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Mother of the groom speech toast samples or templates

How to use mother of the groom toast templates and samples to easily and quickly help you write the best mother of the groom wedding toast ever

 

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  • Find a proven structure or outline you can simply follow to make your wedding toast for your son very unique
  • Say what you really want to say about your son and daughter in law at the wedding reception or rehearsal dinner night.
  • Easily find great tips and ideas and content to help you write a heartfelt and memorable mother of the groom wedding toast.

 

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Plus a whole lot more….

 

If you are ready for this, then let’s get started with this touching story as it has some connection with writing a heartfelt mother of the groom wedding toast.

 

Martha had been to many weddings her whole lifetime and loved everything about wedding traditions, particularly the speech- making part of the show.

 

As someone blessed with the gift of words, she loved it whenever she heard someone give a great wedding speech and wished that she too would make her own children so proud when they are getting married someday.

 

Martha had always looked forward to having her own children. But, after five years of marriage, she thought she would never see them. 

 

She taught grade school and loved children and wished to have her own so her joy could be complete because she always said to friends and family that when a mom has a child, she has a flower for keeps. That was her personal motto.

 

10 years after her wedding, she had her first child and son and they named him Samuel after Martha’s father. In a heartbeat, Samuel grew up into a very tolerant, happy, and caring little boy who never met a stranger.

 

He was so much loved and admired for his kindness that both adults and his peers loved to hang out with him.  More especially for his sharp wit. Once, Martha caught him having a talk with the president of Volunteer America. Later she gingerly asked what they talked about and Sam replied that he tried to fool him with a trick. When that failed, he challenged him spell his last name. 

 

 

He promptly spelled it out correctly. Then he revealed he wore a name tag. Samuel wasn’t your typical teenager. He was involved in any of the adolescence drama stuff but all he did was to bury his head into his books and ended up becoming a Straight A student in high school.

 

 

From high school, Sam transitioned to college and out of the home.  To Martha, it was a loss since it was the first time his only child and son had moved out of home. But Sam made the most of his stay there and kept telling his parents everything that happened.

 

 

He excelled and got a great job with great pay and progressed up the ladder to gain invaluable experience that brought him more success.  It was at this same time that he brought Abigail home. Abigail was his first love and as soon as he feasted eyes on her, he told his mom and dad that he was going to marry her.

 

What should a mother say to his son on his wedding day

 

True to his word, their wedding plans began after dating for only six months and asked his mom to say some remarks at their wedding. That almost freaked mother even though, she’d been long looking forward to making her son proud on his big day.

 

 

Sure, she was good with word but never had she imagined that it would take something extra to come up with the good words to help her write a mother of the groom speech. 

 

After days of working so hard on it, something didn’t click. Thankfully, she reached out to someone who had helped mothers from around the world deliver wedding speeches for their sons successfully and together they came up with this short wedding speech for her son.

 

 

A Mother of the Groom Speech Toast Sample/ Template

 

Good evening ladies and gentleman. Thank you all for joining us and we are so happy to have you here.

I am Martha, Samuels’s mom and I want to thank you all for coming here today and sharing this special day with us.

And to everyone who traveled several miles to be with us here today, we truly appreciate the time and expense involved to get here. Thanks a lot for coming.

 

Samuels’s marriage to Anita brings back very fond memories of the time Alfred and I got married.

I remember when we looked eye ball to eye ball and made our vows to love and help each other discover our true self and potentials.

 

Samuel, when you came into my life, you were so cute and perfect and felt blessed to have you in my life.

The days that followed, we bonded like never before and I looked forward to seeing you grow into a wonderful man.

 

In a heartbeat, you grew into a very tolerant and friendly little boy with a love for the outdoors.

Even though you are getting married to the love of your life, I still have so many memories of you growing up.

From the time you’d ramble on at the dinner table, telling us some winding stories that sometimes drove us to the brink of sanity to the good ones we loved to listen to.

 

I also can remember you following your dad and grandfather around, either in the pig barn or riding in any of the farm equipment.

 

As a child, Sam didn’t like the slow pace of his growth. You looked forward to growing taller than your brother and I still can remember how you’d get a height rod to measure yourself to see how fast you were growing.

 

Much to his dismay, he kept getting the same results anytime he checked his height before quitting for good!

The years that followed, he grew up too fast and became a very responsible teenager.

When Sam was 16 years old, he became our savior so to speak. 

 

 

Samuel was home by himself on a Friday night when a knock came on the door around 11:00 p.m.

A mother and daughter were there, and asked him “do you know that your backyard is on fire?”

 

 

Samuel tried to reach us, but we didn’t answer the cell phone at the lake.  He took charge of the situation quickly by dousing the fire before the neighbors arrived.

 

 

There aren’t too many young teens who would have handled themselves so calm and cool like you did. But you bravely did it to the admiration of those who saw you.

 

Samuel, we were extremely proud of you on that day. You risked your life on that day to keep our property safe and that incredible act of bravery made you the family’s ‘’hero!’’

Today is your big day and we are so proud of the person you’ve become at such a young age.

You have accomplished so much working on your dad’s farm as a millwright.

And we know you have made such a wise decision to settle down with the love of your life as life certainly gets better when you find someone who truly loves you.

 

I will miss all those moments we have spent together, particularly your nice stories and hearing you say ‘’hi mom’’ as you walk through the door each night after work.

 

How to write a heartfelt mother of the groom toasts

 

Anita, I know for sure that you are blessed to have found Samuel.  Having been married to Alfred for quite some time, I know how important and sweet finding a loving spouse is.

Samuel is very kind and tender-hearted. I remember seeing Anita for the first time years before she and Samuel started dating. She was likely about 12 or 13 at the time. 

 

She had her hair tied back in a ponytail, and a skip in her step (she still walks like that today), as she headed to the barn. She kindly waved to me.  I remember thinking, “oh boy… that looks like a nice girl, I wonder if she would be interested in Samuel sometime down the road”. 

 

 

Now, here we are as a mother’s dream has come true.  Samuel and Anita, from this moment on you will have to start laying a firm foundation for a flourishing marriage. And I am confident that you both have what it takes to do so as you have similar passions and dreams.

 

Nevertheless, a good marriage is like cultivating a good farm. It is a work in process that can never be left unattended- not even for one day. 

What that means is that you always have to pay a price to make your marriage so strong and beautiful.

Make sure you put each other first in everything you do and never ever take each other for granted no matter what.

That way, nothing can quench the love you have for each other.  God bless you and love you both.

 

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Did you enjoy it? I did but don’t know about you. Whatever it is, let’s go on to how you can easily write a heartfelt mother of the groom wedding speech toast taking inspiration from the above example. 

 

Are you ready? Please relax, shut everything down and sit still as we delve deep into how to get the right words and ideas to write a mother of the groom speech example that would make your son and new daughter-in-law so proud of you.

 

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If you go back to read that template once again, you will notice that the above example and every wedding speech you will ever hear is made up of these core elements: introduction, body, and conclusion.

 

So, first and foremost, let’s start by looking at …

How you can easily compose the introductory remarks of your mother of the groom wedding speech for your son.

First, let’s review the introduction we looked at so we can figure out what goes into writing a great introduction.

 

Here you go:

‘’Good evening ladies and gentleman. Thank you all for joining us and we are so happy to have you here. ….And to everyone who traveled several miles to be with us here today, we truly appreciate the time and expense involved to get here. Thanks a lot for coming.

Samuels’s marriage to …. brings back very fond memories of the time ‘’

 

If you study the excerpted example very carefully, you would notice that it has these core components

  1. Short self-introduction which is the norm as you know it
  2. Then, thank everyone for coming

 

 

Now, I love people who take action. So, this is what I want you to do right now.

Using the example above, write down your own self introduction. 

Oh I forgot about something I would like you to know. Your opening lines can be used to thank people who have had profound impact on your son’s life.

 

 

Here’s an example you can learn from.

 

A Special Day like this takes the efforts of many people who worked hard and tirelessly to create this incredible Day. First and foremost, let me thank Samuels dad, Dan, whom I have been able to count on like 1,2,3 for love and support from the day our son was born. He’s a great role model and an amazing father.

 

Did you see how I wrote that? It’s actually simple. All you have to do after writing a short self-introduction is to jot down names of people who have been a tremendous blessing in your son’s life and indicate the help you got from them.

 

You can mention personalities like

  1. The groom’s father or your own husband
  2. The groom’s siblings or friends
  3. Your own parents (groom’s grandparents)
  4. Your neighbors
  5. The bride’s parents

…….the list goes on and on.

 

So, please sit down and write their names down.

 

Closely connected to the above is how you start your wedding speech as we saw earlier: ‘’ Samuels’s marriage to …. brings back very fond memories of the time ‘’ ‘’

 

Simply put, you have to start with a bang so you endear yourself to the wedding attendees. Do you want to know how you can do that? I am beyond excited to share with you a couple of simple ideas you can easily use.

 

 

Do you have a very touching or funny story of what really happened when your son was born? You can share that moment to lighten up the mood. I remember that a woman once wrote to me and said that when their child was born, her late husband was giddy with excitement that he ended up driving to the dump on their way back home.

 

 

She didn’t tell me what really happened but I assumed he lost control of the wheel due to excitement, right? 

Do you remember what happened prior, on the day or even after he was born? If you, then please write it down.

  1. If your son’s entry into planet earth has no exciting twist to it, you can simply start your mother of the groom speech with a witty quote and this is proven to work if you are aiming for a sentimental mother of the groom speech.

 

 

Here are a few quotes you can actually use to enrich your wedding speech for your son and daughter-in-law.

Quote #1: "My greatest blessing has been the birth of my son. My next greatest blessing has been my ability to turn people into children of mine’’ – Maya Angelou

Quote #2: "There has never been, nor will there ever be, anything quite so special as the love between the mother and a son."- Unknown

Quote #3: "Raising boys has made me a more generous woman than I really am.’’ – Mary Kay Blakely

 

 

Now, can you use any of that to grab the attention of the audience? Can you really do that?

 

Ok, I am going to illustrate with Maya’s quote: ‘’ My greatest blessing has been the birth of my son. ‘’

 

I am going to borrow these words: my greatest blessings….’’

My mom once said that the greatest blessing in her life was being the mother of three girls. Well, I got to understand her better when I became a mom to four strong boys and it has made me realize that motherhood is a very wonderful adventure that never ends.

I first go to taste the joys of motherhood when Samuel (name of the groom) was born….

 

Got that? Don’t you think ears will perk up when you start your mother of the groom speech this way? You be the judge!

 

Heartfelt speech from mom to her son on wedding day or rehearsal dinner

 

Now, let us consider

 

How You Can Write The Content or Structure of Your Wedding Speech For Your Son

 

To figure out how that can be done, let’s first re-look at excerpts of the above template/example.

Here you go: Please take note of the underlined phrases as I did that on purpose and I am going to use it to elaborate on those phrases soon.

 

 ‘’As a child, Jonathan didn’t like the slow pace of his growth. You looked forward to growing taller than your brother and I still can remember how you’d get a height rod to measure yourself to see how fast you were growing…..

When Sam was 16 years old, you become our savior so to speak…..There aren’t too many young teens who would have handled themselves so calm and cool like you did. But you bravely did it to the admiration of those who saw you…..’’

Well, let’s see what goes into writing the content of most great mother of the groom speeches.

There are several factors to consider before you even jot down the storyline. If you just get into writing mode, your ideas might not flow very well.

This is what you have to do to get it done right.  

 

First and foremost, you can watch a few YouTube videos about mothers of the grooms making their speeches to get a fair idea of how to go about it. Here are some great videos I found for you specially.

 

Video# 1: Mother of the groom speech example

 


 

Video #2: Mother of the groom toast sample

 

 

Second, you have to decide how long you want your speech to run. 3 minutes? 5 minutes? Or what duration do you have in mind?

 

Third, the best way of striking a chord with the wedding guests is to choose a style that your listeners that best reflect who you are.

It’s actually funny to see the overwhelming majority of mothers modeling their wedding speeches after very successful ones.

But that’s wrong because everyone is unique and it’s always a wise idea to choose one or more of the following styles: dramatic, tender, poetic, rhythmic, narrative, and even funny.

 

Fourth, after you have picked your style, you have to decide the direction you want your wedding toast for your son to go and you can do that by dwelling on or more of these aspects of his life:

  • A memorable story about his childhood as we saw in these lines: As a child, Jonathan didn’t like the slow pace of his growth.
  • An anecdote about his teenage years as seen here: When Sam was 16 years old
  • A remarkable story you can remember about when he was growing up

 

Hint: You may cull stories from each of those developmental stages of his life and combine them to say something about your son.

 

Action Tip: Starting from your son’s infant years to when he brought the bride home for the very first time, write down the most memorable moments you can remember.

 

Then, pick the good ones you wish to use and use them to craft your storyline. Remember to not mention any negative thing about his past years.

 

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Let’s look at another important part the equation:

How You Can End Your Mother of the Groom Speech Toast with a Bang

 

Have you ever wondered why some wedding toasts become the talk of the evening while several others barely hit the mark?  

If you said that the wedding speakers ended on a remarkable note, then you are right.

 

Recently, someone wrote me that his speech was a hit and on hindsight, I think the concluding remarks might have struck a chord with everyone because I said something to this effect:

‘’It goes without saying that it takes love to create a marriage and after several years that marriage creates true love.’’

 

That’s a quote that strongly resonates with me and I am sure that did the trick for him.

 

You might have written a touching mother of the groom speech. But if you don’t end well, your speech might be very well received as you’d anticipated.

 

Well, here are some cool ideas you can use to finish strong.

 

First, you can end with a joke.

For example,

Always settle disputes before going to bed and you will end up making love first thing in the morning.

 

Second, you may end with a nice poem like this one by Linda Harrison.  

M is for making a future that will last.
A is for Accepting both the present and the past.
R is for Respect for each other every day.
R is for remembering those special things to say.
I is for Issues, which no doubt will challenge you.
A is for Always find a way to talk them through.
G is for Growing the love that keeps you strong.
E is for Endurance when sometimes things go wrong.

Third, if you are a devoted Christian or a religious person, you can use one or more of these bible verses to write a faith based conclusion.

 

James 1:17 Every good and perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of the heavenly lights, who does not change like shifting shadows.

 

Proverbs 31:10

“Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies.”

 

Proverbs 18:22

“Whoso findeth a wife findeth a good thing, and obtaineth favour of the Lord.”

I can use the James 1:17 verse to write this short example.

Tom and Shelly, the love for you have for each other is a gift from above so always cherish each other and you will have a very fulfilling marriage.

Did you notice how I infused that short verse into that marital advice? That’s how it is done.

 

Fourth, you can share nuggets of wisdom based on your experience as a wife and mother.

 

Below is an example from the speech example we saw earlier

A good marriage is like cultivating a good farm. It is a work in process that can never be left unattended- not even for one day. 

 

What that means is that you always have to pay a price to make your marriage so strong.

Mother of the groom toast speech templates

Make sure you put each other first in everything you do and never ever take each other for granted no matter what.

P.S: Is the thought of giving you a great wedding speech keeping you up at night? It shouldn’t if you do what most moms do. By following this simple plan that's guaranteed to help you write a great mom speech like the one you read above.

Claire was quite skeptical when she came to us but we kept assuring what she will make her son and family proud-and this is what she sent over after the wedding was over

'' Hello Dan, their wedding went very well. The usual stress beforehand for the couple organizing the event but all things to do went so smoothly. I also like to say that I'm so proud of my speech, almost got a standing ovation, lol! I'm so glad I've found you. I will definitely recommend you to my friends and family in future weddings. I wish you the very best.''-  Claire, New Zealand

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Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.

Yet, some sons are still getting married and asking their moms to give speeches.

''It was perfect Dan.  I changed a few things in the speech. And I had several people come up and tell me how well done it was. I couldn't have done it better. Thanks for your help''- Marilyn, Canada

Nonetheless, not every mother could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.

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Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video and your son and daughter-in-law and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.  

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Ok, I am Interested, What’s the Cost?

You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.

Why? As you know, the current health crisis has caused severe hardships for most people.

Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.

Yet, some sons are still getting married and asking their moms to give speeches.

''It was perfect Dan.  I changed a few things in the speech. And I had several people come up and tell me how well done it was. I couldn't have done it better. Thanks for your help''- Marilyn, Canada

Nonetheless, not every mother could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.

So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.

Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.

So, please take advantage of it now even if your son’s big day is in the future.

Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video and your son and daughter-in-law and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.  

So, please take advantage of it now even if your son’s big day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.   

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The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice).  Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.

All the best,

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Mother of The Groom Speech Or Toast: How To Easily Write A Funny And Heartfelt Wedding Toast For Your Son

 

Have you ever listened to a funny mother of the groom speech or toast that almost threw you out of your seat? You probably enjoyed it so much that you said to yourself that when your son is getting married to the love of his life, you are going to take a stab at it.

 

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Now, that dream is about to manifest as you prepare to give a hilarious mother of the groom speech or toast. But let me ask you this simple question. Do you really have what it takes to come up with a humorous wedding speech that will bring the house down?  

 

Most mothers erroneously think they have to be naturally funny to come up with hilarious wedding toasts. While having that quality can help make your mother of the groom speech a hit, it’s by no means all the only way to endear yourself to your audience.

 

 

There are several other ways you can tickle the wedding guests with excitement even if you are not so friendly like a bulldog or you are not a naturally funny person.

 

 

Before we do so, let’s look at this one thing about funny mother of the groom speeches.

 

Contrary to what most folks think, you really don’t have to force it if you can’t recall amusing anecdotes about your son’s life. You see, your utmost concern when you grab that microphone is to tell the guests about how he is being transformed from that little boy who used to play with his toys to the wonderful man he is now.

 

So, in effect, you are in to tell a story about his life. If in the process of doing that, you throw in a few fond and funny memories here and there in a non-embarrassing way, you will give everyone a reason to hang on to your words.

 

However, if nothing of that sort runs through your entire speech, you just have to go with what you remember about his life.

 

 

After all,  we all have different personalities and your son’s life might not have been punctuated with funny events and incidents.

With that said, let’s dive right in by looking at what goes into writing a funny mother of the groom speech or toast.

 

There are processes involved in in writing a great piece, and you have to go through each of them unless you are an exceptionally good speaker who can easily make things up in their mind.

 

The first step is the pre-writing process.  Here is where you get yourself in the mood before you actually plan out the content of your wedding speech for your son and daughter-in-law.

 

One of the best ways of getting yourself in the mood is by watching funny mother of the groom speech videos. So, this is what I recommend right now.  Go watch a few videos on Youtube.com or on your favorite platforms and take note of how such presentations are made.

 

 

As you watch a couple of them, please put down tips and ideas you consider very helpful that you think can help you put your thoughts together in a very coherent manner.

 

By the way, I found two great examples that can inspire you to come up with great ideas for your speech.

 

Funny mother of the groom speech #1

 

 

Funny mother of the groom speech #2

 

 

I really enjoyed both clips and I hope you did too? Did you find anything that you wish to add to your wedding speech or toast for your son?

 

Well, another tool that can easily help you write the best mother of the groom speech are wedding speech examples.

 

Do you know why? It’s because they contain a lot of helpful tips and ideas that you can easily adapt for your own narration. 

 

Unfortunately, I have come across situations where some wedding speakers have carelessly swiped them without customizing them to suit their own needs.

 

That’s so wrong. Well, I want to show you how to make the most of them. So, please bear with me for a while as I walk you through an easy-to-follow step to using mother of the groom speech examples to come up with your own speech.

 

Here you go:

 

A Funny Mother of the Groom Speech Sample 

 

Good evening and welcome everyone! I’m Millie, Dan’s very proud dad!

I would like to thank everyone who has come from near and far to share in our joy and happiness. It means a lot to see you all here.

 

Dan is my first child and it seems like only yesterday that Eric and I were in a state of nervous excitement as we awaited the arrival of our first baby boy.

Dan was a very active little boy who was always determined to steal the spotlight at any cost.

 

As a little boy, he felt the best way to do that was to protect his family. 

You see, Dan absolutely loved Robin, of Batman and Robin fame, and how they beat up the bad guys.  To imitate Robin, Dan‘’the super fighter’’ would run around our house in his Robin outfit like a wind, making sure that his cape was flying, and pretend that he was fighting all the bad guys in the neighborhood!

 

 

Once, he climbed up a wall near where we used to live and tried flying only to land on the grass with a loud thud.  Unfortunately, he lost one tooth and we had to send him to the emergency room and we came out of there as a wise little boy!

 

Growing up, Dan loved playing sports. He was very much into High Schools Sports that he got a varsity letter in Soccer and Lacrosse for being the most valuable player his senior year.

 

In spite of those sporting accomplishments, he was so focused and worked so hard to achieve his goals and dreams. Dan, we are so proud of you and who you have become.

 

I have always hoped that you will find someone who really cares for you and I couldn’t be happier that you are getting married to someone who really looks out for you.

 

I still remember the day my son introduced Margaret to us and I could tell by the way he looked at you and the special light in his eyes that he’s found someone he loves dearly.

 

Dan and Margaret, today is your big day and I have a few words of advice for you.

Your marriage, like every other, is like a garden. It needs intentional care and cultivation to make it look great. By loving each other, holding each other so close, and being there for each other in good times and bad, you will be making a concerted effort to make your love blossom and you will come to know as time goes by that you simply can’t live without each other.

 

You both are heading on an amazing journey and I know you are going to have so many happy years together. God bless you.

 

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Did you enjoy it? I did enjoy the time Little Dan tried to imitate Robin. While it’s very tempting to copy this mother of the groom speech example, you don’t have to because there are so many eyeballs on it and you will come across as a copycat if you do that.

 

 

Well, I am going to break it down into bits and pieces so you can get an accurate idea of how to write a heartfelt and funny mother of the groom speech or toast.

 

Are you ready? Ok, let’s get started.

 

First, let’s start with...

How to Write the Introductory Remarks of your Funny Mother of the Groom Speech or Toast.

 

To make things easier, I am going to take excerpts of the speech example before us to help us put our write what we want to say for our opening remarks. 

 

Here you go: 

‘’ I’m Millie, Dan’s very proud dad!

I would like to thank everyone who has come from near and far to share in our joy and happiness. It means a lot to see you all here.

Dan is my first child and it seems like only yesterday that Eric and I were in a state of nervous excitement as we awaited the arrival of our first baby boy. ‘’

 

Now, please look at that opening address and see if you have anything to say about it.

 

If you’ve read that extract very carefully, you will notice that there are two parts to it. Do you have any idea what these two sections are? You may scroll up and look at it again.

 

Please don’t worry if you still can’t figure it out.  I am here to help.

I noticed these things:

  • A short-self introduction
  • The wedding speakers relationship with the groom
  • Expression of gratitude
  • As well as a rather brief line about how happy the mother of the groom was when his son was born a couple of years ago.

 

These are by no means what a perfect introduction really entails. But it at least gives us a clear idea of what goes into writing a great introduction.

 

You may use one or more of the following strategies to write a kickass opener that will perk up ears.  

 

First, you can simply share how you felt when your son was born as illustrated above.

 

Second, you can simply state why you are so excited about him getting married to the love of his life.

 

Third, you can start with a quote about marriage. For example, you can start like this:

There are two memorable days in every man’s life. When he’s born and when he gets married to a truly beautiful woman.

 

Did you see how I wrote that?

 

Having written that short example, let’s now turn our attention to how to start your humorous mother of the groom speech with a bang even if you are as stiff as a board.

 

First, if you burst out into a well-known song everyone can sing along to, you will naturally have a lot of admirers at the wedding reception. If you have a good singing voice, that will be a plus for you. If you are not that gifted, you can still give it a try. With a little help from someone who is musically gifted, you might make a headway.

 

Second, if anything funny came up when your son asked you to give a funny wedding speech, you can share it with them. Here’s an example to illustrate it.

 

It’s probably no secret that I have been thinking about my speech practically since the moment Dan and Janet got engaged last November.  For most moms, it’s the dress. But for me, it’s the words. I’ve been writing in my head, jotting down notes on my phone while staring at the roasted chickens at Costco(truly).  I‘ve been distracted on the tennis courts and let my team down. But every time, someone calls out love, I think of another family anecdote about Dan.

 

  • If you are going to make a very short but hilarious mother of the groom speech, you can probably say after mentioning who you are and your relationship with the groom.

 

See the example below

 

''I promise that this is going to be the shortest mother of the groom speech ever ‘’ and then you roll down a very long sheet of paper and jokingly add this: ''Seriously, did you believe me when I said that?  Remember, Eric and I have raised him for 30 years now and you shouldn’t expect anything less than that. You are even luckier to have gotten these few pages considering how old he is. I just didn’t have the budget to make a short movie…I was actually considering making a movie about his wonderful life! ''

 

  • You also can come upstage looking so funny like a comedian or be adorned with unusual jewelry to lighten up the mood.
  • Ok, How about this idea as an alternative to all of that? If your soon-to-be daughter in law is from a foreign country where English is not the lingua franca, you can learn a few phrases and incorporate them into your toast.

 

For example, if she from France, you can learn how to greet and do a short-self introduction and her family will love it. You don’t have to master it to communicate it well. The fact that you said something in their native tongue will make them applaud for you.

 

If you are fluent in the language, then you can render part of your speech in English and the other half in her dialect. Better still, you can compose the entire thing in English and summarize the key points in their own language.

 

 

Now, let us see...

How To Write The Body or Structure of Your Mother of the Groom Toast

 

Before we do, let us look at excerpts of our model template to guide us as we analyze this crucial aspect of our presentation.

‘’ Dan was a very active little boy who was always determined to steal the spotlight at any cost.  As a little boy, he felt the best way to do that was to protect his family. 

 

You see, Dan absolutely loved Robin, of Batman and Robin fame, and how they beat up the bad guys.  To imitate Robin, Dan ‘’the super fighter’’ would run around our house in his Robin outfit like a wind, making sure that his cape was flying, and pretend that he was fighting all the bad guys in the neighborhood!...‘’

 

This is the most interesting part of the wedding speech which is undeniably the easiest section to write because it’s simply a narration of your son’s life right from when he was a little kid to when he finally brought the love of his life to meet the family.

 

So, how then did you get ideas to write the content of your toast? This is where things get perplexing because you probably have so many ideas running through your mind and wondering how to distill many years of memories into a very short time.

 

Thankfully, below are some pointers that can help you refine your thoughts and ideas before committing them on paper.

 

So, please grab your paper and provide answers to the following questions.

  • What was your son really like when he was a little kid?  
  • What was he like when he was becoming an adolescent?
  • Does he have any accomplishments you wish to share? If you think it’s obnoxious to talk about it, please stay clear of it.  
  • Do you have memories of your vacation trips or anything you did together that really deepened the mother-son bond?
  • Do you recall any funny and fond memories you want to add to the body of your message?

 

Please note: If you can’t recall funny events about his life, just stick to the facts. Remember, you are not there to necessarily make others laugh per se, but to give an account of what your relationship with your son has been like over the years.

 

After you have provided answers to the questions above, piece them together to form your first draft. Afterward, you have to keep redrafting it until you are very happy with what you have got.

 

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With that said, let’s now turn our attention to...

How to End Your Mom's Wedding Speech with a Bang

As we always do, we will carefully review the conclusion of the speech example so we can figure out how to write a memorable conclusion.

 

Here we go once again:

Dan and Margaret, today is your big day and I have a few words of advice for you.

Your marriage, like every other, is like a garden. It needs intentional care and cultivation to make it look great. By loving each other, holding each other so close, and being there for each other in good times and bad, you will be making a concerted effort to make your love blossom and you will come to know as time goes by that you simply can’t live without each other…’’

 

If you should ask me where you should put in all your efforts, then I will tell you that you should never take the closing remarks of your funny mother of the groom speech for granted.

 

Here’s why it’s so important. You see, the closing remarks are like the last lines of a letter written to someone you adore so much. 

 

It has to be succinct and memorable and not verbose because they are the very words that will be remembered for years to come. Nevertheless, a lot of mothers end very poorly using the same clichés we hear at most weddings.

 

Yours will have to be unique to be remembered. So, I am going to share with you a few tips and ideas to help you do just that.

 

First, you can end with a simple piece of advice as you saw in that excerpt. You could use your personal experience or even embellish it with some good marriage quotes.

 

Below are a few of them.

‘’A perfect marriage is just two imperfect people who refuse to give up on each other’’ ― Kate Stewart, Loving the White Liar

‘’Marriage – the roots are deep, the covenant is solid, love is sweet, life is hard, and God is good.’’- John Piper

‘’Never marry the one you can live with, marry the one you cannot live without.’’- Aleatha Romig, Consequences

‘’It is not a lack of love, but a lack of friendship that makes unhappy marriages.’’-Friedrich Nietzsche

 

Moreover, you can also write a faith-based piece of advice with words from the Bible.

 

Here are some scriptures you might want to use to spiff up your speech.

 "So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate."- Matthew 19:6

‘’Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love. Make every effort to keep the unity of the Spirit through the bond of peace.’’ –Ephesians 4: 2-3

"And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love."- 1 Corinthians 13:13

 

Again, you can compare how they both look like to inspire laughter

 

For example, you can say that Dan (your son) and Amanda are like two peas in a pod.

 

That can become: 

I absolutely love the fact that Dan and Amanda are like two peas in a pod. Do you know why? Once, we were hiking up a mountain when Amanda fell off a small muddy cliff….

 

Do you see where this is going? I hope it gives you an idea of how to showcase how they complement each other in an amusing way.

 

All in all, your mother of the groom speech should strike a perfect balance between humor and any style you want to pair it with.

For instance, it can be 30 percent funny and 70 percent storytelling or sentimental.

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'' Hello Dan, their wedding went very well. The usual stress beforehand for the couple organizing the event but all things to do went so smoothly. I also like to say that I'm so proud of my speech, almost got a standing ovation, lol! I'm so glad I've found you. I will definitely recommend you to my friends and family in future weddings. I wish you the very best.''-  Claire, New Zealand

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Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.

Yet, some sons are still getting married and asking their moms to give speeches.

''It was perfect Dan.  I changed a few things in the speech. And I had several people come up and tell me how well done it was. I couldn't have done it better. Thanks for your help''- Marilyn, Canada

Nonetheless, not every mother could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.

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Yet, some sons are still getting married and asking their moms to give speeches.

''It was perfect Dan.  I changed a few things in the speech. And I had several people come up and tell me how well done it was. I couldn't have done it better. Thanks for your help''- Marilyn, Canada

Nonetheless, not every mother could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.

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Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.

So, please take advantage of it now even if your son’s big day is in the future.

Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video and your son and daughter-in-law and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.  

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The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice).  Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.

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Mother of The Groom Speech Toast: How To Comfortably Write Your Mother Of The Groom Wedding Toast For Your Son And Daughter-In-Law

Looking forward to writing the best mother of the groom speech for your son at the wedding reception or rehearsal dinner night?

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Don’t worry because this piece will show you the tips and ideas you need to know so you can write a great mother of the groom wedding speech toast for your son and daughter.

 

There’s this song that really captures the mother-son relationship and I loved the lyrics so much that I have lost count of the number of times I have played that song on my computer.

 

It is a song by Kay Crawford and Bonnie Barney that goes like this:  

A precious little baby boy tucked in his mother's arms listen as she asked her lord to keep him safe from harm….he looked at her in wonder… as he hears his momma pray…the marriage vows are spoken,
exchanging of the rings and she prays, oh father, now I come
and ask for one more thing…

 

I am sure you might have heard this song before.

 

Mother of the groom speech tips and ideas

 

By the way, your son’s wedding is a day that every mother looks forward to, one that holds wistfulness and joy in equal parts; it’s the day her son officially brings another important person into his life - his life partner.

 

Now, as the mother of the groom, your speech toast has the unique responsibility of honoring your son, welcoming your newest daughter, and keeping your guests entertained, enamored and excited at the same time.

 

Now, if you’re thinking that this is going to be the ‘mother’ of all tasks, don’t worry.

