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Mother Of The Groom Speech: The Ultimate Guide To Writing A Great Mother Of The Groom Speech For Your Son And Daughter-In-Law

 

Writing a great mother of the groom speech is definitely a labor of love you shouldn’t take lightly. It sure can be disheartening if not downright scary when your beloved son calls you out of the blue and ask:

 

Mom, can you please do a lovely mother of the groom wedding speech on my big day? When most moms find themselves in such a desperate situation, their defenses kick in and they conclude that the best thing to do is to just say something about their sons; surmising that it’s better to say something than not say nothing at all. 

 

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You know what? Instead of feeling so anxious like a sailor caught up in a sudden storm, you have to breathe in and out to relax your whole body and then ask yourself this simple question:

What Should A Mother Of The Groom Say In Her Speech To Her Son And Daughter-In-Law?

 

Great question! As a mother of the groom wedding speech writer, I have seen how moms read a few mother of the groom speech examples and then hastily put their thoughts and emotions together without figuring out what goes into writing one.

 

 

This very act reminds of a story where two wood cutters were hired to cut down trees on a large farmland. Thinking he was good to go, he hurriedly set out to cut out those massive trees so he could collect his wages and go back home to be his family.

Mother of the groom wedding speech

The second wood chopper was about to start chopping down those trees when he remembered his grandfather’s advice to always sharpen his axe before he cut down any tree. So, he sharpened his tool for several hours on a sharpening stone and cleared the entire field before the other guy did.

 

The moral of the story: when you prepare and plan for anything, you can accomplish more in less time.

 

So, it is with writing a heartfelt mother of the groom wedding speech. You have to prepare and plan for your wedding speech and stick with that plan. That I would say is the secret recipe for success in the speechwriting world.  I am sure you might be wondering how you can do that. It’s simple.

 

Here’s what I recommend you do before you even think of writing your script. I always follow this proven plan when I need content ideas for a mother of the groom speech.

 

Before we dive deep into that, let’s look at one crippling thought that can stand in your way of success even if you feel what you have on paper is the best ever mother of the groom speech. Do you have any idea what that is? Hint: It starts with n and ends with s. If you mentioned, nervousness

Then, congratulations, you have been inducted into the mother of the groom speech club!

 

All joking asides, let’s look at…

 

How To Calm Your Nerves So You Can Deliver Your Mother Of The Groom Speech With Clarity and Confidence.

 

While it can be an unpleasant feeling, pre-performance nervousness is not a problem in and of itself. It shows that you’re only human and is a natural response to an impending situation that indicates an unhealthy mixture of excitement and dread.

To calm your nerves, you should first reflect on these questions:

 

  • Did I ever stumble over my words when I gave a speech?
  • Am I naturally confident person?
  • Do I lack writing skills?
  • Do I stutter when speaking before a small crowd of people?

 

If you’ve ever found yourself in any of these situations, then you have to put the past behind you and work at building your self-esteem and confidence.Here are practical ideas to boosting your self-confidence.

  • Get some sticky notes/post-it-notes and put these words on it:

   ''I would make my son proud with my mother of the groom speech''

 

Then, fix it on a prominent place in your home. This simple but proven goal-setting exercise is a as a constant reminder that you have an obligation to do your very best on his big day. Besides, it will help you overcome procrastination.

 

  • Learn to change your mindset. The difference between those whose excel behind the microphone and those who don’t has to do with perceptions and reality. The perception is that writing a mother of the groom speech is a hard thing to do and the reality that it’s indeed a very a hard thing to do if you don’t know how to get your idea off the ground.

 

  • Learn to be a self-confident person….I repeat….learn to be a self-confident person because it’s a learned skill. Before you throw a stone at me, let’s consider this scenario.

If you are comfortable behind a steering wheel, then you won’t feel nervous driving a car, right?  Likewise, you won’t feel jittery if you are a good cook in the kitchen.

 

It stands then to reason that you are on the edge because you don’t have excellent writing and speaking skills. Isn’t that the case? What that means is that you need to seek help. Once you seek help, you would be taking small but sure steps to becoming a good mother of the speech writer and speaker.

 

Ok…Let’s look at how to do just that. It all comes back to having a plan and following through on that plan. Your writing can be a breeze if you follow like this simple plan:

 

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First, start with the end in mind. What do I exactly mean by this? Start by looking up ideas about how to write a touching mother of the groom speech

 

Here are some cool ways to dig up the right facts. 

If you have ever delivered a mother of the groom speech before, then you can go back for it and read it slowly once more. That way, you can come with fresh, new ideas.

 

Moreover, you can ask for help from friends and family. Memories are the foundation of all great wedding speeches.

 

So, speak to your husband or the groom’s dad, your own parents and other relatives about speech and you will be amazed to know that some of them can help you out as they have good writing skills.

 

Third, this is what I recommend you do if you want come up with ideas so quickly. Just head over to your preferred video sharing platform or search engines and look for mother of the groom speech videos.

 

Youtube.com is my favorite platform because it has so many excellent as well as horrible videos you can watch and learn. Here’s a snapshot of mother of the groom speech videos you will find on that space.

How to write a mother of the groom speech

 

Looking through those results, I saw these excellent clips you can model your speech after it you want to. Please note: As you watch these moms give account of their son’s life, ask yourself these basic questions:

  • Does it align with my goals and vision for my mother of the groom?
  • Can I use bits and pieces of the story line?
  • Do I find them entertaining and useful? And are these ideas I can use for my script?

 

Ok…Now, let’s look at both video samples.

Mother Of The Groom Speech Video Sample # 1

Mother Of The Groom Speech Video Example #2

 

I hope you got some inspiration from watching both short films. Well, I got these ideas from watching them over and over again.

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The fourth item on the list is my favorite resource of all my time. It’s a goldmine for tongue-tied mothers who are really struggling to come up with their own toasts.

Ok…wait a minute…Do you have any idea what I am making reference to? I am sure you know what I am referring to: expertly crafted mother of the groom speech examples.

 

Here’s Why You Should Use Well-Written Mother Of The Groom Speech Examples/Templates

  • You can modify one and adapt it for your personal use
  • You can borrow aspects of it to enrich your mother of the groom speech. Just imagine how memorable your wedding speech would be if you end with this piece of advice I culled from another example:

My wish for the two of you of you is that your
love grows deeper with each passing day. And by this, I am reminded of the quote from the movie: The Notebook. It says that the best love is the kind that awakens the soul; that makes us reach for more, that plants the fire in our hearts and brings peace to our minds.

It's my hope and prayer that you experience this kind of love.That
you have a family, and also tons of adventures.
That you get through the storms, and enjoy
every sunny day. And that you have a wonderful
life together!

 

  • Not only does tapping into them give you peace of mind but it’s also a creative outlet for inspiration.

 

For example, if you can’t seem to get started, you may read through this example slowly. Afterward, we will break it down and analyze it so you can figure out how to map out a vision for your mother of the groom speech.

 

Here it is:

 

Mother Of The Groom Wedding Speech Example/Template

 

Hello everyone! For those of you who don’t me, I am Lucille, very proud mom of the groom. I want to thank each and every one of you for joining us all today to celebrate this wonderful couple and their true love story. Today would have been beautiful regardless, but it wouldn’t have been as lovely without you.

And to Mark and Christie – it’s finally official!! We are now one great big family! Welcome to our crazy clan, and thank you for making Jimmy as well all of us Swains feel welcome into your family too! I look forward to many family celebrations and milestones with the two of you.

Okay, as the mother of the groom, I get to exercise my right to embarrass the groom just a bit. So here goes…

 

Jimmy was a happy baby, and a good toddler. He started walking when he was 8 months old! And when Michael was born, he wanted to carry him. I got lucky.

 

However, When Jimmy was 2 years old, his Uncle put his beer down and Stephen decided he was going to drink it. Suffice it to say, it did not agree with him. I’d love to say that he never picked up another beer for the rest of his life, but that is stretching it. I will say that he waited a long time before he tried it a second time!

 

When he was 6 or 7, he came home telling me that he was this lady’s hero because she had locked her keys in her car and his arms were small enough to reach inside through the crack she’s left in the window and get the door open. That amazed me that he was able to realize that there was an adult who needed assistance, and that he could provide that assistance even though he was a child. That desire to help others never left him.

Mother of the groom speech samples

Once when we were camping, a friend of ours brought a wig. It was a huge afro. Jimmy got up one morning, put on that wig, and went fishing on the other side of the lake. He did it just so that he’d know that as we were looking across the lake at him, all of us were giggling at his enormous hair!

 

When he decided to join the marines, he was 13 years old. I remember asking him why and his answer was that he wanted to protect his country. He signed up for the delayed entry program at 17. He went into the marines at 18, 3 months after graduating high school.

 

He served for 6 years and came home a disabled veteran. But that didn’t stop him. He went on to become the first person in our family to graduate from college, and he did that with honors. He continued his education by getting his masters degree in Geographic Information Science. He made us very proud.

 

There’s a story that I won’t tell in complete detail, but it has to do with Jimmy coming to my rescue and a tenant at a Hotel where I used to work. He protected both of us from a not so nice man who was being very rude to me and very abusive to my tenant.

 

Jimmy just came out and started barking order, and when the man decided he didn’t want to listen…Jimmy threw him through a window to get his attention!

 

When the police arrived, they listened to Jimmy, and told the other guy to shut up and sit on the curb. One of the policemen was also a marine. Jimmy looked at him and said Family First, to which the officer replied “Exactly, Family First!” That was the first time I heard Jimmy say that, but I guessed that the Marines had taught him that phrase. It meant a lot to me.

 

Jimmy has grown to be a smart, generous, compassionate, and thoughtful man. So of course, I was very pleased when he found a loving, kind, respectful, honest and loyal woman like Marina. I’ve waited for 10 years for this day, and I couldn’t be happier!

 

I knew the first time I met her and she would smile every time she talked about Jimmy that she was the one. And today, she is my daughter!

 

My hope for the two of you is that you will continue to grow together, that you will always bring out the best in one another, and that together you will make all your dreams come true. My advice for the two of you is always listen to what the other person is saying. Never take cheap shots during a fight, you know – name calling or bringing up the past.

 

Words can hurt, so be careful with them. But also, don’t keep things bottled up. Just communicate. Tell each other what you are thinking, and how you are feeling. And always say I love you. You can never say that too much.

Okay, with that I will ask everyone to raise their glasses to Jimmy and Marina! May you both live happily ever after!

