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Mother Of The Bride Speech: The Ultimate Guide To Writing The Best Mother Of The Bride Speech Ever

 

Looking for tips and ideas to help you write the best mother of the bride speech for your beloved daughter and son-in-law?

 

If you are, just stick with me for a little while and I will share with you…

• Practical tips to help you write a heartfelt mother of the bride speech
• How to write a hilarious mother of the speech even if you as serious as a piece of rock
• What to say about your son-in-law…get this wrong and you will be regret giving this speech
• Plus, a whole lot more tips to help you become the best speaker of the night.

 

 

I know what you are thinking at this moment. This is it….

What Do I Say At My Daughter’s Wedding?

 

Ok….Let’s jump right in

 

Wouldn’t you feel great having your family and friends compliment you on how great your mother of the bride wedding speech is? I can see you nodding to that idea.

 

As a professional mother of the bride speech, I know for sure that the goal of every mother of the bride is to write and deliver the best mother of the bride wedding speech.

 

How do I know this? Whenever mothers of the bride ask for help with their speeches, the recurring request is:

‘’Dan, my daughter is getting married and I am at a complete loss as to what to say. Can you help make my speech very special and unique? ‘’

 

If that’s what you are thinking of , just pause for a moment and picture yourself delivering your mother of the bride speech with poise and confidence.

 

 

Again, close your eyes for a moment and imagine how happy you would be if you could easily write a very exceptional and unique mother of the bride speech.Those mental pictures can spur you to work harder for what you want.

 

This Can Help You Calm Nerves And Master Your Mother Of The Bride Speech

 

When a bride’s mom imagine saying a few remarks about her daughter and son-in-law nonetheless, her mental disposition looks fuzzy because somehow we have all grown up to believe we are not good enough to speak in public.

 

The truth is you are not. Guess what? Those beliefs are a result of past experiences. For example, if you goofed up back when you were asked to speak before a small group of people, your family and friends would probably conclude that you are not cut out to be a public speaker.

 

Based on their baseless feedback, you clung to this view that you are not good enough to speak in public. That explains why you keep messing up whenever you are asked to talk to even a small group of people.

 

This limiting belief has kept you from becoming the best version of yourself. So, you are not a terrible writer or speaker as you imagine yourself to be.

 

When you take practical steps to dismantle this mental shackle, you will be bracing yourself up for success. 

 

What use is it if you have written a great mother of the bride speech but don’t have the guts to deliver it well?

 

So, you have approach this with a renewed mindset as how we think, what we believe, and how we act, impact almost everything we sight our focus on.

 

That being said, let’s look at practical steps to calming your nerves and mastering your speech so you can deliver it with absolute flair and confidence.

• Envision yourself speaking confidently even if your mind starts to play silly tricks on you. As you keep your gaze on the positive outcome of your speech in spite of those nagging voices in your head, your fears will be kept at bay.
• Don’t be a prisoner of your past. Left go off past experiences and focus on this and you will have peace of mind. No one is going to judge you or rate your performance. They just want to listen to beautiful stories about your daughter and who she’s grown up to be.
• It is said that adequate preparation kills stress and anxiety. So, make sure you prepare and plan well ahead of time and you will succeed.

 

With that said, let’s look at how to plan and prepare for your mother of the bride speech.

 

Steps To Writing Your Mother Of The Bride Speech

 

Speaking about planning for your toast, I am reminded of these thoughtful words by Jesus:

 

“Is there anyone here who, planning to build a new house, doesn’t first sit down and figure the cost so you’ll know if you can complete it? If you only get the foundation laid and then run out of money, you’re going to look pretty foolish. Everyone passing by will poke fun at you: ‘He started something he couldn’t finish.’’- Luke 14: 28-30

 

Before delivering your presentation, it is crucial to spend time thinking about it by first figuring out what your writing goals are.

 

The following questions can help you set your writing goals:

• Am I going to do this speech all by myself?
• Is it a wise idea to do a joint mother or parents of the bride speech with my husband? If you are thinking about that, this video example can help. 

• Do I want to make a very simple mother of the bride speech?
• Do I want to make a short mother of the bride speech?
• Do I want to make it hilarious? This is an example:
• How do I want to make my family and friends feel after hearing my speech? To make them laugh, cry or both? Here’s a funny mother of the bride speech video example if you have that in mind:

                             

• When and where will your mother of the bride speech be delivered? At the bridal shower? Wedding reception? At the rehearsal dinner?

 

Question: What are your writing goals for this wedding speech? Write it down on stick-it-notes and any other label and fix it to a prominent place in your home to remind you of the task ahead. That way, you won’t put it off until the last moment.

 

You might also want to consider the duration of your speech. The question most moms ponder is: how long should my mother of the bride speech be? If you ask me what the length of your mother of the bride speech should be, I would tell you to go with what you are comfortable with.

 

I have written both long and short speeches and in most cases, I made sure the storyline was interesting and exciting.

 

In the unlikely event that you are asked by the bride to speak for say (five minutes), then please respect her wishes.

 

You will only be forgiven if you delivered a truly touching mother of the bride toast.

 

From working with mothers on their speeches, I have come across some really sweet but long mother of the speeches. And I have also seen very short but engaging speeches.

 

What’s most important is to make sure your speech won’t bore the wedding guests to death.

 

There should be something in it to make your daughter feel special, loved, and thankful for having you in her life.

 

Let’s Look At This Next: Memories About Your Daughter

 

You have to look for fond memories about your daughter since they are like strands of golden threads that connect the past to current events.

 

So, start by writing down stories about the good and bad times and how much she means to you.

 

If for some reason, you are struggling to remember all those wonderful moments, then you can follow this route to get them back to your mind.

 

• Where is your family photo album? Go find it and flip through the pages. As you do, ask yourself these questions:
• What story does this picture remind me of? Put that memory down on paper
• What does each image tell you about her character traits?
• Do you still have letters and notes and cards she sent you on important days like your wedding anniversary, valentine day, birthday, mother’s day and so on. Go through them and see if you can find lines you can weave into your presentation
• Why don’t you speak with the bride’s father or your own parents and ask them to share some memories? Chances are that they have stories you may have forgotten. They say there’s no harm in asking, right?

 

 

Check Out Mother Of The Bride Speech Examples And Templates

 

This is what I think it’s the most powerful tool for easily and quickly writing mother of the bride speeches.

 

If you have no idea about what to say, have several ideas but don’t know where to start, how to put your stories together, then I recommend that you look for video and well-written mother of the bride speech examples and templates.

 

I would like to share these examples with you. The first is a video clip. Why should you watch it?

 

It’s because mother of the bride speech video examples complement written examples in the sense that you are able to learn how great speeches are actually delivered after it’s captured on paper.

Besides, you can borrow a few ideas from watching them and adapt it for your own script. Here’s a video example:

 

 

Of course, the other version of it is the written piece.

 

I am going to share one with you. Afterwards, we will analyze it through the eyes of a mother of a bride speech writer so that you too can bring frame together beautiful stories about your daughter, using all those memories you have already written down.

 

This is it:

A Short Mother Of The Bride Speech Example/Template

 

This is the speech journalist and presenter,Katie Anne Couric, gave at her daughter’s wedding.

 

“Welcome, everyone. Gosh, I haven’t spoken in front of this many people since I anchored the CBS Evening News! 

 

Given the challenges and sadness of the last year and a half, how lucky are we to be here? Together for a weekend of pure, unadulterated joy, and for some of you, a never-ending booze fest. And while I’m not going to get political here, I am going to quote Hillary Clinton — who famously said, ‘It takes a village to raise a child.’ Because our village is here tonight.

 

I could never name every person, every act of kindness and support so many people here have shown our family through the years because we’d never get back on the dance floor. But from Thanksgivings in Boston, Easters in Darien, countless playdates and dinners, birthdays remembered from near and far, beach barbecues, churros at Disneyland, swimming in the Caribbean, dancing in a restaurant in Serifos, Halloween, proms and parties, and navigating mean boys during those harrowing high school years, how incredibly lucky we’ve been to have all of you in our lives, in good times and in bad.

 

As many of you know, there’s no finer compliment than hearing you’ve done a good job raising your children. I can say with certainty I could not have done it without Lori Beth Meyer, who is here tonight. For 11 years, Lori Beth was my partner in almost every way. I will be forever grateful for her unwavering love, support, and patience and for bringing stability to our often wobbly three-legged stool.

 

As time marched on, Ellie’s village expanded. Roots and wings, my sister-in-law Clare used to say, that’s what you need to give your children. While many of you helped build a strong foundation, there are others here tonight who helped Ellie soar and come into her own.

 

Many of the amazing young women here (and a few good men) represent the deep and lasting friendships formed at Yale. And to see Ellie bond with such a fantastic, dynamic group of friends in Los Angeles is both thrilling and wonderfully comforting.

 

Meanwhile, the Molners have added such a rich, unexpected dimension to our lives. John’s love and devotion, wicked sense of humor, and exacting personality — well, Molner, you’ve got your hands full and I can’t imagine life without Henry, Allie, Tom, Andy, and David. And the fact that Herbie and Paula immediately treated Ellie and Carrie like their own grandchildren means the world to us.

 

Now you’re probably wondering, along with Mark, ‘When is she going to get to the groom?’ For the past 11 years, the center of Ellie’s universe has been Mark. Now, I have to be honest. Throughout her 20, I urged — OK begged Ellie to date around, play the field. God knows I did in my 20s. But Ellie wasn’t having it. She knew.

 

Ellie — this warm, kind, sensitive, sentimental, perceptive, empathetic, determined, spirited young woman just knew that she had already found the yin to her yang, the peanut butter to her jelly, the Jack to her Jill. Mark — she knew.

 

And now, this we all know: You are a treasure. My parents, adored by both Ellie and Carrie, would have called you a ‘fine person’ — the highest praise in our family. It’s been a privilege to get to know you and I feel even closer to you now, after hearing the reflections of your friends and family.

Your effortless talent, your humility, your loyalty, your steadiness, your patience. But most of all, we love you for loving Ellie with all your heart.

 

 

And now we have The Dobroskys!!! Mark, simply put, you have the greatest family. Granted, Loretta’s a little competitive, so I do foresee some tense salad bowl moments in our future, but seriously, what a terrific group of people! So warm and so fun.

 

I couldn’t be happier that our families are now connected. I hope this is the beginning of many holidays spent together…hopefully at the Dobrosky’s house, and I hope it’s OK if I bring some Molners and Monahans, and a few Batchelors and Courics and Wadlows. And don’t worry Loretta, I’ll bring my mom’s famous pear lime jello salad.

 

 

I wouldn’t be honest if I didn’t tell you that for many years I’d been dreading this day — because of the people who are not here. Ellie’s maternal and paternal grandparents. Mark’s maternal and paternal grandparents, although Whitey almost made it. Ellie’s aunt Marilyn.

 

My oldest sister Emily who adored Ellie. But most of all, the father of the bride, Jay Monahan. Jay would be so proud of you both and so thrilled that Ellie married a lacrosse player. And a terrific guy.

 

When Jay was in the throes of cancer and it seemed as if the end of his life might be near, he looked at me and said, ‘You know, nothing really matters except your friends and family.‘ When everything else was stripped away, Jay understood what was essential to a meaningful life. Ellie, he would be beaming to witness the woman you’ve become…and somehow, some way, I hope he is.

 

My mom used to say, ‘Into everyone’s life a little rain must fall.’ Life, in fact, is a strange alchemy of joy and sorrow, hope and despair, triumphs and disappointments.

 

But in the immortal words of Carrie’s favorite, Kacey Musgraves, ‘Hold tight to your umbrella, cause darling I’m just trying to tell you that there’s always been a rainbow hanging over your head.’ Hold tight to your umbrella, and to each other.

 

Many of us who are on the ‘back nine,’ as John would say, want you to cherish this very special chapter in your life. Enjoy every single minute…it goes by in an instant, and soon enough you may be giving a toast at your daughter’s wedding. (Don’t worry, I’m not pushing…take your time).

 

Here’s to Mark and Ellie — I wish you sunny skies and the fortitude to get through stormy weather. But most of all, I wish you a life bursting with love, light, and laughter. Cheers!”

 

If you muttered to yourself that this is something you can easily come up with while looking that example over, you really deserve a huge pat on the back.

 

But, with so many things to do to make sure that your daughter’s wedding is a blast, writing a sweet mother of the bride speech like that one can be a real struggle considering that you might not have sufficient time and peace of mind to collect your thoughts.

 

I have seen this happen to so many moms who cranked out scrappy notes about their daughter’s life in just a few days to the wedding.

 

 

Things can be fairly easy for you when you plan out your writing.  When you spend more time planning what to say, you will spend less time on the writing process.

 

What’s more, it helps you to organize your thoughts, find the best stories to support your ideas, and gives your writing a cohesive, logical flow and structure.

 

The best way to do this is to develop a structure for your mother of the bride speech. If you study the above template or any other example you will find this structure:

• Introductory remarks
• Body or outline
• Conclusion

 

 Every introduction has these features:

Greetings/Salutation and short-self introduction: Here’s an example:

Hello everyone. I’m Margaret and I’m Marc’s mother. On behalf of our entire family, I’d like to thank all of you from coming from far and near to join us in this very special celebration.

 

• Thank your family and friends for their help and support

You simply write down names of friends and family who played a key role in your daughter’s life. This example can give you a perfect idea:

 

I’d like to thank my grandmother Dix, my mother and father, my brother and sister-in-law Dan and Frank, my sister and brother-in-law Zion and Jim, Aunt Theres and Uncle Joe, Aunt Sussie, and Ken for your unconditional love, time, laughter, wisdom, advice, babysitting, encouragement, generosity, and sense of family continuity.

 

We are forever grateful and have been incredibly lucky and blessed to have all of you in our lives, in good times and in bad.

 

Then, there’s another aspect of the intro called the hook. This illustration can help you understand it better.

 

Suppose you have been asked to deliver a keynote speech at a very important function. How would you start your address? You are most likely to start on a positive note that will make a great first impression.

 

Similarly, your hook should be very engaging and make your audience think that this is going to be the best mother of the bride wedding speech ever.

 

If you start off on a wrong note, people would form a bad impression of you and conclude that your presentation will sound like a stale joke.

 

That shouldn’t be your lot. It should be like the words your spouse said on your first date: sweet and concise. Do you still remember it?

 

 

Here Are A Few Very Effective Ways To Write A Sensational Hook

 

• You can share a story about what happened before or after her birth. I still remember how a mom shared a funny story about the arrival of their new bundle of blessings. The visibly excited new dad and husband was so overjoyed that he lost control of the steering wheel and ended up in a dump unharmed.  Do you have such stories to back up your speech? Put them down and share it with the wedding guests.

 

• Any funny memory from her childhood? Did she wear your wig and use your lipstick? Was she fun to be around?  Anna told me when we worked on her speech that her little girl got lost on a park and her blood pressure shot through the roof that someone thought she needed a defibrillator.

 

• To make your introduction heart touching, you can incorporate one liners, quotes, and wise sayings to enhance your delivery. Here are some love quotes you may use. Kindly take note of the underlined sections because we will be using it for another purpose.

 

• A daughter is just a little girl who grows up to be your best friend.”

— Unknown

 

• “To my beautiful daughter. If I could only give you one thing in this life, I would give you the ability to see yourself how I see you every single day. Your beauty, your kindness, how happy you make me and how proud I am of you. Perhaps then you would be able to understand just how special you are to me.”

— Dave Hedges

 

• “I will let my daughter do whatever her heart wants. I will support her and guide her and give her all the knowledge that I have because I want her to succeed in whatever she loves.”- The Miz

 

• “A daughter may outgrow your lap, but she will never outgrow your heart.” – Unknown

 

• Our daughters are the most precious of our treasures, the dearest possessions of our homes, and the objects of our most watchful love. – Margaret Elizabeth Sangster

 

Can you use any of those quotes to write something engaging? Ok, I am going to use the underlined words from the above quotes.

 

Here they are:

 

If I could only give you one thing in this life, I would give you the ability to see yourself how I see you every single day.

 

I will support her and guide her and give her all the knowledge that I have because I want her to succeed in whatever she loves.”- The Miz

“A daughter may outgrow your lap, but she will never outgrow your heart

 

 

Now, this is a short mother of the bride speech example I wrote with the highlighted words.

 

My mom used to say that daughters are the most precious treasures of every woman. I understood that better when Karen came into my life one a blistery winter night. I still  remember it as if it only yesterday when they handed her to me and I could tell by that special look in her eyes she was my life’s most precious treasure.

 

On that day, I was overwhelmed with a deep sense of love, joy, and gratitude.  She was a truly beautiful gift. That night, I looked into her smiling eyes and promised myself to support and guide her so she grows to be the best version of herself.

 

Years have flown by and she’s grown into the woman of my dreams. Karen, you have grown into a beautiful woman inside out, but you will never outgrow my heart.

 

That’s exactly how to make the most of the quotes!

 

The body follows the introduction. The body is also known as the speech outline. With a lot of memories floating in your brain, it can be hard to distill years of memories into a succinct presentation.

 

I have been lucky to review several drafts which were not only difficult to follow but also had rich ideas scattered all over the place.

 

In view of this, almost every mom who’s creating a speech outline feels overwhelmed by questions like…

 

• What should I say about my daughter?
• What should I say about the groom?
• How do I piece my story together and make it flow from start to end?

 

These questions can leave you feeling anxious, worried, and confused.  But, this simple trick can help make you feel better and make your ideas flow.

 

Here’s what to do.

Step 1. Draw a line straight down the middle of a piece of paper so that you have two columns.

Step 2. At the top of the left column, write “Body of my speech(bride)”. At the top of the right column write “Body of my speech(groom)”.

Step 3. In the left column for the bride, start putting down answers to the following questions:

• What was she like when she was a little girl?
• How did she make my life much better? How about her siblings?
• What are some fond memories you recall?
• What were her positive character traits growing up?
• What are your most proud moments as a mom?

 

This happens next: Narrow down the ideas you would really like to use for the content of your mother of the bride speech.

 

Then, you may go back to read a great example like this one or the one above for clarity and inspiration before writing a rough draft.

 

This is equally the case when crating short notes about your new son-in-law. But, in this case, you should reflect on these questions:

 

• What are the positive attributes of the man my daughter is getting married to?
• What impression did he leave on you when you first met or got to know him?
• In what ways does he make your daughter a happy person?
• How does he balance her out?
• Do you have some really fond memories about the groom?

 

 

Now, let’s look at this:

 

How To Write A Conclusion For Your Mother Of The Bride Speech

 

Can you write one without trying so hard? If you ever write an example like this one (see below) then you are good to go because that’s what we hear at most weddings.

 

‘’ Here’s to Dan and Melissa — I wish you the best in everything you do now, tomorrow and forever. Cheers!’’

 

But, did you know you can make it more fun, memorable and exciting? Imagine ending your toast with these lines culled from the above sample:

Enjoy every single minute…it goes by in an instant, and soon enough you may be giving a toast at your daughter’s wedding. (Don’t worry, I’m not pushing…take your time).

 

How about ending with this song before proposing your toast to happy couple? But, you need a good voice to make this possible. Can you do that?

 

This third approach never fails. Pick what makes a marriage work and speak about it. You can share practical tips about communicating, dealing with resentment and anger, coping with the high and lows moments, keeping the romance and spark in marriage, managing your finances and so on. You may share a little bit of each.

 

If you have been in a very loving relationship for many years, you may share your personal secrets to marriage longevity. Here’s an example:

Mother Of The Bride Speech Example: This Amazing Mother Of The Bride Speech Sample Can Easily Help You Write A Lovely Speech For Your Daughter

 

Is the thought of writing a great mother of the bride speech is stressing you out? Please don’t worry. Just stick with me for a little while and I will share with you proven tips and ideas and examples to easily help you deliver a heartfelt mother of the bride speech.

 

How did you feel when your daughter called you out of the blue and asked you deliver a mother of the bride speech?

 

That probably might have sent a cold shiver down your spine as you wondered what you are going to say on her wedding day.

 

That’s the feeling most moms have when they have to write mother of the bride speeches. It can get quite nerve-wracking if you are not good with words or don’t consider yourself to be natural speaker.

 

 

Guess what? If you follow my simple but proven plan for easily writing a mother of the bride speech, you will go from feeling like a nervous wreck to becoming like an Oprah Winfrey behind the microphone.

 

Ok…I need this proven plan. But, where can I find it? Right here on this page, of course.

 

Before we get into the heart of it, let’s look at a potentially troubling issue for most moms and how you can take advantage of that to speak with poise and clarity.  

 

Get it wrong and you will end up embarrassing yourself even if you have written the best ever mother of the bride speech. You might not know this. But, what sets wedding speakers apart has little to do with the content of their mother of the bride speeches. Confidence is, to a large extent, responsible for the success of your wedding speech for your daughter.

 

However, the overwhelming majority of mothers don’t have the gut to speak before the crowd because of one or more of these fears:

• Fear of the unknown
• Anxiety about recurring past speaking failures
• Fear of perfectionism ensuing in low self-esteem

 

 

It’s absolutely normal to have all these fears and more prior to speaking in public because it’s in everyone to excel, particularly on a day like your daughter’s wedding day. Yours truly and all accomplished speakers and writers have these anxieties.

 

So, you shouldn’t dwell too much on your past mistakes or focus on imaginary fears. To overcome all those feelings, you have to trust in your own abilities and capabilities because no one is a better writer or speaker than you.

 

As a mother of the bride speech writer, I can tell you that building up your self-confidence is the first step towards helping you calm your nerves. That way, you can have the motivation to write your mother of the bride speech.

 

I am sure the question on your lips is…How do I build my self-confidence? It all comes down to adequate planning and executing it to the letter before you actually sit down to write or you will get stuck for ideas.

 

Here’s what the planning process entails:

• Immerse yourself in a story or two before you start to write your script
• Decide on the kind of mother of the bride speech you’d like to make
• Gather content ideas for your mother of the bride speech
• Make the most out of mother of the bride speech examples
• Write and practice your mother of the bride speech

 

Let’s consider the first bullet point:

Immerse Yourself In Your Story Before You Craft Your Mother Of The Bride Speech

 

Sounds weird, right? Mmm…not what you think though…lol…If you have never made a mother of the bride speech before, then you have to consciously immerse yourself in the experience by first watching a couple of mother of the bride speech videos.

