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Mother of the bride speech or toast: How to easily and quickly write a heartfelt mother of the bride speech with these simple but proven ideas and examples

Is the thought of writing a great mother of the bride toast stressing you out? If it does, then, please kiss your worries goodbye because in this revealing post, I will share with you…

 

• How to use well-written mother of the bride speech samples to easily come up with a heartfelt and hilarious toast

• What to include and what not to include in your mother of the bride wedding reception or bridal shower speech

• What to say about your future son-in-law…(most moms get it wrong)…get it wrong and you’ll end up embarrassing yourself and your entire family

• Plus several other ideas you can add to your wedding speech to make it memorable and unique

 

Every now and then, I get letters and emails from several mothers who tell me this:

‘’ Dan, I have been to several weddings in my lifetime and listened to several wedding speeches. But, most are very boring. Can you please help me write a unique and memorable mother of the bride speech for my daughter? ‘’

 

I feel sad whenever I read such messages and I always agree to help without any hesitation. Well, you will agree with me that most wedding speeches are unexciting to say the least. So I understand their frustrations in many ways.

 

Most of those concerns and worries stem from the fact most moms don’t really have what it takes to come up with a touching mother of the bride toast.

Granted, you don’t have to worry so much about what to say and what not to say because I will be sharing awith you tips and tricks interspersed with relevant examples so you can write and deliver a lovely mother of the bride wedding speech like my friend Michelle did a few months ago.

 

First and foremost, I would like us to read this mother of the bride speech sample/template carefully as I will be using that plus other helpful tips to make things so much easier for you.

 

Here it is:

Mother of the bride speech example/template

 

Hello Everyone! For those of you who don’t know me, I am  Jacqueline, the proud mother of the bride.  What a happy and wonderful occasion for all of us to gather and celebrate.

 

Dan  and Evelyn both look fantastic, and that is just partly because of the expensive clothes. I have always said that the way they look at each other gives away their feelings every time.  They are just a gorgeous couple!

 

I love the fact that they met over pizza. I know everyone here knows the story, right? Dan delivered a pizza to my house. Evelyn started craving pizza often. Always calling for delivery and requesting Dan. When she left for nursing

school, Dan delivered a pizza and his phone number and asked me to pass the number onto Evelyn .  She was always great with her sisters, especially Marilyn, who got two mothers when she was born. Me and Evelyn.  

 

 

She was funny and so girly. Except when she was shoving macaroni up her nose. She loved being at home. She always preferred sleepovers at her house because we had the best snacks, always hated having to eat dinner at someone else’s house, and when she was very small she loved sleeping in Mommy’s bed.

 

She adored her first dog York, driving her Barbie car in the driveway. I remember once, just once when she was a teenager and she got busted having a party because I came home early from vacation and didn’t tell her. But overall she was always a great kid.

 

We were so close from the time she was small until, well until forever. I adored her and we did wonderful things together. She loved to play dress up, and go to work with me when she could. We were attached at the hip for a long time.

 

Today I got to play dress up with her for her most important day, and that means the world to me.

 

My daughter loved two things her whole life. The first was cheerleading. She started cheering at 5 years old, went on to lead her cheer team to win all kinds of competitions in South Hampton, including the state championship.

 

Her senior year she was cheer Captain, and she still coaches young girls today. The second thing was being a nurse, especially for babies. She always wanted to be a nurse, graduated nursing school with honors, and excelled in every nursing job she’s had. She has dedicated her life to the infants and parents in the NICU. That makes me so proud. Not only of her dedication and accomplishment, but also her sense of purpose that she has carried with her

for so long.

 

My sweet, smart, funny and caring girl met the man of her dreams over pizza. It was difficult at first because she was far away in Washington. I think I realized that he was the one when she transferred to be closer to him.

 

He is the best thing a mother could hope for as a son-in-law. He is kind, genuine, sensible, and loves my daughter deeply. He always opens the door for her, makes her smile every day, and is  a good balance for Eveyln. He’s patient, while she can be a bit feisty.

 

I think they will make great parents for my grandchildren. Yep, I dropped the grandchildren bomb in your wedding speech! No pressure…just saying. I can’t wait to see the two of you as parents!

 

I want to say that marriage can be the hardest thing you’ve ever done, but like anything difficult, it can also be the most rewarding. Just hold onto each other during the storms, and enjoy the sunny days together.

 

Always keep love and laughter in your home every day. Be partners in every way, and may all your dreams come true! I wish you nothing but blessings, poured out on both of you.

 

To Bob and Mitchelle, I’d like to thank you for raising such a tremendous guy so that my daughter could find him. And I’d like to also welcome the both of you to our family.

 

Let’s raise a glass and with it send all of ourbest intentions to this lovely couple. To Dan and Evelyn!

 

Most mothers see great examples like that one and conclude that, this is something they could have written. While that seems like a walk in the park, it actually went through a simple process to get it done.

 

Guess what? The writing process is like embarking on a journey to a place you’ve never been to. You have to plan and prepare for it from start to finish way ahead of time.

The three steps involved here are:

• The mental preparation stage
• The drafting stage
• The re-drafting stage

 

All these parts are vital to coming up with a great mother of the bride speech. So, let’s take it one step at a time.

 

First, let’s look at the first one: the mental preparation stage

 

Believe it or not, no one becomes a great speaker by virtue of their gift of oratory or writing skills. Most folks have a fair idea of what to write. But, the overwhelming majority dread speaking in public and that hampers the creative expression of their ideas.

 

If you can get past this crippling fear, then you are just a step away from mastering your speech and delivering it with ease. Wondering how you can shake off this mental shackle and put on a great show?

 

At some point in our lives, we all had to endure some kind of embarrassment when we were asked to deliver a few remarks because we goofed up a couple of times. That glaring reality makes most speakers think that they are not good speakers by virtue of their past experiences and it’s quite sad.

 

To calm your nerves and regain your mental composure, you should clear out the mental cobwebs in your mind by putting the past behind you and constantly imagining yourself speaking confidently to the admiration of your family and friends.

 

As you hold this positive mental image in your head from time to time, you will be empowered from within even if you feel you are not a naturally talented writer or speaker. That’s the first step to overcoming stage fright and calming the nervous tension spreading throughout your body.

 

Now, let’s dive into the writing process itself. To start off, you should first create an outline for your bride’s mother wedding toast. If we scroll up and read the mother of the bride speech example above, you will find out that the whole thing is built on this framework:

• Greetings
• Short self-introduction
• Thank your guests and other personalities who helped to mold your daughter’s character or personality
• Start your speech on a bright note
• Talk about your daughter in a positive light
• Talk about your son-in-law from a place of love
• Talk about the bride and groom(how they complement each other)
• End with a bit of marriage advice or best wishes
• End with a toast

 

With this structure in place, it should be easy to create ideas to help you write your mother of the bride speech for your daughter and son-in-law.

 

• Now, Let’s Start With The First Idea On The List: Greetings

       That’s so easy to write, right? Ok, then I won’t dwell on that.

 

• Now, Let’s Move On The Second Idea On The List: Short-Self Introduction

 

Let’s go back for a moment to the opening lines of the speech and see how the writer captures it.

 ‘’ Hello Everyone! For those of you who don’t know me, I am……the proud mother of the bride.  What a happy and wonderful occasion for all of us to gather and celebrate. Dan and Evelyn both look fantastic, and that is just partly because of the expensive clothes. I have always said that the way they look at each other gives away their feelings every time. They are just a gorgeous couple! ‘’

Here’s why this portion of the speech matters.

• It falls in line with wedding speech etiquette and it shows you really appreciate the fact that your family and friends took time off to attend the wedding of your daughter and son-in-law.

 

• Now, Let’s Look At The Third Idea On The List: Thank Your Guests And Other Personalities Who Molded Your Daughter

 

Here are a few examples you can model your gratitude notes after.

Hello everyone. To anyone who doesn’t know me, I’m Mica, Jenny’s very proud mother. I want to thank you all for being here today. It’s such a special occasion and it’s been made more meaningful by having each of you with us to celebrate the love of Jenny and Mike.

 

I need to specially thank Mike’s mom and dad for raising such a handsome, strong minded, driven son. Mike is definitely the person she is today because of you both and your expectations of him.

You should be so very proud of who he has become today. I thank you both every single day for sharing your wonderful son with our family and please always rest assure he is very much loved and adored by us.

Thank you for opening your hearts to Jenny and accepting her as part of your family.

Margaret, I know it was hard being a single mom. I hoped that I was some help. Know that all of us look at you with awe and inspiration. You raised a lovely lady. Please let’s give her a round of applause for that.

 

Here’s an action plan to get your brain brimming with ideas: Please write down names of people you would like to express gratitude to and mention why you are thanking them. For example, you can say how appreciative and fortunate you are for their help and support every step of the way.

 

• Having Seen That, Let’s Look At The Fourth Idea On The List: Start Your Speech On A Bright Note

 

Starting on a captivating note will set you apart from every other speaker at the wedding reception.  How then do you start with a bang? Ok…I would like to share a few examples to help you start on a memorable note.

 

First, you can dive right in by telling a little story about who she was when she was just a little girl.

Here’s an example of how this works

‘’ Evelyn was funny and so girly. Except when she was shoving macaroni up her nose…’’

 

Second, you can start with a song if you want to really strike a chord with the wedding guests. Take this very popular song some father’s sing at their daughter’s wedding.

If you want to imitate this style, you can personalize it by substituting a few words here and there. Let’s see how it can be done.

Here you go:

Look at the two of you dancin' that way
Lost in the moment and each other's face
So much in love, you're alone in this place
Like there's nobody else in the world

I was enough for her not long ago
I was her number one, she told me so
And she still means the world to me, just so you know
So be careful when you hold my girl
Time changes everything, life must go on
And I'm not gonna stand in your way

But I loved her first, I held her first
And a place in my heart will always be hers
From the first breath she breathed
When she first smiled at me

I knew the love of a father (comment: you just have to change father to mother) runs deep
And I prayed that she'd find you someday
But it's still hard to give her away
I loved her first

That is sweet, right? Oh, thank God I found a mother-daughter version online. Please listen to this song  from a mother’s perspective.

Believe me; the guests will always remember you whenever they hear this song and they will most likely not forget your wonderful performance.

Third, if you want to start on an emotional note, you may recall what happened before or after your daughter was born. I remember a mom telling me that she was so excited that when her first daughter was born, she couldn’t close her eyes at night. Prior to her birth, her doctor said they would have a boy.

 

She had always dreamed of being surrounded by girls so she was devastated by that unfortunate news and gave up hopes altogether. But on her due date, she shockingly discovered that her dream had come true. A baby girl was placed on her chest!

 

Stories like that form the very stuff of great wedding speeches. After you have delivered your opening address or introductory remarks, you then have to tell a short speech or story about your daughter. 

 

Here are simple ideas to help you craft this all-important part of the storyline. Here are a few questions that can help you come up with great ideas for the body or content of your toast.

• Write down how your daughter was like when she was a little girl
• You can jot down stories about her teen years.
• Write down how you felt when she told you about her husband-to-be.
• Jot down how you felt when she brought the groom home for the very first time
• Write down your best wishes for the couple

 

Ok. Now, write down answers for each question and put the bits and pieces together to form a rough draft. It may look bad on your first try but don’t let it put a damper on things. You can always look it over a second and third time to smoothen the rough edges.

 

Your mother of the bride speech shouldn’t be lopsided. Write about the groom too. If you don’t like him or think he won’t be a great husband, just keep this to yourself else you will ruin a happy occasion and no one will be happy with you.

You don’t want to destroy the precious friendship with your daughter, right? If you have nothing on your mind or don’t know him very well, just say that you are excited that your daughter has found someone she can’t live without.

 

Well, if you are struggling to write a few words about him, these simple questions can help you say something about the groom.

• What was meeting like when you first met him?
• How long have you known the groom?
• What are the great qualities of the groom?
• How do the bride and groom complement each other?
• Why do you think he will make an amazing husband and father?
• In what ways does he bring out the best in your daughter?
• Do you recall any stories you’ve been involved with him?

 

Once, you have answers to the above questions, then, you can use them to write your script.

Here’s an example of how to say a few words about your future son-in-law.

Dan, your humor, and even your cheekiness is definitely your superpower! You are genuine, loyal, kind and caring. You leave a lasting effect on anyone who crosses your path. You are a tower of strength - you know what to say and when to say it.

You are always willing to help, support and encourage the people you love. I love your strength, courage and your determination to always want to be better and I am very confident that you will take good care of my daughter until the end of time.

 

That ends the drafting and redrafting process.

 

• Now, Let’s Look At The Last Item On The List: How To End Your Mother Of The Bride Toast

 

Your concluding remarks are as important as your opening address. So, you would have to take the pains to wrap up on a very memorable note. Here are tips to help you end well.

 

First, you can simply end with a simple toast if you are completely lost for words.

 

Second, you can end with a touching poem that expresses your love and admiration for the bride. Here’s a great one you can adapt for your toast.

Jane Lazenby wrote it and i think you can learn a thing or two from it.

 

YOU, SWEET GIRL,

HAVE BROUGHT SUCH JOY TO MY LIFE.

FROM THE VERY FIRST MOMENT I HELD YOU

AND GLANCED INTO YOUR EYES, I HAVE LOVED YOU.

 

I WATCHED YOU GROW AND LOVED CELEBRATING  EACH MILESTONE.

I AM  SO PROUD TO SEE THE BEAUTIFUL YOUNG LADY YOU HAVE GROWN TO BE.

AS YOU BECOME A BRIDE AND YOUR LIFE BEGINS ANEW,

 

I LOOK BACK IN MY MIND AND WONDER  HOW IT HAPPENED SO QUICKLY FOR ME AND YOU!

THE MEMORIES OF THOSE GROWING UP YEARS, THE UPS AND DOWNS,

WILL BE TUGGING AT MY HEART.

 

WHEN I SEE YOU IN YOUR WEDDING GOWN.

SO ON THIS, YOUR WEDDING DAY AND ALWAYS,

MAY YOU REMEMBER THAT

YOUR WORTH IS NOT JUST IN WHAT YOU DO OR SAY,

IT IS A DEEP PART OF YOU.

 

MAY YOU LIVE AND LOVE  WITH KINDNESS THAT ABOUNDS

AND MAY YOU ALWAYS REMEMBER

THAT YOU ARE LOVED SO VERY MUCH,

MY DAUGHTER, MY FRIEND.

 

Third, if you are doing a Christian or mother of the bride toast, you can end with a prayer or a few verses from the scripture. You may use this example.

1 Corinthians 13: 4-8

⁴ Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. ⁵ It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. ⁶ Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. ⁷ It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. ⁸ Love never fails.

Fourth, if you are a married mom, you can end with some nuggets about what makes marriage work.

P.S: Is the thought of giving you a great wedding speech keeping you up at night? It shouldn’t if you do what most moms do. By following this simple plan that's guaranteed to help you write a great mom speech like the one you read above.

Claire was quite skeptical when she came to us but we kept assuring what she will make her son and family proud-and this is what she sent over after the wedding was over.

'' Hello Dan, their wedding went very well. The usual stress beforehand for the couple organizing the event but all things to do went so smoothly. I also like to say that I'm so proud of my speech, almost got a standing ovation, lol! I'm so glad I've found you. I will definitely recommend you to my friends and family for future weddings. I wish you the very best.''-  Claire, New Zealand

Want to know how she did just that? She got on board our wedding speech program and one of our talented speech consultants helped her out.

Want to get on board? You should by first filling out this form.

This is a letter a mom sent me after her wedding. (Please click on the image to enlarge it so you can read it)

Ok, Is This Offer For Me?

• Yes, if you are expecting nothing less than a very special, beautiful, unique, and memorable speech.

• Don’t have much time to write a perfect speech just as you want it because of work demands and other life's pressure or even sick? Then, let’s take care of it and the guests will definitely sing your praises--we have done it for so many others and it's your turn now!

• Yes, if you are overwhelmed by the pressures of work and don’t have the time to put together a very meaningful speech, so you can have your peace of mind

• Yes, if you want your family, your daughter, friends, and wedding guests to shower you with very sincere compliments…just imagine how you will feel

• Yes, if you are not good with words and you feel you’re not a natural writer and you are struggling to find the right words but still want to give a great speech.

• Yes, you get so scared anytime you’re asked to say something before an audience and you really want to save yourself from any form of embarrassment on your daughter's big day.

• Yes, if you are not too eloquent or not too sure if you are on the right track.

• Yes, if you absolutely hate speaking in public or feel this is not your thing but you want to make your son feel very proud

• Yes, if you have a day or less to the wedding and you are worried that you might make some horrible mistakes

• Yes, if you are a good speaker but you still want someone to look over or review what you've come up with!

Just imagine leaving your entire presentation in the hands of skilled wedding speech consultants who will take away your pain of spending hours thinking hard and long about what to say and what not to say.

Also, envision being patiently guided to say something that will leave a favorable impression on the mind of your listeners.

And also imagine the thrill and feeling of excitement and pride you’re going to experience when the audience leaps onto their feet and scream and shouts and even sing your praises.

Won’t you love that? I hope you do...

Wedding not too far away? Or happening in less than 24 hours? Trust me, we can deliver! it doesn’t matter if your speech is today, tomorrow, next week, next month ,next year,... we can make things work for you  

 

Ok, I am Interested, What’s the Cost?

You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.

Why? As you know, the current health and economic crisis has caused severe hardships for most people.

Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.

Yet, some daughters are still getting married and asking their moms to give speeches.

Nonetheless, not every mother could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.

So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.

Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.

So, please take advantage of it now even if your daughter’s big day is in the future.

Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video and your daughter and son-in-law and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.  

So, please take advantage of it now even if your daughter’s big day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.   

''It was perfect Dan.  I changed a few things in the speech. And I had several people come up and tell me how well done it was. I couldn't have done it better. Thanks for your help''- Marilyn, Canada

This is another note a mom sent me after her wedding. (Please click on the image to enlarge it so you can read it)

Oh Ok, How Then Do I Get Started Since I Want To Get On Board Right Away?

Ok, here’s how it works

All you have to do RIGHT NOW is to click on this link to receive an easy-to-fill-in questionnaire via email. Check your email a few hours after you’ve submitted your request.

So,

1)CLICK HERE  NOW TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT THIS QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind!

2. After that, we will send you a very short questionnaire to fill out via email! You only have to check your email a few hours after you have made your request

3. Then, you fill out the questionnaire sent through your email and please have it sent back to us…

4. We will confirm receipt of it…If something is not too clear, we will ask you to clarify….

5. If not, we will send you a wonderful draft in a couple of hours if this on very short notice….If not, after a few days

6. Then, you look it over and tell us if you are okay with it or you want to amend or reviseit till you are happy with it--although we always get it right even with the first draft.
7. Then, we ask you to pay for it. It's as simple as that!

