run down my cheeks. Guess what happened to Melissa?....
Don’t you think this emotional bridesmaid speech will touch the heart of everyone listening to you? She even throws in an element of surprise when she says this:
‘’ Guess what happened to Melissa?’’
Now, let’s get on to….
How To Write The Body Or Content Of Your Bridesmaid Speech
First and foremost, let’s look at this short extract.
‘’ If you don’t know the story, Mary and Felix met each other at her sister’s wedding almost 3 years ago, and it was love at first sight.
No distance could keep them apart, and even from the Dominican Republic, Felix serenaded Mary over Skype and text messages. His charm and sweet words soon won her over, and she took a leap of faith in love and moved to the DR to teach for a year and of course be close to Felix. ‘’
I have reviewed countless wedding speeches and I have come to know that most wedding speakers have great ideas about what to say and what not to say. But, their drafts wind up as a jumble of thoughts that don’t make sense at all.
The trick here is to present your ideas orderly so anyone can fully grasp the depth of your relationship with the bride. But, how can you do that? That’s a great question! Just ponder on these questions and write your answers next to each one.
When did you become friends?
How did you become her friend?
Why did she become your best friend?
What’s been her impact on her life?
What are your fondest memory/memories about your friendship?
How did she feel when she fell in love with the groom?
Let’s do this now: Now, tie up your answers into a short story. Don’t worry if it doesn’t look good on your first try because you can go back and take out what you don’t really need until your speech looks fantastic.
Finally, let’s look at…
How to Write The Closing Remarks Of Your Bridesmaid Speech.
If you’re stumped for ideas to help you wrap up, you can simply end your speech with any of the above examples:
‘’ Felix you are now prepared for all that lies ahead. You have chosen a wonderful woman to be your wife and all I ask is that you take good care of her and always keep her laughing. ‘’
‘’ As you begin your new journey together, I wish you both the most fun filled life, a life where you grow to love each other more every day, never stop exploring, and always find new, exciting ways to keep the spark ignited. May you always remember to compromise (and by compromise, I mean do exactly what Melanie wants, when she wants, and how she wants), apologize, laugh it off, and prioritize the needs of one another.’’
That’s not all. There are other creative and exciting ways of writing a memorable conclusion.
First, you can close with a prayer or a bible verse if you are a Christian or a person of faith. You may end with this bible verse.
I Corinthians 16: 10: Let everything you do be done with love.
Second, are you musically inclined? Why not switch things up by composing a little song based on a solid marriage advice. This funny video would make you fall off your seat….you can probably alter the lyrics just a little bit.
Third, most bridesmaids don’t give gifts to the couple. But if you have something thoughtful to gift the couple, you will be remembered as a kind hearted soul that made the couple smile. Can you put a smile on their face?
Most bridesmaid do this....have you considered it yet? It would help you deliver your wedding speech for your friend or sister. This is the chance to prove to the bride that you really love her.
We can help you make your friend or sister proud and the wedding guests say great things about your speech.
Here’s what one nervous person called Glen sent over after the wedding was over.
Hey Dan, I just wanted to thank you once again for the speech you wrote with me. My goal was met afterward, I was told by many "what a beautiful speech" and received a standing ovation. I couldn't have done this without you. God Bless Dan!- Glen, U.S.A
Want to know how he did just that? He got on board our wedding speech program and one of our talented speech consultants helped him out.
Yes, if you are expecting nothing less than a very special, beautiful, unique, and memorable speech.
Yes, if you are overwhelmed by the pressures of work and don’t have the time to put together a very meaningful speech, so you can have peace of mind
Yes, if you want the bride, your friends or siblings, her family, your family, children, friends, and wedding guests to shower you with very sincere compliments…just imagine how you will feel
Yes, if you are not good with words and you feel you’re not a natural writer and you are struggling to find the right words but still want to give a great speech.