 

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I am sure you enjoyed reading that example, right? This is an excellent example of a touching mother of the groom speech. Well, anyone can look it over and figure that they can do better than that. But, it is easier than done because a lot goes into writing such a sample.

 

As a mother of the groom speech writer, I have had the opportunity to review some mother of the groom speech draft example and a mistake I see most make is to read through an example and then proceed to write their own.

 

That is not a great way of getting things done, unfortunately. They say behind every great script is a good story. A story about how it was written so you fully grasp the concept behind the write-up.

 

Before you start putting your stories together, you first have to pause and consider a few things like:

  • The kind of wedding speech you would like to make
  • The length/duration of your mother of the groom wedding speech
  • When and where your toast will be delivered

 

Let’s look at each point briefly before we figure out how to easily and quickly write the content of your mother of the groom speech itself.

 

First,

  • The kind of wedding speech you wish to make

From personal observation and analyses, I have come to the conclusion that there are eight kind of mother of the groom speeches.

They include the following:

  • Touching/Emotional mother of the groom speech
  • Dramatic mother of the groom speech: Here’s an example:

  • Poetic mother of the groom speech
  • Joint parents (father and mother) of the groom speech
  • Music/Rap mother of the groom wedding speech: Here’s another example

  • Religious/Christian mother of the groom speech
  • Combo approach: This is really helpful if you really want your presentation to stand out.

 

My homework assignment: Reflect for a moment and ask what kind of toast you would like to make.

 

Second, look at…

  • The duration or length of your mother of the groom speech.

If you ask me what how long or short your mother of the groom speech should be, I will say that the content trumps everything else.

 

I have written long mother of the groom speeches that became a hit and I have also written short ones as well. So, it doesn’t really matter how long or short is. You just have to do a great job and no one would be too bothered about the length of your wedding speech.

 

However, if you have asked to speak for a certain number of minutes, then you have to be a good time keeper.

 

Let’s look at the third idea:

When and Where Will You Be Making Your Speech?

  • At your son’s engagement party?
  • At his rehearsal dinner?
  • At the wedding reception?

 

Having done all that work, you should proceed to create an outline for your mother of the groom speech. 

 

By developing a clear layout for your ideas, you will save yourself from the mental torture of not knowing where to start and how to piece your storyline together.

 

How can you do that? I created this simple outline below from the mother of the groom speech example above.

Mother of the groom speech tips and ideas

Let’s see how it all unfolds.

  • Start with a greeting
  • Mention your name and state your relationship with the bride and groom
  • Thank the wedding guests for coming
  • Start with a hook
  • Talk about your son
  • Talk about your daughter-in-law
  • Share some marriage advice/Share your best wishes
  • Father of the groom toasts to his son and daughter-in-law

 

This is what you have to do next after creating an outline for your speech. Just pick an idea and back it up with some supporting material as you see below.

  • Start with a greeting

Here’s an example:

Hello everyone! For those of you who don’t me, I am Cathy, very proud mom of the groom. I want to thank each and every one of you for joining us all today to celebrate this wonderful couple and their true love story. Today would have been beautiful regardless, but it wouldn’t have been as lovely without you.

 

I think anyone can write this aspect of the speech so let’s move on to something else.

  • Mention your name and state your relationship with the bride and groom

 

This is an example to support it: Hello everyone! For those of you who don’t me, I am Cathy, very proud mom of the groom.

 

  • Thank the wedding guests for coming

Again, here’s an example: I want to thank each and every one of you for joining us all today to celebrate this wonderful couple and their true love story. Today would have been beautiful regardless, but it wouldn’t have been as lovely without you.

 

  • Start off with a hook

The hook of your speech is your gateway to your speech’s universe, and a well-crafted one that can make the difference between a great speech and one that falls flat.  It reels the listener in and makes them want to hear more of what you have to say.  

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The hook or opening lines can be a joke, a funny story about your son’s birth, a personal story, a story about the bride and groom, use mother of the groom speech quotes , sing a well-known love song or share how it feels like giving a speech on your son’s  big day..

Below are two examples:

First, share a mother of the groom joke:

Second, share how you feel about giving your speech:

It’s probably no secret that I have been thinking about my speech

practically since the moment Laura and Bill got engaged last

November. For some moms it’s the dress, but for me….it’s the words.

I’ve been writing in my head jotting down notes on my phone while

staring at the roasted chickens at Costco (truly).

 

Afterwards, you have to do this:

  • Talk about your son

Here, you can share a few memories from when he was born to when he first told you about the bride. If you don’t know where to start, just write down several stories and pick from the pool.

 

From personal observation, most mothers center their anecdotes on these themes:

  • Anecdotes of your son from when he was a little boy so you can create a short mother of the groom speech from those memories.

 

  • Stories that define your bonds
  • ''Proud moments'' stories: Here, you mention why you are so proud of him and back it up with a story or two from his life.

 

A mom once said that her proudest moment was when his son doused out the flames on her barn.

 

Question: What are your most proud moments as a mom? Write them down and figure one which ones you want to use for your mother of the groom speech.

 

That brings us to the next point:

  • Talk briefly about your daughter-in-law

 

Main ideas to consider:

  • Talk about who she is to you and your son
  • Your impressions when your son first brought her home
  • Mention her beautiful traits
  • You may share how she brings out the best in your son

 

That takes us to this:

Culled from the sample are these words:

‘’  My advice for the two of you is always listen to what the other person is saying. Never take cheap shots during a fight, you know – name calling or bringing up the past. Words can hurt, so be careful with them. But also, don’t keep things bottled up. Just communicate. Tell each other what you are thinking, and how you are feeling. And always say I love you. You can never say that too much. ‘’

 

Before you go back to your seat…Just ask everyone to raise their glasses and toast to the bride and groom.

Templates for mother of the groom speech

 

Well, you may end your mother of the groom speech by toasting to the bride and groom. To make it super memorable, you can use add one of these tips.

  • Frame your speech if it’s really good and gift it to the bride and groom
  • Give a thoughtful gift to the bride and groom
  • You may conclude with a poem

Now, I want to ask you this simple question.  Can you really write a very lovely mother of the groom speech with the tips and ideas I have shared on this page?

If you are not too sure  what to do next, then please fill out this very short form and we will help you out even if public speaking is not your thing. 

You really need help…

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  • If you are overwhelmed by the pressures of work and don’t have the time to put together a very meaningful speech, so you can have your peace of mind
  • If you want your family, your son, friends, and wedding guests to shower you with very sincere compliments…just imagine how you will feel
  • If you are not good with words and you feel you’re not a natural writer and you are struggling to find the right words but still want to give a great speech.
  • If you get so scared anytime you’re asked to say something before an audience and you really want to save yourself from any form of embarrassment on your son's big day.
  • If you are not too eloquent or not too sure if you are on the right track.
  • If you absolutely hate speaking in public or feel this is not your thing but you want to make your son feel very proud
  • If you have a day or less to the wedding and you are worried that you might make some horrible mistakes
  • If you are a good speaker but you still want someone to look over or review what you've come up with!

Just imagine leaving your entire presentation in the hands of skilled wedding speech consultants who will take away your pain of spending hours thinking hard and long about what to say and what not to say.

Also, envision being patiently guided to say something that will leave a favorable impression on the mind of your listeners.


And also imagine the thrill and feeling of excitement and pride you’re going to experience when the audience leaps onto their feet and scream and shouts and even sing your praises.


Won’t you love that? I hope you do...

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Why? As you know, the current health and economic crisis has caused severe hardships for most people.

Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.

Yet, some sons are still getting married and asking their moms to give speeches.

''It was perfect Dan.  I changed a few things in the speech. And I had several people come up and tell me how well done it was. I couldn't have done it better. Thanks for your help''- Marilyn, Canada

Nonetheless, not every mother could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.

So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.

Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.

So, please take advantage of it now even if your son’s big day is in the future.

Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video and your son and daughter-in-law and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.  

So, please take advantage of it now even if your son’s big day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.

This is another letter a mom sent to us after we helped her deliver her speech(Please click on it to enlarge if you can't see it) 

Mother of the groom wedding speeches

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Please note: The information collected through the questionnaire is only for the purpose of writing your speech. I wouldn’t even need it if I could read your mind. So, your information is very confidential and no one will know about it.

 

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Ok, I am Interested, What’s the Cost?

You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.

Why? As you know, the current health and economic crisis has caused severe hardships for most people. Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.

Yet, some sons are still getting married and asking their moms to give speeches.

''It was perfect Dan.  I changed a few things in the speech. And I had several people come up and tell me how well done it was. I couldn't have done it better. Thanks for your help''- Marilyn, Canada

Nonetheless, not every mother could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.

So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.

Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.

So, please take advantage of it now even if your son’s big day is in the future.

Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video and your son and daughter-in-law and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.   

So, please take advantage of it now even if your son’s big day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.   

Please note: Your speech draft comes with a proven and simple tip to master your speech or remember your speech just as you want it without carrying a paper with you.

Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise, and clarity!

''Hi Dan,

The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice).  Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.

All the best,

Matt''

Please note: Don’t fill out this form if you’re a dishonest individual. This offer is for a limited time.

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Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise, and clarity!

''Hi Dan,

The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice).  Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.

All the best,

Matt''

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So, CLICK HERE TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT A QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you ca+n have peace of mind and not lose money. The risk is on us!

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Mother Of The Groom Speech Rehearsal Dinner Speech: Just Read This Example To Help You Write A Heartfelt Mother Of The Groom Rehearsal Dinner Speech

 

Do you want to write a heartfelt mother of the groom rehearsal dinner speech for your son and daughter-in-law?

 

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Are you wondering how to do that? You don’t have to worry because I am going to share with you time-tested tips and ideas you should know so you can write the best mother of the groom rehearsal dinner speech for your son.

 

 

Most mothers get stuck when thinking of what to say at the rehearsal dinner. For these moms, you have to be endowed with the gift of words in order to capture the attention of the audience.

 

 

Contrary to what most folks think, that is not always true because I have had the good fortune of working with countless mothers, some of whom are writers, and I can assure you that coming up with a great mother of the groom rehearsal dinner speech , is not entirely dependent on your skillset even though it helps to a certain extent.

 

Mother of the groom rehearsal dinner speech for son

 

All you need to put on a good show is a believing heart that you can make it in spite of all the odds.

 

Many schools of thought advocate writing your pre-wedding speech for your child by looking for the right ideas. But I have a different viewpoint based on my years of experience writing speeches.

 

 

Writing a good mother of the groom rehearsal dinner speech is a lot like a traveler about to embark on a journey. You need to prepare before you set off. The mistake I see most mothers make is to write before they prepare.