Just a reminder of what you pay after it’s duly completed.

You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.

Why? As you know, the current health and economic crisis has caused severe hardships for most people.

Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.

Yet, some daughters are still getting married and asking their moms to give speeches.

Nonetheless, not every mother could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.

So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.

Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.

So, please take advantage of it now even if your daughter’s big day is in the future.

Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video and your daughter and son-in-law and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.  

So, please take advantage of it now even if your daughter’s big day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.   

''It was perfect Dan.  I changed a few things in the speech. And I had several people come up and tell me how well done it was. I couldn't have done it better. Thanks for your help''- Marilyn, Canada

Please note: Your speech draft comes with a proven and simple tip to master your speech or remember your speech just as you want it without carrying a paper with you.

Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise, and clarity!

''Hi Dan,

The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice).  Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.

All the best,

Matt''

Please note: Don’t fill out this form if you’re a dishonest individual. This offer is for a limited time.

So, CLICK HERE TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT A QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind and not lose money. The risk is on us!

You don't have to worry about paying our per speech for now.

Forget about money and let’s write something for you. We believe in the values of honesty and integrity and we think you should be happy with our work first.

So, Here Are The Benefits You Get When You Get On Board!

• A great speech written by our wedding speech consultants that reflects what you want to say exactly

• We coach you on how to use your voice to make your speech very exciting.

• We show you a simple but often overlook strategy to rehearse your speech even if you have a very poor memory. This method is used by great speakers like Obama and was used by Abraham Lincoln and his compatriots

• The most effective way to get your entire speech into your head without memorizing your speech. Guaranteed to help you even if you have a very poor memory or your memory is like a gold fish…most of our clients still wonder where we got this idea from. This ensures that you don't read off a sheet of paper...

Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise, and clarity!

''Hi Dan,

The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice).  Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.

All the best,

Matt''

• Ways to include humor in your speech and what it takes to do so

So, CLICK HERE TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT A QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind and not lose money. The risk is on us!

Remember, you have to see your speech first before you pay. So, you can relax and let us sweat it out at our expense!

Mother of the Bride Speech: Just See This Mother of the Bride Speech Sample and You’ll be a Step Away from Writing a Heartwarming Toast for Your Daughter and Son-In-Law

 

Is your adorable daughter’s wedding around the corner? And are you wondering about what to say? If so, please stick around and I will show you:

• How to write a beautiful wedding toast for your daughter and the groom
• What to say and what not to say on your daughter’s wedding day
• How to use mother of the bride speech samples or templates to put together your thoughts and emotions into beautiful words

 

…plus a whole lot more ideas and tips you can borrow and use for your presentation.

 

 

Being a mother of the bride can be very tiring experience, particularly if you are single parent or mom.

From being there for your daughter in good times and bad, to helping her plan for her wedding,  to choosing the right wedding dress to wear , your duties never seems to come to an end.

 

Nothing Can Compare To This

 

But none of that can compare to the joy of standing up in front of your family and friends to express your love  and admiration for your daughter and the groom, how your own journey has been like as a mom, and what you wishes for the couple are as they start the roller-coaster ride of marriage together.

 

In spite of it being an honor and privilege to say a few words about your precious baby girl, most mothers cower with fear when they have to deliver a heartfelt mother of the bride wedding speech.

 

For fear of embarrassing their daughters, some mothers decide to skip it altogether. Others are forced to do it but are really scared to death whenever they imagine what to say.

 

 

I can still remember this mother of the bride who asked for help with her speech. She was so excited about the prospect of making her daughter proud with her wedding speech until she wrote back to tell me she couldn’t handle it anymore because the mere thought of making a toast made her heart miss several beats.  I felt so sorry for this poor woman!

 

But other nervous ones have been very successful in spite of their dilemma. Take the case of  Donna who wrote this hilarious and sentimental mother of the bride speech.

 

What she said is what all mothers should aspire to make on the wedding day.  Well, I am going to share her words with you.  After that, we will break it down bit by bit so you can figure out how to easily express the deepest sentiments of your heart on her big day.

 

Here you go:

Mother of the Bride Wedding Speech Sample

 

Hello everyone. My name is Donna and I’m Amanda’s mother.

As most of you know, my daughter lost her dad at age 13. I can’t think of a more terrible time to lose your father. But I feel privileged to have gotten to raise her since then, to love her with my whole heart, and to stand with her today as she marries her prince, Peter.

 

When she was little, she loved puppies. She had a dog that was crate trained and Amanda would take her pillow and her blanket and crawl into the crate, claiming it as her bed. The poor dog had no clue what to do, get into the crate with her or not.

 

As a teenager she was very shy and quiet, of course that is the time that she lost her dad.  But she found comfort in the violin and her drawings. She created beauty from pain. That has always been her gift. She later developed an appreciation for doing hair and make-up and is pursuing that dream now.

 

Amanda, you are quite talented but I’m glad you didn’t give yourself any scars or boils on your face today. You look beautiful! 

 

I have to take a moment to say thank you to her step dad and my husband Charles, as well as Destiny’s Uncle Corey and her other grandparents: Mima and Papa. It was their love that sustained Amanda along with mine during the tough years.

 

Amanda, I know that your dad is looking down on you today filled with the same pride and joy that I have always felt with you. He is your guardian angel, and I’m sure he’s so happy you found the one who completes you.

 

Peter, you are a good man who has taught Destiny to love and to trust in a way that she has never done before. I know you will see this as the gift it is and cherish her heart forever.

 

My advice to the two of you is as you walk through this life cling to one another through the storms and enjoy every rainbow hand in hand. Never go to bed angry. Sounds like a cliche, but it’s true. Don’t hold grudges and always treat each other with respect. Love each other with all your hearts and have a happy life. When you decide to start a family,  that love for each other will be the key to raising children who will grow to know love too.

 

 

Peter and Amanda, your love is forever and a lifetime. Share every fear, every dream, every milestone together. Because now each other’s dreams are your dreams. I wish that every single dream you have comes true!

 

God bless you and I wish you nothing but good health, endless love, and prosperity.

 

 

Did you enjoy reading it? I enjoyed every bit of it. It’s a very short and sweet speech.

 

Please Don’t Do It This Way

Guess what most mothers do when they spot such an example? They conclude that they can write something close to that if not better. So, they either swipe it or look for similar ones and then start writing.

 

That approach always help if you are a very gifted writer or you happen to be struck with an air of inspiration that fills your mind with great ideas on the fly.

But as you are pretty much aware, not everyone is blessed with the gift of inspiration or words.

 

First and foremost, you have to plan what to say and how to say it with flair and confidence. It’s more like preparing your favorite dish: you have to use the right cooking ingredients to make it taste yummy.

 

Two steps are involved here in the pre-writing process if you really want to fill your mind with many rich ideas.

First, you have to watch a couple of videos. Why should I watch them? That’s a great question! Mother of the bride speech videos can give you an idea of what to say.

 

So, this is what I recommend you right away. Please go grab your journal or notepad and click on the play buttons in each of the video.

As you do, write down ideas, thoughts, and phrases that you think you can work into wedding speech for your daughter.

 

Here you go:

Wedding Speech for My Daughter- Video#1

 

 

Mother of the bride wedding speech-Video#2

 

 

This Is How to Get Great Ideas to Come To You

 

The final step in the pre-writing process has got to do with picking a theme or style of your speech. There are several options to pick from.

But it’s always wise to pick something that resonate best with your demeanor and personality and not based on the latest fad or trend.

 

To choose a style, you should first reflect on these questions?

• Am I person of few words? Can I make my speech short and sweet?
• Do I have a soft heart? Will a sentimental mother of the bride speech be my thing?
• Can I tell a little story about my daughter’s life and let everyone know how proud I am to be her mom?
• Do people tell me that I am a smart person? If so, can I deliver something witty?
• Most mother of the bride speeches sound quite similar. But, can I make my toast a little different? Can I make mine dramatic or even a little poetic?
• Can I make my wedding speech a video- based one?
• Am I known for my singing prowess? And I can make my speech like a song?
• Am I a natural funny person? Do I really have what it takes to make a hilarious mother of the bride wedding speech like this one?

 

• How about doing a joint speech as parents of the bride?

• Am I talented enough to do bits and pieces of all that I have listed above?

 

Picking one of the above will ensure that you get a direction or purpose for your wedding toast. After you’ve picked the right style for your wedding speech, you start writing your talk.

 

To make the writing process much easier, you should split the task into these three parts:

• Introductory remarks
• Body or content of your wedding speech
• And the concluding remarks

 

First, let’s figure out what goes into writing a great introduction. To do that, it’s best to re-look at excerpts of the above example.

 

Here you go:

‘’ Hello everyone. My name is Donna and I’m Amanda’s mother.

As most of you know, my daughter lost her dad at age 13. I can’t think of a more terrible time to lose your father. But I feel privileged to have gotten to raise her since then,  to love her with my whole heart, and to stand with her today as she marries her prince, Peter. ‘’

 

As you are pretty much aware, the introductory address of any piece should feature one or more of these core components:

1. Your name and your relationship with the bride and groom as you can see right above
2. If you are a single mom or your husband is deceased, you may pay a small tribute to him. Once, this proud mom did that and these were her exact words

‘’ This candle that is burning right

beside me is in honor of  Brook’s dad Rex , who is in heaven. Brook, I can tell you that your dad was immensely proud of you.’’

• You may also use that opportunity to give a special shout-out to family and friends who have had a tremendous impact on your daughter’s life. Can you write the names of such individuals?

 

Ok, let this give you a clue. You can mention

1. The father of the bride. What other personalities are on your mind? Please put down their names and mention what they have done for you, your family, and the bride.

 

By the way, this is how it was properly captured in our example.

 

‘’ I have to take a moment to say thank you to her step dad and my husband Charles, as well as Amanda’s Uncle Corey and her other grandparents: Mima and Papa. It was their love that sustained Amanda along with mine during the tough years ‘’

 

 

You may not have realized this. But if you scroll up this very page and read the introductory extract once more, you will notice this part of it as well:

‘’ When she was little, Amanda used to love puppies. She had a dog that was crate trained …‘’

 

The underlined words above are the introductory part of the speech we call hook because it draws the wedding guests into the speech itself.  Make it plain and boring and you will lose everyone’s attention. Make it engaging and you will win everyone’s heart.

 

Wondering how to win the hearts of many with a gripping intro? It’s actually simple and I am happy to share a few of those tips with you.

 

How to Write a Great Introduction

 

First, you can dive right into your presentation by sharing a story about when your daughter was only a little girl. Just make sure you pick something memorable.

 

Second, if you are a very emotional person, you can share a few details about what happened before she was born. It could be about several miscarriages you had prior to her birth, prolonged labor in the delivery room, or when the doctors told you that you were never going to have your own baby girl.

 

Third, you can of course make your remarks very funny or hilarious by sharing a little story.  Here’s an example:

‘’ It’s interesting what actually happened

before she was born. When her dad and I

were expecting her, the doctor told us early

on after examining me during one of our

prenatal appointments that I was going to

have a boy.

I dreamed of little girls and, somehow,

whenever I thought of myself with a child, I

always pictured a girl. So I felt crushed and

disappointed and gave up hopes altogether

of raising a little version of me when he said

that.

 

But that wasn’t the case on my due date

when we shockingly discovered that I had a

baby girl, much to my joy!’’

 

Fourth, you can kick-start with a few witty quotes. Here are some quotes you can use to spruce up your opening remarks.

• "No matter how old she may be, sometimes a girl just needs her mom."

• A daughter is God's way of saying, ‘Thought you could use a lifelong friend.'"

• " Because even if the whole world was throwing rocks at you, if you had your mother at your back, you'd be okay. Some deep-rooted part of you would know you were loved."
  - Jojo Moyes, One Plus One

• "To describe my mother would be to write about a hurricane in its perfect power. Or the climbing, falling colors of a rainbow."
  - Maya Angelou, I Know Why the Caged Bird Sings

• "The more a daughter knows the details of her mother's life, the stronger the daughter."
  - Anita Diamant, The Red Tent
• "God couldn't be everywhere so that is why he invented mothers."
  - Diane Keaton as Daphne Wilder, Because I Said So
• "By the time a woman realizes her mother was right, she has a daughter who thinks she is wrong."

 

We are going to use the sixth quote: ‘’ God couldn't be everywhere so that is why he invented mothers’’ to write something brief so you get an idea of how to use quotes to write a short intro.

 

Ok, this is how it is done.

When I was growing up, my own mother used to say that couldn't be everywhere so that is why he made mothers. In my child’s mind, I thought God was a mother who is always busy taking care of his numerous children in heaven and have employed mothers as assistants right here on earth.

 

I held onto that for a very long time until I had my first child who’s now grown into the beautiful bride we have before us today.  A few days after I gave birth to Elaine, mom visited us.

 

I remember that she looked me in the eye and said once more that God couldn’t be everywhere so that’s why he’s made you a mom. Just make sure you make him proud.

 

I smiled back at her and said’’ Mom, I pray that you live long to see the kind of woman she grows into.’’ 

That happened 30 years ago. Mom is now 100 years old and she likes to call herself Sweet Sixteen.

 

For those of you who don’t know, Sweet Sixteen is here with us tonight and can you do her a favor by giving her a thunderous clap? She’s been there for us through thick and thin and her words of comfort and encouragement have sustained us all these years.

 

She’s been such a blessing in our lives.  She and dad will celebrate their 70^th wedding anniversary next weekend! If that is not love, then I don’t know what is. I pray and hope that Elaine and Mike follow in their stead.

 

Did you see how I managed to infuse that quote plus a little bit of humor and even nostalgia into that short description?  Can use any of those quotes to write something short and sweet? You’ll never know until you give it a try.

 

 

Now, let’s consider...

How to Put Together Your Random Thoughts into a Very Nice Speech

 

After you have captured your initial feelings in the intro, you have to put together your scattered or random ideas and thoughts into a very touching mother of the bride speech.

 

On the surface, the body seems fairly easy to write.  But I am always amazed whenever I get desperate pleas from mothers who are unable to write their speeches.

 

In most cases, they have something written down. But their thoughts and ideas don’t flow too well and it’s my duty as a mother of the bride speech writer to connect the dots so to speak.

 

If you are stuck or unable to compose this essential part of your toast, then you can follow this simple plan.

 

Divide your writing sheet into these main branches:

• My daughter’s childhood

• My daughter’s teen years or adolescence

• When she became a woman

 

If you are aiming for a narrative piece, then you can write down memories or anecdotes about each developmental stage of her life and pick out stories you are really fond of.

 

Alternatively, you may write a character-based speech and connect it to why you think your daughter will be an amazing wife and mom.

 

 

For example, you can say that she’s loving, compassionate, and a very patient person. For example, you can elaborate on this character trait (patience) with a story about your daughter’s life.

 

Another technique you can use is to tell a simple story about how the couple met and how you have seen their relationship evolve over the years they have been together.

 

Here’s a very short example.

I remember back at the end of

2010, Dan started talking about

a girl named Ellen. When he

came home for Christmas that

year, he was somewhat

saddened that during the school

holiday break, he thought that

he may have potentially lost

her…

 

Now, let’s talk about…

 

How to Write the Ending of Your Mother of the Bride Speech

 

Your concluding remarks are always the easiest part of your speech to jot down.  But I cringe whenever I hear mothers wrap up because most of their conclusions have very similar tones.

 

It’s all too common to hear the endings in the form of a toast or pieces of advice. But I think you should make yours a little different and unique. By the way, here are some tried and tested ideas you can use to end up on a memorable note.

 

First, if you are a Christian or a religious person, you may end with a prayer or blessing before the food is served.  Here are some words you can use.

“May your marriage always bring glory to God, joy to one another and blessings to your family for many generations to come. May love and laughter fill your hearts and your home for all at the days of your lives. May you face every challenge hand-in-hand and side-by-side knowing that with God’s grace, you’ll conquer all obstacles together. May the world be forever a better place because the two of you fell in love. In Jesus’ name, Amen.”

 

How about this one from Numbers 6: 24-26

²⁴ “The Lord bless you and keep you;
²⁵ The Lord make His face shine upon you,
And be gracious to you;
²⁶ The Lord ^[a]lift up His countenance upon you,
And give you peace.” ’

 

 

Second, if you are great singer, you can end it by singing a powerful love song about newlyweds or married couple. Here’s one of them

 

 

 

Third, you can end with a few quotes about marriage or even give them a gift as a token of their special love. For instance, you can write a short advice and frame it and gift it to them.

P.S: Is the thought of giving you a great wedding speech keeping you up at night? It shouldn’t if you do what most moms do. By following this simple plan that's guaranteed to help you write a great mom speech like the one you read above.

Claire was quite skeptical when she came to us but we kept assuring what she will make her son and family proud-and this is what she sent over after the wedding was over.

'' Hello Dan, their wedding went very well. The usual stress beforehand for the couple organizing the event but all things to do went so smoothly. I also like to say that I'm so proud of my speech, almost got a standing ovation, lol! I'm so glad I've found you. I will definitely recommend you to my friends and family for future weddings. I wish you the very best.''-  Claire, New Zealand

Want to know how she did just that? She got on board our wedding speech program and one of our talented speech consultants helped her out.

Want to get on board? You should by first filling out this form.

This is a letter a mom sent me after her wedding. (Please click on the image to enlarge it so you can read it)

Ok, Is This Offer For Me?

• Yes, if you are expecting nothing less than a very special, beautiful, unique, and memorable speech.

• Don’t have much time to write a perfect speech just as you want it because of work demands and other life's pressure or even sick? Then, let’s take care of it and the guests will definitely sing your praises--we have done it for so many others and it's your turn now!

• Yes, if you are overwhelmed by the pressures of work and don’t have the time to put together a very meaningful speech, so you can have your peace of mind

• Yes, if you want your family, your daughter, friends, and wedding guests to shower you with very sincere compliments…just imagine how you will feel

• Yes, if you are not good with words and you feel you’re not a natural writer and you are struggling to find the right words but still want to give a great speech.

• Yes, you get so scared anytime you’re asked to say something before an audience and you really want to save yourself from any form of embarrassment on your daughter's big day.

• Yes, if you are not too eloquent or not too sure if you are on the right track.

• Yes, if you absolutely hate speaking in public or feel this is not your thing but you want to make your son feel very proud

• Yes, if you have a day or less to the wedding and you are worried that you might make some horrible mistakes

• Yes, if you are a good speaker but you still want someone to look over or review what you've come up with!

Just imagine leaving your entire presentation in the hands of skilled wedding speech consultants who will take away your pain of spending hours thinking hard and long about what to say and what not to say.

Also, envision being patiently guided to say something that will leave a favorable impression on the mind of your listeners.

And also imagine the thrill and feeling of excitement and pride you’re going to experience when the audience leaps onto their feet and scream and shouts and even sing your praises.