 

Here’s why:

• It gives you an idea of what to say and what not to say
• You are able to adapt a mother of the bride speech example you really like and copy bits and pieces just from watching it

 

There are many good ones you can watch and learn from. But, I think these are great ones you can some valuable insights from.

 

Here they are:

Mother Of The Bride Speech Video Example#1

 

 

Mother Of The Bride Speech Video Sample#2

 

 

Here’s what I learned from watching both video clips.

They are both hilarious, sincere and touching. 

 

 

That’s not all….Let’s look at the next idea:

 

Choose The Kind Of Wedding Speech You’d Like To Do

 

The mother of the bride speech you choose should reflect your personality and experience. For example, if you love to tell stories, then you are better off doing narrative mother of the bride speeches.

 

If you are naturally funny person, then you can go for a hilarious mother of the bride speech.These are the kinds of mother of the bride speeches you can pick from.

 

Here they are:

• Religious/Christian mother of the bride speech
• Dramatic mother of the bride speech
• Touching/Sentimental mother of the bride speech….Here’s a video example

 

• Poetic mother of the bride speech
• Narrative mother of the bride speech
• Funny mother of the bride speech…Here’s a perfect example:

 

• A little bit of all the above speech styles

 

Now, I have good news for you. If you are not a natural writer, then this handy writing tool will a valuable gift to you.

 

Do you have any idea what this must-have tool is? Mother of the bride speech examples. This tool contains so many lines and jokes you can plug into your presentation.

 

In addition to that, you can also use it as an inspiration for coming up with your script.

 

Take this mother of the bride speech as an example.

 

Here it is: 

 

Mother Of The Bride Speech Example/Template 

 

Hello everyone. Most of you know me. I’m Celestine, Tracy’s mom. I’m so happy to be here today, to see my youngest getting married, and to watch my family grow.

 

You can see that I have my share of trials and tribulation, but I am also blessed beyond anything I ever imagined. I got to be the mother of 5 wonderful children.

 

Tracy was the youngest. She was a gift, given to me during the hardest time in my life. I was hurt, healing slowly, and grieving my late husband.

 

A man appeared who had the same surname as my husband. He remembered us from a holiday and after our tragic accident, a lot of people offered him condolences, assuming he was related. But he wasn’t. He came to visit me and

told me about it. We weren’t together long, my heart still belonged to my late husband.

 

But he gave me a wonderful gift. That priceless gift was Tracy. She was a wonderful child. She was always fun, made us laugh, and was adored by her siblings. I suffered from migraines, and she would bring cold towels and put them on my head when she was only 2 years old!

 

As a teenager, she was popular and loved to party! Especially if music was involved. She would go to music festivals and outdoor concerts. There were so many times she came home covered in mud. I always wondered if she was sleeping in a tent or a pigpen!

 

As an adult she is still funny and smart. She is so well liked by her employer the Kerry Group. They like her so much that are probably thrilled that her name will be Mrs. Kerry now!

When she met Paul I was thrilled for her. He is so kind and treats her like a queen. He is everything a mother could want for her daughter. To his mom and dad, I have to give huge credit. You have raised a fine young man.

I am so happy to welcome him to our family! The two of you are about to embark on a wonderful new adventure. Please don’t ever forget how blessed you are. Always treat one another with respect and honesty. Don’t let bad

thoughts fester, and never let good thoughts go unsaid.

 

I have to take a moment to thank my other kids, They helped make her the fabulous woman she is today. I love you all so much.

 

And Tracy, I know that your brother and my husband are together in heaven looking down on you today, both of them proud and happy!

 

Let’s raise a glass to Paul and Tracy aka Mr and Mrs. Tracy! May they live happily ever after!

 

 

I love this mother of the bride speech example for three reasons. It’s simple, sincere and touching on many levels.

 

The worst thing you can ever do is to model your wedding speech for your daughter after that mother of the bride speech example without first figuring out how it was written. Most moms make this mistake. But, you don’t have to do that too.

 

This is what I recommend you instead. After giving the above example a quick read, you can read it a second and even a third time so that the contents can be seared into your sub-conscious mind.

 

Afterward, you should split it up and analyze it. To do that, you first need to create an outline or structure from the above example.

 

When you go back to read through it carefully once more, you will notice that the whole thing is built on this speech structure:

• Introductory remarks or opening address
• How it feels like to be a mother to the bride
• She talks about her late husband
• Mom shares a memory about her childhood
• She mentions her teenage years and adulthood
• Mother of the bride talks about the groom
• She concludes by proposing a toast to the happy couple

 

With an arrangement like that, coming up with the right words and phrases wouldn’t be so hard. Using that as a framework, let’s start by analyzing Celestine’s mother of the bride wedding speech.

 

Let’s take it from the list bullet point…

 

The Introductory or Opening Remarks Of The Mother Of The Bride Speech

 

This is an excerpt.

‘’ Hello everyone. Most of you know me. I’m Celestine, Tracy’s mom. I’m so happy to be here today, to see my youngest getting married,  and to watch my family grow. ‘’

 

Anyone can write this aspect of your wedding speech. But, I think some vital components could have been added to this section.

 

I am asking myself why the speaker didn’t thank family and friends who helped her raise her daughter after her husband’s demise. Anyway, I am not a mind reader.

 

For your presentation, you have to thank some personalities who have been a tremendous blessing in your daughter’s life.

 

To give you an idea, you can thank the father of the bride, her grandma and granddad, the list goes on and on.

 

Here’s an example….

There’s an African proverb that says, “It takes a village to raise a child”. Looking around, our “village” is here today. Life threw me / us some curve balls, and I can’t name every person, every act of kindness and support so many

people here have shown my daughters and me through the years, because we’d never get back on the dance floor, but I would like to honor and remember a few extra special people. I’d like to thank my grandmother Dixon, my mother and father, my brother and sister-in-law Dan and

 

Robin, my sister and brother-in-law Tam and Bill, Aunt Julie and Uncle Edgar, Aunt Evelyn, and Mel and Weis.

 

For your unconditional love, time, laughter, wisdom, advice, babysitting, encouragement, generosity, and sense of family continuity, we are forever grateful and have been incredibly lucky and blessed to have all of you in our lives, in good times and in bad.

This is my homework assignment: Write down a few words of gratitude for individuals who have helped shaped your precious daughter’s life over the years. Then, use it to write your opening remarks.

 

Let’s look at the second bullet point:

How It Feels Like To Be A Mother

 

You can take this from these angles:

• How does it feel like to be the mom of the bride?
• How does it feel like to be her mom?
• How has she’s been a blessing in your life?
• What does her wedding day mean to you or remind you of ?

Which of those sentiments strongly resonate with you? For example, if you wish to express your feelings about how it feels like to the mother of the bride, you can jot that down and use it to hook your audience into your wedding speech.

 

The hook should not only be succinct and engaging but also give subtle clues about what you wish to say. The hook could also be mother of the bride speech jokes, quotes, and other words of wisdom.

 

Now, this happens next:

• She talks about her late husband

 

If your husband is deceased, you may mention it briefly. Remember, this is a happy occasion and you shouldn’t dwell so much on your loss.

 

I culled these lines from the above example.

‘’And Tracy, I know that your brother and my

husband are together in heaven looking down on you today, both of them proud and happy!’’

 

Let’s talk about the next point:

• Mom shares a memory about her childhood

 

You can of course share more than one anecdote about her childhood if you want to focus exclusively on that phase of her life.

 

When you get here, you can highlight these aspects of her childhood:

 

• Fun and fond memories
• Her character traits. Was she adventurous? Loving? Caring? Had a care-free spirit? Pick one out and back it up with a good story.
• Her thoughts about marriage. I remember writing Michelle’s mother of the bride speech and she asked me to insert somewhere that her daughter used to act like a bride when she was seven(7) and expressed interest in getting married early
• Do you have a memorable anecdote that still sticks in your mind?

 

Let’s look at the next thing:  

• She mentions her teenage years/adulthood

 

This is quite similar to her infancy but this center on her transition into her teens. This period can be quite dramatic but you can still craft your mother of the bride speech from these underlying themes:

 

• Your proudest moments like her 16^th birthday party, when she got her driver’s license, her graduation, engagement, and so on.
• Time spent together on vacation, getaways, camping, volunteering, etc
• When she won an award for a particular cause
• What are her accomplishments? Her first job, current job, grades in school, co-curricular activities?
• Her support for the family, friend, and others...Is she the life of the party? And does she bring the family together on special occasions? Is she fun to be around? Does she bring out the best in others?
• How does she make your life better? Another story that quickly comes to mind was when a mom of the bride wanted to badly include how supportive her darling daughter was when her beloved husband.

 

 

I think there’s something to this effect in the above mother of the bride speech example:

‘’I suffered from migraines, and she would bring cold towels and put them on my head when…! ‘’

 

This is my homework assignment for you: I have given you several writing ideas. What do you want to go for? Decide and write it down something and get a story or two to support your preferences.

This simple writing exercise can spur you on to coming with a draft mother of the bride speech.

 

We are not done yet. Let’s look at this too:

• Mother Of The Bride Talks About The Groom

 

Never use this opportunity to say something negative about him or settle personal scores even if you feel he’s not a good guy for your daughter.

 

Focus on the positive side of things by talking about the fact you daughter loves her and you look forward to how they build their lives in the coming years.

 

If you are on good terms and have built a solid relationship with him and his family over the years, then you shouldn’t leave anything to chance.

 

That way, you can share your impressions of him from when you first met him, how you have seen their relationship evolve over the years to why you think he is worthy of her love.

 

Again, grab your pen and write down some few remarks about the groom, your son-in-law.

 

Here’s what I would say about him if I don’t know him well.

It’s obvious that Mike loves Kristin and I look forward to watching them grow in love as the year unfolds….

 

This ends it all….Guess what it is?

Your Toast Or Best Wishes

You can conclude your mother of the bride speech by proposing a toast to the happy couple and wish them well.

 

You can also share some marriage advice. 

 

 

And have you thought about ending with a song? The wedding would be a blast if you end with this hilarious song if you are musically gifted. You can change a few things here and there to reflect your situation.

 

 

This is something to ponder about: Do you recall a special memory about when she was a little girl? Please write down lots of them and settle on your favorite. This can get you some motivation to get started.

P.S: Is the thought of giving you a great wedding speech keeping you up at night? It shouldn’t if you do what most moms do.

By following this simple plan that's guaranteed to help you write a great mom speech like the one you read above even if you feel you are not cut out for speaking in public or not a natural speaker.

 

Claire was quite skeptical when she came to us but we kept assuring what she will make her son and family proud-and this is what she sent over after the wedding was over.

'' Hello Dan, their wedding went very well. The usual stress beforehand for the couple organizing the event but all things to do went so smoothly. I also like to say that I'm so proud of my speech, almost got a standing ovation, lol! I'm so glad I've found you. I will definitely recommend you to my friends and family for future weddings. I wish you the very best.''-  Claire, New Zealand

Want to know how she did just that? She got on board our wedding speech program and one of our talented speech consultants helped her out.

Want to get on board? You should by first filling out this form.

This is a letter a mom sent me after her wedding. (Please click on the image to enlarge it so you can read it)

Ok, Is This Offer For Me?

• Yes, if you are expecting nothing less than a very special, beautiful, unique, and memorable speech.

• Don’t have much time to write a perfect speech just as you want it because of work demands and other life's pressure or even sick? Then, let’s take care of it and the guests will definitely sing your praises--we have done it for so many others and it's your turn now!

• Yes, if you are overwhelmed by the pressures of work and don’t have the time to put together a very meaningful speech, so you can have your peace of mind

• Yes, if you want your family, your daughter, friends, and wedding guests to shower you with very sincere compliments…just imagine how you will feel

• Yes, if you are not good with words and you feel you’re not a natural writer and you are struggling to find the right words but still want to give a great speech.

• Yes, you get so scared anytime you’re asked to say something before an audience and you really want to save yourself from any form of embarrassment on your daughter's big day.

• Yes, if you are not too eloquent or not too sure if you are on the right track.

• Yes, if you absolutely hate speaking in public or feel this is not your thing but you want to make your son feel very proud

• Yes, if you have a day or less to the wedding and you are worried that you might make some horrible mistakes

• Yes, if you are a good speaker but you still want someone to look over or review what you've come up with!

Just imagine leaving your entire presentation in the hands of skilled wedding speech consultants who will take away your pain of spending hours thinking hard and long about what to say and what not to say.

Also, envision being patiently guided to say something that will leave a favorable impression on the mind of your listeners.

And also imagine the thrill and feeling of excitement and pride you’re going to experience when the audience leaps onto their feet and scream and shouts and even sing your praises.

Won’t you love that? I hope you do...

Wedding not too far away? Or happening in less than 24 hours? Trust me, we can deliver! it doesn’t matter if your speech is today, tomorrow, next week, next month ,next year,... we can make things work for you  

 

Ok, I am Interested, What’s the Cost?

You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.

Why? As you know, the current health and economic crisis has caused severe hardships for most people.

Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.

Yet, some daughters are still getting married and asking their moms to give speeches.

Nonetheless, not every mother could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.

So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.

Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.

So, please take advantage of it now even if your daughter’s big day is in the future.

Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video and your daughter and son-in-law and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.  

So, please take advantage of it now even if your daughter’s big day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.   

''It was perfect Dan.  I changed a few things in the speech. And I had several people come up and tell me how well done it was. I couldn't have done it better. Thanks for your help''- Marilyn, Canada

This is another note a mom sent me after her wedding. (Please click on the image to enlarge it so you can read it)

Oh Ok, How Then Do I Get Started Since I Want To Get On Board Right Away?

Ok, here’s how it works

All you have to do RIGHT NOW is to click on this link to receive an easy-to-fill-in questionnaire via email. Check your email a few hours after you’ve submitted your request.

So,

1)CLICK HERE  NOW TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT THIS QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind!

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3. Then, you fill out the questionnaire sent through your email and please have it sent back to us…

4. We will confirm receipt of it…If something is not too clear, we will ask you to clarify….

5. If not, we will send you a wonderful draft in a couple of hours if this on very short notice….If not, after a few days

6. Then, you look it over and tell us if you are okay with it or you want to amend or reviseit till you are happy with it--although we always get it right even with the first draft.
7. Then, we ask you to pay for it. It's as simple as that!

Just a reminder of what you pay after it’s duly completed.

You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.

Why? As you know, the current health and economic crisis has caused severe hardships for most people.

Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.

Yet, some daughters are still getting married and asking their moms to give speeches.

Nonetheless, not every mother could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.

So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.

Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.

So, please take advantage of it now even if your daughter’s big day is in the future.

Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video and your daughter and son-in-law and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.  

So, please take advantage of it now even if your daughter’s big day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.   

''It was perfect Dan.  I changed a few things in the speech. And I had several people come up and tell me how well done it was. I couldn't have done it better. Thanks for your help''- Marilyn, Canada

Please note: Your speech draft comes with a proven and simple tip to master your speech or remember your speech just as you want it without carrying a paper with you.

Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise, and clarity!

''Hi Dan,

The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice).  Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.

All the best,

Matt''

Please note: Don’t fill out this form if you’re a dishonest individual. This offer is for a limited time.

So, CLICK HERE TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT A QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind and not lose money. The risk is on us!

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• The most effective way to get your entire speech into your head without memorizing your speech. Guaranteed to help you even if you have a very poor memory or your memory is like a gold fish…most of our clients still wonder where we got this idea from. This ensures that you don't read off a sheet of paper...

Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise, and clarity!

''Hi Dan,

The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice).  Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.

All the best,

Matt''

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So, CLICK HERE TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT A QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind and not lose money. The risk is on us!

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Mother Of The Bride Speech : How To Easily And Quickly Write A Heartfelt Mother Of The Bride Speech With These Simple But Proven Ideas And Examples

 

Is the thought of writing a great mother of the bride toast stressing you out? If it does, then, please kiss your worries goodbye because in this revealing post, I will share with you…

 

• How to use well-written mother of the bride speech samples to easily come up with a heartfelt and hilarious mother of the bride speech

• What to include and what not to include in your mother of the bride wedding reception speech or bridal shower speech

• What to say about your future son-in-law…(most moms get it wrong)…get it wrong and you’ll end up embarrassing yourself and your entire family

• Plus several other proven tips and ideas you can add to your mother of the bride wedding speech to make it memorable and unique

 

 

Every now and then, I get letters and emails from several mothers who tell me this:

‘’ Dan, I have been to several weddings in my lifetime and listened to several wedding speeches. But, most are very boring. Can you please help me write a unique and memorable mother of the bride speech for my daughter? ‘’

 

I feel sad whenever I read such messages and I always help without any hesitation. Well, you will agree with me that most wedding speeches are unexciting to say the least. So I understand their frustrations in many ways.

 

Most of those concerns and worries stem from the fact most moms don’t really have what it takes to come up with a touching mother of the bride speech.

 

 

Granted, you don’t have to worry so much about what to say and what not to say because I will be sharing with you tips and ideas interspersed with relevant examples so you can write and deliver a lovely mother of the bride wedding speech like my friend Michelle did a while back.

 

First and foremost, I would like us to read this mother of the bride speech sample/template carefully as I will be using that plus other helpful tips to make things so much easier for you.

 

Here it is:

Mother Of The Bride Speech Example/Template

 

Hello Everyone! For those of you who don’t know me, I am  Jacqueline, the proud mother of the bride.  What a happy and wonderful occasion for all of us to gather and celebrate.

 

Dan  and Evelyn both look fantastic, and that is just partly because of the expensive clothes. I have always said that the way they look at each other gives away their feelings every time.  They are just a gorgeous couple!

 

I love the fact that they met over pizza. I know everyone here knows the story, right? Dan delivered a pizza to my house. Evelyn started craving pizza often. Always calling for delivery and requesting Dan. When she left for nursing

school, Dan delivered a pizza and his phone number and asked me to pass the number onto Evelyn .  She was always great with her sisters, especially Marilyn, who got two mothers when she was born. Me and Evelyn.  

 

 

She was funny and so girly. Except when she was shoving macaroni up her nose. She loved being at home. She always preferred sleepovers at her house because we had the best snacks, always hated having to eat dinner at someone else’s house, and when she was very small she loved sleeping in Mommy’s bed.

 

She adored her first dog York, driving her Barbie car in the driveway. I remember once, just once when she was a teenager and she got busted having a party because I came home early from vacation and didn’t tell her. But overall she was always a great kid.

 

We were so close from the time she was small until, well until forever. I adored her and we did wonderful things together. She loved to play dress up, and go to work with me when she could. We were attached at the hip for a long time.

 

Today I got to play dress up with her for her most important day, and that means the world to me.

 

My daughter loved two things her whole life. The first was cheerleading. She started cheering at 5 years old, went on to lead her cheer team to win all kinds of competitions in South Hampton, including the state championship.

 

Her senior year she was cheer Captain, and she still coaches young girls today. The second thing was being a nurse, especially for babies. She always wanted to be a nurse, graduated nursing school with honors, and excelled in every nursing job she’s had. She has dedicated her life to the infants and parents in the NICU. That makes me so proud. Not only of her dedication and accomplishment, but also her sense of purpose that she has carried with her

for so long.

 

My sweet, smart, funny and caring girl met the man of her dreams over pizza. It was difficult at first because she was far away in Washington. I think I realized that he was the one when she transferred to be closer to him.

 

He is the best thing a mother could hope for as a son-in-law. He is kind, genuine, sensible, and loves my daughter deeply. He always opens the door for her, makes her smile every day, and is  a good balance for Eveyln. He’s patient, while she can be a bit feisty.

 

I think they will make great parents for my grandchildren. Yep, I dropped the grandchildren bomb in your wedding speech! No pressure…just saying. I can’t wait to see the two of you as parents!

 

I want to say that marriage can be the hardest thing you’ve ever done, but like anything difficult, it can also be the most rewarding. Just hold onto each other during the storms, and enjoy the sunny days together.

 

Always keep love and laughter in your home every day. Be partners in every way, and may all your dreams come true! I wish you nothing but blessings, poured out on both of you.

 

To Bob and Mitchelle, I’d like to thank you for raising such a tremendous guy so that my daughter could find him. And I’d like to also welcome the both of you to our family.

 

Let’s raise a glass and with it send all of ourbest intentions to this lovely couple. To Dan and Evelyn!

 

Most mothers see great examples like that one and conclude that, this is something they could have written. While that seems like a walk in the park, it actually went through a simple process to get it done.

 

Guess what? The writing process is like embarking on a journey to a place you’ve never been to. You have to plan and prepare for it from start to finish way ahead of time.

The three steps involved here are:

• The mental preparation stage
• The drafting stage
• The re-drafting stage

 

All these parts are vital to coming up with a great mother of the bride speech. So, let’s take it one step at a time.

 

First, let’s look at the first one: the mental preparation stage

 

Believe it or not, no one becomes a great speaker by virtue of their gift of oratory or writing skills. Most folks have a fair idea of what to write. But, the overwhelming majority dread speaking in public and that hampers the creative expression of their ideas.

 

If you can get past this crippling fear, then you are just a step away from mastering your speech and delivering it with ease. Wondering how you can shake off this mental shackle and put on a great show?

 

At some point in our lives, we all had to endure some kind of embarrassment when we were asked to deliver a few remarks because we goofed up a couple of times. That glaring reality makes most speakers think that they are not good speakers by virtue of their past experiences and it’s quite sad.

 

To calm your nerves and regain your mental composure, you should clear out the mental cobwebs in your mind by putting the past behind you and constantly imagining yourself speaking confidently to the admiration of your family and friends.

 

As you hold this positive mental image in your head from time to time, you will be empowered from within even if you feel you are not a naturally talented writer or speaker. That’s the first step to overcoming stage fright and calming the nervous tension spreading throughout your body.

 

Now, let’s dive into the writing process itself. To start off, you should first create an outline for your bride’s mother wedding toast. If we scroll up and read the mother of the bride speech example above, you will find out that the whole thing is built on this framework:

• Greetings
• Short self-introduction
• Thank your guests and other personalities who helped to mold your daughter’s character or personality
• Start your speech on a bright note
• Talk about your daughter in a positive light
• Talk about your son-in-law from a place of love
• Talk about the bride and groom(how they complement each other)
• End with a bit of marriage advice or best wishes
• End with a toast

 

With this structure in place, it should be easy to create ideas to help you write your mother of the bride speech for your daughter and son-in-law.