 

 

By this, I am actually talking about preparing yourself mentally before you even sit down to write something about your son and daughter-in-law.

 

 

Preparing yourself mentally is the best way to take complete control of the situation, particularly if you are nervous. Nervousness is not a terrible thing per se. So, if the thought of standing before your family and friends send a cold shiver down your spine, you need not worry at all.

 

 

 

Rather, that experience should energize you for success. Having those feelings is a sure sign that you either find this endeavor intimidating or you have goofed some time ago when you were asked to speak before a group of people.

 

 

Whatever the case is, just put the past behind you and make it a daily habit by envisioning yourself speaking confidently before the wedding guests. As you keep at this, your fears will calm down and you will be empowered from within to speak with confidence and clarity even if you are as shy as a squirrel.

 

 

 

Another aspect of this involves putting yourself in the mood for the expression of your thoughts and ideas. This is the most important thing you have to consider before you write your speech since it will make things a whole lot easier for you.

 

To get the right ideas and content to create an outline for your mother of the groom rehearsal dinner speech, you should spend some time and try to figure out what goes into making successful speeches.  Mother of the groom rehearsal speech video is one of the best media for getting ideas that will inspire you to come up with good content.

 

 

So, this is what I want you to do now.  Please watch these two videos and make note of ideas you think can enrich your own speech.

 

Here you go: enjoy and learn from both video clips

 

Mother of the groom rehearsal dinner speech example#1

 

 

Mother of the groom rehearsal dinner speech sample#2

 

 

 

Both clips were very enjoyable to watch and I am sure you learned a thing or two from them. By the way, here is a short mother of the groom rehearsal dinner speech example for your inspiration and guidance.

 

 

Please study it intently as we will look at what went into writing this sample.

 

Here you go:

 

Mother of The Groom Rehearsal Dinner Speech Sample

 

Good evening  I’m Angela, Alex’s mom. Thanks so much for coming. Alex is my second child and it seems like only yesterday that he came into my life and made me feel so proud to be his mom.

 

Alex was a very witty, brave, and funny little boy.

 

Growing up, Alex was very adventurous. When he was a little boy, he loved eating bananas. Once, he got hungry during the middle of the night and decided to find something to eat.

 

I got up only to find that he was nowhere in sight. So, we looked frantically for him and my heart missed lots of beats.

 

 

Shortly after calling the police, we found him sleeping on top of our refrigerator like a log. The brave little boy had apparently climbed on top of the refrigerator to get a banana and realized he couldn’t get down by himself. So, he decided to make it his bed.

 

 

Needless to say, I was so relieved when we found him.  As I reached to get him down, he hugged me tight and said: ‘’I love you, mommy. But have you forgotten that banana is my life? They make me so happy’’

 

 

When Alex got to his teens, he was very outgoing and friendly.  But what I really admired about him was his sense of perseverance, joyful dedication, and unwavering focus.

 

Mother speech for son at rehearsal dinner

 

I remember in his junior and senior years in high school, he worked at McDonald's. He was so friendly, outgoing, and extremely hardworking that his boss and co-workers liked him very much.

 

 

Subsequently, he became a manager just 6 months after being hired. That inspiring success didn’t get to his head as our son still believed he could still dream and reach for the sky!

 

 

He worked hard and eventually got enlisted in the navy where he is currently serving for the last 7 years.

 

Alex, we are so proud of you. As your mom, all I can say that you’re a blessing to me and our entire family. We couldn’t be more proud that you are going to share your whole life with someone he can’t live without.

 

 

Milda, my son is so blessed to have found you. We admire the way you look out for him and make him so happy. You are very supportive and caring and I am very confident that you will be a fantastic wife and mom. I am honored to be your mother-in-law and I look forward to spending many great moments with you and your family in the years ahead.

 

 

Alex and Milda, congratulations and I am sure we’ve all really enjoyed sharing this special evening with you. You’re a beautiful couple and you have what it takes to make your marriage work as you want it.

 

So, always love each other fully, every day and you will look back on this day with a very grateful heart. God bless you and we wish you the very best in the years to come.

 

M5

 

How to Write Your Mother of The Groom Rehearsal Dinner Speech 

 

Most mothers think it’s difficult to draft something like this. But it’s not. If you look at the example once more, you will notice that it has three parts to it. Do you know what they are?

 

 

Ok, I would help you out. If you study it more closely, you will realize that this piece consists of the following elements: body, introduction, and conclusion or the toast.

 

 

Now, let us take it one step at a time. We will focus first on the introduction. Let us take a cursory look at excerpts of the introductory remarks so we can figure out how it is done.

 

‘’ Good evening  I’m Angela, Alex’s mom. Thanks so much for coming. Alex is my second child and it seems like only yesterday that he came into my life and made me feel so proud to be his mom. ‘’

 

 

As you can see from this extract, the introductory remarks comprise of these:

 

  • Name and your relationship to the groom and bride…Angela didn’t mention that.

 

Well, the mother of the groom could have gone further by thanking some individuals who have been a blessing in Alex’s life.

 

Do you remember persons who helped you raise your son? If so, please write down their names and why you want to thank them.

 

For example:

A special thanks go to my father Mike who was and still is our handyman, our advisor, and my pillar of strength and our source of laughter.

 

 

Did you see that?  If someone is deceased or bedridden, you can still mention that. But if you don’t want to say that, you can skip it.

 

 

I always find however that most mothers mention it, particularly if they want to honor the memory of someone who was a huge blessing in his son’s life. Moreover, if you are a single or a widowed mom, you need not mention that explicitly.

 

After expressing appreciation to deserving individuals, you have to start with a bang and that is where most mothers really struggle to come up with the right ideas or content.

 

 

The opening remarks are so important but most mothers give little attention to it because the overwhelming majority of them just don’t know to grab the attention of the wedding guests right from the very start.

 

 

I am happy to share with you some time-tested ideas to help you write a captivating opener.

 

First, you may make your opening lines heartfelt by sharing stories of how you felt when your son was born at the hospital.

 

Here is a short example:

Seeing my son looking so happy takes me back many years to a moment when my heart almost burst with joy, the first time I held my precious baby boy in my arms.

 

Second, you can start on a hilarious note by making fun of the bride and the groom.

 

 

Third, if they have been through a whole lot of tragedies or other setbacks to reach this beautiful milestone, you can talk about it.

 

 

Fourth, you can use any of the following quotes or one-liners to start your rehearsal dinner speech for your son and daughter-in-law.

 

 

''There has never been, nor will there ever be, anything quite so special as the love between the mother and a son.” – Anonymous

 

''A man loves his sweetheart the most, his wife the best, but his mother the longest.” – Irish Proverb

 

“Mothers are inscrutable beings to their sons, always.” – A.E. Coppard

 

''Sons are the anchors of a mother’s life.” – Sophocles

 

''All that I am, or hope to be, I owe to my angel mother.” ― Abraham Lincoln

 

How to write a mother of the groom rehearsal dinner sspeech

 

Using quote # 1…we can start with this touching introduction.

I have had the privilege and honor of sharing my whole life with Chris and I must say that there will never be anything quite as special as the love I have for my only child and son.

 

Did you notice how I used that quote to come up with that? That is how it is done.

 

Now, let us see...

 

How to Write The Content Or Body Of Your Mother of The Groom Rehearsal Dinner Speech

 

We are going to re-look at excerpts of our example to guide us along the way.

 

‘’ Growing up, Alex was very adventurous. When he was a little boy, he loved eating bananas. Once, he got hungry during the middle of the night and decided to find something to eat.

 

I got up only to find that he was nowhere in sight. So, we looked frantically for him and my heart missed lots of beats. ‘’

 

After reviewing samples like this one, most mothers go on to put their thoughts together. Even though that is not wrong per se, it takes the shine out of what would have otherwise been a great presentation.

 

 

Writing a successful mother of the groom rehearsal dinner speech involves these processes:

 

  1. Discovering how such speeches are made which we have already covered above.
  1. Picking a theme for your speech. Depending on who you are, you can decide to compose your message in a witty, dramatic, poetic, hilarious, sentimental, or a combination of two or more styles. From what I know, most mothers of the grooms prefer doing heartfelt and funny speeches.

 

A word of caution here: Make sure you do something you are comfortable with. Just because someone made a funny speech at a rehearsal dinner you were once at doesn’t mean you should opt for that even if you haven’t even made a little child giggle with excitement. Pick something that reflects who you are and stick to it.

 

That way, the wedding guests will see how authentic your toast is.

 

  1. Then, you plan out a structure or outline of your speech by figuring out how you want to it flow or go.

 

For example, you can decide to start from when your son was born until he met the soon-to-be bride or got married.

 

You can also focus on your son’s wonderful character traits and back it up with stories and then say why he will be a loving husband and father.

 

You can also pick a favorite anecdote about your son’s life and use it to write your speech.

 

These are but a few questions that can help you get the right anecdotes. So, please grab your journal and write down answers to the following questions.

 

  • When was your son born?
  • How did you feel when he was born?
  • What were your dreams for him as he grew older?
  • What were the earlier years like?
  • What was he like when he was a toddler or only a little boy?
  • What was he like when he was growing up?

 

Jot down as many stories you can remember about the above questions or anything you wish to add to your speech. Then, put together a rough draft based on your responses.

 

Never mind if what you come up with is as rough as a nutmeg grater. You can smooth the rough edges later by rewriting it over and over.

 

After you have said something about your son, you then turn the spotlight on your daughter-in-law.

 

Here, you can recount things like:

  • How you felt when your son told you about her
  • How you felt when you first met her
  • What you learned about her when you got to know her well
  • Write about her amazing character traits
  • Share why you think she will be an amazing wife and mother
  • Say why you are so happy that she’s joining your family

 

 

Well, if you don’t approve of your son’s choice of spouse, keep it to yourself because the wedding rehearsal dinner is not the venue to share that grievance.

 

Well, if you don’t know her too, well, don’t say that. Instead, you can simply say that she’s a beautiful person and you are sure that she would bring her wonderful qualities to bear as she starts building a life with your precious son.

 

M6 (1)

 

That said, let us see

How to Write The Ending Of Your Mother of The Groom Rehearsal Dinner Speech

 

Look at how the writer concluded carefully and tell me what your views are.

‘’ congratulations and I am sure we’ve all really enjoyed sharing this special evening with you…So, always love each other fully, every day and you will look back on this day with a very grateful heart. God bless you and we wish you the very best in the years to come.

