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Father Of The Bride Speech Examples And Samples: How To Use Father Of The Bride Speech Examples To Write A Heartfelt Speech For Your Daughter

 

Are you looking for ideas and tips to help you write the best ever father of the bride speech?

 

Just stick with me for a while and I will share with you everything you need to know about…

 

• How to use father of the bride speech templates or examples to help you express your thoughts and emotions into a great father of the bride speech

 

• What to include and what not to say in your father of the bride wedding speech…get this wrong and you will feel deeply ashamed that you even got up to speak

 

• Plus several other proven tips you can adapt for the content of your father of the bride wedding toast

 

 

I strongly believe that one of the greatest gifts you will ever give your daughter is words. Good words have been the heart and soul of your family’s existence and you certainly owe her a great father of the bride speech as she starts the next chapter of her life with that wonderful person she can’t live out.

 

 

Well, if you’ve never delivered one or are not blessed with the gift of words, your heart will pound like a roaring African drum.   And if you ever made a blunder while speaking in public, then I can imagine what’s going through your mind at this very moment.

 

You shouldn’t worry about what has gone wrong in the past because I am going to share with you a well-written father of the bride speech or toast sample or template.

 

Afterwards, we will break it down and examine it so you can figure out how you can use its contents to write an amazing speech for your daughter and son-in-law.

First and foremost, let’s look at this…

 

Father of the Bride Speech Example/Template

 

Hello, good evening. For those of you who don’t know me, my name is Frank and I’m Michelle’s proud dad.

 

On behalf of my wife Jeanette, the groom’s parents and the happy couple Dave and Michelle, can I say what a pleasure it is to welcome the friends and relatives of both families. It’s really great to see you all.

 

Thank you for coming to help celebrate this very special day. And by your presence today, you show your friendship and love, and bring even greater joy to this wonderful day and I hope that you all have a wonderful evening. Michelle, you look absolutely stunning tonight.

 

When you made your grand entry, I was overwhelmed with beautiful emotions of love, pride, and excitement. Those feelings grew more intense as I walked you down the aisle to give you away to Dave.

 

As we took our memorable last walk together, fond memories came rushing back of our first walk together when we brought you home from the hospital all bundled up like a precious gift.

 

At birth, you were so cute and adorable, and like the rest of our children, our hopes and dreams were to love and inspire you, and keep you safe from harm.

 

Far beyond our wildest dreams, you grew up into a very happy and thoughtful little girl with a true heart of gold. At an early age, you were so concerned about the well-being of her siblings, friends, and loved-ones.

 

Her caring attitude reminds me of a time she pestered us for a new baby.  Michelle had already had two older brothers and every day, she would often come to either me or my wife and tell us that she wanted a baby sister.

                         

She felt we weren’t doing our best, so she started praying every night for a sister and she would tell us that she was praying for a very long time but that God still didn’t get her one.

 

She eventually got her prayers answered with her little sister Nini whom she adored and cared for like a little princess. Growing up, she was fun to be with, but like most kids, she sometimes drove us crazy.

 

When she was about five years old, she disappeared from home and her sudden disappearance shot our blood pressure unexpectedly through the roof! We had the police combing the neighborhood for over an hour.

 

When it felt like all hopes were gone, I shouted frantically in exasperation. Finally, she heard me calling out for her and she responded by saying that she was in her doll house.  Believe it or not, when I entered, she was fast asleep like a log!  

 

It’s hard to imagine that the years have gone so fast and it’s a heartfelt blessing to see that our precious daughter has grown up from that little girl who brought so much joy and happiness into our lives, into a very caring, loving, thoughtful, and responsible young woman!

 

Michelle, we are so proud of you and how far you’ve come down the road of life.  Every woman looks forward to that beautiful day when she’s joined together with that special person she just can’t live without.

                                                        

Today, as you exchanged promises with Dave, I could feel from the excitement in your voice that you’ve found your love, rock, balance, and inspiration in him.  I am so ecstatic that you’ve found the man of your dreams, but we will never stop loving you from afar, and praying for your everlasting happiness because you hold such a special place in our hearts.

 

It gives me joy to see that you will be sharing the rest of your life with someone who loves you as much as we do.  We wish you the very best and can’t wait to see what the future holds for you both.

 

Dave, when someone loves you, they don’t have to say it. You can tell it by the way they treat you.  For all these years, you have shown time and again that you really love Michelle with your whole heart.

 

I remember that after you went into the Army upon graduation from dental school and was stationed in New York for 4 years, you and Michelle had a long distance relationship to navigate.  But that didn’t make your love for her grow so cold.

 

You both rose to the challenge by visiting each other when you could, and you even showed each other what matters most.  To me, that’s a testament of your commitment and total love.

 

Not only have you decorated her life with your love, but you’ve helped enriched her appreciation of life’s good things, and I am eternally gratefully for that.

 

I couldn’t be more proud that you are getting married to our precious daughter. Dave and Michelle, you both have are a wonderful couple and your love for each other is so refreshing like the morning dew. I really love the fact you both have similar hopes, dreams and aspirations because couples with shared values often flourish beautifully.

 

Nevertheless, you still have a lot to fight for as you build your lives together.You both have what looks like great rivers to cross and majestic mountains to climb.

The good thing is your love for each other will give you the courage and strength to go through the ups and downs of life.

So, as you embark on this journey of love, always love, respect, support and put each other first in whatever you do and you will have a full and rich life.

 

So, to Dave and Nellie, let’s all raise our glasses to the union of this lovely couple! May you two enjoy a loving, wonderful marriage for years to come. I wish you all the happiness in the world. We love you and God bless you.

 

 

I really love this father of the bride speech example and I applaud the writer for coming up with this great speech. It’s emotional, funny, and heartfelt. What better way to pay tribute to your daughter on her wedding day. 

 

It seems funny to think that you can easily write that at first glance. But if you probe further, you will come to realize that a lot of stuff went into writing that father of the bride wedding speech.

 

Guess what? There are a lot of processes involved in stringing your thoughts together to compose a beautiful speech. They include the following elements:

• Pre-writing stage
• Writing stage
• The performance stage

 

Let’s start with the pre-writing stage. If you have never given a father of the bride speech before, then you first have to find good ideas and tips for your father of the bride speech.

 

Two resources come to mind: well-written father of the bride samples or templates and video examples.

 

First of all, I would like you to watch these videos and see if you can learn a thing or two from them. As you do, please jot down ideas that jump out at you and see if you can somehow work those thoughts into your own script.

 

Here they are:

 

Father of the bride speech example video #1

 

 Father of the bride speech templates video #2

 

Now, let’s dive deeper into the writing process by first creating an outline or structure for it. If we read the above wedding toast for a second time, you will realize that it is anchored on these bullet points.

 

• Greetings…Telling the guests who you are
• Short self-introduction
• Thanking the guests and other personalities who helped to mold your daughter’s character or personality. For example, your wife or the mom of the groom
• Start your speech on a positive note
• Talk about your daughter in a positive light
• Talk about your son-in-law too
• Talk about how the bride and groom complement each other
• End with a bit of marriage advice or best wishes
• End with a toast or on a hilarious note

 

 

Okay, that’s it. Let’s look at each of those bullet points in detail and back them up with the appropriate examples.

 

• Let’s look at the first item on the list: Greetings…Telling the guests who you are(short-self introduction)

 

When you are handed the microphone, introduce yourself and let the wedding guests know your relationship to the bride and groom. I am sure you can write this part of your father of the bride wedding toast without blinking an eye, right? 

 

• Let’s examine at the next idea on the list: Express gratitude to the wedding guests and other personalities who helped to mold your daughter’s life

 

Here’s a brief example to get your creative juices flowing:

 

They say “It takes a village” to raise a child, and that is particularly true for me, since Maggie and her sister were taken good care of my mom(their grand mom)So I have to take a moment to mention my mom whom we all miss terribly.

She lived for her family and adored her children and grandchildren.

She was like a second mom to our girls as she did everything in her power to make life easier for us. Unfortunately, my wife Tammy was diagnosed with cancer at the time. Thank God, she’s now cancer free. But my mom did everything in her power to make life easier for me and reduce my stress during our tough times.

 

Here are some notable personalities you can add to your gratitude list:

• Your wife
• The bride’s mom
• The bride’s grand mom and granddad
• Your neighbors
• Your pastors and friends
• Your baby sitter
• Your brother and sisters

 

The list goes on. The trick here is to first identity individuals who have been of tremendous help and support through the years. Then, write down their names and state how they have impacted your daughter’s life positively.

 

• Let’s look at the next idea on the list: Start your speech with a bang

 

Having written several fathers of the bride speeches, I can’t overemphasize how crucial the opening remarks are. They are like appetizers served before the main meal.  If you get it right, you will end up making your father of the bride toast memorable, unique, and engaging.

 

Sadly, most speakers start on a very dull note because they are accustomed to hearing most fathers deliver the same lines at weddings. Hence, they copy the speaking styles of others which often takes the shine off of what you would have otherwise been a very successful presentation.

 

But, you can stand out from the pack with one or more of these techniques.

 

First, if you have a great singing voice, you can set your speech to a song. You may use this beautiful song and change a few lyrics here and there to reflect what the father-daughter relationship has been like over the years.

Here it is:

 

Second, you can start off with any of these quotes:

• “Daddy, thanks for being my hero, chauffeur, financial support, listener, life mentor, friend, guardian, and simply being there every time I need a hug.” – Agatha Stephanie Lin
• When you’re young, you think your dad is Superman. Then you grow up, and you realize he’s just a regular guy who wears a cape.” – Unknown
• No one in this world can love a girl more than her father.” – Michael Ratnadeepak
• A good father will leave his imprint on his daughter for the rest of her life.” – Dr. James Dobson
• “Fathers, be good to your daughters. You are the god and the weight of her world.” – John Mayor

Ok, to give you an idea, let’s use the second quote ‘’ When you’re young, you think your dad is Superman ‘’ to write a short extract.

 

Here you go:

 

When Michelle was a little girl, her favorite TV series was Superman. That didn’t come as a surprise because she looked like a tom boy. It didn’t take long before she started wearing a cape and began imitating Superman’s move. First, she….

I will stop here. This is not a superman movie. Now, don’t you think this little story will perk ears up? It will because we love good stories.

 

Third, you can start your father of the bride wedding toast in a dramatic fashion as this dad did at her daughter’s wedding. It is quite demanding but if you can do it skillfully, your efforts will be rewarded.

 

• Let’s look at another item on the list: talk about your precious daughter in a very positive light

 

Talking about your daughter is undeniably the easiest part of the writing process. But it can be hard to know where to start. If you have so many memories about her and can’t seem to get started, then you can follow this simple plan to get great ideas to come to you.

 

Divide your daughter’s life into these developmental stages:

• Her toddler years
• Pre-adolescent period
• Her puberty or teenage years
• Her growing up years

 

Those transitions can help you develop your storyline. To make things fairly easy, you may start from when she was a little girl to when she found the love of her life. If not, you can build your storyline from another angle. For example, you can just focus on a little memory about her growing up.

 

This is a mini-assignment for you: Grab your notepad and write down a few stories about your darling daughter. Then, highlight the cool ones you would like to feature in your father of the bride wedding toast.

 

That’s not all.  Your father of the bride wedding speech or toast shouldn’t be lopsided. After you have written down a few ideas about the beautiful bride, you have to share some thoughts about your son-in-law as well.

If the groom has been part of your family (so to speak) for a very long time, then you can write a whole lot of stuff about him. Stuff like your get-togethers, vacation travels hobbies and shared interests, how you feel about him, and so on.

 

Here’s a homework assignment for you: Using the underlined words above, write down a few anecdotes about your future son-in-law.

You may go a step further by letting everyone know how the couple complements each other.

 

5. Now, let’s look at idea number five: how to end your father of the bride speech

 

There’s this beautiful quote by the late renowned poet Maya Angelou that says that “I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.”

This equally applies to the closing remarks of your father of the bride toast too. Most fathers pour their heart and soul into creating memorable opening lines. But not so much when it comes to crafting the conclusion because they feel it’s the end of the show.

 

You definitely have to end on a very strong note if you want it to be super-memorable. Here are some tips and ideas to help you end well.

 

First, you can end with words from the Bible if you are a Christian or end a special prayer for the couple.  Here’s my favorite prayer.

Numbers 6:24-26

King James Version

²⁴ The Lord bless thee, and keep thee:

²⁵ The Lord make his face shine upon thee, and be gracious unto thee:

²⁶ The Lord lift up his countenance upon thee, and give thee peace.

 

Second, if you’ve been married for a while, you may conclude with some practical words of wisdom that have keep both of you going strong all these years.

Here’s a funny marriage advice I read at marriage.com

‘’When you argue, you have to start taking your clothes off. You’ll either end up laughing or doing something else, but at least you’ll forget why you were fighting in the first place. ‘’

 

Third, if you have nothing to say, just end with a simple toast and your best-wishes.

P.S---As the father of the bride, everyone will be on the lookout for your great speech and you can't let the bride and her husband, friends, and family down by giving an ordinary speech.

By getting help, you can give the best speech of the day with poise and confidence even if you don't have a way with words.

Here’s what one nervous and skeptical dad called Glen(who asked for help) sent over after the wedding was over

''Hey Dan, I just wanted to thank you once again for the speech you wrote with me. My goal was met afterward, I was told by many "what a beautiful speech" and received a standing ovation. I couldn't have done this without you. God Bless Dan!-'' Glen, U.S.A

Want to know how he did just that? We helped him with his speech.

Want to get on board? You should by first filling out this short and simple form.

This is letter a dad sent us after we helped him deliver his speech(Please click on it to enlarge if you can't see it)

Ok, Is This Offer For Me?

• Yes, if you are expecting nothing less than a very special, beautiful, unique and memorable speech.

• Yes, if you are overwhelmed by the pressures of work and don’t have the time to put together a very meaningful speech, so you can have your peace of mind

• Yes, if you want your family, children, friends and wedding guests to shower you with very sincere compliments…just imagine how you will feel

• Yes, if you are not good with words and you feel you’re not a natural writer and you are struggling to find the right words but still want to give a great speech.

• Yes, you get so scared anytime you’re asked to say something before an audience and you really want to save yourself from any form of embarrassment on your daughter’s big day.

• Yes, if you are not too eloquent or not too sure if you are on the right track.

• Yes, if you absolutely hate speaking in public or feel this is not your thing but you want to make your daughter feel very proud

• Yes, if you have a day or less to the wedding and you are worried that you might make some horrible mistakes

• Yes, if you are a good speaker but you still want someone to look over or review what you've come up with!