We have a quick and handy speechwriting guide that will help you deliver a touching and heartfelt mother of the groom speech toast that ticks every box!

Every speech can be roughly divided into these parts:

  • Introduction
  • Gratitude
  • Speaking About Your Son
  • Welcoming Your New Daughter-in-law
  • Toasting Their Marriage
  • Conclusion

 

Before we get into writing your speech for your son and daughter-in-law, let’s look at this critical issue that affects the performance of most mothers and how you can make it work for your good.

 

Here's How To Overcome This One Thing Moms Fear Most

Do you have any idea what plagues most moms? Okay, let me take it away!

A lot of mothers can’t put their thoughts together meaningfully due to crippling nerves.

That can stop you from putting on a beautiful show. 

Unfortunately, that stems from past speaking failures and the overwhelming majority of mothers of the grooms become victims to that, and they allow it to haunt them for far too long.

 

If you have been through the torturous ordeal of fumbling for words at any event you were asked to say a few words at, you shouldn’t dwell too much on that either even if your mind relays bleak pictures every now and then.

 

Here’s the thing: We (including great speakers) all get nervous whenever we are asked to speak before a group of people.

 

But you don’t have to let the chains of failure hang around your neck. Once you let it go and believe in your heart in your soul and in your mind that you are ready to make a difference. You don’t even have to bother what the wedding guests or even your son think about you.

 

Just work on your speech diligently and they would change their impressions about you when you hand over the microphone to the next speaker.

 

This has worked for so many mothers we have worked with and you won’t go wrong if you take this time-tested advice to heart. I believe in you and I know you can make it dear.

 

Having acknowledged that, can we now look at how you can write one of the best mothers of the groom's speech toast ever?

Ok, let us dive right into the thick of it.

 

Ideas to help you write your mother of the groom speech

 

How To Get Great Ideas For Your Speech

 

Getting ideas for your presentation is quite easier than most moms think. All you need are good examples to model your speech after.

 

Well, I am not in any way saying that you should blindly copy the speech examples you find online and slighter alter them to fit your needs.

 

That easy road will lead you nowhere but keep you confined in the pit misery and sneer.

Rather, those examples are meant to be studied for inspiration.  Please don’t worry because I am going to show you how to make the most out of mother of the groom speech toast examples in this piece.

 

That said, there are two kinds of wedding speech templates: visual (video) and written examples. They both work hand in hand to create a beautiful speech for your son and daughter. Although they hold the same appeal, they are used differently.

 

Visual or video mother of the groom speech examples put you in a perfect mood for the clever expressions of your ideas and thoughts.

 

 

So this is my speechwriting assignment for you:  Please grab your pen or pencil or your keyword and watch a couple of videos on youtube.com or (on your favorite video watching platform) to get good ideas before you even start your speech.

 

That essentially is what you have to do before you try scribbling down your thoughts. As you do, put down ideas you think you can somehow incorporate into your work.

 

Here you go:

Mother of The Groom Speech Example # 1

 

Mother of The Groom Speech Example # 2

 

 

Did you enjoy watching those clips and did you find anything to work with? I hope you did.

 

Now, let us look at a well-written mother of the groom speech toast sample we can use to help you write a short and sweet mother wedding speech for your son and daughter-in-law.

 

See right below.

 

Mother Of The Groom Speech Sample

 

Good evening, ladies and gentlemen.

For those of you who don’t know me, I’m Ashley, Craig’s ecstatic mother who cannot stop grinning from ear to ear. It gives me great joy and honor to see the smiling faces of so many people who are here today because they love and cherish Craig and Lani. 

 

The entire family has waited months for this special occasion and on behalf of all of them, I would like to thank everyone who has come from near and far to share in our joy and happiness today.

 

This would not have been possible without a few important individuals, whom I would like to thank:

 

First, a huge thank you to Peter, Craig’s dad, and to Joanne, his stepmom for helping make Craig the man he is today.

 

I could not have asked for a better best friend - Andrea, thank you for being another mother to Craig when he was growing up. My son sure has had and continues to have some wonderful maternal influences on his life!

 

Finally, a special thanks goes out to Lani’s parents, Kevin & Danielle, for raising a wonderful woman and for always providing their constant love & support!

 

Standing here talking about Craig brings back very fond memories of that beautiful day when he came into our lives and overwhelmed us with immense joy and pride.

 

In a twinkle of an eye, our bundle of blessings grew up so quickly into a very active, loving, and outgoing little boy who loved to play rugby, more than anything.

 

Throughout his teen years,  Craig developed into an incredible player - it wasn’t just sheer talent that set him apart; I was always particularly impressed with how well he cared for his teammates, both on and off the field.

 

As he got older, Craig was very fun to be around and was SO obsessed with playing pranks. We always played tricks on each other - I remember one New Year’s Eve, the little prankster told me that there was going to be a New Year party in a certain house in the neighborhood. 

 

So full of excitement, I walked in through the door the next day, quickly realized I’d been played (yet again), and quickly got out, only to be received with peals of laughter. 

 

But despite his practical joker side, Craig has always been so passionate about the well-being of his family and loved ones - ever since he was young, he has always made sure that everyone has felt so special and loved through his immense attention and generosity.

 

At any point in time, he is there for others and his friends love being with him. He recently had a golden opportunity to pick up one of the many 250k jobs being offered to him but he didn’t take the easy road out because he didn’t want his friends to go through hard times. This is just testimony to how much he treasures their friendships. 

 

At the time, his business was full of his ‘’friends’’ so he made sure that no one was out on their arse looking for a job.  Instead, he chased up a couple of companies, changed direction slightly, and still got everyone involved.

 

I think you’ll agree with me that such a true friend is hard to come by - Lani, you’re lucky because, in addition to a wonderful partner, you’ve found a precious best friend for life!

 

Craig, we are so proud of you and it’s such a heartfelt blessing to see that you’ve grown up into a very loving, caring, thoughtful, and responsible young man.

 

You’ve enriched our lives in so many ways and given us so many reasons to be proud of you, but the proudest moment for me personally is watching you get married to a spouse who’s so worthy of your love and attention.

 

I couldn’t be prouder that you’ve found someone you can’t live without and I know without a doubt that your warm personality will be complemented by Lani’s beautiful nature.

 

To my new daughter, you are a lucky woman indeed to have caught the eye of this very special man who knows how to love unconditionally, and he is a lucky man in return. 

 

Ever since I can remember, it’s always been my fondest wish for my son to meet someone like you, Lani - when he told me about you, I could tell by the radiant look in his eyes anytime he talked about you that you meant the world to him.

 

When I finally met you after I was invited up to Queensland from Sydney, I knew you would be the one and I am so happy that you are going to build your lives together.  Lani,

 

I love that you are caring, smart, kind, passionate, driven, and love Craig to an immense amount - your mutual respect for each other and unbridled joy is reflected in everything you both do!

 

Craig and Lani, always remember that in your walk together it’s love and only love that has brought you thus far; that is the cornerstone that will help you stand strong in good times and the bad.

 

So, always hold on to each other and be each other’s keeper because there’s nothing you can’t achieve if you value each other deeply.

 

God bless you both and we wish you the very best as you start this chapter of your life together.

 

M5 

Now, we are going to break this example down step-by-step so we can see what went into writing it.

 

As we do, please take note of my comments or writing ideas and see how best you can use them to say something sweet about your son and the bride.

 

Ok, let’s get started by learning…

 

How To Write The Introduction Of Your Mother of The Groom Speech Toast

 

While it may seem obvious to your near and dear as to what your role is at this wedding, there is a possibility that not everyone attending might know who you are.

 

So start off by informing the audience about your connection to the bride and groom.

 

“Good evening, ladies and gentlemen.

For those of you who don’t know me, I’m Ashley, Craig’s ecstatic mother who cannot stop grinning from ear to ear.”

 

Not only does this establish your position in the evening’s proceedings, but it also sets your mother of the groom speech up to a clean, crisp, and clear start: everyone now knows you are the mother of the groom and that you are going to be delivering one of the most important speeches of the occasion. 

 

If your husband or the groom’s father is deceased, you may let them know only if you won’t break down in tears.

 

Remember, the speech is about your son and not him. If you want to honor him, you can still pay a tribute to him by explaining why you are speaking instead of his dad.

 

If you raised your son as a single mom or a lonely widow, there’s no need to emphasize that as well.

If you are doing a joint parent of the groom's speech, be sure to start by introducing yourselves.

Then, you have to take a minute to acknowledge the people that have molded your son into the marvelous person he is today.

 

In addition to serving as the second part of your introduction, it also lends a heartfelt touch to the speech as it will be a nice surprise for the people being thanked.

 

Below is a short example based on what I have just said.

 

This would not have been possible without a few important individuals, whom I would like to thank:

 

First, a huge thank you to Peter, Craig’s dad, and to Joanne, his stepmom for helping make Craig the man he is today.

I could not have asked for a better best friend - Andrea, thank you for being another mother to Craig when he was growing up. My son sure has had and continues to have some wonderful maternal influences on his life!

 

Finally, a special thanks goes out to Lani’s parents, Kevin & Danielle, for raising a wonderful woman and for always providing their constant love & support!

 

After you have expressed gratitude to the guests, you have to capture the attention of the wedding guests by starting on a bright note. If you especially have a poor track record of speaking in public, you have to rewrite your own history by putting on a very good show.

 

Mother of the groom speech toast samples and templates

 

You see,  how you begin your speech will make all the difference because it will leave the guests with the impression that your toast is going to be different than the several boring ones they have heard at many wedding receptions.

If your first lines miss the mark, they will tune out and mentally conclude that it is not worth listening to.

 

There are several ways of mentally engaging them and I am going to share with you three proven ways of doing just that.

 

  • The most memorable way of starting is by sharing what happened on the day your son was born.

 

I once wrote for someone who witnessed the birth of his son on the day OJ Simpson was chased by the police.  Sit still and brainstorm for a while and see if you can come up with stories about what actually occurred on the day you had him.

 

  • Are the couples having their wedding at the same location where they met? You can mention that.

 

If his birthday falls on the same day as his wedding day, you can mention it and ask everyone to join you in singing the happy birthday song for him and this will make everyone happy.

 

  • You can make it nostalgic by recalling how you felt when you got married to your husband.

 

Here’s a short example.

 

Thank you all for being here to celebrate with Ben and Shelly. This joyous occasion is sure to be one for them to remember and it takes me back 30 years when Margaret and I were sitting in their shoes on the eve of our Wedding Day. What a day it was!

 

That can be for a rehearsal dinner speech. Well, you can slightly tweak it if you are going to speak at the reception by rendering it like this:

 

Thank you all for being here to celebrate with Ben and Shelly. This joyous occasion is sure to be one for them to remember and it takes me back 30 years when Margaret and I were sitting in their shoes on our wedding day. What a day it was!

 

However, if you are divorced or separated, you shouldn’t use this approach or even mention it.  

 

  • You can even begin with a joke. If your son has a nickname from childhood that you still tease him with that. Please let the guests know why he got that his nickname.

 

Now, let’s see how to write the body of your speech. Let us look at excerpts of our template to guide us in our pursuit of success.

 

‘’Standing here talking about Craig brings back very fond memories of that beautiful day when he came into our lives and overwhelmed us with immense joy and pride.

 

In a twinkle of an eye, our bundle of blessings grew up so quickly into a very active, loving, and outgoing little boy who loved to play rugby, more than anything.

Throughout his teen years,  Craig developed into an incredible player…’’

 

Now, it’s time to move on to the focus of your speech - your (not so baby) boy! This is the part that most mothers face difficulties over because it’s nearly impossible to fit in so many fantastic memories into a small 5-minute speech. Sometimes, it honestly feels like you’re doing a disservice to your bond!

 

To help you narrow down on the notable ones and do justice to your speech, we have a suggestion that will streamline it for you:

 

  • Set yourself a designated time limit (around 15-30 minutes).
  • Write down the primary thoughts, feelings, and memories that remind you of your son.
  • Write out only the most important details (this will help you decide the structure of your speech without any meandering)

 

Once you’re done jotting down your ideas and musings, highlight or underline the lines that you’d like to use in the body of your speech.

 

The moment you’re done identifying the main themes of your speech, you can start adding more depth to the same, by elaborating on each point as seen in the underlined words below. 

 

“As he got older, Craig was very fun to be around and was SO obsessed with playing pranks. We always played tricks on each other - I remember one New Year’s Eve, the little prankster told me that there was going to be a New Year party in a certain house in the neighborhood. 

 

So full of excitement, I walked in through the door the next day, quickly realized I’d been played (yet again), and quickly got out, only to be received with peals of laughter.

 

But despite his practical joker side, Craig has always been so passionate about the well-being of his family and loved ones - ever since he was young, he has always made sure that everyone has felt so special and loved through his immense attention and generosity.

 

At any point in time, he is there for others and his friends love being with him. He recently had a golden opportunity to pick up one of the many 250k jobs being offered to him but he didn’t take the easy road out because he didn’t want his friends to go through hard times. This is just testimony to how much he treasures their friendships.”

 

As you can see, the above passage evidences the son’s practical joker side as well as his compassionate nature - the anecdote attached to it provides further insight into what makes him kind, caring, and thoughtful.

 

Action Tip: A much easier way of stringing your thoughts together is to create an outline for your speech from his childhood until when he made up his mind to settle down with the bride.

 

So, please grab your pen and paper and provide memories along with these developmental milestones in his life.

How to write your mother of the groom toast

 

Childhood---what were the early years like and do you have fond memories about this time?

Growing up---what was the picture like exactly?

Teenage years----Mention things he took part in like scouting, sports, volunteerism, etc…

Adulthood---Mention his accomplishment in school and other things that come to mind.

Please note: If you are thinking of making a funny mother of the groom's speech, then you have to include hilarious anecdotes from his life.

 

After you have settled on what you want to go for, write answers to the questions above, and put all the stories together in a very rough draft. You can later edit by cutting out parts you really feel shouldn’t be part of your final speech.

 

You might keep doing that until you are okay with what you have done. 

 

Even though a big chunk of your speech will go towards paying homage to the bond your son and you share, it is also equally important to focus on welcoming the bride into your family with open arms.

 

If you don’t know where to start, the above exercise will come in handy for this bit as well. The most important part about this section is to showcase the positive attributes of your daughter-in-law, speak about how much she’s has changed your son’s life for the better, and what you admire or love about them.

 

Here’s a short example of that in action.

When Dan eventually came back home to complete high school, it was pretty obvious that he was totally smitten with Angela. But what was even more obvious was the calming effect she had on our son.

It was so evident that he had grown into a very responsible and thoughtful son.

 

Did you see that? Ok, that’s not all. Mention why you admire the bride and how she complements your son.

Having said that, you have to proceed to state why their marriage is special. 

 

Your son isn’t just marrying someone’s precious daughter, he’s starting out a whole new family with that special person he can’t live without out.

 

A key component of an emotional mother of the groom speech is to touch upon the wonderful bond that the couple has, and how their marriage brings you, in particular, joy.

 

Write about the first time you first heard about your son’s life partner, how it felt to meet her for the first time, your first memory of her, or even recollect a heartwarming incident that led you to believe that she was going to be the perfect match for your son.

 

“Ever since I can remember, it’s always been my fondest wish for my son to meet someone like you, Lani - when he told me about you, I could tell by the radiant look in his eyes that you meant the world to him. ‘’

 

M6 (1)

 

Now, let us examine…

 

How To Write The Closing Remarks Of Your Mother of The Groom Speech Toast

 

A memorable speech is made more memorable when its ending finishes on a strong yet sentimental note. While the conventional practice is to close it out with a classic toast, you can always switch it up by using one or more of the following ideas.

 

  • Quote a religious or a spiritual passage from a book that resonates with you. For example, if you are Christian, you can use a few bible verses to end it with a bang or close with a prayer.

 

Some of these verses include:

  1. James 1:17(King James Version) ‘’ Every good and perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of the heavenly lights, who does not change like shifting shadows.’’
  1. Proverbs 3: 5-6(New International Version) ‘’ Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him and he will make your paths straight’’
  1. Ecclesiastes 4:9-10(New American Standard Bible) Two are better than one because they have a good reward for their toil. For if they fall, one will lift up his fellow. But woe to him who is alone when he falls and has not another to lift him up!” 

