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Mother Of The Groom Speech: The Ultimate Guide To Writing A Great Mother Of The Groom Speech For Your Son And Daughter-In-Law

 

Writing a great mother of the groom speech is definitely a labor of love you shouldn’t take lightly. It sure can be disheartening if not downright scary when your beloved son calls you out of the blue and ask:

 

Mom, can you please do a lovely mother of the groom wedding speech on my big day? When most moms find themselves in such a desperate situation, their defenses kick in and they conclude that the best thing to do is to just say something about their sons; surmising that it’s better to say something than not say nothing at all. 

 

 

You know what? Instead of feeling so anxious like a sailor caught up in a sudden storm, you have to breathe in and out to relax your whole body and then ask yourself this simple question:

What Should A Mother Of The Groom Say In Her Speech To Her Son And Daughter-In-Law?

 

Great question! As a mother of the groom wedding speech writer, I have seen how moms read a few mother of the groom speech examples and then hastily put their thoughts and emotions together without figuring out what goes into writing one.

 

 

This very act reminds of a story where two wood cutters were hired to cut down trees on a large farmland. Thinking he was good to go, he hurriedly set out to cut out those massive trees so he could collect his wages and go back home to be his family.

The second wood chopper was about to start chopping down those trees when he remembered his grandfather’s advice to always sharpen his axe before he cut down any tree. So, he sharpened his tool for several hours on a sharpening stone and cleared the entire field before the other guy did.

 

The moral of the story: when you prepare and plan for anything, you can accomplish more in less time.

 

So, it is with writing a heartfelt mother of the groom wedding speech. You have to prepare and plan for your wedding speech and stick with that plan. That I would say is the secret recipe for success in the speechwriting world.  I am sure you might be wondering how you can do that. It’s simple.

 

Here’s what I recommend you do before you even think of writing your script. I always follow this proven plan when I need content ideas for a mother of the groom speech.

 

Before we dive deep into that, let’s look at one crippling thought that can stand in your way of success even if you feel what you have on paper is the best ever mother of the groom speech. Do you have any idea what that is? Hint: It starts with n and ends with s. If you mentioned, nervousness…

Then, congratulations, you have been inducted into the mother of the groom speech club!

 

All joking asides, let’s look at…

 

How To Calm Your Nerves So You Can Deliver Your Mother Of The Groom Speech With Clarity and Confidence.

 

While it can be an unpleasant feeling, pre-performance nervousness is not a problem in and of itself. It shows that you’re only human and is a natural response to an impending situation that indicates an unhealthy mixture of excitement and dread.

To calm your nerves, you should first reflect on these questions:

 

• Did I ever stumble over my words when I gave a speech?
• Am I naturally confident person?
• Do I lack writing skills?
• Do I stutter when speaking before a small crowd of people?

 

If you’ve ever found yourself in any of these situations, then you have to put the past behind you and work at building your self-esteem and confidence.Here are practical ideas to boosting your self-confidence.

• Get some sticky notes/post-it-notes and put these words on it:

   ''I would make my son proud with my mother of the groom speech''

 

Then, fix it on a prominent place in your home. This simple but proven goal-setting exercise is a as a constant reminder that you have an obligation to do your very best on his big day. Besides, it will help you overcome procrastination.

 

• Learn to change your mindset. The difference between those whose excel behind the microphone and those who don’t has to do with perceptions and reality. The perception is that writing a mother of the groom speech is a hard thing to do and the reality that it’s indeed a very a hard thing to do if you don’t know how to get your idea off the ground.

 

• Learn to be a self-confident person….I repeat….learn to be a self-confident person because it’s a learned skill. Before you throw a stone at me, let’s consider this scenario.

If you are comfortable behind a steering wheel, then you won’t feel nervous driving a car, right?  Likewise, you won’t feel jittery if you are a good cook in the kitchen.

 

It stands then to reason that you are on the edge because you don’t have excellent writing and speaking skills. Isn’t that the case? What that means is that you need to seek help. Once you seek help, you would be taking small but sure steps to becoming a good mother of the speech writer and speaker.

 

Ok…Let’s look at how to do just that. It all comes back to having a plan and following through on that plan. Your writing can be a breeze if you follow like this simple plan:

 

 

First, start with the end in mind. What do I exactly mean by this? Start by looking up ideas about how to write a touching mother of the groom speech. 

 

Here are some cool ways to dig up the right facts. 

If you have ever delivered a mother of the groom speech before, then you can go back for it and read it slowly once more. That way, you can come with fresh, new ideas.

 

Moreover, you can ask for help from friends and family. Memories are the foundation of all great wedding speeches.

 

So, speak to your husband or the groom’s dad, your own parents and other relatives about speech and you will be amazed to know that some of them can help you out as they have good writing skills.

 

Third, this is what I recommend you do if you want come up with ideas so quickly. Just head over to your preferred video sharing platform or search engines and look for mother of the groom speech videos.

 

Youtube.com is my favorite platform because it has so many excellent as well as horrible videos you can watch and learn. Here’s a snapshot of mother of the groom speech videos you will find on that space.

 

Looking through those results, I saw these excellent clips you can model your speech after it you want to. Please note: As you watch these moms give account of their son’s life, ask yourself these basic questions:

• Does it align with my goals and vision for my mother of the groom?
• Can I use bits and pieces of the story line?
• Do I find them entertaining and useful? And are these ideas I can use for my script?

 

Ok…Now, let’s look at both video samples.

Mother Of The Groom Speech Video Sample # 1

Mother Of The Groom Speech Video Example #2

 

I hope you got some inspiration from watching both short films. Well, I got these ideas from watching them over and over again.

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The fourth item on the list is my favorite resource of all my time. It’s a goldmine for tongue-tied mothers who are really struggling to come up with their own toasts.

Ok…wait a minute…Do you have any idea what I am making reference to? I am sure you know what I am referring to: expertly crafted mother of the groom speech examples.

 

Here’s Why You Should Use Well-Written Mother Of The Groom Speech Examples/Templates

• You can modify one and adapt it for your personal use
• You can borrow aspects of it to enrich your mother of the groom speech. Just imagine how memorable your wedding speech would be if you end with this piece of advice I culled from another example:

My wish for the two of you of you is that your
love grows deeper with each passing day. And by this, I am reminded of the quote from the movie: The Notebook. It says that the best love is the kind that awakens the soul; that makes us reach for more, that plants the fire in our hearts and brings peace to our minds.

It's my hope and prayer that you experience this kind of love.That
you have a family, and also tons of adventures.
That you get through the storms, and enjoy
every sunny day. And that you have a wonderful
life together!

 

• Not only does tapping into them give you peace of mind but it’s also a creative outlet for inspiration.

 

For example, if you can’t seem to get started, you may read through this example slowly. Afterward, we will break it down and analyze it so you can figure out how to map out a vision for your mother of the groom speech.

 

Here it is:

 

Mother Of The Groom Wedding Speech Example/Template

 

Hello everyone! For those of you who don’t me, I am Lucille, very proud mom of the groom. I want to thank each and every one of you for joining us all today to celebrate this wonderful couple and their true love story. Today would have been beautiful regardless, but it wouldn’t have been as lovely without you.

And to Mark and Christie – it’s finally official!! We are now one great big family! Welcome to our crazy clan, and thank you for making Jimmy as well all of us Swains feel welcome into your family too! I look forward to many family celebrations and milestones with the two of you.

Okay, as the mother of the groom, I get to exercise my right to embarrass the groom just a bit. So here goes…

 

Jimmy was a happy baby, and a good toddler. He started walking when he was 8 months old! And when Michael was born, he wanted to carry him. I got lucky.

 

However, When Jimmy was 2 years old, his Uncle put his beer down and Stephen decided he was going to drink it. Suffice it to say, it did not agree with him. I’d love to say that he never picked up another beer for the rest of his life, but that is stretching it. I will say that he waited a long time before he tried it a second time!

 

When he was 6 or 7, he came home telling me that he was this lady’s hero because she had locked her keys in her car and his arms were small enough to reach inside through the crack she’s left in the window and get the door open. That amazed me that he was able to realize that there was an adult who needed assistance, and that he could provide that assistance even though he was a child. That desire to help others never left him.

Once when we were camping, a friend of ours brought a wig. It was a huge afro. Jimmy got up one morning, put on that wig, and went fishing on the other side of the lake. He did it just so that he’d know that as we were looking across the lake at him, all of us were giggling at his enormous hair!

 

When he decided to join the marines, he was 13 years old. I remember asking him why and his answer was that he wanted to protect his country. He signed up for the delayed entry program at 17. He went into the marines at 18, 3 months after graduating high school.

 

He served for 6 years and came home a disabled veteran. But that didn’t stop him. He went on to become the first person in our family to graduate from college, and he did that with honors. He continued his education by getting his masters degree in Geographic Information Science. He made us very proud.

 

There’s a story that I won’t tell in complete detail, but it has to do with Jimmy coming to my rescue and a tenant at a Hotel where I used to work. He protected both of us from a not so nice man who was being very rude to me and very abusive to my tenant.

 

Jimmy just came out and started barking order, and when the man decided he didn’t want to listen…Jimmy threw him through a window to get his attention!

 

When the police arrived, they listened to Jimmy, and told the other guy to shut up and sit on the curb. One of the policemen was also a marine. Jimmy looked at him and said Family First, to which the officer replied “Exactly, Family First!” That was the first time I heard Jimmy say that, but I guessed that the Marines had taught him that phrase. It meant a lot to me.

 

Jimmy has grown to be a smart, generous, compassionate, and thoughtful man. So of course, I was very pleased when he found a loving, kind, respectful, honest and loyal woman like Marina. I’ve waited for 10 years for this day, and I couldn’t be happier!

 

I knew the first time I met her and she would smile every time she talked about Jimmy that she was the one. And today, she is my daughter!

 

My hope for the two of you is that you will continue to grow together, that you will always bring out the best in one another, and that together you will make all your dreams come true. My advice for the two of you is always listen to what the other person is saying. Never take cheap shots during a fight, you know – name calling or bringing up the past.

 

Words can hurt, so be careful with them. But also, don’t keep things bottled up. Just communicate. Tell each other what you are thinking, and how you are feeling. And always say I love you. You can never say that too much.

Okay, with that I will ask everyone to raise their glasses to Jimmy and Marina! May you both live happily ever after!

 

 

 

I am sure you enjoyed reading that example, right? This is an excellent example of a touching mother of the groom speech. Well, anyone can look it over and figure that they can do better than that. But, it is easier than done because a lot goes into writing such a sample.

 

As a mother of the groom speech writer, I have had the opportunity to review some mother of the groom speech draft example and a mistake I see most make is to read through an example and then proceed to write their own.

 

That is not a great way of getting things done, unfortunately. They say behind every great script is a good story. A story about how it was written so you fully grasp the concept behind the write-up.

 

Before you start putting your stories together, you first have to pause and consider a few things like:

• The kind of wedding speech you would like to make
• The length/duration of your mother of the groom wedding speech
• When and where your toast will be delivered

 

Let’s look at each point briefly before we figure out how to easily and quickly write the content of your mother of the groom speech itself.

 

First,

• The kind of wedding speech you wish to make

From personal observation and analyses, I have come to the conclusion that there are eight kind of mother of the groom speeches.

They include the following:

• Hilarious mother of the groom speech

• Touching/Emotional mother of the groom speech
• Dramatic mother of the groom speech: Here’s an example:
  

• Poetic mother of the groom speech
• Joint parents (father and mother) of the groom speech
• Music/Rap mother of the groom wedding speech: Here’s another example
  

• Religious/Christian mother of the groom speech
• Combo approach: This is really helpful if you really want your presentation to stand out.

 

My homework assignment: Reflect for a moment and ask what kind of toast you would like to make.

 

Second, look at…

• The duration or length of your mother of the groom speech.

If you ask me what how long or short your mother of the groom speech should be, I will say that the content trumps everything else.

 

I have written long mother of the groom speeches that became a hit and I have also written short ones as well. So, it doesn’t really matter how long or short is. You just have to do a great job and no one would be too bothered about the length of your wedding speech.

 

However, if you have asked to speak for a certain number of minutes, then you have to be a good time keeper.

 

Let’s look at the third idea:

When and Where Will You Be Making Your Speech?

• At your son’s engagement party?
• At his rehearsal dinner?
• At the wedding reception?

 

Having done all that work, you should proceed to create an outline for your mother of the groom speech. 

 

By developing a clear layout for your ideas, you will save yourself from the mental torture of not knowing where to start and how to piece your storyline together.

 

How can you do that? I created this simple outline below from the mother of the groom speech example above.

Let’s see how it all unfolds.

• Start with a greeting
• Mention your name and state your relationship with the bride and groom
• Thank the wedding guests for coming
• Start with a hook
• Talk about your son
• Talk about your daughter-in-law
• Share some marriage advice/Share your best wishes
• Father of the groom toasts to his son and daughter-in-law

 

This is what you have to do next after creating an outline for your speech. Just pick an idea and back it up with some supporting material as you see below.

• Start with a greeting

Here’s an example:

Hello everyone! For those of you who don’t me, I am Cathy, very proud mom of the groom. I want to thank each and every one of you for joining us all today to celebrate this wonderful couple and their true love story. Today would have been beautiful regardless, but it wouldn’t have been as lovely without you.

 

I think anyone can write this aspect of the speech so let’s move on to something else.

• Mention your name and state your relationship with the bride and groom

 

This is an example to support it: Hello everyone! For those of you who don’t me, I am Cathy, very proud mom of the groom.

 

• Thank the wedding guests for coming

Again, here’s an example: I want to thank each and every one of you for joining us all today to celebrate this wonderful couple and their true love story. Today would have been beautiful regardless, but it wouldn’t have been as lovely without you.

 

• Start off with a hook

The hook of your speech is your gateway to your speech’s universe, and a well-crafted one that can make the difference between a great speech and one that falls flat.  It reels the listener in and makes them want to hear more of what you have to say.  

The hook or opening lines can be a joke, a funny story about your son’s birth, a personal story, a story about the bride and groom, use mother of the groom speech quotes , sing a well-known love song or share how it feels like giving a speech on your son’s  big day..

Below are two examples:

First, share a mother of the groom joke:

Second, share how you feel about giving your speech:

It’s probably no secret that I have been thinking about my speech

practically since the moment Laura and Bill got engaged last

November. For some moms it’s the dress, but for me….it’s the words.

I’ve been writing in my head jotting down notes on my phone while

staring at the roasted chickens at Costco (truly).

 

Afterwards, you have to do this:

• Talk about your son

Here, you can share a few memories from when he was born to when he first told you about the bride. If you don’t know where to start, just write down several stories and pick from the pool.

 

From personal observation, most mothers center their anecdotes on these themes:

• Anecdotes of your son from when he was a little boy so you can create a short mother of the groom speech from those memories.

 

• Stories that define your bonds

• ''Proud moments'' stories: Here, you mention why you are so proud of him and back it up with a story or two from his life.

 

A mom once said that her proudest moment was when his son doused out the flames on her barn.

 

Question: What are your most proud moments as a mom? Write them down and figure one which ones you want to use for your mother of the groom speech.

 

That brings us to the next point:

• Talk briefly about your daughter-in-law

 

Main ideas to consider:

• Talk about who she is to you and your son
• Your impressions when your son first brought her home
• Mention her beautiful traits
• You may share how she brings out the best in your son

 

That takes us to this:

• Share some marriage advice

Culled from the sample are these words:

‘’  My advice for the two of you is always listen to what the other person is saying. Never take cheap shots during a fight, you know – name calling or bringing up the past. Words can hurt, so be careful with them. But also, don’t keep things bottled up. Just communicate. Tell each other what you are thinking, and how you are feeling. And always say I love you. You can never say that too much. ‘’

 

Before you go back to your seat…Just ask everyone to raise their glasses and toast to the bride and groom.

 

Well, you may end your mother of the groom speech by toasting to the bride and groom. To make it super memorable, you can use add one of these tips.

• Frame your speech if it’s really good and gift it to the bride and groom
• Give a thoughtful gift to the bride and groom
• You may conclude with a poem

Now, I want to ask you this simple question.  Can you really write a very lovely mother of the groom speech with the tips and ideas I have shared on this page?

If you are not too sure  what to do next, then please fill out this very short form and we will help you out even if public speaking is not your thing. 

You really need help…

• If you are expecting nothing less than a very special, beautiful, unique, and memorable speech.

• If you don’t have much time to write a perfect speech just as you want it because of work demands and other life's pressure or even sick? Then, let’s take care of it and the guests will definitely sing your praises--we have done it for so many others and it's your turn now!

• If you are overwhelmed by the pressures of work and don’t have the time to put together a very meaningful speech, so you can have your peace of mind

• If you want your family, your son, friends, and wedding guests to shower you with very sincere compliments…just imagine how you will feel

• If you are not good with words and you feel you’re not a natural writer and you are struggling to find the right words but still want to give a great speech.

• If you get so scared anytime you’re asked to say something before an audience and you really want to save yourself from any form of embarrassment on your son's big day.

• If you are not too eloquent or not too sure if you are on the right track.

• If you absolutely hate speaking in public or feel this is not your thing but you want to make your son feel very proud

• If you have a day or less to the wedding and you are worried that you might make some horrible mistakes

• If you are a good speaker but you still want someone to look over or review what you've come up with!

Just imagine leaving your entire presentation in the hands of skilled wedding speech consultants who will take away your pain of spending hours thinking hard and long about what to say and what not to say.

Also, envision being patiently guided to say something that will leave a favorable impression on the mind of your listeners.

And also imagine the thrill and feeling of excitement and pride you’re going to experience when the audience leaps onto their feet and scream and shouts and even sing your praises.

Won’t you love that? I hope you do...

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You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.

Why? As you know, the current health and economic crisis has caused severe hardships for most people.

Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.

Yet, some sons are still getting married and asking their moms to give speeches.

''It was perfect Dan.  I changed a few things in the speech. And I had several people come up and tell me how well done it was. I couldn't have done it better. Thanks for your help''- Marilyn, Canada

Nonetheless, not every mother could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.

So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.

Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.

So, please take advantage of it now even if your son’s big day is in the future.

Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video and your son and daughter-in-law and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.  

So, please take advantage of it now even if your son’s big day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.

This is another letter a mom sent to us after we helped her deliver her speech(Please click on it to enlarge if you can't see it) 

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Ok, here’s how it works

All you have to do RIGHT NOW is to click on this link to receive an easy-to-fill-in questionnaire via email. Check your email a few hours after you’ve submitted your request.

So,

1)CLICK HERE  NOW TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT THIS QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind!

2. After that, we will send you a very short questionnaire to fill out via email! You only have to check your email a few hours after you have made your request

3. Then, you fill out the questionnaire sent through your email, and please have it sent back to us…

4. We will confirm receipt of it…If something is not too clear, we will ask you to clarify….

5. If not, we will send you a wonderful draft in a couple of hours if this on very short notice….If not, after a few days

6. Then, you look it over and tell us if you are okay with it or you want to amend or revise it till you are happy with it--although we always get it right even with the first draft.
7. Then, we ask you to pay for it.

Please note: The information collected through the questionnaire is only for the purpose of writing your speech. I wouldn’t even need it if I could read your mind. So, your information is very confidential and no one will know about it.

 

Just a reminder of what you pay after it’s duly completed.

Ok, I am Interested, What’s the Cost?

You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.

Why? As you know, the current health and economic crisis has caused severe hardships for most people. Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.

Yet, some sons are still getting married and asking their moms to give speeches.

''It was perfect Dan.  I changed a few things in the speech. And I had several people come up and tell me how well done it was. I couldn't have done it better. Thanks for your help''- Marilyn, Canada

Nonetheless, not every mother could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.

So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.

Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.

So, please take advantage of it now even if your son’s big day is in the future.

Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video and your son and daughter-in-law and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.   

So, please take advantage of it now even if your son’s big day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.   

Please note: Your speech draft comes with a proven and simple tip to master your speech or remember your speech just as you want it without carrying a paper with you.

Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise, and clarity!

''Hi Dan,

The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice).  Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.

All the best,

Matt''

Please note: Don’t fill out this form if you’re a dishonest individual. This offer is for a limited time.

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• The most effective way to get your entire speech into your head without memorizing your speech. Guaranteed to help you even if you have a very poor memory or your memory is like a gold fish…most of our clients still wonder where we got this idea from. This ensures that you don't read off a sheet of paper...

Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise, and clarity!

''Hi Dan,

The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice).  Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.

All the best,

Matt''

• Ways to include humor in your speech and what it takes to do so

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Mother Of The Groom Speech Examples(Template): Use These Mother Of The Groom Speech Examples To Write A Heartfelt Wedding Speech For Your Son and Daughter-In-Law

Are you looking for mother of the groom speech examples and templates you can easily model your mother of the groom speech for your son and daughter-in-law after?

 

If so, please stick with me and I will share with you…

• How to write a mother of the groom speech using proven and simple ideas and tips
• How to use mother of the groom speech examples and templates to come up with great ideas on the fly
• How to make your speech very memorable and unique using little-known but easy-to-follow ideas…
• Plus so much more

 

 

 

Here’s What Your Mother Of The Groom Speech Should Be About

 

Let’s face it…Raising an all –boys family is not an easy thing. You may lose your sanity if they are boisterous and you might end up having your heart walking outside of your body so to speak. However, the joys of being a mom would certainly supersede the pain when they grow up to be successful adults and find the love of their lives. 

 

I think you will agree with me that having a baby boy means you have a best friend and a constant partner for new adventures which you will cherish forever because the bond between the two of you is meant to be forever.

 

Speaking of your relationship reminds me of a crucial role mothers play at wedding ceremonies: delivering mother of the groom speeches.  Ouch! Just take it easy.

Well, delivering a heartfelt mother of the groom speech boils down to these things:

• Preparing yourself to deliver your mother of the groom
• Writing your mother of the groom speech
• Practicing your speech before delivery

 

Let’s first start with this:

How to Prepare and Plan for Your Mother Of The Groom Speech

 

What distinguishes great and successful athletes from the average lies in how they invest in themselves before entering a competition. So it is with your mother of the groom speech.

 

What that means is that you have to block out a few minutes every day to study some proven mother of the groom speech examples and watch some videos about how mother of the groom wedding speeches are written and delivered.

 

Before we go on, let’s watch a few (video) mothers of the groom speech examples (for an immersive experience) so we can figure out how such presentations are made.

 

Here you go:

Mother of the Groom Speech Video Example #1

 

Mother of the Groom Speech Template Video # 2

 

 

Let me ask you this: Which of those videos did you find exciting? Any takeaways or lessons learned from watching both clips? Write it down because it might come in handy down later.

 

Here’s Another Great Resource for Your Mother of the Groom Speech

Having said that, let’s look at another valuable writing tool that can calm your nerves, help you pick the right words so you can easily write an amazing wedding speech for your son and daughter-in-law even if you don’t know where to start or feel like pulling your hair out!

Do you have any idea what that is? Ok…Mother of the groom speech examples.

Well-written mother of the groom speech examples can help you do justice to your speech even if you are not a very good writer.

 

This is what I am thinking of. First and foremost, let’s study a well-thought out mother of the groom speech. Afterwards, we will analyze it with actionable tips so can get great ideas to help you meld thoughts and ideas together to write an amazing mother of the groom speech.

 

 

So, here you go:

 

A Short & Sweet Mother of The Groom Speech Example

 

 

Good evening. I want to thank you all for being here today. It’s such a special occasion and it’s been made more meaningful by having each of you with us to celebrate the love of Mark and Amanda today.

 

I think we can all agree that so far, it's been a fantastic day. This may be the only low-point. As I'm not known for being a tremendous speaker, or an open mic hit on comedy night, I actually thought to myself:

"Why not hire someone to do this?" I mean, we pay for professional music, professional photography, professional catering...why not a pro speech maker? But at the end of the day, I'm the mom, and that is a job you can't outsource. If I could have, I would have gone on an extended vacation for Mark's entire 18th year of life. But I got through those dark days, and you will get through this speech!