Wedding not too far away? Or happening in less than 24 hours? Trust me, we can deliver! it doesn’t matter if your speech is today, tomorrow, next week, next month ,next year,... we can make things work for you 

Just imagine leaving your entire presentation in the hands of skilled wedding speech consultants who will take away your pain of spending hours thinking hard and long about what to say and what not to say.

This is another letter a dad sent to us when the wedding was over. (Please click on it to enlarge if you can't see it) 

Also, envision being patiently guided to say something that will leave a favorable impression on the mind of your listeners.

And also imagine the thrill and feeling of excitement and pride you’re going to experience when the audience leap onto their feet and scream and shouts and even sing your praises.

Won’t you love that? I hope you do...

Ok, I am Interested, What’s the Cost?

You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.

Why? As you know, the current health and economic crisis has caused severe hardships for most people.

Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.

Yet, some daughters are still getting married and asking their fathers to give speeches.

Nonetheless, not every father could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.

So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.

Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.

So, please take advantage of it now even if your daughter’s big day is in the future.

Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video and your daughter and son-in-law and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.  

So, please take advantage of it now even if your daughter’s big day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.   

Oh Ok, How Then Do I Get Started Since I Want To Get On Board Right Away?

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All you have to do RIGHT NOW is to click on this link to receive an easy-to-fill-in questionnaire via email. Check your email a few hours after you’ve submitted your request for your questionnaire.

So,

1)CLICK HERE  NOW TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT THIS QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind!

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4. We will confirm receipt of it…If something is not too clear, we will ask you to clarify….

5. If not, we will send you a wonderful draft in a couple of hours if this on very short notice….If not, after a few days

6. Then, you look it over and tell us if you are okay with it or you want to amend or revise it till you are happy with it--although we always get it right even with the first draft.
7. Then, we ask you to pay for it.

 

Please note: The information collected through the questionnaire is only for the purpose of writing your speech. I wouldn’t even need it if I could read your mind. So, your information is very confidential and no one will know about it.

Just a reminder of what you pay after it’s duly completed. You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.

Why? As you know, the current health and economic crisis has caused severe hardships for most people.

Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.

Yet, some daughters are still getting married and asking their fathers to give speeches.

Nonetheless, not every father could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.

So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.

Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.

So, please take advantage of it now even if your daughter’s big day is in the future.

Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video and your daughter and son-in-law and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.  

So, please take advantage of it now even if your daughter’s big day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.  

Please note: Your speech draft comes with a proven and simple tip to master your speech or remember your speech just as you want it without carrying a paper with you.

Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise and clarity!

''Hi Dan,

The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice).  Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.

All the best,

Matt''

Please note: Don’t fill out this form if you’re a dishonest individual. This offer is for a limited time.

So, CLICK HERE TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT A QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind and not lose money. The risk is on us!

You don't have to worry about paying our per speech for now.

Forget about money and let’s write something for you. We believe in the values of honesty and integrity and we think you should be happy with our work first.

So, Here Are The Benefits You Get When You Get On Board!

• A great speech written by our wedding speech consultants that reflects what you want to say exactly

• We coach you on how to use your voice to make your speech very exciting.

• We show you a simple but often overlook strategy to rehearse your speech even if you have a very poor memory. This method is used by great speakers like Obama and was used by Abraham Lincoln and his compatriots

• The most effective way to get your entire speech into your head without memorizing your speech. Guaranteed to help you even if you have a very poor memory or your memory is like a gold fish…most of our clients still wonder where we got this idea from. This ensures that you don't read off a sheet of paper...

Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise and clarity!

''Hi Dan,

The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice).  Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.

All the best,

Matt''

• Ways to include humor in your speech and what it takes to do so

So, CLICK HERE TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT A QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind and not lose money. The risk is on us!

Remember, you have to see your speech first before you pay. So, you can relax and let us sweat it out at our expense!

''The wedding was GREAT. There were about 120 guests. About 15 people came up to me afterward and told me I gave a great speech. I had to tweak it little because of my tardiness getting it to you but, it all turned out great. Thanks for all your help. I really appreciate it''- Phil Australia 

Father of the Bride Speech Templates Or Samples: How To Use Wedding Speech Samples To Help You Write a Heartfelt Speech for Your Daughter and Son-In-law

 

If your daughter is getting married and you really want to give a memorable father of the bride speech without breaking a sweat, then you have got to read this entire thing and you will find

 

• Ideas and advice to help you compose your scattered thoughts into a great father of the bride speech or toast

• Tips on what to include and what not to say in your wedding speech or toast for your  daughter

• Great father of the bride speech examples you can model your wedding toast after

 

 

Do You Know This About Yourself?

 

There’s a special blessing for fathers who are blessed to have daughters. If you raise her well and you are always there for her, then the love between the two of you will last forever.

 

I am sure the love between you and your daughter runs deep and on the most special day of her life, you absolutely have to tell your friends and family how proud you are of her and what she means to you.

 

 

The surest way of expressing the deepest sentiments of your heart is by giving a heartfelt father of the bride wedding speech. I know it’s your dream to make a great one at your darling daughter’s wedding.

But, you do really have what it takes to make everyone say great things about your speech and possibly make them stand on their feet to give you a rousing applause?

 

In a bid to write the best ever father of the bride wedding toast, most dads scrounge for bits and pieces of information about their daughter’s life to compose what they think is a great wedding tribute for their daughter.

 

 

This practice, on one hand, is not always as easy as most dads have imagined it to be and often end up composing a wedding speech that doesn’t actually reflect who their daughter is and their relationship with her.

 

Your ability to distill memorable memories from your daughter's life into a cohesive narrative would not only make her proud but also connect you to the invited guests.

 

Please Do This Instead If You Ever Get Stuck

 

To this end, I'm putting forward various suggestions, ideas, and examples to help you write a father of the bride wedding speech  that is sincere, funny, relevant, and worthy of being given on your daughter's special day!

 

If you are short on time, have never delivered a speech before, or aren't sure where to begin, father of the bride speech samples or templates can help you feel better and calm your nerves since they include a plethora of useful ideas and material that can help you make your speech a smashing success!

 

I do, however, advise fathers not to place too much reliance on them. They are just examples to give you an idea of the kind of structure and tone you may choose to use in your own presentation.

Examples may be either textual or visual, and each has a distinct yet complementary function.

 

Prior to drafting your speech, you should first watch a few videos to familiarize yourself with how previous fathers of the bride have delivered their remarks.

After taking a look around and doing a little brainstorming, I found these beautiful fathers of the bride toast examples from YouTube videos to share with you.

 

Now is the time for you to take their pen and notebook, press the play button, and jot down any and all of the potential thoughts that come to mind while the video plays. These would serve as a model or framework for the father of the bride's speech.

 

Father of the bride speech video example #1

 

 

Father of the bride speech video examples #2

 

 

I certainly hope you took something away from seeing both wedding toasts?

 

Well, the following is a brief father of the bride speech sample or template to get you started. Afterward, we'll break it down so you can understand what went into creating it.

 

Now, here is a

 

Father Of The Bride Speech Sample/ Example

Good evening, and greetings to everyone who took out time for the wedding of my lovely daughter and son-in-law.

 

On behalf of Jen and me, I'd want to begin by expressing our gratitude for your presence today.

             

We have been looking forward to this moment for months, and on behalf of my family, I would like to express our gratitude to everyone who has traveled from near and far to participate in our pleasure and happiness.

 

 

Since the day Sarah was born, I've been looking forward to this moment. My first kid was born to me. My one and only daughter. Everything about today is the stuff of fathers' aspirations, desires, and fantasies.

 

 

It may surprise some of you to learn that our first child struggled with weight for almost two years before becoming healthy and strong again. It was many years before she stopped wiggling her legs and she did that in the womb as well. We now consider that to be her very first exercise regimen.

 

 

The vast majority of dads think that their children are the brightest youngsters alive. Sarah was a bright young girl who quickly mastered the spelling and definition of every new word she encountered in the many books that were read to her.

 

 

I made up tales to keep her entertained, and I often read fascinating articles from the Kids Magazine to engage her in a lively conversation about the stories. On Saturdays, when she was approximately seven years old, she began accompanying me to work. She would sit in front of the computer for a bit and we would simply spend time together.

 

 

I once overheard her talking with my boss which I thought was interesting.  Later, I cautiously inquired as to what they had discussed, and she responded that he had attempted to deceive her with a ruse. When it didn't work, he challenged her to spell his last name correctly which she did.

 

 

Growing up, she preferred grown-up discussions, which evolved into a caustic wit and a lack of tolerance for people who misjudged her. In this case, her new husband has earned her trust.

 

She transferred to high school during her junior year, and she used her dancing experience to try out for the cheerleading team that year.

 

Even if one door shuts in front of her, she will happily go through the next one. That’s who Sarah is.

We had a lot of fun together until the aliens stole her brain away from her. Her interests veered off in directions that mine had never ventured until she was 13 years old.

 

 

For a while, the tale about the aliens was the only way she could explain her conduct to her friends. We believed our children were normal, but Sarah let us see the aliens for what they really were. Later on, they were able to restore her mental faculties. It's been a long, long journey.

 

After high school, Sarah went off to college and eventually moved out of the house. My wife, on the other hand, saw it as a setback rather than a triumph.

 

It was a defining moment in her life. We had faith in her and she enrolled at Tanish University, where she excelled.

 

She completed her Master’s in Public Policy in two years after putting in the effort. She started her professional life as a policy advisor to our State Governor.

 

With each step up the ladder, she gained important experience that enabled her to achieve even greater success in her endeavors. If you're interested in learning more about what she's up to now, contact her. She will be more than happy to tell you about it. It's time to seize the moment once again!

 

Of course, she also seized Dan. He provides consolation during stormy days and illuminates the situation with his additional expertise.

 

And I'm looking forward to the day when your mom  and I will be able to adopt the titles of Grandma and Grandpa.

 

I'm overjoyed that the two of you have found one other, and we wish you both the best of luck in the future. Your presence in our family is much appreciated, Dan. And, Leia, you have once again made your mother and me very proud of you.

 

We are delighted to witness the two of you become one in your love for one another. They say that a good marriage starts when we marry the person we love, and it blooms when we continue to love the person we married throughout the seasons of life.

 

May you have genuine pleasure in your shared living space. Dan and Sarah, you are a good match for one another. You are both intelligent and capable of making sound choices, and you have a number of characteristics in common. It gives me great pleasure to be here with you today.

 

The voyage of marriage, on the other hand, is similar to that of a roller-caster. You will experience tremendous highs and equally severe lows, but the  trip will be well worth it!

 

So, always be each other's closest friends in good and bad times, honor each other, be nice, be lovely, and embrace and kiss each other a lot since it's beneficial for your health and happiness. As long as you stay at it, you will never forget this wonderful evening!

 

Thank you and God bless you all the days of your life. Cheers!

 

Ladies and Gentlemen, this has been your anchorman on the Wedding Speech TV, Eric, father of the bride and I am out of hereeeeeeeeeeee! Byeeeeeeeeeeee!

 

 

 Now, let’s break it all down so we can figure out what really went into writing this sweet father of the bride speech.

 

First, let’s re-look at excerpts of the introductory remarks which form the backbone of your speech.   

 

‘’Good evening and greetings to everyone who took out time for the wedding of my lovely daughter and son-in-law.

 

If you don't already know who I am, let me introduce myself: my name is Mark, and I am the proud father of the beautiful bride…’’

 

Could you please let me know what caught your eye when you read that?  If you go back to read it once more, you will realize that it is basically a short self-introduction which is fairly easy to write.

 

I am sure you can do that. Well, if you scroll further down the page, you will still see this other part of the opening address:

 

 

‘’Since the day Sarah was born, I've been looking forward to this moment. My first kid was born to me. My one and only daughter. Everything about today is the stuff of fathers' aspirations, desires, and fantasies…’’

 

What’s your take on that? Ok, let me walk you through that so you can understand it better.  

 

The story about Sarah’s birth sets the pace for the rest of the speech. Reflecting on how and when your daughter was born is one of the best ways of capturing the attention of the audience. But it goes beyond that storytelling approach.

 

There are actually other proven ways of starting with a bang and I am going to share a few with you.

 

First, you can dive deep and tell the wedding guests how you felt when you brought your daughter home from the hospital or held her in your arms for the very first time.

Here’s an example that conveys that exact feeling.

 

From the first moment you

were placed in my arms, and

you looked up at me with those little bright eyes of yours and you got me hooked.

I knew right then that I was going to protect you from the world since there was something really special about you.

 

Second, if you want to sound witty, you can jazz up your wedding speech for your daughter with some witty lines or quotes or even jokes. Below are a few you can use to come up with something creative.

 

• "There are two things I know for sure: She was sent here from heaven and she's daddy's little girl."- Bob Carlisle

• A father is a son's first hero and a daughter's first love."- Unknown

• "Fathering is not something perfect men do, but something that perfects the man."- Frank Pittman

• The happiest moments in every married man’s life is when his daughter tells him she’s engaged to be married’’- Jean Dan

 

 

Ok, let’s see if we can write something cute with the last quote.

 

My dad told me that there are two memorable moments in every man’s life. When he gets married to a very good woman and when he becomes a dad for the very first time.

 

While that’s true, I can say that when my daughter Mildred was born, I became a very proud dad for the first time and my joy knew no bounds 28 years later when she joyfully announced her engagement from overseas…….

 

That’s not all there is to opening your speech. It always seems that using just words is the natural thing to do. But, did you know that you can break out into a song to entertain your family and friends?

 

This father in the video below tried that and his message was very well-received that it became one of the best ever father of the bride speeches.

 

 

 

You better give it a try if you can and you will certainly end up making your darling daughter so proud!

 

 

Now, let’s turn our attention to this:

How to Write and Organize the Structure, Outline and Content of Your Father of the Bride Wedding Speech

 

First, let’s go back and re-read parts of the body so you can get an idea of what to do before you even write the body of your speech.

 

Please look at it carefully... see the underlined words and phrases.

 

Here you go:

……I made up tales to keep her entertained, and I often read fascinating articles from the Kids Magazine to engage her in a lively conversation about the stories. On Saturdays, when she was approximately seven years old, she began accompanying me to work. She would sit in front of the computer for a bit and we would simply spend time together.

 

 

I once overheard her talking with my boss which I thought was interesting.  Later, I cautiously inquired as to what they had discussed, and she responded that he had attempted to deceive her with a ruse. When it didn't work, he challenged her to spell his last name correctly which she did.