 

Galatians 5:22-23 (King James Version)  “But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control; against such things, there is no law. And those who belong to Christ Jesus have crucified the flesh with its passions and desires.”

 

  • If you really want to wax poetic, then you can recite a few stanzas from a well-known poem or a touching poem about love or marriage or life like this one by Ann Gray

Love Listen

Let’s love, listen, take time
when time is all we have.
Let’s be unafraid to be kind,
learn to disregard the bad
if the good outweighs it daily.

Let’s make a gift of silence,
the day’s hushing into dark,
and when we hold each other
let’s always be astonished
we are where we want to be.

Let’s hope to age together,
but if we can’t, let’s promise now
to remember how we shone
when we were at our best,
when we were most ourselves.

….Or even this very beautiful poem by Louise Cuddon

I’ll Be There For You 

I’ll be there my darling, through thick and through thin

When your mind’s in a mess and your head’s in a spin

When your plane’s been delayed, and you’ve missed the last train.

When life is just threatening to drive you insane
When your thrilling whodunit has lost its last page
When somebody tells you, you’re looking your age
When your coffee’s too cool, and your wine is too warm
When the forecast said “Fine”, but you’re out in a storm
When your quick break hotel, turns into a slum

And your holiday photos show only your thumb
When you park for five minutes in a resident’s bay
And return to discover you’ve been towed away
When the jeans that you bought in hope or in haste
Just stick on your hips and don’t reach round your waist
When the food you most like brings you out in red rashes
When as soon as you boot up the bloody thing crashes

So my darling, my sweetheart, my dear…
When you break a rule, when you act the fool
When you’ve got the flu, when you’re in a stew
When you’re last in the queue, don’t feel blue’cause
I’m telling you, I’ll be there.

 

That's not all... 

  • You can also end it with some life advice that you would like to pass on to your son and new daughter-in-law as they embark on the journey of marriage together. This is illustrated below

 

‘’Craig and Lani, always remember that in your walk together it’s only selfless love  love that has brought you thus far; That is the cornerstone that will help you stand strong in good times and the bad.

 

So, always hold on to each other and be each other’s keeper because there’s nothing you can’t achieve if you value each other deeply. I feel honored to welcome Lani into our family with open arms - also, we’re looking forward to mini Crailanis soon enough! ‘’

 

God bless you both and we wish you the very best as you build your lives together.”

 

  • You may simply end with a couple of best wishes for the couple. Please see a couple of examples right below
  1. Congratulations to you on this happiest occasion! I am filled with so much pride to see you marrying the love of your life! I know that you two will go through your lives filling each other with so much happiness and endless love! God bless you both as you start your new and wonderful family.
  1. What a blessed day and what a blessed union. May you always have each other through good times and bad.

 

  • If all of the above won’t suit you, you can conclude by proposing a toast to the groom and bride

 

Mother of the groom wedding speech for son

If you follow these six quick steps and start way in advance, you’ll be well on your way to crafting a heartfelt, and funny mother of the groom's speech toast that will make your son, daughter-in-law, and your extended family so proud of you.

P.S: Is the thought of giving you a great wedding speech keeping you up at night? It shouldn’t if you do what most moms do. By following this simple plan that's guaranteed to help you write a great mom speech like the one you read above.

Claire was quite skeptical when she came to us but we kept assuring what she will make her son and family proud-and this is what she sent over after the wedding was over

'' Hello Dan, their wedding went very well. The usual stress beforehand for the couple organizing the event but all things to do went so smoothly. I also like to say that I'm so proud of my speech, almost got a standing ovation, lol! I'm so glad I've found you. I will definitely recommend you to my friends and family in future weddings. I wish you the very best.''-  Claire, New Zealand

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Won’t you love that? I hope you do...

Wedding not too far away? Or happening in less than 24 hours? Trust me, we can deliver! it doesn’t matter if your speech is today, tomorrow, next week, next month ,next year,... we can make things work for you  

 

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Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.

Yet, some sons are still getting married and asking their moms to give speeches.

''It was perfect Dan.  I changed a few things in the speech. And I had several people come up and tell me how well done it was. I couldn't have done it better. Thanks for your help''- Marilyn, Canada

Nonetheless, not every mother could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.

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So, please take advantage of it now even if your daughter’s big day is in the future.

Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video and your son and daughter-in-law and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.  

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Ok, I am Interested, What’s the Cost?

You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.

Why? As you know, the current health crisis has caused severe hardships for most people.

Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.

Yet, some sons are still getting married and asking their moms to give speeches.

''It was perfect Dan.  I changed a few things in the speech. And I had several people come up and tell me how well done it was. I couldn't have done it better. Thanks for your help''- Marilyn, Canada

Nonetheless, not every mother could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.

So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.

Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.

So, please take advantage of it now even if your son’s big day is in the future.

Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video and your son and daughter-in-law and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.  

So, please take advantage of it now even if your son’s big day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.   

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''Hi Dan,

The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice).  Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.

All the best,

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Mother Of The Groom Speech (Toast) : You Can Laugh At Your Mother Of The Groom Wedding Speech Worries And Come Up With The Best Speech Ever If You Simply Follow This Simple Guide

Wedding speech by mom of the groom to son and daughter-in-law

A couple of months ago, a mother of the groom wrote to us saying that she needed help with her speech but simply had no clue about how to come up with something memorable.

From our conversations, it was very obvious that she was scared to death about this whole thing and even though our hands were full, we helped her deliver the best speech of the night and she wrote back to say that...

 

 

From helping moms from the around, we’ve seen that most mothers, particularly those who are not good speakers get so intimidated when they are asked by their sons to say something at the wedding.

 

You see, saying something memorable about your son and daughter-in-law is a real labor of love you simply can’t take for granted because it’s sure to earn you the respect of the wedding guests, your family, friends, and loved ones.

 

I know that nothing can compare to the love you have for you and let me congratulate you on sacrificing so much to give him the future he truly deserves.

 

M5
 

 

Now, that he’s getting married to the woman of his dreams and you should all you can to ensure that your speech is on point.

 

Please don’t worry if you don’t have a way with words or you are not a confident speaker because I am going to share with you tips, templates, ideas, and examples I personally use to write speeches for mothers of the groom.

 

But before we get into all the details, let’s closely look at a critical issue that prevents even the most eloquent mom from performing so well on D-day and how to turn the tide on these challenges. 

 

Get This Right And You Will Make It

If you have ever given a speech your whole lifetime, chances are you might be overcome with nerves when you are asked to speak before a crowd.

 

Regardless of how you fared, that performance might leave you with unpleasant memories and it can ultimately affect your performances whenever you are asked to speak even before a small group of people.

 

Even if you have ever failed to live up to expectation, you can turn the tables in your favor by renewed your mind and that simply means developing a positive mental attitude.

 

Believe it or not, you can make a difference this time around by putting behind your past flops and embarrassments and believing that you can no matter how you are feeling at the moment.

 

By doing so, you will be empowered from within and you will bubble over with the confidence you absolutely need to speak confidently with poise, flair, and confidence.

 

Remember that journey of a thousand miles begins with a step and that step here should be a healthy mental disposition which is the bedrock of your ''speaking success'' so to speak.

 

Mother of the groom wedding speech

 

Having said that, let’s now look at ...

 

How To Get The Right Ideas To Help You Compose A Sweet Mother Of The Groom Toast

 

Before you even write a single, you need to gather certain facts and ideas to help you put the content of your speech together.

I call this part the pre-writing mode as it puts you in the mood for the clarity of your thoughts.

 

Guess what? One of the best places to hunt for ideas is the youtube platform as well as several other video sharing platforms you know of. Once you get there, you then plug in the keyword you have in mind.

You may pop in words like a speech by a single mom to his son on the wedding day, mother of the groom speech video, best ever speech by mother of the groom, etc.

Wait for a couple of them to pop up and watch a few or more clips if you have much time.

 

As you keeping those clips, put down words and phrases that speak to you and your particular personality. As you do, ask yourself which of those ideas you feel you can incorporate into your toast.

By the way, this is a short video to help you in this endeavor.

Please did you watch it? And did you find it helpful?  And do you think you can use the ideas for your own delivery?

 

That brings me to the next point…

 

How To Use Mother Of The Groom Speech Examples

 

I have had the distinct privilege of reviewing mother of the groom wedding speech samples and I often notice that a lot of wedding speakers simply copy and paste the examples they find online without properly improving and refining it to suit their own style and that doesn’t always contribute to making their speeches unique in any way.

 

In this post, I shared how to make the most out of mother of the groom speech samples.

 

Today, I am going to share with you a short mother of the groom speech example. Afterward, we will break it down bit by bit to see what went into creating it so you can get a clear idea of how to write a speech that will get you tons of compliments. Are you ready?

 

Ok, here you go

Good evening and welcome everyone. I am Kyle and I am the mother of the groom.

 

Mark, I was overwhelmed with pride when you exchanged promises with Cindy. I couldn’t help but remember all the great moments, you and I have together, right from the day you came into my life.

 

From spending precious moments with you when you were just a little boy to when you told me that you have found the person you are going to spend the rest of your life with, you have always given me many reasons to be so proud of you.

 

As a little boy, you were so sweet, kind, and fun to be around. I still recall how you wore my dress with ruby red shoes to match and sang with pretend microphones to entertain us whenever we met as a family.

 

Growing up, you followed in your dad’s stead and you started fishing at such an early age. One time we went fishing and Mark caught bass and was so upset that he could not get the hook of its mouth.

 

Worried that the fish might die, Mark took it home and kept in a bucket full of cold water and managed to get the hook out of his mouth after trying so hard for close to four hours before releasing it back to the lake.

 

That sense of determination continued well into his teens as he always put his whole heart to whatever he set his sights on and always came out on top.

Mark, we are so proud of the man you have become and nothing gives me joy to see that you are getting married to Cindy.

 

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You’re about to embark on the biggest adventure of your life and I am confident that together with Cindy, your future will be so bright.

 

Cindy, thank you so much for making my son so happy; and for standing by him all these years.  I love you so much and beyond thrilled for your future life together.

 

Mark and Cindy, all you need for this journey is a spirit of togetherness, love, forgiveness and you will make your house a true home. We love you both and wish you a lifetime of love and happiness.

 

God bless you.

 

Can you write something close to that or even something similar?

It’s not too hard as you probably think. Well, I promised to elaborate on how we came up with that, so, first and foremost, let’s re-look at the introductory remarks of the speech above.

 

Below is an excerpt…

''Good evening and welcome everyone. I am Kyle and I am the mother of the groom.''

 

The opening line is rather short and pretty bland. But we can throw in a few details into the mix so it comes together very well.

To make it stand out, you can write down the name of people you want to thank.

Thank persons who have contributed to making him who he is. People like his dad, grandparents, your own parents for helping you raise him.

You may add others like the mom and dad of the bride for their help and support and for welcoming your son into their family.

Then, you should thank the guests for coming out from far and near.

This is your assignment: Scroll up and look at the introduction once more and list all the persons you want to express gratitude to and see if you can come up with a brief and good salutation.

If you are struggling to do that, then this short example can inspire you to come up with one.

 

Good evening and welcome everyone to Mark and Cindy’s rehearsal dinner. I am Angela, Mark’s mother.

Thank you so much for coming from far and near to celebrate the joining of this happy couple and I would like to take a moment to thank everyone who has helped to make this a night to remember.

Before I get started, I want to take time to thank Angela and Michelle for helping the happy couple plan this fantastic wedding.

I want to extend a big thank you to Dr. Anry who came all the way from Tulip to officiate the ceremony tomorrow as he’s known the couple since they were high school sweethearts.

 

I hope you can write that?

 

Closely connected to that are these sentimental thoughts:

''Mark, I was overwhelmed with beautiful emotions of pride when you exchanged promises with Cindy''

 

It goes without saying that it takes just a moment to leave a lasting, positive impression on someone you are meeting for the very first time and that’s so true.

Speech by mother to son and daughter-in-law on wedding

Some of the wedding guests who will be attending the wedding rehearsal or the reception are people you are going to meet for the very first time and even if you are a poor speaker, they might not notice it until you are through with your message.

 

What this means is that you should put in extra effort into coming with a gripping introduction as Angela did.

 

I know you’re probably wondering about how to write a heart-gripping introduction and I am happy to share with how you can start on a very bright note.

 

First, you can start by sharing your personal feeling about how you felt when your son was born as you saw above.

 

Second, you can share how you feel about his wedding day.

 

Moreover, if you are a naturally funny person, you can get everyone grinning from ear to ear with a hilarious anecdote.

 

Once, a woman shared an incident with me when her daughter was born.  She said they decided to nickname her Rocky because she wasn’t too good looking at birth. She absolutely loved that story and asked that it be included in her speech.

 

I felt it wasn’t right to add that to her speech because that would be utterly embarrassing. But she stood her grounds and we came up with a great introduction.

 

Again, if you know of any good quotes about sons, you can use them creatively.  Here are a few of them

 

''There’s an endearing tenderness in the love of a mother to a son that transcends all other affections of the heart ''---Washington Irwin

 

''Happy is the son whose faith in his mother remains unchallenged ''---Louisa May Alcott

 

''Every mother hopes that her daughter will marry a better man than she did, and is convinced that her son will never find a wife as good as her father did.''----Martin Anderson Nexo

 

''Sons are the anchors of a mother’s life ''---Sophocles

 

''A mothers love is patient and forgiving when all others are forsaking, it never fails or falters, even though the heart is breaking''--- Agatha Christie

 

''To a mother, a son is never a  fully grown; and a son is never a fully grown man until he understands and accepts this about his mother ''--- Unknown

I particularly love the last quote very much!

 

Having said that, let’s look at how to write the body or story of your speech.

 

Once again, let’s look at parts of it to get a sense of where this is headed

 

''As a little boy, you were so sweet, kind, and fun to be around. I still recall how you wore my dress with ruby red shoes to match and sang with pretend microphones to entertain us whenever we met as one family''

 

Let me ask you this: What did you notice from reading that extract? As you review it, you will realize that it’s essentially a story outline of the life of Angela’s precious boy.

 

This is the part of your speech that everyone will be eager to listen to because we all love stories. So this is what I suggest you should do right away if you quickly want to come up with the right stuff for this all-important part of your presentation.

 

Please pick up a piece of paper and provide answers to the following questions:

 

  1. What was he like when he was a toddler?
  2. Why was he always a source of joy and laughter?
  3. Do you have a fond memory or hilarious story you wish to add to your speech?
  4. How did you feel when he brought the bride home?
  1. What were your impressions when you met her for the very first time? Remember, not to say anything negative….It’s their happy day, so it’s best to put her in a better light…

 

If you have written your responses next to each question, you can begin by putting your ideas together using that speech example as a template.

 

To make things easier, you can start with a good story about his childhood before moving on to his teen years and finally stating why you are so proud of him.

There’s nothing wrong with adding his accomplishments in sports, personal life, or in school.

 

Well, some mothers think it’s obnoxious to include that. So if you are in that same league, then you have to avoid tooting your own horn.

 

Please bear in mind that the guidelines above can be very useful when you want your speech to flow from his childhood through adulthood.

Mother of the groom rehearsal dinner speech

If you want your mother of the groom wedding speech to dwell on an aspect of his life, say only his growing up years, then you can simply skip that.

 

Some mothers simply start their speeches and end with something like this

''Even though today is one of the best days of your life, I always like to think that the day you were born was the most memorable day of your life. Over the years, you have grown into a very kind and generous young man and I am so proud of the man you have become.''

 

More often than not, your first draft won’t make look so good but you shouldn’t let that dampen your spirit. You can shelf it for a few hours and come back to refine it till you are completely happy with it. 

 

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Now, let’s see...

 

How To End Your Speech With A Bang!

 

There are several ways of wrapping up your speech and I am going to share with you some ideas of how to do that since your closing lines are likely to linger on the minds of the guests for a long time to come.