 

All jokes aside, I would like extend an exceptional thank you to individuals like my mom (his grand mom Alice) who turned 100 this morning! Let’s give her a hand…..For your information, she’s doing so well and she’s here with us. Let’s give her a hand.

 

I would also like to thank Dean and Shirley. I thank you both every single day for sharing your wonderful daughter with our family and please always rest assure she is very much loved and adored by us.

 

I stand here a very proud mom on this very beautiful day. To see Mark and Amanda's love grow over the years has been amazing and I love that we have all been such a special part of their story. 

Mark, from one mom to another as hard as it is to watch our babies grow up, move on and not need us as much –

 

I am so glad it was Mark who stole my boys heart.  I really didn’t need to worry about their age because they have proved their love is something that is so special and definitely one of a kind.  I knew from the beginning Amanda adored Mark more than anything in this world, and I know she will love him ALWAYS. 

 

 25 years ago, I was blessed with the most amazing gift - becoming Mark’s mom. Mark, the moment I saw you, I knew what true love was  I knew what it was like to love something more than life itself. 

 

I could not believe how so very perfect you were & you belonged to me.  In April 1998 our journey together began and I would not change a single day.  I didn’t think it was possible for me to love you anymore than I did the day you were born - how wrong I was, it only continues to grow. 

 

I am your biggest fan, your loudest cheerleader and your proudest supporter.  I will protect you through anything this world has to throw at you.  I will defend you no matter what because that’s promise I made to you when I became your mom.  I will stand with you whenever I am needed and always remember where ever I am my door is open waiting for you.

 

To call you funny would probably be the most accurate description of your schooling personality!  I am remembering Parent/Teacher Interviews.  Without a doubt you were definitely very well known by all the teachers.

 

Mark, I would walk into every interview not knowing what I was going to be told.  I remember like it was yesterday, poor Mrs Wendy. 

 

Walking up to her desk she asks me "Are you really Mark’s mom".  As proud as punch (like always) I stand tall and reply "I sure am. All I see is her smiling and say you have got an amazingly talented son!

 

I didn’t care that you weren't the brainiac kid because I knew you would succeed in whatever you chose to do.  Anyone who knows Mark knows that he will never settle to be second best (except for school of course).

 

In 2014 you started working at McDonalds.  You didn’t want too, you begged and pleaded with me not to make you go.  Then your deal came "you would go to your first shift only on the condition I would buy you a PS4". 

 

Long story short - you got the PS4 and continued working at McDonalds for 2 years. I pushed and pushed you to stay at school and finish Year 12, but you wore me down in Year 11.  You could leave but not until you had an apprenticeship.  This was a Friday, by Monday you was starting your Floor Tiling Apprenticeship.

 

WOW I remember your first day.  You were working in Dube Park. How was I going to just drop you off with all these men? How was I going to leave you and not check in all day?

 

Returning to pick you up you were so worried. This pulled on every heart string I had after you telling me you had been vomiting from exhaustion.

 

"I even said "don’t go back, work at McDonalds until you find something you want to do".  BUT the Mark we all know and love wasn’t giving up. 

 

Mark, your humor, and even your cheekiness is definitely your superpower!  You are genuine, loyal, kind and caring.  You leave a lasting effect on anyone who crosses your path.  You are a tower of strength - you know what to say and when to say it.  You are always willing to help, support and encourage the people you love.  I love your strength, courage and your determination to always want to be better.  Even though in my eyes are already perfect.

 

It was obvious early on that Mark and Amanda were going to be inseparable.  Together since they were 18 years old and have only grown since then. 

 

I’ve had the privilege of watching you both grow up and I couldn’t be prouder of the two of you.  You continue to amaze me daily with how in tune you are to the world around you.  Engaged at 20 and home owners at 21 - Keep on achieving those goals and continue to dream big.

 

Mark & Amanda,  as you embark today on your next great adventure, please keep this in mind. You are walking a path together now. All of us will walk with you from time to time, along with many more folks in your future, to include your children. But never let any of us walk between you two, because we are all here for just a short jaunt, the long walk will always be the two of you.

 

Every day try to remember how you felt when you woke up this morning. How excited you were at the idea that you were getting married today. If you can remember that feeling, you will be able to carry it along with you no matter how long the path is. Know that today you take all our best intentions, hopes and wishes with you as you start along your journey. Call us if you need anything, and just be good to one another. I love you both with all my heart, and am so proud of both of you!

Look back on this day lovingly, for you will remember it as one of the happiest days of your lives.

Now, Ladies and Gentlemen, before I end, just some housekeeping notes, the venue has asked that you don't stand on any of the chairs and tables for my standing ovation, and if you want to throw money, they ask that you keep it to paper, since coins might chip the paint.

God bless you.

 

 

That is an excellent mother of the groom wedding speech, right? I think it’s a heartfelt and emotional speech that hits home on many levels. Guess what?

You can actually write something better than that.Yes, I mean that with my whole heart. But, how much better, exactly ?

 

I am happy to help. First and foremost, let’s break down the above example into these parts:

 

Introduction (excerpts): ‘’ Good evening. I want to thank you all for being here today. It’s such a special occasion and it’s been made more meaningful by having each of you with us to celebrate the love of Mark and Amanda today.

 

I think we can all agree that so far, it's been a fantastic day…All jokes aside; I would like extend an exceptional thank you…

 

Body (excerpts): 25 years ago, I was blessed with the most amazing gift - becoming Mark’s mom.

 

Mark, the moment I saw you, I knew what true love was  I knew what it was like to love something more than life itself… To call you funny would probably be the most accurate…

 

Conclusion (excerpts): Call us if you need anything, and just be good to one another. I love you both with all my heart, and am so proud of both of you!

 

Now, let’s see…

How To Write The Content Of Your Mother of The Groom Speech

 

For most moms, writing the content of their mother of the groom speeches is the hardest thing they would ever do because they have lots of ideas jumping up and down inside their brains but don’t know where to start. To make things work for you, you should record the most important milestones in his life.

Talk about:

• His first day in school
• Thrilling adventures
• Vacation trips
• Birthdays
• Baptism/Baby dedication
• Graduation
• Engagement

 

 

Now, look at that list once more and pick out that aspect of his life you would like to dwell on and use those ideas to craft a mother of the groom wedding speech. 

 

That brings me to the final idea:

 

How to Write a Great Conclusion for Your Mother of the Groom Speech

 

First and foremost, let’s look at the closing remarks:

‘’ Now, Ladies and Gentlemen, before I end, just some housekeeping notes, the venue has asked that you don't stand on any of the chairs and tables for my standing ovation, and if you want to throw money, they ask that you keep it to paper, since coins might chip the paint. God bless you. ‘’

 

That’s how the vast majority of moms wrap up their mother of the groom speeches. However, a few others make a striking difference that their family and friends never forget what they said and how it was said. Well, I am happy to share with you a few simple but proven tips of ending on a memorable note.

First, you can end with a love or marriage poem like these ones:

New Beginnings," Barbara Crooker

“May this be a day of new beginnings
the sun, like a fragrant apple; the summer air,
soft on your hands as the kiss of a child.
May berries melt like honey on your tongue.
May your heart rise in wonder
at the clouds drifting across the sky.
May the trails under your boots
be covered in pine quills,
let the leaves rain down
like memories
in the autumn of your heart.
May the snow beneath your skis
run as fast as watered silk,
may the cold air kiss your cheeks,
turn them red as summer's roses.
May the rivers always flow
with their unexpected beauty,
the first freshets of snowmelt,
the rush of early spring. May you always walk in gladness
through whatever path or highway;
may you always walk within the golden circle of your love.”

 

Marriage By Linda Harrison

M is for Making a future that will last.
A is for Accepting both the present and the past.
R is for Respect for each other every day.
R is for Remembering those special things to say.
I is for Issues, which no doubt will challenge you.
A is for Always find a way to talk them through.
G is for Growing the love that keeps you strong.
E is for Endurance when sometimes things go wrong.

 

Second, if you are a Christian or a person of faith you can end with a prayer for the couple or a benediction from the Bible. Here's an example:

Numbers 6: 24-26 NKJV

The Lord bless you and keep you; The Lord make his face shine upon you. And be gracious to you. The Lord lift up his countenance upon you and give you peace.

Third, you can end with your best wishes. That’s not so hard to write. Well, here are some examples you can copy and learn from.

• Congratulations and best wishes on your wedding day.
• You were meant for each other. Hope you remain this happy for the rest of your lives.
• You look perfect together. Congratulations and I wish you load of happiness.
• To love and be loved is the key to happiness. May you never lose sight of this precious treasure in all your days to come.

P.S: Is the thought of giving you a great wedding speech keeping you up at night? It shouldn’t if you do what most moms do. By following this simple plan that's guaranteed to help you write a great mom speech like the one you read above.

Claire was quite skeptical when she came to us but we kept assuring what she will make her son and family proud-and this is what she sent over after the wedding was over

'' Hello Dan, their wedding went very well. The usual stress beforehand for the couple organizing the event but all things to do went so smoothly. I also like to say that I'm so proud of my speech, almost got a standing ovation, lol! I'm so glad I've found you. I will definitely recommend you to my friends and family in future weddings. I wish you the very best.''-  Claire, New Zealand

Want to know how she did just that? She got on board our wedding speech program and one of our talented speech consultants helped her out.

Want to get on board? You should by first filling out this simple form.

This is letter a mom sent to us after we helped her deliver her speech(Please click on it to enlarge if you can't see it)

Ok, Is This Offer For Me?

• Yes, if you are expecting nothing less than a very special, beautiful, unique, and memorable speech.

• Don’t have much time to write a perfect speech just as you want it because of work demands and other life's pressure or even sick? Then, let’s take care of it and the guests will definitely sing your praises--we have done it for so many others and it's your turn now!

• Yes, if you are overwhelmed by the pressures of work and don’t have the time to put together a very meaningful speech, so you can have your peace of mind

• Yes, if you want your family, your son, friends, and wedding guests to shower you with very sincere compliments…just imagine how you will feel

• Yes, if you are not good with words and you feel you’re not a natural writer and you are struggling to find the right words but still want to give a great speech.

• Yes, you get so scared anytime you’re asked to say something before an audience and you really want to save yourself from any form of embarrassment on your son's big day.

• Yes, if you are not too eloquent or not too sure if you are on the right track.

• Yes, if you absolutely hate speaking in public or feel this is not your thing but you want to make your son feel very proud

• Yes, if you have a day or less to the wedding and you are worried that you might make some horrible mistakes

• Yes, if you are a good speaker but you still want someone to look over or review what you've come up with!

Just imagine leaving your entire presentation in the hands of skilled wedding speech consultants who will take away your pain of spending hours thinking hard and long about what to say and what not to say.

Also, envision being patiently guided to say something that will leave a favorable impression on the mind of your listeners.

And also imagine the thrill and feeling of excitement and pride you’re going to experience when the audience leaps onto their feet and scream and shouts and even sing your praises.

Won’t you love that? I hope you do...

Wedding not too far away? Or happening in less than 24 hours? Trust me, we can deliver! it doesn’t matter if your speech is today, tomorrow, next week, next month ,next year,... we can make things work for you  

 

Ok, I am Interested, What’s the Cost?

You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.

Why? As you know, the current health and economic crisis has caused severe hardships for most people.

Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.

Yet, some sons are still getting married and asking their moms to give speeches.

''It was perfect Dan.  I changed a few things in the speech. And I had several people come up and tell me how well done it was. I couldn't have done it better. Thanks for your help''- Marilyn, Canada

Nonetheless, not every mother could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.

So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.

Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.

So, please take advantage of it now even if your son’s big day is in the future.

Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video and your son and daughter-in-law and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.  

So, please take advantage of it now even if your son’s big day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.

This is another letter a mom sent to us after we helped her deliver her speech(Please click on it to enlarge if you can't see it) 

Oh Ok, How Then Do I Get Started Since I Want To Get On Board Right Away?

Ok, here’s how it works

All you have to do RIGHT NOW is to click on this link to receive an easy-to-fill-in questionnaire via email. Check your email a few hours after you’ve submitted your request.

So,

1)CLICK HERE  NOW TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT THIS QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind!

2. After that, we will send you a very short questionnaire to fill out via email! You only have to check your email a few hours after you have made your request

3. Then, you fill out the questionnaire sent through your email, and please have it sent back to us…

4. We will confirm receipt of it…If something is not too clear, we will ask you to clarify….

5. If not, we will send you a wonderful draft in a couple of hours if this on very short notice….If not, after a few days

6. Then, you look it over and tell us if you are okay with it or you want to amend or revise it till you are happy with it--although we always get it right even with the first draft.
7. Then, we ask you to pay for it.

Please note: The information collected through the questionnaire is only for the purpose of writing your speech. I wouldn’t even need it if I could read your mind. So, your information is very confidential and no one will know about it.

 

Just a reminder of what you pay after it’s duly completed.

Ok, I am Interested, What’s the Cost?

You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.

Why? As you know, the current health and economic crisis has caused severe hardships for most people. Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.

Yet, some sons are still getting married and asking their moms to give speeches.

''It was perfect Dan.  I changed a few things in the speech. And I had several people come up and tell me how well done it was. I couldn't have done it better. Thanks for your help''- Marilyn, Canada

Nonetheless, not every mother could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.

So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.

Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.

So, please take advantage of it now even if your son’s big day is in the future.

Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video and your son and daughter-in-law and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.   

So, please take advantage of it now even if your son’s big day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.   

Please note: Your speech draft comes with a proven and simple tip to master your speech or remember your speech just as you want it without carrying a paper with you.

Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise, and clarity!

''Hi Dan,

The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice).  Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.

All the best,

Matt''

Please note: Don’t fill out this form if you’re a dishonest individual. This offer is for a limited time.

So, CLICK HERE TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT A QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind and not lose money. The risk is on us!

You don't have to worry about paying our per speech for now.

Forget about money and let’s write something for you. We believe in the values of honesty and integrity and we think you should be happy with our work first.

So, Here Are The Benefits You Get When You Get On Board!

• A great speech written by our wedding speech consultants that reflects what you want to say exactly

• We coach you on how to use your voice to make your speech very exciting.

• We show you a simple but often overlook strategy to rehearse your speech even if you have a very poor memory. This method is used by great speakers like Obama and was used by Abraham Lincoln and his compatriots

• The most effective way to get your entire speech into your head without memorizing your speech. Guaranteed to help you even if you have a very poor memory or your memory is like a gold fish…most of our clients still wonder where we got this idea from. This ensures that you don't read off a sheet of paper...

Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise, and clarity!

''Hi Dan,

The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice).  Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.

All the best,

Matt''

• Ways to include humor in your speech and what it takes to do so

So, CLICK HERE TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT A QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you ca+n have peace of mind and not lose money. The risk is on us!

Remember, you have to see your speech first before you pay. So, you can relax and let us sweat it out at our expense!

 

 

Mother of the groom speech or toast: How to easily and quickly write a heartfelt mother of the groom wedding speech for your son

Are you looking for easy-to-follow tips and ideas to help you write the best ever mother of the groom speech for your son and daughter-in-law?

If you are, then you are exactly where you need to be. Just bear with me for a little while and I will share with you…

• Tips and Ideas that can help you to easily and quickly write an amazing mother of the groom wedding toast

• What to include and what not to include in your mother of the groom wedding reception or rehearsal dinner speech

 

• How to use mother of the groom speech examples(the right way) to easily come up with a heartfelt and hilarious toast

 

• How to express your deepest sentiments about your daughter-in-law without offending her and her family...get it wrong and you will embarrass yourself and your son

 

• Plus several practical ideas you can weave into your own toast.

 

Are you ready for this? Now, this is what I want you to do now. Please put away every distraction and let’s get to work right away. Have you ever wondered why most mother of the groom speeches don’t pass muster while a few ones really hit the mark?

 

You see a lot of things come into play when you are planning to deliver a memorable mother of the groom wedding toast. You need excellent writing and presentation skills so your words can resonate with the wedding crowd. But, let’s face it. How many of us are blessed with those gifts?

Just a few I guess! Yet, in spite of your shortfalls, your son and your family will be counting on you to tell a memorable story about who your precious son is, how far he’s gotten in life, and what you look forward to as he starts the next chapter of his life with the bride.

 

That can be a little disheartening if you don’t know where to start or fear speaking before a small crowd. No matter how anxious you may be, this treasured tool can be your savior if you use it wisely. Can you guess what it is?

 

Mother of the groom speech examples! Mother of the groom speech templates because they have several ideas you can learn from and adapt for your own script even if you haven’t mastered the art of writing and speaking in public.

 

Well, in the next few lines, I am going to share with you a well-written mother of the groom wedding speech. Afterwards, we will break it down and analyze its components so you can figure out what goes into writing a unique and heartfelt mother of the groom wedding toast so you can have peace of mind.  Please read through it carefully.

 

Here it is:

 

A Mother of the Groom Speech Example/Template

 

Hello everyone. I’m Amanda, Dan’s mom and I am so happy that we are finally here to celebrate with Dan and Stephanie and their true love story. We waited a year, but they finally got the wedding they deserve!

 

Dan has always been such a good heart. Even when I was pregnant with him, it was a dream pregnancy, so easy. Of course, the birth part was a bit less of a dream. 26 hours of labor.

 

Eric and I wore a path in that maternity ward, walking and walking all night long. Every time we’d pass the nursery we would stop and look at the babies. I couldn’t wait to finally meet him, but apparently you were just fine.

 

And your father with his camera! He took pictures of the whole thing to document my level of pain. But he stayed with me the entire time, and when the three of us could finally go home, he rented a limo to take us. Your first ride in a car was in a limo!

 

Dan was always very smart and basically a great kid. He did well in school, was loved by his teachers, had many friends, and he loved playing sports.

 

Dan was the best big brother in the world. Always looking out for his little brother, a great role model, very helpful, very supportive, they have a close relationship to this day, even though they are as different as night and day. That is always something that makes me so proud.

 

Growing up, Dan did not like riding on the horse, so we would always end up sitting on the bench. Going round and round sitting on a bench with a toddler.

 

One day when his grandparents were visiting, we went to the Fio Zoo. When Dan saw the elephant ride, he got excited and wanted to ride the elephant. There was a very long line and I thought , “oh great, we’re going to wait on this long line, I’m wearing a skirt and will have to straddle this elephant and I know he won’t go on.”

 When we got to our turn sure enough, he jumped right up there and loved riding the elephant. He was afraid of the carousel horse; he had no problem riding the grand elephant. I think that says something about Dan.

 

He may be cautious when it comes to cheap thrills, but when it comes to something real? He embraces that part of life with everything he has.

 

In his teens, Dan played football and when they had to go for away games, he would just sit on the bus doing his homework. Dan was 1 of 10 valedictorians at his high school graduation.

Then he was off to college where he graduated in 4 years.  I always thought he would make a great leader, like mother like son, right?

 

He is extremely passionate about what he does and his clients are full of praise for him. That’s why I could not imagine a more perfect partner for him than Stephanie . She’s also so hard- working and intelligent. And I’m still so glad that she’s actually family now.

 

You know, I started running in my 60’s and Stephanie and I completed our first half marathon together.  She was a big support to me and always very encouraging.

 

When I ran the Boston Marathon she and the rest of my family was there to cheer me on. The reason I’m telling you this is it is a good example of something my husband always makes a point of saying.

 

He says that our “family’s vein” which did mean the four of us, and now that means the five of us. Me, my husband, Dan, his sister Mark and now Stephanie. We always stick together. I know that someday our family tree will be even bigger when Dan and Stephanie have beautiful babies.

We are always going to be here for the two of you as you go on this great marathon we call life. Don’t ever forget that.

And I hope that your home is always filled with love and laughter.  To Dan  and Stephanie!

Did that make your day? I enjoyed reading this short example. Guess what? This short template has several ideas you can model your speech after. We are going to dive right in by looking at how you can make the most out of that example.

 

But first, let’s take note of a few things that prevents wedding speech givers from delivering great speeches and how to make sure you don’t make those same classic mistakes.

 

I love this verse of scripture (Proverbs 23:7) that says that as a man thinks so he is. That scriptural verse reminds of a thoughtful little poem that reads like a wise father’s advice to his son.

It goes like this:

Watch your thoughts

For they become your words

Watch your words

For they become your actions

Watch your actions

For they become your habits

Watch your habits

For they become your character

Watch your character

For it becomes your destiny

When it comes to writing a mother of the groom speech, we can render it like this:

Watch your thoughts

For they can make you anxious

Watch the anxiety

For it can make you a poor speaker!

 

I brought this up because panic attacks or nervousness might actually stop you from stepping up to the plate even if you feel you are up to the task.

 

Having worked with wedding speakers the world over, I have realized that there’s no such thing as a terrible speaker. But, what sets great orators apart has to do with their mindsets.

 

If you consciously cultivate a positive mindset about speaking in public, you will gradually be shattering those widely-held limiting beliefs that hold most moms back from putting their best foot forward.  

Limiting beliefs like:

• I am not a natural speaker
• I failed to impress last time…so, I am probably not going to live up to expectation…Such wrong thinking can ruin your performance…so, please leave the past in the past
• I would probably not do too well this time…but I will try anyway
• It goes on and on

 

Well, you can turn the tide around if you take control of the situation by preparing well ahead of time.

 

By the way, if stage fright makes you sick to death, then I would recommend that first watch this video.

It can be tempting to start jotting your thoughts down if you feel that you have some great memories about the groom. You can do that if your head is brimming with useful ideas and have a fair idea of how to start.

 

But, if you are still wondering how, then, it makes sense to cool down and watch a few mother of the groom speech videos so you can figure how it is done.

 

This is what I would like you to do now. Just watch these videos…say once or twice and write down ideas you think you can slot into your own mother of the groom wedding speech.

 

Here you go:

Mother of the groom speech sample (video#1)

Mother of the groom speech example (video#2)

 

I hope you enjoyed watching both clips. Now, let’s see how we can come up with our ideas using those visual and written resources.

 

To make things much easier, you first have to create an outline for your mother of the groom wedding toast. By studing the above example, we can deduce that the structure is built on these bullet points:

• Greetings
• Short self-introduction
• Thank your guests and other personalities
• Start your speech
• Talk about your son
• Talk about your daughter-in-law
• Talk about the bride and groom
• End with a bit of marriage advice or best wishes
• End with a toast

 

Most wedding speeches follow this format. You can simply follow that too if you want to stay in your comfort zone. If not, you are free to think outside the box if God gave you a creative mind before you landed on planet earth.

 

My drama professor used to say that it’s always best to know the rules before you think of breaking them. So I think we should stick to the above plan for the sake of convenience.

• Let’s start with the first idea on the list: greetings

 

That’s the easiest part of the speech to write, right? This is how it’s captured in the above example.

''Hello everyone. I’m Sandra, Dan’s mom and I am so happy that we are finally here to celebrate with Dick and Stephanie and their true love story. We waited a year, but they finally got the wedding they deserve!''

 

• Let’s look at the next item on the list: Short-Self Introduction

 Here are a few examples:

• For those of you who don’t know me, I am Mary.
• I am the proud mother of the groom and right by side is my side chick of the last 40 years! I call him 50 cents…there’s a reason for that and I will get to that in my speech
• Most of you know as the mother of the groom with a nice nose….Well, I am actually his best friend and our friendship started from birth…

 

I could go on …But did you notice how I made the second and third points quite hilarious? Yeah….Most self-intros are boring but yours can pack a punch if you make it a little bit different. So, why not give it a try? Just make sure it’s not over the top .

 

1. Let’s now consider the third idea on the list: Thank your guests and other personalities

 

You certainly can’t take the credit alone for where your son is now. This reminds me of the popular African proverb that says it takes a village to raise a child. It certainly has taken the positive influence of so many loving and caring family and friends to help raise him so well and you can’t let his big day slip away without acknowledging them.

 

Here’s an example:

To Lori and Pat, I’d like to thank you for raising

such an amazing lady. She’s an absolute credit to you both.