 

Growing up, she preferred grown-up discussions, which evolved into a caustic wit and a lack of tolerance for people who misjudged her. In this case, her new husband has earned her trust…

 

For a while, the tale about the aliens was the only way she could explain her conduct to her friends. We believed our children were normal, but Sarah let us see the aliens for what they really were. Later on, they were able to restore her mental faculties. It's been a long, long journey…

 

 

She completed her Master’s in Public Policy in two years after putting in the effort. She started her professional life as a policy advisor to our State Governor. With each step up the ladder……….

 

 

Comments: Did you read that? Ok, what are some ideas you took home from that read? If you go scroll up and give it a quick glance, you can infer that the whole thing is about stories about Sarah’s life.

 

In this case, it starts from when she was a little girl through her teenage years to when she graduated college and became a policy advisor.

 

If you always struggle to come up with ideas on the fly, then I recommend that you break the body of your presentation into the following parts.

 

• Your daughter’s childhood---talk about it and back it up with a very memorable story. Don’t forget to share some funny and entertaining stories about your daughter’s childhood!

 

You can continue by sharing some of the memorable moments of her life, starting from her struggles and how she overcame them.

 

Then, share some turning points of her life and how she amazed you throughout this fantastic journey.

 

Share the growth and learning process of your daughter and how you felt all along.

 

 

• Her teenage years/ Growing up years---fill in the blanks with stories about her years when she was entering puberty.
• Her adult years--- Mention her accomplishments (scholarly and athleticism) if you will and memorable events you both took part in. It could be about a trip, sports event or a family get-together or school function like a graduation party.

 

You may talk about some stories that showed her being a little mischievous. But make sure it’s rendered in an amusing way so that you don’t embarrass her.

 

Then write about how you met the groom and your impressions of him. You may also work around with any of these ideas:

 

• Do you share the same hobbies or similar interests?

• Did he ask you permission to marry your daughter?

• How did he propose? And were you around when he did that?

 

Action Tip: Please provide answers to the above questions and use your answers to come up with a quick first draft or outline. Not too difficult, right? Ok, just give it a try and let’s see what happens.

 

 

Now, let’s wrap this up with this:

How to End Your Speech on a Memorable Note

 

Most fathers wrongly assume that writing the concluding remarks is a walk in the park. While that is true, most speech givers don’t wrap up too well as expected and that doesn’t make the wedding night one to remember.

 

It’s not uncommon to hear something along these lines:

‘’ Let’s raise our glasses and toast the happy couple. Cheers!’’

 

There’s nothing wrong with that approach though. But you can make it a lot more fun by being a little more creative with your closing remarks or best wishes.

 

Well, here are some ideas that can help you end on a strong note.

 

First, if you are a Christian couple or father, you can end with a prayer or blessing for the couple. Here’s an example taken from Psalm 128 and adapted for this occasion.

May you be blessed in this union

May the Lord bless you and cause you to eat the fruit of your labor

May you be like a fruitful vine within your house and your children grow like olive shoots around your table in Jesus name!

 

Second, if you have nothing else to say, you only have to end with a couple of best wishes. That’s easy to write, right?

 

P.S: Most dads of the bride use this....Have you considered it? Want to write and give a great wedding speech but can't seem to get started because you don't know the exact words to use?

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Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.

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Christian father of the bride wedding speech or toast

How to write a heartfelt and inspiring Christian father of the bride wedding speech or toast

 

Hi dad of the bride,

 

I just need a little bit of your time and I will show you how to

• what to say in your father of the bride Christian speech or toast

• find great ideas and tips for your Christian father of the bride wedding speech for your daughter and son

• Write a heartfelt faith based father of the bride speech using relevant verses from the bible or any other Christian literature.

 

Can we begin with a very short prayer? Ok, God, you are the source of all wisdom and knowledge. So, please let your Holy Spirit guide and infuse us with new ideas as we read through this piece in Jesus name. Can you say amen to that? Amen!!!

 

 

A dad’s wedding speech for his daughter is supposed to be fun. So we often don’t hear most fathers talk about their faith when they are asked to say something about their daughters on their wedding day.

 

Whenever you see a  bride’s father grab the microphone to speak  about the goodness of God in lives, his daughter’s commitment to the church and Jesus Christ, her love of God,  and even ends his dad’s speech with a prayer or blessing, then you can be sure that he’s making a Christian or spiritual father of the bride wedding speech or toast.

 

 

If you are on this page, then I am pretty sure you are looking for ideas and tips to help you write a heartfelt Christian or religious father of the bride wedding speech.

 

And in this piece, I am going to show you what a Christian father of the bride speech should include, suitable bible verses you can use to enrich your wedding toast, and good examples that can help you come up with creative ideas to help you gather your thoughts together.

 

But first, let me throw in this sample/template which will form the basis for this study and analysis.

 

By the way, here’s a

Christian father of the bride wedding toast example

 

On behalf of Lina and myself, I’d like to start by saying thank you for coming today to celebrate with us this joyous occasion.

For those of you who don’t know, our first was a bit chubby for a year or two. She kicked in the womb and didn’t stop moving her legs for several years. Now we see it as her first workout routine. 

 

 

Most fathers believe that their children are the smartest kids alive.  The only difference in my belief is that I happen to be right. Sandra was a smart little girl and learned how to spell and define every new word she came across in the numerous books read to her. 

 

I made up stories to entertain her and often would read interesting stories from the Orange County Register for discussion.

 

At about seven years old she came to work with me at Panasonic on Saturdays.  She would play with the PC for a while and we just spent time together. 

 

Once, I caught her having a talk with the president of Sony America.  Later I gingerly asked what they talked about and Sandra replied that he tried to fool her with a trick. When that failed, he challenged her spell his last name.  She promptly spelled it out correctly. Then she revealed he wore a name tag.

 

 

Sandra skipped kindergarten which worried us. She gravitated towards adult conversations that developed into a sharp wit and little patience for those who underestimated her. Which is a testament to her new husband.

 

 

Dan ’s creative cheeky manner is an attraction she couldn’t say no to.  I don’t think he ever underestimated her.

Her junior year Sandra changed High Schools and using her dance background she tried out for the cheerleader squad. 

 

One door closes to her; she will gladly open the next one. A short time after a VW bug stops at our house and four huge guys get out.  They were linemen for a semi pro football team and she was now a cheerleader. 

 

Lin and I didn’t know what to think so we took jobs with the team while Sandra recruited friends.  We had a great time for 2 years while the team won the West Coast Championship.  I stopped estimating her capabilities and appreciated her abilities to seize the moment. 

 

We had fun together until the aliens took her brain. Maybe 13 years old her interests went where mine had never been before. 

 

For a time, the alien story was the only way to explain her behavior to friends. We thought our kids were normal but Sandra made the aliens real for us.  Down the road they did give her brain back.  A long, long road.

 

 

From high school Sandra transitioned to college and out of the home.  To me it was a small victory but to Lina it was a loss. 

 

 

Sandra felt it was a high point of her life. We trusted her but she kept telling us everything that happened.  At the right time Sandra parted ways from the local college and went to Witman University where she excelled.

 

 

Seizing the moment, she applied to graduate school at Pepperdine. Working hard she graduated in 2 years with a Masters in Economic Policy.  Sandra began her career as Texas Governor Rick Perry’s policy specialist. 

 

She has always progressed up the ladder gaining invaluable experience that brought her more success.  Circle back with her if you are interested in what she does now. She will gladly tell you about it.  More seizing the moment!

 

Of course, she also seized Dan.  Dan is her rock and a compass that she trusts.  He comforts her in stormy days and shines a light with his complementary knowledge.

 

 

My feeling towards Dan at first was show me the ring and I will remember your name. I was impressed by the storybook manner regarding how they met each other.  It seems there was a young lady celebrating her graduation with a trip to Africa.

 

There were tigers to hold and beaches of enchantment to visit.  At that precise time a young man came to Kenya to run another marathon. He had given up hope of meeting the right woman as most of his marathons took place in harsh environments like a jungle and the North Pole. 

 

When least expected they found each other and started a 6-year adventure to be here. He finally showed her the ring.

 

 

But while I love my daughter dearly, I also feel like I owe Gavin a couple of stories, maybe just a couple of cautionary tales.

 

I was been brainwashed to believe any traffic collision was not her fault.  She taught me that $200 was a normal price for jeans but cheap sunglasses were ok.

 

 

Once she tricked me with a story of guys following her at the mall, I rushed there to save her.  The scary boys were nowhere to be seen but there was this perfect prom dress I should see. Failing to mention it was over Mom’s budget by $100 I bought it for her and it cost more than I bargained for at home. 

 

But at the end of the day, I loved every moment of being her dad. I was inspired to work harder and bring home more bacon. I had 33 jobs when our son was born.

 

I always set aside play time for Sandra after work. I think that the warning stories aside, you are getting a great partner that will stand by you for life.  And I know you will be worthy of her. 

 

She cares about others and is always interested in them. When she was young this was especially true for Grandma and Grandpa.

 

We are so honored to see the two of you become one in love and I am very confident that you will find real joy in living together.

 

We love you both. The Lord bless you and keep you;
The Lord make His face shine upon you, And be gracious to you;

The Lord lift up His countenance upon you,
And give you peace all the days of your lives.

 

Dan and Sandra, here to your joy and happiness from this day forward. Cheers!

 

 

That was a very simple but sweet father of the bride toast any father would be so proud to deliver on her daughter’s wedding day.

 

Now, let’s break it down bit by bit so we can figure out what goes into writing a great speech like the one we have just looked at.

 

Before we delve deep into this, there are a few things I would like to draw your attention to about writing faith-based father of the bride toasts.

 

First, your speech is not supposed to be a sermon.  It is simply a recollection of memories of what life has been like with your daughter since she came into your life years ago.

 

Second, your wedding speech for your daughter shouldn’t solely be about her life. You should also talk about your son-in-law.

 

Third, if the majority of the wedding guests are Christians, then, you should tailor your message accordingly so that they can feel the impact of your words.

 

With that said, let’s see how we can use the above example to help you say something about your precious daughter.

 

 

How to Write a Heartfelt Dad’s Wedding Speech for Your Daughter

 

If you re-read the above template, you will realize that it’s composed of three parts. Do you have any idea what they are?

 

Ok, let me help you out here. They include an introduction, body or content, and a memorable ending.

 

Before you start putting down your thoughts, you first have to mentally divide your speech into three sections since it will make it fairly easy to know where to start from and where to end.

 

First, let us see what how you can easily write a memorable introduction.

 

Many fathers don’t think twice about their opening remarks because they are fairly easy to write down.

 

It’s common to see the following featured in them.

1. Name of the father of the bride and his relationship with the bride and groom
2. Greetings
3. Thanking the wedding guests for coming to celebrate with the couple
4. Mentioning special individuals who have been a huge blessing in the bride’s life like your pastors, coaches, and so on
5. Also, thanking the parents of the groom for welcoming the bride into their family

 

An example is seen below

 

Good evening and welcome everyone. It was wonderful to see our happy to see our happy couple surrounded by loving family and supportive friends as they were united in holy matrimony

 

Well, if the overwhelming majority of wedding attendees are from your church or denomination, you should salute them in their religious or church slogan.

 

Here’s an example to illustrate this point.

 

Ebenezer! Ebenezer! Ebenezer! (response: thus far God has brought us)Good evening and welcome everyone. It was wonderful to see our happy to see our……

 

After those basic remarks have been inserted into the opening lines or address of your wedding toast, you have to open your speech with a bang and that’s where most fathers unfortunately falter.

 

To write a very engaging intro that draws your listeners in, you should start with a captivating opener.

 

You can easily do that with one or more of the following ideas.

 

First, you can draw the wedding guests in by starting with a memorable story about the birth of your daughter. It could be an anecdote that happened before or during the time she was born.

 

Second, you can start with a bible quote or verse. Here are some bible verses you may use.

1. ‘’He has made everything beautiful in its time. He has also set eternity in the human heart; yet no one can fathom what God has done from beginning to end.’’---Ecclesiastics 3:11
2. ‘’This isthe day the Lordhas made; We will rejoice and be glad in it.’’--- Psalm 118: 24

c. A Time for Everything

3 There is a time for everything,
    and a season for every activity under the heavens:

²     a time to be born and a time to die, --- Ecclesiastics 3: 2

Here’s an example based on the last bible verse from the book of Ecclesiastics.

 

Scripture reminds us in Ecclesiastics 3: 2 that there’s a time for everything under the heavens. Tonight, we have gathered in the name of the Almighty God to give thanks for this blessed union and celebrate the precious gift of love he’s bestowed on our son and daughter.

 

Third, if your daughter has been through a lot in her life or a lot happened prior to her wedding or you have to put it off due to a pandemic, you can start like this.

 

No one would have thought that we would be gathered here to celebrate the marriage of Sam and  Alexis.

 

But, God’s so faithful and his word has promised to bring beauty out of ashes . And isn’t that what we are seeing before our very eyes? We are seeing joy still exists, and love always prevails. We give him praise for that.

 

 

With that, let’s dive into the steps you have to follow to help you write the body or content of your wedding toast for your daughter.

 

Unless you have a light bulb moment where great ideas suddenly come to you, you will really struggle to write down your thoughts, particularly if you have never made a wedding speech in your lifetime.

 

Well, whether you are blessed with words or not, you  should thank your lucky stars because I am going to share with you a few simple ideas that you can easily use to come up with great content for your father of the bride Christian speech.

 

Ready? Ok, let’s get started.

 

First, you have to pick a style that reflects your personal demeanor.

 

While most fathers prefer making funny wedding speeches, I found out that the overwhelming majority of fathers prefer a combination of humor and sentimentality.

 

Sadly, certain fathers copy speech styles that went viral like this one below. 

 

 

Oh my goodness. I watched this over and over again and I think it’s by far the best father of the bride wedding toast I have ever heard.

 

Well, any video or written example you find should rather serve as an inspiration for coming up with a wedding toast that best suit you.

 

Depending on your personality, you can choose to write in a poetic, narrative, humorous, or even a rhyming father of the bride Christian speech.

 

Second, you also have to pick a format for your presentation. To do that, you have to ask yourself these simple questions.

 

1. Do you want to tell the most memorable stories from your daughter’s childhood to her adulthood?
2. Do you want to dwell on her infant years? If so, what are the most memorable events you want to highlight?
3. If you only want to dwell on at least three anecdotes…what would they be?

 

After you’ve written down some answers to the above questions, you then have to put yourself in the right mindset before you organize your thoughts in the right order.

 

Third, Christian father of the bride speech YouTube videos can help put yourself in the mood to get good ideas for drafting the content of your speech.

 

By the way, here are two video clips I think can help you get a clear idea of how faith based wedding toasts are made.

 

Christian father of the bride speech video example#1

 

 

Christian father of the bride speech video example# 2

 

 

I hope you enjoyed both video clips and learned a thing or two from watching those visual presentations.