 

So, you can employ one or more of the following ideas at the end of your wedding speech.

 

If you are a Christian or a very religious person, then you might have to consider ending with a verse from the bible. My very good friend Christine loves Psalm 128: 1-6 so much.

Psalm 128

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Psalm 128 A song of ascents.

1

Blessed are all who fear the LORD, who walk in his ways.

2

You will eat the fruit of your labor; blessings and prosperity will be yours.

3

Your wife will be like a fruitful vine within your house; your sons will be like olive shoots around your table.

4

Thus is the man blessed who fears the LORD.

5

May the LORD bless you from Zion all the days of your life; may you see the prosperity of Jerusalem,

6

and may you live to see your children's children. Peace be upon Israel.

 

That verse can be used as a prayer or even a blessing.

Again, love or marriage poem can work words even if you are not a poetess. Just imagine how proud your son will be of you if you close with these beautiful lines

Today will be perfect in every way

A beautiful fairy tale

For your wedding day

The theme of your day

Is to have love and laughter

And to live your days

Happily ever after

Living happily is

What we need to survive,

So how does one keep

The magic alive?

How do you light a spark

That never goes out?

And how does one live a life

Without fear or doubt?

 

How do some people manage

To keep their love strong?

And how do some couples

Always feel like they belong?

What do you need to do

To stay in love forever

And make each day special

And grow fonder together?

 

Well, these very questions

You must address every day

You must take the time

To go out of your way

To always share love

And always share laughter

To do whatever it takes

To live happily ever after.

Here’s a recipe

I think is a must

So let’s begin with

Always having trust

Don’t forget it’s important

To have total respect,

And to always stay loyal

To keep your love perfect

 

You must communicate each and every day.

Three special little words

You must never forget to say

‘’ I love you’’ it’s amazing

How these words make you feel

Happy, safe, and valued

And they will keep your love real

A simple act of kindness

Goes a long, long way

Blend it with understanding

And you can’t go astray

Don’t forget friendship.

 

It will help you to cope

Add a sprinkle of faith

And an abundance of hope

Remember your smile

It’s beautiful to see

It can brighten one’s day

So my wish for both of you

Is you always have love and laughter,

And I pray that you will enjoy

Your happily ever after!

 

Wow! I loved every bit of this poem. Don’t you think it can be used for an entire speech if you really want to wax poetic about the couple?

 

Even all three tips work well in every situation; I always find that the best way to draw the curtain is by giving the couple some marriage advice.

Mother's speech to son on his wedding day

P.S: Is the thought of giving you a great wedding speech keeping you up at night? It shouldn’t if you do what most moms do. By following this simple plan that's guaranteed to help you write a great mom speech like the one you read above.

Claire was quite skeptical when she came to us but we kept assuring what she will make her son and family proud-and this is what she sent over after the wedding was over

'' Hello Dan, their wedding went very well. The usual stress beforehand for the couple organizing the event but all things to do went so smoothly. I also like to say that I'm so proud of my speech, almost got a standing ovation, lol! I'm so glad I've found you. I will definitely recommend you to my friends and family in the future weddings. I wish you the very best.''-  Claire, New Zealand

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  • Yes, you get so scared anytime you’re asked to say something before an audience and you really want to save yourself from any form of embarrassment on your son's big day.
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And also imagine the thrill and feeling of excitement and pride you’re going to experience when the audience leaps onto their feet and scream and shouts and even sing your praises.


Won’t you love that? I hope you do...

Wedding not too far away? Or happening in less than 24 hours? Trust me, we can deliver! it doesn’t matter if your speech is today, tomorrow, next week, next month ,next year,... we can make things work for you  

 

Ok, I am Interested, What’s the Cost?

You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.

Why? As you know, the current health crisis has caused severe hardships for most people.

Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.

Yet, some sons are still getting married and asking their moms to give speeches.

''It was perfect Dan.  I changed a few things in the speech. And I had several people come up and tell me how well done it was. I couldn't have done it better. Thanks for your help''- Marilyn, Canada

Nonetheless, not every mother could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.

So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.

Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.

So, please take advantage of it now even if your daughter’s big day is in the future.

Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video and your son and daughter-in-law and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.  

So, please take advantage of it now even if your daughter’s big day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.   

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Satisfaction guaranteed for mother of the groom

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Ok, I am Interested, What’s the Cost?

You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.

Why? As you know, the current health crisis has caused severe hardships for most people.

Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.

Yet, some sons are still getting married and asking their moms to give speeches.

''It was perfect Dan.  I changed a few things in the speech. And I had several people come up and tell me how well done it was. I couldn't have done it better. Thanks for your help''- Marilyn, Canada

Nonetheless, not every mother could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.

So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.

Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.

So, please take advantage of it now even if your son’s big day is in the future.

Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video and your son and daughter-in-law and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.  

So, please take advantage of it now even if your son’s big day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.   

Please note: Your speech draft comes with a proven and simple tip to master your speech or remember your speech just as you want it without carrying a paper with you.

Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise, and clarity!

''Hi Dan,

The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice).  Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.

All the best,

Matt''

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Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise, and clarity!

''Hi Dan,

The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice).  Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.

All the best,

Matt''

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Mother Of The Groom Speech: Samples And Ideas To Help You Write A Beautiful Mother Of The Groom Toast

 

Just See This Short And Sweet Mom Of The Groom Speech Sample And You'll Be Seconds Away From Effortlessly Writing A Beautiful Speech

 

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Do You Know You’re An Amazing Mom?

 

Writer Helen Steiner Ricet, said something profound about moms’ love for her child.

 

She said that a mother’s love is something that no one can explain, it’s made of deep devotion and sacrifice and pain, it’s endless and unselfish and enduring come what may for nothing can destroy it or take that love away.

 

As the mom of the groom, your devotion and priceless sacrifice have brought your son thus far and if there’s a priceless gift you can give your son before he starts building his life with the bride, then is a very special and beautiful mom of the groom speech.

 

Mom of the groom speeches

 

As you’re well aware, most wedding speeches by moms of the groom are very uninspiring and you can’t put the blame on anyone because you need to have the skill or talent to come up with something unique and heartfelt.

 

Mary Made Her Son Proud And You Can Too If…

 

Here at standing ovation, we are often asked by so many mothers from around the world for help whenever they want to make their sons proud with beautiful mom of the groom's speeches.

 

Not too long ago, Mary (not her real name) wrote to us when she wanted to give a beautiful speech that captured her exact thoughts and emotions, and the following speech is what we helped her come up with.

 

After the event, she wrote back saying that hers was the best at the wedding reception even though she had never given a speech her whole life.

Well, we sought her permission to use it to help other moms give touching speeches without trying so hard.

 

So, please sit back, relax, and let’s first see it in its entirety.

 

Then, then we can break down each element of her speech so you too can use the ideas gleaned to give a super memorable mom of the groom's speech.

 

Below is the complete speech sample. Please read it carefully and make notes.

 

Good evening and thanks, everyone.

 

Thanks so much for coming to share in the joy and joining of John and Ruth. I am Mary, John's mom. Thanks so much for your support, kind words and generosity.

 

Before I get started, I wanted to take time to thank everyone for helping John and Ruth plan a fantastic.  I know it wasn’t easy, but thank God we have a pretty easy going couple to work with…right?  

 

I also want to thank my sister Evelyn and her husband Jerry for all the hard work they did to make this night amazing.

 

Their marriage brings back nostalgic memories of when Dan and I got married in 1980.

 

As a couple, one of our proudest moments was when we had John, our charming prince. His birth brought so much joy, peace and a sense of belonging.

 

My mind goes back to when several times at night, I’d wake up and look into his beautiful, smiling eyes and be completely overwhelmed with a sense of wonder, joy, and responsibility for my extraordinary child.

 

Growing up, John loved to do rap music, play hockey and write poetry. I’ll never forget how proud I felt when he wrote a mother’s day poem saying how proud he was to have me as his mom.

 

John, you asked me in that poem how I managed to do it all by myself. Many times, I’d wake up when you were fast asleep wondering how I was going to raise you both when your dad passed on and that brought me to tears so many times.

 

I must say it’s been by the grace of God. Plus it has taken the blood, toil, and sweat of an entire village to make you who you really are.

 

Take Jerry who had to sacrifice so much of his time and energy and finances to keep our bodies and soul together.

 

But, I must admit that raising you and Alex hasn't been a smooth ride at all.  Just look at my hair if that doesn’t tell you something.

 

Each day came with his own challenges but I was determined to lay down my life for you so you could become a successful man.

 

Today is the day to rejoice in knowing that my dreams for you have come true.

Today is the day to rejoice in knowing you are getting married to this beautiful woman Ruth.

 

Thanks for being there for me and I am going to miss being at the gym with you. I love you so much.

 

Ruth thanks a lot for being there for John and the entire family all along. I love you and want to thank you for bringing out the best in him. I admire your sense of honesty, empathy, and integrity and I trust that you are going to be an amazing wife and mom.


On this note, I’d like to welcome you and your family into our hearts and home. We love you so much.

 

Today is a very special day for making memories and celebrating your love for each other. I know you have had your own relationship challenges already but I admire how your
collective sense of purpose and willingness to hold on has kept your hearts still ablaze with love's refining fire.

That to me is very crucial to building a formidable marriage.

 

Marriage is a test of real love and you should expect both good and bad times, including some rough storms. Riding through these storms together, leaning on each other for strength and courage as allies, strengthens the marriage bonds.

 

As long as you weather the storms together, your marriage will endure. No matter what, keep your sense of humor and you’ll make it through these storms just fine, with love

 

So, don't forget to still love -it -out so your love for each other grows so strong each and every day.

 

May you come to love each other like never before and may you grow in love so
your kids can feel the warmth that comes from your tender hearts.

I wish you well and God bless you.

 

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By the way, I found this video also inspiring and you can watch it to get a few ideas from that clip because videos can get put you in the mood for the creative expression of your ideas.

 



Well, if you want to get to the bottom of the story, then you can simply skip it and scroll down further so you and I can review the free sample I just gave you.

 

Now, let’s look at how the parts of that example were written.

Please go grab your pen and paper and put down any ideas and words you think can help make the writing process a breeze.

First, let’s look at the introduction or opening remarks.

 

Start of Her Wedding Speech

Good evening and welcome everyone.

 

Thanks so much for coming to share in the joy and joining of John and Ruth. I am Mary, John's mom. Thanks so much for your support, kind words, and generosity.

 

Before I get started, I wanted to take time to thank everyone for helping John and Ruth plan a fantastic.  I know it wasn’t easy, but thank God we have a pretty easy going couple to work with…right?  

 

I also want to thank my sister Evelyn and her husband Jerry for all the hard work they did to make this night amazing.

 

As you may know, the opening remark of any speech has the power to do two main things:

  • Capture the attention of the wedding guests and
  • Relieve you from nervous tension

 

Again, it comprises elements like greetings and a short self-presentation and expression of gratitude as you can see above.

 

It’s so surprising that some moms grab the microphone and they don’t bother to tell everyone who they are.

You don’t have to take that for granted even if it’s a small wedding because not everyone might know who you are.

 

Having done that, you can thank everyone for coming but you have to acknowledge key persons who have helped you raise your son.

For example, I would like to take this moment to thank Mike and Lisa – my parents – who helped both Alex and I get a strong start in life, and for the love and support all these years.

I would like to give a shout out to Aunt Murry -- who was unable to make it today – who cared for Tyson when I started college.

I am also grateful to Parks – my daughter’s father. He entered Dan’s life when he was 5 and has been an important part of his life. Many things Dan enjoys, from fly fishing to sushi, are a result of Park's influence.

 

Now, let’s move on to another part of the speech.

 

Their marriage brings back nostalgic memories of when Dan and I got married in 1980.

As a couple, one of our proudest moments was when we had John, our charming prince.

His birth brought so much joy, peace, and a sense of belonging.

 

My mind goes back to when several times at night, I’d wake up and look into his beautiful, smiling eyes and be completely overwhelmed with a sense of wonder, joy, and responsibility for my extraordinary child.

 

Mother of the groom wedding speech

 

(comment/take-home writing ideas)- Another key thing that makes all speeches beautiful is when you include fond memories.

Memories like how you felt when your baby boy was born particularly if it’s a good one. So, this is what I would encourage you to do right now precious mom.

 

Ask yourself how the early years were like. If he’s your first child, then you can recall how he made you a very proud mom or how he filled your life with a sense of joy and belonging and put that down.

 

Now, let’s consider another aspect of it.

 

Growing up, John loved to do rap music, play hockey and write poetry.

I’ll never forget how proud I felt when he wrote a mother’s day poem saying how proud he was to have me as his mom.

John, you asked me in that poem how I managed to do it all by myself. Many times, I’d wake up when you were fast asleep wondering how I was going to raise you both when your dad passed on and that brought me to tears so many times.

I must say it’s been by the grace of God. Plus it has taken the blood, toil, and sweat of an entire village to make you who you really are.

Take Jerry who had to sacrifice so much of his time and energy and finances to keep our bodies and soul together.

But, I must admit that raising you and Alex hasn't been a smooth ride at all.  Just look at my hair if that doesn’t tell you something.

Each day came with his own challenges but I was determined to lay down my life for you so you could become a successful man.

 

(comments/take-home writing points):  Have you noticed how the writer was able to infuse her emotions into those memories as she narrated them?

Recalling incidents without personalizing them won't take you anywhere....never ever forget this

 

Here’s how to come up with good ideas for the body of your speech

  • Put down funny memories you recall
  • Put down in chronological order how his formative years were like. Feel free to pour your heart onto the white sheet with a view to picking anecdotes you feel you can use for your own speech.
  • Also, consider his hobbies and things he was born of. Did you notice how Jerry’s love of writing proved useful on special occasions?

 

We are not done yet. We still have some ''rivers'' to cross, so let’s go:

 

''Today is the day to rejoice in knowing that my dreams for you have come true.

Today is the day to rejoice in knowing you are getting married to this beautiful woman Ruth.''

 

(Comments/take-home writing points): Another thing you should consider is how to express how you feel about your son's big day in relation to his life story just as this writer has done.

She deliberately uses the word ''today'' to create a musical effect. Probably she wanted to entertain the wedding guests and her readers. Repetitions of words make great speeches what they really are.

Please note that if you will be embarrassing your son and yourself if you dwell on the negative, so please don’t.

You can give remarks that show how proud you are of him. For example, you can say:

You have been my pride and inspiration and I am so happy that you’ve grown from that baby I doted on into a very wonderful young man and getting married makes me….

Got it?

 

Thanks for being there for me and I am going to miss being at the gym with you. I love you so much.

 

Ruth thanks a lot for being there for John and the entire family all along. I love you and want to thank you for bringing out the best in him. I admire your sense of honesty, empathy and integrity and I trust that you are going to be an amazing wife and mom.

 


On this note, I’d like to welcome you and your family into our hearts and home. We love you so much.

 

(comment/take-home writing points) : Noticed how the speaker used the opportunity given to express her joy that Ruth is now part of the family.

 It doesn't end there. She goes on to formally welcome her into her family. You have to do that if you’re speaking on behalf of your entire family)

We are almost getting to the end of this post…. So; let’s move on because I only want the best for you.

ADDRESS COUPLE

 

Today is a very special day for making memories and celebrating your love for each other.

 

I know you have had your own relationship challenges already but I admire how your
collective sense of purpose and willingness to hold on has kept your hearts still ablaze with love's refining fire.
That to me is very crucial to building a formidable marriage.

 

Marriage is a test of real love and you should expect both good and bad times, including some rough storms.

 

Riding through these storms together, leaning on each other for strength, and courage as allies strengthens the marriage bonds. As long as you weather the storms together, your marriage will endure. No matter what, keep your sense of humor, and you’ll make it through these storms just fine, with love

 

So, don't forget to still love -it -out so your love for each other grows so strong each and every day.

May you come to love each other like never before and may you grow in love so
your kids can feel the warmth that comes from your tender hearts.

 

I wish you well and God bless you.

 

(comment/take-home writing points): Never ever forget to end with advice or words of encouragement or well-wishes to the happy couple as you see above.)