Won’t you love that? I hope you do...

Wedding not too far away? Or happening in less than 24 hours? Trust me, we can deliver! it doesn’t matter if your speech is today, tomorrow, next week, next month ,next year,... we can make things work for you  

 

Ok, I am Interested, What’s the Cost?

You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.

Why? As you know, the current health and economic crisis has caused severe hardships for most people.

Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.

Yet, some daughters are still getting married and asking their moms to give speeches.

Nonetheless, not every mother could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.

So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.

Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.

So, please take advantage of it now even if your daughter’s big day is in the future.

Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video and your daughter and son-in-law and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.  

So, please take advantage of it now even if your daughter’s big day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.   

''It was perfect Dan.  I changed a few things in the speech. And I had several people come up and tell me how well done it was. I couldn't have done it better. Thanks for your help''- Marilyn, Canada

This is another note a mom sent me after her wedding. (Please click on the image to enlarge it so you can read it)

Oh Ok, How Then Do I Get Started Since I Want To Get On Board Right Away?

Ok, here’s how it works

All you have to do RIGHT NOW is to click on this link to receive an easy-to-fill-in questionnaire via email. Check your email a few hours after you’ve submitted your request.

So,

1)CLICK HERE  NOW TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT THIS QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind!

2. After that, we will send you a very short questionnaire to fill out via email! You only have to check your email a few hours after you have made your request

3. Then, you fill out the questionnaire sent through your email and please have it sent back to us…

4. We will confirm receipt of it…If something is not too clear, we will ask you to clarify….

5. If not, we will send you a wonderful draft in a couple of hours if this on very short notice….If not, after a few days

6. Then, you look it over and tell us if you are okay with it or you want to amend or reviseit till you are happy with it--although we always get it right even with the first draft.
7. Then, we ask you to pay for it. It's as simple as that!

Just a reminder of what you pay after it’s duly completed.

You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.

Why? As you know, the current health and economic crisis has caused severe hardships for most people.

Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.

Yet, some daughters are still getting married and asking their moms to give speeches.

Nonetheless, not every mother could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.

So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.

Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.

So, please take advantage of it now even if your daughter’s big day is in the future.

Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video and your daughter and son-in-law and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.  

So, please take advantage of it now even if your daughter’s big day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.   

''It was perfect Dan.  I changed a few things in the speech. And I had several people come up and tell me how well done it was. I couldn't have done it better. Thanks for your help''- Marilyn, Canada

Please note: Your speech draft comes with a proven and simple tip to master your speech or remember your speech just as you want it without carrying a paper with you.

Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise, and clarity!

''Hi Dan,

The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice).  Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.

All the best,

Matt''

Please note: Don’t fill out this form if you’re a dishonest individual. This offer is for a limited time.

So, CLICK HERE TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT A QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind and not lose money. The risk is on us!

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Forget about money and let’s write something for you. We believe in the values of honesty and integrity and we think you should be happy with our work first.

So, Here Are The Benefits You Get When You Get On Board!

• A great speech written by our wedding speech consultants that reflects what you want to say exactly

• We coach you on how to use your voice to make your speech very exciting.

• We show you a simple but often overlook strategy to rehearse your speech even if you have a very poor memory. This method is used by great speakers like Obama and was used by Abraham Lincoln and his compatriots

• The most effective way to get your entire speech into your head without memorizing your speech. Guaranteed to help you even if you have a very poor memory or your memory is like a gold fish…most of our clients still wonder where we got this idea from. This ensures that you don't read off a sheet of paper...

Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise, and clarity!

''Hi Dan,

The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice).  Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.

All the best,

Matt''

• Ways to include humor in your speech and what it takes to do so

So, CLICK HERE TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT A QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind and not lose money. The risk is on us!

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Mother of the bride speech samples or templates

How to use mother of the bride speech samples or templates to write a heartfelt mother of the bride wedding speech or toast

 

Hi beautiful mother of the bride,

 

Do you have a few minutes to spare? If you do, then in this post, I am going to share with you

• How you can easily write a heartfelt mother of the bride toast

• How you can use mother of the bride wedding speech examples to say something sweet about daughter and son in law at the wedding or at bridal shower

• How you can easily get the ideas, tips, and advice to come up with a funny mother of the bride wedding speech

Plus a whole lot of other great ideas you have probably never thought of…. Just stay tuned!

 

 

I don’t know about you. But have you ever heard a great mother of the bride speech that made you laugh so hard or even moved you to tears?

It’s every mother of the bride’s dream to give a heartfelt mother of the bride speech. I am sure that’s your dream too!

 

But you do really have what it takes to come up with a unique mother of the bride speech that will get you tons of compliments?

Contrary to what most people think, it’s not too difficult to come up with a heartfelt mother of the bride speech.

A vast majority of mothers think you have to be a good writer to come up with the best ever mother of the bride wedding speech.

 

While being great words has its obvious advantages,  your ability to put bits and pieces of anecdotes about your daughter’s life into a single, interesting story that would not only make your daughter feel so proud but also endear to you to the wedding guests.

 

 

I am sure you might be wondering how you can easily write a great mother of the bride speech.

The good news is I am going to share with you all the tips, ideas and examples you need to know so you can write something sweet from your heart.

 

The mistake I see most mothers make is to copy bits and pieces of wedding speech examples they find or even adapt it to their own case.

 

That’s not how it works. Even though there several proven ways of cranking up a great speech for your daughter, if you are squeezed for time, have not given a speech before or not even sure where you can start from, then mother of the bride speech examples or templates can help you calm your nerves because they contain tons of valuable ideas and content that can help make your speech a massive hit.

 

But I always advise mothers to use them as a guide since they give you an idea of the format or structure of how wedding speeches are delivered.

There are two kinds of examples: written and visual templates and both serve different but complementary purposes.

Before you even write down your speech for your daughter and son-in-law, you first have to watch a couple of videos to help you get a crystal-clear idea of how mother of the bride speeches are made. 

 

 

Well, I looked around and found these amazing mothers of the bride speech videos from YouTube.

Now, this is what I want you to do now. Grab your pen and journal and then click on the play buttons below and write down ideas you think can help you write the content of your mother of the bride speech.

 

Mother of the bride speech video#1

 

 

Mother of the bride speech video#2

 

 

I sure hope you learned a thing or two from watching both wedding toasts? Now, let’s look at a short mother of the bride speech sample or template.

 

After that, we will break it down bit by bit so you can figure out what went into writing it.

 

Here you go:

 

Mother of the bride speech toast example/template

 

Good evening and welcome everyone!

I’m Margaret, Carline’s proud mom.

It gives me great pleasure and honor to see the smiling faces of so many people who love and cherish Dan and Carline and both families.

 

We have waited for months for this special time and on behalf of my family, I would like to thank everyone who has come from near and far to share in our joy and happiness.

Carline, my only daughter is getting married and the only moment I felt this over-the-moon happy was when she was born after waiting to conceive for 10 long years.

Carline was always an active little girl who loved out the outdoors more than anything else.

 

She had so much enthusiasm for anything. Whether she was climbing trees which she loved so much, outside playing with her lab, or busily riding her dirt bike through the trails, she gave it her all.

Growing up, Carline played basketball and softball which were bonding sports for us.

 

I was lucky to have coached her for a few years. But what I will never forget was the fact she always made family vacations fun and memorable.

 

Carline was 14 years old studying French and she knew the basics, enough to get us by.  So I said to her: why don’t we take a trip to Paris? She agreed and off we went to Paris!

 

There was a time when we were on our way to the city from our hotel and we got stuck there for about three hours!  At that point, I was totally drenched in sweat and on the brink of despair until two men came to our help and rescued us and you should have seen how relieved we were when we were totally set free from that small prison!

 

Carline loved reading too and it was always a joy to see her curled up in bed with a book in his hand and she ended up being a smart lady. 

 

She was so focused, so committed and dedicated to her work at home and in school and eventually went off to college where she succeeded in getting her bachelor’s degree in just 2 years!

 

 

Carline, I am so proud of you and everything you’ve achieved down the road of life!

 

Carline, my dream has always been to see you live a happier and a more fulfilling life!

 

But, you ended up making me better mom more than I could ever imagine! We have been through our high and low moments and your love and support for me has always seen me through the good times and bad.

Dan, every mom hopes and prays that her daughter finds someone like you to love and cherish her.

Your words and deeds speak volumes that you love and cherish Dan with your whole heart.

You are polite, thoughtful, caring, and very respectful.  You’re also a great cook who always surprises her with new dinners! What more could we ask for? 

 

Dan and Carline, you’re well suited for each other. You are both smart and make good decisions and have a lot of things in common.  It is pure joy to be with you today.

 

However, the journey of marriage is a lot like a roller-caster. You have extreme highs and you can have some pretty extreme lows, but the ride is worth it!

 

So, always be each other’s best friend in good times and bad, honor each other, be kind, be sweet, hug and kiss a lot, it’s good for you.

 

As you keep at it, you will never forget this beautiful day!  God bless you!

 

 

Now, let us see how this short piece was written.

Well, if you study the above wedding toast very carefully, you will realize that it has some basic components we were taught at school about how essays are written.

 

I know it’s been decades since you graduated high school, so I would like to help you with this.

Did you notice how the above template began with an introduction by Margaret?

Here’s the entire thing though if you have probably forgotten about it now.  Please take note of the underlined phrase.

 

''Good evening and welcome everyone!

I’m Margaret, Carline’s proud mom.

It gives me great pleasure and honor to see the smiling faces of so many people who love and cherish Dan and Carline and both families.

We have waited for months for this special time and on behalf of my family, I would like to thank everyone who has come from near and far to share in our joy and happiness.''

Carline, my only daughter is getting married‘’

The portions of the text not underlined are as easy as shelling peas because it’s the most common way of starting a wedding toast.

 

Here, you simply mention your name and your relationship with the bride and groom. Then, you proceed to thank people who have had tremendous impact on your daughter’s life.

People like

1. the father of the bride
2. uncles and aunts of the bride
3. the bride’s grandparents
4. the family of the groom for their love and support

 

After thanking the above personalities, you have to kick start with the right level of enthusiasm and this part of your intro needs to be engaging enough to make everyone want to listen to the rest of the story and not intuitively conclude that another boring wedding speech is on the way!

 

To make your opening remarks very unique and memorable, you could simply use one or more of the following ideas for your opening remarks.

 

First, you can compare how you feel on the wedding night to how you felt when your daughter came into your life. An example has been culled from the mother of the bride speech template above

‘’ Carline, my only daughter is getting married and the only moment I felt this over-the-moon happy was when she was born after waiting to conceive for 10 long years.‘’

 

Second, you can start with a joke. Here’s an example to illustrate this point.

 

It’s funny how our life turns out to me. When Martha was a little girl, she said she was never going to marry because having her toys around was more than enough to keep her through life. That became a running joke in the family. So we nicknamed her Miss Never Get Married and she was fine with it until she met Ben.

Today, this same lady is getting married to …’’

 

Now, don’t you think that would make people roll in their seats with laughter? That’s one of the surest ways of grabbing their attention and even breaking the ice when you grab the microphone.

 

Third, you might want to start with something that will touch hearts.

You could use a memorable story about events that happened prior, before or after your daughter born.

If that doesn’t work for you, you can start with quotes or witty lines as they can absolutely enrich your wedding speech for your daughter and son in law.

 

Below are some great quotes you can use.

a.      Words are not enough to express the unconditional love that exists between a mother and a daughter.” – Caitlin Houston

b.     “Mother and daughter from the start. Best friends forever from the heart.” – 

c.“The relationship between parents and children, but especially between mothers and daughters, is tremendously powerful, scarcely to be comprehended in any rational way.” – Joyce Carol Oates

d.                       A mom is a daughter’s ‘first’ friend. And, through life, becomes her best friend.” – Vicki Reece

e.To my daughter. Never forget that I love you. Life is filled with hard times and good times. Learn from everything you can. Be the woman I know you can be. Mom”

 

Can you write a very simple but captivating opener with any of the above quotes?  I can see you doubting yourself…Please give it a try and you'll certainly end up with something far better than you ever imagined.

 

Ok, can I help? Ok, if I were you, I would have started like this

There is this quote that says a mom is a daughter’s first friend and through life, she becomes her best friend.

Amanda has been my best friend since she saved my life on a dreary day

 

Don’t you think everyone will be eager to know what really happened on that day set the ball rolling with that story?  

 

I think we have had enough of that. Let’s now see how we can put together…

 

The Content or Structure of Your Wedding Toast for Your Daughter

… Taking cues the mother of the bride sample or template above.

 

Another mistake I see most mothers make is to write their wedding toasts without first finding out what goes into writing a stellar one.

Don’t get me wrong. I am not in any way saying that you are hit with a bout of inspiration, you can’t write a great piece all in one sitting.

 

 

You can! But let’s face it. How many of us are that gifted? I guess a few.

This is why you need to follow the simple and proven plan I am going to share with you so you can come up with great ideas for your wedding speech for daughter even if you are horrible speaker or writer.

 

First, you have to decide how many minutes you want your speech to last.

You shouldn’t dwell so much about the length. As long as, it captures what you really want to say in an engaging manner, then, you can be sure that it would go down well with everyone.

 

Second, decide on what kind of speech you really want to make. Do you want to capture details about your daughter’s life in a rhyming, poetic, sing-song, or even in a storytelling format?

 

Finally, you have to develop the outline of your presentation. Here’s where stories about your daughter’s life come in.

 

Do you want to share stories about your daughter’s childhood, teenage years, adult years or any story that really stands out?

 

I once reviewed a speech a couple of months ago for one mom and it felt like I was reading her child’s biography. It was so boring and lifeless that I was asked to give life to it!

You see, all you need is a handful of good-to -hear stories that you think it’s worth sharing.

 

Two or three is okay though. If you have several heartwarming stories, you can pick your favorite ones from the big pool. As you do, just choose stories that would not embarrass her in anyway unless of course she would be happy to hear that said on her wedding day.

 

If your daughter doesn’t enjoy being in the spotlight, you can simply tell her how proud you are of her and express joy that she is getting married to the man of her dreams and it would work beyond your wildest dream.

 

By the way, let me remind you that once you get to work on it, it might not come out the way you wanted it on your first attempt. You just have to rework it until you are happy with your own work.

 

Action Tip: Sit down for a moment and reflect on the stories you wish to use for the bride and your son-in-law and pick at least two that really resonate with you.

 

 

How To Use Mother Of The Bride Speech Examples/Templates To Write A Memorable Conclusion

 

If you ask me, another writer or even a successful speech giver what part of your mother of the bride wedding speech, you should pay particular attention to, they will tell you it’s the conclusion.

 

Here’s why it’s so important to get it right as well as ways to write a darn good one that would make everyone wish your speech never comes to an end.

 

First, it brings closure to your delivery and gives room to the next speaker (if there are any) to take over from you.

Second, your closing remarks is what everyone will remember most particularly if there’s a catchy line in there and your family and friends might ask for copies of your mother’s wedding toast for your daughter.

 

You need not sweat over how to write your closing remarks because there are so many proven ideas and tips that can help you do just that and I am happy to share some of them with you.

 

First, if you are a deeply religious soul or a good Christian, you can use some bible verses or scriptural references to embellish your conclusion.

 

Any of the following verses can help you to wrap up on a bright note.

 

Bible Verse # 1: James 1: 17 Every good and perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of the heavenly lights, who does not change like shifting shadows.

 

Bible Verse #2: 1 Corinthians 16:14. Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love.

 

Bible Verse #3: 1 Peter 4:8, NIV: "Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins.

 

Using the bible verse#1: ‘’James 1: 17 Every good and perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of the heavenly lights, who does not change like shifting shadows.’’, we can come up with this short example

Your marriage is God’s best gift you so always hold on to each other and your love for each other will stand the test of time.

 

Second, you can wax poetic if you are a good with words. Let me add that may simply look up poem on the internet if you are not blessed with the skill of writing. I found this beautiful poem online but please don’t copy it. Let it rather keep your creative juices flowing.

 

I Rely On You By Hovis Presley

I rely on you
like a camera needs a shutter
like a gambler needs a flutter
like a golfer needs a putter
like a buttered scone involves some butter

I rely on you
Like an acrobat needs ice-cool nerve
like a hairpin needs a drastic curve
like an HGV needs endless derv
like an outside left needs a body swerve

I rely on you
like a handyman needs pliers
like an auctioneer needs buyers
like a laundromat needs driers
like The Good Life needed Richard Briers

I rely on you.

 

Can you rework to suit the bride and groom? Not as hard as you think. So please do your best to get it done.

 

To give you a hint, I can start like this:

 

‘’ Dan and Amanda, marriage is all about relying on each other.  In our lives, we all need someone to lean on. You need parents and support of family and friends to reach this far. So, if you want to go farther, then you need each other like we all need air and you will reach for the stars!   Always remember to rely on each other because that’s where your strength lies‘’

 

Did you notice how I simply used the words rely on each other to compose my thoughts? That’s how it’s done. If you are not very creative, you can simply use the poem as is and customized it a bit.

 

Third, if you don’t have anything at all to say, you can just borrow the concluding remarks of the mother of the bride speech template/example above.

 

‘’ Dan and Carline, you’re well suited for each other. You are both smart and make good decisions and have a lot of things in common.  It is pure joy to be with you today.

However, the journey of marriage is a lot like a roller-caster. You have extreme highs and you can have some pretty extreme lows, but the ride is worth it!

So, always be each other’s best friend in good times and bad, honor each other, be kind, be sweet, hug and kiss a lot, it’s good for you.

 

As you keep at it, you will never forget this beautiful day!  God bless you!  ‘’

P.S: Is the thought of giving you a great wedding speech keeping you up at night? It shouldn’t if you do what most moms do. By following this simple plan that's guaranteed to help you write a great mom speech like the one you read above.

Claire was quite skeptical when she came to us but we kept assuring what she will make her son and family proud-and this is what she sent over after the wedding was over.

'' Hello Dan, their wedding went very well. The usual stress beforehand for the couple organizing the event but all things to do went so smoothly. I also like to say that I'm so proud of my speech, almost got a standing ovation, lol! I'm so glad I've found you. I will definitely recommend you to my friends and family for future weddings. I wish you the very best.''-  Claire, New Zealand

Want to know how she did just that? She got on board our wedding speech program and one of our talented speech consultants helped her out.

Want to get on board? You should by first filling out this form.

This is a letter a mom sent me after her wedding. (Please click on the image to enlarge it so you can read it)

Ok, Is This Offer For Me?

• Yes, if you are expecting nothing less than a very special, beautiful, unique, and memorable speech.

• Don’t have much time to write a perfect speech just as you want it because of work demands and other life's pressure or even sick? Then, let’s take care of it and the guests will definitely sing your praises--we have done it for so many others and it's your turn now!