 

Now, let’s see how you can end your speech on a memorable note.

 

Writing the conclusion or ending of your father of the bride speech shouldn’t be that hard like the rest of your speech because it’s fairly easy to end well.

 

However, you shouldn’t take this part lightly because what you write will be remembered by the wedding guest’s years after the wedding bells have stopped chiming.

 

Thankfully, you need not bang your head against the wall because there are several ideas from scriptures or the bible you can use to wrap up on a resounding note.

 

 

First, you can end with a prayer as you saw above.

‘’ We love you both. The Lord bless you and keep you;
The Lord make His face shine upon you, And be gracious to you;

The Lord lift up His countenance upon you,
And give you peace all the days of your lives. ‘’

 

As you might be aware by now, many eye balls would probably use the above verse, so you may use this prayer from Psalm 128 instead or even something from your favorite scripture.

Psalm 128

A song of ascents.

¹ Blessed are all who fear the Lord,
    who walk in obedience to him.
² You will eat the fruit of your labor;
    blessings and prosperity will be yours.
³ Your wife will be like a fruitful vine
    within your house;
your children will be like olive shoots
    around your table.
⁴ Yes, this will be the blessing
    for the man who fears the Lord.

⁵ May the Lord bless you from Zion;
    may you see the prosperity of Jerusalem
    all the days of your life.
⁶ May you live to see your children’s children—
    peace be on Israel.

 

Second, you can simply share advice that has helped you navigate your own marriage.

Here’s an example I found from the Transformed Wife website.

Do not act on your emotions but be obedient to the word of God. Put His word daily in you and pray for your husband or wife daily. Love the way Christ loves you and be the help meet you were created to be. Be kind, be sweet, be generous! Submit to him in all things, even the seemingly insignificant. Swallow your pride. Be humble and soft.

 

Third, if you have a pretty good singing voice, you can make your speech for your daughter and son in law entertaining by singing your closing remarks to the tune of a well-known inspirational or Christian song.

 

Fourth, you can simply use any of these bible verses to advise the couple.

 

• Though one may be overpowered, two can defend themselves. A cord of three strands is not quickly broken.” ~Ecclesiastes 4:12~

 

• Marriage should be honored by all, and the marriage bed kept pure, for God will judge the adulterer and all the sexually immoral.----Hebrews 13:4

 

• Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the Lord. 23For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior. 24 Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything. 25 Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her 26 to make her holy, cleansing her by the washing with water through the word…..Ephesians 5:22-26 NIV

 

• Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her 26to make her holy, cleansing her by the washing with water through the word, 27 and to present her to himself as a radiant church, without stain or wrinkle or any other blemish, but holy and blameless. 28 In this same way, husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. 29 After all, no one ever hated their own body, but they feed and care for their body, just as Christ does the church- 30 for we are members of his body. 31 "For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh." 32 This is a profound mystery-but I am talking about Christ and the church. 33 However, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband……Ephesians 5:25-34 NIV

 

• Husbands, in the same way be considerate as you live with your wives, and treat them with respect as the weaker partner and as heirs with you of the gracious gift of life, so that nothing will hinder your prayers….1 Peter 3:7 NIV

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Father Of The Bride Rehearsal Dinner Speech Toast: This Father of The Bride Speech Sample Can Help You Write The Best Ever Toast Without Trying So Hard

 

Looking for great ideas to help you write the best ever father of the bride speech wedding rehearsal dinner speech toast?

 

By the end of this post, you will be armed with all the tips and ideas, and examples you need to write the best ever father of the bride rehearsal dinner speech toast.

 

 

Most men, on their wedding day, will look at their future wives walking down the aisle towards them and think that they can’t possibly love another woman more. But all of that changes overnight when they become a father, and particularly, a father to a beautiful baby girl.

 

Almost every man has conclusively agreed that they’ve felt a fierce, unparalleled love like none other when they’ve held their daughter in their arms for the very first time - it unlocks a new side of them, and almost instantly, that tiny bundle of blankets becomes their entire universe.

 

The bond between a father and his daughter is one of the world’s strongest yet sweetest relationships. He is her first-ever superhero, she is his princess, he could be incredibly brusque, burly, and brutally harsh on others but will be the complete opposite around her.

 

She is the only one who gets to dress him up and as the years go by, he’s the one that protects her from everything - school bullies, mom’s wrath, boys who could potentially break her heart, crashing into objects on her first car ride, etc.

 

A father is one of a girl’s first-ever positive influences in her life. But he seldom is the only one. There comes a time when every daughter grows up and chooses to fly the nest - this is when she decides on a partner for life.

 

For most dads, this is, arguably, the most bittersweet part about watching their daughters grow up - they’re thrilled to know that their little girl has found the love of her life, but will always be wistful over the fact that there is now another man or woman to contend with for her affections.

 

If you’re reading this and have a wistful expression on your face, chin up dad! Your daughter may soon be getting married to a wonderful man or woman, but always remember that you were the first man in her life (and nothing can or will change that).

 

So, the best way to honor your relationship with your daughter and cherish the memories you’ve had with her so far is by making a fitting speech at the wedding rehearsal dinner or reception. Read on to know how you can give your little girl the best gift on her most important day!

 

 

Before we get started on your speech, I want us to get this one thing right that can compromise your performance no matter how good your speech is.

 

Do you have any idea what I am talking about? It is nervousness before, during, and after making your father of the bride wedding rehearsal dinner speech.

 

 

If you are not even nervous now, there is a greater chance that you will feel nervous as you watch wedding speaker after speaker on the night. If they put on a splendid job, there will be undue pressure on you to live up to expectations, particularly if you are a very gifted speaker.

 

Before you even say something about your daughter and son-in-law on the eve of the wedding day, you first have to heal yourself from the inside out before arming yourself with the tools you need to succeed.

 

 

So, how do you heal yourself from within? Good, you have asked this excellent question.   If you are frozen with fear, then there’s a high probability that you didn’t impress your audience when you were asked to deliver a speech some time ago.

 

But you don’t have to worry about that because we all get nervous before we speak. But the trick is how to work it to your advantage.

 

Even if you are a horrible public speaker, you can turn the tides around by believing that you can make it and hold that thought in your mind until your performance comes to an end.

 

You see, as you do that, memories of past incidents where you failed to glitter will come back to haunt and taunt you. But you still have to focus on what you have to say and you will be empowered from within to speak confidently even if you feel a tinge of nervousness every now and then.

 

 

That said, let us see...

How To Get The Right Ideas For Your Father of The Bride Wedding Rehearsal Dinner Speech

 

Saying something sweet about your daughter is a lot like dating, if not more. Do you remember what you went through before you proposed to her mom or your wife? Nostalgic memories I guess.

 

You don’t have to put down your thoughts without first considering how it is actually done.

 

Good videos are the best way of getting your foot in the door. So, this is what I suggest you do right now. Go over to youtube.com or your favorite video sharing platform and watch a couple of videos to get a fair idea of what to expect.

 

Well, I don’t want you to spend so much time doing that. So, I found these two video examples for your watching and learning pleasure and I do hope it gives you a sense of inspiration and guidance.

 

Action Tip: Go grab your journal and pen and create an outline for your speech based on what you will hear in both clips.

 

 

Father of The Bride Rehearsal Dinner Speech Toast Example #1

 

 

Father of The Bride Rehearsal Dinner Speech Toast Example #2

 

 

I hope you learned a thing or two from watching both presentations?

 

Now, if you like reading as I do, then let us look at a well-written father of the bride speech template and how you can use it to write a heartfelt rehearsal wedding dinner speech for your daughter and the groom.

 

Here you go: 

Short Father of The Bride Rehearsal Dinner Toast

 

Hello, good evening, and welcome everyone!

For those of you who don’t know me, my name is Frank and I’m Rachel’s proud dad.

 

On behalf of my family, and the happy couple Brad & Rachel, it’s a pleasure to welcome the friends and relatives of both families - thank you all for coming out here to help celebrate this incredibly special day.

 

My daughter is getting married tomorrow, and I would be remiss if I didn’t thank certain people that were instrumental in transforming her into the kind-hearted, beautiful, and genuinely thoughtful person she is today.

 

My wife, Linda, for her endless love, support, and compassion through the years. She is a wonderful wife and a loving mother to Rach and Bryan.

 

Unfortunately, Linda’s parents are no longer with us but I am sure they are here in spirit - Patrick and Annie were doting grandparents to Rach and Bryan and took such wonderful care of them while Linda and I were at work. 

 

Last but not the least, a special thank you to Alexa and Mike, for raising a wonderful man like Brad. Thank you both for your love and support over the past few years, I’m ecstatic to welcome you into the family, officially.

 

             

Before I start, may I just say, Rachel, you look absolutely beautiful tonight.

 

When you made your grand entry and walked towards me, I was quite frankly speechless and overwhelmed by the emotions of the day - if anyone were to ask me what I’m feeling right now, I feel like I could almost fill up an entire notebook.

 

As I walked you down the aisle to give you away to Brad, fond memories came rushing back to me, and I would like to share some of them with you and everyone present here today.

 

Right from the time we first brought Rachel home from the hospital, all bundled up like a precious gift, our hopes and dreams were to love and inspire her, above all keeping her safe from any form of harm. Today, you’ve exceeded even our fondest dreams, Rachel - you’ve grown into such a beautiful person with a true heart of gold.

 

From an early age, Rachel was a happy and thoughtful little girl, always concerned about the wellbeing of her loved ones - be it us, Bryan, or her friends. As much as she was sweet, she was also quite the stubborn little thing. I distinctly remember the time she kept pestering Linda and me for a new baby. Every day, without fail, she would either come to me or my wife and tell us, very very clearly, that she wanted a baby brother.

 

 

After a point, she gave up on us and started praying every night, hoping that God would be more responsive towards her dilemma. Eventually, her prayers were answered when Bryan came along, 2 years later.

 

 

Growing up, Rachel was fun to be with, but like most kids, she sometimes drove us crazy.  When she was about 5 years old, she disappeared from home and as you can imagine, her disappearance shot our blood pressure through the roof.

 

 

We ended up calling the police and they combed the neighborhood doing a fruitless search for her for over an hour. When it felt like all hopes were gone, I started shouting frantically.

 

Finally, she heard me calling out for her and she responded by saying that she was in her dollhouse. Believe it or not, when I entered, she was fast asleep like a log!

 

Rachel, we are so proud of you and of how far you’ve come down the road of life.

 

When Rachel first told us about Brad, the excitement in her voice was apparent - we knew she’d found her love, her rock, her balance, and her inspiration in him.

 

 As for us, we were ecstatic to know that our little girl had found a wonderful man that loved her as much as us. Brad, time and again, you have shown that you really love Rachel with all your heart, and as parents, there’s nothing more we could ask for.

 

You’ve helped enriched her appreciation of life’s good things, and I am eternally grateful to you for that.

 

For those of you who don’t know, Brad was posted in the Army after graduating dental school and was stationed in New York for 4 years - Rach and he were in a long-distance relationship, but that only grew their love.

 

They both rose to the challenge by committing to the relationship, visited each other whenever they could, and most importantly, showed each other what mattered the most - each other.

 

To me, that was and is a testament to their commitment and love towards the other, and Brad, I could not be happier to welcome you into the family finally.

 

 

Rachel and Brad, your love for each other is as refreshing as morning dew. You are a wonderful couple with similar hopes, dreams, aspirations, and goals.

 

We wish that your love for each other always gives you the courage and strength to be always there for each other.

 

 So, as you embark on this journey of love, always love, respect, support, and put each other first in whatever you do.

So, to Rach and Brad, may you two enjoy a loving, wonderful marriage for many years to come. I wish you all the happiness in the world.

 

 

So without further ado, grab a notepad and start making a note of what you would like to include in your speech.

 

First, let us see…

How To Write The Opening Remarks Of Your Toast

First, a snippet of our introductory remarks to get our creative juice flowing.

 

''Hello, good evening, and welcome everyone!

For those of you who don’t know me, my name is Frank and I’m Rachel’s proud dad.  On behalf of my family, and the happy couple Brad and Rachel, it’s a pleasure to welcome…''

 

This is the most important part of your speech because it sets the tone for the rest of your story and it is also a great opportunity to break the ice.

 

Granted writing one that grabs the attention of the audience from the very beginning is not a very easy task because most fathers are so accustomed to how wedding speeches are delivered. Hence, they don’t see the need to inject a breath of fresh air into what they say.

 

 

As you can see from that excerpt above, many ‘father of the bride’ speeches simply thank the guests for attending as well as pay homage to the special people who were instrumental in getting things ready for the big day.

 

That is a great way of bonding with the audience because you will be breaching wedding speech etiquette if you don’t tell everyone who you are.

 

 

Even if it is a small wedding, you still have to reintroduce yourself because it is very likely that not everyone will know who you are. Don’t take this too lightly.

 

If you are doing a joint parent of the bride's speech for your daughter and new son-in-law, then you can take turns introducing each other.

 

An example of what to say:

Father of the bride: I am Dan and this is my lovely wife.

Mother of the bride: I am Regina and Dan is my precious husband.

 

If you are the stepfather of the bride, there really is no need to mention that unless it’s very obvious to your family, her friends, and your in-laws that you are not her real dad. In that case, you make it known to them and you will be surprised at how complimentary everyone will be for raising the bride so well.

 

That basically is the structure of the opening lines of your father of the bride wedding toast.  

 

Action Tip: Do a little brainstorming and come up with the list of individuals who have been a blessing in your daughter’s life and be emphatic with or about why you are thanking them.

 

If you have covered that ground, let’s dive right in by looking at what to include in your introduction.

 

• If you are a known prankster or joke-cracker by nature, you can always open with a clever pun or zoom right in by making a funny father of the bride rehearsal speech.

 

• Another way of getting content for the opening remarks is to share how you felt when your daughter was born if you are thinking of making an emotional or sentimental toast. I culled it from our guiding example to show you how to do it.

 

‘'Right from the time we first brought Rachel home from the hospital, all bundled up like a precious gift, our hopes, and dreams''

 

Did you notice how touching those words are?

 

• Another key point is to start with quotes above love, marriage, and so on. Ok, here are a few good materials you can use.

 

''When you’re young, you think your dad is Superman. Then you grow up, and you realize he’s just a regular guy who wears a cape.''– Unknown

 

''You fathers will understand. You have a little girl. She looks up to you. You’re her oracle. You’re her hero. And then the day comes when she gets her first permanent wave and goes to her first real party, and from that day on, you’re in a constant state of panic.'' – Stanley T. Banks

 

 

''A daughter is a treasure and a cause of sleeplessness.'' – Ben Sirach

 

 

 

Now, Let’s See How To Write The Structure or Body of Your Father of The Bride Rehearsal Speech For Your Daughter and Son-in-Law

 

By the way, let us look at excerpts of it to guide us along the way.