Wedding speech for groom by his mom

 

P.S: Is the thought of giving you a great wedding speech keeping you up at night? It shouldn’t if you do what most moms do. By following this simple plan that's guaranteed to help you write a great mom speech like the one you read above.

Claire was quite skeptical when she came to us but we kept assuring what she will make her son and family proud-and this is what she sent over after the wedding was over

'' Hello Dan, their wedding went very well. The usual stress beforehand for the couple organizing the event but all things to do went so smoothly. I also like to say that I'm so proud of my speech, almost got a standing ovation, lol! I'm so glad I've found you. I will definitely recommend you to my friends and family in the future weddings. I wish you the very best.''-  Claire, New Zealand

Want to know how she did just that? She got on board our wedding speech program and one of our talented speech consultants helped her out.

Want to get on board? You should!

 

Ok, Is This Offer For Me?

  • Yes, if you are expecting nothing less than a very special, beautiful, unique, and memorable speech.

 

  • Don’t have much time to write a perfect speech just as you want it because of work demands and other life's pressure or even sick? Then, let’s take care of it and the guests will definitely sing your praises--we have done it for so many others and it's your turn now!

 

  • Yes, if you are overwhelmed by the pressures of work and don’t have the time to put together a very meaningful speech, so you can have peace of mind

 

  • Yes, if you want your family, your son, friends, and wedding guests to shower you with very sincere compliments…just imagine how you will feel

 

  • Yes, if you are not good with words and you feel you’re not a natural writer and you are struggling to find the right words but still want to give a great speech.

 

  • Yes, you get so scared anytime you’re asked to say something before an audience and you really want to save yourself from any form of embarrassment on your son's big day.

 

  • Yes, if you are not too eloquent or not too sure if you are on the right track.

 

  • Yes, if you absolutely hate speaking in public or feel this is not your thing but you want to make your son feel very proud

 

  • Yes, if you have a day or less to the wedding and you are worried that you might make some horrible mistakes

 

  • Yes, if you are a good speaker but you still want someone to look over or review what you've come up with!

 

Just imagine leaving your entire presentation in the hands of skilled wedding speech consultants who will take away your pain of spending hours thinking hard and long about what to say and what not to say.


Also, envision being patiently guided to say something that will leave a favorable impression on the mind of your listeners.


And also imagine the thrill and feeling of excitement and pride you’re going to experience when the audience leaps onto their feet and scream and shouts and even sing your praises.


Won’t you love that? I hope you do...

Wedding not too far away? Or happening in less than 24 hours? Trust me, we can deliver! it doesn’t matter if your speech is today, tomorrow, next week, next month ,next year,... we can make things work for you  

 

Ok, I am Interested, What’s the Cost?

 

You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.

Why? As you know, the current health crisis has caused severe hardships for most people.

Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.

Yet, some sons are still getting married and asking their moms to give speeches.

''It was perfect Dan.  I changed a few things in the speech. And I had several people come up and tell me how well done it was. I couldn't have done it better. Thanks for your help''- Marilyn, Canada

Nonetheless, not every mother could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.

So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.

Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.

So, please take advantage of it now even if your daughter’s big day is in the future.

Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video and your son and daughter-in-law and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.  

So, please take advantage of it now even if your daughter’s big day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.   

Moms idea

Oh Ok, How Then Do I Get Started Since I Want To Get On Board Right Away?

Ok, here’s how it works

All you have to do RIGHT NOW is to click on this link to receive an easy-to-fill-in questionnaire via email. Check your email a few hours after you’ve submitted your request.

So,

1)CLICK HERE  NOW TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT THIS QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind!

  1. After that, we will send you a very short questionnaire to fill out via email! You only have to check your email a few hours after you have made your request
  1. Then, you fill out the questionnaire sent through your email, and please have it sent back to us…
  1. We will confirm receipt of it…If something is not too clear, we will ask you to clarify….
  1. If not, we will send you a wonderful draft in a couple of hours if this on very short notice….If not, after a few days
  1. Then, you look it over and tell us if you are okay with it or you want to amend it till you are happy with it--although we always get it right even with the first draft.
  2. Then, we ask you to shell out your cash for it. It's as simple as that!

Satisfaction guaranteed for mother of the groom

Just a reminder of what you pay after it’s duly completed.

Ok, I am Interested, What’s the Cost?

You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.

Why? As you know, the current health crisis has caused severe hardships for most people.

Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.

Yet, some sons are still getting married and asking their moms to give speeches.

''It was perfect Dan.  I changed a few things in the speech. And I had several people come up and tell me how well done it was. I couldn't have done it better. Thanks for your help''- Marilyn, Canada

Nonetheless, not every mother could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.

So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.

Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.

So, please take advantage of it now even if your son’s big day is in the future.

Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video and your son and daughter-in-law and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.  

So, please take advantage of it now even if your son’s big day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.   

Please note: Your speech draft comes with a proven and simple tip to master your speech or remember your speech just as you want it without carrying a paper with you.

Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise, and clarity!

''Hi Dan,

The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice).  Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.

All the best,

Matt''

Please note: Don’t fill out this form if you’re a dishonest individual. This offer is for a limited time.

So, CLICK HERE TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT A QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind and not lose money. The risk is on us!

You don't have to worry about paying our per speech for now.

Forget about money and let’s write something for you. We believe in the values of honesty and integrity and we think you should be happy with our work first.

So, Here Are The Benefits You Get When You Get On Board!

  • A great speech written by our wedding speech consultants that reflects what you want to say exactly
  • We coach you on how to use your voice to make your speech very exciting.
  • We show you a simple but often overlook strategy to rehearse your speech even if you have a very poor memory. This method is used by great speakers like Obama and was used by Abraham Lincoln and his compatriots
  • The most effective way to get your entire speech into your head without memorizing your speech. Guaranteed to help you even if you have a very poor memory or your memory is like a gold fish…most of our clients still wonder where we got this idea from. This ensures that you don't read off a sheet of paper...

Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise, and clarity!

''Hi Dan,

The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice).  Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.

All the best,

Matt''

  • Ways to include humor in your speech and what it takes to do so

So, CLICK HERE TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT A QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind and not lose money. The risk is on us!

Remember, you have to see your speech first before you pay. So, you can relax and let us sweat it out at our expense!

 

Now, Let The Pros Help You With Your Speech...How? Just Scroll Down This Page

Dear Anxious Mom,

I am Christie...

I know you are dreaming of giving a very beautiful and heartfelt wedding speech.

 

Granted, it’s not so easy to write a great one let alone face a terrifying audience.

 

Like you, I badly wanted to give a great speech that will make my son proud and show him and the guests how much I really love him.

 

But, juggling work and family meant I had little time to spare.

 

Plus I was obsessed with writing a beautiful speech yet finding the right words was like pulling out a child’s tooth.

 

I Was Feeling Completely Helpless

I knew the audience wanted me to do my very best because I was well known for my speaking abilities.

But, I couldn’t put my thoughts together in a very compelling way.

 

That was a bit puzzling because I had given so many speeches.

But, I never knew wedding speeches were very different.

I spent countless hours, sometimes deep into the night, but things didn’t work out as I had hoped for.

 

Thank God!  This Helped Me Out!

 

Prior to the wedding of my first son in 2015,  I was so nervous that I just couldn’t figure out how to write a very meaningful speech, and that’s when I began to seek someone to help me so I could have my peace of mind.

 

In the process, I stumbled on this page you are currently on and I was skeptical when Dan and his team said they could help give a great wedding speech even if I hated speaking in public.

 

Well, I took a leap of faith when I found that I didn’t have to pay first to get my speech and that allayed my fears.

 

Quickly, I got started by first filling out this form as I really wanted to make a difference this time.

Dan and his team delivered what they promised and they even gave me tips on how to speak well which helped a lot.

 

When I was called to deliver my speech,  I spoke with poise, flair, and confidence and got so many compliments!!!!

My son was proud of me and someone said to me that I was an inspiration.

Dan and his guys asked me how my speech went afterward and this was the note I sent them.

Please see the image below

 

Mother of the groom speech ideas

Dear Loving Mom,

I am Dan and I run this blog.

Believe it or not, Christine came back when her last son was getting married in 2018 and this is the email we got from her.

Mom of the groom

Christine, is not the only one we’ve helped.

 

There are so many others as well. So, your case is not hopeless. We can help you just as we helped others. Wedding not too far away? Or happening in less than 24 hours? Trust me, we can deliver! it doesn’t matter if your speech is today, tomorrow, next week, next month ,next year,... we can make things work for you  

 

Listen, all these persons you have just listened to are mere mortals like you and me and many were scared to death about this whole wedding speech thing.

 

But they all decided to take action by asking our wedding speech consultants to help them give incredible wedding speeches and we didn’t let them down.

 

Your son’s wedding is a very special event and you-his dad should not let him down in any way else he will regret asking you to give a wedding speech.

 

That’s why we are here to help you give a wedding speech that will blow everyone away-even if you are an experienced speaker or you just hate speaking before an audience.

 

Want to get on board? You should!

Ok, Is This Offer For Me?

  • Yes, if you are expecting nothing less than a very special, beautiful, unique, and memorable speech.

 

  • Don’t have much time to write a perfect speech just as you want it because of work demands and other life's pressure or even sick? Then, let’s take care of it and the guests will definitely sing your praises--we have done it for so many others and it's your turn now!

 

  • Yes, if you are overwhelmed by the pressures of work and don’t have the time to put together a very meaningful speech, so you can have peace of mind

 

  • Yes, if you want your family, children, friends, and wedding guests to shower you with very sincere compliments…just imagine how you will feel

 

  • Yes, if you are not good with words and you feel you’re not a natural writer and you are struggling to find the right words but still want to give a great speech.

 

  • Yes, you get so scared anytime you’re asked to say something before an audience and you really want to save yourself from any form of embarrassment on your son’s big day.

 

  • Yes, if you are not too eloquent or not too sure if you are on the right track.

 

  • Yes, if you absolutely hate speaking in public or feel this is not your thing but you want to make your son feel very proud

 

  • Yes, if you have a day or less to the wedding and you are worried that you might make some horrible mistakes

 

  • Yes, if you are a good speaker but you still want someone to look over or review what you've come up with!

Just imagine leaving your entire presentation in the hands of skilled wedding speech consultants who will take away your pain of spending hours thinking hard and long about what to say and what not to say.


Also, envision being patiently guided to say something that will leave a favorable impression on the mind of your listeners.


And also imagine the thrill and feeling of excitement and pride you’re going to experience when the audience leap onto their feet and scream and shouts and even sing your praises.


Won’t you love that? I hope you do...

Wedding not too far away? Or happening in less than 24 hours? Trust me, we can deliver! it doesn’t matter if your speech is today, tomorrow, next week, next month, next year,... we can make things work for you  

 

Ok, I am Interested, What’s the Cost?

 

You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.

Why? As you know, the current health crisis has caused severe hardships for most people.

Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.

Yet, some sons are still getting married and asking their moms to give speeches.

''It was perfect Dan.  I changed a few things in the speech. And I had several people come up and tell me how well done it was. I couldn't have done it better. Thanks for your help''- Marilyn, Canada

Nonetheless, not every mother could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.

So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.

Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.

So, please take advantage of it now even if your son’s big day is in the future.

Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video and your son and daughter-in-law and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.  

So, please take advantage of it now even if your son’s big day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.   

Please note: Your speech draft comes with a proven and simple tip to master your speech or remember your speech just as you want it without carrying a paper with you.

Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise, and clarity!

''Hi Dan,

The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice).  Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.

All the best,

Matt''

Please note: Don’t fill out this form if you’re a dishonest individual. This offer is for a limited time.

So, CLICK HERE TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT A QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind and not lose money. The risk is on us!

You don't have to worry about paying our per speech for now.

Forget about money and let’s write something for you. We believe in the values of honesty and integrity and we think you should be happy with our work first.

So, Here Are The Benefits You Get When You Get On Board!

  • A great speech written by our wedding speech consultants that reflects what you want to say exactly
  • We coach you on how to use your voice to make your speech very exciting.
  • We show you a simple but often overlook strategy to rehearse your speech even if you have a very poor memory. This method is used by great speakers like Obama and was used by Abraham Lincoln and his compatriots
  • The most effective way to get your entire speech into your head without memorizing your speech. Guaranteed to help you even if you have a very poor memory or your memory is like a gold fish…most of our clients still wonder where we got this idea from. This ensures that you don't read off a sheet of paper...

Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise, and clarity!

''Hi Dan,

The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice).  Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.

All the best,

Matt''

  • Ways to include humor in your speech and what it takes to do so

So, CLICK HERE TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT A QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind and not lose money. The risk is on us!

Remember, you have to see your speech first before you pay. So, you can relax and let us sweat it out at our expense!

 

Mother Of The Groom Speeches Examples And Success Stories

M6 (1)

Amazing Story Of How An Extremely Nervous (Probably More Nervous Than You Are)

Mom Gave The Best Speech Ever…Got A Standing Ovation Even… Though She Didn’t Have The Skills To Write A Beautiful Speech…And Had Never Given A Wedding Speech Before!

And how you can do the same!

 

Dear Worried Mom,

I am Anabela from Canada.

I know how you’re feeling. I know it’s not easy to stand before a crowd to write a great mother of the groom's speech or even give a great speech.

But I think you can make it because I did just that not too long ago despite my worries and pains.

 

What Would You Have Done?

 

Growing up, I dreamed of marrying the perfect guy. Well, when I met Dan, I thought it was a dream come true. All was set for our marriage and I was on cloud nine.

 

A week before our wedding, I almost gave up the ghost. Dan wrote to tell me that he couldn’t marry me anymore because he felt I might not be a good wife!

 

I freaked out on reading that note and found myself in hospital for almost 3 months. I was emotionally wounded.

Mother of the groom wedding toast

I wondered how on earth Dan whom I loved with every fiber of my being leave me at the altar.

Besides, we both had a son and I wondered what was really going on. I was totally devastated!

I remember tearing up countless times at night and hoping that Dan would perhaps change his mind and come back for me. But, that was just a mere wish. To make matters worse, I was laid off due to a major shake-up while in the hospital.

 

Hell Breaks Loose!

 

With myself to feed, a son to take care of, and other bills piling up, I wondered if I would ever live a meaningful life.

My rent was 3 months late and the landlord threw me out. So, I went to live with my parents in the country.

I tried to keep in touch with Dan for support for our son but I just couldn’t get in touch with him. Things were really tough.

I didn’t understand why I had to go through all that though everyone told me that I was not only beautiful but very virtuous.

 

Things Start To Take Shape

 

A few years down the road, I got over my trauma and got my life back. I did a few odd jobs over time and save some money to start my own business from my parent’s basement.

 

Things didn’t fly so quickly as I thought but through perseverance and hard work coupled with my faith in God, I opened two bakeries in about three years.

 

Though I had given up hopes of marrying my dream guy; God gave me another chance. I got married to Jesse, a kind and loving man who helped a lot in my business expansion.

We were doing so well.

 

My son, Mike became a police officer and found the lady of her dreams. When Mike brought Amanda home, I had this feeling that he had found a great soul mate. They told me of their plans to get married and I encouraged them to do so.

 

Why Me Mike?

 

With a few weeks left for my son’s wedding, Mike asked me to give a mother of the groom wedding speech that will totally capture all that we had gone through as a family.

I wondered how I was going to do that since I had never written a speech before and didn’t even know how to speak in public.

Just like you, I wanted to impress not only my son but make everyone proud and tell our story in a unique way.

But, I didn’t know how until I met a friend who helped me to put down my exact thoughts and emotions into very beautiful words.

On the day of the wedding, I was nervous when I was called up to speak. The room was dead silent when I grabbed the microphone.

 

What should the mother of the groom say

 

I Almost Fainted

 

My heart began to pound like crazy and my voice grew rather raspy. I breathed out loudly and I could see Jesse and Mike looking so scared! My breathing out helped calmed me down and so I began:

 

''The true measure of a man it is said is where he stands in the times of hardship and tribulation and not in the times of comfort and ease.’’ Well, I must say Mike is one of the greatest men on earth because right from the very time he was young, his spirit was crushed but he stood firm like a house built on a firm ground…''

 

As I said those words, people cast surprising glances at one another. Friends and relatives knew that I had a memory like a goldfish and I was very shy. So, they were a little surprised.