 

 

Any feedback? That was a simple ending to a simple speech. Just as the introduction should capture the attention of the audience, your conclusion too should end with a bang because it’s what the guests might take home with them.

 

 

If you do a great job at it, it will remain in the minds of the wedding guests for a long time to come.

 

I am sure you would like to wrap up on a gracious note, so, I am going to share with you proven tips that can help you finish strong.

 

  • First, you can simply thank the guests for their time and attention.

 

  • If you have been married for long, you can offer a sweet word of advice based on your own personal marriage experiences. Quotes like those you will find below can make your account much sweeter

 

''Husband and wife relationships are like the relationship between Tom and Jerry. Though they are teasing and fighting, but can’t live without each other.” – Unknown

 

“A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person.” – Mignon McLaughlin

 

“A great marriage is not when the ‘perfect couple’ comes together. It is when an imperfect couple learns to enjoy their differences.” – Dave Meurer

 

“Never marry the one you can live with, marry the one you cannot live without.” – Unknown

 

“A good marriage is one which allows for change and growth in the individuals and in the way they express their love.” – Pearl S. Buck

 

  • If you are a deeply religious person or a Christian, you can craft a short faith-based message with some popular bible verses as seen below

 

Song of Solomon 8:6-7: "Set me as a seal upon your heart, as a seal upon your arm, for love is strong as death, jealousy is fierce as the grave. Its flashes are flashes of fire, the very flame of the LORD. Many waters cannot quench love, neither can floods drown it. If a man offered for love all the wealth of his house, he would be utterly despised."

 

 

 Ecclesiastes 4:9: "Two are better than one because they have a good return for their labor: If either of them falls down, one can help the other up. But pity anyone who falls and has no one to help them up. Also, if two lie down together, they will keep warm. But how can one keep warm alone?"

 

 

Proverbs 3:3-4: "Let love and faithfulness never leave you; bind them around your neck, write them on the tablet of your heart. Then you will win favor and a good name in the sight of God and man."

 

 

  • You can also wax poetic by ending with a love or marriage poem. You may use this poem by the great George Elliot.

 

To Be One with Each Other, by George Eliot

What greater thing is there for two human souls,
than to feel that they are joined for life -
to strengthen each other in all labour,
to rest on each other in all sorrow,
to minister to each other in all pain,
to share with each other in all gladness,
to be one with each other in the silent unspoken memories.

 

Taking inspiration from this verse, I quickly wrote this short example:

Love is the best gift to any couple and there’s no greater joy than finding that special person to bear your heart out in good times and the bad. You have found each other to help each other and make memories together because there’s no power greater than two souls united by the bond of love.

 

Did you see how I did that? That’s how poetry is used to enrich rehearsal dinner toast.

 

  • If you have a good singing voice, then you can probably sing that example I just wrote to the rhythm or melody of a well-known song and you will be loved and admired for that.

 

Mothers rehearsal dinner toast samples or examples

 

These are just a few cute ways to go about it. So feel free to do what you think is right for you or even come up with your own style and you will be proud you did.

P.S: Is the thought of giving you a great mother of the groom rehearsal dinner speech toast keeping you up at night? It shouldn’t if you just follow what most moms do. By following this simple plan that's guaranteed to help you write a great mom speech like the one you read above.

Claire was quite skeptical when she came to us but we kept assuring what she will make her son and family proud-and this is what she sent over after the wedding was over

'' Hello Dan, their wedding went very well. The usual stress beforehand for the couple organizing the event but all things to do went so smoothly. I also like to say that I'm so proud of my speech, almost got a standing ovation, lol! I'm so glad I've found you. I will definitely recommend you to my friends and family in future weddings. I wish you the very best.''-  Claire, New Zealand

Want to know how she did just that? She got on board our wedding speech program and one of our talented speech consultants helped her out.

 

Want to get on board? You should by first filling out this simple form.

This is letter a mom sent to us after we helped her deliver her speech(Please click on it to enlarge if you can't see it)

Moms idea

Ok, Is This Offer For Me?

  • Yes, if you are expecting nothing less than a very special, beautiful, unique, and memorable speech.
  • Don’t have much time to write a perfect speech just as you want it because of work demands and other life's pressure or even sick? Then, let’s take care of it and the guests will definitely sing your praises--we have done it for so many others and it's your turn now!
  • Yes, if you are overwhelmed by the pressures of work and don’t have the time to put together a very meaningful speech, so you can have your peace of mind
  • Yes, if you want your family, your son, friends, and wedding guests to shower you with very sincere compliments…just imagine how you will feel
  • Yes, if you are not good with words and you feel you’re not a natural writer and you are struggling to find the right words but still want to give a great speech.
  • Yes, you get so scared anytime you’re asked to say something before an audience and you really want to save yourself from any form of embarrassment on your son's big day.
  • Yes, if you are not too eloquent or not too sure if you are on the right track.
  • Yes, if you absolutely hate speaking in public or feel this is not your thing but you want to make your son feel very proud
  • Yes, if you have a day or less to the wedding and you are worried that you might make some horrible mistakes
  • Yes, if you are a good speaker but you still want someone to look over or review what you've come up with!

Just imagine leaving your entire presentation in the hands of skilled wedding speech consultants who will take away your pain of spending hours thinking hard and long about what to say and what not to say.


Also, envision being patiently guided to say something that will leave a favorable impression on the mind of your listeners.


And also imagine the thrill and feeling of excitement and pride you’re going to experience when the audience leaps onto their feet and scream and shouts and even sing your praises.


Won’t you love that? I hope you do...

Wedding not too far away? Or happening in less than 24 hours? Trust me, we can deliver! it doesn’t matter if your speech is today, tomorrow, next week, next month ,next year,... we can make things work for you  

 

Ok, I am Interested, What’s the Cost?

You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.

Why? As you know, the current health and economic crisis has caused severe hardships for most people.

Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.

Yet, some sons are still getting married and asking their moms to give speeches.

''It was perfect Dan.  I changed a few things in the speech. And I had several people come up and tell me how well done it was. I couldn't have done it better. Thanks for your help''- Marilyn, Canada

Nonetheless, not every mother could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.

So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.

Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.

So, please take advantage of it now even if your son’s big day is in the future.

Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video and your son and daughter-in-law and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.  

So, please take advantage of it now even if your son’s big day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.

This is another letter a mom sent to us after we helped her deliver her speech(Please click on it to enlarge if you can't see it) 

Mother of the groom wedding speeches

Oh Ok, How Then Do I Get Started Since I Want To Get On Board Right Away?

Ok, here’s how it works

All you have to do RIGHT NOW is to click on this link to receive an easy-to-fill-in questionnaire via email. Check your email a few hours after you’ve submitted your request.

So,

1)CLICK HERE  NOW TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT THIS QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind!

  1. After that, we will send you a very short questionnaire to fill out via email! You only have to check your email a few hours after you have made your request
  1. Then, you fill out the questionnaire sent through your email, and please have it sent back to us…
  1. We will confirm receipt of it…If something is not too clear, we will ask you to clarify….
  1. If not, we will send you a wonderful draft in a couple of hours if this on very short notice….If not, after a few days
  1. Then, you look it over and tell us if you are okay with it or you want to amend or revise it till you are happy with it--although we always get it right even with the first draft.
  2. Then, we ask you to pay for it.

Please note: The information collected through the questionnaire is only for the purpose of writing your speech. I wouldn’t even need it if I could read your mind. So, your information is very confidential and no one will know about it.

 

Satisfaction guaranteed for mother of the groom

Just a reminder of what you pay after it’s duly completed.

Ok, I am Interested, What’s the Cost?

You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.

Why? As you know, the current health and economic crisis has caused severe hardships for most people. Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.

Yet, some sons are still getting married and asking their moms to give speeches.

''It was perfect Dan.  I changed a few things in the speech. And I had several people come up and tell me how well done it was. I couldn't have done it better. Thanks for your help''- Marilyn, Canada

Nonetheless, not every mother could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.

So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.

Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.

So, please take advantage of it now even if your son’s big day is in the future.

Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video and your son and daughter-in-law and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.   

So, please take advantage of it now even if your son’s big day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.   

Please note: Your speech draft comes with a proven and simple tip to master your speech or remember your speech just as you want it without carrying a paper with you.

Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise, and clarity!

''Hi Dan,

The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice).  Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.

All the best,

Matt''

Please note: Don’t fill out this form if you’re a dishonest individual. This offer is for a limited time.

So, CLICK HERE TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT A QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind and not lose money. The risk is on us!

You don't have to worry about paying our per speech for now.

Forget about money and let’s write something for you. We believe in the values of honesty and integrity and we think you should be happy with our work first.

So, Here Are The Benefits You Get When You Get On Board!

  • A great speech written by our wedding speech consultants that reflects what you want to say exactly
  • We coach you on how to use your voice to make your speech very exciting.
  • We show you a simple but often overlook strategy to rehearse your speech even if you have a very poor memory. This method is used by great speakers like Obama and was used by Abraham Lincoln and his compatriots
  • The most effective way to get your entire speech into your head without memorizing your speech. Guaranteed to help you even if you have a very poor memory or your memory is like a gold fish…most of our clients still wonder where we got this idea from. This ensures that you don't read off a sheet of paper...

Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise, and clarity!

''Hi Dan,

The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice).  Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.

All the best,

Matt''

  • Ways to include humor in your speech and what it takes to do so

So, CLICK HERE TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT A QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you ca+n have peace of mind and not lose money. The risk is on us!

Remember, you have to see your speech first before you pay. So, you can relax and let us sweat it out at our expense!

 


Mother of the groom writing help and assistance(Just Scroll Down This Page For Help From The Experts)

 

Dear Anxious Mom,

I am Christie,

I know you are dreaming of giving a very beautiful and heartfelt wedding speech.

 

Granted, it’s not so easy to write a great one let alone face a terrifying audience.

 

Like you, I badly wanted to give a great speech that will make my son proud and show him and the guests how much I really love him.

 

But, juggling work and family meant I had little time to spare.

 

But I was obsessed with writing a beautiful speech yet finding the right words was like pulling out a child’s tooth.

 

I Was Feeling Completely Helpless

I knew the audience wanted me to do my very best because I was well known for my speaking abilities.

But, I couldn’t put my thoughts together in a very compelling way.

 

That was a bit puzzling because I had given so many speeches.

But, I never knew wedding speeches were very different.

I spent countless hours, sometimes deep into the night, but things didn’t work out as I had hoped for.

 

Thank God!  This Helped Me Out!

 

Prior to the wedding of my first son in 2015,  I was so nervous that I just couldn’t figure out how to write a very meaningful speech, and that’s when I began to seek someone to help me so I could have peace of mind.