 

• Now, Let’s Start With The First Idea On The List: Greetings

       That’s so easy to write, right? Ok, then I won’t dwell on that.

 

• Now, Let’s Move On The Second Idea On The List: Short-Self Introduction

 

Let’s go back for a moment to the opening lines of the speech and see how the writer captures it.

 ‘’ Hello Everyone! For those of you who don’t know me, I am……the proud mother of the bride.  What a happy and wonderful occasion for all of us to gather and celebrate. Dan and Evelyn both look fantastic, and that is just partly because of the expensive clothes. I have always said that the way they look at each other gives away their feelings every time. They are just a gorgeous couple! ‘’

Here’s why this portion of the speech matters.

• It falls in line with wedding speech etiquette or protocol and it shows you really appreciate the fact that your family and friends took time off to attend the wedding of your daughter and son-in-law.

 

• Now, Let’s Look At The Third Idea On The List: Thank Your Guests And Other Personalities Who Molded Your Daughter

 

Here are a few examples you can model your gratitude notes after.

Hello everyone. To anyone who doesn’t know me, I’m Mica, Jenny’s very proud mother. I want to thank you all for being here today. It’s such a special occasion and it’s been made more meaningful by having each of you with us to celebrate the love of Jenny and Mike.

 

I need to specially thank Mike’s mom and dad for raising such a handsome, strong minded, driven son. Mike is definitely the person she is today because of you both and your expectations of him.

You should be so very proud of who he has become today. I thank you both every single day for sharing your wonderful son with our family and please always rest assure he is very much loved and adored by us.

Thank you for opening your hearts to Jenny and accepting her as part of your family.

Margaret, I know it was hard being a single mom. I hoped that I was some help. Know that all of us look at you with awe and inspiration. You raised a lovely lady. Please let’s give her a round of applause for that.

 

Here’s an action plan to get your brain brimming with ideas: Please write down names of people you would like to express gratitude to and mention why you are thanking them. For example, you can say how appreciative and fortunate you are for their help and support every step of the way.

 

• Having Seen That, Let’s Look At The Fourth Idea On The List: Start Your Speech On A Bright Note

 

Starting on a captivating note will set you apart from every other speaker at the wedding reception.  How then do you start with a bang? Ok…I would like to share a few examples to help you start on a memorable note.

 

First, you can dive right in by telling a little story about who she was when she was just a little girl.

Here’s an example of how this works

‘’ Evelyn was funny and so girly. Except when she was shoving macaroni up her nose…’’

 

Second, you can start with a song if you want to really strike a chord with the wedding guests. Take this very popular song some father’s sing at their daughter’s wedding.

If you want to imitate this style, you can modify it a bit by substituting a few words here and there. Let’s see how it can be done.

Here you go:

Look at the two of you dancin' that way
Lost in the moment and each other's face
So much in love, you're alone in this place
Like there's nobody else in the world

I was enough for her not long ago
I was her number one, she told me so
And she still means the world to me, just so you know
So be careful when you hold my girl
Time changes everything, life must go on
And I'm not gonna stand in your way

But I loved her first, I held her first
And a place in my heart will always be hers
From the first breath she breathed
When she first smiled at me

I knew the love of a father (comment: you just have to change father to mother) runs deep
And I prayed that she'd find you someday
But it's still hard to give her away
I loved her first

That is sweet, right? Oh, thank God I found a mother-daughter version online. Please listen to this song  from a mother’s perspective.

Believe me; the guests will always remember you whenever they hear this song and they will most likely not forget your wonderful performance.

 

Third, if you want to start on an emotional note, you may recall what happened before or after your daughter was born. I remember a mom telling me that she was so excited that when her first daughter was born, she couldn’t close her eyes at night. Prior to her birth, her doctor said they would have a boy.

 

She had always dreamed of being surrounded by girls so she was devastated by that unfortunate news and gave up hopes altogether. But on her due date, she shockingly discovered that her dream had come true. A baby girl was placed on her chest!

 

Stories like that form the very stuff of great wedding speeches. After you have delivered your opening address or introductory remarks, you then have to tell a short speech or story about your daughter. 

 

Here are simple ideas to help you craft this all-important part of the storyline. Here are a few questions that can help you come up with great ideas for the body or content of your toast.

• Write down how your daughter was like when she was a little girl
• You can jot down stories about her teen years.
• Write down how you felt when she told you about her husband-to-be.
• Jot down how you felt when she brought the groom home for the very first time
• Write down your best wishes for the couple

 

Ok. Now, write down answers for each question and put the bits and pieces together to form a rough draft. It may look bad on your first try but don’t let it put a damper on things. You can always look it over a second and third time to smoothen the rough edges.

 

Your mother of the bride speech shouldn’t be lopsided. Write about the groom too. If you don’t like him or think he won’t be a great husband, just keep this to yourself else you will ruin a happy occasion and no one will be happy with you.

You don’t want to destroy the precious friendship with your daughter, right? If you have nothing on your mind or don’t know him very well, just say that you are excited that your daughter has found someone she can’t live without.

 

Well, if you are struggling to write a few words about him, these simple questions can help you say something about the groom.

• What was meeting like when you first met him?
• How long have you known the groom?
• What are the great qualities of the groom?
• How do the bride and groom complement each other?
• Why do you think he will make an amazing husband and father?
• In what ways does he bring out the best in your daughter?
• Do you recall any stories you’ve been involved with him?

 

Once, you have answers to the above questions, then, you can use them to write your script.

Here’s an example of how to say a few words about your future son-in-law.

Dan, your humor, and even your cheekiness are definitely your superpower! You are genuine, loyal, kind and caring. You leave a lasting effect on anyone who crosses your path. You are a tower of strength - you know what to say and when to say it.

You are always willing to help, support and encourage the people you love. I love your strength, courage and your determination to always want to be better and I am very confident that you will take good care of my daughter until the end of time.

 

That ends the drafting and redrafting process.

 

• Now, Let’s Look At The Last Item On The List: How To End Your Mother Of The Bride Speech

 

Your concluding remarks are as important as your opening address. So, you would have to take the pains to wrap up on a very memorable note. Here are tips to help you end well.

 

First, you can simply end with a simple toast if you are completely lost for words.

 

Second, you can end with a touching poem that expresses your love and admiration for the bride. Here’s a great one you can adapt for your toast.

Jane Lazenby wrote it and i think you can learn a thing or two from it.

 

YOU, SWEET GIRL,

HAVE BROUGHT SUCH JOY TO MY LIFE.

FROM THE VERY FIRST MOMENT I HELD YOU

AND GLANCED INTO YOUR EYES, I HAVE LOVED YOU.

 

I WATCHED YOU GROW AND LOVED CELEBRATING  EACH MILESTONE.

I AM  SO PROUD TO SEE THE BEAUTIFUL YOUNG LADY YOU HAVE GROWN TO BE.

AS YOU BECOME A BRIDE AND YOUR LIFE BEGINS ANEW,

 

I LOOK BACK IN MY MIND AND WONDER  HOW IT HAPPENED SO QUICKLY FOR ME AND YOU!

THE MEMORIES OF THOSE GROWING UP YEARS, THE UPS AND DOWNS,

WILL BE TUGGING AT MY HEART.

 

WHEN I SEE YOU IN YOUR WEDDING GOWN.

SO ON THIS, YOUR WEDDING DAY AND ALWAYS,

MAY YOU REMEMBER THAT

YOUR WORTH IS NOT JUST IN WHAT YOU DO OR SAY,

IT IS A DEEP PART OF YOU.

 

MAY YOU LIVE AND LOVE  WITH KINDNESS THAT ABOUNDS

AND MAY YOU ALWAYS REMEMBER

THAT YOU ARE LOVED SO VERY MUCH,

MY DAUGHTER, MY FRIEND.

 

Third, if you are doing a Christian or mother of the bride speech, you can end with a prayer or a few verses from the scripture. You may use this example.

1 Corinthians 13: 4-8

⁴ Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. ⁵ It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. ⁶ Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. ⁷ It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. ⁸ Love never fails.

Fourth, if you are a married mom, you can end with some nuggets about what makes marriage work. Here's an example: 

Fight fair –Never bring up similarities between your spouse and your mother-in-law during an argument. Don’t talk about past digressions. Keep the discussion about the here and now and keep the disagreement constructive. Contrary to popular wisdom, I think It’s okay to go to bed angry, but it’s important not to let fights drag on too long.

Compromise, Compromise and Compromise: In a marriage no one gets their way all the time. That’s not how it works. When my husband and I got married, he liked Crest and I liked Colgate. We use Colgate for everyday and Crest when we travel. He was a Mets fan and I was a Yankees fan.

 

P.S: Is the thought of giving you a great wedding speech keeping you up at night? It shouldn’t if you do what most moms do. By following this simple plan that's guaranteed to help you write a great mom speech like the one you read above.

Claire was quite skeptical when she came to us but we kept assuring what she will make her son and family proud-and this is what she sent over after the wedding was over.

'' Hello Dan, their wedding went very well. The usual stress beforehand for the couple organizing the event but all things to do went so smoothly. I also like to say that I'm so proud of my speech, almost got a standing ovation, lol! I'm so glad I've found you. I will definitely recommend you to my friends and family for future weddings. I wish you the very best.''-  Claire, New Zealand

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This is a letter a mom sent me after her wedding. (Please click on the image to enlarge it so you can read it)

Ok, Is This Offer For Me?

• Yes, if you are expecting nothing less than a very special, beautiful, unique, and memorable speech.

• Don’t have much time to write a perfect speech just as you want it because of work demands and other life's pressure or even sick? Then, let’s take care of it and the guests will definitely sing your praises--we have done it for so many others and it's your turn now!

• Yes, if you are overwhelmed by the pressures of work and don’t have the time to put together a very meaningful speech, so you can have your peace of mind

• Yes, if you want your family, your daughter, friends, and wedding guests to shower you with very sincere compliments…just imagine how you will feel

• Yes, if you are not good with words and you feel you’re not a natural writer and you are struggling to find the right words but still want to give a great speech.

• Yes, you get so scared anytime you’re asked to say something before an audience and you really want to save yourself from any form of embarrassment on your daughter's big day.

• Yes, if you are not too eloquent or not too sure if you are on the right track.

• Yes, if you absolutely hate speaking in public or feel this is not your thing but you want to make your son feel very proud

• Yes, if you have a day or less to the wedding and you are worried that you might make some horrible mistakes

• Yes, if you are a good speaker but you still want someone to look over or review what you've come up with!

Just imagine leaving your entire presentation in the hands of skilled wedding speech consultants who will take away your pain of spending hours thinking hard and long about what to say and what not to say.

Also, envision being patiently guided to say something that will leave a favorable impression on the mind of your listeners.

And also imagine the thrill and feeling of excitement and pride you’re going to experience when the audience leaps onto their feet and scream and shouts and even sing your praises.

Won’t you love that? I hope you do...

Wedding not too far away? Or happening in less than 24 hours? Trust me, we can deliver! it doesn’t matter if your speech is today, tomorrow, next week, next month ,next year,... we can make things work for you  

 

Ok, I am Interested, What’s the Cost?

You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.

Why? As you know, the current health and economic crisis has caused severe hardships for most people.

Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.

Yet, some daughters are still getting married and asking their moms to give speeches.

Nonetheless, not every mother could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.

So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.

Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.

So, please take advantage of it now even if your daughter’s big day is in the future.

Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video and your daughter and son-in-law and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.  

So, please take advantage of it now even if your daughter’s big day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.   

''It was perfect Dan.  I changed a few things in the speech. And I had several people come up and tell me how well done it was. I couldn't have done it better. Thanks for your help''- Marilyn, Canada

This is another note a mom sent me after her wedding. (Please click on the image to enlarge it so you can read it)

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So,

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You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.

Why? As you know, the current health and economic crisis has caused severe hardships for most people.

Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.

Yet, some daughters are still getting married and asking their moms to give speeches.

Nonetheless, not every mother could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.

So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.

Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.

So, please take advantage of it now even if your daughter’s big day is in the future.

Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video and your daughter and son-in-law and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.  

So, please take advantage of it now even if your daughter’s big day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.   

''It was perfect Dan.  I changed a few things in the speech. And I had several people come up and tell me how well done it was. I couldn't have done it better. Thanks for your help''- Marilyn, Canada

Please note: Your speech draft comes with a proven and simple tip to master your speech or remember your speech just as you want it without carrying a paper with you.

Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise, and clarity!

''Hi Dan,

The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice).  Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.

All the best,

Matt''

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Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise, and clarity!

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The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice).  Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.

All the best,

Matt''

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Mother of the Bride Speech Example: This Mother of the Bride Speech Sample Can Help You Write An Amazing Mother Of The Bride Speech For Your Daughter

 

Do you really want to surprise your daughter with a very special and lovely mother of the bride speech? If so, please stick around and I will show you:

• How to easily write a beautiful wedding speech for your daughter and the groom
• What to say and what not to say on your daughter’s wedding day
• How to use mother of the bride speech samples or templates to put together your thoughts and emotions into very beautiful words

…plus a whole lot more ideas and tips you can borrow and use for your mother of the bride speech.

Nothing Can Compare To This Role

Being a mother of the bride can be very tiring experience, particularly if you are single parent or mom.

From being there for your daughter in good times and bad, to helping her plan for her wedding,  to choosing the right wedding dress to wear , your duties never seems to come to an end.

But none of that can compare to the joy of standing up in front of your family and friends to express your love  and admiration for your daughter and the groom, how your own journey has been like as a mom, and what you wishes for the couple are as they start the roller-coaster ride of marriage together.

 

In spite of it being an honor and privilege to say a few words about your precious baby girl, most mothers cower with fear when they have to deliver a heartfelt mother of the bride wedding speech.

 

For fear of embarrassing their daughters, some mothers decide to skip it altogether. Others are forced to do it but are really scared to death whenever they imagine what to say. I can still remember this mother of the bride who asked for help with her speech.

 

She was so excited about the prospect of making her daughter proud with her wedding speech until she wrote back to tell me she couldn’t handle it anymore because the mere thought of making a toast made her heart miss several beats.  I felt so sorry for this poor woman!

 

But other nervous ones have been very successful in spite of their dilemma. Take the case of  Donna who wrote this hilarious and sentimental mother of the bride speech.

 

What she said is what all mothers should aspire to make on the wedding day.  Well, I am going to share her words with you.  After that, we will break it down bit by bit so you can figure out how to easily express the deepest sentiments of your heart on her big day.

 

Here you go:

 

Mother of the Bride Wedding Speech Sample

 

Hello everyone. My name is Donna and I’m Amanda’s mother.

As most of you know, my daughter lost her dad at age 13. I can’t think of a more terrible time to lose your father. But I feel privileged to have gotten to raise her since then, to love her with my whole heart, and to stand with her today as she marries her prince, Peter.

 

When she was little, she loved puppies. She had a dog that was crate trained and Amanda would take her pillow and her blanket and crawl into the crate, claiming it as her bed. The poor dog had no clue what to do, get into the crate with her or not.

 

As a teenager she was very shy and quiet, of course that is the time that she lost her dad.  But she found comfort in the violin and her drawings. She created beauty from pain. That has always been her gift. She later developed an appreciation for doing hair and make-up and is pursuing that dream now.

 

Amanda, you are quite talented but I’m glad you didn’t give yourself any scars or boils on your face today. You look beautiful! 

 

I have to take a moment to say thank you to her step dad and my husband Charles, as well as Destiny’s Uncle Corey and her other grandparents: Mima and Papa. It was their love that sustained Amanda along with mine during the tough years.

 

Amanda, I know that your dad is looking down on you today filled with the same pride and joy that I have always felt with you. He is your guardian angel, and I’m sure he’s so happy you found the one who completes you.

 

Peter, you are a good man who has taught Destiny to love and to trust in a way that she has never done before. I know you will see this as the gift it is and cherish her heart forever.

 

My advice to the two of you is as you walk through this life cling to one another through the storms and enjoy every rainbow hand in hand. Never go to bed angry. Sounds like a cliche, but it’s true. Don’t hold grudges and always treat each other with respect. Love each other with all your hearts and have a happy life. When you decide to start a family,  that love for each other will be the key to raising children who will grow to know love too.

 

 

Peter and Amanda, your love is forever and a lifetime. Share every fear, every dream, every milestone together. Because now each other’s dreams are your dreams. I wish that every single dream you have comes true!

 

God bless you and I wish you nothing but good health, endless love, and prosperity.

 

Did you enjoy reading it? I enjoyed every bit of it. It’s a very short and sweet mother of the bride speech.

 

Please Don’t Do It This Way

 

Guess what most mothers do when they spot such an example? They conclude that they can write something close to that if not better. So, they either swipe it or look for similar ones and then start writing.

 

That approach always help if you are a very gifted writer or you happen to be struck with an air of inspiration that fills your mind with great ideas on the fly.

 

But as you are pretty much aware, not everyone is blessed with the gift of inspiration or words.

 

First and foremost, you have to plan what to say and how to say it with flair and confidence. It’s more like preparing your favorite dish: you have to use the right cooking ingredients to make it taste yummy.

 

Two steps are involved here in the pre-writing process if you really want to fill your mind with many rich ideas.

 

First, you have to watch a couple of videos. Why should I watch them? That’s a great question! Mother of the bride speech videos can give you an idea of what to say.

 

So, this is what I recommend you right away. Please go grab your journal or notepad and click on the play buttons in each of the video.

 

As you do, write down ideas, thoughts, and phrases that you think you can work into wedding speech for your daughter.

 

 

Here you go:

 

Here are some video clips:

 

Mother Of The Bride Speech Video Examples #1

 

Mother Of The Bride Speech Video Examples #2

 

This Is How to Get Great Ideas to Come To You

The final step in the pre-writing process has got to do with picking a theme or style of your speech. There are several options to pick from.

 

But it’s always wise to pick something that resonate best with your demeanor and personality and not based on the latest fad or trend.

 

To choose a style, you should first reflect on these questions?

• Am I person of few words? Can I make my speech short and sweet?
• Do I have a soft heart? Will a sentimental mother of the bride speech be my thing?
• Can I tell a little story about my daughter’s life and let everyone know how proud you are to be her mom?
• Do people tell me that I am a smart person? If so, can I deliver something witty?
• Most mother of the bride speeches sound quite similar. But, can I make my toast a little different? Can I make mine dramatic or even a little poetic?
• Can I make my wedding speech a video- based one?
• Am I known for my singing prowess? And I can make my speech like a song? 
• Am I a naturally funny person? Do I really have what it takes to make a hilarious mother of the bride wedding speech ?

• How about doing a joint speech as parents of the bride?

• Am I talented enough to do bits and pieces of all that I have listed above?

Picking one of the above will ensure that you get a direction or purpose for your wedding toast. After you’ve picked the right style for your wedding speech, you start writing your mother of the bride speech.

 

To make the writing process much easier, you should split the task into these three parts:

• Introductory remarks
• Body or content of your wedding speech
• And the concluding remarks

 

First, let’s figure out what goes into writing a great introduction. To do that, it’s best to re-look at excerpts of the above example.

Here you go:

‘’ Hello everyone. My name is Donna and I’m Amanda’s mother.

As most of you know, my daughter lost her dad at age 13. I can’t think of a more terrible time to lose your father. But I feel privileged to have gotten to raise her since then,  to love her with my whole heart, and to stand with her today as she marries her prince, Peter. ‘’

 

As you are pretty much aware, the introductory address of any piece should feature one or more of these core components:

 

1. Your name and your relationship with the bride and groom as you can see right above
2. If you are a single mom or your husband is deceased, you may pay a small tribute to him. Once, this proud mom did that and these were her exact words

‘’ This candle that is burning right beside me is in honor of  Brook’s dad Rex , who is in heaven. Brook, I can tell you that your dad was immensely proud of you.’’

 

• You may also use that opportunity to give a special shout-out to family and friends who have had a tremendous impact on your daughter’s life. Can you write the names of such individuals?

 

Ok, let this give you a clue. You can mention

1. The father of the bride. What other personalities are on your mind? Please put down their names and mention what they have done for you, your family, and the bride.

 

By the way, this is how it was properly captured in our example.

‘’ I have to take a moment to say thank you to her step dad and my husband Charles, as well as Amanda’s Uncle Corey and her other grandparents: Mima and Papa. It was their love that sustained Amanda along with mine during the tough years ‘’

 

You may not have realized this. But if you scroll up this very page and read the introductory extract once more, you will notice this part of it as well:

‘’ When she was little, Amanda used to love puppies. She had a dog that was crate trained …‘’

 

The underlined words above are the introductory part of the speech we call hook because it draws the wedding guests into the speech itself.  Make it plain and boring and you will lose everyone’s attention. Make it engaging and you will win everyone’s heart.

 

Wondering how to win the hearts of many with a gripping intro? It’s actually simple and I am happy to share a few of those tips with you.

 

How to Write a Great Introduction

 

First, you can dive right into your presentation by sharing a story about when your daughter was only a little girl. Just make sure you pick something memorable.

Second, if you are a very emotional person, you can share a few details about what happened before she was born. It could be about several miscarriages you had prior to her birth, prolonged labor in the delivery room, or when the doctors told you that you were never going to have your own baby girl.

 

Third, you can of course make your remarks very funny or hilarious by sharing a little story.  Here’s an example:

‘’ It’s interesting what actually happened

before she was born. When her dad and I

were expecting her, the doctor told us early

on after examining me during one of our

prenatal appointments that I was going to

have a boy.

I dreamed of little girls and, somehow,

whenever I thought of myself with a child, I

always pictured a girl. So I felt crushed and

disappointed and gave up hopes altogether

of raising a little version of me when he said

that.

 

But that wasn’t the case on my due date

when we shockingly discovered that I had a

baby girl, much to my joy!’’

 

Fourth, you can kick-start with a few witty quotes. Here are some quotes you can use to spruce up your opening remarks.

• "No matter how old she may be, sometimes a girl just needs her mom."

• A daughter is God's way of saying, ‘Thought you could use a lifelong friend.'"