 

Then I continued...

 

'' Mike, when you were born, I had a dream to love you, care for you, and help you become a loving son.

When you were born, I felt like a princess when you were handed to me. I remember waking up several times at night to cuddle you and kiss your forehead.

You’d smile like a young prince as I gazed at your sparkling blue eyes and prayed that my dreams come to pass.

 

Growing up, my dreams were shattered when we fell into hard times. My spirit was crushed and I thought we would never live to see this day.

Several nights, I’ d sob like a baby but you would come back from playing outside and come over to tell me that our grief was a story to inspire our world someday. So, I shouldn’t ever give up.

 

You’d hold my hand, wipe my tears with the back of your other hand and tell me that you were always going to be there for me.

 

You were just 12 when you told me that. The years had come and gone so fast. We have been through it all. The pain. The agony. Just name them.

Today, I can only look back and see what the power of hope, love, and faith in God can do in our lives even when we are confronted with intense pain and suffering.

You’re a priceless gift Mike.

 

You gave me the strength to carry on and I know you are going to be Amanda’s tower of strength.

 

Amanda, you are really blessed to have him and I know you both love each other like your own soul….

 

Nevertheless, there will be both rough and calm waters to cross and I know true love will triumph because love is the currency that makes every marriage what it is.

 

You must never lie or cheat. If you are going to lie, you must lie down in each other’s bosom. And if you must cheat, you must cheat those things that are likely to take away your intimacy and joy…''

 

M5

 

When I was done, the guests leaped onto their feet and gave me a standing ovation!

 

I couldn’t believe I had made it. People complimented me and Mike and Amanda came to hug me. They were in tears. My parents, Mike’s dad Dan, and my friends were so impressed! And I would never ever forget that day.

 

Mom of the groom speech

 

Can You Write A Speech Like That And Make The Same Impact?

 

Let me ask you once again: Can you really craft a short beautiful mother of the groom's speech as I did? Yes, you can. Wondering how to do just that?

 

This Helped Me Get That Standing Ovation!

 

The wedding speech specialists at Standing Ovation Wedding Speeches helped me put my ideas together and this is the email I sent them after the wedding bells had stopped ringing.

Wed
Hi Nervous Mom

 

This is Dan, here at Standing Ovation Wedding Speeches.

Graca is not alone. Several others have been able to do give very beautiful speeches despite their speech worries and I am happy to share with you what they told us after the wedding.

Christine from Australia on the other hand spent sleepless nights prior to his son’s wedding. His son had really impacted the family in so many ways and she wanted to say something that would truly capture that deed but she was scared.

 But see what she told us after the wedding

Mother of the groom speech ideas

 

 

This Secret Made All The Difference For Those Speakers And You Should Follow It Too If You Really Want To Make Yourself Proud

 

Listen up: All these persons you have just listened to are just mere mortals like you and me and many of them were scared to death about this whole thing.

But they all had a secret they didn’t tell anyone in the audience. And I am here to let you in on what they did to achieve their ‘’speaking dreams’’

Guess what they did?

 

The Cat Is Out Of The Bag Now

 

Each of those persons enrolled in our easy to follow, not time-consuming wedding speech program designed to help loving moms like you be the speaker, the audience will love to listen to and stand to give you a standing ovation after your speech is over.

 

You’ll agree with me that most of the speeches you often hear at most weddings are very boring.

 

Your son’s wedding is a very special event and so you can’t afford to let him down and feel any tinge of embarrassment at all.  That’s why we are here to help you make your speech very unique!

 

Ok, Is This Offer For Me?

  • Yes, if you are expecting nothing less than a very special, beautiful, unique and memorable speech.

 

  • Don’t have much time to write a perfect speech just as you want it because of work demands and other life's pressure or even sick? Then, let’s take care of it and the guests will definitely sing your praises--we have done it for so many others and it's your turn now!

 

  • Yes, if you are overwhelmed by the pressures of work and don’t have the time to put together a very meaningful speech, so you can have your peace of mind

 

  • Yes, if you want your family, your son, friends, and wedding guests to shower you with very sincere compliments…just imagine how you will feel

 

  • Yes, if you are not good with words and you feel you’re not a natural writer and you are struggling to find the right words but still want to give a great speech.

 

  • Yes, you get so scared anytime you’re asked to say something before an audience and you really want to save yourself from any form of embarrassment on your son's big day.

 

  • Yes, if you are not too eloquent or not too sure if you are on the right track.

 

  • Yes, if you absolutely hate speaking in public or feel this is not your thing but you want to make your son feel very proud

 

  • Yes, if you have a day or less to the wedding and you are worried that you might make some horrible mistakes

 

  • Yes, if you are a good speaker but you still want someone to look over or review what you've come up with!

 

Just imagine leaving your entire presentation in the hands of skilled wedding speech consultants who will take away your pain of spending hours thinking hard and long about what to say and what not to say.


Also, envision being patiently guided to say something that will leave a favorable impression on the mind of your listeners.


And also imagine the thrill and feeling of excitement and pride you’re going to experience when the audience leap onto their feet and scream and shouts and even sing your praises.


Won’t you love that? I hope you do...

Wedding not too far away? Or happening in less than 24 hours? Trust me, we can deliver! it doesn’t matter if your speech is today, tomorrow, next week, next month, next year,... we can make things work for you  

 

Ok, I am Interested, What’s the Cost?

You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.

Why? As you know, the current health crisis has caused severe hardships for most people.

Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.

Yet, some sons are still getting married and asking their moms to give speeches.

''It was perfect Dan.  I changed a few things in the speech. And I had several people come up and tell me how well done it was. I couldn't have done it better. Thanks for your help''- Marilyn, Canada

Nonetheless, not every mother could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.

So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.

Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.

So, please take advantage of it now even if your son’s big day is in the future.

Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video and your son and daughter-in-law and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.  

So, please take advantage of it now even if your son’s big day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.   

Please note: Your speech draft comes with a proven and simple tip to master your speech or remember your speech just as you want it without carrying a paper with you.

Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise, and clarity!

''Hi Dan,

The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice).  Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.

All the best,

Matt''

Please note: Don’t fill out this form if you’re a dishonest individual. This offer is for a limited time.

So, CLICK HERE TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT A QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind and not lose money. The risk is on us!

You don't have to worry about paying our per speech for now.

Forget about money and let’s write something for you. We believe in the values of honesty and integrity and we think you should be happy with our work first.

So, Here Are The Benefits You Get When You Get On Board!

  • A great speech written by our wedding speech consultants that reflects what you want to say exactly
  • We coach you on how to use your voice to make your speech very exciting.
  • We show you a simple but often overlook strategy to rehearse your speech even if you have a very poor memory. This method is used by great speakers like Obama and was used by Abraham Lincoln and his compatriots
  • The most effective way to get your entire speech into your head without memorizing your speech. Guaranteed to help you even if you have a very poor memory or your memory is like a gold fish…most of our clients still wonder where we got this idea from. This ensures that you don't read off a sheet of paper...

Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise, and clarity!

''Hi Dan,

The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice).  Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.

All the best,

Matt''

  • Ways to include humor in your speech and what it takes to do so

So, CLICK HERE TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT A QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind and not lose money. The risk is on us!

Remember, you have to see your speech first before you pay. So, you can relax and let us sweat it out at our expense!

 

 


Short Mother of The Groom Speech Tips And Ideas

How To Effortlessly Get The Right Words And Ideas That Will Help You Write A Short And Sweet Mother Of The Groom Speech!

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Believe it or not, giving a very beautiful speech that will get you lots of compliments and make you respected and admired is not really hard.

 

 

The truth of the matter is that giving a speech many would describe as beautiful depends on the presentation skills of the mother who has to speak.

 

                        Mother of the groom speeches very short

 

It’s not always a matter of putting together the good words. You can write a not too great wedding speech but if you know how to entertain the wedding guests, then you will be the star of the show.

 

Never ever forget that.

 


There was this time we helped a certain mom give the best speech even though the information she gave me was rather uninspiring and scanty and I remember thinking how on earth are we going to help her achieve her speaking goals.

 

Obviously, she was not the detailed type and it was just left with a few days to the wedding, so we could understand her plight.


But that didn’t deter us.

 

We wrote for her a few lines and asked her to dramatize certain parts of her speech and that helped her give one of the best speeches at her son’s wedding.

 

To write a unique and memorable speech, you have to get the right words and ideas to help you put down your exact thoughts and emotions into beautiful words.

 

I know you might be wondering how to do that fast and easy because you’re probably not a writer.

 

You really don’t have to be a writer to come up with the good words, but you have to know how to get the right words and ideas and use them to say what’s on your heart.

 

 

How To Get The Right Words

Thanks to the following ideas, finding the right words should be a breeze. 

 


Put Down Any Funny Incident That Comes To Mind


Do you recall the last time you really had a good laugh? What made you giggle?
Can you guess what that was? Did the person crack a joke? Or did that person tell a funny story?

 

Pause for a moment and reflect on what the person said or did to tickle your laughing rib: it could have been at your workplace, during childhood, at birthday parties or weddings, or at school, and so on.

 

You just have to walk down memory lane to get them. They’re tucked up there in your brain.

 

Just sit still and put down memories you have accumulated of your son growing up or mom-son experiences you remember.

 

Jot down as many ideas that come to you as they will help you refine your speech. Don’t mind if tens of thousands of such reflections hit your brain, you’ve got to write them down because you never know which of those thoughts will help you compose your message in the long run.

 

You can write down events like:

  • The day he was born and how you felt…don’t dwell on the negatives
  • How the early years were like
  • How he was like when he was a toddler and several others

 


Funny Quotes Can Help You

Besides adding anecdotes, you can also work with quotes.

You can read as many quotes as you like.

You shouldn’t read only those quotes that are only based on love but quotes on a wide range of issues.

 

The mind has a funny way of gleaning insights from quotations that are not even connected with the themes of marriage and love.

 

I consult them a lot when I am writing speeches for my clients because they really inspire me to come up with new ideas, particularly when I am stuck in the writing process.

                                                       Wedding speeches for mom

Now, let’s look at a few of them and how we can use some of those quotes to write.

''Marriage has no guarantees. If that’s what you’re looking
for, go live with a car battery''- Emma Bombeck

 

''Love is a fire. But whether it is going to warm your heart
or burn down your house you can never tell''-Joan Crawford

 

"You come to love not by finding the perfect person, but by
learning to see an imperfect person perfectly." - Sam Keen

 

''Marriage is like a public toilet; those waiting outside are desperate to
get in and those inside are desperate to come out.''- Unknown

 

''Marriage is like a toothache. The only difference is that if you visit the
the dentist or try pulling out your own teeth you might end up pulling the whole thing out''

 

''Daughters are like flowers, they fill the world with beauty, and
sometimes attract pests.''-Unknown

 

''Your daughter is the wealthiest woman if her husband listens to her''-Jean Daniel

 

''The father of a daughter is nothing but a high-class hostage. A father turns a stony face to his sons, berates them, shakes his antlers, paw the ground, snorts, runs, runs them off into the underbrush, but when his daughter puts her arm over his shoulder and says. Daddy, I need to ask you something,’’ he is a pat of butter in a hot frying pan. ''-Gregory Keillor

 

Please note: These are quotations by various authors and other celebrities. You don’t have to use them as you see. But you can extract something from it by rephrasing them as I said.

 

Take this example ''Marriage is like a toothache ''

Let’s see how to be creative with that quote.

 

Example 1

Tim, I can see you are feeling so excited and that really warms my heart but as you and I have experienced over the years, you both will go through your own rough patches and that will make you feel as though you’re pulling your own tooth out.

 

Know that such difficult times won’t last.  They are meant to test your vows but
you will be on the losing side if you fight the battles of life alone but you will win if you fight those battles with your wife since two united hearts can overcome all trials.

 

I hope you got the picture? Did you notice how we used that we worked that underlined word or quote into the short example?

 

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Use Jokes

 

If you’re going to use jokes or stories, make sure they’re connected to the theme of your speech.

Don’t use them if they are not very funny else there will be no impact at all.

 

That reminds me of a time I wrote a speech for a woman who said her child wasn’t good looking at birth but still want to include that story despite my objections.

 

The moral? Any joke you use shouldn’t embarrass the groom or couple…

 

Well, I listened to her and came up with a very creative way to present that and she told me that was the main highlight of her mom of the groom's wedding speech.

 


Watch Mother Of The Groom Speech Videos For Ideas

Just look up  ''mother wedding speeches videos'' in the search engines and see hundreds pop up.

 

Now, sit back, watch a few and write down any expression that makes you laugh or smile and see if you can make it part of your speech.

By the way, you can hit the play button in this beautiful video as it will inspire you to come up with good ones.

Sometimes, you don’t have to restrict yourself to mother's speech videos, you can go for the father of the groom, bride, groom, father of the bride, and so on and you will find lots of ideas to help you write.  

What should you include in your mother of the groom speech

 

Watch Wedding Movies Or Use Wedding Movie Quotes


Phrases and expressions in wedding movies too can help a lot. Please make sure you make time to watch them.   

Once again, any idea that pops up in your head should be creatively used to make your speech unique.

 

 

Here are a few quotes from movies you can use.

  1. “The greatest thing you’ll ever learn is just to love, and be loved in return.” ~ Moulin Rouge
  2. “When you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody, you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible.” ~ When Harry Met Sally
  3. “I wanted it to be you, I wanted it to be you so badly.” ~ You’ve Got Mail
  4. “Here’s looking at you kid.” ~ Casablanca
  5. “I vow to fiercely love you in all your forms, now and forever. I promise to never forget that this is a once in a lifetime love.” ~ The Vow
  6. “They say when you meet the love of your life, time stops, and that’s true.” ~ Big Fish 
  7. “Life is not the amount of breaths you take; it’s the moments that take your breath away.” ~ Hitch 

 

Suppose you want to use any of these to write a few memorable lines, this is how I would go about it:

I love quote 1: “The greatest thing you’ll ever learn is just to love, and be loved in return.” ~ Moulin Rouge

 

Mark, the greatest thing you will ever learn is to love Amanda and be loved in return...That will bring out the best in you and help you live a happier life…

 

Use Similes And Metaphors To Your Best Advantage


The use of similes and metaphors play a crucial role in the writing and giving of
great wedding speeches.

Have you ever read a book where the writer described the characters or scene so
well that you could see the characters moving here and there in your mind?
If you have, then it’s because these ''identical twins-similes and metaphors''
might have been used.


For instance, let’s see how we can transform the following sentences into
something entertaining using both similes and metaphors.


An Example: When I met her for the first time, I was pleasantly electrified
There’s nothing wrong with that.

 

But we can add some power to it by changing it  to:

When I met Grace, my daughter- in -law for the first time, her grace,
beauty, and humility fell on me like the first rain of spring. This sounds funny but Mark tells me that when she met her for the first time, he felt like an electric current running throughout his body…

 

Noticed any difference when we inject it with a simile?

How about this example?

 

I could see from the contented look in my son’s eye that he was deeply in love when she brought her home.  And I remember Mark telling me that when Anita thought he heard bells as if it were a garbage truck backing up.

I think by now you can write something meaningful out of similes right?

Take twenty minutes no longer than that to write something using similes. Can you try? I’m waitiiiiiiiiiiiing. Ok. STOP WORK! TIME IS UP!

Did you begin with ''When I spoke with Anita for the first time......'' or  ''anytime
two persons are in love......''

 

If you started with any of these and more...congratulations! You’re a great woman! You’re not done yet though!

For these literary to achieve the desired effect, you should connect it to the theme of your speech and it should be something the guests can relate to.

 

Here are a few similes and metaphors you can use to spiff up your presentation.

As bald as a newborn babe-Anonymous

As supportive as a good recline-Anonymous
She was as stiff and unyielding as a lawn chair-Anonymous

Sweet as the last smile of sunset.—Edwin Arnold
Sweet as the voice of a mountain brook—Arthur Simons

What about telling your son and the wedding guests about her (your daughter-in-law) character?