• Yes, if you are overwhelmed by the pressures of work and don’t have the time to put together a very meaningful speech, so you can have your peace of mind

• Yes, if you want your family, your daughter, friends, and wedding guests to shower you with very sincere compliments…just imagine how you will feel

• Yes, if you are not good with words and you feel you’re not a natural writer and you are struggling to find the right words but still want to give a great speech.

• Yes, you get so scared anytime you’re asked to say something before an audience and you really want to save yourself from any form of embarrassment on your daughter's big day.

• Yes, if you are not too eloquent or not too sure if you are on the right track.

• Yes, if you absolutely hate speaking in public or feel this is not your thing but you want to make your son feel very proud

• Yes, if you have a day or less to the wedding and you are worried that you might make some horrible mistakes

• Yes, if you are a good speaker but you still want someone to look over or review what you've come up with!

Just imagine leaving your entire presentation in the hands of skilled wedding speech consultants who will take away your pain of spending hours thinking hard and long about what to say and what not to say.

Also, envision being patiently guided to say something that will leave a favorable impression on the mind of your listeners.

And also imagine the thrill and feeling of excitement and pride you’re going to experience when the audience leaps onto their feet and scream and shouts and even sing your praises.

Won’t you love that? I hope you do...

Wedding not too far away? Or happening in less than 24 hours? Trust me, we can deliver! it doesn’t matter if your speech is today, tomorrow, next week, next month ,next year,... we can make things work for you  

 

Ok, I am Interested, What’s the Cost?

You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.

Why? As you know, the current health and economic crisis has caused severe hardships for most people.

Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.

Yet, some daughters are still getting married and asking their moms to give speeches.

Nonetheless, not every mother could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.

So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.

Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.

So, please take advantage of it now even if your daughter’s big day is in the future.

Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video and your daughter and son-in-law and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.  

So, please take advantage of it now even if your daughter’s big day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.   

''It was perfect Dan.  I changed a few things in the speech. And I had several people come up and tell me how well done it was. I couldn't have done it better. Thanks for your help''- Marilyn, Canada

This is another note a mom sent me after her wedding. (Please click on the image to enlarge it so you can read it)

Oh Ok, How Then Do I Get Started Since I Want To Get On Board Right Away?

Ok, here’s how it works

All you have to do RIGHT NOW is to click on this link to receive an easy-to-fill-in questionnaire via email. Check your email a few hours after you’ve submitted your request.

So,

1)CLICK HERE  NOW TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT THIS QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind!

2. After that, we will send you a very short questionnaire to fill out via email! You only have to check your email a few hours after you have made your request

3. Then, you fill out the questionnaire sent through your email and please have it sent back to us…

4. We will confirm receipt of it…If something is not too clear, we will ask you to clarify….

5. If not, we will send you a wonderful draft in a couple of hours if this on very short notice….If not, after a few days

6. Then, you look it over and tell us if you are okay with it or you want to amend or reviseit till you are happy with it--although we always get it right even with the first draft.
7. Then, we ask you to pay for it. It's as simple as that!

Just a reminder of what you pay after it’s duly completed.

You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.

Why? As you know, the current health and economic crisis has caused severe hardships for most people.

Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.

Yet, some daughters are still getting married and asking their moms to give speeches.

Nonetheless, not every mother could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.

So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.

Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.

So, please take advantage of it now even if your daughter’s big day is in the future.

Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video and your daughter and son-in-law and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.  

So, please take advantage of it now even if your daughter’s big day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.   

''It was perfect Dan.  I changed a few things in the speech. And I had several people come up and tell me how well done it was. I couldn't have done it better. Thanks for your help''- Marilyn, Canada

Please note: Your speech draft comes with a proven and simple tip to master your speech or remember your speech just as you want it without carrying a paper with you.

Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise, and clarity!

''Hi Dan,

The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice).  Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.

All the best,

Matt''

Please note: Don’t fill out this form if you’re a dishonest individual. This offer is for a limited time.

So, CLICK HERE TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT A QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind and not lose money. The risk is on us!

You don't have to worry about paying our per speech for now.

Forget about money and let’s write something for you. We believe in the values of honesty and integrity and we think you should be happy with our work first.

So, Here Are The Benefits You Get When You Get On Board!

• A great speech written by our wedding speech consultants that reflects what you want to say exactly

• We coach you on how to use your voice to make your speech very exciting.

• We show you a simple but often overlook strategy to rehearse your speech even if you have a very poor memory. This method is used by great speakers like Obama and was used by Abraham Lincoln and his compatriots

• The most effective way to get your entire speech into your head without memorizing your speech. Guaranteed to help you even if you have a very poor memory or your memory is like a gold fish…most of our clients still wonder where we got this idea from. This ensures that you don't read off a sheet of paper...

Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise, and clarity!

''Hi Dan,

The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice).  Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.

All the best,

Matt''

• Ways to include humor in your speech and what it takes to do so

So, CLICK HERE TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT A QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind and not lose money. The risk is on us!

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Mother of The Bride Speech or Toast : A Down-To- Earth Guide To Simply Writing A Memorable Mother Of The Bride Speech For Your Daughter and Son-In-Law That Will Get You Tons Of Compliments

 

Have you ever heard a mother deliver a beautiful mother of the bride's speech at her daughter’s wedding and wished that when your daughter is getting married you would make her proud too?

 You are not alone…Most mothers wish that they had what it really takes to write a sweet mother of the bride's speech. But, the overwhelming majority of them are just not good with words…How sad this is!

 

I will never forget how I felt when I received a message from Lori asking for help with her speech when it was only four days to her child’s wedding day.

 

I was apparently overwhelmed with work so I asked her to put something together since she was a writer and I will later review it 

A few hours later, Lori wrote back to say even though she was a writer, she had never given a speech before and was worried she might flop.

After much pleading and cajoling, we co-wrote her piece and this was her feedback afterward: ( Please click on the image to read her words)

I know you probably believe that it takes an eloquent speaker or a gifted writer to write a unique mother of the bride speech.

Can I completely be honest with you?

Having a way with words can help to a certain extent.  So can your gift of gab.  

But, they are by no means all that you need to give the best speech ever at your daughter’s wedding and you’re robbing yourself of one of the greatest sources of joy and fulfillment in your life as a mother if you’re still thinking you need those twin-gifts.

 

And that brings us to the next side of the equation:

 

So What Should The Mother Of The Bride Say In Her Speech (And What Should She Not Say)?

 

That’s a great question! But, please…please…please stick with me here because I am going to share with you some time-tested ideas, tips, advice and templates I have personally used so you can easily write a heartfelt speech and not embarrass yourself and your baby girl.

 

Without further ado, let’s jump right in…

 

Always Look Before You Leap or Else You Will Drop Like A Stone

You see, in a bid to say what’s in their hearts, most moms look up mother of the bride speech examples online and other places in hopes of getting some words and phrases they can customize for their own scripts.

 

In spite of its obvious benefits, this commonly-used approach has several drawbacks as it can strip your completed draft of originality if not used more tactfully. You may check out this post I wrote about how to get the best out of them.

 

Now, consider this: would you take a trip to another country without learning a little bit about your intended destination? Would simply having a visa and enough cash suffice? Well, you be the judge!

 

 

Similarly, you shouldn’t even think of writing your speech without first finding out what goes into writing a great mother of the bride speech.

 

If you only put your thoughts together after scanning through a couple of examples, your speech won’t turn out too well.

 

Here’s what you should know before you even jot down your ideas. First and foremost, all great pieces go through this process:

• Pre-writing stage
• Writing stage
• Post-writing stage

 

I follow the same processes listed above whenever I have to actually put something down on paper or even type on the keyboard.

 

Don’t worry…Just keep reading and I will share ideas on how to do just that.

 

Ok, let’s take it one step at a time and then put all the pieces together to create a sweet speech for your daughter.

 

Now…

Here’s Why You Shouldn’t Skip This Part And How To Make It Count

 

The pre-writing stage comes before the draft; this is the time for you to get your ideas down. And these ideas won’t just come to you unless you seek them out.

Wondering where you can find those ideas? Here’s what I would suggest you do now.

 

• Watch a lot of interesting mother of the bride's speech video clips. Right below is a great example you can learn from.

 

P.S: Grab a pen and paper and write down phrases, words, and ideas you think you can include in your own speech as you watch that video or any other good one you can find.

There are plenty of such videos on online video-sharing platforms like YouTube which you can watch over and over again for inspiration and guidance. By the way, this is a good one to stimulate creative thinking. 

 

In addition to that, you can study well-written mother of the bride speech examples intently and studiously like a student prepping for an admissions test.

You can read it like three times or more and consider how it was written and see if you can modify it to your needs.

 

By the way, here’s...

A Short Mother Of The Bride Speech Example

Good evening and welcome to the joining of Rachel and Mark

I’m Bernice and I am the mother of the bride.  

I would like to thank everyone who has come from near and far to share in our joy and happiness. It means a lot.

Nothing can compare to the joy I have in my heart as my only daughter is getting married. Thank God, she’s found the love of her life.

 

Rachel was always a happy and lively little girl who loved playing with her chocolate Labrador retriever, Yogi.

Growing up, she played softball and I was lucky to have coached her for many years.

 

She was always a source of joy and laughter. When she was 15 years old, she began to study French and knew the basics, enough to get us by whenever we visited her grandparents in France.

 

Once, we were in Brussels for vacation and on our way to the city from our hotel, we got stuck on the third floor because the elevator kept breaking down.

 

I was totally freaked out by this and began to cry. After being stuck there for 2 hours, we overhead two French-speaking men chatting on the fourth floor. Rachel(my bilingual secretary) then shouted at the top of her lungs   " Aidez nous! " which, being interpreted means, Help Us! for those men to come to our rescue.

 

Thinking that " Aidez nous! " was the French version of hotel attendants, I cried out of utter frustration " Mr. Aidez nous! ...we are dying here. Can you please help us? "

 

Rachel gave me a look and said: "Mom…please don’t embarrass yourself anymore. Please let me do my job"

 

When they eventually showed up, they greeted me with a smile and said " comment allez-vous madame? which I later learned means? " How are you Madam"

 

Not wanting to embarrass us, I smiled wanly and stood still like the Statute of Liberty, wondering what I was supposed to say exactly!

 

Needless to say, when the fixed the elevator and took us out, we were dead tired and had to go back to our hotel room.

 

Rachel, I am so proud of you and proud of the woman you’ve become. You’ve always been so kind, giving, respectful, caring, and anytime I think about who you are, I keep wondering what good have I done to deserve a daughter with a true heart of gold!

I am so happy that you are getting married to  Mark.

 

I have had the privilege to get to know Mark over the last few years and I can say he is loving, polite, thoughtful, caring, and kind. I absolutely adore how he loves and adores my baby girl.

Mark and Rachel, you are a wonderful couple, and let me congratulate you on reaching this significant special milestone.

You have gone through a lot to get thus far and you are bound to have ups and downs as you begin this new phase of your life. So make sure to keep an open mind and be ready for whatever life throws at you. God bless you 

 

 

Did you enjoy that brief remark and wish you can write something close to that, if not better?  It’s way easier than you think.

 

You don’t have to photocopy my example. I cautioned you against that earlier…do you remember?

 

 

Just keep reading and you will find out how I wrote that so you can use my suggestions and advice to write something unique for your daughter without your head against a wall.

That said, let’s draw the curtain on the pre-writing stage and switch over to the writing stage.

 

We will use the template above as a guide to putting your thoughts and best ideas together.  

 

That speech outline has three main parts and your presentation should have an introduction, a body, and a conclusion.

 

 

Let’s recap the introductory remarks we saw in that sample speech.

 

 

As you can see, the opening lines have the following components

• Name of the speaker and greeting the audience which forms an integral part of the wedding etiquette 
• Words of gratitude

 

 

Writing this part is obviously very easy. But you can alienate sections of the guests if you make sweeping statements like thank you all for coming.

 

 

Ask yourself questions like:

• Who helped me raise my girl? Was it her dad or my parents or her uncles and aunts? Please list their names and state why you are thanking them.

 

For example, if her father is deceased, you can say

 

" My late husband who happened to be Rachel’s dad died when she was a teen. We still feel his love for us whenever we remember him and we so appreciate everything he did whilst alive.

Rachel’s come thus far because he gave his all to make her who she is today. We will always keep him in our hearts and I know he’s looking down at her with pride.''

 

• Which persons influenced her life for the better? Your neighbors, her friends, her teacher, or who?

 

Just stretch yourself a bit and make sure you this fine opportunity to let the world know how much you appreciate the help they offered.

Remember,  '' Thank you'' is the best prayer that anyone could say. " — Alice Walker

 

 

Now, let's see how to write the content of your speech.  Ok, before we do so. Can you please put your creative thinking cap on and try to answer these questions? 

 

 

• Are you doing a joint-speech with your husband or going solo as a single parent or mom? 

 

• Are you going to deliver a long or short speech? 

 

• Are you looking forward to delivering a funny mother of the bride's speech or a combination of more styles like sentimental or even narrative? For example, if you really want to go for something hilarious, you should come up with humorous stories that will support the overall theme.

 

To illustrate, let’s see how  Bernice chose her story

 

Bernice made things easier for herself by simply talking about her childhood years through adolescence to becoming a bride.

 

 

This approach always works best when you want to give a very simple and sweet speech which is something I always recommend as that can take a huge load off your shoulders if you are asked by your daughter to put something together on very short notice.  

 

 

If you find yourself in this situation, consider structuring your speech by including one or more of these ideas: 

 

 

Day of her birth--- You have to put down memories of what happened on that beautiful day and how you felt

 

Talk about when she was a little kid---Put down her beautiful qualities like how kind, active, and lively she was.

 

Don’t leave your points hanging. Expand on only admirable traits you have enough supporting details for.

 

Human qualities that speak to the heart are more preferred. Let’s see exactly how this works.

 

 

Example A: Rachel was an active little girl. She loves climbing fences. I’ll never forget how she tripped over our backyard fence when….

 

Example B: Rachel has a heart of old. She hates to see people suffer. I first noticed that when she was a kindergartener...

 

Which version do you think will tug at the heart of anyone listening to your message?

The latter by all means if you want something heartfelt or sentimental.

 

 

Well, if you want to get a good laugh out of the wedding guests, you can use the second illustration.  It's even possible to combine both styles to produce a memorable message that will be very well received by everyone.

 

 

Since the body of your speech is one of the key parts of your message, you should well to come up with a series of anecdotes about your daughter's life from when she was a little girl, to when she became an adult. 

 

 

The pointers below can steer you in the right direction: 

 

• Write down at least 2 or 3 memorable stories on paper about her childhood years
• Put down at least 2 memorable stories on paper about her adolescent years
• Jot down at least 1 memorable story on paper about her after college years

 

 

Then, you can look at those stories at every stage of her life and select which ones you wish to share.

 

In choosing, you should consider, how long or short you want your speech to last.  I know you might be wondering about this...

 

How Long Should My Mother Of The Bride Speech Be?

 

It should be long enough to cover the most important aspects of your speech. Some folks will encourage you to go for something short which is fine. 

But I think if your story is very engaging, the wedding guests will love every bit of it and no one will feel bored. 

 

I once listened to a thirteen-minute long speech and I enjoyed every bit of it. But honestly ask yourself if you can hold the interest of everyone for that long? 

 

Well, if you want to honor your girl by speaking at different venues, say at the rehearsal dinner, or bridal shower or reception,  then you can tailor your stories accordingly.

 

For example, if you choose to speak at the bridal shower, you can share memories about her growing up years and use the remainder for another occasion like the reception. 

 

But it’s always best to stick to a single plan as being a mother of the bride can be stressful, emotionally draining, and exhausting, and I don’t want you to be stressed out by this.  

 

By the way, there's nothing wrong with making your remarks very short. But make sure it truly captures the essence of what makes your daughter's story unique. 

 

 

Ok...let's get back to our last point about listing memorable events about her life. After you've chosen your preferred stories for those milestones, you should say something about your son-in-law. 

 

 

This Is What You Can Say About Your Future Son-In-Law

• · Talk about the first time you met him

 

• · Mention how he’s made your daughter’s life better

 

• · State his good qualities and why you think he will be a good husband

 

• · welcome him to your family and thank his mom and dad

 

 

I am sure the extract below will give you an idea of how to write something about the groom:

 

Over the last few years, I have seen how polite, thoughtful, caring, and loving Mark is. He's also a great cook, an avid swimmer, and a passionate gardener. We are so full of admiration and respect for him and we are confident that she will treat Rachel right.

 

 

After you've written down a few words about your son-in-law, you may scroll up this page to re-study that short example and then piece your scattered thoughts together. 

 

Don’t worry about how messy it looks after coming up with a first draft. Congratulate yourself once you have completed your task and take a break!

 

You can come back to it later and cut out parts you don’t really need by reading it out loud.  Keep doing that until it comes out best. 

 

 

Now, let’s see…

How To End Your Mother Of The Bride Speech On A Memorable Note

 

Just as you have to start your speech on a bright note, you also have to close it well if you want to be remembered for putting on a great show.

 

Below are some proven tips to help you end with a bang.

• First, you can simply share some pieces of advice based on your own experience of marriage

 

An example is...

Mark and Rachel, through the years, we have been married, we have discovered that a successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person. So, always date each other and put each other first in everything you do and you will rekindle the spark in your marriage.

 

• Do you have in mind any lovely poem? Then, you should conclude with it.

 

• Are you a Christian or a deeply religious person? If you are, you can pick a bible verse about marriage or use a religious quote or even end with a prayer. I love it when mothers end with a prayer and I feel it's one of the best ways of closing your speech.

 

The famous bible reading ''I Corinthians 13: 4- 7'' comes to mind.

⁴Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. ⁵ It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. ⁶ Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. ⁷ It always protects, always trusts, always hope, always perseveres.

 

 

• Again, you can end with the lyrics of a love song by modifying it and singing it out and this act alone will get you a standing ovation. Don’t worry if you don’t have a good voice.

 

You can personalize the conclusion of your speech by using the lyrics of a love song or even a tune everyone can sing along. You may use Ben King’s Classic: ''Stand By Me''

 

                                                       

One or more of the following love quotes can also be employed

 

• ''A great marriage is not when the ‘perfect couple’ comes together. It is when an imperfect couple learns to enjoy their differences.'' – Dave Meure

 

• ''Never marry the one you can live with, marry the one you cannot live without.'' – Unknown

 

• ''A good marriage is one which allows for change and growth in the individuals and in the way they express their love.''– Pearl S. Buck

 

Using the underlined quote, I came up with this:

Marriage is a lifetime adventure filled with incredible memories with the person you cannot live without. Nonetheless, it's full of many ups and downs…

 

Did you see how I did that? Do likewise and you will prosper.  If one or all the points listed above won’t work for you, you can simply toast the couple after making brief remarks about your new son-in-law.