 

In the process, I stumbled on this page you are currently reading and I was skeptical when Dan and his team said they could help give a great wedding speech even if I hate speaking in public.

 

Well, I took a leap of faith when I found that I didn’t have to pay first to get my speech and that allayed my fears.

 

Quickly, I got started by first filling out this form as I really wanted to make a difference this time.

Dan and his team delivered what they promised and they even gave me tips on how to speak well which helped a lot.

 

When I was called to deliver my speech,  I spoke with poise, flair, and confidence and got so many compliments!!!!

My son was proud of me and someone said to me that I was an inspiration.

Dan and his guys asked me how my speech went afterward and this was the note I sent them.

Please see the image below

 

Mother of the groom speech ideas

Dear Loving Mom,

I am Dan and I run this blog.

Believe it or not, Christine came back when her last son was getting married in 2018 and this is the email we got from her.

Mom of the groom

Christine, is not the only one we’ve helped.

 

There are so many others as well. So, your case is not hopeless. We can help you just as we helped others. Wedding not too far away? Or happening in less than 24 hours? Trust me, we can deliver! it doesn’t matter if your speech is today, tomorrow, next week, next month ,next year,... we can make things work for you  

 

Listen, all these persons you have just listened to are mere mortals like you and me and many were scared to death about this whole wedding speech thing.

 

But they all decided to take action by asking our wedding speech consultants to help them give incredible wedding speeches and we didn’t let them down.

 

Your son’s wedding is a very special event and you-his dad- should not let him down in any way else he will regret asking you to give a wedding speech.

 

That’s why we are here to help you give a wedding speech that will blow everyone away-even if you are an experienced speaker or you just hate speaking before an audience.

 

Want to get on board? You should by first filling out this short form. 

Ok, Is This Offer For Me?

  • Yes, if you are expecting nothing less than a very special, beautiful, unique and memorable speech.

 

  • Don’t have much time to write a perfect speech just as you want it because of work demands and other life's pressure or even sick? Then, let’s take care of it and the guests will definitely sing your praises--we have done it for so many others and it's your turn now!

 

  • Yes, if you are overwhelmed by the pressures of work and don’t have the time to put together a very meaningful speech, so you can have peace of mind

 

  • Yes, if you want your family, children, friends, and wedding guests to shower you with very sincere compliments…just imagine how you will feel

 

  • Yes, if you are not good with words and you feel you’re not a natural writer and you are struggling to find the right words but still want to give a great speech.

 

  • Yes, you get so scared anytime you’re asked to say something before an audience and you really want to save yourself from any form of embarrassment on your son’s big day.

 

  • Yes, if you are not too eloquent or not too sure if you are on the right track.

 

  • Yes, if you absolutely hate speaking in public or feel this is not your thing but you want to make your son feel very proud

 

  • Yes, if you have a day or less to the wedding and you are worried that you might make some horrible mistakes

 

  • Yes, if you are a good speaker but you still want someone to look over or review what you've come up with!

Just imagine leaving your entire presentation in the hands of skilled wedding speech consultants who will take away your pain of spending hours thinking hard and long about what to say and what not to say.


Also, envision being patiently guided to say something that will leave a favorable impression on the mind of your listeners.


And also imagine the thrill and feeling of excitement and pride you’re going to experience when the audience leaps onto their feet and scream and shouts and even sing your praises.


Won’t you love that? I hope you do...

Wedding not too far away? Or happening in less than 24 hours? Trust me, we can deliver! it doesn’t matter if your speech is today, tomorrow, next week, next month ,next year,... we can make things work for you  

 

 

Ok, I am Interested, What’s the Cost?

You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.

Why? As you know, the current health crisis has caused severe hardships for most people.

Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.

Yet, some sons are still getting married and asking their moms to give speeches.

''It was perfect Dan.  I changed a few things in the speech. And I had several people come up and tell me how well done it was. I couldn't have done it better. Thanks for your help''- Marilyn, Canada

Nonetheless, not every mother could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.

So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.

Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.

So, please take advantage of it now even if your son’s big day is in the future.

Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video and your son and daughter-in-law and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.  

So, please take advantage of it now even if your son’s big day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.   

Please note: Your speech draft comes with a proven and simple tip to master your speech or remember your speech just as you want it without carrying a paper with you.

Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise, and clarity!

''Hi Dan,

The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice).  Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.

All the best,

Matt''

Please note: Don’t fill out this form if you’re a dishonest individual. This offer is for a limited time.

So, CLICK HERE TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT A QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind and not lose money. The risk is on us!

You don't have to worry about paying our per speech for now.

Forget about money and let’s write something for you. We believe in the values of honesty and integrity and we think you should be happy with our work first.

So, Here Are The Benefits You Get When You Get On Board!

  • A great speech written by our wedding speech consultants that reflects what you want to say exactly
  • We coach you on how to use your voice to make your speech very exciting.
  • We show you a simple but often overlook strategy to rehearse your speech even if you have a very poor memory. This method is used by great speakers like Obama and was used by Abraham Lincoln and his compatriots
  • The most effective way to get your entire speech into your head without memorizing your speech. Guaranteed to help you even if you have a very poor memory or your memory is like a goldfish…most of our clients still wonder where we got this idea from. This ensures that you don't read off a sheet of paper...

Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise, and clarity!

''Hi Dan,

The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice).  Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.

All the best,

Matt''

  • Ways to include humor in your speech and what it takes to do so

So, CLICK HERE TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT A QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind and not lose money. The risk is on us!

Remember, you have to see your speech first before you pay. So, you can relax and let us sweat it out at our expense!

 

Mother Of The Groom Speech Rehearsal Dinner Speech Samples

Did you know that mother of the groom rehearsal dinner speech samples can help you write a memorable mother of the groom dinner speech?

Please keep reading to find out how.

Amanda had three wonderful boys and her dream as they grew older was to see them get married to wonderful ladies.

Mom of the groom rehearsal dinner speech tips and ideas

 

She, however, wasn’t around to see her first and second sons get married because she was involved in a fatal accident and that kept her in the hospital bed for many years.

 

When his last son decided to take his fiancée to the altar, she was back on her feet and her son asked her to give a speech at the rehearsal dinner.

She had never given a speech her whole life and this kept her up at night.

 

A few days before the event, she hastily put something together and this is what she said that night:

Good evening and welcome everyone. I am Linda, Aaron’s mother.

Aaron has always held a special place in my heart.

It seems like only yesterday, he came into my life and made me feel like the luckiest mom ever.

From that moment on, my hope and prayer were to love and raise him to be a wonderful man someday.

 

M6 (1)

 

Growing up, you were very active and fun to be with and that hasn’t changed over the years.

Whether Aaron was acting up and making faces, telling jokes, pranking someone, or drawing funny pictures, the little boy really lit my heart with joy.

 

I remember he was so easy-going that my girlfriends and younger children loved to always hang with him.

Even before those kids were able to talk or get out and move on their own much, he would take care of them and make sure they were happy and not be crying in their pumpkin seats.

 

Sometimes, he would take them for rides. Aaron loved to work with his hands and it was a great joy to see him try new things. His love for cars formed when he reached his teens.

 

 

The years have come and gone pretty fast and he’s grown into a very respectful, thoughtful, compassionate, responsible, selfless, charming, witty, and sensitive young man.

 

Aaron, we are so proud of the wonderful man you’ve become and how far life has brought you.

 

I thank God for giving you to me and for giving me the opportunity to love unconditionally.


You came into my life and saved me in so many ways.


You are also wonderful in every way and I love that you truly show me every day how much you love and need me.

Your selfless nature, and unconditionally love for people is so admirable and I know for sure that will take you far in life.

 

 

Even though my love for you runs so deep, I am so excited that Cmantha now has your heart and can’t wait to see what great things you will accomplish with Cmantha, for your own children.

 

Ladies and gentlemen, Aaron and Cmantha have been friends for a very long time. They met way back in high school.

I first met her when she came over to swim at our house. The more I got to know her, the more I realized she was a very good person for my son.

 

As time went on, I watched how she treated Aaron with love and brought out the best in him and I secretly hoped that someday they will tie the knot.

 

Today, my dream has come true and I am ecstatic that it's all finally official and Cmantha’s now my daughter. 

 

 

Cmantha, you have no idea how much you mean to us. Words can’t just describe the love we have for you.

 

As a family, we’ve been through ups and downs. But, through it all, you stood by us and showered us with endless love. It feels so good to know that you’ve married Kyle.

 

Not only are you so beautiful, but you’re so strong, intelligent, respectful, compassionate, patient, empathetic, self- confident and you love children.

 

I am confident that you will be a good wife and mom! We love you and on behalf of my family, I would like to welcome you and your family into ours with open arms.

 

Aaron and Cmantha, for years, you both have cherished each other with every passing moment. You truly complement each other.

 

As you begin your lives together, I pray you stay blessed and I wish you nothing but happy moments and endless love. God bless you both

 

M5

 

Wouldn’t it great if you write something close to that or even better when your son calls you out of the blue and asks you to say something short and sweet at the rehearsal dinner?

 

 

Would you pass that up or make him proud? I know you’re wondering how you’re going to do that since you probably are someone who hates speaking in front of a small audience.

 

Mother of the groom speech at rehearsal dinner

 

Wipe Your Tears Because...

 

Whatever your case is, don’t worry because I am going to show you how you can use the example above to write a beautiful mom of the groom's speech that captures the sentiments of your heart.

 

Before we do, please take note of this. Before you even write your mother of the groom rehearsal dinner speech, you have to work on healing yourself from the inside out.

 

You see, the vast majority of mothers get mentally handicapped due to past speaking failures and they often get stuck in the writing process.

 

What that means is that you need to work on yourself if you are not a confident speaker or are scared that your presentation is going to be a déjà vu of past failures.

 

Believe it or not, if you have been through the tortuous agony of addressing a few people, you are definitely going to hear a lot of tormenting voices in your head as soon as you make up your mind to say something about your son and daughter-in-law.

 

Among many things, this domineering voice will remind you of your insecurities like you are not good with words or don’t have the guts to speak in public. What you do with that voice will reinforce your anxieties or otherwise. 

 

If you want to excel, you have to dwell on the positive side of things by first considering that you have another chance to make up for your losses. Your son, your family, as well as the wedding guests, are not expecting a perfect speech from your lips.

 

All that they want to hear from you is memorable stories about your son’s life presented in a very loving way. I know you have lots of fond memories to share with everyone. So, put behind you whatever experiences you have been through and envision how well this is going to be.