 

This is a mother thanking the parents of the bride. There are obviously many other persons she could have expressed appreciation to. Can you write down a few names you wish to give a shout out to?

 

Ok…l am going to list a few below.

• Your mom (the groom’s grandmom)
• Your dad(the groom’s grandma)….if they are both deceased, you can simply say they are looking down at him with pride

 

If they played an integral role in molding him, you can mention that briefly without casting a sad shadow over the event.

• Your husband or the father of the groom. If you are divorced or a single parent, you need not mention it. It would make sense if you forgive him. If you do that from a very sincere heart, your story might go viral and you will be admired for that. Remember, life is too short to keep a bitter record of one’s wrongs and rights.

 

Action Tip: Think for a moment, persons you wish to express gratitude to. Put down their names and indicate why you are referencing them in your speech.

• Having seen that, let’s move on to the fourth item on our list: Start your speech and talk about your son

 

This is the part most folks call the opening remarks or introductory address. This is how it’s captured in the mother of the groom speech template we saw at the onset.

‘’ Dan has always been such a good heart. Even when I was pregnant with him, it was a dream pregnancy, so easy. Of course, the birth part was a bit less of a dream. 26 hours of labor. Chris and I wore a path in that maternity ward…’’

If you read that extract a second and probably a third time, you will realize that it starts with a story and that’s what the wedding crowd love most. Stories are the heartbeat of all great wedding toasts. So, please start with one if you can think of a very good one.

 

Of course, there are many other interesting ways to start your mother of the groom speech and get everyone involved from the start to the end. I would like to share with you a few ways of opening with a bang.

• First, you can begin on a happy note by rendering it like a song as seen in this video.

• If your son’s birthday falls on the same day as his wedding date, you can mention this and humbly ask everyone to join you in singing a happy a birthday song before you deliver your speech.

• If you have a little story to share, that would be great. It could be a beautiful story about when you were pregnant with him, a story about what happened on his due date or another nice story about how events unfolded when you brought him home.

 

I once reviewed a speech of a mom who said that when her child was born, her husband was so excited that he drove her to a dump! Can you imagine that? You just have to reflect on the good and bad times and you will come up with some really good stories.

 

If you can’t remember the exact details, then I have this question for you.

• Do you remember how you felt when you brought your son home from the hospital? If you do, then, please write it down.

This is what a new mom said about her first few days with her cute baby boy.

Mike was born one sunny morning when we were living in Florida. On that day, I was overcome with joy, pride and a deep sense of love and belonging when he was placed into my arms. He was a beautiful gift and when I saw him, it was love at first sight, at second sight, and at every sight. I still remember how several times at night, I’d look into his beautiful, smiling eyes and be completely overwhelmed with a sense of joy and pride. There and then, I closed my eyes and imagined what the future held for both mom and son.

Now, here he is a perfect picture of a mom’s dream come true and I couldn’t be more proud that he starts the next chapter of his life with someone he loves with this whole heart. 

• Now, let’s look at the next item we are going to look at: Talk about your son and daughter-in-law and how they complement each other

 

With so many stories about your son to choose from, you can be end up writing what sounds like a biography. But that shouldn’t be the case at all.

This is what I want you to do now.  Starting from when he came into your life, write down series of stories about his life. Allow it to sink in for a day or two and then choose from the pool of events, stories you would like to share with your family and friends.

 

After writing down a few words about him, you should jot down a few words about your daughter-in-law even if you think she’s not a great match for your son or you don’t really know her.

 

I know you are thinking, Dan, what am I going to write about someone I don’t really know? Great question and I am glad you asked it. This example can free your mind from this mental stress.

It’s obvious that you both love each other and I hope that your love continue to burn brighter forever.

• Finally, Let’s look at the last item on the list: end with nuggets of advice about marriage

The last item on the list or your closing remarks are equally as important as the introductory remarks because when all is said and done, the wedding attendees will remember how your closing thoughts made them feel. You may wrap up with any of these cool ideas.

 

First, just share some fundamental truths about what makes a marriage tick. Here’s an example.

Make time together a priority. Budget for a consistent date night. Time is the “currency of relationships” so consistently invest time into your marriage. There are no shortcuts. Building a strong marriage takes time.

Second, if you are a spiritual person, you can end with a prayer or even use a few words from the scriptures. My favorite is from I Corinthians 13.

 

Third, you can end with a thoughtful poem like this one.

A marriage works on give and take

And learning how to share

Always thinking of your loved one

And to show how much you care

To trust each other always

And to forgive when there’s a need

To say how much you love them

Is a wonderful thing indeed

Your love upon your wedding day

Will grow throughout your life

And build upon that moment

When you became husband and wife

P.S: Is the thought of giving you a great wedding speech keeping you up at night? It shouldn’t if you do what most moms do. By following this simple plan that's guaranteed to help you write a great mom speech like the one you read above.

Claire was quite skeptical when she came to us but we kept assuring what she will make her son and family proud-and this is what she sent over after the wedding was over

'' Hello Dan, their wedding went very well. The usual stress beforehand for the couple organizing the event but all things to do went so smoothly. I also like to say that I'm so proud of my speech, almost got a standing ovation, lol! I'm so glad I've found you. I will definitely recommend you to my friends and family in future weddings. I wish you the very best.''-  Claire, New Zealand

Want to know how she did just that? She got on board our wedding speech program and one of our talented speech consultants helped her out.

Want to get on board? You should by first filling out this simple form.

This is letter a mom sent to us after we helped her deliver her speech(Please click on it to enlarge if you can't see it)

Ok, Is This Offer For Me?

• Yes, if you are expecting nothing less than a very special, beautiful, unique, and memorable speech.

• Don’t have much time to write a perfect speech just as you want it because of work demands and other life's pressure or even sick? Then, let’s take care of it and the guests will definitely sing your praises--we have done it for so many others and it's your turn now!

• Yes, if you are overwhelmed by the pressures of work and don’t have the time to put together a very meaningful speech, so you can have your peace of mind

• Yes, if you want your family, your son, friends, and wedding guests to shower you with very sincere compliments…just imagine how you will feel

• Yes, if you are not good with words and you feel you’re not a natural writer and you are struggling to find the right words but still want to give a great speech.

• Yes, you get so scared anytime you’re asked to say something before an audience and you really want to save yourself from any form of embarrassment on your son's big day.

• Yes, if you are not too eloquent or not too sure if you are on the right track.

• Yes, if you absolutely hate speaking in public or feel this is not your thing but you want to make your son feel very proud

• Yes, if you have a day or less to the wedding and you are worried that you might make some horrible mistakes

• Yes, if you are a good speaker but you still want someone to look over or review what you've come up with!

Just imagine leaving your entire presentation in the hands of skilled wedding speech consultants who will take away your pain of spending hours thinking hard and long about what to say and what not to say.

Also, envision being patiently guided to say something that will leave a favorable impression on the mind of your listeners.

And also imagine the thrill and feeling of excitement and pride you’re going to experience when the audience leaps onto their feet and scream and shouts and even sing your praises.

Won’t you love that? I hope you do...

Wedding not too far away? Or happening in less than 24 hours? Trust me, we can deliver! it doesn’t matter if your speech is today, tomorrow, next week, next month ,next year,... we can make things work for you  

 

Ok, I am Interested, What’s the Cost?

You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.

Why? As you know, the current health and economic crisis has caused severe hardships for most people.

Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.

Yet, some sons are still getting married and asking their moms to give speeches.

''It was perfect Dan.  I changed a few things in the speech. And I had several people come up and tell me how well done it was. I couldn't have done it better. Thanks for your help''- Marilyn, Canada

Nonetheless, not every mother could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.

So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.

Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.

So, please take advantage of it now even if your son’s big day is in the future.

Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video and your son and daughter-in-law and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.  

So, please take advantage of it now even if your son’s big day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.

This is another letter a mom sent to us after we helped her deliver her speech(Please click on it to enlarge if you can't see it) 

Oh Ok, How Then Do I Get Started Since I Want To Get On Board Right Away?

Ok, here’s how it works

All you have to do RIGHT NOW is to click on this link to receive an easy-to-fill-in questionnaire via email. Check your email a few hours after you’ve submitted your request.

So,

1)CLICK HERE  NOW TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT THIS QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind!

2. After that, we will send you a very short questionnaire to fill out via email! You only have to check your email a few hours after you have made your request

3. Then, you fill out the questionnaire sent through your email, and please have it sent back to us…

4. We will confirm receipt of it…If something is not too clear, we will ask you to clarify….

5. If not, we will send you a wonderful draft in a couple of hours if this on very short notice….If not, after a few days

6. Then, you look it over and tell us if you are okay with it or you want to amend or revise it till you are happy with it--although we always get it right even with the first draft.
7. Then, we ask you to pay for it.

Please note: The information collected through the questionnaire is only for the purpose of writing your speech. I wouldn’t even need it if I could read your mind. So, your information is very confidential and no one will know about it.

 

Just a reminder of what you pay after it’s duly completed.

Ok, I am Interested, What’s the Cost?

You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.

Why? As you know, the current health and economic crisis has caused severe hardships for most people. Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.

Yet, some sons are still getting married and asking their moms to give speeches.

''It was perfect Dan.  I changed a few things in the speech. And I had several people come up and tell me how well done it was. I couldn't have done it better. Thanks for your help''- Marilyn, Canada

Nonetheless, not every mother could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.

So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.

Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.

So, please take advantage of it now even if your son’s big day is in the future.

Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video and your son and daughter-in-law and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.   

So, please take advantage of it now even if your son’s big day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.   

Please note: Your speech draft comes with a proven and simple tip to master your speech or remember your speech just as you want it without carrying a paper with you.

Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise, and clarity!

''Hi Dan,

The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice).  Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.

All the best,

Matt''

Please note: Don’t fill out this form if you’re a dishonest individual. This offer is for a limited time.

So, CLICK HERE TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT A QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind and not lose money. The risk is on us!

You don't have to worry about paying our per speech for now.

Forget about money and let’s write something for you. We believe in the values of honesty and integrity and we think you should be happy with our work first.

So, Here Are The Benefits You Get When You Get On Board!

• A great speech written by our wedding speech consultants that reflects what you want to say exactly

• We coach you on how to use your voice to make your speech very exciting.

• We show you a simple but often overlook strategy to rehearse your speech even if you have a very poor memory. This method is used by great speakers like Obama and was used by Abraham Lincoln and his compatriots

• The most effective way to get your entire speech into your head without memorizing your speech. Guaranteed to help you even if you have a very poor memory or your memory is like a gold fish…most of our clients still wonder where we got this idea from. This ensures that you don't read off a sheet of paper...

Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise, and clarity!

''Hi Dan,

The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice).  Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.

All the best,

Matt''

• Ways to include humor in your speech and what it takes to do so

So, CLICK HERE TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT A QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you ca+n have peace of mind and not lose money. The risk is on us!

Remember, you have to see your speech first before you pay. So, you can relax and let us sweat it out at our expense!

 

 

 

Mother of the Groom Wedding Speech or Toast

 

Below Are Some Simple but Proven Tips and Ideas for Writing a Great Mother of the Groom Speech for Your Son and Daughter-In-Law

 

Is your son getting married to the love of his life? And are you looking for great tips and ideas to help you come up with the best ever mother of the groom speech?

 

Just give me a few minutes of your time and I will show …

• How you can write a sweet mother of the groom wedding speech even if you are not great with words.

• How to use mother of the groom speech samples to easily come up with a speech that will endear you to your family and friends and other guests

• How get the right ideas and tips for the content of your wedding toast for your son and his precious bride

 

 

Does a mother of the groom have to give a speech at his son’s wedding? This is a question most mothers grapple with when their sons ask them to speak at their wedding.

Well, you really have to honor your son with a great speech and this very short but moving story holds the keys to doing just that.

So, please stay tuned for everything you need to know about saying something about your son on his wedding.

 

What If You Were The One?

 

Mary loved his son not because they were kith and kin. But there was a story behind their very strong attachment.

Their strong bond of friendship was formed even before James was born. Her family had this chronic history of infertility that spanned decades.

A few in the family were lucky to have their own children and her entire tribe had only 10 members. Some had experienced miscarriages, and others lost their tiny babies at birth.

After her marriage to Chris, she really struggled to conceive. Test after test after test showed there was nothing wrong with the couple. When they least expected, the couple had a baby boy who filled their lives with hope and meaning.

 

 

26 years later, their baby boy had grown into a very compassionate man and was about to get married. His mom felt he had to give him a gift that would outlast time itself and prove to everyone how much he loved his beloved son.

 

After carefully weighing several options, she decided to surprise his son with a mother of the groom wedding speech.

 

On his son’s big day, he gave a truly heartfelt speech that captured her story, the beauty of their relationship, and what his son means to her.

 

After reading the tips on this page, she delivered a speech that made his son feel so completely proud.

 

In the next lines, I will share with you her entire sample so you can pick a few nuggets you can use for your own message. So, please read the mother of the groom sample below carefully with an eye towards writing one that will make you so proud of his mom.

 

Here you go:

 

Mother of the Groom Wedding Speech Sample/Example

 

Hello everyone. I’m  Mary, James’s mom and I am so happy that we are finally here to celebrate with James and Stephanie and their true love story. We waited a year, but they finally got the wedding they deserve!

 

James has always been such a good heart. Even when I was pregnant with him, it was a dream pregnancy, so easy. Of course, the birth part was a bit less of a dream. 26 hours of labor.

 

Christopher and I wore a path in that maternity ward, walking and walking all night long.  Everytime we’d pass the nursery we would stop and look at the babies. I couldn’t wait to finally meet you, but apparently you were just fine. And your father with his camera!

 

He took pictures of the whole thing to document my level of pain. But he stayed with me the entire time, and when the three of us could finally go home, he rented a limo to take us. Your first ride in a car was in a limo!

 

 

James was always very smart and basically a great kid.  He did well in school, was loved by his teachers, had many friends, and he loved playing sports.

 

When he turned 6, we introduced him to his new baby brother Tanner. We used to joke that Tanner had 3 parents. James was the best big brother in the world. Always looking out for him, a great role model, very helpful, very supportive, they have a close relationship to this day, even though they are as different as night and day. That is always something that makes me so proud.

 

When James was very small we lived near South Coast Plaza and our favorite thing to do was to walk there to go on the carousel.  James did not like riding on the horse, so we would always end up sitting on the bench.  Going round and round sitting on a bench with a toddler.

 

One day when his Poppy and Grandma Ethel  were visiting, we went to the San Diego Zoo.  When James saw the elephant ride, he got excited and wanted to ride the elephant.  There was a very long line and I thought , “oh great, we’re going to wait on this long line, I’m wearing a skirt and will have to straddle this elephant and I know he won’t go on.”

 

When we got to our turn sure enough, he jumped right up there and loved riding the elephant.  He was afraid of the carousel horse; he had no problem riding the grand elephant. I think that says something about  James. He may be cautious when it comes to cheap thrills, but when it comes to something real? He embraces that part of life with everything he has.

 

Even as a teenager, James was so calm. He played football and when they had to go for away games, he would just sit on the bus doing his homework. Some nights they wouldn’t get home until midnight, but he was completely not stressed. I had to do all the stressing for both of us.

 

James was 1 of 10 valedictorians at his high school graduation.  Then he was off to UC Berkeley where he graduated in 4 years.  He started his own financial /wealth management company this past year during COVID  and is doing well.  He has wanted to do this for a very long time and felt the time was right now. I always thought he would make a great teacher, like mother like son, right? 

 

Well, James says he is a  sort of teacher.  He says “ I teach people how to manage their money to live their best life” He is extremely passionate about what he does and his clients are full of praise for him.

 

That’s why I could not imagine a more perfect partner for him than Stephanie. She’s also so hard-working and intelligent. She recently completed her PhD in public health. She also kept up with her studies and maintained a long-distance relationship with my son, making sure they got to see each other almost every weekend. That is determination. Christopher and I call them 2 peas in a pod, and it’s really true.

 

We met Stephanie at a wedding. James was the officiant, so Stephanie had to hang out with us. I really believe she became part of our family right then and there. But I’m still so glad that she’s actually family now.

 

You know, I started running in my 50’s and James and I completed our first half marathon together.   I have continued running and when I completed the Beach Cities Challenge, James said, that if my mom can do this, so can I and he completed it too.  He finished his series after me, so I ran an extra race, so I could run with him when he completed his Beach Cities Challenge. He was a big support to me and always very encouraging. 

 

When I ran the LA Marathon he and the rest of my family was there to cheer me on. The reason I’m telling you this is it is a good example of something my husband always makes a point of saying. He says that our “core family” which did  mean the four of us, and now means the five of us, always stick together.

 

I know that someday our core family will be even bigger when James and Stephanie have beautiful babies. We are always going to be here for the two of you as you go on this great marathon we call life. Don’t ever forget that.

 

My hope for you two is that you always have one another to talk to, to be best friends, and to depend on one another in good times and bad.

 

And I hope that your home is always filled with love and laughter. James, this is not a carnival ride, this is the elephant! Have a blast both of you.  L’Chaim! To James and Stephanie!

 

 

They say a promise is a promise and I really want to do everything possible to honor the promise I made earlier on this page.

 

So, without further ado, let me walk you through how you can make the most of the above mother of the groom sample to write a sincere speech that comes straight from your heart.

 

But before we start, let’s look at a few things you need to know before you think of putting your ideas together. 

                                            

The first step is to decide what you have to do.

Like everything else in life, the speech writing process involves planning.  Planning what to say, how to say it, and where to get the ideas to say what you wish to say.

 

Of course, it is possible to wing it if you have this sudden bout of inspiration that compels you to write so well like one of the finest writers of our time.

The key to pulling it off is to start on a right note. So, you should first get a purpose and theme for your toast.

 

And by this, I mean deciding how you want your mother of the groom wedding speech to achieve a certain effect. To do that, you should ask yourself these simple questions:

• Do I want to give a short and sweet speech?
• Should my speech be sentimental, sappy, or heartfelt?
• Have I been asked to simply make the welcome speech?
• Do I want to render it in the form of a poem?
• Can I make it different by making my speech like a song like this one?
• Can I keep it as simple as I can?
• Can I make it a narration of my boy’s life by picking a few memorable stories about his life?
• Am I funny enough to give a funny mother of the groom wedding speech?
• Can’t I do a father-mother of the groom speech or a joint speech with my husband?
• Or can I use bit and pieces of all the above styles to say something about the groom and the bride?

 

 

Please take this from me: If you are going to speak at more than one venue, then you may decide to say make a simple toast at one setting(rehearsal dinner) and give your mother of the groom toast itself at another venue, say the wedding reception.

 

Second, you need to get a clear idea of how such speeches are made. I know you have been to several weddings in the course of your life. But you obviously weren’t there for the speeches. But for the food and drink and everything that comes with it.

 

So, you can warm up your brain and mentally prepare for task by watching a few videos about how mother of the groom wedding speeches are delivered.

 

The theme or purpose you selected above will ultimately influence the kind of videos you watch.

 

For instance, if you think you are a naturally funny person, then you can search for ‘’funny mother of the groom speeches’’ with the intention of getting great ideas for writing your own hilarious wedding toast.

 

Similarly, if you are thinking of making a sentimental mother of the groom wedding speech, then you can input that phrase into the search box of your favorite video sharing platform.

 

By the way, here are two of the best videos I found online that can stimulate your brain into coming up with the best ideas. 

Now, please press the play buttons in the following videos below. Then, watch them, and write down tips and ideas that speak to you.

 

Here you go:

 

Mother of the Groom Speech Video Sample #1

 

 

Mother of the Groom Toast Video Example #2

 

 

Which of the videos did you most enjoy watching? I am not sure about you, but the second clip was my favorite.

 

A step-by-step approach for writing a mother of the groom wedding speech

 

Now, let’s dive right in by looking at a step-by-step approach to writing a memorable toast for your son and daughter-in-law.

 

First, let’s start by looking at how to write the introduction. We can do that effortlessly by reviewing the opening address of the above template.

 

Here it is again:

‘’ Hello everyone. I’m Mary, James’s mom and I am so happy that we are finally here to celebrate with James and Stephanie and their true love story. We waited a year, but they finally got the wedding they deserve! Derek has always been such a good heart.  ‘’

 

 

Please keep the underlined sentence in mind as we will come back to it later. I know it’s been ages since you left high school.

 

But do you remember what your high school English teacher said about writing an engaging introduction? Can’t give it a try?

 

If you said that a great intro compromises of a short self-introduction, then I think your memory is like a magnet! Congratulations!

 

Please don’t worry if you had no clue.  If you really don’t want to waste time on this aspect of the introduction, then you can simply emulate the example you saw.

 

But it goes beyond that because your introductory remarks should also prominently feature one or more of these components:

 

• Give a special shout out to people who played a tremendous role in your own life, your family, as well as your son
• Thank the parents of the bride for welcoming your son into the family

 

Action Tip: Can you write down a short intro and mention names of people you want to say thank you to for something they have done?

 

Well, let’s take a stroll down memory lane and write down names of people you want to express appreciation to for their love and support over the years.

 

 

Now, let’s come back to this: James has always been such a good heart.

 

 

I know you might be wondering what the heck that means? Ok, it is called the hook and I will explain what that means as we go on.

 

You see, that is part of the introductory example we are looking at. You might not know this. But all opening addresses are made of these elements:

1. Greetings and a short self-introduction(which we looked at the onset of this page)
2. The hook (it is that part of the speech that draws in the listener into the story)

 

The hook should be funny, engaging, and inspiring so that your family and friends imagine your speech to be a very special one and not like the boring stuff they often hear at most wedding receptions, rehearsal dinner or even at engagement parties.

 

How to Capture the Attention of The Wedding Guests

 

How then do you can capture the attention of the wedding guests from the get go? It’s simple and the following examples can help you capture the spirit of a great intro.

 

First, you can start with a joke or tease your son with a story that won’t embarrass him. 

 

Here’s an example.

 

About half of you know the groom (my son) as Jack. Others call him Bread….But I like to call him Jack Bread because that weird combination sounds like music to my big ears!

So, for just a few minutes, I would like to tell you a few stories about your favorite guy: Jack Bread.

For those of you who don’t me, I am Margaret and my friends call me Miss. Bread….Sounds strange right? That a mom and his son share the same nickname. Just hold on and I will tell you the complete story.

Well, I actually got that cool nickname when I was in high school….

 

Did you notice how I slipped in that small story to entertain the audience? If you are not a naturally funny person or love to joke as a family, then you should just go with something you are very comfortable with.

 

Second, if you are a musically inclined person, you can simply write a simple song about your son’s life and toss in a few pictures without actually making a traditional speech. This music video can serve as a very useful guide.

 

 

 

 

Third, if you are a Christian or you have a strong religious upbringing, then it makes a lot of sense to start your speech on a note of gratitude to God as well as to your family and friends or a simple prayer.

 

Fourth, if you are a very emotional person and think your mother of the groom speech should have streaks of that to be felt throughout your message, then you can start with some touching quotes.

 

Here are some great ones you can make good use of.

• "You mean more to methan anyone in this world." —Peter Pan, Peter Pan

 

• "So this is love. So this is what makes life divine." —Cinderella, Cinderella

 

• "You are my greatest adventure." —Mr. Incredible, The Incredibles

 

• "If love is as sweet as a flower, then my mother is that sweet flower of love."---Steve Wonder

• "Mothers hold their children's hands for a short while, but their hearts forever."- Unknown

 

Finally, if you have ever written a letter to your son that captured your love for him in a very special way, you can start with that. For example, if it was a letter to him advising him about his future spouse, then you can start from.

 

This is how this can be done. Please read this example very carefully.

 

When my little husband (that’s what our neighbors used to  call us when he was toddler because we were extremely close). Well, when my little husband (now Rose’s sweetheart) turned 21 years old, I wrote him a letter that gave him great advice on what to look out for when choosing a spouse someday.