 

P.S: Is the thought of giving you a great wedding speech keeping you up at night? It shouldn’t if you do what most moms do. By following this simple plan that's guaranteed to help you write a great mom speech like the one you read above.

Claire was quite skeptical when she came to us but we kept assuring what she will make her son and family proud-and this is what she sent over after the wedding was over.

'' Hello Dan, their wedding went very well. The usual stress beforehand for the couple organizing the event but all things to do went so smoothly. I also like to say that I'm so proud of my speech, almost got a standing ovation, lol! I'm so glad I've found you. I will definitely recommend you to my friends and family for future weddings. I wish you the very best.''-  Claire, New Zealand

Want to know how she did just that? She got on board our wedding speech program and one of our talented speech consultants helped her out.

Want to get on board? You should by first filling out this form.

This is a letter a mom sent me after her wedding. (Please click on the image to enlarge it so you can read it)

Ok, Is This Offer For Me?

• Yes, if you are expecting nothing less than a very special, beautiful, unique, and memorable speech.

• Don’t have much time to write a perfect speech just as you want it because of work demands and other life's pressure or even sick? Then, let’s take care of it and the guests will definitely sing your praises--we have done it for so many others and it's your turn now!

• Yes, if you are overwhelmed by the pressures of work and don’t have the time to put together a very meaningful speech, so you can have your peace of mind

• Yes, if you want your family, your daughter, friends, and wedding guests to shower you with very sincere compliments…just imagine how you will feel

• Yes, if you are not good with words and you feel you’re not a natural writer and you are struggling to find the right words but still want to give a great speech.

• Yes, you get so scared anytime you’re asked to say something before an audience and you really want to save yourself from any form of embarrassment on your daughter's big day.

• Yes, if you are not too eloquent or not too sure if you are on the right track.

• Yes, if you absolutely hate speaking in public or feel this is not your thing but you want to make your son feel very proud

• Yes, if you have a day or less to the wedding and you are worried that you might make some horrible mistakes

• Yes, if you are a good speaker but you still want someone to look over or review what you've come up with!

Just imagine leaving your entire presentation in the hands of skilled wedding speech consultants who will take away your pain of spending hours thinking hard and long about what to say and what not to say.

Also, envision being patiently guided to say something that will leave a favorable impression on the mind of your listeners.

And also imagine the thrill and feeling of excitement and pride you’re going to experience when the audience leaps onto their feet and scream and shouts and even sing your praises.

Won’t you love that? I hope you do...

Wedding not too far away? Or happening in less than 24 hours? Trust me, we can deliver! it doesn’t matter if your speech is today, tomorrow, next week, next month ,next year,... we can make things work for you  

 

Ok, I am Interested, What’s the Cost?

You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.

Why? As you know, the current health and economic crisis has caused severe hardships for most people.

Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.

Yet, some daughters are still getting married and asking their moms to give speeches.

Nonetheless, not every mother could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.

So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.

Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.

So, please take advantage of it now even if your daughter’s big day is in the future.

Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video and your daughter and son-in-law and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.  

So, please take advantage of it now even if your daughter’s big day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.   

''It was perfect Dan.  I changed a few things in the speech. And I had several people come up and tell me how well done it was. I couldn't have done it better. Thanks for your help''- Marilyn, Canada

This is another note a mom sent me after her wedding. (Please click on the image to enlarge it so you can read it)

Oh Ok, How Then Do I Get Started Since I Want To Get On Board Right Away?

Ok, here’s how it works

All you have to do RIGHT NOW is to click on this link to receive an easy-to-fill-in questionnaire via email. Check your email a few hours after you’ve submitted your request.

So,

1)CLICK HERE  NOW TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT THIS QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind!

2. After that, we will send you a very short questionnaire to fill out via email! You only have to check your email a few hours after you have made your request

3. Then, you fill out the questionnaire sent through your email and please have it sent back to us…

4. We will confirm receipt of it…If something is not too clear, we will ask you to clarify….

5. If not, we will send you a wonderful draft in a couple of hours if this on very short notice….If not, after a few days

6. Then, you look it over and tell us if you are okay with it or you want to amend or reviseit till you are happy with it--although we always get it right even with the first draft.
7. Then, we ask you to pay for it. It's as simple as that!

Just a reminder of what you pay after it’s duly completed.

You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.

Why? As you know, the current health and economic crisis has caused severe hardships for most people.

Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.

Yet, some daughters are still getting married and asking their moms to give speeches.

Nonetheless, not every mother could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.

So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.

Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.

So, please take advantage of it now even if your daughter’s big day is in the future.

Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video and your daughter and son-in-law and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.  

So, please take advantage of it now even if your daughter’s big day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.   

''It was perfect Dan.  I changed a few things in the speech. And I had several people come up and tell me how well done it was. I couldn't have done it better. Thanks for your help''- Marilyn, Canada

Please note: Your speech draft comes with a proven and simple tip to master your speech or remember your speech just as you want it without carrying a paper with you.

Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise, and clarity!

''Hi Dan,

The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice).  Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.

All the best,

Matt''

Please note: Don’t fill out this form if you’re a dishonest individual. This offer is for a limited time.

So, CLICK HERE TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT A QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind and not lose money. The risk is on us!

You don't have to worry about paying our per speech for now.

Forget about money and let’s write something for you. We believe in the values of honesty and integrity and we think you should be happy with our work first.

So, Here Are The Benefits You Get When You Get On Board!

• A great speech written by our wedding speech consultants that reflects what you want to say exactly

• We coach you on how to use your voice to make your speech very exciting.

• We show you a simple but often overlook strategy to rehearse your speech even if you have a very poor memory. This method is used by great speakers like Obama and was used by Abraham Lincoln and his compatriots

• The most effective way to get your entire speech into your head without memorizing your speech. Guaranteed to help you even if you have a very poor memory or your memory is like a gold fish…most of our clients still wonder where we got this idea from. This ensures that you don't read off a sheet of paper...

Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise, and clarity!

''Hi Dan,

The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice).  Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.

All the best,

Matt''

• Ways to include humor in your speech and what it takes to do so

So, CLICK HERE TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT A QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind and not lose money. The risk is on us!

Remember, you have to see your speech first before you pay. So, you can relax and let us sweat it out at our expense!

Mother of The Bride Speech or Toast: How To Write A Memorable And Heartfelt Mother Of The Bride Wedding Speech For Your Daughter

 

A mother of the bride's speech or toast on your mind? Don't worry because this post will help you to easily and quickly write a sweet and touching mother of the bride speech that will get you tons of compliments even If you don’t know what to say

 

 

The question I often get asked is ''What should the mother of the bride say in her speech?''

I know that’s on your mind too because that’s the number most mothers of the bride ask me most about when they write to us and I really know how it feels when mothers want to give the best speech ever.

 

Granted, crafting something remarkable about your daughter is no easy feat, particularly when you realize too late in the game that you haven’t put anything down.

 

As a wedding speechwriter, I always do my best to help as much as I can. But understandably,  you can't help everyone when you are working under a tight deadline or you are inundated with offers in the summer.

 

 

Everyone’s daughter is so precious in the sight of God, and I feel so bad when I am not in a  position to help...

 

So, I decided to come up with all the proven methods, ideas and tips I use for writing speeches for my clients across the world, so you too can write something short and sweet even if you are a terrible writer or you’re at a complete loss for words or you just can’t put your scattered thoughts together meaningfully.

 

 

Ready? Ok, here we go: 

 

Many mistakes I have seen most mothers of the bride make is to grab a paper and pen and simply put down their ideas together or copy and paste from the internet.

 

That’s just wrong. Before you ever write a word, you need to deal with the fear within. Even if you are a very experienced speaker, you will feel this slight tinge of anxiety creeping throughout your body and that’s a sign that you are nervous.

 

 

It gets even worse if you hate being in the public eye or you’re not an effective public speaker and you might think that you’re not cut out for the task ahead. 

 

I can remember that there was this mother of the bride who was so enthusiastic about delivering the best ever mother of the bride speech.

 

A few days later, she told me she wanted to cancel her order because she was going through performance anxiety as the impending performance wouldn’t let her sleep soundly at night.

 

So, her family decided to take that heavy ''burden'' off her shoulders so she can have her peace of mind.

 

Don't Dwell On This If You Really Want To Make An Impact

 

Well, she’s not alone because so many people go through this ordeal and that’s because they often focused on past speaking failures and that deprives them of the zeal and energy they would need to make a difference.

 

 

Maybe, you failed to glitter and you’re probably on the verge of calling it because your daughter has asked for something touching and you don’t want to embarrass her.

 

You need not fear because you can make your daughter so proud. You just have to clear out the mental cobwebs that are clouding your mind and envision yourself speaking confidently. 

 

As you keep a healthy mental gaze, you will be slowly developing the kind of mental toughness that you need to succeed, and you will definitely succeed because you’re a hero in my eyes.

 

 

That essential is the first thing to do before you ask yourself this simple question: '' What should I say in my speech to my daughter?'' 

 

Don’t start writing yet! Before you do, you have to look for the right words and phrases that can work wonders. Getting them is simple as there are so many easy ways of putting your foot in the door.

 

Did You Know That This Favorite Thing of Yours Can Help You Out?

 

First, you need to put yourself in the mood by watching a couple of videos.

Now, switch over to your favorite video sharing platforms like youtube. com. Then, input in the kind of speech you want to give in the search box.

 

Depending on your own unique situation, you might use any of these keywords like touching mother of the bride speech, religious mother of the bride speeches(toast), short and sweet

mother of the bride speech(toast), divorced mother of the bride speech(toast),

single mother of the bride speech(toast), emotional mother of the bride speech(toast),  daughter of the bride speech(toast)…..

 

Then, grab a pen and paper and without any outside interruptions, watch a few of those videos and jot down ideas and phrases that resonate with you most.

 

You can re-watch it a few times for additional insights, particularly how the presentation has been structured, and see if you can adapt yours accordingly.

 

By the way, here’s a video for your studying pleasure:

Talking about that opportunity for adaptation reminds me of this super-useful resource that can help any mother of the bride give the best speech ever.

Guess what!  Mother of the bride samples has proven over and over again to help anyone who can’t even write their toast because they are replete with so many lines you can model your speech after. 

 

Can you show me an example? My pleasure…I am glad you have asked. Let’s look at this  very short example and then, I will walk you through how I came up with:

 

 

Here's A Short and Sweet Mother of The Bride Speech Example You Can Use

 

Good evening and welcome everyone. Thanks for coming. I am Diana and I am the mother of the bride.

 

Indie, you made me feel like a very proud mom when I walked you down the aisle and I felt so blessed for having a wonderful daughter like you.

 

As your loving mom, I always wanted you to have the best things in life and it’s such a blessing to see that you have grown into a very beautiful young lady.

 

Through the years, we have been there for each other, no matter what! From our memorable family vacations to watching you play tennis and even helping you plan for your big day, I just can’t imagine anything the two of us have ever missed.

 

I treasure each and every memory of helping you my darling daughter for this wedding to be your perfect day and have loved every minute of it.  Thank you so much and I really love you.

 

Indie, I have always believed that our lives center around love and it’s best lived

when shared with someone who deeply cares about you. Thank God, you have to share your love with that handsome groom over there and I couldn’t be more proud.

 

Mike, it’s very obvious that love Natalie so much. What more could a mom ask for?  You’re loving, so kind and I am very much excited that you are now part of our family.

 

Mike and Indie,  you’re a very beautiful couple. You both were made to experience each other’s love so you can be truly blessed.

 

As you start life, always love each other and always work as a team and you will have a long, happy life together. We wish you the very best in everything you do and God bless you both.

 

 

Now, let’s take it bit by bit, so you can understand how this short speech was written.

 

First, let’s review the introduction: Below is the summary

'' Good evening and welcome everyone. Thanks for coming. I am Diana and I am the mother of the bride.  Indie, you made me feel like a very proud mom when I walked you  down the aisle  and I felt so blessed for having a wonderful  daughter like you.''

 

As you might be aware by now, the introduction of your mother of the bride speech should capture attention from the get-go.

 

It essentially starts with a short self-introduction as the above example depicts. After greeting the audience and revealing your identity, you should really engage your listeners so they can lend you their ears. 

 

How To Write  The Perfect Introduction 

 

To start off with a bang, you have to employ one or more of the following techniques. 

 

1. If your daughter’s birthday falls on her big day, you can incorporate that into your speech.

 

An example in action will be 

''Today is a special day not only for Nora and Mike but for our entire family. It’s so amazing that we are celebrating Nora’s big day on the same day we had her 26 years ago. First, let me wish her a happy birthday and to congratulate her on...''

 

• You can share your personal sentiments about how you felt after you gave birth to her

 

• If you really want to touch hearts, you can start with a poignant story and use that as a springboard...

 

Wondering how to get that done? Wisecracks and quotes can help you a lot and here are some lovely quotes you can use for this purpose. 

 

''A daughter is someone you laugh with, dream with, and love with

all your heart.'' – Unknown

 

''A daughter is just a little girl who grows up to be your best friend.'' – Unknown

 

''A mother and a daughter always share a special bond, which is engraved

on their hearts.'' – Unknown

 

''Words are not enough to express the unconditional love that exists

between a mother and a daughter''  – Caitlin Houston

 

''The love between a mother and daughter is forever'' - Unknown

 

 

To illustrate, let me show you how to use Caitlin’s quote: ‘’  “Words are

not enough to express the unconditional love that exists between a mother

and a daughter.”  to set the ball rolling. 

 

''Ladies and gentlemen, words are not enough to express the unconditional

that exists between me and my daughter since nothing comes close to 

the special place she holds in my heart…''

 

Do you love that example? I guess you can come up with something

better than that…

• Did you know that you can also start on a funny note? You can walk down memory lane and put down hilarious events and incidents that happened in your daughter’s life.

 

• Again, if you have a nickname, you can play with it. This past week, I did that for the mother of the bride. She told me that her husband’s nickname is “Boy’’ and so... I started off by saying that

 

'' Hello everyone. My name is Inda and I am the mother of the bride. My nickname is Vicky and my husband’s name is Ducia. We call him Boy because people often remark that he looks like a young boy. Does he look like one? Hmm… So, I fondly call him Mr. Nice Boy because he’s so sweet and cute.

 

 

Do This For The Wedding Guests And Your Daughter Will Be So Proud of You...

 

Ok, enough said for the opening lines. Let’s move on to the body of the sample under review... please, let’s re-capture it briefly. 

 

''As your loving mom, I always wanted you to have the best things in life and it’s such a  blessing to see that you have grown into a very beautiful young lady.

Through the years, we have been there for each other, no matter what!

From our memorable family vacations to watching you play tennis and even helping you plan for your big day, I just can’t imagine anything the two of us have ever missed.''

 

As you can see, the body of the speech outlines what the relationship with your daughter has been like over the years.  To come up with the right stuff, you should first determine what the goal or objective of your toast is….

 

Ask yourself these simple questions:

• Do you want a long or short speech?
• Do you want a sentimental or hilarious speech or a combo?
• What aspect of your daughter’s life do you want to really highlight? Again,
• if you want to go for something humorous, then, of course, you should choose stories that are naturally amusing. 

 

Suppose, you want to focus on her life, then, you have to pick at least two or three memorable incidents you really want to share with the guests.

 

 

For example, 

• You can share an event that occurred during her childhood
• You may also cite an event that happened as she was growing up
• You can probably add an event in her adulthood(her accomplishment if you will)
• Then, you can tell her how proud you are of her
• Next, briefly talk about your son-in-law. Speak sincerely about his admirable
• qualities and weave in a story that fits. 
• Lastly, welcome him to your family and thank his parents…

 

Now, this is what I want you to do. Go over that simple example and read it over and over again and put down memorable stories based on the ideas I have just shared.  

 

Using that example as a guide, please put your story together mindless of how well it flows.

 

If you have enough time to spare, you can shelf it for a day or two and go back to fine-tune it till it gets better than expected. Remember, all good writing is a never-ending process of continually refining rough mental ideas.

 

Well, you don’t have to worry if you have a few hours to your daughter’s wedding. If you find yourself in this quagmire, just relax for sometime before taking out the unwanted parts. 

 

That’s essentially the step-by-step process I follow whenever I am writing a speech for anyone. 

 

Wait...wait...wait...please, we are not done yet.  Did you know that the conclusion is what the guests will take home? 

 

How To Get Heartwarming Compliments From Everyone

 

I know for sure, you are wondering how you can close on a memorable note...No problem... I can still help

 

Let’s go back and recapture that conclusion….

 '' You’re a very beautiful couple. You both were made to experience each other’s love so you can be truly blessed. As you start life, always love each other and always work as a team and you will have a long, happy life together. '' 

 

Here are a few pointers to help you end with a bang….

 

• First, you can end with a quote from the scriptures if you are making a religious mother of the bride speech 

 

For example, you can say 

 

'' Mike and Diana, today is the day the Lord has made and it gives me joy to see the glowing smile on your face. Scripture affirms in I Corinthians 13:13 that there abides faith,  hope, and love but love’s the greatest.

The love you have for each other is God’s greatest gift for you, so treasure it like a rare gem by putting each other first in everything you do and your joy will overflow like a refreshing fountain...

My hope and prayer is that you will put God at the center of everything you do and live for each other selflessly as Jesus gave himself for the world.'' 

 

• You can end with a very touching love poem. Here’s one 

 

Love is beautiful and great.

When you find the right person, it will be fate.

My love I have for you is so strong; nothing can ever go wrong.

It was love at first sight. I wanted to be with him every night.

 

Every day I feel so good inside...I can't wait till the day I become his bride. As far as the future, we cannot see, but together forever we will be.

 

What we have is love; it is as beautiful as a dove.

Our love has grown into something bigger that has shown

your heart and my heart have connected, but our love is so expected.

 

And now from this day, I will always pray that I will stay with my man,

and I know that I can.

 

We just can use that by tweaking it… Please carefully take note of how am i

going to revise it... ok, here you go

 

Mike and Ruth,  your love is so beautiful  and so strong

And nothing can ever go wrong if you always work hand in hand

As far as the future, we cannot see, but together forever your love will be.

Your hearts have connected

And now from this day, I will always pray that you never

Lose that sense of connection because your love is

So beautiful and so strong.

• You may also craft something with the lyrics of a well-known wedding or love song or to make it the talk of the town, you can sing it if you have a good voice.

 

P.S: Is the thought of giving you a great wedding speech keeping you up at night? It shouldn’t if you do what most moms do. By following this simple plan that's guaranteed to help you write a great mom speech like the one you read above.

Claire was quite skeptical when she came to us but we kept assuring what she will make her son and family proud-and this is what she sent over after the wedding was over.