• " Because even if the whole world was throwing rocks at you, if you had your mother at your back, you'd be okay. Some deep-rooted part of you would know you were loved."
  - Jojo Moyes, One Plus One

• "To describe my mother would be to write about a hurricane in its perfect power. Or the climbing, falling colors of a rainbow."
  - Maya Angelou, I Know Why the Caged Bird Sings

• "The more a daughter knows the details of her mother's life, the stronger the daughter."
  - Anita Diamant, The Red Tent
• "God couldn't be everywhere so that is why he invented mothers."
  - Diane Keaton as Daphne Wilder, Because I Said So
• "By the time a woman realizes her mother was right, she has a daughter who thinks she is wrong."

 

We are going to use the sixth quote: ‘’ God couldn't be everywhere so that is why he invented mothers’’ to write something brief so you get an idea of how to use quotes to write a short intro.

 

Ok, this is how it is done.

When I was growing up, my own mother used to say that couldn't be everywhere so that is why he made mothers. In my child’s mind, I thought God was a mother who is always busy taking care of his numerous children in heaven and have employed mothers as assistants right here on earth.

 

I held onto that for a very long time until I had my first child who’s now grown into the beautiful bride we have before us today.  A few days after I gave birth to Elaine, mom visited us.

I remember that she looked me in the eye and said once more that God couldn’t be everywhere so that’s why he’s made you a mom. Just make sure you make him proud.

I smiled back at her and said’’ Mom, I pray that you live long to see the kind of woman she grows into.’’ 

That happened 30 years ago. Mom is now 100 years old and she likes to call herself Sweet Sixteen.

 

For those of you who don’t know, Sweet Sixteen is here with us tonight and can you do her a favor by giving her a thunderous clap? She’s been there for us through thick and thin and her words of comfort and encouragement have sustained us all these years.

She’s been such a blessing in our lives.  She and dad will celebrate their 70^th wedding anniversary next weekend! If that is not love, then I don’t know what is. I pray and hope that Elaine and Mike follow in their stead.

 

Did you see how I managed to infuse that quote plus a little bit of humor and even nostalgia into that short description?  Can use any of those quotes to write something short and sweet? You’ll never know until you give it a try.

 

Now, let’s consider...

How to Put Together Your Random Thoughts into a Very Nice Mother Of The Bride Speech

 

After you have captured your initial feelings in the intro, you have to put together your scattered or random ideas and thoughts into a very touching mother of the bride speech.

On the surface, the body seems fairly easy to write.  But I am always amazed whenever I get desperate pleas from mothers who are unable to write their speeches.

 

In most cases, they have something written down. But their thoughts and ideas don’t flow too well and it’s my duty as a mother of the bride speech writer to connect the dots so to speak.

 

If you are stuck or unable to compose this essential part of your toast, then you can follow this simple plan.

 

Divide your writing sheet into these main branches:

• My daughter’s childhood

• My daughter’s teen years or adolescence

• When she became a woman

 

If you are aiming for a narrative piece, then you can write down memories or anecdotes about each developmental stage of her life and pick out stories you are really fond of.

 

Alternatively, you may write a character-based speech and connect it to why you think your daughter will be an amazing wife and mom.

 

For example, you can say that she’s loving, compassionate, and a very patient person. For example, you can elaborate on this character trait (patience) with a story about your daughter’s life.

 

Another technique you can use is to tell a simple story about how the couple met and how you have seen their relationship evolve over the years they have been together.

 

Here’s a very short example.

I remember back at the end of

2010, Dan started talking about

a girl named Ellen. When he

came home for Christmas that

year, he was somewhat

saddened that during the school

holiday break, he thought that

he may have potentially lost

her…

Now, let’s talk about…

 

How to Write the Ending of Your Mother of the Bride Speech

Your concluding remarks are always the easiest part of your speech to jot down.  But I cringe whenever I hear mothers wrap up because most of their conclusions have very similar tones.

 

It’s all too common to hear the endings in the form of a toast or pieces of advice. But I think you should make yours a little different and unique. By the way, here are some tried and tested ideas you can use to end up your mother of the bride speech.

 

First, if you are a Christian or a religious person, you may end with a prayer or blessing before the food is served.  Here are some words you can use.

“May your marriage always bring glory to God, joy to one another and blessings to your family for many generations to come. May love and laughter fill your hearts and your home for all at the days of your lives. May you face every challenge hand-in-hand and side-by-side knowing that with God’s grace, you’ll conquer all obstacles together. May the world be forever a better place because the two of you fell in love. In Jesus’ name, Amen.”

 

How about this one from Numbers 6: 24-26

²⁴ “The Lord bless you and keep you;
²⁵ The Lord make His face shine upon you,
And be gracious to you;
²⁶ The Lord ^[a]lift up His countenance upon you,
And give you peace.” ’

 

 

Second, if you are great singer, you can end it by singing a powerful love song about newlyweds or married couple. Here’s one of them:

 

Third, you can end with a few quotes about marriage or even give them a gift as a token of their special love. For instance, you can write a short advice and frame it and gift it to them.

P.S: Is the thought of giving you a great wedding speech keeping you up at night? It shouldn’t if you do what most moms do. By following this simple plan that's guaranteed to help you write a great mom speech like the one you read above.

Claire was quite skeptical when she came to us but we kept assuring what she will make her son and family proud-and this is what she sent over after the wedding was over.

'' Hello Dan, their wedding went very well. The usual stress beforehand for the couple organizing the event but all things to do went so smoothly. I also like to say that I'm so proud of my speech, almost got a standing ovation, lol! I'm so glad I've found you. I will definitely recommend you to my friends and family for future weddings. I wish you the very best.''-  Claire, New Zealand

Want to know how she did just that? She got on board our wedding speech program and one of our talented speech consultants helped her out.

Want to get on board? You should by first filling out this form.

This is a letter a mom sent me after her wedding. (Please click on the image to enlarge it so you can read it)

Ok, Is This Offer For Me?

• Yes, if you are expecting nothing less than a very special, beautiful, unique, and memorable speech.

• Don’t have much time to write a perfect speech just as you want it because of work demands and other life's pressure or even sick? Then, let’s take care of it and the guests will definitely sing your praises--we have done it for so many others and it's your turn now!

• Yes, if you are overwhelmed by the pressures of work and don’t have the time to put together a very meaningful speech, so you can have your peace of mind

• Yes, if you want your family, your daughter, friends, and wedding guests to shower you with very sincere compliments…just imagine how you will feel

• Yes, if you are not good with words and you feel you’re not a natural writer and you are struggling to find the right words but still want to give a great speech.

• Yes, you get so scared anytime you’re asked to say something before an audience and you really want to save yourself from any form of embarrassment on your daughter's big day.

• Yes, if you are not too eloquent or not too sure if you are on the right track.

• Yes, if you absolutely hate speaking in public or feel this is not your thing but you want to make your son feel very proud

• Yes, if you have a day or less to the wedding and you are worried that you might make some horrible mistakes

• Yes, if you are a good speaker but you still want someone to look over or review what you've come up with!

Just imagine leaving your entire presentation in the hands of skilled wedding speech consultants who will take away your pain of spending hours thinking hard and long about what to say and what not to say.

Also, envision being patiently guided to say something that will leave a favorable impression on the mind of your listeners.

And also imagine the thrill and feeling of excitement and pride you’re going to experience when the audience leaps onto their feet and scream and shouts and even sing your praises.

Won’t you love that? I hope you do...

Wedding not too far away? Or happening in less than 24 hours? Trust me, we can deliver! it doesn’t matter if your speech is today, tomorrow, next week, next month ,next year,... we can make things work for you  

 

Ok, I am Interested, What’s the Cost?

You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.

Why? As you know, the current health and economic crisis has caused severe hardships for most people.

Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.

Yet, some daughters are still getting married and asking their moms to give speeches.

Nonetheless, not every mother could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.

So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.

Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.

So, please take advantage of it now even if your daughter’s big day is in the future.

Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video and your daughter and son-in-law and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.  

So, please take advantage of it now even if your daughter’s big day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.   

''It was perfect Dan.  I changed a few things in the speech. And I had several people come up and tell me how well done it was. I couldn't have done it better. Thanks for your help''- Marilyn, Canada

This is another note a mom sent me after her wedding. (Please click on the image to enlarge it so you can read it)

Oh Ok, How Then Do I Get Started Since I Want To Get On Board Right Away?

Ok, here’s how it works

All you have to do RIGHT NOW is to click on this link to receive an easy-to-fill-in questionnaire via email. Check your email a few hours after you’ve submitted your request.

So,

1)CLICK HERE  NOW TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT THIS QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind!

2. After that, we will send you a very short questionnaire to fill out via email! You only have to check your email a few hours after you have made your request

3. Then, you fill out the questionnaire sent through your email and please have it sent back to us…

4. We will confirm receipt of it…If something is not too clear, we will ask you to clarify….

5. If not, we will send you a wonderful draft in a couple of hours if this on very short notice….If not, after a few days

6. Then, you look it over and tell us if you are okay with it or you want to amend or reviseit till you are happy with it--although we always get it right even with the first draft.
7. Then, we ask you to pay for it. It's as simple as that!

Just a reminder of what you pay after it’s duly completed.

You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.

Why? As you know, the current health and economic crisis has caused severe hardships for most people.

Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.

Yet, some daughters are still getting married and asking their moms to give speeches.

Nonetheless, not every mother could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.

So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.

Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.

So, please take advantage of it now even if your daughter’s big day is in the future.

Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video and your daughter and son-in-law and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.  

So, please take advantage of it now even if your daughter’s big day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.   

''It was perfect Dan.  I changed a few things in the speech. And I had several people come up and tell me how well done it was. I couldn't have done it better. Thanks for your help''- Marilyn, Canada

Please note: Your speech draft comes with a proven and simple tip to master your speech or remember your speech just as you want it without carrying a paper with you.

Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise, and clarity!

''Hi Dan,

The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice).  Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.

All the best,

Matt''

Please note: Don’t fill out this form if you’re a dishonest individual. This offer is for a limited time.

So, CLICK HERE TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT A QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind and not lose money. The risk is on us!

You don't have to worry about paying our per speech for now.

Forget about money and let’s write something for you. We believe in the values of honesty and integrity and we think you should be happy with our work first.

So, Here Are The Benefits You Get When You Get On Board!

• A great speech written by our wedding speech consultants that reflects what you want to say exactly

• We coach you on how to use your voice to make your speech very exciting.

• We show you a simple but often overlook strategy to rehearse your speech even if you have a very poor memory. This method is used by great speakers like Obama and was used by Abraham Lincoln and his compatriots

• The most effective way to get your entire speech into your head without memorizing your speech. Guaranteed to help you even if you have a very poor memory or your memory is like a gold fish…most of our clients still wonder where we got this idea from. This ensures that you don't read off a sheet of paper...

Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise, and clarity!

''Hi Dan,

The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice).  Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.

All the best,

Matt''

• Ways to include humor in your speech and what it takes to do so

So, CLICK HERE TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT A QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind and not lose money. The risk is on us!

Remember, you have to see your speech first before you pay. So, you can relax and let us sweat it out at our expense!

Mother Of The Bride Speech Examples: How To Use Mother Of The Bride Speech Samples The Right Way

 

Are you looking for well-written mother of the bride speech examples to help you craft a lovely mother of the bride speech for your daughter and son-in-law? 

 

If you are, then please stick with me and I will walk you through how you can use mother of the bride wedding speech examples to say something sweet about daughter and son in law at the wedding or at bridal shower

 

Plus a whole lot of other great ideas you have probably never thought of…. Just stay tuned!

 

I don’t know about you. But have you ever heard a great mother of the bride speech that made you laugh so hard or even moved you to tears?

Well, it’s every mother of the bride’s dream to give a heartfelt mother of the bride speech. I am sure that’s your dream too!

But you do really have what it takes to come up with a unique mother of the bride speech that will get you tons of compliments?

Contrary to what most people think, it’s not too difficult to come up with a heartfelt mother of the bride speech.

 

A vast majority of mothers think you have to be a good writer to come up with the best ever mother of the bride wedding speech. While being great words has its obvious advantages,  your ability to put bits and pieces of anecdotes about your daughter’s life into a single, interesting story that would not only make your daughter feel so proud but also endear to you to the wedding guests.

 

The mistake I see most mothers make is to copy bits and pieces of wedding speech examples they find or even adapt it to their own case. That’s not how it works. I always advise mothers to use them as a guide since they give you an idea of the format or structure of how wedding speeches are delivered.

 

Having said that, there are two kinds of mother of the  bride speech examples: written and visual templates and both have complementary functions.

 

 

Before you even write down your speech for your daughter and son-in-law, you first have to watch a couple of videos to help you get a crystal-clear view of how mother of the bride speeches are made. 

 

I looked online and found these amazing mothers of the bride speech videos from YouTube.

 

Now, this is what I want you to do now. Grab your pen and journal and then click on the play buttons below and write down ideas you think can help you write the content of your mother of the bride speech.

 

Mother of the bride speech video example#1

 

Mother of the bride speech video example #2

 

 

I sure hope you learned a thing or two from watching both mother of the bride speech video clips? Now, let’s look at a short mother of the bride speech sample or template. After that, we will break it down bit by bit so you can figure out what went into writing it.

 

Here you go:

 

Mother Of The Bride Speech Example/Template

 

Good evening and welcome everyone!

I’m Margaret, Carline’s proud mom.

It gives me great pleasure and honor to see the smiling faces of so many people who love and cherish Dan and Carline and both families.

 

We have waited for months for this special time and on behalf of my family, I would like to thank everyone who has come from near and far to share in our joy and happiness.

 

Carline, my only daughter is getting married and the only moment I felt this over-the-moon happy was when she was born after waiting to conceive for 10 long years.

 

Carline was always an active little girl who loved out the outdoors more than anything else.

 

She had so much enthusiasm for anything. Whether she was climbing trees which she loved so much, outside playing with her lab, or busily riding her dirt bike through the trails, she gave it her all.

Growing up, Carline played basketball and softball which were bonding sports for us.

 

I was lucky to have coached her for a few years. But what I will never forget was the fact she always made family vacations fun and memorable.

 

Carline was 14 years old studying French and she knew the basics, enough to get us by.  So I said to her: why don’t we take a trip to Paris? She agreed and off we went to Paris!

 

There was a time when we were on our way to the city from our hotel and we got stuck there for about three hours!  At that point, I was totally drenched in sweat and on the brink of despair until two men came to our help and rescued us and you should have seen how relieved we were when we were totally set free from that small prison!

 

Carline loved reading too and it was always a joy to see her curled up in bed with a book in his hand and she ended up being a smart lady. 

 

She was so focused, so committed and dedicated to her work at home and in school and eventually went off to college where she succeeded in getting her bachelor’s degree in just 2 years!

 

 

Carline, I am so proud of you and everything you’ve achieved down the road of life! Carline, my dream has always been to see you live a happier and a more fulfilling life!

 

But, you ended up making me better mom more than I could ever imagine! We have been through our high and low moments and your love and support for me has always seen me through the good times and bad.

 

Dan, every mom hopes and prays that her daughter finds someone like you to love and cherish her.  Your words and deeds speak volumes that you love and cherish Dan with your whole heart.

 

You are polite, thoughtful, caring, and very respectful.  You’re also a great cook who always surprises her with new dinners! What more could we ask for? 

 

Dan and Carline, you’re well suited for each other. You are both smart and make good decisions and have a lot of things in common.  It is pure joy to be with you today.

 

However, the journey of marriage is a lot like a roller-caster. You have extreme highs and you can have some pretty extreme lows, but the ride is worth it!

So, always be each other’s best friend in good times and bad, honor each other, be kind, be sweet, hug and kiss a lot, it’s good for you.

 

As you keep at it, you will never forget this beautiful day!  God bless you!

 

Now, let us see how this short piece was written.

 

Well, if you study the above wedding toast very carefully, you will realize that it has some basic components we were taught at school about how essays are written.

I know it’s been decades since you graduated high school, so I would like to help you with this.

 

Did you notice how the above example began with an introduction by Margaret?

Here’s the entire thing if you have probably forgotten about it now.  Please take note of the underlined phrase.

''Good evening and welcome everyone!

I’m Margaret, Carline’s proud mom.

It gives me great pleasure and honor to see the smiling faces of so many people who love and cherish Dan and Carline and both families.

We have waited for months for this special time and on behalf of my family, I would like to thank everyone who has come from near and far to share in our joy and happiness.''

Carline, my only daughter is getting married‘’

 

The portions of the text not underlined are easy to write because it’s the most common way of starting a wedding toast.

 

Here, you simply mention your name and your relationship with the bride and groom. Then, you proceed to thank people who have had tremendous impact on your daughter’s life.

 

People like:

1. the father of the bride
2. uncles and aunts of the bride
3. the bride’s grandparents
4. the family of the groom for their love and support

 

After thanking the above personalities, you have to kick start with the right level of enthusiasm and this part of your intro needs to be engaging enough to make everyone want to listen to the rest of the story and not intuitively conclude that another boring wedding speech is on the way!

 

To make your opening remarks very unique and memorable, you could simply use one or more of the following ideas for your opening remarks.

 

 

First, you can compare how you feel on the wedding night to how you felt when your daughter came into your life. An example has been culled from the mother of the bride speech template above:

‘’ Carline, my only daughter is getting married and the only moment I felt this over-the-moon happy was when she was born after waiting to conceive for 10 long years.‘’

 

Second, you can start with a joke. Here’s an example to illustrate this point.

It’s funny how our life turns out to me. When Martha was a little girl, she said she was never going to marry because having her toys around was more than enough to keep her through life. That became a running joke in the family. So we nicknamed her Miss Never Get Married and she was fine with it until she met Ben.

Today, this same lady is getting married to …’’

 

Now, don’t you think that would crack the guests up? That’s one of the surest ways of grabbing their attention and even breaking the ice when you grab the microphone.

 

Third, you might want to start with something that will touch hearts. You could use a memorable story about events that happened before or after your daughter born. If that doesn’t work for you, you can start with quotes or witty lines as they can absolutely enrich your wedding speech for your daughter and son in law.

 

Below are some great quotes you can use.

• Words are not enough to express the unconditional love that exists between a mother and a daughter.” – Caitlin Houston
• “Mother and daughter from the start. Best friends forever from the heart.”
• “The relationship between parents and children, but especially between mothers and daughters, is tremendously powerful, scarcely to be comprehended in any rational way.” – Joyce Carol Oates

• ‘’ A mom is a daughter’s ‘first’ friend. And, through life, becomes her best friend.” – Vicki Reece
• To my daughter. Never forget that I love you. Life is filled with hard times and good times. Learn from everything you can. Be the woman I know you can be. Mom”

Can you write a very simple but captivating opener with any of the above quotes?  I can see you doubting yourself…

 

Please give it a try and you'll certainly end up with something far better than you ever imagined. Ok, can I help? Ok, if I were you, I would have started like this:

 

There is this quote that says a mom is a daughter’s first friend and through life, she becomes her best friend.

Amanda has been my best friend since she saved my life on a dreary day

 

Don’t you think everyone will be eager to know what really happened on that day?  

 

I think we have had enough of that. Let’s now see how we can put together…

The Content or Structure of Your Mother Of The Bride Wedding Speech

 

Another mistake I see most mothers make is to write their wedding toasts without first finding out what goes into writing a stellar one.

 

Don’t get me wrong. I am not in any way saying that if you are lucky to be hit with a bout of inspiration, you can’t write a great piece all in one sitting.

 

You can! But let’s face it. How many of us are that gifted? I guess a few. This is why you need to follow this simple and proven plan I am going to share with you so you can come up with great ideas for your wedding speech for daughter even if you are horrible speaker or writer.

 

First, you have to decide how many minutes you want your speech to last.

You shouldn’t dwell so much about the length. As long as, it captures what you really want to say in an engaging manner, then, you can be sure that it would go down well with everyone.

 

Second, decide on what kind of speech you really want to make. Do you want to capture details about your daughter’s life in a rhyming, poetic, sing-song, or even in a storytelling format?

 

Finally, you have to develop the outline of your presentation. Here’s where stories about your daughter’s life come in.

 

Do you want to share stories about your daughter’s childhood, teenage years, adult years or any story that really stands out?

 

I once reviewed a speech a couple of months ago for one mom and it felt like I was reading her child’s biography. It was so boring and lifeless that I was asked to give life to it!

 

You see, all you need is a handful of good-to -hear stories that you think it’s worth sharing.

 

Two or three is okay though. If you have several heartwarming stories, you can pick your favorite ones from the big pool of stories. As you do, just choose stories that would not embarrass her in anyway unless of course she would be happy to hear that said on her wedding day.

 

If your daughter doesn’t enjoy being in the spotlight, you can simply tell her how proud you are of her and express joy that she is getting married to the man of her dreams and it would work beyond your wildest dream.

 

By the way, let me remind you that once you get to work on it, it might not come out the way you wanted it on your first attempt. You just have to re-work it until you are happy with your own work.

 

Action Tip: Sit down for a moment and reflect on the stories you wish to use for the bride and your son-in-law and pick at least two stories that really resonate with you.

How To Use Mother Of The Bride Speech Examples/Templates To Write A Memorable Conclusion

 

If you ask me or any other mother of the bride speech writer what part of your mother of the bride wedding speech they pay the least attention to, they will tell you it’s the conclusion.

 

Here’s why it’s so important to get it right as well as ways to write a darn good one that would make everyone wish your speech never comes to an end.

 

First, it brings closure to your delivery and gives room to the next speaker (if there are any) to take over from you.

 

Second, your closing remarks is what everyone will remember most particularly if there’s a catchy line in there and your family and friends might ask for copies of your mother’s wedding toast for your daughter.

 

You need not sweat over how to write your closing remarks because there are so many proven ideas and tips that can help you do just that and I am happy to share some of them with you.

 

First, if you are a deeply religious soul or a good Christian, you can use some bible verses or scriptural references to embellish your conclusion.

Any of the following verses can help you to wrap up on a bright note.

Bible Verse # 1: James 1: 17 Every good and perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of the heavenly lights, who does not change like shifting shadows.

Bible Verse #2: 1 Corinthians 16:14. Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love.

Bible Verse #3: 1 Peter 4:8, NIV: "Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins.