 

In that letter, I said Mike if you marry who loves you more than anything else and you will never regret it. I had never seen him with a lady. So, when he first brought Rose home 6 years later, my mind went back to the contents of that letter and I realized that his choice of spouse was a reflection of that maternal advice.

 

If you remember writing a lovely letter to your son, just dig around for it and see if you can rework parts of it for his wedding speech. I did it once for a client called Lori and her speech was a hit with everyone from family to friends of the bride and groom.

 

How to Give Them Something to Smile About

 

The body comes next after the introduction. So, let’s see….

How to put together the Content of your mother of the groom wedding speech

The body of your presentation is all about saying something about your son and daughter-in-law.

 

Here, you first begin by talking about your son. To make things much easier for you, you can do a little brainstorming and write down at least four (4) character traits of your son starting from when he was a toddler until now.

For example, my son is a kind, diligent, patient, daring, and caring young man.

 

Next , get stories or anecdotes for each attribute and use those that appeal to you write a rough first draft. Remember, you can always go back to review it until you are very happy with your speech.

 

That’s not all though. You can write a few things about your daughter-in-law. What you say should be thoughtful, honest and sincere and devoid of any resentful tone even if you think or feel she’s not the right woman for your precious son.

 

Now, let’s see

How You Can End Your Mother of the Groom Wedding Speech with a Bang

 

The golden rule of all memorable speeches is this: start with a bang, and end with a bang. It’s not uncommon for most wedding toasts to end like this:

‘’ Without further ado, please raise your glasses and toast to the happy couple’’

 

Is there anything wrong with that, really? Absolutely not. But that closing remark is not really inspiring since a first grade student can even master that.

 

Believe it or not, this is one of the most important tributes you will give in your lifetime so your conclusion should pack a punch.

 

Well, you can easily wrap up with any of these tips if you really want your speech to stand out.

 

First, you can end with an advice. Here are a few practical marriage advice that can always help the couple stay true to their promises. You may share what has actually helped you and your husband weather the storms.

 

• Choose to love each other even in those moments when you struggle to like each other. Love is a commitment, not just a feeling.
• Make time together a priority. Budget for a consistent date night. Time is the “currency of relationships” so consistently invest time into your marriage. There are no shortcuts. Building a strong marriage takes time and effort.
• Your friends will impact your marriage, so choose your friends wisely. Surround yourself with friends who will strengthen your marriage and remove yourself from people who may tempt you to compromise your character.
• Give your best to each other, not your leftovers after you’ve given your best to everyone else.
• ‘’Your words matter to your spouse. But the tone in which you speak those words matter just as much. ‘’----Dave Willis

 

Second, you may end with a blessing or bible quotes or even a prayer if you are a Christian or a person of faith. My friend Christine used this bible verse when her sons were getting married and I am sure she would still use them when her grandchildren are also getting married someday.

Psalm 128

A song of ascents.

¹ Blessed are all who fear the Lord,
    who walk in obedience to him.
² You will eat the fruit of your labor;
    blessings and prosperity will be yours.
³ Your wife will be like a fruitful vine
    within your house;
your children will be like olive shoots
    around your table.
⁴ Yes, this will be the blessing
    for the man who fears the Lord.

⁵ May the Lord bless you from Zion;
    may you see the prosperity of Jerusalem
    all the days of your life.
⁶ May you live to see your children’s children—
    peace be on Israel.

This is also another powerful verse you can use in a prayer for the couple.

Numbers 6:24-26

New International Version

²⁴ “‘“The Lord bless you
    and keep you;
²⁵ the Lord make his face shine on you
    and be gracious to you;
²⁶ the Lord turn his face toward you
    and give you peace.”

 

Third, you can end with a few quotes from the movies. I am really fond of these ones.

“The best love is the kind that awakens the soul and makes us reach for more that plants a fire in our hearts and brings peace to our minds.” – The Notebook

“When you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody, you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible.” – When Harry met Sally

 

Fourth, you can make your conclusion super memorable by asking a few members of your family to share with the couple what has worked for them in their marriage on video and share it with couple. It may project it on a screen.

 

Furthermore, you can put your own piece of advice on a picture frame and gift them to the couple and they will thank you for that very kind gesture.

P.S: Is the thought of giving you a great wedding speech keeping you up at night? It shouldn’t if you do what most moms do. By following this simple plan that's guaranteed to help you write a great mom speech like the one you read above.

Claire was quite skeptical when she came to us but we kept assuring what she will make her son and family proud-and this is what she sent over after the wedding was over

'' Hello Dan, their wedding went very well. The usual stress beforehand for the couple organizing the event but all things to do went so smoothly. I also like to say that I'm so proud of my speech, almost got a standing ovation, lol! I'm so glad I've found you. I will definitely recommend you to my friends and family in future weddings. I wish you the very best.''-  Claire, New Zealand

Want to know how she did just that? She got on board our wedding speech program and one of our talented speech consultants helped her out.

Want to get on board? You should by first filling out this simple form.

This is letter a mom sent to us after we helped her deliver her speech(Please click on it to enlarge if you can't see it)

Ok, Is This Offer For Me?

• Yes, if you are expecting nothing less than a very special, beautiful, unique, and memorable speech.

• Don’t have much time to write a perfect speech just as you want it because of work demands and other life's pressure or even sick? Then, let’s take care of it and the guests will definitely sing your praises--we have done it for so many others and it's your turn now!

• Yes, if you are overwhelmed by the pressures of work and don’t have the time to put together a very meaningful speech, so you can have your peace of mind

• Yes, if you want your family, your son, friends, and wedding guests to shower you with very sincere compliments…just imagine how you will feel

• Yes, if you are not good with words and you feel you’re not a natural writer and you are struggling to find the right words but still want to give a great speech.

• Yes, you get so scared anytime you’re asked to say something before an audience and you really want to save yourself from any form of embarrassment on your son's big day.

• Yes, if you are not too eloquent or not too sure if you are on the right track.

• Yes, if you absolutely hate speaking in public or feel this is not your thing but you want to make your son feel very proud

• Yes, if you have a day or less to the wedding and you are worried that you might make some horrible mistakes

• Yes, if you are a good speaker but you still want someone to look over or review what you've come up with!

Just imagine leaving your entire presentation in the hands of skilled wedding speech consultants who will take away your pain of spending hours thinking hard and long about what to say and what not to say.

Also, envision being patiently guided to say something that will leave a favorable impression on the mind of your listeners.

And also imagine the thrill and feeling of excitement and pride you’re going to experience when the audience leaps onto their feet and scream and shouts and even sing your praises.

Won’t you love that? I hope you do...

Wedding not too far away? Or happening in less than 24 hours? Trust me, we can deliver! it doesn’t matter if your speech is today, tomorrow, next week, next month ,next year,... we can make things work for you  

 

Ok, I am Interested, What’s the Cost?

You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.

Why? As you know, the current health and economic crisis has caused severe hardships for most people.

Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.

Yet, some sons are still getting married and asking their moms to give speeches.

''It was perfect Dan.  I changed a few things in the speech. And I had several people come up and tell me how well done it was. I couldn't have done it better. Thanks for your help''- Marilyn, Canada

Nonetheless, not every mother could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.

So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.

Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.

So, please take advantage of it now even if your son’s big day is in the future.

Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video and your son and daughter-in-law and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.  

So, please take advantage of it now even if your son’s big day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.

This is another letter a mom sent to us after we helped her deliver her speech(Please click on it to enlarge if you can't see it) 

Oh Ok, How Then Do I Get Started Since I Want To Get On Board Right Away?

Ok, here’s how it works

All you have to do RIGHT NOW is to click on this link to receive an easy-to-fill-in questionnaire via email. Check your email a few hours after you’ve submitted your request.

So,

1)CLICK HERE  NOW TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT THIS QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind!

2. After that, we will send you a very short questionnaire to fill out via email! You only have to check your email a few hours after you have made your request

3. Then, you fill out the questionnaire sent through your email, and please have it sent back to us…

4. We will confirm receipt of it…If something is not too clear, we will ask you to clarify….

5. If not, we will send you a wonderful draft in a couple of hours if this on very short notice….If not, after a few days

6. Then, you look it over and tell us if you are okay with it or you want to amend or revise it till you are happy with it--although we always get it right even with the first draft.
7. Then, we ask you to pay for it.

Please note: The information collected through the questionnaire is only for the purpose of writing your speech. I wouldn’t even need it if I could read your mind. So, your information is very confidential and no one will know about it.

 

Just a reminder of what you pay after it’s duly completed.

Ok, I am Interested, What’s the Cost?

You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.

Why? As you know, the current health and economic crisis has caused severe hardships for most people. Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.

Yet, some sons are still getting married and asking their moms to give speeches.

''It was perfect Dan.  I changed a few things in the speech. And I had several people come up and tell me how well done it was. I couldn't have done it better. Thanks for your help''- Marilyn, Canada

Nonetheless, not every mother could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.

So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.

Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.

So, please take advantage of it now even if your son’s big day is in the future.

Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video and your son and daughter-in-law and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.   

So, please take advantage of it now even if your son’s big day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.   

Please note: Your speech draft comes with a proven and simple tip to master your speech or remember your speech just as you want it without carrying a paper with you.

Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise, and clarity!

''Hi Dan,

The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice).  Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.

All the best,

Matt''

Please note: Don’t fill out this form if you’re a dishonest individual. This offer is for a limited time.

So, CLICK HERE TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT A QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind and not lose money. The risk is on us!

You don't have to worry about paying our per speech for now.

Forget about money and let’s write something for you. We believe in the values of honesty and integrity and we think you should be happy with our work first.

So, Here Are The Benefits You Get When You Get On Board!

• A great speech written by our wedding speech consultants that reflects what you want to say exactly

• We coach you on how to use your voice to make your speech very exciting.

• We show you a simple but often overlook strategy to rehearse your speech even if you have a very poor memory. This method is used by great speakers like Obama and was used by Abraham Lincoln and his compatriots

• The most effective way to get your entire speech into your head without memorizing your speech. Guaranteed to help you even if you have a very poor memory or your memory is like a gold fish…most of our clients still wonder where we got this idea from. This ensures that you don't read off a sheet of paper...

Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise, and clarity!

''Hi Dan,

The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice).  Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.

All the best,

Matt''

• Ways to include humor in your speech and what it takes to do so

So, CLICK HERE TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT A QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you ca+n have peace of mind and not lose money. The risk is on us!

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Mother of the groom speech toast samples or templates

How to use mother of the groom toast templates and samples to easily and quickly help you write the best mother of the groom wedding toast ever

 

Please give me only 5 (five) minutes of your precious time and I will show you with clear examples how you can

• Find great mother of the groom speech toast examples and templates to help you write the best ever speech at your son’s wedding

• Find a proven structure or outline you can simply follow to make your wedding toast for your son very unique

• Say what you really want to say about your son and daughter in law at the wedding reception or rehearsal dinner night.

• Easily find great tips and ideas and content to help you write a heartfelt and memorable mother of the groom wedding toast.

 

 

Plus a whole lot more….

 

If you are ready for this, then let’s get started with this touching story as it has some connection with writing a heartfelt mother of the groom wedding toast.

 

Martha had been to many weddings her whole lifetime and loved everything about wedding traditions, particularly the speech- making part of the show.

 

As someone blessed with the gift of words, she loved it whenever she heard someone give a great wedding speech and wished that she too would make her own children so proud when they are getting married someday.

 

Martha had always looked forward to having her own children. But, after five years of marriage, she thought she would never see them. 

 

She taught grade school and loved children and wished to have her own so her joy could be complete because she always said to friends and family that when a mom has a child, she has a flower for keeps. That was her personal motto.

 

10 years after her wedding, she had her first child and son and they named him Samuel after Martha’s father. In a heartbeat, Samuel grew up into a very tolerant, happy, and caring little boy who never met a stranger.

 

He was so much loved and admired for his kindness that both adults and his peers loved to hang out with him.  More especially for his sharp wit. Once, Martha caught him having a talk with the president of Volunteer America. Later she gingerly asked what they talked about and Sam replied that he tried to fool him with a trick. When that failed, he challenged him spell his last name. 

 

 

He promptly spelled it out correctly. Then he revealed he wore a name tag. Samuel wasn’t your typical teenager. He was involved in any of the adolescence drama stuff but all he did was to bury his head into his books and ended up becoming a Straight A student in high school.

 

 

From high school, Sam transitioned to college and out of the home.  To Martha, it was a loss since it was the first time his only child and son had moved out of home. But Sam made the most of his stay there and kept telling his parents everything that happened.

 

 

He excelled and got a great job with great pay and progressed up the ladder to gain invaluable experience that brought him more success.  It was at this same time that he brought Abigail home. Abigail was his first love and as soon as he feasted eyes on her, he told his mom and dad that he was going to marry her.

 

 

True to his word, their wedding plans began after dating for only six months and asked his mom to say some remarks at their wedding. That almost freaked mother even though, she’d been long looking forward to making her son proud on his big day.

 

 

Sure, she was good with word but never had she imagined that it would take something extra to come up with the good words to help her write a mother of the groom speech. 

 

After days of working so hard on it, something didn’t click. Thankfully, she reached out to someone who had helped mothers from around the world deliver wedding speeches for their sons successfully and together they came up with this short wedding speech for her son.

 

 

A Mother of the Groom Speech Toast Sample/ Template

 

Good evening ladies and gentleman. Thank you all for joining us and we are so happy to have you here.

I am Martha, Samuels’s mom and I want to thank you all for coming here today and sharing this special day with us.

And to everyone who traveled several miles to be with us here today, we truly appreciate the time and expense involved to get here. Thanks a lot for coming.

 

Samuels’s marriage to Anita brings back very fond memories of the time Alfred and I got married.

I remember when we looked eye ball to eye ball and made our vows to love and help each other discover our true self and potentials.

 

Samuel, when you came into my life, you were so cute and perfect and felt blessed to have you in my life.

The days that followed, we bonded like never before and I looked forward to seeing you grow into a wonderful man.

 

In a heartbeat, you grew into a very tolerant and friendly little boy with a love for the outdoors.

Even though you are getting married to the love of your life, I still have so many memories of you growing up.

From the time you’d ramble on at the dinner table, telling us some winding stories that sometimes drove us to the brink of sanity to the good ones we loved to listen to.

 

I also can remember you following your dad and grandfather around, either in the pig barn or riding in any of the farm equipment.

 

As a child, Sam didn’t like the slow pace of his growth. You looked forward to growing taller than your brother and I still can remember how you’d get a height rod to measure yourself to see how fast you were growing.

 

Much to his dismay, he kept getting the same results anytime he checked his height before quitting for good!

The years that followed, he grew up too fast and became a very responsible teenager.

When Sam was 16 years old, he became our savior so to speak. 

 

 

Samuel was home by himself on a Friday night when a knock came on the door around 11:00 p.m.

A mother and daughter were there, and asked him “do you know that your backyard is on fire?”

 

 

Samuel tried to reach us, but we didn’t answer the cell phone at the lake.  He took charge of the situation quickly by dousing the fire before the neighbors arrived.

 

 

There aren’t too many young teens who would have handled themselves so calm and cool like you did. But you bravely did it to the admiration of those who saw you.

 

Samuel, we were extremely proud of you on that day. You risked your life on that day to keep our property safe and that incredible act of bravery made you the family’s ‘’hero!’’

Today is your big day and we are so proud of the person you’ve become at such a young age.

You have accomplished so much working on your dad’s farm as a millwright.

And we know you have made such a wise decision to settle down with the love of your life as life certainly gets better when you find someone who truly loves you.

 

I will miss all those moments we have spent together, particularly your nice stories and hearing you say ‘’hi mom’’ as you walk through the door each night after work.

 

 

Anita, I know for sure that you are blessed to have found Samuel.  Having been married to Alfred for quite some time, I know how important and sweet finding a loving spouse is.

Samuel is very kind and tender-hearted. I remember seeing Anita for the first time years before she and Samuel started dating. She was likely about 12 or 13 at the time. 

 

She had her hair tied back in a ponytail, and a skip in her step (she still walks like that today), as she headed to the barn. She kindly waved to me.  I remember thinking, “oh boy… that looks like a nice girl, I wonder if she would be interested in Samuel sometime down the road”. 

 

 

Now, here we are as a mother’s dream has come true.  Samuel and Anita, from this moment on you will have to start laying a firm foundation for a flourishing marriage. And I am confident that you both have what it takes to do so as you have similar passions and dreams.

 

Nevertheless, a good marriage is like cultivating a good farm. It is a work in process that can never be left unattended- not even for one day. 

What that means is that you always have to pay a price to make your marriage so strong and beautiful.

Make sure you put each other first in everything you do and never ever take each other for granted no matter what.

That way, nothing can quench the love you have for each other.  God bless you and love you both.

 

 

Did you enjoy it? I did but don’t know about you. Whatever it is, let’s go on to how you can easily write a heartfelt mother of the groom wedding speech toast taking inspiration from the above example. 

 

Are you ready? Please relax, shut everything down and sit still as we delve deep into how to get the right words and ideas to write a mother of the groom speech example that would make your son and new daughter-in-law so proud of you.

 

Here You Go, My Sister!

 

If you go back to read that template once again, you will notice that the above example and every wedding speech you will ever hear is made up of these core elements: introduction, body, and conclusion.

 

So, first and foremost, let’s start by looking at …

How you can easily compose the introductory remarks of your mother of the groom wedding speech for your son.

First, let’s review the introduction we looked at so we can figure out what goes into writing a great introduction.

 

Here you go:

‘’Good evening ladies and gentleman. Thank you all for joining us and we are so happy to have you here. ….And to everyone who traveled several miles to be with us here today, we truly appreciate the time and expense involved to get here. Thanks a lot for coming.

Samuels’s marriage to …. brings back very fond memories of the time ‘’

 

If you study the excerpted example very carefully, you would notice that it has these core components

1. Short self-introduction which is the norm as you know it
2. Then, thank everyone for coming

 

 

Now, I love people who take action. So, this is what I want you to do right now.

Using the example above, write down your own self introduction. 

Oh I forgot about something I would like you to know. Your opening lines can be used to thank people who have had profound impact on your son’s life.

 

 

Here’s an example you can learn from.

 

A Special Day like this takes the efforts of many people who worked hard and tirelessly to create this incredible Day. First and foremost, let me thank Samuels dad, Dan, whom I have been able to count on like 1,2,3 for love and support from the day our son was born. He’s a great role model and an amazing father.

 

Did you see how I wrote that? It’s actually simple. All you have to do after writing a short self-introduction is to jot down names of people who have been a tremendous blessing in your son’s life and indicate the help you got from them.

 

You can mention personalities like

1. The groom’s father or your own husband
2. The groom’s siblings or friends
3. Your own parents (groom’s grandparents)
4. Your neighbors
5. The bride’s parents

…….the list goes on and on.

 

So, please sit down and write their names down.

 

Closely connected to the above is how you start your wedding speech as we saw earlier: ‘’ Samuels’s marriage to …. brings back very fond memories of the time ‘’ ‘’

 

Simply put, you have to start with a bang so you endear yourself to the wedding attendees. Do you want to know how you can do that? I am beyond excited to share with you a couple of simple ideas you can easily use.

 

 

Do you have a very touching or funny story of what really happened when your son was born? You can share that moment to lighten up the mood. I remember that a woman once wrote to me and said that when their child was born, her late husband was giddy with excitement that he ended up driving to the dump on their way back home.

 

 

She didn’t tell me what really happened but I assumed he lost control of the wheel due to excitement, right? 

Do you remember what happened prior, on the day or even after he was born? If you, then please write it down.

1. If your son’s entry into planet earth has no exciting twist to it, you can simply start your mother of the groom speech with a witty quote and this is proven to work if you are aiming for a sentimental mother of the groom speech.

 

 

Here are a few quotes you can actually use to enrich your wedding speech for your son and daughter-in-law.

Quote #1: "My greatest blessing has been the birth of my son. My next greatest blessing has been my ability to turn people into children of mine’’ – Maya Angelou

Quote #2: "There has never been, nor will there ever be, anything quite so special as the love between the mother and a son."- Unknown

Quote #3: "Raising boys has made me a more generous woman than I really am.’’ – Mary Kay Blakely

 

 

Now, can you use any of that to grab the attention of the audience? Can you really do that?

 

Ok, I am going to illustrate with Maya’s quote: ‘’ My greatest blessing has been the birth of my son. ‘’

 

I am going to borrow these words: my greatest blessings….’’

My mom once said that the greatest blessing in her life was being the mother of three girls. Well, I got to understand her better when I became a mom to four strong boys and it has made me realize that motherhood is a very wonderful adventure that never ends.

I first go to taste the joys of motherhood when Samuel (name of the groom) was born….

 

Got that? Don’t you think ears will perk up when you start your mother of the groom speech this way? You be the judge!

 

 

Now, let us consider

 

How You Can Write The Content or Structure of Your Wedding Speech For Your Son

 

To figure out how that can be done, let’s first re-look at excerpts of the above template/example.

Here you go: Please take note of the underlined phrases as I did that on purpose and I am going to use it to elaborate on those phrases soon.

 

 ‘’As a child, Jonathan didn’t like the slow pace of his growth. You looked forward to growing taller than your brother and I still can remember how you’d get a height rod to measure yourself to see how fast you were growing…..

When Sam was 16 years old, you become our savior so to speak…..There aren’t too many young teens who would have handled themselves so calm and cool like you did. But you bravely did it to the admiration of those who saw you…..’’

Well, let’s see what goes into writing the content of most great mother of the groom speeches.

There are several factors to consider before you even jot down the storyline. If you just get into writing mode, your ideas might not flow very well.

This is what you have to do to get it done right.  

 

First and foremost, you can watch a few YouTube videos about mothers of the grooms making their speeches to get a fair idea of how to go about it. Here are some great videos I found for you specially.

 

Video# 1: Mother of the groom speech example

 

 

Video #2: Mother of the groom toast sample

 

 

Second, you have to decide how long you want your speech to run. 3 minutes? 5 minutes? Or what duration do you have in mind?

 

Third, the best way of striking a chord with the wedding guests is to choose a style that your listeners that best reflect who you are.

It’s actually funny to see the overwhelming majority of mothers modeling their wedding speeches after very successful ones.

But that’s wrong because everyone is unique and it’s always a wise idea to choose one or more of the following styles: dramatic, tender, poetic, rhythmic, narrative, and even funny.

 

Fourth, after you have picked your style, you have to decide the direction you want your wedding toast for your son to go and you can do that by dwelling on or more of these aspects of his life:

• A memorable story about his childhood as we saw in these lines: As a child, Jonathan didn’t like the slow pace of his growth.
• An anecdote about his teenage years as seen here: When Sam was 16 years old
• A remarkable story you can remember about when he was growing up

 

Hint: You may cull stories from each of those developmental stages of his life and combine them to say something about your son.

 

Action Tip: Starting from your son’s infant years to when he brought the bride home for the very first time, write down the most memorable moments you can remember.

 

Then, pick the good ones you wish to use and use them to craft your storyline. Remember to not mention any negative thing about his past years.

 

 

Let’s look at another important part the equation:

How You Can End Your Mother of the Groom Speech Toast with a Bang

 

Have you ever wondered why some wedding toasts become the talk of the evening while several others barely hit the mark?  

If you said that the wedding speakers ended on a remarkable note, then you are right.

 

Recently, someone wrote me that his speech was a hit and on hindsight, I think the concluding remarks might have struck a chord with everyone because I said something to this effect:

‘’It goes without saying that it takes love to create a marriage and after several years that marriage creates true love.’’

 

That’s a quote that strongly resonates with me and I am sure that did the trick for him.

 

You might have written a touching mother of the groom speech. But if you don’t end well, your speech might be very well received as you’d anticipated.

 

Well, here are some cool ideas you can use to finish strong.

 

First, you can end with a joke.

For example,

Always settle disputes before going to bed and you will end up making love first thing in the morning.

 

Second, you may end with a nice poem like this one by Linda Harrison.  