''From an early age, Rachel was a happy and thoughtful little girl, always concerned about the wellbeing of …Every day, without fail, she would either come to me or my wife and tell us, very very clearly, that she wanted a baby brother.

Growing up, Rachel was fun to be with, but like most kids, she sometimes drove us crazy.  When she was about 5 years old, she disappeared…''

 

As you can see above, this part of the speech is all about reliving memories of all the years you have spent with your daughter. But you need not share everything you can remember though.

 

 

You need to showcase a few stories you think would leave a favorable impression on the guests. If you want to make it fairly easy to write, you can script your piece from her early childhood through her late adulthood. That’s always proven to work. So, if you decide to follow that, then you can model your speech after this style.

 

Early childhood---memories of those years

Late childhood- fond memories of those times

Growing up years---the travel and adventure stories of those years

Her teenage years----don’t mention if the years were rough…dwell on her amazing traits instead

 

The trick here is to do a little brainstorming and jot down several stories about each aspect of the developmental stages outlined above and figure out which stories resonate best with you. Or you can provide answers to the following questions

 

• How did you feel when you found out that you were having a baby girl?

 

• Recollect your feelings on the day you brought her home from the hospital.

 

• List three main positive attributes about your daughter and support them with incidents where she has demonstrated those traits (could be from any phase of her life).

 

• Do you remember any funny incidents that she was the mastermind of?

 

• How was your daughter as a sibling (in case you have other children)?

 

• How was she as a middle-schooler, high-schooler and college graduate?

 

• What are the ways in which she has made you proud?

 

• What do you feel about her as an accomplished professional? You can state some of her achievements and laurels (we love nothing more than a proud dad)!

 

If you are the only member of the family delivering a speech that day, rest assured that you have a ton of content to comb through! As a father, you’ve been privy to almost all the pivotal instances of your daughter’s journey, and now it is your time to celebrate the beautiful woman sitting in front of you.

 

Also, if you feel that there are too many incidents swimming in your mind at the moment, a good tip will be to jot down everything and eliminate the events you don’t want to talk about when you’re finally constructing your speech.

 

Keep in mind that your audience will love to hear stories from her childhood, so take advantage of that.

 

However, you should know where to draw the line - don’t pick an incident that could potentially offend any member of the wedding party in any way. Steer clear of controversy and stick to the safe side by picking incidents that are either sentimental or embarrassing (but again, not too much).

 

Once you have a grip on that, turn the toast or your attention towards your new in-law.

 

Even though a big chunk of your speech will go towards celebrating your daughter, you will also have to acknowledge the ‘new child’ in your life now - your son or daughter in law.

 

The best way to express your emotions and feelings is by directly addressing him or her - depending on the nature of your relationship with your daughter’s significant other. 

 

For example, if your daughter has been dating this person for a long time and your rapport levels are high, you will know enough about her significant other to talk to them like you would talk to your little girl.

 

In case you aren’t that familiar with them, keep it simple - congratulate them on their special day, thank them for making your daughter happy beyond measure, and as a sweet gesture, you can also add in what you love about them (any personality traits, any gestures they’ve done for your daughter or you, instances of their thoughtfulness, etc).

 

You can also use the father of the bride speech toast as a way to reminisce about how you met them for the first time, and what your first impressions were. It’s a great way to induct your newest family member into your clan, so make them feel equally special and welcome.

 

Once, you are done jotting down memories about your daughter and your soon-to-be son-in-law, you can then write a rough draft of your rehearsal dinner speech for the lovely couple.

 

I know for sure the question on most father’s minds is how long their wedding speeches should be? 

Contrary to what you have read online, it needs not to be neither short nor long. Don’t just go with the flow. Rather, you have to do what you are comfortable with and not what is in vogue.

 

I personally wish your rehearsal dinner toast could make your daughter proud by giving a short and sweet speech.

But from working with tongue-tied fathers, I see nothing wrong with a lengthy speech as long as it’s like honey to the taste buds. I have written speeches that sometimes lasted 10 minutes and even though those individuals were worried prior to their remarks, they happily came back to say many people thought their speeches were the best of the night. Just imagine that!

 

Let me ask you this simple question: can you sustain the attention of the audience for a long time? If so, don’t stick to the widely held opinion.

 

Now, let’s look at how to wrap up.

First, you should give some practical advice.

Since you’re older, wiser, and married (or have been, at some point in time), it makes sense for you to give the newlyweds some nuggets of marriage advice.

 

However, do this step only if you are comfortable speaking on this, but do not force it if you are the type of dad that believes in his children learning on their own trajectories.

This part is a great way for most dads to inject humor into a speech that has mostly been sentimental so far - it’s a great time to crack your own puns and use inside jokes, but do try to stay away from overused quips or sexist phrases. Or discussions about the mounting divorce rate across the world (it definitely lends a sour taste to the evening’s events).

 

Second, end with a toast.  Most speeches take the usual route of ending with a touching toast - if you’re unsure as to how to end your father of the bride's speech, this is the best way to proceed.

 

Convey your congratulations to the lucky couple, raise your glass, and wish them a glorious life ahead. Remind your daughter that you could not be happier for her - for her new life, her partner, and the infinite journey of joy stretching out in front of them.

 

However, if you would like, you can also end the speech on a different note - suppose you write poetry as a hobby, you can even recite one of your poems for them.

 

Fourth, some religious parents also end their toast with a profound verse from the Bible or any other religious text, so that option is there as well. Here are some verses you might want to use.

 

Proverbs 19:14
Houses and riches are an inheritance from fathers, But a prudent wife is from the LORD.

Proverbs 12:4 – “An excellent wife is the crown of her husband, but she who shames him is as rottenness in his bones.”

James 1:17---¹⁷ Every good gift and every perfect gift is from above, and cometh down from the Father of lights, with whom is no variableness, neither shadow of turning.

 

Last but not the least, if music runs in your veins and your daughter’s, whip out your guitar and sing your heart out to your daughter. That’s going to be a memorable ending to an equally memorable speech, and one that will definitely melt your little girl’s heart.

So there you have it, dads! Finish off by welcoming your new son-in-law, take a sip of your drink and wrap your daughter in a giant bear hug, because the odds are definitely that she might be stifling back sobs at your sweet speech.

P.S: Most dads of the bride use this....Have you considered it? Want to write and give a great wedding speech but can't seem to get started because you don't know the exact words to use?

Or not too sure if what you intend writing will be well received by the guests?

Let's help you make your daughter, wife, and family proud, and let the wedding guests say great things about your speech.

Here’s what one nervous and skeptical dad called Glen sent over after the wedding was over

Hey Dan, I just wanted to thank you once again for the speech you wrote with me. My goal was met afterward, I was told by many "what a beautiful speech" and received a standing ovation. I couldn't have done this without you. God Bless Dan!- Glen, U.S.A

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Also, envision being patiently guided to say something that will leave a favorable impression on the mind of your listeners.

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Yet, some daughters are still getting married and asking their fathers to give speeches.

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Just a reminder of what you pay after it’s duly completed. You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.

Why? As you know, the current health and economic crisis has caused severe hardships for most people.

Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.

Yet, some daughters are still getting married and asking their fathers to give speeches.

Nonetheless, not every father could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.

So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.

Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.

So, please take advantage of it now even if your daughter’s big day is in the future.

Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video and your daughter and son-in-law and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.  

So, please take advantage of it now even if your daughter’s big day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.  

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The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice).  Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.

All the best,

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Father Of The Bride Speech Examples: Just Read This Father of the Bride Speech Wedding Example To Help You Deliver The Best Ever Speech For Your Daughter

Have you ever wondered why some fathers give a memorable father of the bride wedding speeches while several others fail to miss the mark?

 

In this post, I am going to show you everything you need to know to help you write the best father of the bride speech for your daughter at the wedding reception.

 

 

But first, this is the background story.

 

When Mark met Joanne, they clicked right off the bat and we got married after dating for 2 years.

 

But she died just 1 year after we had tied the knot. Joanne died in a plane crash when she and her coworkers were flying back home from a business trip to Puerto Rico.

 

Their faulty plane burst into flame and fell into the ocean and that left her surviving spouse very devastated.

Three years later, Mark met Christina whom she later got married to.

They shared a lot of things in common and we were best friends. But they didn’t have children despite being married for almost 5 years!

 

Several tests confirmed that they had no problem with her fertility and that left them wondering what was really going on.

They were the only couple in their families without children. But they still prayed and hoped for a miracle someday!

 

One Day Something Happened!

On a cold afternoon in July, Christina returned home from work feeling unwell. So, they went to see the doctor the following day.

A month later, medical examinations revealed she was pregnant for 3 months! Having been pregnant for almost 12 months, she delivered a bouncing baby girl. Days flew by and she began to grow so beautifully into a creative, intelligent, and athletic little girl.

 

When she reached her teens, she loved to horse race and even joined the polo club where she won a lot of medals for being the best horse rider in her community and went on to represent her state in a national tournament.

 

After she had graduated from college, she was invited to a major tournament in The United Kingdom and she had to train every morning. It was at this same time that she and Kerry were planning to get married.

 

It was just left with a few months to her wedding when she fell off her horse while she was competing at the London event.

She, however, got back on her feet after minor surgery and still won the competition and made her parents so proud!

 

Wedding Plans Put On Hold

Two weeks after that tournament, she started using a walking stick. Apparently, the fall had kind of paralyzed her left leg and she had to go undergo surgery. Well, it was successful and she got her energy and vitality back after a year!

 

A New Beginning!

Her wedding preparations got underway after her total recovery and she asked her father, Mark, to give a father of the bride speech!

 

Mark read a lot online but just didn’t know how to put down my exact thoughts and emotions and he wanted to make the speech very unique by sharing what they went through as a family.   

 

Luckily, someone came to his rescue but he was still nervous and when called up to speak the room was dead silent.  

After breathing out loudly, he began to speak and these were his words….

 

Please read the father of the bride speech example below carefully as we will look at it in more detail.

 

Thank you and welcome everyone. For those of you that don’t know me, I am Mark and am the proud father of the bride.

 

 ''Once upon a time, on a snowy morning, a charming young princess made an entry into this world.

Filled with pride and joy, his dad was determined to love her and give him everything he would ever need so that she would become a great person someday.

 

She loved to play with cats, dogs, and other animals. She even made a pond in her family garage for a lonely snapping turtle she and her brothers found when they were out there on their bikes.

 

She was generous to a fault and he’d sometimes give out all he had to those who were in need even if that meant stripping herself of her personal comfort and pleasure.

 

When she was just 10, he made $150 caddying golf. But she gave it all away to a neighbor.

 

Just like any other heroine, she too was determined to leave her footprints behind and that could only be accomplished through sports seeing she was a big polo fan who helped win trophies for her town.

 

Winning trophy after trophy swelled our hearts with pride and joy. But, one day something happened to her when competed in a horse riding competition in the U. K.

 

She fell off her horse.

 

We thought she was going to finish last in that race but we jumped right back on her horse and won the race. 

When we returned home, She said to me…'' Dad, I have had enough of that. So, she quit horse riding.''

 

Instead, she traveled to Ukraine where she helped build an orphanage and raise funds to put teenage children back to school.''

 

As he said those words, people cast surprising glances at one another and that made everyone look sad. Then he continued

 

''Like every great heroine, Sarah suffered some setbacks and adversities at some point in his life.

 

But, she always pressed on because she was and still of the view that there’s always going to be light at the end of every dark tunnel.

 

Sarah, I think of a great heroine as someone who understands the degree of responsibility that comes with his freedom of choice.

Choosing to get married is certainly not an easy decision but one fraught with a keen sense of responsibility and accountability.

 

But, you don’t have anything to fear because you have God and Kerry by your side to help you in your quest to becoming that great wife and mom we’re all hoping for.

 

Kerry, you are a great guy and I’d like to welcome you to our motley crew. I'd like to thank your parents(Ben and Lisa)for their kindness and support.

 

Sarah & Kerry,  a lot of people think that the greatest heroes of our time are those folks who have accomplished many great things.

 

That might be true to an extent but I think real heroes are those who spent much of their time loving each other till the end of time.

 

A heart filled with unconditional love will help you forgive each other when you step on each other's toes.

 

A heart filled with unconditional love would make your family strong and it will open your eyes to marriage’s true purpose.

 

Don’t expect everything to be perfect though because the course of true love never ever runs smooth. Never ever forget that. God bless you both.

 

 

When Mark was done speaking, the guests leaped onto their feet and gave him a warm round of applause for five minutes amid chanting and screaming out loud. 

They just couldn’t believe how he did that.

Let me ask you once again: Can you really craft a short beautiful father of the bride's speech as he did with the help of that template? Yes, you can.

 

How? Please stay with me as I am going to share with you what went into writing this short and sweet sample and how you can effortlessly put down your random thoughts into a speech that will make your daughter and son-in-law so proud of you.

 

Why You Might Fail-And What To Do Instead

 

Before we do, I want you to get this right since it’s the bedrock of your success.

What plagues most dads when they write to me is how to put up splendid performances without embarrassing their daughters.

 

Well, I totally understand their concerns and fears and I always do my best to help others.  I can only attribute their fear of failure to 

• Fear of the unknown
• Fear of past failures coming back to haunt them

 

You might a little nervous because of those reasons and more. It gets particularly daunting if you’re someone who hate speaking before a crowd or you know deep down in your heart that your performance at your child's wedding sometime back wasn’t so impressive.

 

Can you please forget about all that and let your sense of optimism shine through this time. I believe you’re destined for success so just ignore that little nagging voice that seems to spook you.

 

Having said that, let’s look at...

 

The Proven Tool That Helped Mark Come Up With That I Use All the Time and I Recommend You Use It Too

Father of the bride speech samples has proven over and over again to be the antidote to all your speech worries.

They help get rid of the guesswork and the worries that come with saying something touching about your daughter. However, if you don’t use it well, it can be a real drawback.

There are many of those examples online. But I found out that great videos like those below are beneficial if you need some dose of inspiration.

I sometimes watch them before scribbling a few ideas, so this is what I recommend you do before writing...so 

1. please go get your pen and a writing pad
2. Next press the play button of the video below and jot down ideas, words, and phrases you feel you can use for your own script.

Father Of The Bride Speech Example Video # 1

 

Father Of The Bride Speech Sample Video # 2

 

Ok, let’s now go back and look at the structure of Mark’s speech as that can be very useful in producing a sweet and meaningful speech for your daughter.