 

Using the bible verse#1: ‘’James 1: 17 Every good and perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of the heavenly lights, who does not change like shifting shadows.’’, we can come up with this short example

Your marriage is God’s best gift you so always hold on to each other and your love for each other will stand the test of time.

 

Second, you can wax poetic if you are a good with words. Let me add that may simply look up poem on the internet if you are not blessed with the skill of writing. I found this beautiful poem online but please don’t copy it. Let it rather keep your creative juices flowing.

I Rely On You By Hovis Presley

I rely on you
like a camera needs a shutter
like a gambler needs a flutter
like a golfer needs a putter
like a buttered scone involves some butter

I rely on you
Like an acrobat needs ice-cool nerve
like a hairpin needs a drastic curve
like an HGV needs endless derv
like an outside left needs a body swerve

I rely on you
like a handyman needs pliers
like an auctioneer needs buyers
like a laundromat needs driers
like The Good Life needed Richard Briers

I rely on you.

 

Can you rework to suit the bride and groom? Not as hard as you think. So please do your best to get it done.

 

To give you a hint, I can start like this:

‘’ Dan and Amanda, marriage is all about relying on each other.  In our lives, we all need someone to lean on. You need parents and support of family and friends to reach this far. So, if you want to go farther, then you need each other like we all need air and you will reach for the stars!   Always remember to rely on each other because that’s where your strength lies‘’

 

Did you notice how I simply used the words rely on each other to compose my thoughts? That’s how it’s done. If you are not very creative, you can simply use the poem as is and customized it a bit.

 

Third, you can end with a song like this mom did:

 

 

Fourth, if you don’t have anything at all to say, you can just borrow the concluding remarks of the mother of the bride speech template/example above.

‘’ Dan and Carline, you’re well suited for each other. You are both smart and make good decisions and have a lot of things in common.  It is pure joy to be with you today.

However, the journey of marriage is a lot like a roller-caster. You have extreme highs and you can have some pretty extreme lows, but the ride is worth it!

So, always be each other’s best friend in good times and bad, honor each other, be kind, be sweet, hug and kiss a lot, it’s good for you.

 

As you keep at it, you will never forget this beautiful day!  God bless you!  ‘’

P.S: Is the thought of giving you a great wedding speech keeping you up at night? It shouldn’t if you do what most moms do. By following this simple plan that's guaranteed to help you write a great mom speech like the one you read above.

Claire was quite skeptical when she came to us but we kept assuring what she will make her son and family proud-and this is what she sent over after the wedding was over.

'' Hello Dan, their wedding went very well. The usual stress beforehand for the couple organizing the event but all things to do went so smoothly. I also like to say that I'm so proud of my speech, almost got a standing ovation, lol! I'm so glad I've found you. I will definitely recommend you to my friends and family for future weddings. I wish you the very best.''-  Claire, New Zealand

Want to know how she did just that? She got on board our wedding speech program and one of our talented speech consultants helped her out.

Want to get on board? You should by first filling out this form.

This is a letter a mom sent me after her wedding. (Please click on the image to enlarge it so you can read it)

Ok, Is This Offer For Me?

• Yes, if you are expecting nothing less than a very special, beautiful, unique, and memorable speech.

• Don’t have much time to write a perfect speech just as you want it because of work demands and other life's pressure or even sick? Then, let’s take care of it and the guests will definitely sing your praises--we have done it for so many others and it's your turn now!

• Yes, if you are overwhelmed by the pressures of work and don’t have the time to put together a very meaningful speech, so you can have your peace of mind

• Yes, if you want your family, your daughter, friends, and wedding guests to shower you with very sincere compliments…just imagine how you will feel

• Yes, if you are not good with words and you feel you’re not a natural writer and you are struggling to find the right words but still want to give a great speech.

• Yes, you get so scared anytime you’re asked to say something before an audience and you really want to save yourself from any form of embarrassment on your daughter's big day.

• Yes, if you are not too eloquent or not too sure if you are on the right track.

• Yes, if you absolutely hate speaking in public or feel this is not your thing but you want to make your son feel very proud

• Yes, if you have a day or less to the wedding and you are worried that you might make some horrible mistakes

• Yes, if you are a good speaker but you still want someone to look over or review what you've come up with!

Just imagine leaving your entire presentation in the hands of skilled wedding speech consultants who will take away your pain of spending hours thinking hard and long about what to say and what not to say.

Also, envision being patiently guided to say something that will leave a favorable impression on the mind of your listeners.

And also imagine the thrill and feeling of excitement and pride you’re going to experience when the audience leaps onto their feet and scream and shouts and even sing your praises.

Won’t you love that? I hope you do...

Wedding not too far away? Or happening in less than 24 hours? Trust me, we can deliver! it doesn’t matter if your speech is today, tomorrow, next week, next month ,next year,... we can make things work for you  

 

Ok, I am Interested, What’s the Cost?

You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.

Why? As you know, the current health and economic crisis has caused severe hardships for most people.

Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.

Yet, some daughters are still getting married and asking their moms to give speeches.

Nonetheless, not every mother could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.

So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.

Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.

So, please take advantage of it now even if your daughter’s big day is in the future.

Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video and your daughter and son-in-law and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.  

So, please take advantage of it now even if your daughter’s big day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.   

''It was perfect Dan.  I changed a few things in the speech. And I had several people come up and tell me how well done it was. I couldn't have done it better. Thanks for your help''- Marilyn, Canada

This is another note a mom sent me after her wedding. (Please click on the image to enlarge it so you can read it)

Oh Ok, How Then Do I Get Started Since I Want To Get On Board Right Away?

Ok, here’s how it works

All you have to do RIGHT NOW is to click on this link to receive an easy-to-fill-in questionnaire via email. Check your email a few hours after you’ve submitted your request.

So,

1)CLICK HERE  NOW TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT THIS QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind!

2. After that, we will send you a very short questionnaire to fill out via email! You only have to check your email a few hours after you have made your request

3. Then, you fill out the questionnaire sent through your email and please have it sent back to us…

4. We will confirm receipt of it…If something is not too clear, we will ask you to clarify….

5. If not, we will send you a wonderful draft in a couple of hours if this on very short notice….If not, after a few days

6. Then, you look it over and tell us if you are okay with it or you want to amend or reviseit till you are happy with it--although we always get it right even with the first draft.
7. Then, we ask you to pay for it. It's as simple as that!

Just a reminder of what you pay after it’s duly completed.

You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.

Why? As you know, the current health and economic crisis has caused severe hardships for most people.

Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.

Yet, some daughters are still getting married and asking their moms to give speeches.

Nonetheless, not every mother could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.

So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.

Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.

So, please take advantage of it now even if your daughter’s big day is in the future.

Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video and your daughter and son-in-law and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.  

So, please take advantage of it now even if your daughter’s big day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.   

''It was perfect Dan.  I changed a few things in the speech. And I had several people come up and tell me how well done it was. I couldn't have done it better. Thanks for your help''- Marilyn, Canada

Please note: Your speech draft comes with a proven and simple tip to master your speech or remember your speech just as you want it without carrying a paper with you.

Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise, and clarity!

''Hi Dan,

The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice).  Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.

All the best,

Matt''

Please note: Don’t fill out this form if you’re a dishonest individual. This offer is for a limited time.

So, CLICK HERE TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT A QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind and not lose money. The risk is on us!

You don't have to worry about paying our per speech for now.

Forget about money and let’s write something for you. We believe in the values of honesty and integrity and we think you should be happy with our work first.

So, Here Are The Benefits You Get When You Get On Board!

• A great speech written by our wedding speech consultants that reflects what you want to say exactly

• We coach you on how to use your voice to make your speech very exciting.

• We show you a simple but often overlook strategy to rehearse your speech even if you have a very poor memory. This method is used by great speakers like Obama and was used by Abraham Lincoln and his compatriots

• The most effective way to get your entire speech into your head without memorizing your speech. Guaranteed to help you even if you have a very poor memory or your memory is like a gold fish…most of our clients still wonder where we got this idea from. This ensures that you don't read off a sheet of paper...

Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise, and clarity!

''Hi Dan,

The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice).  Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.

All the best,

Matt''

• Ways to include humor in your speech and what it takes to do so

So, CLICK HERE TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT A QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind and not lose money. The risk is on us!

Remember, you have to see your speech first before you pay. So, you can relax and let us sweat it out at our expense!

Short Mother of The Bride Speech : Here’s A Simple Guide To Writing A Short But Lovely Mother Of The Bride Speech For Your Daughter and Son-In-Law

 

Have you ever heard a mother deliver a short but sweet mother of the bride's speech at her daughter’s wedding and wished that when your daughter is getting married you would make her proud too?

You are not alone…Most mothers wish that they had what it really takes to write a sweet mother of the bride's speech. But, the overwhelming majority of them are just not good with words…How sad!

 

 

 

I would never forget how I felt when I received a message from Lori asking for help with her speech when it was only four days to her child’s wedding day.

 

I was apparently overwhelmed with work so I asked her to put something together since she was a writer and I would review it later.

A few hours later, Lori wrote back to say even though she was a writer, she had never given a speech before and was worried she might flop.

After much pleading and cajoling, we co-wrote her piece and this was her feedback afterward: ( Please click on the image to read her words)

I know you probably believe that it takes an eloquent speaker or a gifted writer to write a unique mother of the bride speech.

Can I completely be honest with you?

Having a way with words can help to a certain extent.  So can your gift of gab.  

But, they are by no means all that you need to give the best speech ever at your daughter’s wedding and you’re robbing yourself of one of the greatest sources of joy and fulfillment in your life as a mother if you’re still thinking you need those twin-gifts.

 

And that brings us to the next side of the equation:

 

So, What Should The Mother Of The Bride Say In Her Speech?

 

That’s a great question! But, please…please…please stick with me here because I am going to share with you some time-tested ideas, tips, advice and templates I have personally used so you can easily write a heartfelt mother of the bride speech so you don’t embarrass your precious daughter.

 

 

Without further ado, let’s jump right in…

 

Always Look Before You Leap or Else You Will Drop Like A Stone

You see, in a bid to say what’s in their hearts, most moms look up mother of the bride speech examples online and other places in hopes of getting some words and phrases they can modify for their own scripts.

 

In spite of its obvious benefits, this commonly-used approach has several drawbacks as it can strip your completed draft of originality if not used more tactfully. You may check out this post I wrote about how to get the best out of them.

 

Now, consider this: would you take a trip to another country without learning a little bit about your intended destination? Would simply having a visa and enough cash suffice? Well, you be the judge!

 

 

Similarly, you shouldn’t even think of writing your speech without first finding out what goes into writing a great mother of the bride speech.

 

If you only put your thoughts together after scanning a couple of examples, your speech won’t turn out too well.

 

Here’s what you should know before you even jot down your ideas. First and foremost, all great pieces go through this process:

• Pre-writing stage
• Writing stage
• Post-writing stage

 

I follow the same processes listed above whenever I have to actually put something down on paper or even type on the keyboard.

 

Don’t worry…Just keep reading and I will share ideas on how to do just that.

 

Ok, let’s take it one step at a time and then put all the pieces together to create a sweet mother of the bride speech for your daughter.

 

Now…

Here’s Why You Shouldn’t Skip This Part And How To Make It Count

 

The pre-writing stage comes before the draft; this is the time for you to get your ideas down. And these ideas won’t just come to you unless you seek them out.

Wondering where you can find those ideas? Here’s what I would suggest you do now.

 

• Watch a lot of interesting mother of the bride's speech video clips. Right below is a great example you can learn from.

 

P.S: Grab a pen and paper and write down phrases, words, and ideas you think you can include in your own speech as you watch that video or any other good one you can find.

There are plenty of such videos on online video-sharing platforms like YouTube which you can watch over and over again for inspiration and guidance. By the way, this is a good one to stimulate creative thinking. 

 

In addition to that, you can study well-written mother of the bride speech examples intently and studiously like a student prepping for an admissions test.

You can read it like three times or more and consider how it was written and see if you can modify it to your needs.

 

By the way, here’s...

A Short Mother Of The Bride Speech Example

Good evening and welcome to the joining of Rachel and Mark

I’m Bernice and I am the mother of the bride.  

I would like to thank everyone who has come from near and far to share in our joy and happiness. It means a lot.

Nothing can compare to the joy I have in my heart as my only daughter is getting married. Thank God, she’s found the love of her life.

 

Rachel was always a happy and lively little girl who loved playing with her chocolate Labrador retriever, Yogi.

Growing up, she played softball and I was lucky to have coached her for many years.

 

She was always a source of joy and laughter. When she was 15 years old, she began to study French and knew the basics, enough to get us by whenever we visited her grandparents in France.

 

Once, we were in Brussels for vacation and on our way to the city from our hotel, we got stuck on the third floor because the elevator kept breaking down.

 

I was totally freaked out by this and began to cry. After being stuck there for 2 hours, we overhead two French-speaking men chatting on the fourth floor. Rachel(my bilingual secretary) then shouted at the top of her lungs   " Aidez nous! " which, being interpreted means, Help Us! for those men to come to our rescue.

 

Thinking that " Aidez nous! " was the French version of hotel attendants, I cried out of utter frustration " Mr. Aidez nous! ...we are dying here. Can you please help us? "

 

Rachel gave me a look and said: "Mom…please don’t embarrass yourself anymore. Please let me do my job"

 

When they eventually showed up, they greeted me with a smile and said " comment allez-vous madame? which I later learned means? " How are you Madam"

 

Not wanting to embarrass us, I smiled wanly and stood still like the Statute of Liberty, wondering what I was supposed to say exactly!

 

Needless to say, when the fixed the elevator and took us out, we were dead tired and had to go back to our hotel room.

 

Rachel, I am so proud of you and proud of the woman you’ve become. You’ve always been so kind, giving, respectful, caring, and anytime I think about who you are, I keep wondering what good have I done to deserve a daughter with a true heart of gold!

I am so happy that you are getting married to  Mark.

 

I have had the privilege to get to know Mark over the last few years and I can say he is loving, polite, thoughtful, caring, and kind. I absolutely adore how he loves and adores my baby girl.

Mark and Rachel, you are a wonderful couple, and let me congratulate you on reaching this significant special milestone.

You have gone through a lot to get thus far and you are bound to have ups and downs as you begin this new phase of your life. So make sure to keep an open mind and be ready for whatever life throws at you. God bless you 

 

 

Did you enjoy reading that short mother of the bride speech? And do you wish you can write something close to that, if not better? It’s a lot easier than you think.

 

You don’t have to just copy my example. I cautioned you against that earlier…do you remember?

 

 

Just keep reading and you will find out how I wrote that so you can use my suggestions and advice to write a unique wedding speech for your daughter without hitting your head against a wall.

That said, let’s draw the curtain on the pre-writing stage and switch over to the writing stage.

 

We will use the template above as a guide to putting your thoughts and best ideas together.  

 

That speech outline has three main parts and your presentation should have an introduction, a body, and a conclusion.

 

 

Let’s recap the introductory remarks we saw in that sample speech.

 

 

As you can see, the opening lines have the following components

• Name of the speaker and greeting the audience which forms an integral part of the wedding etiquette 
• Words of gratitude

 

 

Writing this part is obviously very easy. But you can alienate sections of the guests if you make sweeping statements like thank you all for coming.

 

 

Ask yourself questions like:

• Who helped me raise my girl? Was it her dad or my parents or her uncles and aunts? Please list their names and state why you are thanking them.

 

For example, if her father is deceased, you can say

 

" My late husband who happened to be Rachel’s dad died when she was a teen. We still feel his love for us whenever we remember him and we so appreciate everything he did whilst alive.

Rachel’s come thus far because he gave his all to make her who she is today. We will always keep him in our hearts and I know he’s looking down at her with pride.''

 

• Which persons influenced her life for the better? Your neighbors, her friends, her teacher, or who?

 

Just stretch yourself a bit and make sure you this fine opportunity to let the world know how much you appreciate the help they offered. Remember,  '' Thank you'' is the best prayer that anyone could say. " — Alice Walker

 

 

Now, let's see how to write the content of your speech.  Ok, before we do so. Can you please put your creative thinking cap on and try to answer these questions? 

 

 

• Are you doing a joint-speech with your husband or going solo as a single parent or mom? 

 

• Are you going to deliver a long or short speech? 

 

• Are you looking forward to delivering a funny mother of the bride's speech or a combination of more styles like sentimental or even narrative? For example, if you really want to go for something hilarious, you should come up with humorous stories that will support the overall theme.

 

To illustrate, let’s see how  Bernice chose her story

 

Bernice made things easier for herself by simply talking about her childhood years through adolescence to becoming a bride.

 

 

This approach always works best when you want to do a very simple and sweet mother of the bride speech which is something I always recommend as that can take a huge load off your shoulders if you are asked by your daughter to put something together on very short notice.  

 

If you find yourself in this situation, consider structuring your speech by including one or more of these ideas: 

 

 

Day of her birth--- You have to put down memories of what happened on that beautiful day and how you felt

 

Talk about when she was a little kid---Put down her beautiful qualities like how kind, active, and lively she was.

 

Don’t leave your points hanging. Use only admirable traits you have enough supporting details for.

 

Human qualities that speak to the heart are more preferred. Let’s see exactly how this works.

 

 

Example A: Rachel was an active little girl. She loved climbing fences. I’ll never forget how she tripped over our backyard fence when….

 

Example B: Rachel has a heart of old. She hates to see people suffer. I first noticed that when she was a kindergartener...

 

Which version do you think will tug at the heart of anyone listening to your message?

The latter by all means if you really want to deliver a sentimental or touching mother of the bride speech.

 

 

Well, if you want to get a good laugh out of the wedding guests, you can use the second illustration.  It's even possible to combine both styles to produce a memorable message that will be very well received by everyone.

 

 

Since the body of your speech is one of the key parts of your message, you should well to come up with a series of anecdotes about your daughter's life from when she was a little girl, to when she became an adult. 

 

 

The pointers below can steer you in the right direction: 

 

• Write down at least 2 or 3 memorable stories on paper about her childhood years
• Put down at least 2 memorable stories on paper about her adolescent years
• Jot down at least 1 memorable story on paper about her after college years

 

 

Then, you can look at those stories at every stage of her life and select which ones you wish to share.

 

In choosing, you should consider, how long or short you want your speech to last.  I know you might be wondering about this...

 

How Long Should My Mother Of The Bride Speech Be?

 

It should be long enough to cover the most important aspects of your speech. Some folks will encourage you to go for something short which is fine. 

But I think if your story is very engaging, the wedding guests will love every bit of it and no one would be bored. 

 

I once listened to a thirteen-minute long speech and I enjoyed every bit of it. But honestly ask yourself if you can hold the interest of everyone for that long? 

 

Well, if you want to honor your girl by speaking at different venues, say at the rehearsal dinner, or bridal shower or reception,  then you can tailor your stories accordingly.

 

For example, if you choose to speak at the bridal shower, you can share memories about her growing up years and use the remainder for another occasion like the reception. 

 

But it’s always best to stick to a single plan as being a mother of the bride can be stressful, emotionally draining, and exhausting, and I don’t want you to be stressed out by this.  

 

By the way, there's nothing wrong with making your remarks very short. But make sure it truly captures the essence of what makes your daughter's story unique. 

 

 

Ok...let's get back to our last point about listing memorable events about her life. After you've chosen your preferred stories for those milestones, you should say something about your son-in-law. 

 

 

This Is What You Can Say About Your Future Son-In-Law

• · Talk about the first time you met him

 

• · Mention how he’s made your daughter’s life better

 

• · State his good qualities and why you think he will be a good husband

 

• · welcome him to your family and thank his mom and dad

 

 

I am sure the extract below will give you an idea of how to write something about the groom:

 

Over the last few years, I have seen how polite, thoughtful, caring, and loving Mark is. He's also a great cook, an avid swimmer, and a passionate gardener. We are so full of admiration and respect for him and we are confident that she will treat Rachel right.

 

 

After you've written down a few words about your son-in-law, you may scroll up this page to re-study that short example and then piece your scattered thoughts together. 

 

Don’t worry about how messy it looks after coming up with a first draft. Congratulate yourself once you have completed your task and take a break!

 

You can come back to it later and cut out parts you don’t really need by reading it out loud.  Keep doing that until it comes out best. 

 

 

Now, let’s see…

How To End Your Mother Of The Bride Speech On A Memorable Note

 

Just as you have to start your speech on a bright note, you also have to close it well if you want to be remembered for putting on a great show.

 

Below are some proven tips to help you end with a bang.

• First, you can simply share some pieces of advice based on your own experience of marriage

 

An example is...

Mark and Rachel, through the years, we have been married, we have discovered that a successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person. So, always date each other and put each other first in everything you do and you will rekindle the spark in your marriage.

 

• Do you have in mind any lovely poem? Then, you should conclude with it.

 

• Are you a Christian or a deeply religious person? If you are, you can pick a bible verse about marriage or use a religious quote or even end with a prayer. I love it when mothers end with a prayer and I feel it's one of the best ways of closing your speech.

 

The famous bible reading ''I Corinthians 13: 4- 7'' comes to mind.

⁴Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. ⁵ It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. ⁶ Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. ⁷ It always protects, always trusts, always hope, always perseveres.

 

 

• Again, you can end with the lyrics of a love song by modifying it and singing it out and this act alone will get you a standing ovation. Don’t worry if you don’t have a good voice. Here's an example:

 

 

You can personalize the conclusion of your speech by using the lyrics of a love song or even a tune everyone can sing along. You may use Ben King’s Classic: ''Stand By Me''

 

                                                       

One or more of the following love quotes can also be employed

 

• ''A great marriage is not when the ‘perfect couple’ comes together. It is when an imperfect couple learns to enjoy their differences.'' – Dave Meure

 

• ''Never marry the one you can live with, marry the one you cannot live without.'' – Unknown

 

• ''A good marriage is one which allows for change and growth in the individuals and in the way they express their love.''– Pearl S. Buck

 

Using the underlined quote, I came up with this:

Marriage is a lifetime adventure filled with incredible memories with the person you cannot live without. Nonetheless, it's full of many ups and downs…

 

Did you see how I did that? Do likewise and your mother of the bride speech will be a hit. If one or all the points listed above won’t work for you, you can simply toast the happy couple after making brief remarks about your new son-in-law.