 

As you keep at it,  you will be empowered from within even if you are as shy as a deer in the headlights and you will be able to practice speaking with confidence.

 

As a mother of the groom wedding speechwriter, I am often asked by most moms how to get the best ideas on how to write a great mother of the groom rehearsal dinner speech.

It’s actually simple than most mothers think. One fine place for getting rich ideas most mothers overlook is on youtube.com et al.

 

If you have not watched at least two mother of the groom rehearsal dinner speech videos, then you shouldn’t bother to draft your speech because it would be hard to know how to start. What that means is that you need to see videos to get a good grasp of how to make your thoughts flow smoothly.

 

I scoured the internet and found these pieces. They are to give you an idea of what the narration sounds like.

My suggestion is to watch both clips like two or three times and put down notes and ideas you want to incorporate into your final delivery.

 

Mother of the Groom Rehearsal Dinner Speech Video Example# 1

 

 

Mother of the Groom Rehearsal Dinner Speech Video Example# 2

 

 

Which one did you enjoy listening to the most? I love both videos but the second story was my favorite.

That said,  I promise to review Linda’s sample speech so we can figure out how she wrote it.

 

So, let’s take the most important elements of the speech one step at a time.

 

First, let’s look carefully at the introduction or opening remarks.

Aaron has always held a special place in my heart.

It seems like only yesterday, he came into my life and made me feel like the luckiest mom ever.

From that moment on, my hope and prayer was to love and raise him to be a wonderful man someday.

 

My comments/your take-home writing ideas: Do you think that was a great intro? I think so but there are some vital elements missing here.

Liza should have added these to her introductory remarks:

  • She could have mentioned the father of the groom if he’s not deceased
  • Her name and who she’s to Aaron and the bride
  • Greet the audience and thank everyone for coming
  • She could have mentioned certain people and thank them for contributing to his son’s upbringing other the years….People like Aaron’s grandparents, her husband, and other members of the family.

 

Cmantha’s parents deserve some recognition in that part of her speech.

 

Putting all of that together would have turned into this:

Good evening and welcome everyone!

I’m Linda, proud mom of the groom.

It gives me great joy and honor to see the smiling faces of so many people who love and cherish this wonderful couple.

I would like to thank everyone who has come from near and far to share in our joy and happiness.

I would like to take this moment to thank Nani for her…

 

Now, let’s get back to see other sections of Liza’s speech. Please study it carefully.

 

Growing up, you were very active and fun to be with and that hasn’t changed over the years.

Whether Aaron was acting up and making faces, telling jokes, pranking someone, or drawing funny pictures, the little boy could really lit your heart with joy.

I remember he was so easy-going that my girlfriends and younger children loved to always hang with him.

 

Even before those kids were able to talk or get out and move on their own much, he would take care of them and make sure they were happy and not be crying in their pumpkin seats. Sometimes, he would take them for rides.

 

My comments/your take-home writing ideas:

Right after the introduction of the speech, we segue into Aaron's formative years.

Here’s what I want you to do right now.

Go grab your paper and pen and provide answers to the following questions:

  • What was your son like when he was a little kid?
  • What did he like doing the most?
  • Do you remember any funny thing he liked doing?
  • What was his favorite past time or his hobbies?
  • How did you feel when he was growing up?

 

Dear Mom,

Don’t put down anything negative as you write down memories.

Having scribbled down something brief, go back to the template I gave you at the onset of this piece and study how the ideas flow and do likewise.

 

Okay, let’s go on.

The years have come and gone pretty fast and he’s grown into a very respectful, thoughtful, compassionate, responsible, selfless, charming, witty, and sensitive young man.

Kyle, we are so proud of the wonderful man you’ve become and how far life has brought you. I thank God for giving you to me and for giving me the opportunity to love unconditionally.

You came into my life and saved me in so many ways. You are also wonderful in every way and I love that you truly show me every day how much you love and need me.

Your selfless nature, and unconditionally love for people is so admirable and I know for sure that will take you far in life.

 

My comments/your take-home writing ideas: Please, I want you to scroll up and read that brief extract once more. What can you say about that?

 

Did you notice how Linda the writer incorporated the following ideas into that part of her mom of the groom rehearsal dinner speech?

 

  • How proud she is of her son

 

  • How her son’s character has evolved over the years

 

  • How she sings her sons' praises

 

You can model your speech after that and spice it up with….

 

  • His achievements over the years if you don't want to sound like you're bragging
  • How he helped make a difference in your life and the whole family

 

Not too long ago, I wrote a speech for a very loving woman from Canada and she told me that her son values ''family over everything'' and she wanted to share that with the wedding guests.

Mother of the groom rehearsal dinner speech samples

After thinking hard about that, I ended up writing this:

 

Mr. F.O. E is very sensitive. For those of you know wondering what F.E.O means…it stands for ''family over everything.'' Mr. F.O.E makes every one of the family feel loved and special whenever we meet….

 

I hope by now you get an idea where this is going... Ok...,let’s go on:

 

Ladies and gentlemen, Aaron and Cmantha have been friends for a very long time. They met way back in high school.

I first met her when she came over to swim at our house. The more I got to know her, the more I realized she was a very good person for my son.

 

As time went on, I watched how she treated Aaron with love and brought out the best in him and I secretly hoped that someday they will tie the knot.

 

Today, my dream has come true and I am just completely ecstatic that it's all finally official and Cmantha’s now my daughter.  Cmantha, you have no idea how much you mean to us. Words can’t just describe the love we have for you.

 

As a family, we’ve been through ups and downs. But, through it all, you stood by us and showered us with endless love.

It feels so good to know that you’ve married Kyle. Not only are you so beautiful, but you’re so strong, intelligent, respectful, compassionate, patient, empathetic, self- confident and you love children.

 

I am confident that you will be a good wife and mom! We love you and on behalf of my family, I would like to welcome you and your family into ours with open arms.

 

M3

 

My comments/your take-home writing ideas:

 

After you have said something about your son, you then tell how the couple met if you know about that story. 

Just put down answers to the following questions so you can say something about your daughter-in-law.

  • How did you feel when you met your future daughter in law?
  • What were your impressions of her as the days went by?
  • What memories do you have of her…it could be a road trip, vacation tip, family get together your entire family embarked on and how she was very helpful

 

That reminds me of a speech I once wrote. The mom of the groom loved the bride very much that she wanted to insert into her speech how her precious daughter-in-law stood by the entire family throughout the years and including that moved me to tears because she was a very supportive lady.

 

You may walk down memory lane and inject into the presentation the positive impact the bride has had on your life.

 

Here are Linda's concluding remarks:

 

Aaron and Cmantha, for years, you both have cherished each other with every passing moment.

 

You truly complement each other. As you begin your lives together, I pray you stay blessed and I wish you nothing but happy moments and endless love. God bless you both

 

My comments/your take-home writing ideas :

What you say before you take your seat will linger on the minds of the couple and the wedding guests, so you should put in a great deal of thought into writing the concluding remarks of your mother of the groom rehearsal dinner speech.

 

 

It’s very common for most mothers to...

  • Dispense advice on marriage like this one:

 

Aaron and Cmantha, as you begin this endless journey, always bear in mind that together you are a unique team and you can make your dreams come true as long as you have the same mind, heart, and spirit.

 

You may use any of the following quotes to spice up your speech based on your experience of being married.

 

  • A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person.” – Mignon McLaughlin

 

  • “A great marriage is not when the ‘perfect couple’ comes together. It is when an imperfect couple learns to enjoy their differences.” – Dave Meurer

 

 

  • “Never marry the one you can live with, marry the one you cannot live without.” – Unknown

 

  • “A good marriage is one which allows for change and growth in the individuals and in the way they express their love.” – Pearl S. Buck

 

  • “Marriage is not about age; it’s about finding the right person.” – Sophia Bush

 

  • Say what your best wishes are for the marriage. Here are some examples:

 

  • "Best wishes to you both as you start your life together."

 

  • "Lots of love and happiness to you both on this exciting and joyful day for our family."

 

  • "Lots of love to you both.  May you have a marriage full of love and happiness!"

 

  •   You can end with a poem about love or marriage or even a wise quote.

 

  • If you are a Christian, you can get some good bible verses to write faith-based advice for the couple. Here are a couple of scriptures you can use.

 

“Delight yourself in the Lord, and He will give you the desires of your heart.” Psalm 37:4

 

“He who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the Lord.” Proverbs 18:22

 

Again, if two lie together, they keep warm, but how can one keep warm alone? And though a man might prevail against one who is alone, two will withstand him-a a threefold cord is not quickly broken.” Ecclesiastes 4:9-12

 

An excellent wife who can find? She is far more precious than jewels. The heart of her husband trusts in her, and he will have no lack of gain. She does him good, and not harm, all the days of her life.” Proverbs 31:10-12

 

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P.S: Did you know it takes most moms less than an hour to write very beautiful mother of the groom rehearsal dinner speeches? Have you ever considered it? Want to write and give a great wedding speech but can't seem to get started because you don't know the exact words to use?

Or not too sure if what you intend writing will be well received by the guests?

Let's help you make your son, husband, and family proud and let the wedding guests say great things about your speech.

Claire was quite skeptical when she came to us but we kept assuring what she will make her son and family proud-and this is what she sent over after the wedding was over.

'' Hello Dan, their wedding went very well. The usual stress beforehand for the couple organizing the event but all things to do went so smoothly. I also like to say that I'm so proud of my speech, almost got a standing ovation, lol! I'm so glad I've found you. I definitely recommend you to my friends and family in the future weddings. I wish you the very best.''-  Claire, New Zealand

 

Want to know how she did just that? She got on board our wedding speech program and one of our talented speech consultants helped her out.

 

Want to get on board? You should by first filling out this simple form.

This is letter a mom sent to us after we helped her deliver her speech(Please click on it to enlarge if you can't see it)

Moms idea

Ok, Is This Offer For Me?

  • Yes, if you are expecting nothing less than a very special, beautiful, unique, and memorable speech.
  • Don’t have much time to write a perfect speech just as you want it because of work demands and other life's pressure or even sick? Then, let’s take care of it and the guests will definitely sing your praises--we have done it for so many others and it's your turn now!
  • Yes, if you are overwhelmed by the pressures of work and don’t have the time to put together a very meaningful speech, so you can have your peace of mind
  • Yes, if you want your family, your son, friends, and wedding guests to shower you with very sincere compliments…just imagine how you will feel
  • Yes, if you are not good with words and you feel you’re not a natural writer and you are struggling to find the right words but still want to give a great speech.
  • Yes, you get so scared anytime you’re asked to say something before an audience and you really want to save yourself from any form of embarrassment on your son's big day.
  • Yes, if you are not too eloquent or not too sure if you are on the right track.
  • Yes, if you absolutely hate speaking in public or feel this is not your thing but you want to make your son feel very proud
  • Yes, if you have a day or less to the wedding and you are worried that you might make some horrible mistakes
  • Yes, if you are a good speaker but you still want someone to look over or review what you've come up with!