'' Hello Dan, their wedding went very well. The usual stress beforehand for the couple organizing the event but all things to do went so smoothly. I also like to say that I'm so proud of my speech, almost got a standing ovation, lol! I'm so glad I've found you. I will definitely recommend you to my friends and family for future weddings. I wish you the very best.''-  Claire, New Zealand

Want to know how she did just that? She got on board our wedding speech program and one of our talented speech consultants helped her out.

Want to get on board? You should by first filling out this form.

This is a letter a mom sent me after her wedding. (Please click on the image to enlarge it so you can read it)

Ok, Is This Offer For Me?

• Yes, if you are expecting nothing less than a very special, beautiful, unique, and memorable speech.

• Don’t have much time to write a perfect speech just as you want it because of work demands and other life's pressure or even sick? Then, let’s take care of it and the guests will definitely sing your praises--we have done it for so many others and it's your turn now!

• Yes, if you are overwhelmed by the pressures of work and don’t have the time to put together a very meaningful speech, so you can have your peace of mind

• Yes, if you want your family, your daughter, friends, and wedding guests to shower you with very sincere compliments…just imagine how you will feel

• Yes, if you are not good with words and you feel you’re not a natural writer and you are struggling to find the right words but still want to give a great speech.

• Yes, you get so scared anytime you’re asked to say something before an audience and you really want to save yourself from any form of embarrassment on your daughter's big day.

• Yes, if you are not too eloquent or not too sure if you are on the right track.

• Yes, if you absolutely hate speaking in public or feel this is not your thing but you want to make your son feel very proud

• Yes, if you have a day or less to the wedding and you are worried that you might make some horrible mistakes

• Yes, if you are a good speaker but you still want someone to look over or review what you've come up with!

Just imagine leaving your entire presentation in the hands of skilled wedding speech consultants who will take away your pain of spending hours thinking hard and long about what to say and what not to say.

Also, envision being patiently guided to say something that will leave a favorable impression on the mind of your listeners.

And also imagine the thrill and feeling of excitement and pride you’re going to experience when the audience leaps onto their feet and scream and shouts and even sing your praises.

Won’t you love that? I hope you do...

Wedding not too far away? Or happening in less than 24 hours? Trust me, we can deliver! it doesn’t matter if your speech is today, tomorrow, next week, next month ,next year,... we can make things work for you  

 

Ok, I am Interested, What’s the Cost?

You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.

Why? As you know, the current health and economic crisis has caused severe hardships for most people.

Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.

Yet, some daughters are still getting married and asking their moms to give speeches.

Nonetheless, not every mother could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.

So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.

Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.

So, please take advantage of it now even if your daughter’s big day is in the future.

Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video and your daughter and son-in-law and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.  

So, please take advantage of it now even if your daughter’s big day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.   

''It was perfect Dan.  I changed a few things in the speech. And I had several people come up and tell me how well done it was. I couldn't have done it better. Thanks for your help''- Marilyn, Canada

This is another note a mom sent me after her wedding. (Please click on the image to enlarge it so you can read it)

Oh Ok, How Then Do I Get Started Since I Want To Get On Board Right Away?

Ok, here’s how it works

All you have to do RIGHT NOW is to click on this link to receive an easy-to-fill-in questionnaire via email. Check your email a few hours after you’ve submitted your request.

So,

1)CLICK HERE  NOW TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT THIS QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind!

2. After that, we will send you a very short questionnaire to fill out via email! You only have to check your email a few hours after you have made your request

3. Then, you fill out the questionnaire sent through your email and please have it sent back to us…

4. We will confirm receipt of it…If something is not too clear, we will ask you to clarify….

5. If not, we will send you a wonderful draft in a couple of hours if this on very short notice….If not, after a few days

6. Then, you look it over and tell us if you are okay with it or you want to amend or reviseit till you are happy with it--although we always get it right even with the first draft.
7. Then, we ask you to pay for it. It's as simple as that!

Just a reminder of what you pay after it’s duly completed.

You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.

Why? As you know, the current health and economic crisis has caused severe hardships for most people.

Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.

Yet, some daughters are still getting married and asking their moms to give speeches.

Nonetheless, not every mother could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.

So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.

Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.

So, please take advantage of it now even if your daughter’s big day is in the future.

Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video and your daughter and son-in-law and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.  

So, please take advantage of it now even if your daughter’s big day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.   

''It was perfect Dan.  I changed a few things in the speech. And I had several people come up and tell me how well done it was. I couldn't have done it better. Thanks for your help''- Marilyn, Canada

Please note: Your speech draft comes with a proven and simple tip to master your speech or remember your speech just as you want it without carrying a paper with you.

Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise, and clarity!

''Hi Dan,

The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice).  Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.

All the best,

Matt''

Please note: Don’t fill out this form if you’re a dishonest individual. This offer is for a limited time.

So, CLICK HERE TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT A QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind and not lose money. The risk is on us!

You don't have to worry about paying our per speech for now.

Forget about money and let’s write something for you. We believe in the values of honesty and integrity and we think you should be happy with our work first.

So, Here Are The Benefits You Get When You Get On Board!

• A great speech written by our wedding speech consultants that reflects what you want to say exactly

• We coach you on how to use your voice to make your speech very exciting.

• We show you a simple but often overlook strategy to rehearse your speech even if you have a very poor memory. This method is used by great speakers like Obama and was used by Abraham Lincoln and his compatriots

• The most effective way to get your entire speech into your head without memorizing your speech. Guaranteed to help you even if you have a very poor memory or your memory is like a gold fish…most of our clients still wonder where we got this idea from. This ensures that you don't read off a sheet of paper...

Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise, and clarity!

''Hi Dan,

The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice).  Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.

All the best,

Matt''

• Ways to include humor in your speech and what it takes to do so

So, CLICK HERE TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT A QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind and not lose money. The risk is on us!

Remember, you have to see your speech first before you pay. So, you can relax and let us sweat it out at our expense!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

  

 

 

 

Mother of The Bride Speech Sample: Just See This Mother Of The Bride Speech Example And You'll Be A Step Away From Writing And Making A Heartfelt Mother Of The Bride Speech

 

A mother of the bride speech on your mind? Worried you might goof? Don't worry... we have all the answers here...just read through it carefully

Many mothers of brides come to our site in order to find the right words, ideas, and phrases that will help them put down their exact thoughts and emotions into very beautiful words.

 

 

While there is nothing wrong with that, I have been preaching on the need to consult proven mother of the bride speech samples because not only can you glean great insights from those examples, but can they also make your writing a breeze when you have to come up with an amazing speech(particularly) on short notice.

 

Today, I am so happy to let you in one of those sample mothers of the bride speech samples. One of our past clients gave us her blessings to use it after she delivered a touching mother of the bride speech many years ago.

 

First, we will look at the full speech, and then I will take each part of it, and show you how you can effortlessly say something short and sweet about your precious daughter.

 

First, let’s look at her speech in its entirety:

 

Welcome everyone, I am Shelly, Amanda’s mom, and Jerry’s mom-in-law and am so glad to see the couple surrounded by friends and family as they are united in holy matrimony.

It feels like only yesterday, Amanda’s birth renewed my joy as a mom and I had this consuming dream to raise her to become a woman who will leave an indelible footprint in her own world.

 

What was in store for her for the rest of her life, of course, I just couldn’t figure out but I had a dream that someday she would reach for the stars.

 

And so, several times at night, I’d wake up and look into her beautiful, smiling eyes and be completely overwhelmed with a sense of wonder, joy, and responsibility for my extraordinary child.

 

Though each day came with its smiles, tears, and heartaches, God gave me the strength to fully and uniquely prepare her for such a time like this.

 

Today, she’s getting married to Jerry, and I still have in mind all those precious moments of the time we’ve spent together.

 

Growing up, Amanda was fun to be with, adventurous and very sociable. Anytime, she lost her tooth, she would ask that we go to visit the dentist. Well, she was not really interested in being examined per se, but she knew she would come back home with a new toothbrush and some treats.

 

At school, she loved to play soccer and was her team’s favorite player. Through it all, she didn’t rest on her cleats but worked so hard to be on the dean’s list. She also went on to become Prom Queen due to her poise, kindness, and genuine care for her friends and others.

 

Amanda, you’ve always been a special person, even as an infant, we knew how special, how precious you were.  When you came into our lives, you rekindled our passion and commitment to each other.

 

 

 

As the years went by, you never gave us a reason to worry about it as you made sound choices every step of the way. When I look at you, I see in you true beauty, love, and an unwavering commitment to family, friends, and loved ones.

 

You’ve also been our firm backbone. I remember when you took various jobs at school and on weekends to support yourself and the family when your dad passed away a couple of years ago.

 

Today, I feel like the proudest mom ever because you’re getting married to Gary, a real gentleman you have known for 6 years now.

Guess what! Working as a nurse brings you into close contact with the infirm on a daily basis and you can understand the pain they have to endure just to survive.

 

I know you really love your patients and through your kind words and deeds, you’ve helped many who thought they had suffered long enough to still have hope and even lend a helping hand to restore their sense of self-being and vitality.

 

Amanda, that same attitude is very crucial in your walk with Gary.  So, let your words be seasoned with salt, and do your best to bring out the best in him no matter what life throws at you.

And to you Gary, we know you to be a great gentleman who loves Christen so much and your commitment to family is unquestionable.  We are honored that you’ve asked for her hand, and we know you really love her like your own soul.

 

On behalf of my husband Tom, I’d like to formally welcome you into our family with open arms and I want to thank your family for their love and support all these years.

 

ADVICE TO COUPLE

 

Gary and Amanda, I have a few words to give you before I take my seat.

Marriage is a test of real love and you should expect both good and bad times, including some rough storms.

Riding through these storms together, leaning on each other for strength and courage as allies, strengthens the marriage bonds.

As long as you weather the storms together, your marriage will endure no matter what happens. So, keep your sense of humor and you’ll make it through these storms just fine, with love.

Your love reminds of the movie’’ Notebook’’ when Noah writes to Allie that the best kind of love is the kind that awakens the soul and makes us reach for more, that plants a fire in our hearts and brings peace to our minds. And that's what you've given me. That's what I'd hoped to give to you forever.

My hope and prayer is that you will experience that same love because your love is so pure.

Love you both and God bless you.

 

 

 

Wasn’t that a short and sweet mother of the bride speech? Now, let’s take each part of the speech one step at a time and discuss it.

First, let’s look once again at the introduction…

 

Here you go:

''Welcome everyone, I am Shelly, Amanda’s mom, and Jerry’s mom-in-law and am so glad to see the couple surrounded by friends and family as they are united in holy matrimony.''

 

(Comments/your writing ideas): Take this from me. Speeches that don’t start with a short-self introduction plus greetings are not ''speeches'' at all. So, make sure you always begin speeches by acknowledging the guests just as you see above as it shows the kind of person you are)

 

''It feels like only yesterday, Amanda’s birth renewed my calling as a mom and I had this consuming dream to raise her to become a woman who will leave an indelible footprint in her own world.''

 

(Comments/your writing ideas): As the bride’s mom, you can share how you felt when she was born.

So, take your pen and put down how you felt when your daughter was born.

For example, I often start with a few of the following phrases….See examples below:

• The day my daughter was born was the best moment of my life
• Words can’t express how I felt when (your daughter’s name here) came into my life
• (your daughter’s name here) came into my life and make our joy complete

I could go on and on but those techniques can help you write a beautiful introduction...

 

That being said, let's look at the lines that follow

 

''What was in store for her for the rest of her life, of course, I just couldn’t figure out but I had a dream that someday she would reach for the stars.

 

And so, several times at night, I’d wake up and look into her beautiful, smiling eyes and be completely overwhelmed with a sense of wonder, joy, and responsibility for my extraordinary child.

 

Though each day came with its smiles, tears, and heartaches, God gave me the strength to fully and uniquely prepare her for such a time like this.''

 

(Comment/your writing ideas) …If you scroll up, you will notice that the writer touched on things like)

• Her dream for her girl
• And how the early years were like
  

 

Now, let me ask you this: Do you remember stories that come to mind as a result of your loving sacrifice and dedication back then? Put it down if you do….you may model yours after the above extract

We are done with how to write the opening lines. So, let’s see the body.

 

 

Before we do, please note that the body of your mother of the bride speech usually comprises these key elements

• Your daughter’s childhood
• Her teen years
• Her favorite sports
• Her accomplishments
• Her behavior
• How she met the groom

 

 

Well, you don’t have to include all those memories, but you have to briefly touch on the key points as seen below:

 

Growing up, she was fun to be with, adventurous and very sociable.

Anytime, she lost her tooth, she would ask that we go to visit the dentist. Well, she was not really interested in being examined per se, but she knew she would come back home with a new toothbrush and a treat.

 

At school, she loved to play soccer. She didn’t rest on her cleats but worked so hard to be on the dean’s list. She also went on to become Prom Queen, due to her poise, kindness and genuine care for her friends and others.

 

After the body, comes the conclusion. Let’s see look at this sample and then we will examine how it was written:

Amanda, you’ve always been a special person, even as an infant, we knew how special, how precious you were. When you came into our lives, you rekindled our passion and commitment to each other.

 

Growing up, you never gave us a reason to worry about it as you made sound choices every step of the way.

When I look at you, I see in you true beauty, love, and a commitment to family.

I remember when you took various jobs at school and on weekends to support yourself and the family when your dad passed away a couple of years ago.

Today, you’re getting married to Gary, a real gentleman you have known for 6 years now.

 

(Comments/your writing ideas): To do justice to the above parts as my client did, you have to put down these ideas

• Why you are so proud of her
• How you felt when she met the groom
• Then, talk about the groom’s admirable traits and why you like him
• Then, write your impressions of him in general when your daughter first brought him home
• Welcome him into your family

I hope by now you are well aware of the importance of commenting about your son-in-laws’ attributes?)

 

 

Finally, you can share your last wishes or add a couple of advice to your speech and toast the couple as illustrated…

 

Gary and Amanda, I have a few words to give you before I take my seat.

Marriage is a test of real love and you should expect both good and bad times, including some rough storms.

Riding through these storms together, leaning on each other for strength and courage as allies, strengthens the marriage bonds.

As long as you weather the storms together, your marriage will endure.

No matter what, keep your sense of humor and you’ll make it through these storms just fine, with love.

Your love reminds of the movie’’ Notebook’’ when Noah writes to Allie that the best kind of love is the kind that awakens the soul and makes us reach for more, that plants a fire in our hearts and brings peace to our minds. And that's what you've given me. That's what I'd hoped to give to you forever.

My hope and prayer is that you will experience that same love because you love is so pure.

Love you both and God bless you.

 

(Comment/writing ideas)…Sit down and reflect on what you want to say to the couple….You can get ideas from

• Poems about marriage
• Marriage quotes from movies just as I did...You may use your favorite movie
• Your own imagination...here you share stories about your daughter's life....two or three memorable events will be key
• You can use proverbs about love or marriage….for example... It is love that makes the impossible, possible."—Indian proverb
• You can use witty quotes by great minds and I love this one by George Best’’ The only happiness in life is to love and be loved)  

 

Well, if I were to write a short piece as an example using any of the above quotes, I would use George’s Best quote and that Indian proverb to come up with something like this:

 

In your walk together, there’s nothing two hearts bound by love can’t do, so always love each other because that’s the seed of your eternal happiness...

 

 

Finally, let's see how to end with a bang. Just as you can use your opening lines to make a favorable first impression,  you should put in all the required effort to ensure that your last lines will linger in the minds of the guests. To do that, there are some proven techniques you can employ and I am more than excited to share a few with you.

 

First, you can use a few lines from the excellent mother of the bride speeches you have ever seen or heard. I want to make it very simple for you, so I found this touching video to help you write a very witty and memorable conclusion. 

 

Please take just a few minutes of your time to watch and even re-watch this video and put down ideas and phrases you feel you can incorporate into your own speech.  Sit back and enjoy it. 

 

 

Second, you can use the lyrics of a well-known song. But have to put a spin on it to make it work. To give you an idea, I am going to use  

 

Second, you can use the lyrics of a well-known song. But have to put a spin on it to make it very emotional. To give you an idea, I am going to use portions of Bonnie Barney's song to write something touching. Here are excerpts of it.

''HIS LOVELY BRIDE WALKS DOWN THE AISLE,

MOM'S EYES ARE FILLED WITH TEARS

HER SON IS JOINING WITH THE ONE SHE PRAYED FOR ALL THESE YEARS
SHE SEES GOD'S HAND,

HIS PERFECT PLAN IN THE COUPLE STANDING THERE

SHE BREATHES A SIGH OF THANKS TO GOD

WHO HEARD A MOTHER'S PRAYER

KEEP HER SAFE, MAKE HER STRONG,

 

GUARD HER BODY, HEART, AND SOUL

AND LET HER LIFE BE FILLED WITH LOVE

LIGHT THE PATH THAT SHE'S BEGUN

GIVE HER FAITH FOR SHE'S THE ONE
WHO HAS GROWN INTO THE WOMAN
WHO NOW STANDS BESIDE MY SON

THE MARRIAGE VOWS ARE SPOKEN,
EXCHANGING OF THE RINGS
AND SHE PRAYS, OH FATHER, NOW I COME
AND ASK FOR ONE MORE THING

KEEP THEM SAFE, MAKE THEM STRONG
GUARD THEIR BODIES, HEARTS, AND SOULS
AND LET THEIR HOME BE FILLED WITH LOVE
LIGHT THE PATH THEY'VE NOW BEGUN

 

GIVE THEM FAITH, FOR THEY'RE THE ONES
WHO WILL GROW INTO A COUPLE
WHO WILL GLORIFY YOUR SON
LIGHT THE PATH THEY'VE NOW BEGUN
GIVE THEM FAITH, FOR THEY'RE THE ONES
LET THEM GROW INTO A COUPLE
WHO WILL GLORIFY, GLORIFY YOUR SON ''

Now, let's look at how we can get our closing remarks from that.

'' Mike and Michelle, ever since you became friends, it's been my prayer that you will be joined in marriage and it's my hope and prayer that as you begin your lives together, God will light the path you've begun and give you faith to grow into a very loving couple ''

I hope you saw how I did that, right?

 

Third, you can use a verse from the scripture if you are making a religious mother of the bride speech. An illustration could be:

''Dan and Ruth, it gives me joy to see the glowing smile on your face. Scripture affirms in I Corinthians 13:13 that there abides faith, hope, and love but love’s the greatest. 

The love you have for each other is God’s greatest gift for you, so treasure it by putting each other first in everything you do and your joy will overflow like a refreshing fountain...My hope and prayer is that you will put God at the center of everything you do and live for each other selflessly as Jesus gave himself for the world.''

Finally, you can end memorable with a touching love or marriage poem. 

P.S: Is the thought of giving you a great wedding speech keeping you up at night? It shouldn’t if you do what most moms do. By following this simple plan that's guaranteed to help you write a great mom speech like the one you read above.