 

 

P.S: Is the thought of giving you a great wedding speech keeping you up at night? It shouldn’t if you do what most moms do. By following this simple plan that's guaranteed to help you write a great mom speech like the one you read above.

Claire was quite skeptical when she came to us but we kept assuring what she will make her son and family proud-and this is what she sent over after the wedding was over.

'' Hello Dan, their wedding went very well. The usual stress beforehand for the couple organizing the event but all things to do went so smoothly. I also like to say that I'm so proud of my speech, almost got a standing ovation, lol! I'm so glad I've found you. I will definitely recommend you to my friends and family for future weddings. I wish you the very best.''-  Claire, New Zealand

Want to know how she did just that? She got on board our wedding speech program and one of our talented speech consultants helped her out.

Want to get on board? You should by first filling out this form.

This is a letter a mom sent me after her wedding. (Please click on the image to enlarge it so you can read it)

Ok, Is This Offer For Me?

• Yes, if you are expecting nothing less than a very special, beautiful, unique, and memorable speech.

• Don’t have much time to write a perfect speech just as you want it because of work demands and other life's pressure or even sick? Then, let’s take care of it and the guests will definitely sing your praises--we have done it for so many others and it's your turn now!

• Yes, if you are overwhelmed by the pressures of work and don’t have the time to put together a very meaningful speech, so you can have your peace of mind

• Yes, if you want your family, your daughter, friends, and wedding guests to shower you with very sincere compliments…just imagine how you will feel

• Yes, if you are not good with words and you feel you’re not a natural writer and you are struggling to find the right words but still want to give a great speech.

• Yes, you get so scared anytime you’re asked to say something before an audience and you really want to save yourself from any form of embarrassment on your daughter's big day.

• Yes, if you are not too eloquent or not too sure if you are on the right track.

• Yes, if you absolutely hate speaking in public or feel this is not your thing but you want to make your son feel very proud

• Yes, if you have a day or less to the wedding and you are worried that you might make some horrible mistakes

• Yes, if you are a good speaker but you still want someone to look over or review what you've come up with!

Just imagine leaving your entire presentation in the hands of skilled wedding speech consultants who will take away your pain of spending hours thinking hard and long about what to say and what not to say.

Also, envision being patiently guided to say something that will leave a favorable impression on the mind of your listeners.

And also imagine the thrill and feeling of excitement and pride you’re going to experience when the audience leaps onto their feet and scream and shouts and even sing your praises.

Won’t you love that? I hope you do...

Wedding not too far away? Or happening in less than 24 hours? Trust me, we can deliver! it doesn’t matter if your speech is today, tomorrow, next week, next month ,next year,... we can make things work for you  

 

Ok, I am Interested, What’s the Cost?

You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.

Why? As you know, the current health and economic crisis has caused severe hardships for most people.

Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.

Yet, some daughters are still getting married and asking their moms to give speeches.

Nonetheless, not every mother could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.

So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.

Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.

So, please take advantage of it now even if your daughter’s big day is in the future.

Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video and your daughter and son-in-law and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.  

So, please take advantage of it now even if your daughter’s big day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.   

''It was perfect Dan.  I changed a few things in the speech. And I had several people come up and tell me how well done it was. I couldn't have done it better. Thanks for your help''- Marilyn, Canada

This is another note a mom sent me after her wedding. (Please click on the image to enlarge it so you can read it)

Oh Ok, How Then Do I Get Started Since I Want To Get On Board Right Away?

Ok, here’s how it works

All you have to do RIGHT NOW is to click on this link to receive an easy-to-fill-in questionnaire via email. Check your email a few hours after you’ve submitted your request.

So,

1)CLICK HERE  NOW TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT THIS QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind!

2. After that, we will send you a very short questionnaire to fill out via email! You only have to check your email a few hours after you have made your request

3. Then, you fill out the questionnaire sent through your email and please have it sent back to us…

4. We will confirm receipt of it…If something is not too clear, we will ask you to clarify….

5. If not, we will send you a wonderful draft in a couple of hours if this on very short notice….If not, after a few days

6. Then, you look it over and tell us if you are okay with it or you want to amend or reviseit till you are happy with it--although we always get it right even with the first draft.
7. Then, we ask you to pay for it. It's as simple as that!

Just a reminder of what you pay after it’s duly completed.

You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.

Why? As you know, the current health and economic crisis has caused severe hardships for most people.

Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.

Yet, some daughters are still getting married and asking their moms to give speeches.

Nonetheless, not every mother could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.

So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.

Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.

So, please take advantage of it now even if your daughter’s big day is in the future.

Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video and your daughter and son-in-law and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.  

So, please take advantage of it now even if your daughter’s big day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.   

''It was perfect Dan.  I changed a few things in the speech. And I had several people come up and tell me how well done it was. I couldn't have done it better. Thanks for your help''- Marilyn, Canada

Please note: Your speech draft comes with a proven and simple tip to master your speech or remember your speech just as you want it without carrying a paper with you.

Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise, and clarity!

''Hi Dan,

The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice).  Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.

All the best,

Matt''

Please note: Don’t fill out this form if you’re a dishonest individual. This offer is for a limited time.

So, CLICK HERE TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT A QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind and not lose money. The risk is on us!

You don't have to worry about paying our per speech for now.

Forget about money and let’s write something for you. We believe in the values of honesty and integrity and we think you should be happy with our work first.

So, Here Are The Benefits You Get When You Get On Board!

• A great speech written by our wedding speech consultants that reflects what you want to say exactly

• We coach you on how to use your voice to make your speech very exciting.

• We show you a simple but often overlook strategy to rehearse your speech even if you have a very poor memory. This method is used by great speakers like Obama and was used by Abraham Lincoln and his compatriots

• The most effective way to get your entire speech into your head without memorizing your speech. Guaranteed to help you even if you have a very poor memory or your memory is like a gold fish…most of our clients still wonder where we got this idea from. This ensures that you don't read off a sheet of paper...

Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise, and clarity!

''Hi Dan,

The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice).  Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.

All the best,

Matt''

• Ways to include humor in your speech and what it takes to do so

So, CLICK HERE TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT A QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind and not lose money. The risk is on us!

Remember, you have to see your speech first before you pay. So, you can relax and let us sweat it out at our expense!

Mother of The Bride Speech : How To Write A Heartfelt Mother Of The Bride Wedding Speech For Your Daughter

 

A mother of the bride's speech on your mind? Don't worry because this post will help you to easily and quickly write a touching mother of the bride speech that will get you tons of compliments even if you don’t know what to say.

 

 

The question I often get asked is ''What should the mother of the bride say in her speech?''

 

I know that’s on your mind too because that’s what most mothers of the bride ask me the most about when they write to us. And I really know how it feels when mothers want to give the best speech ever.

 

Granted, crafting something remarkable about your daughter is no easy feat, particularly when you realize too late in the game that you haven’t put anything down.

 

As a mother of the bride wedding speechwriter, I always do my best to help as much as I can. But understandably,  you can't help everyone when you are working under a tight deadline or you are inundated with several speech writing offers in the summer.

 

 

Everyone’s daughter is so precious in the sight of God, and I feel so bad when I am not in a  position to help...

 

So, I decided to come up with all the proven methods, ideas and tips I use for writing speeches for my clients across the world, so you too can write something amazing even if you are a terrible writer.

 

 

Ready? Ok, here we go: 

Mistakes I have seen most mothers of the bride make is to grab a paper and pen and simply put down their ideas together or simply copy and paste examples from the internet.

 

That’s just wrong. Before you ever write a word, you need to deal with the fear within. Even if you are a very experienced speaker, you will feel this tinge of anxiety creeping throughout your body and that’s a sign that you are nervous.

 

 

It gets even worse if you hate being in the public eye or you’re not an effective public speaker and you might think that you’re not cut out for the task ahead. 

 

I can remember that there was this mother of the bride who was so enthusiastic about delivering the best ever mother of the bride speech.

 

A few days later, she told me she wanted to cancel her order because she was going through performance anxiety as the impending performance wouldn’t let her sleep soundly at night.

 

So, her family decided to take that heavy ''burden'' off her shoulders so she could have her peace of mind.

 

Don't Dwell On This If You Really Want To Make An Impact

 

Well, she’s not alone because so many people go through this ordeal and that’s because they often focused on past speaking failures and that deprives them of the zeal and energy they need to make a difference.

 

 

Maybe, you failed to glitter and you’re probably on the verge of calling it because your daughter has asked for something touching and you don’t want to embarrass her.

 

You need not fear because you can make your daughter so proud. You just have to clear out the mental cobwebs that are clouding your mind and envision yourself speaking confidently. 

 

As you keep a healthy mental gaze, you will be slowly developing the kind of mental toughness that you need to succeed, and you will definitely succeed because you’re a hero in my eyes.

 

 

That, in essence, is the first thing to do before you ask yourself this simple question: '' What should I say in my speech to my daughter?'' 

 

Don’t start writing yet! Before you do, you have to look for the right words and phrases that can work wonders. Getting them is simple as there are so many easy ways of putting your foot in the door.

 

Did You Know That This Favorite Thing of Yours Can Help You Out?

 

First, you need to put yourself in the mood by watching a couple of videos.

Now, switch over to your favorite video sharing platforms like youtube. com. Then, input in the kind of speech you want to give in the search box.

 

Depending on your own unique situation, you might use any of these keywords like touching mother of the bride speech, religious mother of the bride speeches(toast), short and sweet mother of the bride speech(toast), divorced mother of the bride speech(toast),

single mother of the bride speech(toast), emotional mother of the bride speech(toast),  daughter of the bride speech(toast)…..

 

Then, grab a pen and paper and without any outside interruptions, watch a few of those videos and jot down ideas and phrases that resonate with you most.

 

You can re-watch it a few times for additional insights, particularly how the presentation has been structured, and see if you can adapt yours accordingly.

 

By the way, here’s a video for your studying pleasure:

 

Talking about that adaptation reminds me of this super-useful resource that can help any mother of the bride give the best speech ever.

 

Guess what that is?   Mother of the bride samples have proven over and over again to help anyone who can’t even write their speech because they are replete with so many lines you can model your speech after. 

 

Can you show me an example? My pleasure…I am glad you have asked. Let’s look at this  very short example and then, I will walk you through how I came up with:

 

 

Mother of The Bride Speech Example

 

Good evening and welcome everyone. Thanks for coming. I am Diana and I am the mother of the bride.

 

Indie, you made me feel like a very proud mom when I walked you down the aisle and I felt so blessed for having a wonderful daughter like you.

 

As your loving mom, I always wanted you to have the best things in life and it’s such a blessing to see that you have grown into a very beautiful young lady.

 

Through the years, we have been there for each other, no matter what! From our memorable family vacations to watching you play tennis and even helping you plan for your big day, I just can’t imagine anything the two of us have ever missed.

 

I treasure each and every memory of helping you my darling daughter for this wedding to be your perfect day and have loved every minute of it.  Thank you so much and I really love you.

 

Indie, I have always believed that our lives center around love and it’s best lived

when shared with someone who deeply cares about you. Thank God, you have to share your love with that handsome groom over there and I couldn’t be more proud.

 

Mike, it’s very obvious that love Natalie so much. What more could a mom ask for?  You’re loving, so kind and I am very much excited that you are now part of our family.

 

Mike and Indie,  you’re a very beautiful couple. You both were made to experience each other’s love so you can be truly blessed.

 

As you start life, always love each other and always work as a team and you will have a long, happy life together. We wish you the very best in everything you do and God bless you both.

 

 

Now, let’s take it bit by bit, so you can understand how this short mother of the bride speech was written.

 

First, let’s review the introduction: Below is the summary

'' Good evening and welcome everyone. Thanks for coming. I am Diana and I am the mother of the bride.  Indie, you made me feel like a very proud mom when I walked you  down the aisle  and I felt so blessed for having a wonderful  daughter like you.''

 

As you might be aware by now, the introduction of your mother of the bride speech should capture attention from the get-go.

 

It essentially starts with a short self-introduction as the above example depicts. After greeting the audience and revealing your identity, you should really engage your listeners. 

 

How To Write  The Perfect Introduction 

 

To start off with a bang, you have to employ one or more of the following techniques. 

 

1. If your daughter’s birthday falls on her big day, you can incorporate that into your speech.

 

An example is:

''Today is a special day not only for Nora and Mike but for our entire family. It’s so amazing that we are celebrating Nora’s big day on the same day we had her 26 years ago. First, let me wish her a happy birthday and to congratulate her on...''

 

• You can share your personal sentiments about how you felt after you gave birth to her

 

• If you really want to touch hearts, you can start with a poignant story and use that as a springboard...

 

Wondering how to get that done? Wisecracks and quotes can help you a lot and here are some lovely quotes you can use for this purpose. 

 

''A daughter is someone you laugh with, dream with, and love with

all your heart.'' – Unknown

 

''A daughter is just a little girl who grows up to be your best friend.'' – Unknown

 

''A mother and a daughter always share a special bond, which is engraved

on their hearts.'' – Unknown

 

''Words are not enough to express the unconditional love that exists

between a mother and a daughter''  – Caitlin Houston

 

''The love between a mother and daughter is forever'' - Unknown

 

 

To illustrate, let me show you how to use Caitlin’s quote: “Words are

not enough to express the unconditional love that exists between a mother

and a daughter.”  to set the ball rolling. 

 

''Ladies and gentlemen, words are not enough to express the unconditional

that exists between me and my daughter since nothing comes close to 

the special place she holds in my heart…''

 

Do you love that example? I guess you can come up with something

better than that…

 

• Did you know that you can also start on a funny note? You can walk down memory lane and put down hilarious events and incidents that happened in your daughter’s life.

 

• Again, if you have a nickname, you can play with it. This past week, I did that for the mother of the bride. She told me that her husband’s nickname is “Boy’’ and so... I started off by saying that

 

'' Hello everyone. My name is Inda and I am the mother of the bride. My nickname is Vicky and my husband’s name is Ducia. We call him Boy because people often remark that he looks like a young boy. Does he look like one? Hmm… So, I fondly call him Mr. Nice Boy because he’s so sweet and cute.

 

 

Do This For The Wedding Guests And Your Daughter Will Be So Proud of You...

 

Ok, enough said for the opening lines. Let’s move on to the body of the sample under review... please, let’s re-capture it briefly. 

 

''As your loving mom, I always wanted you to have the best things in life and it’s such a  blessing to see that you have grown into a very beautiful young lady.

Through the years, we have been there for each other, no matter what!

From our memorable family vacations to watching you play tennis and even helping you plan for your big day, I just can’t imagine anything the two of us have ever missed.''

 

As you can see, the body of the speech outlines what the relationship with your daughter has been like over the years.  To come up with the right stuff, you should first determine what the goal or objective of your toast is….

 

Ask yourself these simple questions:

• Do you want a long or short mother of the bridespeech?
• Do you want a sentimental or hilarious speech or a combo?
• What aspect of your daughter’s life do you want to really highlight
• Again, if you want to go for something humorous, then, of course, you should choose stories that are naturally amusing. 

 

Suppose, you want to focus on her life, then, you have to pick at least two or three memorable incidents you really want to share with the guests.

 

 

For example, 

• You can share an event that occurred during her childhood
• You may also cite an event that happened as she was growing up
• You can probably add an event in her adulthood(her accomplishment if you will)
• Then, you can tell her how proud you are of her
• Next, briefly talk about your son-in-law. Speak sincerely about his admirable qualities and weave in a story that fits. 
• Lastly, welcome him to your family and thank his parents…

 

Now, this is what I want you to do. Go over that simple example and read it over and over again and put down memorable stories based on the ideas I have just shared.  

 

Using that example as a guide, please put your story together mindless of how well it flows.

 

If you have enough time to spare, you can shelf it for a day or two and go back to fine-tune it till it gets better than expected. Remember, all good writing is a never-ending process of continually refining rough mental ideas.

 

Well, you don’t have to worry if you have a few hours to your daughter’s wedding. If you find yourself in this quagmire, just relax for sometime before taking out the unwanted parts. 

 

That’s essentially the step-by-step process I follow whenever I am writing a speech for anyone. 

 

Wait...wait...wait...please, we are not done yet.  Did you know that the conclusion is what the guests will take home? 

 

How To Get Heartwarming Compliments From Everyone

 

I know for sure, you are wondering how you can close on a memorable note...No problem... I can still help

 

Let’s go back and recapture that conclusion….

 '' You’re a very beautiful couple. You both were made to experience each other’s love so you can be truly blessed. As you start life, always love each other and always work as a team and you will have a long, happy life together. '' 

 

Here are a few pointers to help you end with a bang….

 

• First, you can end with a quote from the scriptures if you are making a religious mother of the bride speech

 

For example, you can say:

 

'' Mike and Diana, today is the day the Lord has made and it gives me joy to see the glowing smile on your face. Scripture affirms in I Corinthians 13:13 that there abides faith,  hope, and love but love’s the greatest.

The love you have for each other is God’s greatest gift for you, so treasure it like a rare gem by putting each other first in everything you do and your joy will overflow like a refreshing fountain...

My hope and prayer is that you will put God at the center of everything you do and live for each other selflessly as Jesus gave himself for the world.'' 

 

• You can end with a very touching love poem. Here’s one:

 

Love is beautiful and great.

When you find the right person, it will be fate.

My love I have for you is so strong; nothing can ever go wrong.

It was love at first sight. I wanted to be with him every night.

 

Every day I feel so good inside...I can't wait till the day I become his bride. As far as the future, we cannot see, but together forever we will be.

 

What we have is love; it is as beautiful as a dove.

Our love has grown into something bigger that has shown

your heart and my heart have connected, but our love is so expected.

 

And now from this day, I will always pray that I will stay with my man,

and I know that I can.

 

We just can use that by tweaking it… Please carefully take note of how I am

going to revise it... ok, here you go:

 

Mike and Ruth,  your love is so beautiful  and so strong

And nothing can ever go wrong if you always work hand in hand

As far as the future, we cannot see, but together forever your love will be.

Your hearts have connected

And now from this day, I will always pray that you never

Lose that sense of connection because your love is

So beautiful and so strong.

• You may also craft something with the lyrics of a well-known wedding or love song or to make it the talk of the town, you can sing it if you have a good voice.

 

P.S: Is the thought of giving you a great wedding speech keeping you up at night? It shouldn’t if you do what most moms do. By following this simple plan that's guaranteed to help you write a great mom speech like the one you read above.

Claire was quite skeptical when she came to us but we kept assuring what she will make her son and family proud-and this is what she sent over after the wedding was over.

'' Hello Dan, their wedding went very well. The usual stress beforehand for the couple organizing the event but all things to do went so smoothly. I also like to say that I'm so proud of my speech, almost got a standing ovation, lol! I'm so glad I've found you. I will definitely recommend you to my friends and family for future weddings. I wish you the very best.''-  Claire, New Zealand

Want to know how she did just that? She got on board our wedding speech program and one of our talented speech consultants helped her out.

Want to get on board? You should by first filling out this form.

This is a letter a mom sent me after her wedding. (Please click on the image to enlarge it so you can read it)

Ok, Is This Offer For Me?

• Yes, if you are expecting nothing less than a very special, beautiful, unique, and memorable speech.

• Don’t have much time to write a perfect speech just as you want it because of work demands and other life's pressure or even sick? Then, let’s take care of it and the guests will definitely sing your praises--we have done it for so many others and it's your turn now!

• Yes, if you are overwhelmed by the pressures of work and don’t have the time to put together a very meaningful speech, so you can have your peace of mind

• Yes, if you want your family, your daughter, friends, and wedding guests to shower you with very sincere compliments…just imagine how you will feel

• Yes, if you are not good with words and you feel you’re not a natural writer and you are struggling to find the right words but still want to give a great speech.

• Yes, you get so scared anytime you’re asked to say something before an audience and you really want to save yourself from any form of embarrassment on your daughter's big day.

• Yes, if you are not too eloquent or not too sure if you are on the right track.

• Yes, if you absolutely hate speaking in public or feel this is not your thing but you want to make your son feel very proud

• Yes, if you have a day or less to the wedding and you are worried that you might make some horrible mistakes

• Yes, if you are a good speaker but you still want someone to look over or review what you've come up with!

Just imagine leaving your entire presentation in the hands of skilled wedding speech consultants who will take away your pain of spending hours thinking hard and long about what to say and what not to say.

Also, envision being patiently guided to say something that will leave a favorable impression on the mind of your listeners.

And also imagine the thrill and feeling of excitement and pride you’re going to experience when the audience leaps onto their feet and scream and shouts and even sing your praises.

Won’t you love that? I hope you do...

Wedding not too far away? Or happening in less than 24 hours? Trust me, we can deliver! it doesn’t matter if your speech is today, tomorrow, next week, next month ,next year,... we can make things work for you  

 

Ok, I am Interested, What’s the Cost?

You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.

Why? As you know, the current health and economic crisis has caused severe hardships for most people.

Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.

Yet, some daughters are still getting married and asking their moms to give speeches.

Nonetheless, not every mother could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.

So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.

Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.

So, please take advantage of it now even if your daughter’s big day is in the future.

Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video and your daughter and son-in-law and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.  

So, please take advantage of it now even if your daughter’s big day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.   

''It was perfect Dan.  I changed a few things in the speech. And I had several people come up and tell me how well done it was. I couldn't have done it better. Thanks for your help''- Marilyn, Canada

This is another note a mom sent me after her wedding. (Please click on the image to enlarge it so you can read it)

Oh Ok, How Then Do I Get Started Since I Want To Get On Board Right Away?

Ok, here’s how it works

All you have to do RIGHT NOW is to click on this link to receive an easy-to-fill-in questionnaire via email. Check your email a few hours after you’ve submitted your request.

So,

1)CLICK HERE  NOW TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT THIS QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind!

2. After that, we will send you a very short questionnaire to fill out via email! You only have to check your email a few hours after you have made your request

3. Then, you fill out the questionnaire sent through your email and please have it sent back to us…

4. We will confirm receipt of it…If something is not too clear, we will ask you to clarify….

5. If not, we will send you a wonderful draft in a couple of hours if this on very short notice….If not, after a few days

6. Then, you look it over and tell us if you are okay with it or you want to amend or reviseit till you are happy with it--although we always get it right even with the first draft.
7. Then, we ask you to pay for it. It's as simple as that!