Just imagine leaving your entire presentation in the hands of skilled wedding speech consultants who will take away your pain of spending hours thinking hard and long about what to say and what not to say.


Also, envision being patiently guided to say something that will leave a favorable impression on the mind of your listeners.


And also imagine the thrill and feeling of excitement and pride you’re going to experience when the audience leaps onto their feet and scream and shouts and even sing your praises.


Won’t you love that? I hope you do...

Wedding not too far away? Or happening in less than 24 hours? Trust me, we can deliver! it doesn’t matter if your speech is today, tomorrow, next week, next month ,next year,... we can make things work for you  

 

Ok, I am Interested, What’s the Cost?

You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.

Why? As you know, the current health and economic crisis has caused severe hardships for most people.

Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.

Yet, some sons are still getting married and asking their moms to give speeches.

''It was perfect Dan.  I changed a few things in the speech. And I had several people come up and tell me how well done it was. I couldn't have done it better. Thanks for your help''- Marilyn, Canada

Nonetheless, not every mother could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.

So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.

Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.

So, please take advantage of it now even if your son’s big day is in the future.

Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video and your son and daughter-in-law and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.  

So, please take advantage of it now even if your son’s big day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.

This is another letter a mom sent to us after we helped her deliver her speech(Please click on it to enlarge if you can't see it) 

Mother of the groom wedding speeches

Oh Ok, How Then Do I Get Started Since I Want To Get On Board Right Away?

Ok, here’s how it works

All you have to do RIGHT NOW is to click on this link to receive an easy-to-fill-in questionnaire via email. Check your email a few hours after you’ve submitted your request.

So,

1)CLICK HERE  NOW TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT THIS QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind!

  1. After that, we will send you a very short questionnaire to fill out via email! You only have to check your email a few hours after you have made your request
  1. Then, you fill out the questionnaire sent through your email, and please have it sent back to us…
  1. We will confirm receipt of it…If something is not too clear, we will ask you to clarify….
  1. If not, we will send you a wonderful draft in a couple of hours if this on very short notice….If not, after a few days
  1. Then, you look it over and tell us if you are okay with it or you want to amend or revise it till you are happy with it--although we always get it right even with the first draft.
  2. Then, we ask you to pay for it.

Please note: The information collected through the questionnaire is only for the purpose of writing your speech. I wouldn’t even need it if I could read your mind. So, your information is very confidential and no one will know about it.

 

Satisfaction guaranteed for mother of the groom

Just a reminder of what you pay after it’s duly completed.

Ok, I am Interested, What’s the Cost?

You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.

Why? As you know, the current health and economic crisis has caused severe hardships for most people. Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.

Yet, some sons are still getting married and asking their moms to give speeches.

''It was perfect Dan.  I changed a few things in the speech. And I had several people come up and tell me how well done it was. I couldn't have done it better. Thanks for your help''- Marilyn, Canada

Nonetheless, not every mother could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.

So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.

Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.

So, please take advantage of it now even if your son’s big day is in the future.

Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video and your son and daughter-in-law and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.   

So, please take advantage of it now even if your son’s big day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.   

Please note: Your speech draft comes with a proven and simple tip to master your speech or remember your speech just as you want it without carrying a paper with you.

Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise, and clarity!

''Hi Dan,

The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice).  Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.

All the best,

Matt''

Please note: Don’t fill out this form if you’re a dishonest individual. This offer is for a limited time.

So, CLICK HERE TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT A QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind and not lose money. The risk is on us!

You don't have to worry about paying our per speech for now.

Forget about money and let’s write something for you. We believe in the values of honesty and integrity and we think you should be happy with our work first.

So, Here Are The Benefits You Get When You Get On Board!

  • A great speech written by our wedding speech consultants that reflects what you want to say exactly
  • We coach you on how to use your voice to make your speech very exciting.
  • We show you a simple but often overlook strategy to rehearse your speech even if you have a very poor memory. This method is used by great speakers like Obama and was used by Abraham Lincoln and his compatriots
  • The most effective way to get your entire speech into your head without memorizing your speech. Guaranteed to help you even if you have a very poor memory or your memory is like a gold fish…most of our clients still wonder where we got this idea from. This ensures that you don't read off a sheet of paper...

Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise, and clarity!

''Hi Dan,

The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice).  Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.

All the best,

Matt''

  • Ways to include humor in your speech and what it takes to do so

So, CLICK HERE TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT A QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you ca+n have peace of mind and not lose money. The risk is on us!

Remember, you have to see your speech first before you pay. So, you can relax and let us sweat it out at our expense!

 

 

 


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Once a frustrated mom whose only son was getting married wrote to me that she wanted to give a very beautiful mom of the groom's speech, yet she couldn't figure out how to get the good words.

 

I remember that I had many moms to attend to but something whispered into my ear and said: '' Dan, don't worry about this being on short notice...Please just help her!''

 

Obviously she was a writer and I asked her to take care of it since I was completely overwhelmed with work.  It turned out that she had no clue about writing a beautiful mom of the groom's speech. So, I had no choice but to help her come up with a heartfelt message and I was overjoyed when she came back to tell me her speech was the best of the night.

 

Mother of the groom speech at rehearsal dinner night

 

 

My work with that mom reminds me of Sharon’s Jaynes quote which says: ''Successful Mothers are not the ones that have never struggled, they are the ones that never give up, despite the struggles.''

 

I am sure you’re one of the most successful moms alive considering the fact that your loving sacrifices and tireless dedication have brought your son thus far.

 

Well, you shouldn’t leave your speech or even wing it because your mom of the groom rehearsal dinner speech should tell your family, friends, and the wedding guests how much you love him.

 

But as you may know, stringing your thoughts and emotions together, to form a very meaningful speech is not so easy for most moms.

I have been writing mother of the groom rehearsal dinner speeches this for a while and I know how it feels when you really want to find the rights words and ideas for your speech.

 

In this post, I will show how to effortlessly get the right ideas and put those thoughts together to form a very effective speech.

 

Does This Keep You Up At Night?

But first, let’s look at the crucial factor that prevents most moms from achieving real success.

 

Even though I have been writing speeches for some time, there’s this little voice inside my head that keeps telling me that: ‘’Dan, you can’t do it'', whenever I have to jot down something and that sometimes make me feel a little nervous.

 

You will also experience too but that shouldn’t get the better of you.

 

Perhaps you flunked English and you’re thinking you are not cut out for this. Perhaps you goofed big time when you gave a speech on another occasion or you were visibly shivering when you gave a speech at one of your son’s wedding…

 

Please, get this from me. The fact that you failed to impress your audience at some point in the past doesn’t mean you’re going to fail this time too.

 

No, you won’t. This is a chance to shine like a star and you can do that by believing you can; in spite of what that little voice in your head keeps telling you. To keep your emotions in check,  you have to constantly hold a positive mental image of yourself speaking confidently and you will be empowered from within.

 

Now, let’s see how to get good words.

 

First,

Put Yourself In The Mood For The Clever Expression Of Your Ideas

How can you do that?

  • Here’s what I recommend you do. Go to video sharing sites like youtube.com etc. and insert in the search box: mom rehearsal dinner speech.

Go grab your notepad and pen and press the play button. Watch as many of them and jot down ideas, words, and phrases you feel you can use for your delivery.

By the way, the beautiful video below is a great example that inspires creative thinking. 

 

This Is By Far The Best Resource...Have You Ever Considered It?

Another great resource most moms don’t make the most of is, mom of the groom rehearsal dinner speech samples. We analyzed how one of those pieces was written and you can check it out here.

 

Oh my gosh, I almost forgot to tell you the benefits of those examples. Not too late to spill the beans right?

 

Mother of the groom rehearsal dinner speech samples contain several ideas and phrases and words you can model your own speech after. But make sure you don’t copy what you find verbatim else your speech will lack the uniqueness it really deserves.

 

If you take a critical look at this example and other well-written ones, you will realize that the subject matter is built on these fundamental pillars:

  • Introduction
  • Body
  • Conclusion

 

Okay, let’s see how you can develop ideas for each structure.

Let’s use the ‘’pillar of introduction’’ to start with.   Ever heard that there’s no second chance to make a first impression? The same thing goes for the opening lines of your speech.

 

There are several ways to grab or capture the attention of the audience from the get-go and I  will share a few with you.

 

Before, I do, you should know that greeting the audience, followed by a short self-presentation and expression of gratitude forms a part of your mother of the groom rehearsal dinner speech.

Mother of the groom rehearsal dinner speech

Now, let's see how to start your presentation with a bang.

  • You can tie your introductory remarks to a memorable day in your son’s life. How so? For example, if you got married on that same day, you can mention that.

 

  • You may begin with a story. Stories about the day he was born and how you felt on that day. No need to include that if the day wasn’t what you were expecting. Dwell on the positive experiences when delivering your lines.

 

  • You may begin with a quote and I like using quotes a lot to enrich my thoughts a lot.

I promised to give you a few examples, so here are some quotes.

 

Quote# 1: In the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years.”
– Abraham Lincoln

Quote# 2: Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength while loving someone deeply gives you courage.”
– Lao Tzu

Quote# 3: “There is always some madness in love. But there is also always some reason in madness.”
– Friedrich Nietzsche

Quote# 4: “The greatest happiness of life is the conviction that we are loved; loved for ourselves, or rather, loved in spite of ourselves.”
– Victor Hugo

Quote#5: Love is a friendship set to music.”
– Joseph Campbell

 

Now, I want to make things much easier for you, so I’d like to use this quote to come up with something short and sweet:

Quote# 4: “The greatest happiness of life is the conviction that we are loved; loved for ourselves, or rather, loved in spite of ourselves.”
– Victor Hugo

 

If I were to use that quote to address the wedding attendees, then it would be:

On a joyous moment like this, you can’t help but agree with writer Victor Hugo that the greatest happiness of life is the conviction that we are loved; loved for ourselves, or rather, loved in spite of ourselves….

Did you notice how I did that? You can too by imitating how I created those lines out of Victor Hugo’s quotation.