M is for making a future that will last.
A is for Accepting both the present and the past.
R is for Respect for each other every day.
R is for remembering those special things to say.
I is for Issues, which no doubt will challenge you.
A is for Always find a way to talk them through.
G is for Growing the love that keeps you strong.
E is for Endurance when sometimes things go wrong.

Third, if you are a devoted Christian or a religious person, you can use one or more of these bible verses to write a faith based conclusion.

 

James 1:17 Every good and perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of the heavenly lights, who does not change like shifting shadows.

 

Proverbs 31:10

“Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies.”

 

Proverbs 18:22

“Whoso findeth a wife findeth a good thing, and obtaineth favour of the Lord.”

I can use the James 1:17 verse to write this short example.

Tom and Shelly, the love for you have for each other is a gift from above so always cherish each other and you will have a very fulfilling marriage.

Did you notice how I infused that short verse into that marital advice? That’s how it is done.

 

Fourth, you can share nuggets of wisdom based on your experience as a wife and mother.

 

Below is an example from the speech example we saw earlier

A good marriage is like cultivating a good farm. It is a work in process that can never be left unattended- not even for one day. 

 

What that means is that you always have to pay a price to make your marriage so strong.

Make sure you put each other first in everything you do and never ever take each other for granted no matter what.

P.S: Is the thought of giving you a great wedding speech keeping you up at night? It shouldn’t if you do what most moms do. By following this simple plan that's guaranteed to help you write a great mom speech like the one you read above.

Claire was quite skeptical when she came to us but we kept assuring what she will make her son and family proud-and this is what she sent over after the wedding was over

'' Hello Dan, their wedding went very well. The usual stress beforehand for the couple organizing the event but all things to do went so smoothly. I also like to say that I'm so proud of my speech, almost got a standing ovation, lol! I'm so glad I've found you. I will definitely recommend you to my friends and family in future weddings. I wish you the very best.''-  Claire, New Zealand

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• Yes, if you are overwhelmed by the pressures of work and don’t have the time to put together a very meaningful speech, so you can have your peace of mind

• Yes, if you want your family, your son, friends, and wedding guests to shower you with very sincere compliments…just imagine how you will feel

• Yes, if you are not good with words and you feel you’re not a natural writer and you are struggling to find the right words but still want to give a great speech.

• Yes, you get so scared anytime you’re asked to say something before an audience and you really want to save yourself from any form of embarrassment on your son's big day.

• Yes, if you are not too eloquent or not too sure if you are on the right track.

• Yes, if you absolutely hate speaking in public or feel this is not your thing but you want to make your son feel very proud

• Yes, if you have a day or less to the wedding and you are worried that you might make some horrible mistakes

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Just imagine leaving your entire presentation in the hands of skilled wedding speech consultants who will take away your pain of spending hours thinking hard and long about what to say and what not to say.

Also, envision being patiently guided to say something that will leave a favorable impression on the mind of your listeners.

And also imagine the thrill and feeling of excitement and pride you’re going to experience when the audience leaps onto their feet and scream and shouts and even sing your praises.

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Why? As you know, the current health and economic crisis has caused severe hardships for most people.

Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.

Yet, some sons are still getting married and asking their moms to give speeches.

''It was perfect Dan.  I changed a few things in the speech. And I had several people come up and tell me how well done it was. I couldn't have done it better. Thanks for your help''- Marilyn, Canada

Nonetheless, not every mother could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.

So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.

Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.

So, please take advantage of it now even if your son’s big day is in the future.

Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video and your son and daughter-in-law and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.  

So, please take advantage of it now even if your son’s big day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.

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You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.

Why? As you know, the current health and economic crisis has caused severe hardships for most people. Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.

Yet, some sons are still getting married and asking their moms to give speeches.

''It was perfect Dan.  I changed a few things in the speech. And I had several people come up and tell me how well done it was. I couldn't have done it better. Thanks for your help''- Marilyn, Canada

Nonetheless, not every mother could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.

So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.

Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.

So, please take advantage of it now even if your son’s big day is in the future.

Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video and your son and daughter-in-law and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.   

So, please take advantage of it now even if your son’s big day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.   

Please note: Your speech draft comes with a proven and simple tip to master your speech or remember your speech just as you want it without carrying a paper with you.

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''Hi Dan,

The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice).  Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.

All the best,

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The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice).  Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.

All the best,

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Mother of The Groom Speech Or Toast: Now, You Too Can Easily Write A Funny And Heartfelt Wedding Toast For Your Son

 

Have you ever listened to a funny mother of the groom speech or toast that almost threw you out of your seat? You probably enjoyed it so much that you said to yourself that when your son is getting married to the love of his life, you are going to take a stab at it.

 

 

Now, that dream is about to manifest as you prepare to give a hilarious mother of the groom speech or toast. But let me ask you this simple question. Do you really have what it takes to come up with a humorous wedding speech that will bring the house down?  

 

Most mothers erroneously think they have to be naturally funny to come up with hilarious wedding toasts. While having that quality can help make your mother of the groom speech a hit, it’s by no means all the only way to endear yourself to your audience.

 

 

There are several other ways you can tickle the wedding guests with excitement even if you are not so friendly like a bulldog or you are not a naturally funny person.

 

 

Before we do so, let’s look at this one thing about funny mother of the groom speeches.

 

Contrary to what most folks think, you really don’t have to force it if you can’t recall amusing anecdotes about your son’s life. You see, your utmost concern when you grab that microphone is to tell the guests about how he is being transformed from that little boy who used to play with his toys to the wonderful man he is now.

 

So, in effect, you are in to tell a story about his life. If in the process of doing that, you throw in a few fond and funny memories here and there in a non-embarrassing way, you will give everyone a reason to hang on to your words.

 

However, if nothing of that sort runs through your entire speech, you just have to go with what you remember about his life.

 

 

After all,  we all have different personalities and your son’s life might not have been punctuated with funny events and incidents.

With that said, let’s dive right in by looking at what goes into writing a funny mother of the groom speech or toast.

 

There are processes involved in in writing a great piece, and you have to go through each of them unless you are an exceptionally good speaker who can easily make things up in their mind.

 

The first step is the pre-writing process.  Here is where you get yourself in the mood before you actually plan out the content of your wedding speech for your son and daughter-in-law.

 

One of the best ways of getting yourself in the mood is by watching funny mother of the groom speech videos. So, this is what I recommend right now.  Go watch a few videos on Youtube.com or on your favorite platforms and take note of how such presentations are made.

 

 

As you watch a couple of them, please put down tips and ideas you consider very helpful that you think can help you put your thoughts together in a very coherent manner.

 

By the way, I found two great examples that can inspire you to come up with great ideas for your speech.

 

Funny mother of the groom speech #1

 

 

Funny mother of the groom speech #2

 

 

I really enjoyed both clips and I hope you did too? Did you find anything that you wish to add to your wedding speech or toast for your son?

 

Well, another tool that can easily help you write the best mother of the groom speech are wedding speech examples.

 

Do you know why? It’s because they contain a lot of helpful tips and ideas that you can easily adapt for your own narration. 

 

Unfortunately, I have come across situations where some wedding speakers have carelessly swiped them without customizing them to suit their own needs.

 

That’s so wrong. Well, I want to show you how to make the most of them. So, please bear with me for a while as I walk you through an easy-to-follow step to using mother of the groom speech examples to come up with your own speech.

 

Here you go:

 

A Funny Mother of the Groom Speech Sample 

 

Good evening and welcome everyone! I’m Millie, Dan’s very proud dad!

I would like to thank everyone who has come from near and far to share in our joy and happiness. It means a lot to see you all here.

 

Dan is my first child and it seems like only yesterday that Eric and I were in a state of nervous excitement as we awaited the arrival of our first baby boy.

Dan was a very active little boy who was always determined to steal the spotlight at any cost.

 

As a little boy, he felt the best way to do that was to protect his family. 

You see, Dan absolutely loved Robin, of Batman and Robin fame, and how they beat up the bad guys.  To imitate Robin, Dan‘’the super fighter’’ would run around our house in his Robin outfit like a wind, making sure that his cape was flying, and pretend that he was fighting all the bad guys in the neighborhood!

 

 

Once, he climbed up a wall near where we used to live and tried flying only to land on the grass with a loud thud.  Unfortunately, he lost one tooth and we had to send him to the emergency room and we came out of there as a wise little boy!

 

Growing up, Dan loved playing sports. He was very much into High Schools Sports that he got a varsity letter in Soccer and Lacrosse for being the most valuable player his senior year.

 

In spite of those sporting accomplishments, he was so focused and worked so hard to achieve his goals and dreams. Dan, we are so proud of you and who you have become.

 

I have always hoped that you will find someone who really cares for you and I couldn’t be happier that you are getting married to someone who really looks out for you.

 

I still remember the day my son introduced Margaret to us and I could tell by the way he looked at you and the special light in his eyes that he’s found someone he loves dearly.

 

Dan and Margaret, today is your big day and I have a few words of advice for you.

Your marriage, like every other, is like a garden. It needs intentional care and cultivation to make it look great. By loving each other, holding each other so close, and being there for each other in good times and bad, you will be making a concerted effort to make your love blossom and you will come to know as time goes by that you simply can’t live without each other.

 

You both are heading on an amazing journey and I know you are going to have so many happy years together. God bless you.

 

 

 

Did you enjoy it? I did enjoy the time Little Dan tried to imitate Robin. While it’s very tempting to copy this mother of the groom speech example, you don’t have to because there are so many eyeballs on it and you will come across as a copycat if you do that.

 

 

Well, I am going to break it down into bits and pieces so you can get an accurate idea of how to write a heartfelt and funny mother of the groom speech or toast.

 

Are you ready? Ok, let’s get started.

 

First, let’s start with...

How to Write the Introductory Remarks of your Funny Mother of the Groom Speech or Toast.

 

To make things easier, I am going to take excerpts of the speech example before us to help us put our write what we want to say for our opening remarks. 

 

Here you go: 

‘’ I’m Millie, Dan’s very proud dad!

I would like to thank everyone who has come from near and far to share in our joy and happiness. It means a lot to see you all here.

Dan is my first child and it seems like only yesterday that Eric and I were in a state of nervous excitement as we awaited the arrival of our first baby boy. ‘’

 

Now, please look at that opening address and see if you have anything to say about it.

 

If you’ve read that extract very carefully, you will notice that there are two parts to it. Do you have any idea what these two sections are? You may scroll up and look at it again.

 

Please don’t worry if you still can’t figure it out.  I am here to help.

I noticed these things:

• A short-self introduction
• The wedding speakers relationship with the groom
• Expression of gratitude
• As well as a rather brief line about how happy the mother of the groom was when his son was born a couple of years ago.

 

These are by no means what a perfect introduction really entails. But it at least gives us a clear idea of what goes into writing a great introduction.

 

You may use one or more of the following strategies to write a kickass opener that will perk up ears.  

 

First, you can simply share how you felt when your son was born as illustrated above.

 

Second, you can simply state why you are so excited about him getting married to the love of his life.

 

Third, you can start with a quote about marriage. For example, you can start like this:

There are two memorable days in every man’s life. When he’s born and when he gets married to a truly beautiful woman.

 

Did you see how I wrote that?

 

Having written that short example, let’s now turn our attention to how to start your humorous mother of the groom speech with a bang even if you are as stiff as a board.

 

First, if you burst out into a well-known song everyone can sing along to, you will naturally have a lot of admirers at the wedding reception. If you have a good singing voice, that will be a plus for you. If you are not that gifted, you can still give it a try. With a little help from someone who is musically gifted, you might make a headway.

 

Second, if anything funny came up when your son asked you to give a funny wedding speech, you can share it with them. Here’s an example to illustrate it.

 

It’s probably no secret that I have been thinking about my speech practically since the moment Dan and Janet got engaged last November.  For most moms, it’s the dress. But for me, it’s the words. I’ve been writing in my head, jotting down notes on my phone while staring at the roasted chickens at Costco(truly).  I‘ve been distracted on the tennis courts and let my team down. But every time, someone calls out love, I think of another family anecdote about Dan.

 

• If you are going to make a very short but hilarious mother of the groom speech, you can probably say after mentioning who you are and your relationship with the groom.

 

See the example below

 

''I promise that this is going to be the shortest mother of the groom speech ever ‘’ and then you roll down a very long sheet of paper and jokingly add this: ''Seriously, did you believe me when I said that?  Remember, Eric and I have raised him for 30 years now and you shouldn’t expect anything less than that. You are even luckier to have gotten these few pages considering how old he is. I just didn’t have the budget to make a short movie…I was actually considering making a movie about his wonderful life! ''

 

• You also can come upstage looking so funny like a comedian or be adorned with unusual jewelry to lighten up the mood.

• Ok, How about this idea as an alternative to all of that? If your soon-to-be daughter in law is from a foreign country where English is not the lingua franca, you can learn a few phrases and incorporate them into your toast.

 

For example, if she from France, you can learn how to greet and do a short-self introduction and her family will love it. You don’t have to master it to communicate it well. The fact that you said something in their native tongue will make them applaud for you.

 

If you are fluent in the language, then you can render part of your speech in English and the other half in her dialect. Better still, you can compose the entire thing in English and summarize the key points in their own language.

 

 

Now, let us see...

How To Write The Body or Structure of Your Mother of the Groom Toast

 

Before we do, let us look at excerpts of our model template to guide us as we analyze this crucial aspect of our presentation.

‘’ Dan was a very active little boy who was always determined to steal the spotlight at any cost.  As a little boy, he felt the best way to do that was to protect his family. 

 

You see, Dan absolutely loved Robin, of Batman and Robin fame, and how they beat up the bad guys.  To imitate Robin, Dan ‘’the super fighter’’ would run around our house in his Robin outfit like a wind, making sure that his cape was flying, and pretend that he was fighting all the bad guys in the neighborhood!...‘’

 

This is the most interesting part of the wedding speech which is undeniably the easiest section to write because it’s simply a narration of your son’s life right from when he was a little kid to when he finally brought the love of his life to meet the family.

 

So, how then did you get ideas to write the content of your toast? This is where things get perplexing because you probably have so many ideas running through your mind and wondering how to distill many years of memories into a very short time.

 

Thankfully, below are some pointers that can help you refine your thoughts and ideas before committing them on paper.

 

So, please grab your paper and provide answers to the following questions.

• What was your son really like when he was a little kid?  

• What was he like when he was becoming an adolescent?

• Does he have any accomplishments you wish to share? If you think it’s obnoxious to talk about it, please stay clear of it.  

• Do you have memories of your vacation trips or anything you did together that really deepened the mother-son bond?

• Do you recall any funny and fond memories you want to add to the body of your message?

 

Please note: If you can’t recall funny events about his life, just stick to the facts. Remember, you are not there to necessarily make others laugh per se, but to give an account of what your relationship with your son has been like over the years.

 

After you have provided answers to the questions above, piece them together to form your first draft. Afterward, you have to keep redrafting it until you are very happy with what you have got.

 

 

With that said, let’s now turn our attention to...

How to End Your Mom's Wedding Speech with a Bang

As we always do, we will carefully review the conclusion of the speech example so we can figure out how to write a memorable conclusion.

 

Here we go once again:

Dan and Margaret, today is your big day and I have a few words of advice for you.

Your marriage, like every other, is like a garden. It needs intentional care and cultivation to make it look great. By loving each other, holding each other so close, and being there for each other in good times and bad, you will be making a concerted effort to make your love blossom and you will come to know as time goes by that you simply can’t live without each other…’’

 

If you should ask me where you should put in all your efforts, then I will tell you that you should never take the closing remarks of your funny mother of the groom speech for granted.

 

Here’s why it’s so important. You see, the closing remarks are like the last lines of a letter written to someone you adore so much. 

 

It has to be succinct and memorable and not verbose because they are the very words that will be remembered for years to come. Nevertheless, a lot of mothers end very poorly using the same clichés we hear at most weddings.

 

Yours will have to be unique to be remembered. So, I am going to share with you a few tips and ideas to help you do just that.

 

First, you can end with a simple piece of advice as you saw in that excerpt. You could use your personal experience or even embellish it with some good marriage quotes.

 

Below are a few of them.

‘’A perfect marriage is just two imperfect people who refuse to give up on each other’’ ― Kate Stewart, Loving the White Liar

‘’Marriage – the roots are deep, the covenant is solid, love is sweet, life is hard, and God is good.’’- John Piper

‘’Never marry the one you can live with, marry the one you cannot live without.’’- Aleatha Romig, Consequences

‘’It is not a lack of love, but a lack of friendship that makes unhappy marriages.’’-Friedrich Nietzsche

 

Moreover, you can also write a faith-based piece of advice with words from the Bible.

 

Here are some scriptures you might want to use to spiff up your speech.

 "So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate."- Matthew 19:6

‘’Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love. Make every effort to keep the unity of the Spirit through the bond of peace.’’ –Ephesians 4: 2-3

"And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love."- 1 Corinthians 13:13

 

Again, you can compare how they both look like to inspire laughter

 

For example, you can say that Dan (your son) and Amanda are like two peas in a pod.

 

That can become: 

I absolutely love the fact that Dan and Amanda are like two peas in a pod. Do you know why? Once, we were hiking up a mountain when Amanda fell off a small muddy cliff….

 

Do you see where this is going? I hope it gives you an idea of how to showcase how they complement each other in an amusing way.

 

All in all, your mother of the groom speech should strike a perfect balance between humor and any style you want to pair it with.

For instance, it can be 30 percent funny and 70 percent storytelling or sentimental.

P.S: Is the thought of giving you a great wedding speech keeping you up at night? It shouldn’t if you do what most moms do. By following this simple plan that's guaranteed to help you write a great mom speech like the one you read above.

Claire was quite skeptical when she came to us but we kept assuring what she will make her son and family proud-and this is what she sent over after the wedding was over

'' Hello Dan, their wedding went very well. The usual stress beforehand for the couple organizing the event but all things to do went so smoothly. I also like to say that I'm so proud of my speech, almost got a standing ovation, lol! I'm so glad I've found you. I will definitely recommend you to my friends and family in future weddings. I wish you the very best.''-  Claire, New Zealand

Want to know how she did just that? She got on board our wedding speech program and one of our talented speech consultants helped her out.

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This is letter a mom sent to us after we helped her deliver her speech(Please click on it to enlarge if you can't see it)

Ok, Is This Offer For Me?

• Yes, if you are expecting nothing less than a very special, beautiful, unique, and memorable speech.

• Don’t have much time to write a perfect speech just as you want it because of work demands and other life's pressure or even sick? Then, let’s take care of it and the guests will definitely sing your praises--we have done it for so many others and it's your turn now!

• Yes, if you are overwhelmed by the pressures of work and don’t have the time to put together a very meaningful speech, so you can have your peace of mind

• Yes, if you want your family, your son, friends, and wedding guests to shower you with very sincere compliments…just imagine how you will feel

• Yes, if you are not good with words and you feel you’re not a natural writer and you are struggling to find the right words but still want to give a great speech.

• Yes, you get so scared anytime you’re asked to say something before an audience and you really want to save yourself from any form of embarrassment on your son's big day.

• Yes, if you are not too eloquent or not too sure if you are on the right track.

• Yes, if you absolutely hate speaking in public or feel this is not your thing but you want to make your son feel very proud

• Yes, if you have a day or less to the wedding and you are worried that you might make some horrible mistakes

• Yes, if you are a good speaker but you still want someone to look over or review what you've come up with!

Just imagine leaving your entire presentation in the hands of skilled wedding speech consultants who will take away your pain of spending hours thinking hard and long about what to say and what not to say.

Also, envision being patiently guided to say something that will leave a favorable impression on the mind of your listeners.

And also imagine the thrill and feeling of excitement and pride you’re going to experience when the audience leaps onto their feet and scream and shouts and even sing your praises.

Won’t you love that? I hope you do...

Wedding not too far away? Or happening in less than 24 hours? Trust me, we can deliver! it doesn’t matter if your speech is today, tomorrow, next week, next month ,next year,... we can make things work for you  

 

Ok, I am Interested, What’s the Cost?

You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.

Why? As you know, the current health and economic crisis has caused severe hardships for most people.

Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.

Yet, some sons are still getting married and asking their moms to give speeches.

''It was perfect Dan.  I changed a few things in the speech. And I had several people come up and tell me how well done it was. I couldn't have done it better. Thanks for your help''- Marilyn, Canada

Nonetheless, not every mother could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.

So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.

Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.

So, please take advantage of it now even if your son’s big day is in the future.

Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video and your son and daughter-in-law and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.  

So, please take advantage of it now even if your son’s big day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.

This is another letter a mom sent to us after we helped her deliver her speech(Please click on it to enlarge if you can't see it) 

Oh Ok, How Then Do I Get Started Since I Want To Get On Board Right Away?

Ok, here’s how it works

All you have to do RIGHT NOW is to click on this link to receive an easy-to-fill-in questionnaire via email. Check your email a few hours after you’ve submitted your request.

So,

1)CLICK HERE  NOW TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT THIS QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind!

2. After that, we will send you a very short questionnaire to fill out via email! You only have to check your email a few hours after you have made your request

3. Then, you fill out the questionnaire sent through your email, and please have it sent back to us…

4. We will confirm receipt of it…If something is not too clear, we will ask you to clarify….

5. If not, we will send you a wonderful draft in a couple of hours if this on very short notice….If not, after a few days

6. Then, you look it over and tell us if you are okay with it or you want to amend or revise it till you are happy with it--although we always get it right even with the first draft.
7. Then, we ask you to pay for it.

Please note: The information collected through the questionnaire is only for the purpose of writing your speech. I wouldn’t even need it if I could read your mind. So, your information is very confidential and no one will know about it.

 

Just a reminder of what you pay after it’s duly completed.

Ok, I am Interested, What’s the Cost?

You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.

Why? As you know, the current health and economic crisis has caused severe hardships for most people. Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.

Yet, some sons are still getting married and asking their moms to give speeches.

''It was perfect Dan.  I changed a few things in the speech. And I had several people come up and tell me how well done it was. I couldn't have done it better. Thanks for your help''- Marilyn, Canada

Nonetheless, not every mother could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.

So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.

Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.

So, please take advantage of it now even if your son’s big day is in the future.

Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video and your son and daughter-in-law and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.   

So, please take advantage of it now even if your son’s big day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.   

Please note: Your speech draft comes with a proven and simple tip to master your speech or remember your speech just as you want it without carrying a paper with you.

Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise, and clarity!

''Hi Dan,

The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice).  Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.

All the best,

Matt''

Please note: Don’t fill out this form if you’re a dishonest individual. This offer is for a limited time.

So, CLICK HERE TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT A QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind and not lose money. The risk is on us!

You don't have to worry about paying our per speech for now.

Forget about money and let’s write something for you. We believe in the values of honesty and integrity and we think you should be happy with our work first.

So, Here Are The Benefits You Get When You Get On Board!

• A great speech written by our wedding speech consultants that reflects what you want to say exactly

• We coach you on how to use your voice to make your speech very exciting.

• We show you a simple but often overlook strategy to rehearse your speech even if you have a very poor memory. This method is used by great speakers like Obama and was used by Abraham Lincoln and his compatriots

• The most effective way to get your entire speech into your head without memorizing your speech. Guaranteed to help you even if you have a very poor memory or your memory is like a gold fish…most of our clients still wonder where we got this idea from. This ensures that you don't read off a sheet of paper...

Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise, and clarity!

''Hi Dan,

The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice).  Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.

All the best,

Matt''

• Ways to include humor in your speech and what it takes to do so

So, CLICK HERE TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT A QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you ca+n have peace of mind and not lose money. The risk is on us!

Remember, you have to see your speech first before you pay. So, you can relax and let us sweat it out at our expense!

 

 

 

 

Mother of The Groom Speech Toast: Proven Secrets To Help You Write Your Mother Of The Groom Wedding Toast For Your Son And Daughter-In-Law

Looking forward to writing the best mother of the groom speech for your son at the wedding reception or rehearsal dinner night?

Don’t worry because this piece will show you the tips and ideas you need to know so you can write a great mother of the groom wedding speech toast for your son and daughter.