Just a reminder of what you pay after it’s duly completed.

You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.

Why? As you know, the current health and economic crisis has caused severe hardships for most people.

Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.

Yet, some daughters are still getting married and asking their moms to give speeches.

Nonetheless, not every mother could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.

So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.

Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.

So, please take advantage of it now even if your daughter’s big day is in the future.

Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video and your daughter and son-in-law and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.  

So, please take advantage of it now even if your daughter’s big day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.   

''It was perfect Dan.  I changed a few things in the speech. And I had several people come up and tell me how well done it was. I couldn't have done it better. Thanks for your help''- Marilyn, Canada

Please note: Your speech draft comes with a proven and simple tip to master your speech or remember your speech just as you want it without carrying a paper with you.

Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise, and clarity!

''Hi Dan,

The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice).  Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.

All the best,

Matt''

Please note: Don’t fill out this form if you’re a dishonest individual. This offer is for a limited time.

So, CLICK HERE TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT A QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind and not lose money. The risk is on us!

You don't have to worry about paying our per speech for now.

Forget about money and let’s write something for you. We believe in the values of honesty and integrity and we think you should be happy with our work first.

So, Here Are The Benefits You Get When You Get On Board!

• A great speech written by our wedding speech consultants that reflects what you want to say exactly

• We coach you on how to use your voice to make your speech very exciting.

• We show you a simple but often overlook strategy to rehearse your speech even if you have a very poor memory. This method is used by great speakers like Obama and was used by Abraham Lincoln and his compatriots

• The most effective way to get your entire speech into your head without memorizing your speech. Guaranteed to help you even if you have a very poor memory or your memory is like a gold fish…most of our clients still wonder where we got this idea from. This ensures that you don't read off a sheet of paper...

Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise, and clarity!

''Hi Dan,

The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice).  Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.

All the best,

Matt''

• Ways to include humor in your speech and what it takes to do so

So, CLICK HERE TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT A QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind and not lose money. The risk is on us!

Remember, you have to see your speech first before you pay. So, you can relax and let us sweat it out at our expense!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

  

 

 

 

Mother of The Bride Speech Sample: This Mother Of The Bride Speech Example Can Help You Write A Heartfelt Mother Of The Bride Speech

 

Looking for well-written mother of the bride speech examples and samples? This would prove useful.

Many mothers of brides come to our site in order to find the right words, ideas, and phrases that will help them put down their exact thoughts and emotions into very beautiful words.

 

 

While there is nothing wrong with that, I have been stressing the need to consult proven mother of the bride speech samples because not only can you glean great insights from those examples, but can they also make your writing a breeze when you have to come up with an amazing mother of the bride speech on a very short notice.

 

 

 

Today, I am so happy to let you in one of those sample mothers of the bride speech samples. One of our past clients gave us her blessings to use it after she delivered a touching mother of the bride speech many years ago.

 

First, we will look at the full speech, and then I will take each part of it, and show you how you can effortlessly say something short and sweet about your precious daughter.

 

First, let’s look at her speech in its entirety:

 

Mother Of The Bride Speech Example/Sample

 

Welcome everyone, I am Shelly, Amanda’s mom, and Jerry’s mom-in-law and am so glad to see the couple surrounded by friends and family as they are united in holy matrimony.

It feels like only yesterday, Amanda’s birth renewed my joy as a mom and I had this consuming dream to raise her to become a woman who will leave an indelible footprint in her own world.

 

What was in store for her for the rest of her life, of course, I just couldn’t figure out but I had a dream that someday she would reach for the stars.

 

And so, several times at night, I’d wake up and look into her beautiful, smiling eyes and be completely overwhelmed with a sense of wonder, joy, and responsibility for my extraordinary child.

 

Though each day came with its smiles, tears, and heartaches, God gave me the strength to fully and uniquely prepare her for such a time like this.

 

Today, she’s getting married to Jerry, and I still have in mind all those precious moments of the time we’ve spent together.

 

Growing up, Amanda was fun to be with, adventurous and very sociable. Anytime, she lost her tooth, she would ask that we go to visit the dentist. Well, she was not really interested in being examined per se, but she knew she would come back home with a new toothbrush and some treats.

 

At school, she loved to play soccer and was her team’s favorite player. Through it all, she didn’t rest on her cleats but worked so hard to be on the dean’s list. She also went on to become Prom Queen due to her poise, kindness, and genuine care for her friends and others.

 

Amanda, you’ve always been a special person, even as an infant, we knew how special, how precious you were.  When you came into our lives, you rekindled our passion and commitment to each other.

 

 

 

As the years went by, you never gave us a reason to worry about it as you made sound choices every step of the way. When I look at you, I see in you true beauty, love, and an unwavering commitment to family, friends, and loved ones.

 

You’ve also been our firm backbone. I remember when you took various jobs at school and on weekends to support yourself and the family when your dad passed away a couple of years ago.

 

Today, I feel like the proudest mom ever because you’re getting married to Gary, a real gentleman you have known for 6 years now.

Guess what! Working as a nurse brings you into close contact with the infirm on a daily basis and you can understand the pain they have to endure just to survive.

 

I know you really love your patients and through your kind words and deeds, you’ve helped many who thought they had suffered long enough to still have hope and even lend a helping hand to restore their sense of self-being and vitality.

 

Amanda, that same attitude is very crucial in your walk with Gary.  So, let your words be seasoned with salt, and do your best to bring out the best in him no matter what life throws at you.

And to you Gary, we know you to be a great gentleman who loves Christen so much and your commitment to family is unquestionable.  We are honored that you’ve asked for her hand, and we know you really love her like your own soul.

 

On behalf of my husband Tom, I’d like to formally welcome you into our family with open arms and I want to thank your family for their love and support all these years.

 

ADVICE TO COUPLE

 

Gary and Amanda, I have a few words to give you before I take my seat.

Marriage is a test of real love and you should expect both good and bad times, including some rough storms.

Riding through these storms together, leaning on each other for strength and courage as allies, strengthens the marriage bonds.

As long as you weather the storms together, your marriage will endure no matter what happens. So, keep your sense of humor and you’ll make it through these storms just fine, with love.

Your love reminds of the movie’’ Notebook’’ when Noah writes to Allie that the best kind of love is the kind that awakens the soul and makes us reach for more, that plants a fire in our hearts and brings peace to our minds. And that's what you've given me. That's what I'd hoped to give to you forever.

My hope and prayer is that you will experience that same love because your love is so pure.

Love you both and God bless you.

 

 

 

Isn’t that a short and sweet mother of the bride speech? Now, let’s take each part of the speech one step at a time and discuss it.

 

First, let’s look once again at the introduction…

 

Here you go:

''Welcome everyone, I am Shelly, Amanda’s mom, and Jerry’s mom-in-law and am so glad to see the couple surrounded by friends and family as they are united in holy matrimony.''

 

(Comments/your writing ideas): Take this from me. Speeches that don’t start with a short-self introduction plus greetings are not ''speeches'' at all. So, make sure you always begin speeches by acknowledging the guests just as you have seen above as it shows the kind of person you are)

 

''It feels like only yesterday, Amanda’s birth renewed my calling as a mom and I had this consuming dream to raise her to become a woman who will leave an indelible footprint in her own world.''

 

(Comments/your writing ideas): As the bride’s mom, you can share how you felt when she was born. So, take your pen and put down how you felt when your daughter was born.

 

For example, I often start with a few of the following phrases….See examples below:

• The day my daughter was born was the best moment of my life
• Words can’t express how I felt when (your daughter’s name here) came into my life
• (your daughter’s name here) came into my life and make our joy complete

I could go on and on but those techniques can help you write a beautiful introduction...

 

That being said, let's look at the lines that follow:

 

''What was in store for her for the rest of her life, of course, I just couldn’t figure out but I had a dream that someday she would reach for the stars.

 

And so, several times at night, I’d wake up and look into her beautiful, smiling eyes and be completely overwhelmed with a sense of wonder, joy, and responsibility for my extraordinary child.

 

Though each day came with its smiles, tears, and heartaches, God gave me the strength to fully and uniquely prepare her for such a time like this.''

 

(Comment/your writing ideas) …If you scroll up, you will notice that the writer touched on things like:

• Her dream for her girl
• And how the early years were like
  

 

Now, let me ask you this: Do you remember stories that come to mind as a result of your loving sacrifice and dedication back then? Put it down if you do….you may model yours after the above extract.

 

We are done with how to write the opening lines. So, let’s see the body.

 

 

Before we do, please note that the body of your mother of the bride speech usually comprises these key elements:

• Your daughter’s childhood
• Her teen years
• Her favorite sports
• Her accomplishments
• Her behavior
• How she met the groom

 

 

Well, you don’t have to include all those memories, but you have to briefly touch on the key points as seen below:

 

Growing up, she was fun to be with, adventurous and very sociable.

Anytime, she lost her tooth, she would ask that we go to visit the dentist. Well, she was not really interested in being examined per se, but she knew she would come back home with a new toothbrush and a treat.

 

At school, she loved to play soccer. She didn’t rest on her cleats but worked so hard to be on the dean’s list. She also went on to become Prom Queen, due to her poise, kindness and genuine care for her friends and others.

 

After the body, comes the conclusion. Let’s see look at this sample and then we will examine how it was written:

Amanda, you’ve always been a special person, even as an infant, we knew how special, how precious you were. When you came into our lives, you rekindled our passion and commitment to each other.

 

Growing up, you never gave us a reason to worry about it as you made sound choices every step of the way.

When I look at you, I see in you true beauty, love, and a commitment to family.

I remember when you took various jobs at school and on weekends to support yourself and the family when your dad passed away a couple of years ago.

Today, you’re getting married to Gary, a real gentleman you have known for 6 years now.

 

(Comments/your writing ideas): To do justice to the above parts as my client did, you have to put down these ideas:

• Why you are so proud of her
• How you felt when she met the groom
• Then, talk about the groom’s admirable traits and why you like him
• Then, write your impressions of him in general when your daughter first brought him home
• Welcome him into your family

 

I hope by now you are well aware of the importance of commenting about your son-in-laws’ attributes?)

 

 

Finally, you can share your best wishes or add a couple of advice to your speech and toast the happy couple as illustrated below…

 

Gary and Amanda, I have a few words to give you before I take my seat.

Marriage is a test of real love and you should expect both good and bad times, including some rough storms.

Riding through these storms together, leaning on each other for strength and courage as allies, strengthens the marriage bonds.

As long as you weather the storms together, your marriage will endure.

No matter what, keep your sense of humor and you’ll make it through these storms just fine, with love.

Your love reminds of the movie’’ Notebook’’ when Noah writes to Allie that the best kind of love is the kind that awakens the soul and makes us reach for more, that plants a fire in our hearts and brings peace to our minds. And that's what you've given me. That's what I'd hoped to give to you forever.

My hope and prayer is that you will experience that same love because you love is so pure.

Love you both and God bless you.

 

(Comment/writing ideas)…Sit down and reflect on what you want to say to the couple….You can get ideas from

• Poems about marriage
• Marriage quotes from movies just as I did...You may use your favorite movie
• Your own imagination...here you share stories about your daughter's life....two or three memorable events will be key
• You can use proverbs about love or marriage….for example... It is love that makes the impossible, possible."—Indian proverb
• You can use witty quotes by great minds and I love this one by George Best’’ The only happiness in life is to love and be loved)  

 

Well, if I were to write a short piece as an example using any of the above quotes, I would use George’s Best quote and that Indian proverb to come up with something like this:

 

In your walk together, there’s nothing two hearts bound by love can’t do, so always love each other because that’s the seed of your eternal happiness...

 

 

Finally, let's see how to end with a bang. Just as you can use your opening lines to make a favorable first impression,  you should put in all the required effort to ensure that your last lines will linger in the minds of the guests. To do that, there are some proven techniques you can employ and I am more than excited to share a few with you.

 

First, you can use a few lines from the excellent mother of the bride speeches you have ever seen or heard. I want to make it very simple for you, so I found this touching video to help you write a very witty and memorable conclusion. 

 

Please take just a few minutes of your time to watch and even re-watch this video and put down ideas and phrases you feel you can incorporate into your own speech.  Sit back and enjoy it. 

 

Second, you can use the lyrics of a well-known song. But have to put a spin on it to make it very emotional. To give you an idea, I am going to use portions of Bonnie Barney's song to write something touching. Here are excerpts of it.

''HIS LOVELY BRIDE WALKS DOWN THE AISLE,

MOM'S EYES ARE FILLED WITH TEARS

HER SON IS JOINING WITH THE ONE SHE PRAYED FOR ALL THESE YEARS
SHE SEES GOD'S HAND,

HIS PERFECT PLAN IN THE COUPLE STANDING THERE

SHE BREATHES A SIGH OF THANKS TO GOD

WHO HEARD A MOTHER'S PRAYER

KEEP HER SAFE, MAKE HER STRONG,

 

GUARD HER BODY, HEART, AND SOUL

AND LET HER LIFE BE FILLED WITH LOVE

LIGHT THE PATH THAT SHE'S BEGUN

GIVE HER FAITH FOR SHE'S THE ONE
WHO HAS GROWN INTO THE WOMAN
WHO NOW STANDS BESIDE MY SON

THE MARRIAGE VOWS ARE SPOKEN,
EXCHANGING OF THE RINGS
AND SHE PRAYS, OH FATHER, NOW I COME
AND ASK FOR ONE MORE THING

KEEP THEM SAFE, MAKE THEM STRONG
GUARD THEIR BODIES, HEARTS, AND SOULS
AND LET THEIR HOME BE FILLED WITH LOVE
LIGHT THE PATH THEY'VE NOW BEGUN

 

GIVE THEM FAITH, FOR THEY'RE THE ONES
WHO WILL GROW INTO A COUPLE
WHO WILL GLORIFY YOUR SON
LIGHT THE PATH THEY'VE NOW BEGUN
GIVE THEM FAITH, FOR THEY'RE THE ONES
LET THEM GROW INTO A COUPLE
WHO WILL GLORIFY, GLORIFY YOUR SON ''

 

Now, let's look at how we can get our closing remarks from that.

'' Mike and Michelle, ever since you became friends, it's been my prayer that you will be joined in marriage and it's my hope and prayer that as you begin your lives together, God will light the path you've begun and give you faith to grow into a very loving couple ''

I hope you saw how I did that, right?

 

Third, you can use a verse from the scripture if you are making a religious mother of the bride speech. An illustration could be:

''Dan and Ruth, it gives me joy to see the glowing smile on your face. Scripture affirms in I Corinthians 13:13 that there abides faith, hope, and love but love’s the greatest. 

The love you have for each other is God’s greatest gift for you, so treasure it by putting each other first in everything you do and your joy will overflow like a refreshing fountain...My hope and prayer is that you will put God at the center of everything you do and live for each other selflessly as Jesus gave himself for the world.''

Finally, you can end memorable with a touching love or marriage poem. 

 

P.S: Is the thought of giving you a great wedding speech keeping you up at night? It shouldn’t if you do what most moms do. By following this simple plan that's guaranteed to help you write a great mom speech like the one you read above.

Claire was quite skeptical when she came to us but we kept assuring what she will make her son and family proud-and this is what she sent over after the wedding was over.

'' Hello Dan, their wedding went very well. The usual stress beforehand for the couple organizing the event but all things to do went so smoothly. I also like to say that I'm so proud of my speech, almost got a standing ovation, lol! I'm so glad I've found you. I will definitely recommend you to my friends and family for future weddings. I wish you the very best.''-  Claire, New Zealand

Want to know how she did just that? She got on board our wedding speech program and one of our talented speech consultants helped her out.

Want to get on board? You should by first filling out this form.

This is a letter a mom sent me after her wedding. (Please click on the image to enlarge it so you can read it)

Ok, Is This Offer For Me?

• Yes, if you are expecting nothing less than a very special, beautiful, unique, and memorable speech.

• Don’t have much time to write a perfect speech just as you want it because of work demands and other life's pressure or even sick? Then, let’s take care of it and the guests will definitely sing your praises--we have done it for so many others and it's your turn now!

• Yes, if you are overwhelmed by the pressures of work and don’t have the time to put together a very meaningful speech, so you can have your peace of mind

• Yes, if you want your family, your daughter, friends, and wedding guests to shower you with very sincere compliments…just imagine how you will feel

• Yes, if you are not good with words and you feel you’re not a natural writer and you are struggling to find the right words but still want to give a great speech.

• Yes, you get so scared anytime you’re asked to say something before an audience and you really want to save yourself from any form of embarrassment on your daughter's big day.

• Yes, if you are not too eloquent or not too sure if you are on the right track.

• Yes, if you absolutely hate speaking in public or feel this is not your thing but you want to make your son feel very proud

• Yes, if you have a day or less to the wedding and you are worried that you might make some horrible mistakes

• Yes, if you are a good speaker but you still want someone to look over or review what you've come up with!

Just imagine leaving your entire presentation in the hands of skilled wedding speech consultants who will take away your pain of spending hours thinking hard and long about what to say and what not to say.

Also, envision being patiently guided to say something that will leave a favorable impression on the mind of your listeners.

And also imagine the thrill and feeling of excitement and pride you’re going to experience when the audience leaps onto their feet and scream and shouts and even sing your praises.

Won’t you love that? I hope you do...

Wedding not too far away? Or happening in less than 24 hours? Trust me, we can deliver! it doesn’t matter if your speech is today, tomorrow, next week, next month ,next year,... we can make things work for you  

 

Ok, I am Interested, What’s the Cost?

You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.

Why? As you know, the current health and economic crisis has caused severe hardships for most people.

Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.

Yet, some daughters are still getting married and asking their moms to give speeches.

Nonetheless, not every mother could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.

So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.

Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.

So, please take advantage of it now even if your daughter’s big day is in the future.

Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video and your daughter and son-in-law and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.  

So, please take advantage of it now even if your daughter’s big day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.   

''It was perfect Dan.  I changed a few things in the speech. And I had several people come up and tell me how well done it was. I couldn't have done it better. Thanks for your help''- Marilyn, Canada

This is another note a mom sent me after her wedding. (Please click on the image to enlarge it so you can read it)

Oh Ok, How Then Do I Get Started Since I Want To Get On Board Right Away?

Ok, here’s how it works

All you have to do RIGHT NOW is to click on this link to receive an easy-to-fill-in questionnaire via email. Check your email a few hours after you’ve submitted your request.

So,

1)CLICK HERE  NOW TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT THIS QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind!

2. After that, we will send you a very short questionnaire to fill out via email! You only have to check your email a few hours after you have made your request

3. Then, you fill out the questionnaire sent through your email and please have it sent back to us…

4. We will confirm receipt of it…If something is not too clear, we will ask you to clarify….

5. If not, we will send you a wonderful draft in a couple of hours if this on very short notice….If not, after a few days

6. Then, you look it over and tell us if you are okay with it or you want to amend or reviseit till you are happy with it--although we always get it right even with the first draft.
7. Then, we ask you to pay for it. It's as simple as that!

Just a reminder of what you pay after it’s duly completed.

You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.

Why? As you know, the current health and economic crisis has caused severe hardships for most people.

Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.

Yet, some daughters are still getting married and asking their moms to give speeches.

Nonetheless, not every mother could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.

So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.

Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.

So, please take advantage of it now even if your daughter’s big day is in the future.

Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video and your daughter and son-in-law and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.  

So, please take advantage of it now even if your daughter’s big day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.   

''It was perfect Dan.  I changed a few things in the speech. And I had several people come up and tell me how well done it was. I couldn't have done it better. Thanks for your help''- Marilyn, Canada

Please note: Your speech draft comes with a proven and simple tip to master your speech or remember your speech just as you want it without carrying a paper with you.

Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise, and clarity!

''Hi Dan,

The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice).  Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.

All the best,

Matt''

Please note: Don’t fill out this form if you’re a dishonest individual. This offer is for a limited time.

So, CLICK HERE TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT A QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind and not lose money. The risk is on us!

You don't have to worry about paying our per speech for now.

Forget about money and let’s write something for you. We believe in the values of honesty and integrity and we think you should be happy with our work first.

So, Here Are The Benefits You Get When You Get On Board!

• A great speech written by our wedding speech consultants that reflects what you want to say exactly

• We coach you on how to use your voice to make your speech very exciting.

• We show you a simple but often overlook strategy to rehearse your speech even if you have a very poor memory. This method is used by great speakers like Obama and was used by Abraham Lincoln and his compatriots

• The most effective way to get your entire speech into your head without memorizing your speech. Guaranteed to help you even if you have a very poor memory or your memory is like a gold fish…most of our clients still wonder where we got this idea from. This ensures that you don't read off a sheet of paper...

Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise, and clarity!

''Hi Dan,

The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice).  Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.

All the best,

Matt''

• Ways to include humor in your speech and what it takes to do so

So, CLICK HERE TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT A QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind and not lose money. The risk is on us!

Remember, you have to see your speech first before you pay. So, you can relax and let us sweat it out at our expense!

Mother of the bride speech writer or Mother of the bride speech writing service

 

Dear Anxious Mom,

 

I am  Olga...

I know you are dreaming of giving a very beautiful and heartfelt wedding speech.

 

Granted, it’s not so easy to write a great one let alone face a terrifying audience.

 

Like you, I badly wanted to give a great speech that will make my daughter proud and show her and the guests how much I really love her.

 

But, juggling work and family meant I had little time to spare. But I was obsessed with writing a beautiful speech yet finding the right words was like pulling out a child’s tooth.

 

I Was Feeling Completely Helpless

I knew the audience wanted me to do my very best because I was well known for my speaking abilities.

But, I couldn’t put my thoughts together in a very compelling way.

 

That was a bit puzzling because I had given so many speeches.

But, I never knew wedding speeches were very different.

I spent countless hours, sometimes deep into the night, but things didn’t work out as I had hoped for.

 

Thank God!  This Helped Me Out!

 

Prior to the wedding of my daughter, I was so nervous that I just couldn’t figure out how to write a very meaningful speech, and that’s when I began to seek for someone to help me so I could have my peace of mind.

 

In the process, I stumbled on this page you are currently on and I was skeptical when Dan and his team said they could help give a great wedding speech even if I hated speaking in public.