 

This Is What The Wedding Guests Are Expecting...

 

Next, you have to get your ideas together for the main part of the speech or the body.

You can decide to write something brief or even follow what most moms prefer: letting their thoughts flow from childhood through adulthood or even concentrate on what makes your son unique.

 

Whatever your speaking goals are, you should put down your ideas using other resources like wisecracks, jokes, poetry, and even songs.

If you want your message to flow in chronological order, then you can first talk about how you felt when your son was born.

 

What the grooms mother should say at rehearsal dinner

 

Do you remember all that happened on that special day? If so, put down those memories.

Besides, you can write down how you felt when he was born. You can also add how his arrival deepened your love bonds.

 

Here’s a very short example based on those pointers.

For me, it’s a blessing to see both children build their lives with their loved ones.

Well, after Margaret was born, my heart’s desire was to have a son and God blessed me with Dan.

It was a dream come true and I remember on that beautiful day, I felt so loved my whole life…

 

The next thing you should give thought to is your son’s childhood.

 

You can use adjectives like happy, active, kind, loving….etc. to describe his formative years.

 

Believe it or not, there’s nothing wrong with using those adjectives but your words can be made more memorable if you use similes and metaphors instead of adjectives.

 

Ok, let me illustrate. Which of these two do you think will make the wedding guests super-excited?

  1. Growing up, Alex was very active.
  2. As a little boy, Alex was like a shooting star.

 

Which of these descriptions do you think will blow the guests away?

From the contented look in your eyes, I know you’ve chosen the (b) and that’s a great choice.

You see, anytime you use similes and metaphors, you’re kind of painting a colorful, mental picture in your listener's mind, so use them sparingly if you really want to make an amazing mother of the groom rehearsal dinner speech.

 

Here are a few good ones you can use:

  1. Instead of active, you can say: ''He was a bundle of energy'' or ''He was like a shark''

 

  1. Instead of daring, you can say: ''He had the heart of a lion cub''

 

  1. Instead of happy or infectious personality, you can say:'' He was like the first spring rain''

 

  1. Instead of saying he was precocious, you can say: '' His memory was like a magnet''

 

  1. Instead of saying he was fun to be around, you can say: '' He was so sweet like a rose''

 

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Please feel free to use any of those descriptions to help you put down your thoughts and emotions into a very short and sweet mom of the groom's dinner speech

 

What Should I Include Here?

 

The body is basically your story line. So, please choose which anecdotes you want to share. Those stories should have a positive tone and should be engaging. Also, they should be facts your son and family members can definitely relate to.

 

Just as you have to kick start your speech with a bang, you also have to end memorably.

 

The toast, well-wishes, and advice form this part of your message and you should put in much effort here.

 

I really don’t you to spend so much on it….So, I am happy to share with you how you can come up with something ingenious.

 

  1. Can you sing or even play any musical instrument? If you do, then you sing your closing remarks to the beat of a well-known love song. Here's an example:

 



  1. Marriage poetry or love quotes can also help you write something that tugs at heartstrings.

 

Here are some poignant quotes you can use:

 

Love quote#1: ''A good marriage would be between a blind wife and a deaf husband'' -Michel de Montaigne

Love quote#2: ''A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person ''-Mignon McLaughlin


Love quote#3: ''The couples that are meant to be are the ones that go through everything that is meant to tear them apart and come out even stronger.''–

Love quote#4: ''True love is growing as a couple, learning about each other, and never giving up on each other.'' -

Love quote#5: ''You are the answer to every prayer I’ve offered. You are a song, a dream, a whisper, and I don’t know how I could have lived without you for as long as I have.'' - Nicholas Sparks

Can you use any of that to advise the couple? Of course, you can….wondering how to do just that?

 

Okay, let me compose something thoughtful with Love quote#4: True love is growing as a couple, learning about each other, and never giving up on each other.

Alex and Amanda, I know you’re looking forward to building your lives together but love’s long, undulating road...

 

Mother of the groom speech at rehersal dinner examples

P.S: Most moms do this...Have you considered it? Want to write and give a great wedding speech like the one above but can't seem to get started because you don't know the exact words to use?

Or not too sure if what you intend writing will be well received by the guests?

Let's help you make your son, husband, and family proud and let the wedding guests say great things about your speech.

 

Claire was quite skeptical when she came to us but we kept assuring what she will make her son and family proud-and this is what she sent over after the wedding was over.

'' Hello Dan, their wedding went very well. The usual stress beforehand for the couple organizing the event but all things to do went so smoothly. I also like to say that I'm so proud of my speech, almost got a standing ovation, lol! I'm so glad I've found you. I definitely recommend you to my friends and family in future weddings. I wish you the very best.''-  Claire, New Zealand

 

Want to know how she did just that? She got on board our wedding speech program and one of our talented speech consultants helped her out.

 

Want to get on board? You should by first filling out this simple form.

This is letter a mom sent to us after we helped her deliver her speech(Please click on it to enlarge if you can't see it)

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Ok, Is This Offer For Me?

  • Yes, if you are expecting nothing less than a very special, beautiful, unique, and memorable speech.
  • Don’t have much time to write a perfect speech just as you want it because of work demands and other life's pressure or even sick? Then, let’s take care of it and the guests will definitely sing your praises--we have done it for so many others and it's your turn now!
  • Yes, if you are overwhelmed by the pressures of work and don’t have the time to put together a very meaningful speech, so you can have your peace of mind
  • Yes, if you want your family, your son, friends, and wedding guests to shower you with very sincere compliments…just imagine how you will feel
  • Yes, if you are not good with words and you feel you’re not a natural writer and you are struggling to find the right words but still want to give a great speech.
  • Yes, you get so scared anytime you’re asked to say something before an audience and you really want to save yourself from any form of embarrassment on your son's big day.
  • Yes, if you are not too eloquent or not too sure if you are on the right track.
  • Yes, if you absolutely hate speaking in public or feel this is not your thing but you want to make your son feel very proud
  • Yes, if you have a day or less to the wedding and you are worried that you might make some horrible mistakes
  • Yes, if you are a good speaker but you still want someone to look over or review what you've come up with!

Just imagine leaving your entire presentation in the hands of skilled wedding speech consultants who will take away your pain of spending hours thinking hard and long about what to say and what not to say.


Also, envision being patiently guided to say something that will leave a favorable impression on the mind of your listeners.


And also imagine the thrill and feeling of excitement and pride you’re going to experience when the audience leaps onto their feet and scream and shouts and even sing your praises.


Won’t you love that? I hope you do...

Wedding not too far away? Or happening in less than 24 hours? Trust me, we can deliver! it doesn’t matter if your speech is today, tomorrow, next week, next month ,next year,... we can make things work for you  

 

Ok, I am Interested, What’s the Cost?

You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.

Why? As you know, the current health and economic crisis has caused severe hardships for most people.

Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.

Yet, some sons are still getting married and asking their moms to give speeches.

''It was perfect Dan.  I changed a few things in the speech. And I had several people come up and tell me how well done it was. I couldn't have done it better. Thanks for your help''- Marilyn, Canada

Nonetheless, not every mother could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.

So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.

Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.

So, please take advantage of it now even if your son’s big day is in the future.

Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video and your son and daughter-in-law and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.  

So, please take advantage of it now even if your son’s big day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.

This is another letter a mom sent to us after we helped her deliver her speech(Please click on it to enlarge if you can't see it) 

Mother of the groom wedding speeches

Oh Ok, How Then Do I Get Started Since I Want To Get On Board Right Away?

Ok, here’s how it works

All you have to do RIGHT NOW is to click on this link to receive an easy-to-fill-in questionnaire via email. Check your email a few hours after you’ve submitted your request.

So,

1)CLICK HERE  NOW TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT THIS QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind!

  1. After that, we will send you a very short questionnaire to fill out via email! You only have to check your email a few hours after you have made your request
  1. Then, you fill out the questionnaire sent through your email, and please have it sent back to us…
  1. We will confirm receipt of it…If something is not too clear, we will ask you to clarify….
  1. If not, we will send you a wonderful draft in a couple of hours if this on very short notice….If not, after a few days
  1. Then, you look it over and tell us if you are okay with it or you want to amend or revise it till you are happy with it--although we always get it right even with the first draft.
  2. Then, we ask you to pay for it.

Please note: The information collected through the questionnaire is only for the purpose of writing your speech. I wouldn’t even need it if I could read your mind. So, your information is very confidential and no one will know about it.

 

Satisfaction guaranteed for mother of the groom

Just a reminder of what you pay after it’s duly completed.

Ok, I am Interested, What’s the Cost?

You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.

Why? As you know, the current health and economic crisis has caused severe hardships for most people. Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.

Yet, some sons are still getting married and asking their moms to give speeches.

''It was perfect Dan.  I changed a few things in the speech. And I had several people come up and tell me how well done it was. I couldn't have done it better. Thanks for your help''- Marilyn, Canada

Nonetheless, not every mother could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.

So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.

Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.

So, please take advantage of it now even if your son’s big day is in the future.

Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video and your son and daughter-in-law and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.   

So, please take advantage of it now even if your son’s big day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.   

Please note: Your speech draft comes with a proven and simple tip to master your speech or remember your speech just as you want it without carrying a paper with you.

Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise, and clarity!

''Hi Dan,

The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice).  Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.

All the best,

Matt''

Please note: Don’t fill out this form if you’re a dishonest individual. This offer is for a limited time.

So, CLICK HERE TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT A QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind and not lose money. The risk is on us!

You don't have to worry about paying our per speech for now.

Forget about money and let’s write something for you. We believe in the values of honesty and integrity and we think you should be happy with our work first.

So, Here Are The Benefits You Get When You Get On Board!

  • A great speech written by our wedding speech consultants that reflects what you want to say exactly
  • We coach you on how to use your voice to make your speech very exciting.
  • We show you a simple but often overlook strategy to rehearse your speech even if you have a very poor memory. This method is used by great speakers like Obama and was used by Abraham Lincoln and his compatriots
  • The most effective way to get your entire speech into your head without memorizing your speech. Guaranteed to help you even if you have a very poor memory or your memory is like a gold fish…most of our clients still wonder where we got this idea from. This ensures that you don't read off a sheet of paper...

Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise, and clarity!

''Hi Dan,

The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice).  Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.

All the best,

Matt''

  • Ways to include humor in your speech and what it takes to do so

So, CLICK HERE TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT A QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you ca+n have peace of mind and not lose money. The risk is on us!

Remember, you have to see your speech first before you pay. So, you can relax and let us sweat it out at our expense!