Yes, you get so scared anytime you’re asked to say something before an audience and you really want to save yourself from any form of embarrassment on her big day.
Yes, if you are not too eloquent or not too sure if you are on the right track.
Yes, if you absolutely hate speaking in public or feel this is not your thing but you want to make your friend or sister feel very proud
Yes, if you have a day or less to the wedding and you are worried that you might make some horrible mistakes
Yes, if you are a good speaker but you still want someone to look over or review what you've come up with!
Wedding not too far away? Or happening in less than 24 hours?Trust me, we can deliver!it doesn’t matter if your speech is today, tomorrow, next week, next month, next year,... we can make things work for you
Just imagine leaving your entire presentation in the hands of skilled wedding speech consultants who will take away your pain of spending hours thinking hard and long about what to say and what not to say.
Also, envision being patiently guided to say something that will leave a favorable impression on the mind of your listeners.
And also imagine the thrill and feeling of excitement and pride you’re going to experience when the audience leaps onto their feet and scream and shouts and even sing your praises.
Won’t you love that? I hope you do...
Ok, I am Interested, What’s the Cost?
You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.
Why? As you know, the current health and economic crisis has caused severe hardships for most people.
Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.
Yet, some couples are still getting married and family and friends still have to give their speeches like never before.
Nonetheless, not everyone could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.
So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.
Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.
So, please take advantage of it now even if her big day is in the future.
Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video, and the bride, your friends and family, and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.
So, please take advantage of it now even if the wedding day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.
Oh Ok, How Then Do I Get Started Since I Want To Get On Board Right Away?
After that, we will send you a very short questionnaire to fill out via email! You only have to check your email a few hours after you have made your request.
Then, you fill out the questionnaire sent through your email, and please have it sent back to us…
We will confirm receipt of it…If something is not too clear, we will ask you to clarify….
If not, we will send you a wonderful draft in a couple of hours if this on very short notice….If not, after a few days
Then, you look it over and tell us if you are okay with it or you want to amend or revise it till you are happy with it--although we always get it right even with the first draft
Just a reminder of what you pay after it’s duly completed.
You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.
Why? As you know, the current health and economiccrisis has caused severe hardships for most people.
Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.
Yet, some brides are still getting married and asking their friends or siblings to give maid of honor speeches.
Nonetheless, not everyone could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.
So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.
Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.
So, please take advantage of it now even if her big day is in the future.
Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video, and the bride, your friends, friends and family, and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.
So, please take advantage of it now even if the wedding day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.
Please note: Your speech draft comes with a proven and simple tip to master your speech or remember your speech just as you want it without carrying a paper with you.
Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise, and clarity!
''Hi Dan,
The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice). Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.
All the best,
Matt''
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Ways to include humor in your speech and what it takes to do so
Looking for tips and ideas to help you write you write a sweet bridesmaid speech or toast for your friend or sister? If you are, then please bear with me for a while and I will share with you tips and ideas about…
How to easily write an amazing bridesmaid speech for your friend or sister or cousin
How to model your bridesmaid speech after well-written bridesmaid speech examples or templates
How to outline, structure, start, and end your bridesmaid speech
How to make your bridesmaid speech funny
Plus so much more
There’s no doubt that being a bridesmaid is a great honor and privilege because not every lady gets to stand by the bride’s side on her wedding day.
Nonetheless, you have to make sure her wedding day goes off without a hitch. With so much to do on, you might find yourself at the end of the rope when you realize that your bridesmaid speech is not ready yet.
When this occurs, you need not panic as that can cause you a great deal of stress and confusion. Instead, you should remain calm and collected like a piece of cucumber and center your bridesmaid speech or toast around a proven structure or outline(which we are going to delve deep into very soon.)
Before we do that, let’s consider a few things you need to know before you write your bridesmaid speech or toast.
If you have never made a wedding speech before, then it makes sense that you first put yourself in the mood so you can get creative ideas and insights.