The structure of that speech comprises the introduction, body, and conclusion.

 

Now, let’s re-cap portions of that introduction

 

Thank you and welcome everyone. For those of you that don’t know me, I am Mark and am the proud father of the bride.

 

• The introduction should re-iterate who you are and your relationship to the bridal couple as you’ve seen above.

 

• It is also a fine opportunity to flatter the audience and to thank them for attending the wedding celebration.

 

• You can also use it to thank people who have played a crucial role in your daughter’s upbringing. People like her mom or your wife, grandfather, and grandmother, uncles, and aunts as well as the parents of the groom.

 

Closely connected to the opening remarks is an attention grabber that will make the audience want to listen to you since most fathers of the bride speeches are as boring as jokes gone bad.

 

Let’s see how Mark began his by re-looking at it.

 

''Once upon a time, on a snowy morning, a charming young princess made an entry into this world.

Filled with pride and joy, his dad was determined to love her and give him everything he would ever need so that she would become a great person someday.''

 

After introducing yourself and greeting the audience, you have to engage the attention of the audience right from the start.

 

Your speech should be unique and there are so many creative ways of coming up with an introduction that will make their ears perk up and hang on to every word you say.

 

Did you see that? First, you can share how you felt when your daughter was born as we saw in that extract.

 

Second, you can begin with any of these profound quotes.

• ''There are two important events in every woman’s life…when she’s born and when she gets married.''

 

• ''The happiest moment of my life was probably when my daughter was born.''—David Duchovny

 

• ''A good father will leave his imprint on his daughter for the rest of her life.'' –  James Dobson

 

Let me use quote # 1 ''There are two important events in every woman’s life…when she’s born and when she gets married.'' to write something brief so you can get an idea of how things work.

 

There are two very significant days in every person’s life and that person is born and eventually gets married to the love of their lives.

23 years ago, I was the proudest father when my only daughter came into our lives and now she’s grown into an adorable daughter and ready to embark on the next chapter of her life.

 

Now, let me ask you this: Don’t you think starting with that quote will make you sound smarter?

 

Moreover, you can start with any of these jokes or punch lines if you want to really come up with something hilarious.

 

• ''Being a good husband is like being a stand-up comic. You need ten years before you can call yourself a beginner.'' —Jerry Seinfeld

 

• ''Before you marry a person you should first make them use a computer with slow Internet to see who they are.''– Will Ferrell

 

• ''Don’t marry for money; you can borrow it cheaper'' – Scottish Proverb

 

Now, let’s see how to write the outline of your wedding speech. As we always do, let’s recap parts of the body before we get started.

 

 

She loved to play with cats, dogs, and other animals. She even made a pond in her family garage for a lonely snapping turtle she and her brothers found when they were out there on their bikes.

She was generous to a fault and he’d sometimes give out all he had to those who were in need even if that meant stripping herself of her personal comfort and pleasure…

 

The body is the part that hooks the audience and paints a picture in their mind’s eye when she was growing up.

Here’s what to include in this part and what not to include based on the example we are looking at.

 

• What your daughter was like when she was a little girl
• What memorable event can you use to spiff up your speech?
• Any funny memories you really want to share?
• How did you feel when she told you about your son-in-law?
• Welcome your son-in-law formally into your family and thank his parents

 

Here are some important facts you should know when writing the body of your speech.

 

• Don’t talk about her ex-relationships and if this is her second marriage, please don’t talk about it…. Why? That might embarrass her since your in-laws and others might not know what or even who caused the separation

 

• Don’t cast your son-in-law in a bad light if you think your daughter didn’t make a great choice.

 

• In effect, don’t talk about anything that will offend her…It is her big day and it’s best to stick to the good stories.

 

Now, grab a pen and give it (that example) a second or even a third look, and identify how it was written and also put down any idea that comes to you. A final observation will not be a bad idea at all.

Afterward, get a theme for your own speech.

The theme is basically what your delivery will be all about.

 

I have written speeches on themes like achievement, love, and compassion for others.

 

While most dads don’t mind asking me to add feats chalked by their daughters (scholarly or sports), they always ask me to share their beautiful qualities like:

 

• Love and compassion
• Perseverance and persistence
• Fun and hilarity
• Making a difference in the life of others
• Being there for the family at all times

 

So, cast your mind back to what the years have been like and write down what really makes your daughter a unique person. 

 

How To Put Your Thoughts Together To Form A Beautiful Speech

 

Having listed as many points as you can plus some stories about your daughter, you can start writing.

Just write whatever is on your mind without worrying about the flow because you can always go back to re-frame your thoughts or even clean up your draft later.

 

Deciding to make your speech long or short depends on your storyline outline but make sure it’s interesting and that your speech doesn’t go beyond the allotted time unless it's very fun and entertaining.

 

A Few Key Points (Below) To Note As You Put Your Words Together

As you work on your speech, you have to write in your own voice or style without borrowing from the example you have got. Again, your choice of words should be a reflection of your personal demeanor and not based on sentimentalism or on the opinion of others.

No matter how eloquent you are or your intellectual capabilities, you shouldn’t use big words in such endeavors as they break the rhythm, flow, and understanding of yourfather of the bride speech.

 

Use simple easy to understand phrases and words and your audience will enjoy every bit of it.

 

Just Follow This Plan And You Will Finish Strong

 

Let’s go on to how to end memorable since your closing remarks will be implanted in the minds of your listeners for some time to come.

 

Once again, here are excerpts of it to guide us every step of the way.

 

Sarah & Kerry, a lot of people think that the greatest heroes of our time are those folks who have accomplished many great things.

That might be true to an extent but I think real heroes are those who spent much of their time loving each other till the end of time…

 

 

Hope that gives you an idea! Again, I want to make things fairly easy for you so I am happy to share with you some proven ideas for wrapping up very quickly and memorably.  

 

First, touching poems like the one below can go a long way towards enriching your speech. But, you have got to use it creatively. Let's illustrate with Johnson's ''Beauty that is never old'' 

 

BEAUTY THAT IS NEVER OLD” BY JAMES WELDON JOHNSON

When buffeted and beaten by life’s storms,
When by the bitter cares of life oppressed,
I want no surer haven than your arms,
I want no sweeter heaven than your breast.

When over my life’s way there falls the blight
Of sunless days, and nights of starless skies;
Enough for me, the calm and steadfast light
That softly shines within your loving eyes.

The world, for me, and all the world can hold
Is circled by your arms; for me there lies,
Within the lights and shadows of your eyes,
The only beauty that is never old.

From that, we can get these nuggets of wisdom or advice…

When buffeted and beaten by the storms of married life oppressed, always remember your vows and continue to love each other and you will grow strong in love and create memories that will always fill your hearts with joy.

Are you a Christian or a very religious person? If so, you can finish strong with a verse from the bible you really love.

This well-known verse always comes to mind.

1 Corinthians 13 1

Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy; it does not boast; it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.

Here’s an example based on that scripture

As you may know, every relationship, particularly the marriage journey has its ups and downs.  That’s why scripture reminds us that true love is kind, patient, not self-seeking, and it always protects, always trusts, hopes, and perseveres. So, in your walk together, always love each other by being patient, forgiving…

Did you notice how I wrote those lines from that bible quotation?

 

 

Again, you can simply share your experience in marriage if it’s a very good one.

P.S: Most dads of the bride use this...Have you considered it? Want to write and give a great wedding speech but can't seem to get started because you don't know the exact words to use?

Or not too sure if what you intend writing will be well received by the guests?

Let's help you make your daughter, wife, and family proud, and let the wedding guests say great things about your speech.

Here’s what one nervous and skeptical dad called Glen sent over after the wedding was over

Hey Dan, I just wanted to thank you once again for the speech you wrote with me. My goal was met afterward, I was told by many "what a beautiful speech" and received a standing ovation. I couldn't have done this without you. God Bless Dan!- Glen, U.S.A

Want to know how he did just that? We helped him with his speech.

Want to get on board? You should by first filling out this short and simple form.

This is letter a dad sent us after we helped him deliver his speech(Please click on it to enlarge if you can't see it)

Ok, Is This Offer For Me?

• Yes, if you are expecting nothing less than a very special, beautiful, unique and memorable speech.

• Yes, if you are overwhelmed by the pressures of work and don’t have the time to put together a very meaningful speech, so you can have your peace of mind

• Yes, if you want your family, children, friends and wedding guests to shower you with very sincere compliments…just imagine how you will feel

• Yes, if you are not good with words and you feel you’re not a natural writer and you are struggling to find the right words but still want to give a great speech.

• Yes, you get so scared anytime you’re asked to say something before an audience and you really want to save yourself from any form of embarrassment on your daughter’s big day.

• Yes, if you are not too eloquent or not too sure if you are on the right track.

• Yes, if you absolutely hate speaking in public or feel this is not your thing but you want to make your daughter feel very proud

• Yes, if you have a day or less to the wedding and you are worried that you might make some horrible mistakes

• Yes, if you are a good speaker but you still want someone to look over or review what you've come up with!

Wedding not too far away? Or happening in less than 24 hours? Trust me, we can deliver! it doesn’t matter if your speech is today, tomorrow, next week, next month ,next year,... we can make things work for you 

Just imagine leaving your entire presentation in the hands of skilled wedding speech consultants who will take away your pain of spending hours thinking hard and long about what to say and what not to say.

This is another letter a dad sent to us when the wedding was over. (Please click on it to enlarge if you can't see it) 

Also, envision being patiently guided to say something that will leave a favorable impression on the mind of your listeners.

And also imagine the thrill and feeling of excitement and pride you’re going to experience when the audience leap onto their feet and scream and shouts and even sing your praises.

Won’t you love that? I hope you do...

Ok, I am Interested, What’s the Cost?

You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.

Why? As you know, the current health and economic crisis has caused severe hardships for most people.

Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.

Yet, some daughters are still getting married and asking their fathers to give speeches.

Nonetheless, not every father could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.

So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.

Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.

So, please take advantage of it now even if your daughter’s big day is in the future.

Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video and your daughter and son-in-law and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.  

So, please take advantage of it now even if your daughter’s big day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.   

Oh Ok, How Then Do I Get Started Since I Want To Get On Board Right Away?

Ok, here’s how it works

All you have to do RIGHT NOW is to click on this link to receive an easy-to-fill-in questionnaire via email. Check your email a few hours after you’ve submitted your request for your questionnaire.

So,

1)CLICK HERE  NOW TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT THIS QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind!

2. After that, we will send you a very short questionnaire to fill out via email! You only have to check your email a few hours after you have made your request

3. Then, you fill out the questionnaire sent through your email, and please have it sent back to us…

4. We will confirm receipt of it…If something is not too clear, we will ask you to clarify….

5. If not, we will send you a wonderful draft in a couple of hours if this on very short notice….If not, after a few days

6. Then, you look it over and tell us if you are okay with it or you want to amend or revise it till you are happy with it--although we always get it right even with the first draft.
7. Then, we ask you to pay for it.

Please note: The information collected through the questionnaire is only for the purpose of writing your speech. I wouldn’t even need it if I could read your mind. So, your information is very confidential and no one will know about it.

Just a reminder of what you pay after it’s duly completed. You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.

Why? As you know, the current health and economic crisis has caused severe hardships for most people.

Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.

Yet, some daughters are still getting married and asking their fathers to give speeches.

Nonetheless, not every father could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.

So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.

Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.

So, please take advantage of it now even if your daughter’s big day is in the future.

Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video and your daughter and son-in-law and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.  

So, please take advantage of it now even if your daughter’s big day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.  

Please note: Your speech draft comes with a proven and simple tip to master your speech or remember your speech just as you want it without carrying a paper with you.

Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise and clarity!

''Hi Dan,

The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice).  Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.

All the best,

Matt''

Please note: Don’t fill out this form if you’re a dishonest individual. This offer is for a limited time.

So, CLICK HERE TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT A QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind and not lose money. The risk is on us!

You don't have to worry about paying our per speech for now.

Forget about money and let’s write something for you. We believe in the values of honesty and integrity and we think you should be happy with our work first.

So, Here Are The Benefits You Get When You Get On Board!

• A great speech written by our wedding speech consultants that reflects what you want to say exactly

• We coach you on how to use your voice to make your speech very exciting.

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• The most effective way to get your entire speech into your head without memorizing your speech. Guaranteed to help you even if you have a very poor memory or your memory is like a gold fish…most of our clients still wonder where we got this idea from. This ensures that you don't read off a sheet of paper...

Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise and clarity!

''Hi Dan,

The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice).  Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.

All the best,

Matt''

• Ways to include humor in your speech and what it takes to do so

So, CLICK HERE TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT A QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind and not lose money. The risk is on us!

Remember, you have to see your speech first before you pay. So, you can relax and let us sweat it out at our expense!

''The wedding was GREAT. There were about 120 guests. About 15 people came up to me afterward and told me I gave a great speech. I had to tweak it little because of my tardiness getting it to you but, it all turned out great. Thanks for all your help. I really appreciate it''- Phil Australia 

 

Short Father of The Bride Speech: A Very Simple Guide To Writing And Delivering A Short Father Of The Bride Wedding Toast Even If Your Writing Sucks

 

Every father of the bride should aspire to make a short and sweet gather of the bride speech. That is a parental duty no man should take lightly as nothing comes close to the joy of giving a heartfelt wedding speech for your daughter and son-in-law.

 

But, that’s not the situation in many cases. Most fathers are terrible speakers and don’t live up to expectation when they have to deliver some remarks about their daughters. 

Have you ever wondered how some fathers of brides give short and sweet father of the bride wedding speeches while several others miss the mark?

 

 

You see, the overwhelming majority don’t really understand what it takes to come up with a unique and heartfelt speech about their daughters and sons-in-law.

 

 

The widely-held assumption is that to be successful at it, you have to be good with words or have a natural flair for speaking in public.

 

If you are blessed with both gifts, then you have to thank your lucky stars. However, if you lack both assets, you canput together something sweet about your daughter and son-in-law.

 

Most of us think that to be successful at this, you have to be a naturally good writer or even be pretty good at public speaking.

 

Both gifts are good to have but are not must-haves when you have to put together something sweet about your daughter and son-in-law.

 

This Can Help You Write Your Father Of The Bride Speech In No Time

 

Now, guess what? Putting your scattered thoughts on paper is a high-pressure task for anyone- no matter how witty and eloquent they are- but thankfully, there are tried and tested tips and advice and father of the bride speech templates you can model your script after no matter how you feel or where you find yourself right now.

 

Well, before we get into the heart of the matter, let us closely look at one of the major threats that stop most dads from performing so admirably and how you can turn things around for good.