 

There’s this song that really captures the mother-son relationship and I loved the lyrics so much that I have lost count of the number of times I have played that song on my computer.

 

It is a song by Kay Crawford and Bonnie Barney that goes like this:  

A precious little baby boy tucked in his mother's arms listen as she asked her lord to keep him safe from harm….he looked at her in wonder… as he hears his momma pray…the marriage vows are spoken,
exchanging of the rings and she prays, oh father, now I come
and ask for one more thing…

 

I am sure you might have heard this song before.

 

 

By the way, your son’s wedding is a day that every mother looks forward to, one that holds wistfulness and joy in equal parts; it’s the day her son officially brings another important person into his life - his life partner.

 

Now, as the mother of the groom, your speech toast has the unique responsibility of honoring your son, welcoming your newest daughter, and keeping your guests entertained, enamored and excited at the same time.

 

Now, if you’re thinking that this is going to be the ‘mother’ of all tasks, don’t worry.

We have a quick and handy speechwriting guide that will help you deliver a touching and heartfelt mother of the groom speech toast that ticks every box!

Every speech can be roughly divided into these parts:

• Introduction
• Gratitude
• Speaking About Your Son
• Welcoming Your New Daughter-in-law
• Toasting Their Marriage
• Conclusion

 

Before we get into writing your speech for your son and daughter-in-law, let’s look at this critical issue that affects the performance of most mothers and how you can make it work for your good.

 

Here's How To Overcome This One Thing Moms Fear Most

Do you have any idea what plagues most moms? Okay, let me take it away!

A lot of mothers can’t put their thoughts together meaningfully due to crippling nerves.

That can stop you from putting on a beautiful show. 

Unfortunately, that stems from past speaking failures and the overwhelming majority of mothers of the grooms become victims to that, and they allow it to haunt them for far too long.

 

If you have been through the torturous ordeal of fumbling for words at any event you were asked to say a few words at, you shouldn’t dwell too much on that either even if your mind relays bleak pictures every now and then.

 

Here’s the thing: We (including great speakers) all get nervous whenever we are asked to speak before a group of people.

 

But you don’t have to let the chains of failure hang around your neck. Once you let it go and believe in your heart in your soul and in your mind that you are ready to make a difference. You don’t even have to bother what the wedding guests or even your son think about you.

 

Just work on your speech diligently and they would change their impressions about you when you hand over the microphone to the next speaker.

 

This has worked for so many mothers we have worked with and you won’t go wrong if you take this time-tested advice to heart. I believe in you and I know you can make it dear.

 

Having acknowledged that, can we now look at how you can write one of the best mothers of the groom's speech toast ever?

Ok, let us dive right into the thick of it.

 

 

How To Get Great Ideas For Your Speech

 

Getting ideas for your presentation is quite easier than most moms think. All you need are good examples to model your speech after.

 

Well, I am not in any way saying that you should blindly copy the speech examples you find online and slighter alter them to fit your needs.

 

That easy road will lead you nowhere but keep you confined in the pit misery and sneer.

Rather, those examples are meant to be studied for inspiration.  Please don’t worry because I am going to show you how to make the most out of mother of the groom speech toast examples in this piece.

 

That said, there are two kinds of wedding speech templates: visual (video) and written examples. They both work hand in hand to create a beautiful speech for your son and daughter. Although they hold the same appeal, they are used differently.

 

Visual or video mother of the groom speech examples put you in a perfect mood for the clever expressions of your ideas and thoughts.

 

 

So this is my speechwriting assignment for you:  Please grab your pen or pencil or your keyword and watch a couple of videos on youtube.com or (on your favorite video watching platform) to get good ideas before you even start your speech.

 

That essentially is what you have to do before you try scribbling down your thoughts. As you do, put down ideas you think you can somehow incorporate into your work.

 

Here you go:

Mother of The Groom Speech Example # 1

 

Mother of The Groom Speech Example # 2

 

 

Did you enjoy watching those clips and did you find anything to work with? I hope you did.

 

Now, let us look at a well-written mother of the groom speech toast sample we can use to help you write a short and sweet mother wedding speech for your son and daughter-in-law.

 

See right below.

 

Mother Of The Groom Speech Sample

 

Good evening, ladies and gentlemen.

For those of you who don’t know me, I’m Ashley, Craig’s ecstatic mother who cannot stop grinning from ear to ear. It gives me great joy and honor to see the smiling faces of so many people who are here today because they love and cherish Craig and Lani. 

 

The entire family has waited months for this special occasion and on behalf of all of them, I would like to thank everyone who has come from near and far to share in our joy and happiness today.

 

This would not have been possible without a few important individuals, whom I would like to thank:

 

First, a huge thank you to Peter, Craig’s dad, and to Joanne, his stepmom for helping make Craig the man he is today.

 

I could not have asked for a better best friend - Andrea, thank you for being another mother to Craig when he was growing up. My son sure has had and continues to have some wonderful maternal influences on his life!

 

Finally, a special thanks goes out to Lani’s parents, Kevin & Danielle, for raising a wonderful woman and for always providing their constant love & support!

 

Standing here talking about Craig brings back very fond memories of that beautiful day when he came into our lives and overwhelmed us with immense joy and pride.

 

In a twinkle of an eye, our bundle of blessings grew up so quickly into a very active, loving, and outgoing little boy who loved to play rugby, more than anything.

 

Throughout his teen years,  Craig developed into an incredible player - it wasn’t just sheer talent that set him apart; I was always particularly impressed with how well he cared for his teammates, both on and off the field.

 

As he got older, Craig was very fun to be around and was SO obsessed with playing pranks. We always played tricks on each other - I remember one New Year’s Eve, the little prankster told me that there was going to be a New Year party in a certain house in the neighborhood. 

 

So full of excitement, I walked in through the door the next day, quickly realized I’d been played (yet again), and quickly got out, only to be received with peals of laughter. 

 

But despite his practical joker side, Craig has always been so passionate about the well-being of his family and loved ones - ever since he was young, he has always made sure that everyone has felt so special and loved through his immense attention and generosity.

 

At any point in time, he is there for others and his friends love being with him. He recently had a golden opportunity to pick up one of the many 250k jobs being offered to him but he didn’t take the easy road out because he didn’t want his friends to go through hard times. This is just testimony to how much he treasures their friendships. 

 

At the time, his business was full of his ‘’friends’’ so he made sure that no one was out on their arse looking for a job.  Instead, he chased up a couple of companies, changed direction slightly, and still got everyone involved.

 

I think you’ll agree with me that such a true friend is hard to come by - Lani, you’re lucky because, in addition to a wonderful partner, you’ve found a precious best friend for life!

 

Craig, we are so proud of you and it’s such a heartfelt blessing to see that you’ve grown up into a very loving, caring, thoughtful, and responsible young man.

 

You’ve enriched our lives in so many ways and given us so many reasons to be proud of you, but the proudest moment for me personally is watching you get married to a spouse who’s so worthy of your love and attention.

 

I couldn’t be prouder that you’ve found someone you can’t live without and I know without a doubt that your warm personality will be complemented by Lani’s beautiful nature.

 

To my new daughter, you are a lucky woman indeed to have caught the eye of this very special man who knows how to love unconditionally, and he is a lucky man in return. 

 

Ever since I can remember, it’s always been my fondest wish for my son to meet someone like you, Lani - when he told me about you, I could tell by the radiant look in his eyes anytime he talked about you that you meant the world to him.

 

When I finally met you after I was invited up to Queensland from Sydney, I knew you would be the one and I am so happy that you are going to build your lives together.  Lani,

 

I love that you are caring, smart, kind, passionate, driven, and love Craig to an immense amount - your mutual respect for each other and unbridled joy is reflected in everything you both do!

 

Craig and Lani, always remember that in your walk together it’s love and only love that has brought you thus far; that is the cornerstone that will help you stand strong in good times and the bad.

 

So, always hold on to each other and be each other’s keeper because there’s nothing you can’t achieve if you value each other deeply.

 

God bless you both and we wish you the very best as you start this chapter of your life together.

 

 

Now, we are going to break this example down step-by-step so we can see what went into writing it.

 

As we do, please take note of my comments or writing ideas and see how best you can use them to say something sweet about your son and the bride.

 

Ok, let’s get started by learning…

 

How To Write The Introduction Of Your Mother of The Groom Speech Toast

 

While it may seem obvious to your near and dear as to what your role is at this wedding, there is a possibility that not everyone attending might know who you are.

 

So start off by informing the audience about your connection to the bride and groom.

 

“Good evening, ladies and gentlemen.

For those of you who don’t know me, I’m Ashley, Craig’s ecstatic mother who cannot stop grinning from ear to ear.”

 

Not only does this establish your position in the evening’s proceedings, but it also sets your mother of the groom speech up to a clean, crisp, and clear start: everyone now knows you are the mother of the groom and that you are going to be delivering one of the most important speeches of the occasion. 

 

If your husband or the groom’s father is deceased, you may let them know only if you won’t break down in tears.

 

Remember, the speech is about your son and not him. If you want to honor him, you can still pay a tribute to him by explaining why you are speaking instead of his dad.

 

If you raised your son as a single mom or a lonely widow, there’s no need to emphasize that as well.

If you are doing a joint parent of the groom's speech, be sure to start by introducing yourselves.

Then, you have to take a minute to acknowledge the people that have molded your son into the marvelous person he is today.

 

In addition to serving as the second part of your introduction, it also lends a heartfelt touch to the speech as it will be a nice surprise for the people being thanked.

 

Below is a short example based on what I have just said.

 

This would not have been possible without a few important individuals, whom I would like to thank:

 

First, a huge thank you to Peter, Craig’s dad, and to Joanne, his stepmom for helping make Craig the man he is today.

I could not have asked for a better best friend - Andrea, thank you for being another mother to Craig when he was growing up. My son sure has had and continues to have some wonderful maternal influences on his life!

 

Finally, a special thanks goes out to Lani’s parents, Kevin & Danielle, for raising a wonderful woman and for always providing their constant love & support!

 

After you have expressed gratitude to the guests, you have to capture the attention of the wedding guests by starting on a bright note. If you especially have a poor track record of speaking in public, you have to rewrite your own history by putting on a very good show.

 

 

You see,  how you begin your speech will make all the difference because it will leave the guests with the impression that your toast is going to be different than the several boring ones they have heard at many wedding receptions.

If your first lines miss the mark, they will tune out and mentally conclude that it is not worth listening to.

 

There are several ways of mentally engaging them and I am going to share with you three proven ways of doing just that.

 

• The most memorable way of starting is by sharing what happened on the day your son was born.

 

I once wrote for someone who witnessed the birth of his son on the day OJ Simpson was chased by the police.  Sit still and brainstorm for a while and see if you can come up with stories about what actually occurred on the day you had him.

 

• Are the couples having their wedding at the same location where they met? You can mention that.

 

If his birthday falls on the same day as his wedding day, you can mention it and ask everyone to join you in singing the happy birthday song for him and this will make everyone happy.

 

• You can make it nostalgic by recalling how you felt when you got married to your husband.

 

Here’s a short example.

 

Thank you all for being here to celebrate with Ben and Shelly. This joyous occasion is sure to be one for them to remember and it takes me back 30 years when Margaret and I were sitting in their shoes on the eve of our Wedding Day. What a day it was!

 

That can be for a rehearsal dinner speech. Well, you can slightly tweak it if you are going to speak at the reception by rendering it like this:

 

Thank you all for being here to celebrate with Ben and Shelly. This joyous occasion is sure to be one for them to remember and it takes me back 30 years when Margaret and I were sitting in their shoes on our wedding day. What a day it was!

 

However, if you are divorced or separated, you shouldn’t use this approach or even mention it.  

 

• You can even begin with a joke. If your son has a nickname from childhood that you still tease him with that. Please let the guests know why he got that his nickname.

 

Now, let’s see how to write the body of your speech. Let us look at excerpts of our template to guide us in our pursuit of success.

 

‘’Standing here talking about Craig brings back very fond memories of that beautiful day when he came into our lives and overwhelmed us with immense joy and pride.

 

In a twinkle of an eye, our bundle of blessings grew up so quickly into a very active, loving, and outgoing little boy who loved to play rugby, more than anything.

Throughout his teen years,  Craig developed into an incredible player…’’

 

Now, it’s time to move on to the focus of your speech - your (not so baby) boy! This is the part that most mothers face difficulties over because it’s nearly impossible to fit in so many fantastic memories into a small 5-minute speech. Sometimes, it honestly feels like you’re doing a disservice to your bond!

 

To help you narrow down on the notable ones and do justice to your speech, we have a suggestion that will streamline it for you:

 

• Set yourself a designated time limit (around 15-30 minutes).

• Write down the primary thoughts, feelings, and memories that remind you of your son.

• Write out only the most important details (this will help you decide the structure of your speech without any meandering)

 

Once you’re done jotting down your ideas and musings, highlight or underline the lines that you’d like to use in the body of your speech.

 

The moment you’re done identifying the main themes of your speech, you can start adding more depth to the same, by elaborating on each point as seen in the underlined words below. 

 

“As he got older, Craig was very fun to be around and was SO obsessed with playing pranks. We always played tricks on each other - I remember one New Year’s Eve, the little prankster told me that there was going to be a New Year party in a certain house in the neighborhood. 

 

So full of excitement, I walked in through the door the next day, quickly realized I’d been played (yet again), and quickly got out, only to be received with peals of laughter.

 

But despite his practical joker side, Craig has always been so passionate about the well-being of his family and loved ones - ever since he was young, he has always made sure that everyone has felt so special and loved through his immense attention and generosity.

 

At any point in time, he is there for others and his friends love being with him. He recently had a golden opportunity to pick up one of the many 250k jobs being offered to him but he didn’t take the easy road out because he didn’t want his friends to go through hard times. This is just testimony to how much he treasures their friendships.”

 

As you can see, the above passage evidences the son’s practical joker side as well as his compassionate nature - the anecdote attached to it provides further insight into what makes him kind, caring, and thoughtful.

 

Action Tip: A much easier way of stringing your thoughts together is to create an outline for your speech from his childhood until when he made up his mind to settle down with the bride.

 

So, please grab your pen and paper and provide memories along with these developmental milestones in his life.

 

Childhood---what were the early years like and do you have fond memories about this time?

Growing up---what was the picture like exactly?

Teenage years----Mention things he took part in like scouting, sports, volunteerism, etc…

Adulthood---Mention his accomplishment in school and other things that come to mind.

Please note: If you are thinking of making a funny mother of the groom's speech, then you have to include hilarious anecdotes from his life.

 

After you have settled on what you want to go for, write answers to the questions above, and put all the stories together in a very rough draft. You can later edit by cutting out parts you really feel shouldn’t be part of your final speech.

 

You might keep doing that until you are okay with what you have done. 

 

Even though a big chunk of your speech will go towards paying homage to the bond your son and you share, it is also equally important to focus on welcoming the bride into your family with open arms.

 

If you don’t know where to start, the above exercise will come in handy for this bit as well. The most important part about this section is to showcase the positive attributes of your daughter-in-law, speak about how much she’s has changed your son’s life for the better, and what you admire or love about them.

 

Here’s a short example of that in action.

When Dan eventually came back home to complete high school, it was pretty obvious that he was totally smitten with Angela. But what was even more obvious was the calming effect she had on our son.

It was so evident that he had grown into a very responsible and thoughtful son.

 

Did you see that? Ok, that’s not all. Mention why you admire the bride and how she complements your son.

Having said that, you have to proceed to state why their marriage is special. 

 

Your son isn’t just marrying someone’s precious daughter, he’s starting out a whole new family with that special person he can’t live without out.

 

A key component of an emotional mother of the groom speech is to touch upon the wonderful bond that the couple has, and how their marriage brings you, in particular, joy.

 

Write about the first time you first heard about your son’s life partner, how it felt to meet her for the first time, your first memory of her, or even recollect a heartwarming incident that led you to believe that she was going to be the perfect match for your son.

 

“Ever since I can remember, it’s always been my fondest wish for my son to meet someone like you, Lani - when he told me about you, I could tell by the radiant look in his eyes that you meant the world to him. ‘’

 

 

Now, let us examine…

 

How To Write The Closing Remarks Of Your Mother of The Groom Speech Toast

 

A memorable speech is made more memorable when its ending finishes on a strong yet sentimental note. While the conventional practice is to close it out with a classic toast, you can always switch it up by using one or more of the following ideas.

 

• Quote a religious or a spiritual passage from a book that resonates with you. For example, if you are Christian, you can use a few bible verses to end it with a bang or close with a prayer.

 

Some of these verses include:

1. James 1:17(King James Version) ^‘’ Every good and perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of the heavenly lights, who does not change like shifting shadows.’’

2. Proverbs 3: 5-6(New International Version) ‘’ Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him and he will make your paths straight’’

3. Ecclesiastes 4:9-10(New American Standard Bible) Two are better than one because they have a good reward for their toil. For if they fall, one will lift up his fellow. But woe to him who is alone when he falls and has not another to lift him up!” 

 

Galatians 5:22-23 (King James Version)  “But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control; against such things, there is no law. And those who belong to Christ Jesus have crucified the flesh with its passions and desires.”

 

• If you really want to wax poetic, then you can recite a few stanzas from a well-known poem or a touching poem about love or marriage or life like this one by Ann Gray

Love Listen

Let’s love, listen, take time
when time is all we have.
Let’s be unafraid to be kind,
learn to disregard the bad
if the good outweighs it daily.

Let’s make a gift of silence,
the day’s hushing into dark,
and when we hold each other
let’s always be astonished
we are where we want to be.

Let’s hope to age together,
but if we can’t, let’s promise now
to remember how we shone
when we were at our best,
when we were most ourselves.

….Or even this very beautiful poem by Louise Cuddon

I’ll Be There For You 

I’ll be there my darling, through thick and through thin

When your mind’s in a mess and your head’s in a spin

When your plane’s been delayed, and you’ve missed the last train.

When life is just threatening to drive you insane
When your thrilling whodunit has lost its last page
When somebody tells you, you’re looking your age
When your coffee’s too cool, and your wine is too warm
When the forecast said “Fine”, but you’re out in a storm
When your quick break hotel, turns into a slum

And your holiday photos show only your thumb
When you park for five minutes in a resident’s bay
And return to discover you’ve been towed away
When the jeans that you bought in hope or in haste
Just stick on your hips and don’t reach round your waist
When the food you most like brings you out in red rashes
When as soon as you boot up the bloody thing crashes

So my darling, my sweetheart, my dear…
When you break a rule, when you act the fool
When you’ve got the flu, when you’re in a stew
When you’re last in the queue, don’t feel blue’cause
I’m telling you, I’ll be there.

 

That's not all... 

• You can also end it with some life advice that you would like to pass on to your son and new daughter-in-law as they embark on the journey of marriage together. This is illustrated below

 

‘’Craig and Lani, always remember that in your walk together it’s only selfless love  love that has brought you thus far; That is the cornerstone that will help you stand strong in good times and the bad.

 

So, always hold on to each other and be each other’s keeper because there’s nothing you can’t achieve if you value each other deeply. I feel honored to welcome Lani into our family with open arms - also, we’re looking forward to mini Crailanis soon enough! ‘’

 

God bless you both and we wish you the very best as you build your lives together.”

 

• You may simply end with a couple of best wishes for the couple. Please see a couple of examples right below

1. Congratulations to you on this happiest occasion! I am filled with so much pride to see you marrying the love of your life! I know that you two will go through your lives filling each other with so much happiness and endless love! God bless you both as you start your new and wonderful family.

2. What a blessed day and what a blessed union. May you always have each other through good times and bad.

 

• If all of the above won’t suit you, you can conclude by proposing a toast to the groom and bride

 

If you follow these six quick steps and start way in advance, you’ll be well on your way to crafting a heartfelt, and funny mother of the groom's speech toast that will make your son, daughter-in-law, and your extended family so proud of you.

P.S: Is the thought of giving you a great wedding speech keeping you up at night? It shouldn’t if you do what most moms do. By following this simple plan that's guaranteed to help you write a great mom speech like the one you read above.

Claire was quite skeptical when she came to us but we kept assuring what she will make her son and family proud-and this is what she sent over after the wedding was over

'' Hello Dan, their wedding went very well. The usual stress beforehand for the couple organizing the event but all things to do went so smoothly. I also like to say that I'm so proud of my speech, almost got a standing ovation, lol! I'm so glad I've found you. I will definitely recommend you to my friends and family in future weddings. I wish you the very best.''-  Claire, New Zealand

Want to know how she did just that? She got on board our wedding speech program and one of our talented speech consultants helped her out.

Want to get on board? You should by first filling out this simple form.

This is letter a mom sent to us after we helped her deliver her speech(Please click on it to enlarge if you can't see it)

Ok, Is This Offer For Me?

• Yes, if you are expecting nothing less than a very special, beautiful, unique, and memorable speech.

• Don’t have much time to write a perfect speech just as you want it because of work demands and other life's pressure or even sick? Then, let’s take care of it and the guests will definitely sing your praises--we have done it for so many others and it's your turn now!

• Yes, if you are overwhelmed by the pressures of work and don’t have the time to put together a very meaningful speech, so you can have your peace of mind

• Yes, if you want your family, your son, friends, and wedding guests to shower you with very sincere compliments…just imagine how you will feel

• Yes, if you are not good with words and you feel you’re not a natural writer and you are struggling to find the right words but still want to give a great speech.

• Yes, you get so scared anytime you’re asked to say something before an audience and you really want to save yourself from any form of embarrassment on your son's big day.

• Yes, if you are not too eloquent or not too sure if you are on the right track.

• Yes, if you absolutely hate speaking in public or feel this is not your thing but you want to make your son feel very proud

• Yes, if you have a day or less to the wedding and you are worried that you might make some horrible mistakes

• Yes, if you are a good speaker but you still want someone to look over or review what you've come up with!

Just imagine leaving your entire presentation in the hands of skilled wedding speech consultants who will take away your pain of spending hours thinking hard and long about what to say and what not to say.

Also, envision being patiently guided to say something that will leave a favorable impression on the mind of your listeners.

And also imagine the thrill and feeling of excitement and pride you’re going to experience when the audience leaps onto their feet and scream and shouts and even sing your praises.

Won’t you love that? I hope you do...

Wedding not too far away? Or happening in less than 24 hours? Trust me, we can deliver! it doesn’t matter if your speech is today, tomorrow, next week, next month ,next year,... we can make things work for you  

 

Ok, I am Interested, What’s the Cost?

You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.

Why? As you know, the current health and economic crisis has caused severe hardships for most people.

Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.

Yet, some sons are still getting married and asking their moms to give speeches.

''It was perfect Dan.  I changed a few things in the speech. And I had several people come up and tell me how well done it was. I couldn't have done it better. Thanks for your help''- Marilyn, Canada

Nonetheless, not every mother could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.

So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.

Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.

So, please take advantage of it now even if your son’s big day is in the future.

Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video and your son and daughter-in-law and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.  

So, please take advantage of it now even if your son’s big day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.

This is another letter a mom sent to us after we helped her deliver her speech(Please click on it to enlarge if you can't see it) 

Oh Ok, How Then Do I Get Started Since I Want To Get On Board Right Away?

Ok, here’s how it works

All you have to do RIGHT NOW is to click on this link to receive an easy-to-fill-in questionnaire via email. Check your email a few hours after you’ve submitted your request.

So,

1)CLICK HERE  NOW TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT THIS QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind!

2. After that, we will send you a very short questionnaire to fill out via email! You only have to check your email a few hours after you have made your request

3. Then, you fill out the questionnaire sent through your email, and please have it sent back to us…

4. We will confirm receipt of it…If something is not too clear, we will ask you to clarify….

5. If not, we will send you a wonderful draft in a couple of hours if this on very short notice….If not, after a few days

6. Then, you look it over and tell us if you are okay with it or you want to amend or revise it till you are happy with it--although we always get it right even with the first draft.
7. Then, we ask you to pay for it.