You can do that by watching a few videos on your video sharing platform or on youtube.com so you can figure out how it’s done.
Action Tip: Grab your pen and notepad and watch these video clips. As you do, write down tips and ideas you think you can weave into your own script.
Here they are:
Bridesmaid Speech Video Example #1
Bridesmaid Speech Video Sample # 2
Video bridesmaid speech examples are by no means the only resources you can use.
A well-written bridesmaid speech example or template is another option you can look into so you can put together your scattered thoughts and ideas into a very memorable bridesmaid speech for the bride and groom.
The next chapter of this post will highlight a bridesmaid speech template or example. Afterwards, we are going to break it down, look at its structure or outline as the foundation for coming up with the right content for your bridesmaid speech.
I would like to thank Just Ten Things for posting this example. Thank you
Here you go:
“Good evening everyone.
First and foremost, I wanted to extend a heartfelt congratulations to the newlyweds. Melanie & Ben, it’s been nothing short of an honor standing beside you today as one chapter of your love story comes to a close and the next begins. I mean it when I say I’m so happy for both of you. Thank you so much for letting me be a part of your big day.
Many of you know me, but to those of you who don’t, I’m Jennifer, Melanie’s older sister and Maid of Honor. In all honesty, I can talk just about anyone’s ears off, but give me a microphone in front of a large audience and even I get a little bit of stage freight. That being said I’ll do my best to make this short and sweet with one objective: to cry fewer tears than our mom. Someone check the rain gage!
To Melanie, my sister, my friend. Growing up with you over the past two and a half decades has been one of the greatest blessings of my life. Never in a million years did I ever imagine I’d get a little sister and a lifelong best friend in one roll of the dice, but I did, and for that I’m so grateful. I have so much love and respect for you;I hope you know that now and never forget it.
“We have such differing personalities, but at the core we’re so much more alike than we’re willing to admit. We share a lot of the same stubbornness, passion, and genuine desire to shine a brighter light into this world.
We’re both too nosy for our own good, but that’s okay by me.
When we fight, we fight hard, but we always come back to each other because we know we couldn’t stand being mad at one another for more than what, an hour? We share little secrets and always say, “Don’t tell anyone yet”, but one or both of us always ends up blabbering to mom because let’s be real, Brandl’s can’t keep secrets.”
As you know better than most, there was never a dull moment in the Brandl household. 1 bathroom for five people meant there was often 1 person showering, 1 person on the toilet, and 1 person at the vanity at any given time. Privacy was a luxury none of us were afforded. Maybe that’s why we’re so close.
“Growing up, we were pretty much inseparable. You always looked up to me as a role model and I tried to be the best one for you. There was, however, one small mishap a time or two. Like when I dared you to stick your tongue to the steel patio railing outside in the middle of winter, promising you it wouldn’t get stuck. You listened to me and stuck your whole tongue onto the railing and it got stuck so bad I thought we’d have to call 911 to get it off.
When we finally got it pulled off, you cried so hard, ran upstairs, and stuck your tongue into a pillow the rest of the night; I felt so bad making you swear you wouldn’t tell dad.
And then there was the time you took a candy bar from the Arpin concession stand without paying for it and I used it as blackmail to get you to do all sorts of stuff for me. When you wouldn’t listen to me, I’d look at you and say “I’ll tell mom about your stealing.” You were so scared to get in trouble and I rode that one out a litttttle longer than I should have. Sorry about that.
We’ve made some of the best memories together, memories that we still laugh and talk about today. As we’ve grown older, we’ve grown to be more inseparable than our younger selves ever were. And it makes my heart so happy to have such a friend in you. When I went off to college and moved halfway across the country, I know it was hard for both of us. No longer could we hangout every minute of every day. But we learned to fill our void with FaceTime calls (LOTS of FaceTime calls), always there giving each other advice, ranting about something or another, and plotting our next travel destination. ”
“In all of our travels, I will always cherish our Florida sistercation road trip the most. After spending several days relaxing at Clearwater Beach and stopping at every WaWa gas station we passed, we traded the beach views for our first Disney experience. That morning, we left Tampa to drive to Disney (well, I drove, you slept all the way to the Magic Kingdom gates), spent an entire day at the park, then drove to West Palm Beach after Disney’s late night fireworks show.