 

You need not worry if you are still worried about what to say and what not to say because I am going to share with you everything you need to know about writing a truly amazing father of the bride speech.

 

This Is How To Calm Your Nerves Before You Deliver Your Speech

 

 

As you know, almost every speaker cringes with fear, guilt, and embarrassment whenever they are asked to speak because of past failures.

If you have ever failed to speak with poise, flair, and confidence at any event you were invited to, you will start to have butterflies in your tummy as you envisage how your speech will go.

 

 

Believe it or not, it’s perfectly normal for your mind to conjure up images of past failures and that can keep you grounded if you focus so much on what went wrong and what could have been done differently if you were given a second chance.

 

If you are well known for making those blunders, your family and friends will probably not expect much from you.

 

As soon as you grab the microphone, they will start this internal dialogue that you are not good enough. But you can silence your inner critics by first putting the past behind you and constantly holding a positive mental picture of speaking with confidence and gusto to the admiration of your family and friends.  

 

This simple but very effective mental exercise will ultimately boost your self-confidence, mood, and concentration and will also help you feel a bit more comfortable speaking before large crowds. 

 

That being said, the next question on your mind would be.

 

What Should The Father of The Bride Speech or Toast Include?

 

It's a great question, a question I think we've all been asking ourselves.

And my response is this: ''Don’t write your speech if you don’t know what goes into making a great speech and we will be looking at that shortly''

 

Let’s thoughtfully consider this for a moment. I am sure you wouldn’t travel to a foreign country without making an initial inquiry about what it feels like to be in that environment, right?

 

A lot of dads perform way below expectations because they get caught up in the trap of having to put down their ideas anyhow without really thinking about what to say and how to say it best.

 

To come up with a masterpiece, you first have to gather ideas to help you write and this can help you out even if you are tongue-tied.

 

Video-sharing platforms like youtube.com are great places to find content ideas for your father of the bride speech.

 

Now, let’s get into action and grab a piece of paper and pen and hop over to youtube.com and insert keywords like the father of the bride speech at the wedding reception, father of the bride speech for rehearsal dinner, etc. and results like these will pop up.

 

 

 

Next, watch several father of the bride speech videos and figure out ideas and tips you think can fit into your speech draft.  

 

By the way, here are two of the best fathers of the bride speech videos you can learn from if you are a visual type of person. Please enjoy, learn and prosper.

 

Father Of The Bride Speech Video Example # 1

 

 

Father Of The Bride Speech Example Video #  2

 

 

If you enjoy reading as much as I do, then, I have good news for you because I want to bring to your attention an indispensable resource for coming up with a brilliant father of the bride speech.

 

Do you have any idea what this proven resource is? You have five minutes to come up with the right answer.

 

Well, our time is up! Oh boy, I am sure you’re struggling with this. But can you guess what the correct answer is?

 

 

If you said, father of the bride speech templates/samples, then that’s it. Congratulations! Free father of the bride speeches is a must-have tool that can help you express your ideas convincingly.

 

As you are pretty much aware, there are so many of them online and almost every father is scouring for such examples. If all you do is to simply copy ideas from the different father of the bride speech examples you find, your message will not hit the right emotional chords.

  

Instead, you should model your speech after them in a way that captures your own voice and personal style without sounding like a copycat.

 

 

Now, I want you to get an idea of how to make the most of them. So, first and foremost, let’s study this short father of the bride speech example. Afterwards, we will analyze it bit by bit so you get a fair idea about how to use this writing goldmine. 

 

First, let’s look at this:

 

A Short And Sweet Father of The Bride Speech Example

 

Good evening and welcome everyone. I am Mike Golan and I am the happy father of the bride. Thanks so much for being here tonight and I want you to know that it means a lot to see the happy couple surrounded by family and friends on the occasion of their wedding.

 

Alexa, nothing can compare the joy I felt deep down in my heart when I walked you down the aisle to give you away. You made me feel so blessed for having you in my life.

 

You’ve always meant the world to me right from when you were born to this day.

 

I remember holding you like a priceless gift when you came into our lives and even though my work schedules kept me away most times, I promised myself that I would do my very best to help your mom raise you into the girl we’ve always been dreaming of.

 

From changing your diapers to coaching you in softball to our numerous family vacations, I have enjoyed every moment spent with you.

As I watched you grow into a very beautiful person, I worried about the kind of person you would get married to and if that guy will love and protect you like I always do.

Out of nowhere, David walked into your life and I knew immediately that he was the one we have been waiting for and that brought tears of joy in my heart for you both.

David is kind, humble, polite, and loving. Over the years, David and Alexa have been through a lot and have come out stronger for it and I am very confident that he will stand by our daughter through thick and thin. 

 

Pamela and I are excited to have him join our family and we look forward to the future with him and his wonderful parents.

 

David and Alexa, as you start a life together, always love each other and always work as a team and you will have a long, happy life together. Always remember in your walk together that the couple that works together stays together.

 

We wish you the very best in everything you do and God bless you.

 

 

Now, let’s dissect the above father of the bride speech sample so you can learn how to write yours like a father of the bride speech writer.

 

How To Write Your Father of The Bride Speech

  

Let’s start by re-capping the opening lines briefly.

 

''Good evening and welcome everyone. I am Mike Golan and I am the happy father of the bride.

 

Thanks so much for being here tonight and I want you to know that it means a lot to see the happy couple surrounded by family and friends on the occasion of their wedding.''

 

 

Oh, I almost forgot to say this and I hope it’s not too late to slip it in, right?

Ok…thank you.

 

After you have said thank you to the guests, you should thank some individuals who have played a key role in your daughter’s life.

 

People like:

• Your own wife or the bride’s mother

Here’s an example:

 

 

''Let me take a moment to thank my wife and Alexa’s mom Sherry for being a loving mom and a great role model. She looks so beautiful tonight and I would like to let her know that her tireless efforts have brought our daughter thus far. God bless you so much, Sherry.''

 

If her mom is deceased, you may mention that and pay her a glowing tribute.

 

• You can thank the groom’s parents too. Here's an example:''A special thanks go to David’s mom and dad, Mike and Diana, for their love and support throughout the years and for raising an absolutely wonderful young man''

 

Again, if you are the brother or sister of the bride and are standing in for the father of the bride because he’s deceased or not too well, you can mention your relationship with the bride and state that her dad would have been proud to see her glowing in her wedding dress.

 

You may thank other personalities like:

• Her grandma or granddad of the bride
• Her siblings
• Your neighbors
• The mom and dad of the groom for hosting the rehearsal dinner
• The guests for attending the wedding

 

 The opening remarks or lines of your speech follow the salutation and short-self presentation. It serves two purposes:

• It breaks the ice and makes wedding guests chuckling with delight if you start with a good joke or on a very funny note
• Starting with something engaging will make everyone want to listen to you

 

I write several father of the bride speeches every now and then and I tend to spend an enormous amount of time on the opening address because when I get it right, the rest of the story will flow effortlessly.

 

 

Nonetheless, coming up with a memorable opening is something most folks struggle with a lot and I am happy to share with you a few clever ways of doing that without breaking a sweat.

 

 

Are you ready to go? Ok...After greeting the audience, you can begin with one or more of these:

 

• You can begin with a good quote about marriage.
• You can start with how you felt when your daughter was born. Did you see that in the above example? If you’ve forgotten about it, then here it is: 

 

''I remember holding you like a priceless gift when you came into our lives and even though my work schedules kept me away most times...''

• You can simply start by sharing how you felt when you got married back in the day.

 

For example….Today Alexa is getting married to Diana and this beautiful occasion brings back memories of when I got married to my wife 30 years ago…

• You can lighten up the mood by starting with some funny lines or with a father of the bride speech joke.

 

For example, if you can use this joke creatively, you will get tons of compliments.

 

''A long time ago in Brussels, a Belgian went to his local priest and confessed ‘’ Forgive me, father, for I have sinned. During the Second World War, I hid a Jewish man in my attic.

That’s not a sin,’ said the priest. It was an act of great kindness. But I made him agree to pay 30 francs for every week he stayed.

I admit that wasn’t particularly charitable, said the priest. But you did it for a good cause.’’

‘’ Thank you, father, Father,’’ said the man. ‘’ That’s a great relief to me. I have just one more question.’’

‘’ What’s that? ‘’

‘’ Do I have to tell him the war is over?''

 

If you want to continue with that, you can continue by saying

Ladies and gentlemen, I have good news for you. After waiting for seems like forever for this occasion to happen, I am happy to announce that the waiting war is over…

 

Did you see how I inserted those underlined words into those opening remarks?

 

Having said that, let’s look at how to write the content of your toast.

Again, let’s look at excerpts of our example so we can know exactly which course of action to take.

 

''From changing your diapers to coaching you in softball to our numerous family vacations, I have enjoyed every moment spent with you.

As I watched you grow into a very beautiful person, I worried about the kind of person you would get married to and if that guy will love and protect you like I always do.

Out of nowhere, David walked into your life and I knew immediately that he was the one we have been waiting for and that brought tears of joy in my heart for you both. ''

 

 

That’s the body of the speech. The body comes after the introduction and I like to compare it to the human heart because it gives life and meaning to the rest of your message.

 

This part is fairly easy to write. But with a lot of random thoughts running through your head, it becomes so hard to sift through what’s really important.

 

What that means is that you should pick a style for your speech as it will help you decide on the kind of stories to share.

 

For example, if you want to do something sentimental or hilarious, then you have to jot down at least a funny anecdote you can remember. If you have lots of them, the wedding guests will never forget what you said as no one would like to sit through a boring speech. 

 

 

That brings me to this point. Please make sure whatever style you should reflect your personality or it should be something you are comfortable with. You should never imitate a style of presentation you admire no matter how lovely it is.

 

 

A few years ago, there was this amazing father of the bride's speech that went viral, and almost every father was copying what that talented dad did. Can you imagine how awkward that was for most dads who copied his speaking style verbatim?

 

 

You’re very unique and very special and whatever you say should be based on that distinctiveness.

 

With that foundation laid, let’s look at a few pointers that can help you come up with the outline/structure of your father of the bride speech. Grab a paper and pen and write down answers to these questions

 

1. What was your daughter like when she was a little girl?

2. What fond memory do I still have in mind?

3. What did both of you enjoy spending time doing? Did you go on trips? Were you her sports coach or you took her swimming? ... It goes on and on

4. What are her accomplishments in school, sports, etc.? And do you really want to share her exploits growing up?

 

 

 

Please note that jotting down questions to those questions will help you come up with several wonderful anecdotes. As you do that, leave out stuff that will upset her or even make her lose her sanity and focus on the really good stories. 

 

 

To make things fairly easy for you, you can develop your draft speech based on this simple structure:

Introduction---name and your relationship with the bride and groom as we’ve seen

Body---(a) talk about when she was a little girl…mention qualities like kindness, activeness, etc., and back it up with a story or two.

(b) Do the same thing for her growing up years or teen years by sharing a minimum of two (2) memorable stories.

(c) You can wrap it up with how proud you are of her accomplishments

 

 

After you have got your stories together, just write what’s on your mind using that pre-written father of the bride speech or any beautiful one like this one as a reference. You don’t have to break your neck getting it right the first time.

 

You should consider re-writing whatever you produce until you are completely happy with your draft speech.

 

 

Now, let’s see...

 

How To End Your Father Of The Bride Speech with A Bang

Your closing remarks will most likely remain in the minds of the wedding guests for the rest of their lives.

 

Thankfully, here are some tips to help you conclude on a strong note that will leave a favorable impression on everyone.

 

First, you can end with a quote from the bible if you are a deeply religious person or Christian.

 

For example, you may use this well-known bible reading along these lines:

 

David and Alexa, today is the day the Lord has made. Scripture affirms in 1 Christian 13: 13 that there abides faith, hope, and love but love’s the greatest of these.

The love you have for each is God’s best to you, so treasure that gift every day of your lives and your joy will overflow like a refreshing spring…

Did you see that?

 

Second, you can end with a very touching poem. Here’s one

Love is beautiful and great.

When you find the right person, it will be fate

My love I have for you is so strong; nothing can ever go wrong

It was love at first sight. I wanted to be with him every night.

Every day I feel so good inside…I can’t wait till the day I become his bride

As far as the future, we cannot see, but together forever we will be

What we have is love; it is as beautiful as a dove.

Our love has grown into something bigger that has shown your heart and my heart connected, but our love is so expected,

 

Wondering how we can use that poem to close remarkably? Please watch me carefully as I do that.

 

David and Alexa, your love is so beautiful and so strong

And nothing can ever go wrong if you always work hand in hand

As far as the future, we cannot see, but together forever your love will be

Your hearts have connected

And now from this day, I will always pray that you never lose that sense of connection because your love is

So beautiful and so strong

Again, you can use the lyrics of a love or wedding song everyone knows about to wrap up if you have a good voice.This father did that so beautifully. 

 

The best way to end is by sharing some words of wisdom or marriage advice before propose a toast to the bride and groom.

P.S: Most dads of the bride use this...Have you considered it? Want to write and give a great wedding speech but can't seem to get started because you don't know the exact words to use?

Or not too sure if what you intend writing will be well received by the guests?

Let's help you make your daughter, wife, and family proud, and let the wedding guests say great things about your speech.

Here’s what one nervous and skeptical dad called Glen sent over after the wedding was over

Hey Dan, I just wanted to thank you once again for the speech you wrote with me. My goal was met afterward, I was told by many "what a beautiful speech" and received a standing ovation. I couldn't have done this without you. God Bless Dan!- Glen, U.S.A

Want to know how he did just that? We helped him with his speech.

Want to get on board? You should by first filling out this short and simple form.

This is letter a dad sent us after we helped him deliver his speech(Please click on it to enlarge if you can't see it)

Ok, Is This Offer For Me?

• Yes, if you are expecting nothing less than a very special, beautiful, unique and memorable speech.

• Yes, if you are overwhelmed by the pressures of work and don’t have the time to put together a very meaningful speech, so you can have your peace of mind

• Yes, if you want your family, children, friends and wedding guests to shower you with very sincere compliments…just imagine how you will feel

• Yes, if you are not good with words and you feel you’re not a natural writer and you are struggling to find the right words but still want to give a great speech.

• Yes, you get so scared anytime you’re asked to say something before an audience and you really want to save yourself from any form of embarrassment on your daughter’s big day.

• Yes, if you are not too eloquent or not too sure if you are on the right track.

• Yes, if you absolutely hate speaking in public or feel this is not your thing but you want to make your daughter feel very proud

• Yes, if you have a day or less to the wedding and you are worried that you might make some horrible mistakes

• Yes, if you are a good speaker but you still want someone to look over or review what you've come up with!