Please note: The information collected through the questionnaire is only for the purpose of writing your speech. I wouldn’t even need it if I could read your mind. So, your information is very confidential and no one will know about it.

 

Just a reminder of what you pay after it’s duly completed.

Ok, I am Interested, What’s the Cost?

You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.

Why? As you know, the current health and economic crisis has caused severe hardships for most people. Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.

Yet, some sons are still getting married and asking their moms to give speeches.

''It was perfect Dan.  I changed a few things in the speech. And I had several people come up and tell me how well done it was. I couldn't have done it better. Thanks for your help''- Marilyn, Canada

Nonetheless, not every mother could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.

So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.

Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.

So, please take advantage of it now even if your son’s big day is in the future.

Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video and your son and daughter-in-law and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.   

So, please take advantage of it now even if your son’s big day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.   

Please note: Your speech draft comes with a proven and simple tip to master your speech or remember your speech just as you want it without carrying a paper with you.

Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise, and clarity!

''Hi Dan,

The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice).  Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.

All the best,

Matt''

Please note: Don’t fill out this form if you’re a dishonest individual. This offer is for a limited time.

So, CLICK HERE TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT A QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind and not lose money. The risk is on us!

You don't have to worry about paying our per speech for now.

Forget about money and let’s write something for you. We believe in the values of honesty and integrity and we think you should be happy with our work first.

So, Here Are The Benefits You Get When You Get On Board!

• A great speech written by our wedding speech consultants that reflects what you want to say exactly

• We coach you on how to use your voice to make your speech very exciting.

• We show you a simple but often overlook strategy to rehearse your speech even if you have a very poor memory. This method is used by great speakers like Obama and was used by Abraham Lincoln and his compatriots

• The most effective way to get your entire speech into your head without memorizing your speech. Guaranteed to help you even if you have a very poor memory or your memory is like a gold fish…most of our clients still wonder where we got this idea from. This ensures that you don't read off a sheet of paper...

Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise, and clarity!

''Hi Dan,

The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice).  Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.

All the best,

Matt''

• Ways to include humor in your speech and what it takes to do so

So, CLICK HERE TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT A QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you ca+n have peace of mind and not lose money. The risk is on us!

Remember, you have to see your speech first before you pay. So, you can relax and let us sweat it out at our expense!

 

 

 

Mother Of The Groom Speech or Toast : You Can Laugh At Your Mother Of The Groom Wedding Speech Worries And Come Up With The Best Speech Ever If You Simply Follow This Simple Guide

A couple of months ago, a mother of the groom wrote to us saying that she needed help with her speech but simply had no clue about how to come up with something memorable.

From our conversations, it was very obvious that she was scared to death about this whole thing and even though our hands were full, we helped her deliver the best speech of the night and she wrote back to say that...

 

 

From helping moms from the around, we’ve seen that most mothers, particularly those who are not good speakers get so intimidated when they are asked by their sons to say something at the wedding.

 

You see, saying something memorable about your son and daughter-in-law is a real labor of love you simply can’t take for granted because it’s sure to earn you the respect of the wedding guests, your family, friends, and loved ones.

 

I know that nothing can compare to the love you have for you and let me congratulate you on sacrificing so much to give him the future he truly deserves.

 

 

 

Now, that he’s getting married to the woman of his dreams and you should all you can to ensure that your speech is on point.

 

Please don’t worry if you don’t have a way with words or you are not a confident speaker because I am going to share with you tips, templates, ideas, and examples I personally use to write speeches for mothers of the groom.

 

But before we get into all the details, let’s closely look at a critical issue that prevents even the most eloquent mom from performing so well on D-day and how to turn the tide on these challenges. 

 

Get This Right And You Will Make It

If you have ever given a speech your whole lifetime, chances are you might be overcome with nerves when you are asked to speak before a crowd.

 

Regardless of how you fared, that performance might leave you with unpleasant memories and it can ultimately affect your performances whenever you are asked to speak even before a small group of people.

 

Even if you have ever failed to live up to expectation, you can turn the tables in your favor by renewed your mind and that simply means developing a positive mental attitude.

 

Believe it or not, you can make a difference this time around by putting behind your past flops and embarrassments and believing that you can no matter how you are feeling at the moment.

 

By doing so, you will be empowered from within and you will bubble over with the confidence you absolutely need to speak confidently with poise, flair, and confidence.

 

Remember that journey of a thousand miles begins with a step and that step here should be a healthy mental disposition which is the bedrock of your ''speaking success'' so to speak.

 

 

Having said that, let’s now look at ...

 

How To Get The Right Ideas To Help You Compose A Sweet Mother Of The Groom Toast

 

Before you even write a single, you need to gather certain facts and ideas to help you put the content of your speech together.

I call this part the pre-writing mode as it puts you in the mood for the clarity of your thoughts.

 

Guess what? One of the best places to hunt for ideas is the youtube platform as well as several other video sharing platforms you know of. Once you get there, you then plug in the keyword you have in mind.

You may pop in words like a speech by a single mom to his son on the wedding day, mother of the groom speech video, best ever speech by mother of the groom, etc.

Wait for a couple of them to pop up and watch a few or more clips if you have much time.

 

As you keeping those clips, put down words and phrases that speak to you and your particular personality. As you do, ask yourself which of those ideas you feel you can incorporate into your toast.

By the way, this is a short video to help you in this endeavor.

Please did you watch it? And did you find it helpful?  And do you think you can use the ideas for your own delivery?

 

That brings me to the next point…

 

How To Use Mother Of The Groom Speech Examples

 

I have had the distinct privilege of reviewing mother of the groom wedding speech samples and I often notice that a lot of wedding speakers simply copy and paste the examples they find online without properly improving and refining it to suit their own style and that doesn’t always contribute to making their speeches unique in any way.

 

In this post, I shared how to make the most out of mother of the groom speech samples.

 

Today, I am going to share with you a short mother of the groom speech example. Afterward, we will break it down bit by bit to see what went into creating it so you can get a clear idea of how to write a speech that will get you tons of compliments. Are you ready?

 

Ok, here you go

Good evening and welcome everyone. I am Kyle and I am the mother of the groom.

 

Mark, I was overwhelmed with pride when you exchanged promises with Cindy. I couldn’t help but remember all the great moments, you and I have together, right from the day you came into my life.

 

From spending precious moments with you when you were just a little boy to when you told me that you have found the person you are going to spend the rest of your life with, you have always given me many reasons to be so proud of you.

 

As a little boy, you were so sweet, kind, and fun to be around. I still recall how you wore my dress with ruby red shoes to match and sang with pretend microphones to entertain us whenever we met as a family.

 

Growing up, you followed in your dad’s stead and you started fishing at such an early age. One time we went fishing and Mark caught bass and was so upset that he could not get the hook of its mouth.

 

Worried that the fish might die, Mark took it home and kept in a bucket full of cold water and managed to get the hook out of his mouth after trying so hard for close to four hours before releasing it back to the lake.

 

That sense of determination continued well into his teens as he always put his whole heart to whatever he set his sights on and always came out on top.

Mark, we are so proud of the man you have become and nothing gives me joy to see that you are getting married to Cindy.

 

 

You’re about to embark on the biggest adventure of your life and I am confident that together with Cindy, your future will be so bright.

 

Cindy, thank you so much for making my son so happy; and for standing by him all these years.  I love you so much and beyond thrilled for your future life together.

 

Mark and Cindy, all you need for this journey is a spirit of togetherness, love, forgiveness and you will make your house a true home. We love you both and wish you a lifetime of love and happiness.

 

God bless you.

 

Can you write something close to that or even something similar?

It’s not too hard as you probably think. Well, I promised to elaborate on how we came up with that, so, first and foremost, let’s re-look at the introductory remarks of the speech above.

 

Below is an excerpt…

''Good evening and welcome everyone. I am Kyle and I am the mother of the groom.''

 

The opening line is rather short and pretty bland. But we can throw in a few details into the mix so it comes together very well.

To make it stand out, you can write down the name of people you want to thank.

Thank persons who have contributed to making him who he is. People like his dad, grandparents, your own parents for helping you raise him.

You may add others like the mom and dad of the bride for their help and support and for welcoming your son into their family.

Then, you should thank the guests for coming out from far and near.

This is your assignment: Scroll up and look at the introduction once more and list all the persons you want to express gratitude to and see if you can come up with a brief and good salutation.

If you are struggling to do that, then this short example can inspire you to come up with one.

 

Good evening and welcome everyone to Mark and Cindy’s rehearsal dinner. I am Angela, Mark’s mother.

Thank you so much for coming from far and near to celebrate the joining of this happy couple and I would like to take a moment to thank everyone who has helped to make this a night to remember.

Before I get started, I want to take time to thank Angela and Michelle for helping the happy couple plan this fantastic wedding.

I want to extend a big thank you to Dr. Anry who came all the way from Tulip to officiate the ceremony tomorrow as he’s known the couple since they were high school sweethearts.

 

I hope you can write that?

 

Closely connected to that are these sentimental thoughts:

''Mark, I was overwhelmed with beautiful emotions of pride when you exchanged promises with Cindy''

 

It goes without saying that it takes just a moment to leave a lasting, positive impression on someone you are meeting for the very first time and that’s so true.

Some of the wedding guests who will be attending the wedding rehearsal or the reception are people you are going to meet for the very first time and even if you are a poor speaker, they might not notice it until you are through with your message.

 

What this means is that you should put in extra effort into coming with a gripping introduction as Angela did.

 

I know you’re probably wondering about how to write a heart-gripping introduction and I am happy to share with how you can start on a very bright note.

 

First, you can start by sharing your personal feeling about how you felt when your son was born as you saw above.

 

Second, you can share how you feel about his wedding day.

 

Moreover, if you are a naturally funny person, you can get everyone grinning from ear to ear with a hilarious anecdote.

 

Once, a woman shared an incident with me when her daughter was born.  She said they decided to nickname her Rocky because she wasn’t too good looking at birth. She absolutely loved that story and asked that it be included in her mother of the groom speech.

 

I felt it wasn’t right to add that to her speech because that would be utterly embarrassing. But she stood her grounds and we came up with a great introduction.

 

Again, if you know of any good quotes about sons, you can use them creatively.  Here are a few of them

 

''There’s an endearing tenderness in the love of a mother to a son that transcends all other affections of the heart ''---Washington Irwin

 

''Happy is the son whose faith in his mother remains unchallenged ''---Louisa May Alcott

 

''Every mother hopes that her daughter will marry a better man than she did, and is convinced that her son will never find a wife as good as her father did.''----Martin Anderson Nexo

 

''Sons are the anchors of a mother’s life ''---Sophocles

 

''A mothers love is patient and forgiving when all others are forsaking, it never fails or falters, even though the heart is breaking''--- Agatha Christie

 

''To a mother, a son is never a  fully grown; and a son is never a fully grown man until he understands and accepts this about his mother ''--- Unknown

I particularly love the last quote very much!

 

Having said that, let’s look at how to write the body or story of your speech.

 

Once again, let’s look at parts of it to get a sense of where this is headed

 

''As a little boy, you were so sweet, kind, and fun to be around. I still recall how you wore my dress with ruby red shoes to match and sang with pretend microphones to entertain us whenever we met as one family''

 

Let me ask you this: What did you notice from reading that extract? As you review it, you will realize that it’s essentially a story outline of the life of Angela’s precious boy.

 

This is the part of your speech that everyone will be eager to listen to because we all love stories. So this is what I suggest you should do right away if you quickly want to come up with the right stuff for this all-important part of your presentation.

 

Please pick up a piece of paper and provide answers to the following questions:

 

1. What was he like when he was a toddler?
2. Why was he always a source of joy and laughter?
3. Do you have a fond memory or hilarious story you wish to add to your speech?
4. How did you feel when he brought the bride home?

5. What were your impressions when you met her for the very first time? Remember, not to say anything negative….It’s their happy day, so it’s best to put her in a better light…

 

If you have written your responses next to each question, you can begin by putting your ideas together using that speech example as a template.

 

To make things easier, you can start with a good story about his childhood before moving on to his teen years and finally stating why you are so proud of him.

There’s nothing wrong with adding his accomplishments in sports, personal life, or in school.

 

Well, some mothers think it’s obnoxious to include that. So if you are in that same league, then you have to avoid tooting your own horn.

 

Please bear in mind that the guidelines above can be very useful when you want your speech to flow from his childhood through adulthood.

If you want your mother of the groom wedding speech to dwell on an aspect of his life, say only his growing up years, then you can simply skip that.

 

Some mothers simply start their speeches and end with something like this

''Even though today is one of the best days of your life, I always like to think that the day you were born was the most memorable day of your life. Over the years, you have grown into a very kind and generous young man and I am so proud of the man you have become.''

 

More often than not, your first draft won’t make look so good but you shouldn’t let that dampen your spirit. You can shelf it for a few hours and come back to refine it till you are completely happy with it. 

 

 

Now, let’s see...

 

How To End Your Speech With A Bang!

 

There are several ways of wrapping up your speech and I am going to share with you some ideas of how to do that since your closing lines are likely to linger on the minds of the guests for a long time to come.

 

So, you can employ one or more of the following ideas at the end of your wedding speech.

 

If you are a Christian or a very religious person, then you might have to consider ending with a verse from the bible. My very good friend Christine loves Psalm 128: 1-6 so much.

Psalm 128

1

Psalm 128 A song of ascents.

1

Blessed are all who fear the LORD, who walk in his ways.

2

You will eat the fruit of your labor; blessings and prosperity will be yours.

3

Your wife will be like a fruitful vine within your house; your sons will be like olive shoots around your table.

4

Thus is the man blessed who fears the LORD.

5

May the LORD bless you from Zion all the days of your life; may you see the prosperity of Jerusalem,

6

and may you live to see your children's children. Peace be upon Israel.

 

That verse can be used as a prayer or even a blessing.

Again, love or marriage poem can work words even if you are not a poetess. Just imagine how proud your son will be of you if you close with these beautiful lines

Today will be perfect in every way

A beautiful fairy tale

For your wedding day

The theme of your day

Is to have love and laughter

And to live your days

Happily ever after

Living happily is

What we need to survive,

So how does one keep

The magic alive?

How do you light a spark

That never goes out?

And how does one live a life

Without fear or doubt?

 

How do some people manage

To keep their love strong?

And how do some couples

Always feel like they belong?

What do you need to do

To stay in love forever

And make each day special

And grow fonder together?

 

Well, these very questions

You must address every day

You must take the time

To go out of your way

To always share love

And always share laughter

To do whatever it takes

To live happily ever after.

Here’s a recipe

I think is a must

So let’s begin with

Always having trust

Don’t forget it’s important

To have total respect,

And to always stay loyal

To keep your love perfect

 

You must communicate each and every day.

Three special little words

You must never forget to say

‘’ I love you’’ it’s amazing

How these words make you feel

Happy, safe, and valued

And they will keep your love real

A simple act of kindness

Goes a long, long way

Blend it with understanding

And you can’t go astray

Don’t forget friendship.

 

It will help you to cope

Add a sprinkle of faith

And an abundance of hope

Remember your smile

It’s beautiful to see

It can brighten one’s day

So my wish for both of you

Is you always have love and laughter,

And I pray that you will enjoy

Your happily ever after!

 

Wow! I loved every bit of this poem. Don’t you think it can be used for an entire speech if you really want to wax poetic about the couple?

 

Even all three tips work well in every situation; I always find that the best way to draw the curtain is by giving the couple some marriage advice.

P.S: Is the thought of giving you a great wedding speech keeping you up at night? It shouldn’t if you do what most moms do. By following this simple plan that's guaranteed to help you write a great mom speech like the one you read above.

Claire was quite skeptical when she came to us but we kept assuring what she will make her son and family proud-and this is what she sent over after the wedding was over

'' Hello Dan, their wedding went very well. The usual stress beforehand for the couple organizing the event but all things to do went so smoothly. I also like to say that I'm so proud of my speech, almost got a standing ovation, lol! I'm so glad I've found you. I will definitely recommend you to my friends and family in future weddings. I wish you the very best.''-  Claire, New Zealand

Want to know how she did just that? She got on board our wedding speech program and one of our talented speech consultants helped her out.

Want to get on board? You should by first filling out this simple form.

This is letter a mom sent to us after we helped her deliver her speech(Please click on it to enlarge if you can't see it)

Ok, Is This Offer For Me?

• Yes, if you are expecting nothing less than a very special, beautiful, unique, and memorable speech.

• Don’t have much time to write a perfect speech just as you want it because of work demands and other life's pressure or even sick? Then, let’s take care of it and the guests will definitely sing your praises--we have done it for so many others and it's your turn now!

• Yes, if you are overwhelmed by the pressures of work and don’t have the time to put together a very meaningful speech, so you can have your peace of mind

• Yes, if you want your family, your son, friends, and wedding guests to shower you with very sincere compliments…just imagine how you will feel

• Yes, if you are not good with words and you feel you’re not a natural writer and you are struggling to find the right words but still want to give a great speech.

• Yes, you get so scared anytime you’re asked to say something before an audience and you really want to save yourself from any form of embarrassment on your son's big day.

• Yes, if you are not too eloquent or not too sure if you are on the right track.

• Yes, if you absolutely hate speaking in public or feel this is not your thing but you want to make your son feel very proud

• Yes, if you have a day or less to the wedding and you are worried that you might make some horrible mistakes

• Yes, if you are a good speaker but you still want someone to look over or review what you've come up with!

Just imagine leaving your entire presentation in the hands of skilled wedding speech consultants who will take away your pain of spending hours thinking hard and long about what to say and what not to say.

Also, envision being patiently guided to say something that will leave a favorable impression on the mind of your listeners.

And also imagine the thrill and feeling of excitement and pride you’re going to experience when the audience leaps onto their feet and scream and shouts and even sing your praises.

Won’t you love that? I hope you do...

Wedding not too far away? Or happening in less than 24 hours? Trust me, we can deliver! it doesn’t matter if your speech is today, tomorrow, next week, next month ,next year,... we can make things work for you  

 

Ok, I am Interested, What’s the Cost?

You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.

Why? As you know, the current health and economic crisis has caused severe hardships for most people.

Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.

Yet, some sons are still getting married and asking their moms to give speeches.

''It was perfect Dan.  I changed a few things in the speech. And I had several people come up and tell me how well done it was. I couldn't have done it better. Thanks for your help''- Marilyn, Canada

Nonetheless, not every mother could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.

So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.

Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.

So, please take advantage of it now even if your son’s big day is in the future.

Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video and your son and daughter-in-law and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.  

So, please take advantage of it now even if your son’s big day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.

This is another letter a mom sent to us after we helped her deliver her speech(Please click on it to enlarge if you can't see it) 

Oh Ok, How Then Do I Get Started Since I Want To Get On Board Right Away?

Ok, here’s how it works

All you have to do RIGHT NOW is to click on this link to receive an easy-to-fill-in questionnaire via email. Check your email a few hours after you’ve submitted your request.

So,

1)CLICK HERE  NOW TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT THIS QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind!

2. After that, we will send you a very short questionnaire to fill out via email! You only have to check your email a few hours after you have made your request

3. Then, you fill out the questionnaire sent through your email, and please have it sent back to us…

4. We will confirm receipt of it…If something is not too clear, we will ask you to clarify….

5. If not, we will send you a wonderful draft in a couple of hours if this on very short notice….If not, after a few days

6. Then, you look it over and tell us if you are okay with it or you want to amend or revise it till you are happy with it--although we always get it right even with the first draft.
7. Then, we ask you to pay for it.

Please note: The information collected through the questionnaire is only for the purpose of writing your speech. I wouldn’t even need it if I could read your mind. So, your information is very confidential and no one will know about it.

 

Just a reminder of what you pay after it’s duly completed.

Ok, I am Interested, What’s the Cost?

You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.

Why? As you know, the current health and economic crisis has caused severe hardships for most people. Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.

Yet, some sons are still getting married and asking their moms to give speeches.

''It was perfect Dan.  I changed a few things in the speech. And I had several people come up and tell me how well done it was. I couldn't have done it better. Thanks for your help''- Marilyn, Canada

Nonetheless, not every mother could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.

So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.

Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.

So, please take advantage of it now even if your son’s big day is in the future.

Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video and your son and daughter-in-law and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.   

So, please take advantage of it now even if your son’s big day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.   

Please note: Your speech draft comes with a proven and simple tip to master your speech or remember your speech just as you want it without carrying a paper with you.

Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise, and clarity!

''Hi Dan,

The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice).  Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.

All the best,

Matt''

Please note: Don’t fill out this form if you’re a dishonest individual. This offer is for a limited time.

So, CLICK HERE TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT A QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind and not lose money. The risk is on us!

You don't have to worry about paying our per speech for now.

Forget about money and let’s write something for you. We believe in the values of honesty and integrity and we think you should be happy with our work first.

So, Here Are The Benefits You Get When You Get On Board!

• A great speech written by our wedding speech consultants that reflects what you want to say exactly

• We coach you on how to use your voice to make your speech very exciting.

• We show you a simple but often overlook strategy to rehearse your speech even if you have a very poor memory. This method is used by great speakers like Obama and was used by Abraham Lincoln and his compatriots

• The most effective way to get your entire speech into your head without memorizing your speech. Guaranteed to help you even if you have a very poor memory or your memory is like a gold fish…most of our clients still wonder where we got this idea from. This ensures that you don't read off a sheet of paper...

Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise, and clarity!

''Hi Dan,

The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice).  Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.

All the best,

Matt''

• Ways to include humor in your speech and what it takes to do so

So, CLICK HERE TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT A QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you ca+n have peace of mind and not lose money. The risk is on us!

Remember, you have to see your speech first before you pay. So, you can relax and let us sweat it out at our expense!

 

 

 

 

 

 

Mother Of The Groom Speech: Samples And Ideas To Help You Write A Beautiful Mother Of The Groom Wedding Speech

 

Just See This Short And Sweet Mom Of The Groom Speech Sample And You'll Be Seconds Away From Writing A Beautiful Speech

 

Writing an amazing mother of the groom speech is  every mom’s dream when their son is getting married.

 

You might not have much to do on his wedding day, but you have to do all you can to make sure you start and end your mother of the groom speech on a very memorable note.

 

 

With that in mind, you might be wondering about this:

 

What Should A Mother Of The Groom Say To Her On His Wedding Day?  

 

Here at standing ovation, we are often asked by so many mothers from around the world for help whenever they want to make their sons proud with beautiful mom of the groom's speeches.

 

Not too long ago, Mary (not her real name) asked for help with her mother of the groom speech. She wanted one that truly captured her exact thoughts and emotions.  In the end we came up with this mother of the groom speech example. 

 

Before I show it to you please take note of this:

 

We sought her permission to post it here so other moms can be inspired to write their own mother of the groom speeches without losing their mind. 

 

 

 

So, please sit back, relax, and let’s read the whole thing together. Afterwards , we would break down each aspect of her speech so you can figure out how to use the ideas gleaned to give a super memorable mom of the groom's speech.

 

Now, here it is:

 

Mother Of The Groom Speech Example/Template

 

Below is the complete speech sample. Please read it carefully and make notes.

 

Good evening and thanks, everyone.

 

Thanks so much for coming to share in the joy and joining of John and Ruth. I am Mary, John's mom. Thanks so much for your support, kind words and generosity.

 

Before I get started, I wanted to take time to thank everyone for helping John and Ruth plan a fantastic.  I know it wasn’t easy, but thank God we have a pretty easy going couple to work with…right?  

 

I also want to thank my sister Evelyn and her husband Jerry for all the hard work they did to make this night amazing.

 

Their marriage brings back nostalgic memories of when Dan and I got married in 1980.

 

As a couple, one of our proudest moments was when we had John, our charming prince. His birth brought so much joy, peace and a sense of belonging.

 

My mind goes back to when several times at night, I’d wake up and look into his beautiful, smiling eyes and be completely overwhelmed with a sense of wonder, joy, and responsibility for my extraordinary child.