The drive from Orlando to West Palm Beach was 2 hours and we both agreed to each take a 1 hour driving shift. You offered to go first so I could take a nap before I drove the 2AM shift. Less than 15 minutes later we were doing a Chinese fire drill off some dark highway because I woke up to find you hovering over the steering wheel holding your eyes open as hard as you could. You got in the passenger seat and 5 minutes later, you were snoring. All the way to our hotel. You’re not a very good copilot.
“While I’m sad I can’t always be around all the time, I’m so happy you and Ben found sustaining happiness with each other. Ben, you’ve been around for so long I don’t even remember the first time I met you as Melanie’s official boyfriend. I just remember teasing her once I found out, singing “Mel and Ben sitting in a tree, k-i-s-s-i-n-g”. We welcomed you to the Brandlfam back then, and couldn’t be more excited that you’re still here with us today. Welcome to the family!
It’s been so fulfilling to see the two of you grow together over the years. Ben, I’m so happy knowing my best friend has found the truest kind of love and confidant in you and I couldn’t be more excited to watch the two of you blossom as husband and wife.
As you begin your new journey together, I wish you both the most fun filled life, a life where you grow to love each other more every day, never stop exploring, and always find new, exciting ways to keep the spark ignited. May you always remember to compromise (and by compromise, I mean do exactly what Melanie wants, when she wants, and how she wants), apologize, laugh it off, and prioritize the needs of one another. You’ve made it this far, there’s no doubt you were meant to be together. I can’t wait to celebrate with you tonight and all the years to come.
So cheers to you, Melanie & Ben, and cheers to love, happiness, and adventures near and far. My only request is that you promise to save a little adventure in life for me. Melanie, I hear you’ve never been to Costa Rica and I see a sistercation in our future. I mean, someone’s got to show you around all the beautiful places I got to see when mom let ME go all those years ago.
Lots of love to both. Cheers! ”
If you go back and read that bridesmaid speech template or example speech once more time, you will notice that its content is built on these bullet points:
Short-self introductory remarks
How to start your bridesmaid speech
Sharing memories about your friend or sister
Share funny memories you recall/share your up and down moments
Talk about the groom in a positive light
Share how they complement each other
Share marriage advice and your best wishes
How to end your bridesmaid speech
Having seen those points, let’s take each point at a time so we can figure out what really goes into writing a lovely bridesmaid speech or toast.
Let’s look at the first idea:
Short self-introduction
I don’t think that’s so hard to write down, right?
A hint: If you are the sister of the bride, you can mention your parents and siblings and express gratitude for their help and support over the years.
For this part, you can also tell the bride how honored you are to be her bridesmaid.
Homework assignment: Write a few words to introduce yourself as well as some thank you remarks to the bridal party and family and friends.
Let’s look at the second idea:
How to start your bridesmaid speech
For your speech to stand out from the pack, you have to start on a bright note as that gives your audience the first impression that you are worth listening to.
There’s nothing wrong with starting the way Jennifer did as that’s most bridesmaid do. But, we can always kill two birds with one stone so to speak.
So, how then can you impress your family and friends right from the start? Here are some tried and tested ideas to do just that.
You can start with a memorable story because our brains are hardwired for narratives. We think in stories, remember in stories, act in stories and turn just about everything we experience into a story. So, if you have a great story to share, do so by all means.
You may share a fun fact about your friendship. I once wrote a maid of honor speech where the friend of the bride said they used to play this weird kind of game when they were teenagers. Well, I didn’t get it. So, I asked her to act it out like a stage performer and she did. She came back to tell me it made her speech even more memorable.