Claire was quite skeptical when she came to us but we kept assuring what she will make her son and family proud-and this is what she sent over after the wedding was over.

'' Hello Dan, their wedding went very well. The usual stress beforehand for the couple organizing the event but all things to do went so smoothly. I also like to say that I'm so proud of my speech, almost got a standing ovation, lol! I'm so glad I've found you. I will definitely recommend you to my friends and family for future weddings. I wish you the very best.''-  Claire, New Zealand

Want to know how she did just that? She got on board our wedding speech program and one of our talented speech consultants helped her out.

Want to get on board? You should by first filling out this form.

This is a letter a mom sent me after her wedding. (Please click on the image to enlarge it so you can read it)

Ok, Is This Offer For Me?

• Yes, if you are expecting nothing less than a very special, beautiful, unique, and memorable speech.

• Don’t have much time to write a perfect speech just as you want it because of work demands and other life's pressure or even sick? Then, let’s take care of it and the guests will definitely sing your praises--we have done it for so many others and it's your turn now!

• Yes, if you are overwhelmed by the pressures of work and don’t have the time to put together a very meaningful speech, so you can have your peace of mind

• Yes, if you want your family, your daughter, friends, and wedding guests to shower you with very sincere compliments…just imagine how you will feel

• Yes, if you are not good with words and you feel you’re not a natural writer and you are struggling to find the right words but still want to give a great speech.

• Yes, you get so scared anytime you’re asked to say something before an audience and you really want to save yourself from any form of embarrassment on your daughter's big day.

• Yes, if you are not too eloquent or not too sure if you are on the right track.

• Yes, if you absolutely hate speaking in public or feel this is not your thing but you want to make your son feel very proud

• Yes, if you have a day or less to the wedding and you are worried that you might make some horrible mistakes

• Yes, if you are a good speaker but you still want someone to look over or review what you've come up with!

Just imagine leaving your entire presentation in the hands of skilled wedding speech consultants who will take away your pain of spending hours thinking hard and long about what to say and what not to say.

Also, envision being patiently guided to say something that will leave a favorable impression on the mind of your listeners.

And also imagine the thrill and feeling of excitement and pride you’re going to experience when the audience leaps onto their feet and scream and shouts and even sing your praises.

Won’t you love that? I hope you do...

Wedding not too far away? Or happening in less than 24 hours? Trust me, we can deliver! it doesn’t matter if your speech is today, tomorrow, next week, next month ,next year,... we can make things work for you  

 

Ok, I am Interested, What’s the Cost?

You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.

Why? As you know, the current health and economic crisis has caused severe hardships for most people.

Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.

Yet, some daughters are still getting married and asking their moms to give speeches.

Nonetheless, not every mother could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.

So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.

Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.

So, please take advantage of it now even if your daughter’s big day is in the future.

Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video and your daughter and son-in-law and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.  

So, please take advantage of it now even if your daughter’s big day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.   

''It was perfect Dan.  I changed a few things in the speech. And I had several people come up and tell me how well done it was. I couldn't have done it better. Thanks for your help''- Marilyn, Canada

This is another note a mom sent me after her wedding. (Please click on the image to enlarge it so you can read it)

Oh Ok, How Then Do I Get Started Since I Want To Get On Board Right Away?

Ok, here’s how it works

All you have to do RIGHT NOW is to click on this link to receive an easy-to-fill-in questionnaire via email. Check your email a few hours after you’ve submitted your request.

So,

1)CLICK HERE  NOW TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT THIS QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind!

2. After that, we will send you a very short questionnaire to fill out via email! You only have to check your email a few hours after you have made your request

3. Then, you fill out the questionnaire sent through your email and please have it sent back to us…

4. We will confirm receipt of it…If something is not too clear, we will ask you to clarify….

5. If not, we will send you a wonderful draft in a couple of hours if this on very short notice….If not, after a few days

6. Then, you look it over and tell us if you are okay with it or you want to amend or reviseit till you are happy with it--although we always get it right even with the first draft.
7. Then, we ask you to pay for it. It's as simple as that!

Just a reminder of what you pay after it’s duly completed.

You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.

Why? As you know, the current health and economic crisis has caused severe hardships for most people.

Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.

Yet, some daughters are still getting married and asking their moms to give speeches.

Nonetheless, not every mother could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.

So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.

Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.

So, please take advantage of it now even if your daughter’s big day is in the future.

Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video and your daughter and son-in-law and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.  

So, please take advantage of it now even if your daughter’s big day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.   

''It was perfect Dan.  I changed a few things in the speech. And I had several people come up and tell me how well done it was. I couldn't have done it better. Thanks for your help''- Marilyn, Canada

Please note: Your speech draft comes with a proven and simple tip to master your speech or remember your speech just as you want it without carrying a paper with you.

Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise, and clarity!

''Hi Dan,

The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice).  Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.

All the best,

Matt''

Please note: Don’t fill out this form if you’re a dishonest individual. This offer is for a limited time.

So, CLICK HERE TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT A QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind and not lose money. The risk is on us!

You don't have to worry about paying our per speech for now.

Forget about money and let’s write something for you. We believe in the values of honesty and integrity and we think you should be happy with our work first.

So, Here Are The Benefits You Get When You Get On Board!

• A great speech written by our wedding speech consultants that reflects what you want to say exactly

• We coach you on how to use your voice to make your speech very exciting.

• We show you a simple but often overlook strategy to rehearse your speech even if you have a very poor memory. This method is used by great speakers like Obama and was used by Abraham Lincoln and his compatriots

• The most effective way to get your entire speech into your head without memorizing your speech. Guaranteed to help you even if you have a very poor memory or your memory is like a gold fish…most of our clients still wonder where we got this idea from. This ensures that you don't read off a sheet of paper...

Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise, and clarity!

''Hi Dan,

The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice).  Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.

All the best,

Matt''

• Ways to include humor in your speech and what it takes to do so

So, CLICK HERE TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT A QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind and not lose money. The risk is on us!

Remember, you have to see your speech first before you pay. So, you can relax and let us sweat it out at our expense!

Mother of the bride speech writer or Mother of the bride speech writing service

 

Dear Anxious Mom,

 

I am  Olga...

I know you are dreaming of giving a very beautiful and heartfelt wedding speech.

 

Granted, it’s not so easy to write a great one let alone face a terrifying audience.

 

Like you, I badly wanted to give a great speech that will make my daughter proud and show her and the guests how much I really love her.

 

But, juggling work and family meant I had little time to spare. But I was obsessed with writing a beautiful speech yet finding the right words was like pulling out a child’s tooth.

 

I Was Feeling Completely Helpless

I knew the audience wanted me to do my very best because I was well known for my speaking abilities.

But, I couldn’t put my thoughts together in a very compelling way.

 

That was a bit puzzling because I had given so many speeches.

But, I never knew wedding speeches were very different.

I spent countless hours, sometimes deep into the night, but things didn’t work out as I had hoped for.

 

Thank God!  This Helped Me Out!

 

Prior to the wedding of my daughter, I was so nervous that I just couldn’t figure out how to write a very meaningful speech, and that’s when I began to seek for someone to help me so I could have my peace of mind.

 

In the process, I stumbled on this page you are currently on and I was skeptical when Dan and his team said they could help give a great wedding speech even if I hated speaking in public.

 

Well, I took a leap of faith when I found that I didn’t have to pay first to get my speech and that allayed my fears.

 

Quickly, I got started by first filling out this form as I really wanted to make a difference this time.

Dan and his team delivered what they promised and they even gave me tips on how to speak well which helped a lot.

 

When I was called to deliver my speech,  I spoke with poise, flair, and confidence and got so many compliments!!!!

My daughter was so proud of me and said that I was her hope and inspiration.

Dan and his guys asked me how my speech went afterward and this was the note I sent them.

Please see the message I sent them before and after the wedding.

 

Before:

 

After:  

 

Dear Loving Mom,

I am Dan and I run this blog.

Believe it or not, Olga is not the only one we’ve helped.

 

There are so many others as well. So, your case is not hopeless. We can help you just as we helped others. Wedding not too far away? Or happening in less than 24 hours? Trust me, we can deliver! it doesn’t matter if your speech is today, tomorrow, next week, next month ,next year,... we can make things work for you  

 

Listen, all these persons you have just listened to are mere mortals like you and me and many were scared to death about this whole wedding speech thing.

 

But they all decided to take action by asking our wedding speech consultants to help them give incredible wedding speeches and we didn’t let them down.

 

Your daughter’s wedding is a very special event and you(her mother) should not let her down in any way else she will regret asking you to give a wedding speech.

 

That’s why we are here to help you give a wedding speech that will blow everyone away-even if you are an experienced speaker or you just hate speaking before an audience.

 

Want to get on board? You should!

Ok, Is This Offer For Me?

• Yes, if you are expecting nothing less than a very special, beautiful, unique, and memorable speech.

 

• Don’t have much time to write a perfect speech just as you want it because of work demands and other life's pressure or even sick? Then, let’s take care of it and the guests will definitely sing your praises--we have done it for so many others and it's your turn now!

 

• Yes, if you are overwhelmed by the pressures of work and don’t have the time to put together a very meaningful speech, so you can have your peace of mind

 

• Yes, if you want your daughter, family, children, friends, and wedding guests to shower you with very sincere compliments…just imagine how you will feel

 

• Yes, if you are not good with words and you feel you’re not a natural writer and you are struggling to find the right words but still want to give a great speech.

 

• Yes, you get so scared anytime you’re asked to say something before an audience and you really want to save yourself from any form of embarrassment on your daughter’s big day.

 

• Yes, if you are not too eloquent or not too sure if you are on the right track.

 

• Yes, if you absolutely hate speaking in public or feel this is not your thing but you want to make your daughter feel very proud

 

• Yes, if you have a day or less to the wedding and you are worried that you might make some horrible mistakes

 

• Yes, if you are a good speaker but you still want someone to look over or review what you've come up with!

Just imagine leaving your entire presentation in the hands of skilled wedding speech consultants who will take away your pain of spending hours thinking hard and long about what to say and what not to say.

Also, envision being patiently guided to say something that will leave a favorable impression on the mind of your listeners.

And also imagine the thrill and feeling of excitement and pride you’re going to experience when the audience leaps onto their feet and scream and shouts and even sing your praises.

Won’t you love that? I hope you do...

Wedding not too far away? Or happening in less than 24 hours? Trust me, we can deliver! it doesn’t matter if your speech is today, tomorrow, next week, next month ,next year,... we can make things work for you  

 

Ok, I am Interested, What’s the Cost?

 

You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.

Why? As you know, the current health crisis has caused severe hardships for most people.

Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.

Yet, some daughters are still getting married and asking their moms to give speeches.

Nonetheless, not every mother could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.

So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.

Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.

So, please take advantage of it now even if your daughter’s big day is in the future.

Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video and your daughter and son-in-law and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.  

So, please take advantage of it now even if your daughter’s big day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.   

''It was perfect Dan.  I changed a few things in the speech. And I had several people come up and tell me how well done it was. I couldn't have done it better. Thanks for your help''- Marilyn, Canada

 

Oh Ok, How Then Do I Get Started Since I Want To Get On Board Right Away?

Ok, here’s how it works

All you have to do RIGHT NOW is to click on this link to receive an easy-to-fill-in questionnaire via email. Check your email a few hours after you’ve submitted your request.

So,

1)CLICK HERE  NOW TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT THIS QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind!

2. After that, we will send you a very short questionnaire to fill out via email! You only have to check your email a few hours after you have made your request

 

3. Then, you fill out the questionnaire sent through your email, and please have it sent back to us…

 

4. We will confirm receipt of it…If something is not too clear, we will ask you to clarify….

 

5. If not, we will send you a wonderful draft in a couple of hours if this on very short notice….If not, after a few days

 

6. Then, you look it over and tell us if you are okay with it or you want to amend it till you are happy with it--although we always get it right even with the first draft.
7. Then, we ask you to pay for it. It's as simple as that!

 

Just a reminder of what you pay after it’s duly completed.

You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.

Why? As you know, the current health crisis has caused severe hardships for most people.

Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.

Yet, some daughters are still getting married and asking their moms to give speeches.

Nonetheless, not every mother could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.

So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.

Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.

So, please take advantage of it now even if your daughter’s big day is in the future.

Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video and your daughter and son-in-law and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.  

So, please take advantage of it now even if your daughter’s big day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.   

''It was perfect Dan.  I changed a few things in the speech. And I had several people come up and tell me how well done it was. I couldn't have done it better. Thanks for your help''- Marilyn, Canada

 

Please note: Your speech draft comes with a proven and simple tip to master your speech or remember your speech just as you want it without carrying a paper with you.

Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise, and clarity!

''Hi Dan,

The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice).  Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.

All the best,

Matt''

 

Please note: Don’t fill out this form if you’re a dishonest individual. This offer is for a limited time.

 

So,CLICK HERE TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT A QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind and not lose money. The risk is on us!

You don't have to worry about paying our per speech for now.

Forget about money and let’s write something for you. We believe in the values of honesty and integrity and we think you should be happy with our work first.

 

So, Here Are The Benefits You Get When You Get On Board!

• A great speech written by our wedding speech consultants that reflects what you want to say exactly

• We coach you on how to use your voice to make your speech very exciting.

• We show you a simple but often overlook strategy to rehearse your speech even if you have a very poor memory. This method is used by great speakers like Obama and was used by Abraham Lincoln and his compatriots

• The most effective way to get your entire speech into your head without memorizing your speech. Guaranteed to help you even if you have a very poor memory or your memory is like a gold fish…most of our clients still wonder where we got this idea from. This ensures that you don't read off a sheet of paper...

Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise and clarity!

''Hi Dan,

The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice).  Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.

All the best,

Matt''

• Ways to include humor in your speech and what it takes to do so

So, CLICK HERE TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT A QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind and not lose money. The risk is on us!

Remember, you have to see your speech first before you pay. So, you can relax and let us sweat it out at our expense!

 

     

 

Mother Of The Bride Speeches Success Story And Examples

 

Amazing Story Of How An Extremely Nervous (Probably More Nervous Than You Are)

Mom Gave The Best Speech Ever…Got A Standing Ovation Even… Though He Didn’t Have The Skills To Write A Beautiful Speech…And Had Never Given A Wedding Speech Before!

...And how you can do the same!

 

Dear Worried Mother of The Bride,

I am Martha from The United States.

Ben Sirach, a philosopher said that a daughter is a treasure and a cause of sleeplessness.’

 

When I read this quote way back in college, I did not really understand what those words meant till tragedy struck our home days before my precious daughter’s big day.

 

Our Precious Daughter Is A Rising Star

Alicia was everything we just expected in a daughter. She was kind, pretty and very obedient. She showed great maturity when at an early stage in life; she joined a group in high school to raise awareness about the need to support a young woman who had lived with cancer for twelve years.

 

 

She was decorated by her school and the federal government for raising awareness about a disease that was taking the lives of so many great women at the time.

Her dad nicknamed her Mother Theresa-a name she gave her because she did everything just like the famous catholic nun.

She was even the valedictorian of her class when she left college. She started a website while in school to educate ladies about their sexuality-especially breast care and its related issues.

 

We Were Worried About Her Dream Man

When she was ripe for marriage,

 

Mother Of The Bride Speech Ideas And Tips And Examples: How To Write The Best Ever Mother Of The Bride Speech Like A Pro!

Plus proven ideas to help down your exact thoughts and emotions into very beautiful words that will make the wedding guests give you rousing applause and say nice things about your words!

 

 

 

Won’t you be happy to effortlessly put down your exact thoughts and emotions into words that will wow the wedding audience, and get you that standing ovation you’ve been dreaming of?

 

Trust me, it’s very possible if this is the first speech you’re making or even if you goofed the last time you gave a speech because we’ve helped so many mothers do just that and it’s your turn!

 

I know for sure that pouring out what’s really on your heart and mind to compose a well-thought-out speech can be a real pain in the butt.

 

It gets worse if you’re not accustomed to giving speeches or you just feel you are not cut out for speaking in public.

 

Whatever your case, kiss your worries goodbye because this post will give you a fair idea of what to expect as you craft your presentation.

 

 

What Is Your Preference?

You see, there are three main types of mother of bride speeches you hear when the couple is getting married:

• The ordinary which is fairly common.

 

The truth is, just anyone can write an ordinary speech. A teenager who doesn’t know much about love can even write one...Such speeches often don’t grab the attention of the guests.

Unfortunately, many of the words you’ll ever hear at most weddings plus the free wedding speeches you’d find online belong to this category.

Next on the bill are….

• good speeches. This kind of wedding speech tries to use words you can relate to but has no power to get you excited.

Finally, we have

• the ''wow '' speech and below is a beautiful example

 

 

Have You Ever Heard This?

Have you ever been to a wedding where the speech was sung or even recited like a poem?

 

If you have, then you probably have listened to a great mother of the bride speech.

Such speeches remind us of our past lives, make us smile, and it touches our hearts in ways that leave some people in the audience with moist eyes.

 

This kind will definitely make your family proud; it will make the audience sing your praises, and you are bound to get tons of compliments after you’re done speaking.

 

This is what the audience wants to hear from you and this should be your dream speech.

 

Wondering how to do that? Don’t worry because I am going to show you how to combine wit, humor, and a story in the same speech to create a wow effect, so don’t throw in the towel yet.

 

 

Being a wedding speech consultant to several mothers around the world, I know what it takes to write one.

 

To create a simple outline for the speech I intend to write, I start off by myself these simple questions:

• How did you feel when your daughter was born?

 

• What were your dreams for her?

 

• How was she like when she was a toddler?

 

• How was she like when she reached her teens?

 

• What are her accomplishments in life?

 

• What are your proudest moments about her life?

 

• Why will you miss her?

 

• Why do you think the groom is a perfect match?

 

• Why do you really love her?

 

• What do you want to say to her? For example…Amanda, you’ve always made me so proud but no words can describe the joy I feel deep inside my heart as you’re getting married to the man who has the key to the door of your heart.

 

• What advice do you have for her or well-wishes?

 

• What do you want to say about the groom?

 

• What are his wonderful qualities?

                 

Noticed how these questions follow one another?

 

Well, I have deliberately arranged it in that order so that your speech can flow coherently after you have provided answers to them.

 

 

Let’s use answers to questions 1-4 to write a brief extract.

How did you feel when your daughter was born? I was happy

 

What were your dreams for her? To be successful

 

How was she like when she was a toddler? Very creative, loving and loved to dress up

 

How was she like when she reached her teens? Very focused, obedient and very supportive     

          

 

Now, let’s write our speech using the words in red.

GREETINGS, SELF-INTRODUCTION AND APPRECIATION

Good evening, ladies and gentlemen, thanks a lot for coming to support the family.

I would like to thank you for coming and I wish you well. I am Grace, Mary’s mom and Jerry’s mother-in-law.

On behalf of my family, I would like to welcome you all.