 

Well, I took a leap of faith when I found that I didn’t have to pay first to get my speech and that allayed my fears.

 

Quickly, I got started by first filling out this form as I really wanted to make a difference this time.

Dan and his team delivered what they promised and they even gave me tips on how to speak well which helped a lot.

 

When I was called to deliver my speech,  I spoke with poise, flair, and confidence and got so many compliments!!!!

My daughter was so proud of me and said that I was her hope and inspiration.

Dan and his guys asked me how my speech went afterward and this was the note I sent them.

Please see the message I sent them before and after the wedding.

 

Before:

 

After:  

 

Dear Loving Mom,

I am Dan and I run this blog.

Believe it or not, Olga is not the only one we’ve helped.

 

There are so many others as well. So, your case is not hopeless. We can help you just as we helped others. Wedding not too far away? Or happening in less than 24 hours? Trust me, we can deliver! it doesn’t matter if your speech is today, tomorrow, next week, next month ,next year,... we can make things work for you  

 

Listen, all these persons you have just listened to are mere mortals like you and me and many were scared to death about this whole wedding speech thing.

 

But they all decided to take action by asking our wedding speech consultants to help them give incredible wedding speeches and we didn’t let them down.

 

Your daughter’s wedding is a very special event and you(her mother) should not let her down in any way else she will regret asking you to give a wedding speech.

 

That’s why we are here to help you give a wedding speech that will blow everyone away-even if you are an experienced speaker or you just hate speaking before an audience.

 

Want to get on board? You should!

Ok, Is This Offer For Me?

• Yes, if you are expecting nothing less than a very special, beautiful, unique, and memorable speech.

 

• Don’t have much time to write a perfect speech just as you want it because of work demands and other life's pressure or even sick? Then, let’s take care of it and the guests will definitely sing your praises--we have done it for so many others and it's your turn now!

 

• Yes, if you are overwhelmed by the pressures of work and don’t have the time to put together a very meaningful speech, so you can have your peace of mind

 

• Yes, if you want your daughter, family, children, friends, and wedding guests to shower you with very sincere compliments…just imagine how you will feel

 

• Yes, if you are not good with words and you feel you’re not a natural writer and you are struggling to find the right words but still want to give a great speech.

 

• Yes, you get so scared anytime you’re asked to say something before an audience and you really want to save yourself from any form of embarrassment on your daughter’s big day.

 

• Yes, if you are not too eloquent or not too sure if you are on the right track.

 

• Yes, if you absolutely hate speaking in public or feel this is not your thing but you want to make your daughter feel very proud

 

• Yes, if you have a day or less to the wedding and you are worried that you might make some horrible mistakes

 

• Yes, if you are a good speaker but you still want someone to look over or review what you've come up with!

Just imagine leaving your entire presentation in the hands of skilled wedding speech consultants who will take away your pain of spending hours thinking hard and long about what to say and what not to say.

Also, envision being patiently guided to say something that will leave a favorable impression on the mind of your listeners.

And also imagine the thrill and feeling of excitement and pride you’re going to experience when the audience leaps onto their feet and scream and shouts and even sing your praises.

Won’t you love that? I hope you do...

Wedding not too far away? Or happening in less than 24 hours? Trust me, we can deliver! it doesn’t matter if your speech is today, tomorrow, next week, next month ,next year,... we can make things work for you  

 

Ok, I am Interested, What’s the Cost?

 

You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.

Why? As you know, the current health crisis has caused severe hardships for most people.

Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.

Yet, some daughters are still getting married and asking their moms to give speeches.

Nonetheless, not every mother could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.

So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.

Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.

So, please take advantage of it now even if your daughter’s big day is in the future.

Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video and your daughter and son-in-law and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.  

So, please take advantage of it now even if your daughter’s big day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.   

''It was perfect Dan.  I changed a few things in the speech. And I had several people come up and tell me how well done it was. I couldn't have done it better. Thanks for your help''- Marilyn, Canada

 

Oh Ok, How Then Do I Get Started Since I Want To Get On Board Right Away?

Ok, here’s how it works

All you have to do RIGHT NOW is to click on this link to receive an easy-to-fill-in questionnaire via email. Check your email a few hours after you’ve submitted your request.

So,

1)CLICK HERE  NOW TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT THIS QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind!

2. After that, we will send you a very short questionnaire to fill out via email! You only have to check your email a few hours after you have made your request

 

3. Then, you fill out the questionnaire sent through your email, and please have it sent back to us…

 

4. We will confirm receipt of it…If something is not too clear, we will ask you to clarify….

 

5. If not, we will send you a wonderful draft in a couple of hours if this on very short notice….If not, after a few days

 

6. Then, you look it over and tell us if you are okay with it or you want to amend it till you are happy with it--although we always get it right even with the first draft.
7. Then, we ask you to pay for it. It's as simple as that!

 

Just a reminder of what you pay after it’s duly completed.

You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.

Why? As you know, the current health crisis has caused severe hardships for most people.

Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.

Yet, some daughters are still getting married and asking their moms to give speeches.

Nonetheless, not every mother could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.

So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.

Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.

So, please take advantage of it now even if your daughter’s big day is in the future.

Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video and your daughter and son-in-law and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.  

So, please take advantage of it now even if your daughter’s big day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.   

''It was perfect Dan.  I changed a few things in the speech. And I had several people come up and tell me how well done it was. I couldn't have done it better. Thanks for your help''- Marilyn, Canada

 

Please note: Your speech draft comes with a proven and simple tip to master your speech or remember your speech just as you want it without carrying a paper with you.

Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise, and clarity!

''Hi Dan,

The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice).  Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.

All the best,

Matt''

 

Please note: Don’t fill out this form if you’re a dishonest individual. This offer is for a limited time.

 

So,CLICK HERE TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT A QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind and not lose money. The risk is on us!

You don't have to worry about paying our per speech for now.

Forget about money and let’s write something for you. We believe in the values of honesty and integrity and we think you should be happy with our work first.

 

So, Here Are The Benefits You Get When You Get On Board!

• A great speech written by our wedding speech consultants that reflects what you want to say exactly

• We coach you on how to use your voice to make your speech very exciting.

• We show you a simple but often overlook strategy to rehearse your speech even if you have a very poor memory. This method is used by great speakers like Obama and was used by Abraham Lincoln and his compatriots

• The most effective way to get your entire speech into your head without memorizing your speech. Guaranteed to help you even if you have a very poor memory or your memory is like a gold fish…most of our clients still wonder where we got this idea from. This ensures that you don't read off a sheet of paper...

Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise and clarity!

''Hi Dan,

The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice).  Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.

All the best,

Matt''

• Ways to include humor in your speech and what it takes to do so

So, CLICK HERE TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT A QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind and not lose money. The risk is on us!

Remember, you have to see your speech first before you pay. So, you can relax and let us sweat it out at our expense!

 

     

 

Mother Of The Bride Speeches Success Story And Examples

 

Amazing Story Of How An Extremely Nervous (Probably More Nervous Than You Are)

Mom Gave The Best Speech Ever…Got A Standing Ovation Even… Though He Didn’t Have The Skills To Write A Beautiful Speech…And Had Never Given A Wedding Speech Before!

...And how you can do the same!

 

Dear Worried Mother of The Bride,

I am Martha from The United States.

Ben Sirach, a philosopher said that a daughter is a treasure and a cause of sleeplessness.’

 

When I read this quote way back in college, I did not really understand what those words meant till tragedy struck our home days before my precious daughter’s big day.

 

Our Precious Daughter Is A Rising Star

Alicia was everything we just expected in a daughter. She was kind, pretty and very obedient. She showed great maturity when at an early stage in life; she joined a group in high school to raise awareness about the need to support a young woman who had lived with cancer for twelve years.

 

 

She was decorated by her school and the federal government for raising awareness about a disease that was taking the lives of so many great women at the time.

Her dad nicknamed her Mother Theresa-a name she gave her because she did everything just like the famous catholic nun.

She was even the valedictorian of her class when she left college. She started a website while in school to educate ladies about their sexuality-especially breast care and its related issues.

 

We Were Worried About Her Dream Man

When she was ripe for marriage, my husband and I just prayed she found a right marriage partner who will make her happy and give her the respect and love she deserves.

She had been emotionally devastated by a previous relationship that did not go too well for her. She almost lost her life then because she was totally broken and we just hoped God sends her a kind and patient gentlemen at the right time.

 

One evening at a family evening, she told us about a new man she had met. Honestly, we did not feel too comfortable with her decision but we advised her to be more cautious this time. We were afraid she might be heartbroken a second time.

We, however, decided to give her the benefit of the doubt so we asked to bring her gentleman home. When we met Jimmy, we were unimpressed. But appearances they say are always deceptive, so we decided to probe his intelligence and look into his character a bit.

We kept an eye on him for close to a year and we changed our mind about him when we got to know that he was a real gentleman. Very humble, meek, and honest. I also realized that he was a man of integrity.

 

I loved and respected him a lot because my husband possessed those same qualities and that had kept our marriage going for 40 beautiful years.

My husband was also very pleased with his conduct so we gave them our blessings and the wedding planning began in earnest.

Tragedy Strikes

But things changed for the worse when she and Jimmy visited us I decided to cook supper but she restrained me and asked that she take my place instead.

I went inside my bedroom to rest after such a tiring day.
After a while, I heard someone screamed out loud but I thought it was one of those pranks my younger children usually played on me.

 

The fellow cried a second time and I quickly rushed to the kitchen and there my Alicia was wincing in pain on the cold floor.

 

The soup on the gas stove had poured over her feet and scraped her skin off. I called my husband and we sped off to a nearby hospital.

 

She was admitted and we were told that she would have to undergo surgery. At this point, I did not know what to do. Besides, she needed skin grafting and that was going to cost us $20,000!

''Oh my God, where are we going to get that money?''

 

 

I cried as I wept on my husband’s shoulders day and night.
''Honey, she would be alright '', my husband would say reassuringly while he had his right arm around my waist.

We took turns caring for her at the health facility. It was at this time, I realized that my daughter had met the man of her dreams.

 

He Was God-Sent

Jimmy was at her bedside most of the time. Sometimes, he wept too. His parents were also very supportive too and so were members of our extended family.

 

One afternoon, a phone call from the doctor revealed that her toes might be cut off if the surgery wasn’t done….. real quick because the infection on her right leg might spread to her toes.

 

We prayed and pondered over what to do. My husband suggested that we call of…. the wedding but friends and family members had written to confirm that they would be coming to the wedding. 

We were all in low spirits and we were wondering what to do. Our Alicia was hurting and something had to be done fast.

 

We Found A Way Out

 

Then something said to me-Why not sell your automobile? I resisted that voice because it was an antique car and those vehicles were hard to come by.

 

But, I later gave in when I couldn’t bear the sight of my daughter’s agony so I placed an ad in the newspaper, and in less than a week, someone bought it for $50,000.

All we hoped for at this time was a successful operation and not an amputee daughter after we had paid the whooping hospital bill.

I wondered whether her feet would not have any ugly scars after the surgery was done and if she would look good in her wedding shoes.

 

As I mused over this over and over again, the doctor called us one Friday evening to tell us she was doing well after a successful operation and that she might be discharged in a day or two.

 

I couldn’t believe it. I broke the news to my family and Jimmy-Alicia’s sweetheart.

The feeling was just incredible when we picked her up from the hospital on Sunday. The affected flesh was as fresh as a little baby with hardly any visible scars.

 

My Husband Came To My Rescue

We resumed the wedding planning in earnest but we wanted to make her big day very special –seeing what we had gone through as a family.
I couldn’t think of a neat idea.

 

Days later, my husband suggested that I give a mother of the bride speech. My face fell at his suggestion because I once embarrassed myself when asked to give a short speech at a family party.

 

''But we can help them out with the wedding bills honey?'' , I asked Mike.
It’s okay to help them with their finances, but do you realize that alone cannot make the day memorable? , he added
Alicia too called to ask that I give a speech at her wedding. So, I had no choice but to comply.

 

We Wanted To Make Her Big Day Very Memorable

Though Mike was an accomplished ex-public speaker, he couldn’t help me out until a neighbor I read a story about a rather nervous shy woman from the United States who faced much hardship in life and got a standing ovation despite never having given a beautiful speech her whole life.

 

 

 

That story did really help me a lot.
On the wedding day, I was very nervous when I was called up to speak.
But, I kept my composure. My voice was shaky when I greeted and thanked the audience for coming. After I breathed out loudly and all eyes were fixed on me.

 

This Was My Wedding Speech

My breathing out helped me calmed down and I began with these lines.

 ''I’m Martha, Alicia’s mom and it gives me great joy and honor to see the smiling faces of so many people who love and cherish my son and the entire family.

We have waited for months for this special time and would like to thank everyone, especially Jimmy’s family, who has flown all the way from Australia to share in our joy and happiness.''

 

As I said those words, people cast surprising glances at one another. Those who really knew me knew I wasn’t such a great speaker and were thus surprised how I flowed so well.

 

Then I continued...

Back in 1986, when Alicia, our precious little gem was born, we were the happiest parents on earth.

Very determined to be one of the greatest moms ever, I would spend, what seemed like hours, just adoring and playing with the precious gift God had blessed me with.

What was in store for her for the rest of her life, of course, I just couldn’t figure out.

And so, several times at night, I’d wake up and look into her beautiful, smiling eyes and be completely overwhelmed with a sense of wonder, joy, and responsibility for my extraordinary child.

Though each day came with its smiles, tears, and heartaches, God gave me the strength to fully and uniquely prepare her for such a time like this.

Alicia, I’ll never forget how proud I felt when you wrote a letter to me on mother’s day saying how proud you were to have me as your mom.

In that letter, you asked me how I led such a happy life though things were overwhelming at the time.  When I read that letter, I couldn’t hold back my tears.

 

It’s hard to really tell how we sailed the rough waters. But, I think it’s been the grace of God plus your constant words of encouragement. Your touching words were like dew on dry land.

 

Today makes us even much prouder as you are getting married to someone you really love.

As you fly away to build your own family, I wish you peace and blessings.

Mike, you’re welcome to family and we are honored that you are now part of our family. Thanks for everything you have done for us.

 

Wow! Mary, her neighbor screamed!

Then I ended by saying.....

Guess what? The smartest investor that ever lived will tell you over and over again that all kinds of investment options can be very risky.

But, that’s not the case when you decide to invest in loving each other till the end of time. Loving each other each day of your lives like there’s no tomorrow is the fail-proof investment you can ever make given that love never fails.

Yes, it never fails. I love you both and will be praying for you!

When I was done, the guests leaped onto their feet and gave me warm applause for like 2 minutes.
They just couldn’t believe how I did that. Though a few lines made people smile many had tears in their eyes.

 

Can You Write A Speech Like That And Make The Same Impact?

Let me ask you once again: Can you really craft a short beautiful mother of the bride's speech as I did? Yes, you can. Wondering How?
The wedding speech specialists at Standing Ovation Wedding Speeches helped me put my ideas together and see what I send them after the wedding was over.

 

''It was perfect Dan. I changed a few things in the speech. And I had several people come up and tell me how well done it was. I couldn't have done it better. Thanks for your help''- Marilyn, Canada

Several others have made it and you can too just read on patiently

Marilyn is not alone. Several others have been able to do that despite their weakness and I am happy to share with you what they told us after the wedding.

 

Jacqueline from  Papua New Guinea on the other hand spent sleepless nights prior to the wedding and this is what she wrote after the wedding bells had stopped ringing.

''Hi. Just got back. They said my speech & the Brides Father's speech were the best. Thank you.

 I was so nervous I stuffed up the beginning when thanking the Steve & Di)  (The Father  & the nasty step Mother). I said something that was a negative word. O my God I could have died. I got myself together and focused. Id forgotten my glasses. Even though I printed the speech in font size 20. So all considering I had so many compliments. I made people cry,  Laugh and sigh. Thanks again''

 

This Secret Made All The Difference For Those Speakers And You Should Follow It Too If You Really Want To Make Yourself Proud

 

All these persons you have just listened to are just mere mortals like you and me and many of them were scared to death about this whole thing.

But they all had a secret they didn’t tell anyone in the audience and I am here to let you in on what they did to achieve their ‘’speaking dreams’’ Guess what they did?

 

P.S: Is the thought of giving you a great wedding speech keeping you up at night? It shouldn’t if you do what most moms do. By following this simple plan that's guaranteed to help you write a great mom speech like the one you read above.

Claire was quite skeptical when she came to us but we kept assuring what she will make her son and family proud-and this is what she sent over after the wedding was over.

'' Hello Dan, their wedding went very well. The usual stress beforehand for the couple organizing the event but all things to do went so smoothly. I also like to say that I'm so proud of my speech, almost got a standing ovation, lol! I'm so glad I've found you. I will definitely recommend you to my friends and family for future weddings. I wish you the very best.''-  Claire, New Zealand

Want to know how she did just that? She got on board our wedding speech program and one of our talented speech consultants helped her out.

Want to get on board? You should by first filling out this form.

This is a letter a mom sent me after her wedding. (Please click on the image to enlarge it so you can read it)

Ok, Is This Offer For Me?

• Yes, if you are expecting nothing less than a very special, beautiful, unique, and memorable speech.

• Don’t have much time to write a perfect speech just as you want it because of work demands and other life's pressure or even sick? Then, let’s take care of it and the guests will definitely sing your praises--we have done it for so many others and it's your turn now!

• Yes, if you are overwhelmed by the pressures of work and don’t have the time to put together a very meaningful speech, so you can have your peace of mind

• Yes, if you want your family, your daughter, friends, and wedding guests to shower you with very sincere compliments…just imagine how you will feel

• Yes, if you are not good with words and you feel you’re not a natural writer and you are struggling to find the right words but still want to give a great speech.

• Yes, you get so scared anytime you’re asked to say something before an audience and you really want to save yourself from any form of embarrassment on your daughter's big day.

• Yes, if you are not too eloquent or not too sure if you are on the right track.

• Yes, if you absolutely hate speaking in public or feel this is not your thing but you want to make your son feel very proud

• Yes, if you have a day or less to the wedding and you are worried that you might make some horrible mistakes

• Yes, if you are a good speaker but you still want someone to look over or review what you've come up with!

Just imagine leaving your entire presentation in the hands of skilled wedding speech consultants who will take away your pain of spending hours thinking hard and long about what to say and what not to say.

Also, envision being patiently guided to say something that will leave a favorable impression on the mind of your listeners.

And also imagine the thrill and feeling of excitement and pride you’re going to experience when the audience leaps onto their feet and scream and shouts and even sing your praises.

Won’t you love that? I hope you do...

Wedding not too far away? Or happening in less than 24 hours? Trust me, we can deliver! it doesn’t matter if your speech is today, tomorrow, next week, next month ,next year,... we can make things work for you  

 

Ok, I am Interested, What’s the Cost?

You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.

Why? As you know, the current health and economic crisis has caused severe hardships for most people.

Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.

Yet, some daughters are still getting married and asking their moms to give speeches.

Nonetheless, not every mother could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.

So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.

Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.

So, please take advantage of it now even if your daughter’s big day is in the future.

Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video and your daughter and son-in-law and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.  

So, please take advantage of it now even if your daughter’s big day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.   

''It was perfect Dan.  I changed a few things in the speech. And I had several people come up and tell me how well done it was. I couldn't have done it better. Thanks for your help''- Marilyn, Canada

This is another note a mom sent me after her wedding. (Please click on the image to enlarge it so you can read it)

Oh Ok, How Then Do I Get Started Since I Want To Get On Board Right Away?

Ok, here’s how it works

All you have to do RIGHT NOW is to click on this link to receive an easy-to-fill-in questionnaire via email. Check your email a few hours after you’ve submitted your request.

So,

1)CLICK HERE  NOW TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT THIS QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind!

2. After that, we will send you a very short questionnaire to fill out via email! You only have to check your email a few hours after you have made your request

3. Then, you fill out the questionnaire sent through your email and please have it sent back to us…

4. We will confirm receipt of it…If something is not too clear, we will ask you to clarify….

5. If not, we will send you a wonderful draft in a couple of hours if this on very short notice….If not, after a few days

6. Then, you look it over and tell us if you are okay with it or you want to amend or reviseit till you are happy with it--although we always get it right even with the first draft.
7. Then, we ask you to pay for it. It's as simple as that!

Just a reminder of what you pay after it’s duly completed.

You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.

Why? As you know, the current health and economic crisis has caused severe hardships for most people.

Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.

Yet, some daughters are still getting married and asking their moms to give speeches.

Nonetheless, not every mother could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.

So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.

Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.

So, please take advantage of it now even if your daughter’s big day is in the future.

Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video and your daughter and son-in-law and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.  

So, please take advantage of it now even if your daughter’s big day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.   

''It was perfect Dan.  I changed a few things in the speech. And I had several people come up and tell me how well done it was. I couldn't have done it better. Thanks for your help''- Marilyn, Canada

Please note: Your speech draft comes with a proven and simple tip to master your speech or remember your speech just as you want it without carrying a paper with you.

Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise, and clarity!

''Hi Dan,

The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice).  Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.

All the best,

Matt''

Please note: Don’t fill out this form if you’re a dishonest individual. This offer is for a limited time.

So, CLICK HERE TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT A QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind and not lose money. The risk is on us!

You don't have to worry about paying our per speech for now.

Forget about money and let’s write something for you. We believe in the values of honesty and integrity and we think you should be happy with our work first.

So, Here Are The Benefits You Get When You Get On Board!

• A great speech written by our wedding speech consultants that reflects what you want to say exactly

• We coach you on how to use your voice to make your speech very exciting.

• We show you a simple but often overlook strategy to rehearse your speech even if you have a very poor memory. This method is used by great speakers like Obama and was used by Abraham Lincoln and his compatriots

• The most effective way to get your entire speech into your head without memorizing your speech. Guaranteed to help you even if you have a very poor memory or your memory is like a gold fish…most of our clients still wonder where we got this idea from. This ensures that you don't read off a sheet of paper...

Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise, and clarity!

''Hi Dan,

The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice).  Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.

All the best,

Matt''

• Ways to include humor in your speech and what it takes to do so

So, CLICK HERE TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT A QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind and not lose money. The risk is on us!

Remember, you have to see your speech first before you pay. So, you can relax and let us sweat it out at our expense!