If you want to sound witty or start on an emotional note, you may start with a quote about finding love, friendship, or even marriage.
Here are some quotes or liners you can insert right into your speech.
‘’Love isn't about finding the perfect person. It's about realizing that an imperfect person can make your life perfect." — Crystal Ball
"Love isn't finding someone to live with. It's finding someone you can't live without." — Al E. Gater
"Love isn't something you find. Love is something that finds you." — Loretta Young
"Hope for love, pray for love, wish for love, dream for love…but don’t put your life on hold waiting for love." — Mandy Hale
The art of love... is largely the art of persistence." — Albert Ellis
Now, let’s see we can use any of that to write the opening lines or remarks of your bride’s maid speech.
Here it is.
I once read this quote that says that love isn’t finding the perfect person. It’s about realizing that an imperfect person can make your life perfect….This quote perfectly captures who this couple is, what they have been through, and thus far they have come….
Now, don’t you think everyone will be eager to hear their love story? Can you make the most out of those quotes or nice ones you’ve found elsewhere or with those I shared above?
If you have a good singing voice, you can probably do it like this gal did. If you give it a try, you will end up stealing the show like these ladies did.
We are not done yet…Let’s consider this idea too:
Sharing memories about your friend or sister
Your bridesmaid speech or toast should highlight the good and the bad times you’ve spent with the bride. If you are her sister, then you obviously have lots of stories to share with the guests.
Nonetheless, it’s a real struggle for most bridesmaids to say what’s on their mind because they have so many ideas and don’t know where to start.
This simple plan can help you out. So, put on your thinking cap and answer these simple questions.
What was the feeling like when your sister was born? (this is applicable if you are the sister of the bride)
When and how did you first meet the bride? (applicable if you are the friend of the bride…can also be used if you are her friend)
What’s her impact on your life?
Do you have funny/fond memories to share?(just share one or two memorable ones)
When did she first tell you about the groom?
How has her life turned around ever since the groom came into her life?
What You Can Do Now: I hope you have written down answers to those questions? Ok…now, go back and read the written example for inspiration and guidance and then try to write a rough draft which you can always go back to amend.
The game is still on…so, let’s look at the next idea:
Talk about the groom in a positive light
Ask yourself:
What can I say about the groom? Is he kind, loving, and compassionate? If so, please write down his positive traits.
What has been his influence on the bride’s life since they became lovers? Please write it down.
Here’s an example:
I’m also excited to find that there is someone
out there who was able to expand my sister’s pallet! Up until Jim met Michelle, she basically
ate nothing green. She would never try anything new, you get the picture.
Jim and his family have convinced him to try all kinds of different vegetables, and even eat fish!
Why do you think he’s a good match for your sister or friend?
Do you have a memorable story to share about him?
What were your first impressions when you first met him?
Please note: If you don’t know him too well, just say this: ‘’ you are happy that the bride has found someone who loves her to the moon and back ‘’
A word of advice: Even if you are not so fond of the groom, you don’t have to mention it. Also, make sure you cast the bride in a positive light and refrain from talking about stuff that will embarrass her or the groom.
One more thing…
Share how they complement each other
In what ways do the bride and groom balance each other out?
Here are tips to help you get some good content for this part of your bridesmaid speech or toast.
What does the bride like? What does the groom hate?
What are their shared interests? Here, you’d realize that the groom might love soccer and the bride’s favorite pastime might be reading.
Do they like to dress alike?
What are their favorite meals?
Now, let’s look at the next idea:
Share marriage advice and your best wishes
If you are not yet married, you can just deliver some best wishes for the couple.
Here are a few examples
I’m sure that your marriage is the greatest decision you’ve ever made. You are a match made in heaven. I can’t wait to see your beautiful babies! Oh, is it too soon? Anyway, congratulations on your marriage!
Congratulations on becoming husband and wife! I’m really excited for you.