 

SPEECH BEGINS

Words cannot just describe how I felt when Mary came into our lives one beautiful afternoon on Valentine’s Day.

At birth, it was prayer and hope that she becomes a successful person.

As a toddler, she was very creative, loving and loved to dress up.

I remember when he would put on makeup and put on my fedora hat and tell me that he wanted to go on a date with his dad.

 

Growing up, she was much focused and kind.

 

Mary worked so hard to support me when her dad passed away. When she got her first job as a salesgirl, she helped me...

I hope you have a clear idea of how we used our answers (see in red) to write a brief mother of the bride's speech. Noticed how each answer is built on the other?

 

 

That’s exactly how wedding speech pros write speeches; the wedding guests love to listen to over and over again.

I guess by now you can write your speech. You can. Just find some well-written mother of the bride speech samples and you will get a fair idea of what I have been trying to explain so far

Study those examples and you’ll find more ideas for crafting a very beautiful speech that will make your daughter and family proud!

P.S: Can you come up with a great speech like the one above? As the mother of the bride, everyone will be on the lookout for your great speech and you can't let the bride and her husband, friends, and family down by giving an ordinary speech.

You certainly owe it to your loving daughter to come up with an incredible speech.

If the thought of giving a great wedding speech is hanging over you like a death sentence, then you have to follow this simple plan that's guaranteed to help you write a great  mom speech like the one you read above.

Claire was quite skeptical when she came to us but we kept assuring what she will make her son and family proud-and this is what she sent over after the wedding was over.

'' Hello Dan, their wedding went very well. The usual stress beforehand for the couple organizing the event but all things to do went so smoothly. I also like to say that I'm so proud of my speech, almost got a standing ovation, lol! I'm so glad I've found you. I will definitely recommend you to my friends and family for future weddings. I wish you the very best.''-  Claire, New Zealand

Want to know how she did just that? She got on board our wedding speech program and one of our talented speech consultants helped her out.

Want to get on board? You should by first filling out this form.

This is a letter a mom sent me after her wedding. (Please click on the image to enlarge it so you can read it)

Ok, Is This Offer For Me?

• Yes, if you are expecting nothing less than a very special, beautiful, unique, and memorable speech.

• Don’t have much time to write a perfect speech just as you want it because of work demands and other life's pressure or even sick? Then, let’s take care of it and the guests will definitely sing your praises--we have done it for so many others and it's your turn now!

• Yes, if you are overwhelmed by the pressures of work and don’t have the time to put together a very meaningful speech, so you can have your peace of mind

• Yes, if you want your family, your daughter, friends, and wedding guests to shower you with very sincere compliments…just imagine how you will feel

• Yes, if you are not good with words and you feel you’re not a natural writer and you are struggling to find the right words but still want to give a great speech.

• Yes, you get so scared anytime you’re asked to say something before an audience and you really want to save yourself from any form of embarrassment on your daughter's big day.

• Yes, if you are not too eloquent or not too sure if you are on the right track.

• Yes, if you absolutely hate speaking in public or feel this is not your thing but you want to make your son feel very proud

• Yes, if you have a day or less to the wedding and you are worried that you might make some horrible mistakes

• Yes, if you are a good speaker but you still want someone to look over or review what you've come up with!

Just imagine leaving your entire presentation in the hands of skilled wedding speech consultants who will take away your pain of spending hours thinking hard and long about what to say and what not to say.

Also, envision being patiently guided to say something that will leave a favorable impression on the mind of your listeners.

And also imagine the thrill and feeling of excitement and pride you’re going to experience when the audience leaps onto their feet and scream and shouts and even sing your praises.

Won’t you love that? I hope you do...

Wedding not too far away? Or happening in less than 24 hours? Trust me, we can deliver! it doesn’t matter if your speech is today, tomorrow, next week, next month ,next year,... we can make things work for you  

 

Ok, I am Interested, What’s the Cost?

You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.

Why? As you know, the current health and economic crisis has caused severe hardships for most people.

Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.

Yet, some daughters are still getting married and asking their moms to give speeches.

Nonetheless, not every mother could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.

So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.

Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.

So, please take advantage of it now even if your daughter’s big day is in the future.

Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video and your daughter and son-in-law and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.  

So, please take advantage of it now even if your daughter’s big day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.   

''It was perfect Dan.  I changed a few things in the speech. And I had several people come up and tell me how well done it was. I couldn't have done it better. Thanks for your help''- Marilyn, Canada

This is another note a mom sent me after her wedding. (Please click on the image to enlarge it so you can read it)

Oh Ok, How Then Do I Get Started Since I Want To Get On Board Right Away?

Ok, here’s how it works

All you have to do RIGHT NOW is to click on this link to receive an easy-to-fill-in questionnaire via email. Check your email a few hours after you’ve submitted your request.

So,

1)CLICK HERE  NOW TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT THIS QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind!

2. After that, we will send you a very short questionnaire to fill out via email! You only have to check your email a few hours after you have made your request

3. Then, you fill out the questionnaire sent through your email and please have it sent back to us…

4. We will confirm receipt of it…If something is not too clear, we will ask you to clarify….

5. If not, we will send you a wonderful draft in a couple of hours if this on very short notice….If not, after a few days

6. Then, you look it over and tell us if you are okay with it or you want to amend or reviseit till you are happy with it--although we always get it right even with the first draft.
7. Then, we ask you to pay for it. It's as simple as that!

Just a reminder of what you pay after it’s duly completed.

You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.

Why? As you know, the current health and economic crisis has caused severe hardships for most people.

Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.

Yet, some daughters are still getting married and asking their moms to give speeches.

Nonetheless, not every mother could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.

So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.

Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.

So, please take advantage of it now even if your daughter’s big day is in the future.

Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video and your daughter and son-in-law and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.  

So, please take advantage of it now even if your daughter’s big day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.   

''It was perfect Dan.  I changed a few things in the speech. And I had several people come up and tell me how well done it was. I couldn't have done it better. Thanks for your help''- Marilyn, Canada

Please note: Your speech draft comes with a proven and simple tip to master your speech or remember your speech just as you want it without carrying a paper with you.

Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise, and clarity!

''Hi Dan,

The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice).  Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.

All the best,

Matt''

Please note: Don’t fill out this form if you’re a dishonest individual. This offer is for a limited time.

So, CLICK HERE TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT A QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind and not lose money. The risk is on us!

You don't have to worry about paying our per speech for now.

Forget about money and let’s write something for you. We believe in the values of honesty and integrity and we think you should be happy with our work first.

So, Here Are The Benefits You Get When You Get On Board!

• A great speech written by our wedding speech consultants that reflects what you want to say exactly

• We coach you on how to use your voice to make your speech very exciting.

• We show you a simple but often overlook strategy to rehearse your speech even if you have a very poor memory. This method is used by great speakers like Obama and was used by Abraham Lincoln and his compatriots

• The most effective way to get your entire speech into your head without memorizing your speech. Guaranteed to help you even if you have a very poor memory or your memory is like a gold fish…most of our clients still wonder where we got this idea from. This ensures that you don't read off a sheet of paper...

Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise, and clarity!

''Hi Dan,

The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice).  Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.

All the best,

Matt''

• Ways to include humor in your speech and what it takes to do so

So, CLICK HERE TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT A QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind and not lose money. The risk is on us!

Remember, you have to see your speech first before you pay. So, you can relax and let us sweat it out at our expense!

 

Mother Of The Bride Speech Ideas And Tips

Ideas and Tips to help you write a very beautiful mother of the mother speech without trying so hard

 

 

 

Today, I want us to see how to effectively write one critical aspect of the mother of the bride speeches.

As you probably you, the opening lines or the introduction of the mother of the bride speech plays a key role in the way you

present your message to your audience on your daughter’s big day.

 

Since first impressions count a lot, it stands then to reason that you should put a great deal of thought and effort into how you open your message since you can never ever have a second chance to make a first impression.

 

Besides capturing the attention of the wedding guests engaging them on a personal level, a heart-warming introduction certainly has the power to break the ice and relieve you from stress and nervous tension.

 

 

How Then Do You Do Write An Intro That Speaks To The Heart?

First, you can decide to make your introduction very humorous.

Most moms I have worked with, prefer giving hilarious remarks at the start of their speeches.

This Is An Example Of A Mother Of The Bride Speech

Good evening ladies and gentlemen, thanks for coming from all the continents of the world to be with us today. Thanks from the bottles of my heart. (Comments: the deliberate use of ‘’bottles’’ as though your tongue slipped when you really wanted to say bottom. This is to make the guests laugh)

 

Now, let us identify what made the speech funny. You would find out that the use of the word bottles makes it so. Can you imagine any other way to make an introduction rib-cracking?

 

Have you ever been to a comedy show where the humorist made you very cheerful? You might notice that several things about that performer made your day.

 

It could have been the way he walked on stage or how he was even dressed.

Sometimes, your words alone cannot make the wedding guests excited but how you appear on stage and what you appear with can make all the difference.

 

I recently wrote a speech for this woman from Australia and she asked me to add some funny lines even though the information she supplied wasn’t too interesting.

 

She told me her daughter hated seeing insects, so as I thought of how best to make her speech funny, I had this brainwave.

 

This is what I told her. Abigail, why don’t you wrap and present an insecticide spray to the groom and tell him to use it kill all those nasty and horrible bugs.

 

Believe it or not, our plan worked and the guests loved every bit of her humor.

    

 

These Ideas Will Make The Guests Say You Are The Best Speaker

For example, you can walk upstage in a rather bizarre wig or wear an unusual high heeled and you will bring the house down before you even say something about your daughter and son –in-law.

                   

Please try it because it is one perfect way of engaging your audience.

Another way of opening your speech is by turning your speech into a song.

To put your speech in song, you simply write your speech from scratch and learn to sing it if you have a good voice.

 

Or you can model your speech-song based on a popular song you know of like this one: Martina McBride’s "In My Daughter's Eyes

Okay, here are the lyrics to help you sing along.

Lyrics

In my daughter's eyes
I am a hero
I am strong and wise
And I know no fear

But the truth is plain to see
She was sent to rescue me
I see who I want to be
In my daughter's eyes

In my daughter's eyes

Everyone is equal
Darkness turns to light
And the world is at peace
This miracle God gave to me
Gives me strength when I am weak
I find reason to believe
In my daughter's eyes

And when she wraps her hand around my finger
How it puts a smile in my heart
Everything becomes a little clearer

I realize what life is all about
It's hanging on when your heart is had enough
It's giving more when you feel like giving up
I've seen the light
It's in my daughter's eyes

In my daughter's eyes
I can see the future
A reflection of who I am and what will be
And though she'll grow and someday leave

Maybe raise a family
When I'm gone I hope you'll see
How happy she made me
For I'll be there
In my daughter's eyes

 

Let’s see how to do just that based on a song written by any musician.

 

First, let’s see Martina McBride’s "In My Daughter's Eyes" and then I will show you how to get something written out of her lyrics.

                    

Please note: To get something memorable out of this song, you need to tweak it a bit to suit whatever you want to say.

But first look it up online and see how she sings this beautiful song so you can get an idea of how to go about it.

Now, watch me while I change some of the words in her song to write a speech you can really sing.

 

 

P.S You may scroll up this page and press the play button and review the brief piece below carefully.

 

Ok, enough said, let’s dive right in.

Good afternoon ladies and gentlemen, I am Amy, mom of the bride.

My eyes are filled with tears of joy as my daughter leaves to start her own. (beat in the background to accompany song)

In her eyes, I was a heroine.

I was the strongest and wisest person she ever knew

But the truth is God was preparing another hero for her.

He was sent to rescue her when God saw I was growing old and she needed someone to love and cherish her like I do.

In her eyes, I see joy and happiness.

 

But mine is full of tears because she’s gone to be with that special person she loves and cares for deeply.

But I don’t have to worry because I believe in her new guardian.

(Insert groom’s name here For example….Dan told me that being with my precious baby girl makes him feel like God is so near and it conquers his fears.

 

 

So I find a reason to believe in my daughter’s eyes because it gives me the strength to carry on knowing an angel is holding her back.

 

Can you write something like that using your favorite song or even with Martina’s?  Don’t say you can because it’s not very hard at all.

 

This short mother of the bride speech can inspire you to write a message you can sing or recite like a poem.

 

Just believe you can and you will be pleasantly surprised that you too can write a beautiful mother of the bride speech that will you earn lots of compliments from your daughter, family and everyone in the wedding hall!

 

What are you waiting for? Your daughter will be counting on you to say something very special about her and you owe her the love she deserves on her big day.

P.S: Can you come up with a great speech like the one above? As the mother of the bride, everyone will be on the lookout for your great speech and you can't let the bride and her husband, friends, and family down by giving an ordinary speech.

You certainly owe it to your loving daughter to come up with an incredible speech.

If the thought of giving a great wedding speech is hanging over you like a death sentence, then you have to follow this simple plan that's guaranteed to help you write a great mom speech like the one you read above.

Claire was quite skeptical when she came to us but we kept assuring what she will make her son and family proud-and this is what she sent over after the wedding was over.

'' Hello Dan, their wedding went very well. The usual stress beforehand for the couple organizing the event but all things to do went so smoothly. I also like to say that I'm so proud of my speech, almost got a standing ovation, lol! I'm so glad I've found you. I will definitely recommend you to my friends and family for future weddings. I wish you the very best.''-  Claire, New Zealand

Want to know how she did just that? She got on board our wedding speech program and one of our talented speech consultants helped her out.

Want to get on board? You should by first filling out this form.

This is a letter a mom sent me after her wedding. (Please click on the image to enlarge it so you can read it)

Ok, Is This Offer For Me?

• Yes, if you are expecting nothing less than a very special, beautiful, unique, and memorable speech.

• Don’t have much time to write a perfect speech just as you want it because of work demands and other life's pressure or even sick? Then, let’s take care of it and the guests will definitely sing your praises--we have done it for so many others and it's your turn now!

• Yes, if you are overwhelmed by the pressures of work and don’t have the time to put together a very meaningful speech, so you can have your peace of mind

• Yes, if you want your family, your daughter, friends, and wedding guests to shower you with very sincere compliments…just imagine how you will feel

• Yes, if you are not good with words and you feel you’re not a natural writer and you are struggling to find the right words but still want to give a great speech.

• Yes, you get so scared anytime you’re asked to say something before an audience and you really want to save yourself from any form of embarrassment on your daughter's big day.

• Yes, if you are not too eloquent or not too sure if you are on the right track.

• Yes, if you absolutely hate speaking in public or feel this is not your thing but you want to make your son feel very proud

• Yes, if you have a day or less to the wedding and you are worried that you might make some horrible mistakes

• Yes, if you are a good speaker but you still want someone to look over or review what you've come up with!

Just imagine leaving your entire presentation in the hands of skilled wedding speech consultants who will take away your pain of spending hours thinking hard and long about what to say and what not to say.

Also, envision being patiently guided to say something that will leave a favorable impression on the mind of your listeners.

And also imagine the thrill and feeling of excitement and pride you’re going to experience when the audience leaps onto their feet and scream and shouts and even sing your praises.

Won’t you love that? I hope you do...

Wedding not too far away? Or happening in less than 24 hours? Trust me, we can deliver! it doesn’t matter if your speech is today, tomorrow, next week, next month ,next year,... we can make things work for you  

 

Ok, I am Interested, What’s the Cost?

You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.

Why? As you know, the current health and economic crisis has caused severe hardships for most people.

Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.

Yet, some daughters are still getting married and asking their moms to give speeches.

Nonetheless, not every mother could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.

So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.

Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.

So, please take advantage of it now even if your daughter’s big day is in the future.

Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video and your daughter and son-in-law and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.  

So, please take advantage of it now even if your daughter’s big day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.   

''It was perfect Dan.  I changed a few things in the speech. And I had several people come up and tell me how well done it was. I couldn't have done it better. Thanks for your help''- Marilyn, Canada

This is another note a mom sent me after her wedding. (Please click on the image to enlarge it so you can read it)

Oh Ok, How Then Do I Get Started Since I Want To Get On Board Right Away?

Ok, here’s how it works

All you have to do RIGHT NOW is to click on this link to receive an easy-to-fill-in questionnaire via email. Check your email a few hours after you’ve submitted your request.

So,

1)CLICK HERE  NOW TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT THIS QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind!

2. After that, we will send you a very short questionnaire to fill out via email! You only have to check your email a few hours after you have made your request

3. Then, you fill out the questionnaire sent through your email and please have it sent back to us…

4. We will confirm receipt of it…If something is not too clear, we will ask you to clarify….

5. If not, we will send you a wonderful draft in a couple of hours if this on very short notice….If not, after a few days

6. Then, you look it over and tell us if you are okay with it or you want to amend or reviseit till you are happy with it--although we always get it right even with the first draft.
7. Then, we ask you to pay for it. It's as simple as that!

Just a reminder of what you pay after it’s duly completed.

You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.

Why? As you know, the current health and economic crisis has caused severe hardships for most people.

Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.

Yet, some daughters are still getting married and asking their moms to give speeches.

Nonetheless, not every mother could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.

So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.

Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.

So, please take advantage of it now even if your daughter’s big day is in the future.

Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video and your daughter and son-in-law and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.  

So, please take advantage of it now even if your daughter’s big day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.   

''It was perfect Dan.  I changed a few things in the speech. And I had several people come up and tell me how well done it was. I couldn't have done it better. Thanks for your help''- Marilyn, Canada

Please note: Your speech draft comes with a proven and simple tip to master your speech or remember your speech just as you want it without carrying a paper with you.

Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise, and clarity!

''Hi Dan,

The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice).  Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.

All the best,

Matt''

Please note: Don’t fill out this form if you’re a dishonest individual. This offer is for a limited time.

So, CLICK HERE TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT A QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind and not lose money. The risk is on us!

You don't have to worry about paying our per speech for now.

Forget about money and let’s write something for you. We believe in the values of honesty and integrity and we think you should be happy with our work first.

So, Here Are The Benefits You Get When You Get On Board!

• A great speech written by our wedding speech consultants that reflects what you want to say exactly

• We coach you on how to use your voice to make your speech very exciting.

• We show you a simple but often overlook strategy to rehearse your speech even if you have a very poor memory. This method is used by great speakers like Obama and was used by Abraham Lincoln and his compatriots

• The most effective way to get your entire speech into your head without memorizing your speech. Guaranteed to help you even if you have a very poor memory or your memory is like a gold fish…most of our clients still wonder where we got this idea from. This ensures that you don't read off a sheet of paper...

Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise, and clarity!

''Hi Dan,

The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice).  Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.

All the best,

Matt''

• Ways to include humor in your speech and what it takes to do so

So, CLICK HERE TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT A QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind and not lose money. The risk is on us!

Remember, you have to see your speech first before you pay. So, you can relax and let us sweat it out at our expense!