 

Let’s look at this example

I have found Anita to be stiff and unyielding as a lawn chair and this is the part of her I wish I had. She’s very caring. The last time Mike fell sick for a month she very supportive like a sturdy good recliner...

Mike, I want to tell you that you have not found a woman you really love but someone who fits you like a glove. 


Words for your mother of the groom speech

 

P.S If you really love your son with every fiber of your being, then giving a great mom speech is one sure way of showing the wedding guests how proud you are of him.

And I think you owe it to your loving son to come up with one.

That’s why you have to get on board our wedding speech program.

Claire was nervous and very skeptical when she also saw this message but her story changed completely when she took action. And see what she sent over after her son's wedding was over!

'' Hello Dan, their wedding went very well. The usual stress beforehand for the couple organizing the event but all things to do went so smoothly. I also like to say that I'm so proud of my speech, almost got a standing ovation, lol! I'm so glad I've found you. I definitely recommend you to my friends and family in future weddings. I wish you the very best.''-  Claire, New Zealand

Want to achieve that same success too? Yes, it's possible when you get on board now!

Ok, Is This Offer For Me?

  • Yes, if you are expecting nothing less than a very special, beautiful, unique and memorable speech.

 

  • Don’t have much time to write a perfect speech just as you want it because of work demands and other life's pressure or even sick? Then, let’s take care of it and the guests will definitely sing your praises--we have done it for so many others and it's your turn now!

 

  • Yes, if you are overwhelmed by the pressures of work and don’t have the time to put together a very meaningful speech, so you can have your peace of mind

 

  • Yes, if you want your family, your son, friends, and wedding guests to shower you with very sincere compliments…just imagine how you will feel

 

  • Yes, if you are not good with words and you feel you’re not a natural writer and you are struggling to find the right words but still want to give a great speech.

 

  • Yes, you get so scared anytime you’re asked to say something before an audience and you really want to save yourself from any form of embarrassment on your son's big day.

 

  • Yes, if you are not too eloquent or not too sure if you are on the right track.

 

  • Yes, if you absolutely hate speaking in public or feel this is not your thing but you want to make your son feel very proud

 

  • Yes, if you have a day or less to the wedding and you are worried that you might make some horrible mistakes

 

  • Yes, if you are a good speaker but you still want someone to look over or review what you've come up with!

 

Just imagine leaving your entire presentation in the hands of skilled wedding speech consultants who will take away your pain of spending hours thinking hard and long about what to say and what not to say.


Also, envision being patiently guided to say something that will leave a favorable impression on the mind of your listeners.


And also imagine the thrill and feeling of excitement and pride you’re going to experience when the audience leap onto their feet and scream and shouts and even sing your praises.


Won’t you love that? I hope you do...

Wedding not too far away? Or happening in less than 24 hours? Trust me, we can deliver! it doesn’t matter if your speech is today, tomorrow, next week, next month, next year,... we can make things work for you  

 

Ok, I am Interested, What’s the Cost?

You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.

Why? As you know, the current health crisis has caused severe hardships for most people.

Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.

Yet, some sons are still getting married and asking their moms to give speeches.

''It was perfect Dan.  I changed a few things in the speech. And I had several people come up and tell me how well done it was. I couldn't have done it better. Thanks for your help''- Marilyn, Canada

Nonetheless, not every mother could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.

So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.

Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.

So, please take advantage of it now even if your son’s big day is in the future.

Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video and your son and daughter-in-law and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.  

So, please take advantage of it now even if your son’s big day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.   

Please note: Your speech draft comes with a proven and simple tip to master your speech or remember your speech just as you want it without carrying a paper with you.

Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise, and clarity!

''Hi Dan,

The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice).  Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.

All the best,

Matt''

Please note: Don’t fill out this form if you’re a dishonest individual. This offer is for a limited time.

So, CLICK HERE TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT A QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind and not lose money. The risk is on us!

You don't have to worry about paying our per speech for now.

Forget about money and let’s write something for you. We believe in the values of honesty and integrity and we think you should be happy with our work first.

So, Here Are The Benefits You Get When You Get On Board!

  • A great speech written by our wedding speech consultants that reflects what you want to say exactly
  • We coach you on how to use your voice to make your speech very exciting.
  • We show you a simple but often overlook strategy to rehearse your speech even if you have a very poor memory. This method is used by great speakers like Obama and was used by Abraham Lincoln and his compatriots
  • The most effective way to get your entire speech into your head without memorizing your speech. Guaranteed to help you even if you have a very poor memory or your memory is like a gold fish…most of our clients still wonder where we got this idea from. This ensures that you don't read off a sheet of paper...

Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise, and clarity!

''Hi Dan,

The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice).  Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.

All the best,

Matt''

  • Ways to include humor in your speech and what it takes to do so

So, CLICK HERE TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT A QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind and not lose money. The risk is on us!

Remember, you have to see your speech first before you pay. So, you can relax and let us sweat it out at our expense!

 

Mother Of The Groom Speech Samples: Can you write a mother of the groom speech example like this one too?

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My heart aches anytime someone reaches out to us asking for help concerning their wedding speeches.                                      
                                                           Groom mom short speech


Though we get quite overwhelmed by such a demand, we really have no choice than to help such persons-since we started this blog with the goal of helping wedding speech givers give beautiful mother of the groom wedding speeches.


Notwithstanding, there are times many mothers come to us when they have 24 hours or less to their son’s wedding.


Whenever that happens, it puts undue stress on us to give such mothers our very best.

 

But, I don’t really like these late-comers because they don’t give us the opportunity to fully prepare them for their son’s big day. I’d send them a note after the wedding to ask them how they fared and I don’t hear anything from them at all most of the time.

 


Well, just this morning a late-comer made us happy when she

 

 

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Mother of the groom speech sample: Mistakes many mothers make when using mother of the groom speech examples and how to turn things around for good so you can give the best speech ever

 

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Investing in mother of the groom samples examples) is a wise decision a mother who really cares about the words she will use at her son’s wedding ceremony would ever make.  Why?  Wedding speeches for mother of the groom

                   

That’s because proven mother speech examples can help you come up with a memorable presentation in less time without worrying so much about how to write your speech.

 


Granted, you need to know how to fully maximize them without copying the examples you’d find exactly since they are in another speaker’s voice and style.

 

The material should help you write your speech and so it should be used as a guide instead.

 

The Right Way To Use Speech Examples To Write A Great Speech

 

In order to get the best out of them, you should dedicate some time to study how the example you've got was written. The purpose of doing this is to get the contents into your subconscious mind.

 

If you don’t have one, don’t worry because you can watch videos like the one below to get some ideas and phrases you can use for your own speech.

 

 

The purpose of reading speech samples over and over again or re-watching that clip is to get acquainted with how mother speeches are given so they kind of get ingrained in your subconscious mind.

 

When the content is firmly implanted there, your brain will process it and show you how to go about things when you eventually start to put your scattered thoughts together to form a very logical and coherent presentation.

 

What should you include in your mother of the groom speech

 

By the way, you should dedicate time to studying it at a time you won’t be distracted because you need to concentrate to glean ideas from it.

As you do that, get a pen or a highlighter and note pads so you can take some notes.

 

Put These Things Away


Turn off distractors like your cell phones, P.C, etc because they are likely to distract you. You will accomplish more in a quiet set up.


The first thing to look out for is the choice of words. You will notice that the speech sample you have in front of you has simple words. So you should avoid using big vocabulary else you will bore the audience.


Another thing to take into consideration is style. It’s a costly mistake to ‘steal’ the style of the material before your eyes.

You don’t have to do that. You should write in your own voice as it’s the only way the audience will enjoy your mother of the groom's speech ''like their favorite meals.''

 

Dramatic, funny, sentimental, and storytelling are styles you can pick from. But most moms prefer a combo: sentimental and funny. Whatever style you choose should be something you’re very comfortable with.

 


Speech samples help you write your speech in a unique way and it also makes your message heartfelt and memorable.

 

I was at a friend's wedding and I noticed this one thing about the M.C. He did well by coordinating the program brilliantly.

 

But when he began to say something about the couple, the guests had different things on their minds and were obviously not paying attention to him.


This guy had the right message but he forgot to survey his audience. Most people in the audience couldn’t speak English.

 

Thank God, he quickly realized that and he asked someone who understood the groom’s mother tongue to join him on stage, and that helped him turn around what would have otherwise being a very boring show.

He made the couple very proud at the end of the day and he even received lots of favorable compliments.

What a day it was!

 

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Pick A Style That Suits You Best


The styles to choose from are usually sentimental, sarcastic, emotive, humorous, or a combination of two or more styles.


Next is the structure of the mother of the groom speech samples. It comes in three parts-introduction, body, and conclusion. Now, let’s see what each of these three sections constitutes.

The introduction is also known as the attention-getter. It is that part that arrests the attention of the audience.

 

Greetings, a short self –presentation (don’t take it for granted-not everyone may know who you are) as well as your relationship to the groom form part of the introduction.

Christian mother of the groom wedding speech


The body is that part that gets the audience ‘’emotionally charged’’ because they are able to relate to what you are saying. Please include the following ideas in this essential part of your speech-the body.

  • Who are you and your relationship to the groom
  • How he was like when he was younger
  • How he related to his siblings and how that inspired him
  • The funny incidents you can remember about your son when he was growing up
  • How you felt when you first saw him with your daughter-in-law.
  • Share your personal reflection on marriage


Proverbs, scriptural quotations, wisecracks, wise quotes, and so on can help you make the body very interesting and it can help you write your toast too.


How To Put Your Thoughts Together In A Logical Order


Now, let's see how to string the ideas that come to you anytime you study a speech sample.

Take a paper and divide it into three sections. Label the first part-introduction. The second portion should be called the body and part number three should be titled the toast.


Let's see how to write the opening line of our message.(I hope you haven't forgotten the components of the introduction we talked about at the onset of this article.)


Good evening ladies and gentlemen, I am Eric's mom. The family is grateful that you have come to support our son and daughter. It is every mother's prayer and wish that her son marries a lady who is an industrious wife and a caring mother.


And am proud that my son has chosen a mature, dignified, and industrious lady who will undoubtedly become the most adorable wife and mother I have ever seen. She is not only beautiful but she possesses great strength which will help this royal couple weather the storms of life.


They might wonder why I have chosen to say they are royal even though they have no ''royal blood'' in them. It's because every man and woman is a wonder of God's creation and that makes them kings and queens of his handiwork.


Honestly, writing some like this is not difficult at all. You can if you study this example critically as it can inspire you to write yours.

 

You see, this attention-getter should be connected to the body of your speech; the tidbits I shared, in the beginning, can be used to develop the crux of your dialogue.


Let's see if we can continue from where we stopped by examining how the groom was like when he was a little kid.

 

As a child, Eric was as sweet as a pie and I remember when Roger, my husband and I chased that little boy all around our neighborhood till a neighbor came out looking stern like a lioness when she heard a loud bang on her door after my son had thrown a big stone...


Congrats Eric, your choice shows you are a true gentleman. I’d like to tell you something you might not know about women.

Every woman is like ivory. Very easy to break but very expensive. So, love, cherish your wife at all times.

 


Did you see how I did that?


The toast or pieces of advice is the last thing you have to say before you take your seat and below is an example:

Alex and Marcia, you are a beautiful couple. We all wish you a long, happy life together, and may God bless you both. 

So I'd like to raise a glass to toast Alex and Marcia and their life together.

Religious mother of the groom speech for son and daughter at rehearsal dinner

Cheers!

P.S- Did you know that the wedding guests will judge you by the kind of wedding speech you’ll give? You deserve a great speech.

And so you shouldn’t let him down with just any kind of ordinary speech.

You have to come up with something memorable. Do you have it takes to make that a reality so you get a standing ovation?

Claire was nervous and very skeptical when she also saw this message but her story changed completely when she took action. And see what she sent over after her son's wedding was over!

'' Hello Dan, their wedding went very well. The usual stress beforehand for the couple organizing the event but all things to do went so smoothly. I also like to say that I'm so proud of my speech, almost got a standing ovation, lol ! I'm so glad I've found you. I definitely recommend you to my friends and family in the future weddings. I wish you the very best.''-  Claire, New Zealand

Want to achieve that same success too? Yes, it's possible when you get on board our speech program now!

OK, Is This Offer For Me?

  • Yes, if you are expecting nothing less than a very special, beautiful, unique and memorable speech.

 

  • Don’t have much time to write a perfect speech just as you want it because of work demands and other life's pressure or even sick? Then, let’s take care of it and the guests will definitely sing your praises--we have done it for so many others and it's your turn now!

 

  • Yes, if you are overwhelmed by the pressures of work and don’t have the time to put together a very meaningful speech, so you can have your peace of mind

 

  • Yes, if you want your family, your son, friends, and wedding guests to shower you with very sincere compliments…just imagine how you will feel

 

  • Yes, if you are not good with words and you feel you’re not a natural writer and you are struggling to find the right words but still want to give a great speech.

 

  • Yes, you get so scared anytime you’re asked to say something before an audience and you really want to save yourself from any form of embarrassment on your son's big day.

 

  • Yes, if you are not too eloquent or not too sure if you are on the right track.

 

  • Yes, if you absolutely hate speaking in public or feel this is not your thing but you want to make your son feel very proud

 

  • Yes, if you have a day or less to the wedding and you are worried that you might make some horrible mistakes

 

  • Yes, if you are a good speaker but you still want someone to look over or review what you've come up with!

 

Just imagine leaving your entire presentation in the hands of skilled wedding speech consultants who will take away your pain of spending hours thinking hard and long about what to say and what not to say.


Also, envision being patiently guided to say something that will leave a favorable impression on the mind of your listeners.


And also imagine the thrill and feeling of excitement and pride you’re going to experience when the audience leaps onto their feet and screams and shouts and even sing your praises.


Won’t you love that? I hope you do...

Wedding not too far away? Or happening in less than 24 hours? Trust me, we can deliver! it doesn’t matter if your speech is today, tomorrow, next week, next month, next year,... we can make things work for you  

 

Ok, I am Interested, What’s the Cost?

You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.

Why? As you know, the current health crisis has caused severe hardships for most people.

Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.

Yet, some sons are still getting married and asking their moms to give speeches.

''It was perfect Dan.  I changed a few things in the speech. And I had several people come up and tell me how well done it was. I couldn't have done it better. Thanks for your help''- Marilyn, Canada

Nonetheless, not every mother could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.

So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.

Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.

So, please take advantage of it now even if your son’s big day is in the future.

Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video and your son and daughter-in-law and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.  

So, please take advantage of it now even if your son’s big day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.   

Please note: Your speech draft comes with a proven and simple tip to master your speech or remember your speech just as you want it without carrying a paper with you.

Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise, and clarity!

''Hi Dan,

The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice).  Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.

All the best,

Matt''

Please note: Don’t fill out this form if you’re a dishonest individual. This offer is for a limited time.

So, CLICK HERE TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT A QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind and not lose money. The risk is on us!

You don't have to worry about paying our per speech for now.

Forget about money and let’s write something for you. We believe in the values of honesty and integrity and we think you should be happy with our work first.

So, Here Are The Benefits You Get When You Get On Board!

  • A great speech written by our wedding speech consultants that reflects what you want to say exactly
  • We coach you on how to use your voice to make your speech very exciting.
  • We show you a simple but often overlook strategy to rehearse your speech even if you have a very poor memory. This method is used by great speakers like Obama and was used by Abraham Lincoln and his compatriots
  • The most effective way to get your entire speech into your head without memorizing your speech. Guaranteed to help you even if you have a very poor memory or your memory is like a gold fish…most of our clients still wonder where we got this idea from. This ensures that you don't read off a sheet of paper...

Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise, and clarity!

''Hi Dan,

The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice).  Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.

All the best,

Matt''

  • Ways to include humor in your speech and what it takes to do so

So, CLICK HERE TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT A QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind and not lose money. The risk is on us!

Remember, you have to see your speech first before you pay. So, you can relax and let us sweat it out at our expense!