 

Growing up, John loved to do rap music, play hockey and write poetry. I’ll never forget how proud I felt when he wrote a mother’s day poem saying how proud he was to have me as his mom.

 

John, you asked me in that poem how I managed to do it all by myself. Many times, I’d wake up when you were fast asleep wondering how I was going to raise you both when your dad passed on and that brought me to tears so many times.

 

I must say it’s been by the grace of God. Plus it has taken the blood, toil, and sweat of an entire village to make you who you really are.

 

Take Jerry who had to sacrifice so much of his time and energy and finances to keep our bodies and soul together.

 

But, I must admit that raising you and Alex hasn't been a smooth ride at all.  Just look at my hair if that doesn’t tell you something.

 

Each day came with his own challenges but I was determined to lay down my life for you so you could become a successful man.

 

Today is the day to rejoice in knowing that my dreams for you have come true.

Today is the day to rejoice in knowing you are getting married to this beautiful woman Ruth.

 

Thanks for being there for me and I am going to miss being at the gym with you. I love you so much.

 

Ruth thanks a lot for being there for John and the entire family all along. I love you and want to thank you for bringing out the best in him. I admire your sense of honesty, empathy, and integrity and I trust that you are going to be an amazing wife and mom.

On this note, I’d like to welcome you and your family into our hearts and home. We love you so much.

 

Today is a very special day for making memories and celebrating your love for each other. I know you have had your own relationship challenges already but I admire how your
collective sense of purpose and willingness to hold on has kept your hearts still ablaze with love's refining fire.

That to me is very crucial to building a formidable marriage.

 

Marriage is a test of real love and you should expect both good and bad times, including some rough storms. Riding through these storms together, leaning on each other for strength and courage as allies, strengthens the marriage bonds.

 

As long as you weather the storms together, your marriage will endure. No matter what, keep your sense of humor and you’ll make it through these storms just fine, with love

 

So, don't forget to still love -it -out so your love for each other grows so strong each and every day.

 

May you come to love each other like never before and may you grow in love so
your kids can feel the warmth that comes from your tender hearts. I wish you both well as you start life together. I love you and God bless you both.

 

 

 

That is a rather short speech. But it is a heartfelt and touching mother of the groom speech any mom can modify for his son’s wedding tribute.

 

Before we break it down, let’s look at another speech resource that can help you write a great wedding speech for your son and daughter-in-law on their big day.

 

Do you have any idea what that is? Mother of the groom speech video. They always complement written examples. They really help if you don’t how to start, where to start, or if you need a spark of writing inspiration to get your ideas off the ground.

 

In the next chapter, I am going to share with you some really helpful video clips you can watch and learn from. So, please grab your notepad and pen and put down some ideas you think you can weave into your presentation as you write your mother of the groom speech.

 

Here they are:

 

Mother Of The Groom Speech Video Example # 1

 

Mother Of The Groom Speech Video Example # 2

 

 

Now, let’s go back to the above mother of the groom speech and see how parts of that example were written.

 

Please go grab your pen and paper and put down any ideas and words you think can help make the writing process a breeze.

 

 

First and foremost, let’s look at the introduction or opening remarks.

 

This Is How To Start Your Speech As Mother Of The Groom

 

(Here are excerpts of the intro) Good evening and welcome everyone.

 

Thanks so much for coming to share in the joy and joining of John and Ruth. I am Mary, John's mom. Thanks so much for your support, kind words, and generosity.

 

Before I get started, I wanted to take time to thank everyone for helping John and Ruth plan a fantastic.  I know it wasn’t easy, but thank God we have a pretty easy going couple to work with…right?  

 

I also want to thank my sister Evelyn and her husband Jerry for all the hard work they did to make this night amazing.

 

As you may know, the opening remark of any speech serves two purposes:

• Capture the attention of the wedding guests
• Relieve you from nervous tension/breaks the ice

 

Again, it comprises of elements like greetings and a short self-presentation and expression of gratitude as you can see above.

 

It’s so surprising that some moms grab the microphone and they don’t bother to tell everyone who they are. That's so wrong. 

 

You don’t have to take that for granted even if it’s at a small wedding because not everyone might know who you are. It’s a standard wedding protocol.

 

After saluting the audience, you can thank everyone for coming. As you do that, you also  have to acknowledge key persons who have helped you raise your son because it takes an entire village to raise a child.

As an example, you can say this:

''I would like to take this moment to thank Mike and Lisa – my parents – who helped both Alex and I get a strong start in life, and for the love and support all these years.

I would like to give a shout out to Aunt Murry -- who was unable to make it today – who cared for Tyson when I started college.

I am also grateful to Parks – my daughter’s father. He entered Dan’s life when he was 5 and has been an important part of his life. Many things Dan enjoys, from fly fishing to sushi, are a result of Park's influence.''

 

Now, let’s move on to another part of your mother of the groom speech.

 

(Again, here’s an excerpt from the body) Their marriage brings back nostalgic memories of when Dan and I got married in 1980.

As a couple, one of our proudest moments was when we had John, our charming prince.

His birth brought so much joy, peace, and a sense of belonging.

 

My mind goes back to when several times at night, I’d wake up and look into his beautiful, smiling eyes and be completely overwhelmed with a sense of wonder, joy, and responsibility for my extraordinary child.

 

(Comments/writing ideas you can plug into your script)Another key thing that makes all speeches beautiful is when you include fond memories. This is the heartbeat of all great speeches.

Memories like how you felt when your baby boy was born particularly if it’s a good one. So, this is what I would encourage you to do right now.

Ask yourself how the early years were like. If he’s your first child, then you can write down how he made you a very proud mom or how he filled your life with a sense of joy and belonging.

 

Now, let’s consider another aspect of it.

 

(Taking cues from the above example) Growing up, John loved to do rap music, play hockey and write poetry.

I’ll never forget how proud I felt when he wrote a mother’s day poem saying how proud he was to have me as his mom.

John, you asked me in that poem how I managed to do it all by myself. Many times, I’d wake up when you were fast asleep wondering how I was going to raise you both when your dad passed on and that brought me to tears so many times.

I must say it’s been by the grace of God. Plus it has taken the blood, toil, and sweat of an entire village to make you who you really are.

Take Jerry who had to sacrifice so much of his time and energy and finances to keep our bodies and soul together.

But, I must admit that raising you and Alex hasn't been a smooth ride at all.  Just look at my hair if that doesn’t tell you something.

Each day came with his own challenges but I was determined to lay down my life for you so you could become a successful man.

 

(comments/take-home writing points):  Have you noticed how the writer was able to infuse her emotions into those memories as she narrated them?

Recalling incidents without personalizing them won't take you anywhere....never ever forget this

 

Here’s How To Come Up With Good Ideas For The Body Of Your Mother Of The Speech

 

• Put down funny memories you recall
• Put down in chronological order how his formative years were like. Feel free to pour your heart onto the white sheet with a view to picking anecdotes you feel you can use for your own speech.
• Also, write down his hobbies or favorite past times. Did you notice how Jerry’s love of writing proved useful on special occasions?

 

We are not done yet. We still have some ''rivers'' to cross, so to speak. So, let's move on.

 

''Today is the day to rejoice in knowing that my dreams for you have come true.

Today is the day to rejoice in knowing you are getting married to this beautiful woman Ruth.''

 

(Comments/take-home writing points): Another thing you should consider is expressing how you feel about your son's big day in relation to his life story just as this writer has done.

She deliberately uses the word ''today'' to create a musical effect. Probably she wanted to entertain the wedding guests and her readers. Repetitions of words make great speeches what they really are.

Please note that if you will be embarrassing your son and yourself if you dwell on the negative, so please don’t comment on any embarrassing story.

 

You can give remarks that show how proud you are of him. For example, you can say:

You have been my pride and inspiration and I am so happy that you’ve grown from that baby I doted on into a very wonderful young man and getting married makes me…

Got it?

 

(Here’s another extract) Thanks for being there for me and I am going to miss being at the gym with you. I love you so much.

 

Ruth thanks a lot for being there for John and the entire family all along. I love you and want to thank you for bringing out the best in him. I admire your sense of honesty, empathy and integrity and I trust that you are going to be an amazing wife and mom.

 

On this note, I’d like to welcome you and your family into our hearts and home. We love you so much.

 

(comment/take-home writing points) : Noticed how the speaker used the opportunity given to express her joy that Ruth is now part of the family.

 It doesn't end there. She goes on to formally welcome her into her family. You have to do that if you’re speaking on behalf of your entire family)

We are almost getting to the end of this post…. So; let’s move on because I only want the best for you.

 

This Is…

How To Conclude Your Mother Of The Groom Speech

 

Today is a very special day for making memories and celebrating your love for each other.

 

I know you have had your own relationship challenges already but I admire how your
collective sense of purpose and willingness to hold on has kept your hearts still ablaze with love's refining fire. That to me is very crucial to building a formidable marriage.

 

Marriage is a test of real love and you should expect both good and bad times, including some rough storms.

 

Riding through these storms together, leaning on each other for strength, and courage as allies strengthens the marriage bonds. As long as you weather the storms together, your marriage will endure. No matter what, keep your sense of humor, and you’ll make it through these storms just fine, with love

 

So, don't forget to still love -it -out so your love for each other grows so strong each and every day.

May you come to love each other like never before and may you grow in love so
your kids can feel the warmth that comes from your tender hearts.

 

I wish you well and God bless you.

 

(comment/take-home writing points): Never, ever forget to end with advice or words of encouragement or well-wishes to the happy couple as you see above. That’s how to write your mother of the groom speech.

P.S: Is the thought of giving you a great wedding speech keeping you up at night? It shouldn’t if you do what most moms do.

By following this simple plan that's guaranteed to help you write a great mom speech like the one you read above.

Claire was quite skeptical when she came to us but we kept assuring what she will make her son and family proud-and this is what she sent over after the wedding was over

'' Hello Dan, their wedding went very well. The usual stress beforehand for the couple organizing the event but all things to do went so smoothly. I also like to say that I'm so proud of my speech, almost got a standing ovation, lol! I'm so glad I've found you. I will definitely recommend you to my friends and family in future weddings. I wish you the very best.''-  Claire, New Zealand

Want to know how she did just that? She got on board our wedding speech program and one of our talented speech consultants helped her out.

Want to get on board? You should by first filling out this simple form.

This is letter a mom sent to us after we helped her deliver her speech(Please click on it to enlarge if you can't see it)

Ok, Is This Offer For Me?

• Yes, if you are expecting nothing less than a very special, beautiful, unique, and memorable speech.

• Don’t have much time to write a perfect speech just as you want it because of work demands and other life's pressure or even sick? Then, let’s take care of it and the guests will definitely sing your praises--we have done it for so many others and it's your turn now!

• Yes, if you are overwhelmed by the pressures of work and don’t have the time to put together a very meaningful speech, so you can have your peace of mind

• Yes, if you want your family, your son, friends, and wedding guests to shower you with very sincere compliments…just imagine how you will feel

• Yes, if you are not good with words and you feel you’re not a natural writer and you are struggling to find the right words but still want to give a great speech.

• Yes, you get so scared anytime you’re asked to say something before an audience and you really want to save yourself from any form of embarrassment on your son's big day.

• Yes, if you are not too eloquent or not too sure if you are on the right track.

• Yes, if you absolutely hate speaking in public or feel this is not your thing but you want to make your son feel very proud

• Yes, if you have a day or less to the wedding and you are worried that you might make some horrible mistakes

• Yes, if you are a good speaker but you still want someone to look over or review what you've come up with!

Just imagine leaving your entire presentation in the hands of skilled wedding speech consultants who will take away your pain of spending hours thinking hard and long about what to say and what not to say.

Also, envision being patiently guided to say something that will leave a favorable impression on the mind of your listeners.

And also imagine the thrill and feeling of excitement and pride you’re going to experience when the audience leaps onto their feet and scream and shouts and even sing your praises.

Won’t you love that? I hope you do...

Wedding not too far away? Or happening in less than 24 hours? Trust me, we can deliver! it doesn’t matter if your speech is today, tomorrow, next week, next month ,next year,... we can make things work for you  

 

Ok, I am Interested, What’s the Cost?

You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.

Why? As you know, the current health and economic crisis has caused severe hardships for most people.

Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.

Yet, some sons are still getting married and asking their moms to give speeches.

''It was perfect Dan.  I changed a few things in the speech. And I had several people come up and tell me how well done it was. I couldn't have done it better. Thanks for your help''- Marilyn, Canada

Nonetheless, not every mother could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.

So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.

Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.

So, please take advantage of it now even if your son’s big day is in the future.

Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video and your son and daughter-in-law and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.  

So, please take advantage of it now even if your son’s big day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.

This is another letter a mom sent to us after we helped her deliver her speech(Please click on it to enlarge if you can't see it) 

Oh Ok, How Then Do I Get Started Since I Want To Get On Board Right Away?

Ok, here’s how it works

All you have to do RIGHT NOW is to click on this link to receive an easy-to-fill-in questionnaire via email. Check your email a few hours after you’ve submitted your request.

So,

1)CLICK HERE  NOW TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT THIS QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind!

2. After that, we will send you a very short questionnaire to fill out via email! You only have to check your email a few hours after you have made your request

3. Then, you fill out the questionnaire sent through your email, and please have it sent back to us…

4. We will confirm receipt of it…If something is not too clear, we will ask you to clarify….

5. If not, we will send you a wonderful draft in a couple of hours if this on very short notice….If not, after a few days

6. Then, you look it over and tell us if you are okay with it or you want to amend or revise it till you are happy with it--although we always get it right even with the first draft.
7. Then, we ask you to pay for it.

Please note: The information collected through the questionnaire is only for the purpose of writing your speech. I wouldn’t even need it if I could read your mind. So, your information is very confidential and no one will know about it.

 

Just a reminder of what you pay after it’s duly completed.

Ok, I am Interested, What’s the Cost?

You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.

Why? As you know, the current health and economic crisis has caused severe hardships for most people. Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.

Yet, some sons are still getting married and asking their moms to give speeches.

''It was perfect Dan.  I changed a few things in the speech. And I had several people come up and tell me how well done it was. I couldn't have done it better. Thanks for your help''- Marilyn, Canada

Nonetheless, not every mother could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.

So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.

Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.

So, please take advantage of it now even if your son’s big day is in the future.

Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video and your son and daughter-in-law and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.   

So, please take advantage of it now even if your son’s big day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.   

Please note: Your speech draft comes with a proven and simple tip to master your speech or remember your speech just as you want it without carrying a paper with you.

Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise, and clarity!

''Hi Dan,

The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice).  Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.

All the best,

Matt''

Please note: Don’t fill out this form if you’re a dishonest individual. This offer is for a limited time.

So, CLICK HERE TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT A QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind and not lose money. The risk is on us!

You don't have to worry about paying our per speech for now.

Forget about money and let’s write something for you. We believe in the values of honesty and integrity and we think you should be happy with our work first.

So, Here Are The Benefits You Get When You Get On Board!

• A great speech written by our wedding speech consultants that reflects what you want to say exactly

• We coach you on how to use your voice to make your speech very exciting.

• We show you a simple but often overlook strategy to rehearse your speech even if you have a very poor memory. This method is used by great speakers like Obama and was used by Abraham Lincoln and his compatriots

• The most effective way to get your entire speech into your head without memorizing your speech. Guaranteed to help you even if you have a very poor memory or your memory is like a gold fish…most of our clients still wonder where we got this idea from. This ensures that you don't read off a sheet of paper...

Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise, and clarity!

''Hi Dan,

The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice).  Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.

All the best,

Matt''

• Ways to include humor in your speech and what it takes to do so

So, CLICK HERE TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT A QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind and not lose money. The risk is on us!

Remember, you have to see your speech first before you pay. So, you can relax and let us sweat it out at our expense!

 

 

 

Mother of the groom speech writer or mother of the groom speech writing service

Dear Anxious Mom,

I am Christie...

I know you are dreaming of giving a very beautiful and heartfelt wedding speech.

 

Granted, it’s not so easy to write a great one let alone face a terrifying audience.

 

Like you, I badly wanted to give a great speech that will make my son proud and show him and the guests how much I really love him.

 

But, juggling work and family meant I had little time to spare.

 

Plus I was obsessed with writing a beautiful speech yet finding the right words was like pulling out a child’s tooth.

 

I Was Feeling Completely Helpless

I knew the audience wanted me to do my very best because I was well known for my speaking abilities.

But, I couldn’t put my thoughts together in a very compelling way.

 

That was a bit puzzling because I had given so many speeches.

But, I never knew wedding speeches were very different.

I spent countless hours, sometimes deep into the night, but things didn’t work out as I had hoped for.

 

Thank God!  This Helped Me Out!

 

Prior to the wedding of my first son in 2015,  I was so nervous that I just couldn’t figure out how to write a very meaningful speech, and that’s when I began to seek someone to help me so I could have my peace of mind.

 

In the process, I stumbled on this page you are currently on and I was skeptical when Dan and his team said they could help give a great wedding speech even if I hated speaking in public.

 

Well, I took a leap of faith when I found that I didn’t have to pay first to get my speech and that allayed my fears.

 

Quickly, I got started by first filling out this form as I really wanted to make a difference this time.

Dan and his team delivered what they promised and they even gave me tips on how to speak well which helped a lot.

 

When I was called to deliver my speech,  I spoke with poise, flair, and confidence and got so many compliments!!!!

My son was proud of me and someone said to me that I was an inspiration.

Dan and his guys asked me how my speech went afterward and this was the note I sent them.

Please see the image below

 

Dear Loving Mom,

I am Dan and I run this blog.

Believe it or not, Christine came back when her last son was getting married in 2018 and this is the email we got from her.

Christine, is not the only one we’ve helped.

 

There are so many others as well. So, your case is not hopeless. We can help you just as we helped others. Wedding not too far away? Or happening in less than 24 hours? Trust me, we can deliver! it doesn’t matter if your speech is today, tomorrow, next week, next month ,next year,... we can make things work for you  

 

Listen, all these persons you have just listened to are mere mortals like you and me and many were scared to death about this whole wedding speech thing.

 

But they all decided to take action by asking our wedding speech consultants to help them give incredible wedding speeches and we didn’t let them down.

 

Your son’s wedding is a very special event and you-his mom should not let him down in any way else he will regret asking you to give a wedding speech.

 

That’s why we are here to help you give a wedding speech that will blow everyone away-even if you are an experienced speaker or you just hate speaking before an audience.

 

Need help with your mother of the groom speech? You should by first filling out this simple form.

This is letter a mom sent to us after we helped her deliver her speech(Please click on it to enlarge if you can't see it)

Ok, Is This Offer For Me?

• Yes, if you are expecting nothing less than a very special, beautiful, unique, and memorable speech.

• Don’t have much time to write a perfect speech just as you want it because of work demands and other life's pressure or even sick? Then, let’s take care of it and the guests will definitely sing your praises--we have done it for so many others and it's your turn now!

• Yes, if you are overwhelmed by the pressures of work and don’t have the time to put together a very meaningful speech, so you can have your peace of mind

• Yes, if you want your family, your son, friends, and wedding guests to shower you with very sincere compliments…just imagine how you will feel

• Yes, if you are not good with words and you feel you’re not a natural writer and you are struggling to find the right words but still want to give a great speech.

• Yes, you get so scared anytime you’re asked to say something before an audience and you really want to save yourself from any form of embarrassment on your son's big day.

• Yes, if you are not too eloquent or not too sure if you are on the right track.

• Yes, if you absolutely hate speaking in public or feel this is not your thing but you want to make your son feel very proud

• Yes, if you have a day or less to the wedding and you are worried that you might make some horrible mistakes

• Yes, if you are a good speaker but you still want someone to look over or review what you've come up with!

Just imagine leaving your entire presentation in the hands of skilled wedding speech consultants who will take away your pain of spending hours thinking hard and long about what to say and what not to say.

Also, envision being patiently guided to say something that will leave a favorable impression on the mind of your listeners.

And also imagine the thrill and feeling of excitement and pride you’re going to experience when the audience leaps onto their feet and scream and shouts and even sing your praises.

Won’t you love that? I hope you do...

Wedding not too far away? Or happening in less than 24 hours? Trust me, we can deliver! it doesn’t matter if your speech is today, tomorrow, next week, next month ,next year,... we can make things work for you  

 

Ok, I am Interested, What’s the Cost?

You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.

Why? As you know, the current health and economic crisis has caused severe hardships for most people.

Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.

Yet, some sons are still getting married and asking their moms to give speeches.

''It was perfect Dan.  I changed a few things in the speech. And I had several people come up and tell me how well done it was. I couldn't have done it better. Thanks for your help''- Marilyn, Canada

Nonetheless, not every mother could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.

So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.

Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.

So, please take advantage of it now even if your son’s big day is in the future.

Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video and your son and daughter-in-law and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.  

So, please take advantage of it now even if your son’s big day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.

This is another letter a mom sent to us after we helped her deliver her speech(Please click on it to enlarge if you can't see it) 

Oh Ok, How Then Do I Get Started Since I Want To Get On Board Right Away?

Ok, here’s how it works

All you have to do RIGHT NOW is to click on this link to receive an easy-to-fill-in questionnaire via email. Check your email a few hours after you’ve submitted your request.

So,

1)CLICK HERE  NOW TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT THIS QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind!

2. After that, we will send you a very short questionnaire to fill out via email! You only have to check your email a few hours after you have made your request

3. Then, you fill out the questionnaire sent through your email, and please have it sent back to us…

4. We will confirm receipt of it…If something is not too clear, we will ask you to clarify….

5. If not, we will send you a wonderful draft in a couple of hours if this on very short notice….If not, after a few days

6. Then, you look it over and tell us if you are okay with it or you want to amend or revise it till you are happy with it--although we always get it right even with the first draft.
7. Then, we ask you to pay for it.

Please note: The information collected through the questionnaire is only for the purpose of writing your speech. I wouldn’t even need it if I could read your mind. So, your information is very confidential and no one will know about it.

 

Just a reminder of what you pay after it’s duly completed.

Ok, I am Interested, What’s the Cost?

You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.

Why? As you know, the current health and economic crisis has caused severe hardships for most people. Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.

Yet, some sons are still getting married and asking their moms to give speeches.

''It was perfect Dan.  I changed a few things in the speech. And I had several people come up and tell me how well done it was. I couldn't have done it better. Thanks for your help''- Marilyn, Canada

Nonetheless, not every mother could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.

So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.

Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.

So, please take advantage of it now even if your son’s big day is in the future.

Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video and your son and daughter-in-law and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.   

So, please take advantage of it now even if your son’s big day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.   

Please note: Your speech draft comes with a proven and simple tip to master your speech or remember your speech just as you want it without carrying a paper with you.

Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise, and clarity!

''Hi Dan,

The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice).  Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.

All the best,

Matt''

Please note: Don’t fill out this form if you’re a dishonest individual. This offer is for a limited time.

So, CLICK HERE TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT A QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind and not lose money. The risk is on us!

You don't have to worry about paying our per speech for now.

Forget about money and let’s write something for you. We believe in the values of honesty and integrity and we think you should be happy with our work first.

So, Here Are The Benefits You Get When You Get On Board!

• A great speech written by our wedding speech consultants that reflects what you want to say exactly

• We coach you on how to use your voice to make your speech very exciting.

• We show you a simple but often overlook strategy to rehearse your speech even if you have a very poor memory. This method is used by great speakers like Obama and was used by Abraham Lincoln and his compatriots

• The most effective way to get your entire speech into your head without memorizing your speech. Guaranteed to help you even if you have a very poor memory or your memory is like a gold fish…most of our clients still wonder where we got this idea from. This ensures that you don't read off a sheet of paper...

Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise, and clarity!

''Hi Dan,

The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice).  Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.

All the best,

Matt''

• Ways to include humor in your speech and what it takes to do so

So, CLICK HERE TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT A QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you ca+n have peace of mind and not lose money. The risk is on us!

Remember, you have to see your speech first before you pay. So, you can relax and let us sweat it out at our expense!