Finally, let’s look at
How To End Your Bridesmaid Speech
Aside from closing your speech with best wishes, there are also many ways of ending your bridesmaid wedding speech on a very memorable note.
First, if you are a person of faith or a Christian, you may end with a few verses from the bible or a prayer for the couple.
1 Corinthians 13: 1-13
New International Version
13 If I speak in the tongues[a] of men or of angels, but do not have love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal. 2 If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have a faith that can move mountains, but do not have love, I am nothing. 3 If I give all I possess to the poor and give over my body to hardship that I may boast,[b] but do not have love, I gain nothing.
4 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5 It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
8 Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away. 9 For we know in part and we prophesy in part, 10 but when completeness comes, what is in part disappears. 11 When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put the ways of childhood behind me. 12 For now we see only a reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known.
13 And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love.
Second, you can end on an emotional or romantic quote by using quotes like this one:
This famous line is spoken by Harry Burns (Billy Crystal) to Sally Albright (Meg Ryan) at the end of When Harry Met Sally (directed by Rob Reiner, 1989).
"When you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody, you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible."
Third, you can actually give them a thoughtful gift. You probably can look for quotes about love or words of advice and frame it and gift it to the couple.
Most bridesmaid do this....have you considered it yet? It would help you deliver your wedding speech for your friend or sister. This is the chance to prove to the bride that you really love her.
We can help you make your friend or sister proud and the wedding guests say great things about your speech.
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Hey Dan, I just wanted to thank you once again for the speech you wrote with me. My goal was met afterward, I was told by many "what a beautiful speech" and received a standing ovation. I couldn't have done this without you. God Bless Dan!- Glen, U.S.A
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Yes, if you are not good with words and you feel you’re not a natural writer and you are struggling to find the right words but still want to give a great speech.
Yes, you get so scared anytime you’re asked to say something before an audience and you really want to save yourself from any form of embarrassment on her big day.
Yes, if you are not too eloquent or not too sure if you are on the right track.
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Why? As you know, the current health and economic crisis has caused severe hardships for most people.
Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.
Yet, some couples are still getting married and family and friends still have to give their speeches like never before.
Nonetheless, not everyone could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.
So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.
Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.
So, please take advantage of it now even if her big day is in the future.
Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video, and the bride, your friends and family, and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.
So, please take advantage of it now even if the wedding day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.
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Just a reminder of what you pay after it’s duly completed.
You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.
Why? As you know, the current health and economiccrisis has caused severe hardships for most people.
Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.
Yet, some brides are still getting married and asking their friends or siblings to give maid of honor speeches.
Nonetheless, not everyone could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.
So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.
Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.
So, please take advantage of it now even if her big day is in the future.
Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video, and the bride, your friends, friends and family, and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.
So, please take advantage of it now even if the wedding day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.
Please note: Your speech draft comes with a proven and simple tip to master your speech or remember your speech just as you want it without carrying a paper with you.
Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise, and clarity!
''Hi Dan,
The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice). Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.
All the best,
Matt''
Please note: Don’t fill out this form if you’re a dishonest individual. This offer is for a limited time.
You don't have to worry about paying our per speech for now.
Forget about money and let’s write something for you. We believe in the values of honesty and integrity and we think you should be happy with our work first.
So, Here Are The Benefits You Get When You Get On Board!
A great speech written by our wedding speech consultants that reflects what you want to say exactly
We coach you on how to use your voice to make your speech very exciting.
We show you a simple but often overlook strategy to rehearse your speech even if you have a very poor memory. This method is used by great speakers like Obama and was used by Abraham Lincoln and his compatriots
The most effective way to get your entire speech into your head without memorizing your speech. Guaranteed to help you even if you have a very poor memory or your memory is like a goldfish…most of our clients still wonder where we got this idea from. This ensures that you don't read off a sheet of paper...
Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise, and clarity!
''Hi Dan,
The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice). Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.
All the best,
Matt''
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