Wedding not too far away? Or happening in less than 24 hours? Trust me, we can deliver! it doesn’t matter if your speech is today, tomorrow, next week, next month ,next year,... we can make things work for you 

Just imagine leaving your entire presentation in the hands of skilled wedding speech consultants who will take away your pain of spending hours thinking hard and long about what to say and what not to say.

This is another letter a dad sent to us when the wedding was over. (Please click on it to enlarge if you can't see it) 

Also, envision being patiently guided to say something that will leave a favorable impression on the mind of your listeners.

And also imagine the thrill and feeling of excitement and pride you’re going to experience when the audience leap onto their feet and scream and shouts and even sing your praises.

Won’t you love that? I hope you do...

Ok, I am Interested, What’s the Cost?

You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.

Why? As you know, the current health and economic crisis has caused severe hardships for most people.

Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.

Yet, some daughters are still getting married and asking their fathers to give speeches.

Nonetheless, not every father could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.

So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.

Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.

So, please take advantage of it now even if your daughter’s big day is in the future.

Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video and your daughter and son-in-law and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.  

So, please take advantage of it now even if your daughter’s big day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.   

Oh Ok, How Then Do I Get Started Since I Want To Get On Board Right Away?

Ok, here’s how it works

All you have to do RIGHT NOW is to click on this link to receive an easy-to-fill-in questionnaire via email. Check your email a few hours after you’ve submitted your request for your questionnaire.

So,

1)CLICK HERE  NOW TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT THIS QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind!

2. After that, we will send you a very short questionnaire to fill out via email! You only have to check your email a few hours after you have made your request

3. Then, you fill out the questionnaire sent through your email, and please have it sent back to us…

4. We will confirm receipt of it…If something is not too clear, we will ask you to clarify….

5. If not, we will send you a wonderful draft in a couple of hours if this on very short notice….If not, after a few days

6. Then, you look it over and tell us if you are okay with it or you want to amend or revise it till you are happy with it--although we always get it right even with the first draft.
7. Then, we ask you to pay for it.

Please note: The information collected through the questionnaire is only for the purpose of writing your speech. I wouldn’t even need it if I could read your mind. So, your information is very confidential and no one will know about it.

Just a reminder of what you pay after it’s duly completed. You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.

Why? As you know, the current health and economic crisis has caused severe hardships for most people.

Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.

Yet, some daughters are still getting married and asking their fathers to give speeches.

Nonetheless, not every father could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.

So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.

Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.

So, please take advantage of it now even if your daughter’s big day is in the future.

Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video and your daughter and son-in-law and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.  

So, please take advantage of it now even if your daughter’s big day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.  

Please note: Your speech draft comes with a proven and simple tip to master your speech or remember your speech just as you want it without carrying a paper with you.

Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise and clarity!

''Hi Dan,

The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice).  Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.

All the best,

Matt''

Please note: Don’t fill out this form if you’re a dishonest individual. This offer is for a limited time.

So, CLICK HERE TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT A QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind and not lose money. The risk is on us!

You don't have to worry about paying our per speech for now.

Forget about money and let’s write something for you. We believe in the values of honesty and integrity and we think you should be happy with our work first.

So, Here Are The Benefits You Get When You Get On Board!

• A great speech written by our wedding speech consultants that reflects what you want to say exactly

• We coach you on how to use your voice to make your speech very exciting.

• We show you a simple but often overlook strategy to rehearse your speech even if you have a very poor memory. This method is used by great speakers like Obama and was used by Abraham Lincoln and his compatriots

• The most effective way to get your entire speech into your head without memorizing your speech. Guaranteed to help you even if you have a very poor memory or your memory is like a gold fish…most of our clients still wonder where we got this idea from. This ensures that you don't read off a sheet of paper...

Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise and clarity!

''Hi Dan,

The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice).  Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.

All the best,

Matt''

• Ways to include humor in your speech and what it takes to do so

So, CLICK HERE TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT A QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind and not lose money. The risk is on us!

Remember, you have to see your speech first before you pay. So, you can relax and let us sweat it out at our expense!

''The wedding was GREAT. There were about 120 guests. About 15 people came up to me afterward and told me I gave a great speech. I had to tweak it little because of my tardiness getting it to you but, it all turned out great. Thanks for all your help. I really appreciate it''- Phil Australia 

 

 

 

Father of The Bride Wedding Speech Writer or Father of The Bride Wedding Speech Writing Service Help And Assistance

 

Dear Anxious Dad,

I am Glen,

I know you are dreaming of giving a very beautiful and heartfelt wedding speech.

 

Granted, it’s not so easy to write a great one let alone face an audience who expects nothing but the very best from you.

 

Like you, I badly wanted to give a great speech that will make my child proud and also show the guests how much I really love my precious child.

 

Juggling work and family meant I had little time to spare. But, I was obsessed with writing a beautiful speech yet finding the right words was like pulling out a child’s tooth.

 

I Was Totally Helpless

I knew the audience wanted me to do my very best because I was well known for my speaking abilities.

Nonetheless, I couldn’t put my thoughts together in a very compelling way. That was a bit puzzling because I had given so many speeches. But, I never knew wedding speeches were very different.

 

I spent countless hours, sometimes deep into the night, but things didn’t work out as I had hoped for.

 

I Goofed!

On the wedding day of my first child, I was so nervous that I lost my composure and my words were inaudible.

 

To cut a long story short, I got a few compliments, but deep down within my heart, I knew those praises were not sincere.

 

I Got A Standing Ovation!

 

When my second child was getting married, I vowed to do my very best to make him proud.

 

But like before, I was so scared. I thought I’d fail to impress on the wedding day like before.

 

Looking everywhere for help, I landed on this page you are currently reading.

 

This Helped Me Out!

 

However, I was skeptical when Dan and his team said they could help give a great wedding speech even if I hate speaking in public.

 

Well, I took a leap of faith when I found that I didn’t have to pay first to get my speech and that allayed my fears a great deal.

 

Quickly, I got started by first filling out this form as I really wanted to make a difference this time.

Dan and his team delivered what they promised and I loved it after asking for some edits.

 

When I was called to deliver my speech, the room was dead silent and most of those knew me from the first wedding.

 

I spoke with poise, flair, and confidence and got a standing ovation this time ... My family was so proud of me.

Those who thought I'd disappoint got it all wrong. I was an unlikely hero. Dan and his guys asked me how my speech went afterward and this is the note I sent them. (Please see image below)

 

Dear Loving Dad,

 

I am Dan and I run this blog.

Glen is not the only one we’ve helped.

 

There are so many others as well. So, your case is not hopeless. We can help you just as we helped Phil...Wedding not too far away? Or happening in less than 24 hours? Trust me, we can deliver! it doesn’t matter if your speech is today, tomorrow, next week, next month, next year,... we can make things work for you 

''The wedding was GREAT. There were about 120 guests. About 15 people came up to me afterward and told me I gave a great speech. I had to tweak it little because of my tardiness getting it to you but, it all turned out great. Thanks for all your help. I really appreciate it''- Phil Australia 

 

 

You see, all these persons you have just listened to are mere mortals like you and me and many were scared to death about this whole wedding speech thing.

 

But they all decided to take action by asking our wedding speech consultants to help them give incredible wedding speeches and we didn’t let them down.

 

Your daughter’s wedding is a very special event and you (her dad) should not let her down in any way else she will regret asking you to give a wedding speech.

That’s why we are here to help you give a wedding speech that will blow everyone away, even if you are an experienced speaker or you just hate speaking before an audience.

 

Want to get on board? You should by first filling out this short and simple form.

This is letter a dad sent us after we helped him deliver his speech(Please click on it to enlarge if you can't see it)

Ok, Is This Offer For Me?

• Yes, if you are expecting nothing less than a very special, beautiful, unique and memorable speech.

• Yes, if you are overwhelmed by the pressures of work and don’t have the time to put together a very meaningful speech, so you can have your peace of mind

• Yes, if you want your family, children, friends and wedding guests to shower you with very sincere compliments…just imagine how you will feel

• Yes, if you are not good with words and you feel you’re not a natural writer and you are struggling to find the right words but still want to give a great speech.

• Yes, you get so scared anytime you’re asked to say something before an audience and you really want to save yourself from any form of embarrassment on your daughter’s big day.

• Yes, if you are not too eloquent or not too sure if you are on the right track.

• Yes, if you absolutely hate speaking in public or feel this is not your thing but you want to make your daughter feel very proud

• Yes, if you have a day or less to the wedding and you are worried that you might make some horrible mistakes

• Yes, if you are a good speaker but you still want someone to look over or review what you've come up with!

Wedding not too far away? Or happening in less than 24 hours? Trust me, we can deliver! it doesn’t matter if your speech is today, tomorrow, next week, next month ,next year,... we can make things work for you 

Just imagine leaving your entire presentation in the hands of skilled wedding speech consultants who will take away your pain of spending hours thinking hard and long about what to say and what not to say.

This is another letter a dad sent to us when the wedding was over. (Please click on it to enlarge if you can't see it) 

Also, envision being patiently guided to say something that will leave a favorable impression on the mind of your listeners.

And also imagine the thrill and feeling of excitement and pride you’re going to experience when the audience leap onto their feet and scream and shouts and even sing your praises.

Won’t you love that? I hope you do...

Ok, I am Interested, What’s the Cost?

You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.

Why? As you know, the current health and economic crisis has caused severe hardships for most people.

Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.

Yet, some daughters are still getting married and asking their fathers to give speeches.

Nonetheless, not every father could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.

So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.

Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.

So, please take advantage of it now even if your daughter’s big day is in the future.

Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video and your daughter and son-in-law and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.  

So, please take advantage of it now even if your daughter’s big day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.   

Oh Ok, How Then Do I Get Started Since I Want To Get On Board Right Away?

Ok, here’s how it works

All you have to do RIGHT NOW is to click on this link to receive an easy-to-fill-in questionnaire via email. Check your email a few hours after you’ve submitted your request for your questionnaire.

So,

1)CLICK HERE  NOW TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT THIS QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind!

2. After that, we will send you a very short questionnaire to fill out via email! You only have to check your email a few hours after you have made your request

3. Then, you fill out the questionnaire sent through your email, and please have it sent back to us…

4. We will confirm receipt of it…If something is not too clear, we will ask you to clarify….

5. If not, we will send you a wonderful draft in a couple of hours if this on very short notice….If not, after a few days

6. Then, you look it over and tell us if you are okay with it or you want to amend or revise it till you are happy with it--although we always get it right even with the first draft.
7. Then, we ask you to pay for it.

Please note: The information collected through the questionnaire is only for the purpose of writing your speech. I wouldn’t even need it if I could read your mind. So, your information is very confidential and no one will know about it.

Just a reminder of what you pay after it’s duly completed. You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.

Why? As you know, the current health and economic crisis has caused severe hardships for most people.

Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.

Yet, some daughters are still getting married and asking their fathers to give speeches.

Nonetheless, not every father could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.

So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.

Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.

So, please take advantage of it now even if your daughter’s big day is in the future.

Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video and your daughter and son-in-law and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.  

So, please take advantage of it now even if your daughter’s big day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.  

Please note: Your speech draft comes with a proven and simple tip to master your speech or remember your speech just as you want it without carrying a paper with you.

Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise and clarity!

''Hi Dan,

The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice).  Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.

All the best,

Matt''

Please note: Don’t fill out this form if you’re a dishonest individual. This offer is for a limited time.

So, CLICK HERE TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT A QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind and not lose money. The risk is on us!

You don't have to worry about paying our per speech for now.

Forget about money and let’s write something for you. We believe in the values of honesty and integrity and we think you should be happy with our work first.

So, Here Are The Benefits You Get When You Get On Board!

• A great speech written by our wedding speech consultants that reflects what you want to say exactly

• We coach you on how to use your voice to make your speech very exciting.

• We show you a simple but often overlook strategy to rehearse your speech even if you have a very poor memory. This method is used by great speakers like Obama and was used by Abraham Lincoln and his compatriots

• The most effective way to get your entire speech into your head without memorizing your speech. Guaranteed to help you even if you have a very poor memory or your memory is like a gold fish…most of our clients still wonder where we got this idea from. This ensures that you don't read off a sheet of paper...

Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise and clarity!

''Hi Dan,

The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice).  Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.

All the best,

Matt''

• Ways to include humor in your speech and what it takes to do so

So, CLICK HERE TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT A QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind and not lose money. The risk is on us!

Remember, you have to see your speech first before you pay. So, you can relax and let us sweat it out at our expense!

''The wedding was GREAT. There were about 120 guests. About 15 people came up to me afterward and told me I gave a great speech. I had to tweak it little because of my tardiness getting it to you but, it all turned out great. Thanks for all your help. I really appreciate it''- Phil Australia 

Father Of The Bride Speech: How To Write A Great Father of The Bride Wedding Toast For Your Daughter and Son-in-Law

 

Father of the Bride Speech: An Easy-To-Follow Approach To Writing A Great Speech Even If You Have Little Time To Spare

 

Many fathers of brides usually ask for help when they have a few days to their daughter's wedding ceremony.

 

Our research indicates that they do that at the last moment because they think that writing a great father of the bride speech doesn’t involve much time and effort.

Others too try to do it in their own way but get stuck when their ideas don’t follow in chronological order or they don't really like what they have written. 

 

There are also some who are very busy and think they can wing it.  Sometimes, we all become busy even in days leading to our daughters’ big day. It could be that you are engaged in one thing or the other and you don’t really have much time to put something together.

 

When you leave things till the last moment, the quality of your speech can be compromised and things might not go as planned.

 

Whatever the case might be, you shouldn't wing it unless you are a very talented speaker or you have a good story inside your mind.

 

Nevertheless, you can’t take your father of the bride's speech for granted if you really want to make your daughter and family proud. That’s why I have come up with this to help you write something you can be proud of even if you are as busy as a bee or you don't have the right words!

 

 

Here’s how to write your speech or toast quickly and easily.

You can start writing any part of the speech you find fairly easy.

Let’s say you have only 30 minutes to work out things each day right? Then this easy –to- follow piece can be your writing timetable. Tweak it to suit your own unique case if you so desire.

 

 

Study the chart below carefully as it is going to be like our compass for the remainder of the article.

Monday-- 30 minutes-- The toast
Tuesday-- 20 minutes-- The introduction
Wednesday-- 20 minutes-- Advice
Thursday-- 10 minutes-- Her childhood
Friday 30-- minutes-- Her Teenage Years, your wishes for them
Saturday-- 30 minutes-- Her achievements, work
ethics, something about the groom 
Sunday-- 1 hour --Put all the parts together

 

Let me use this scenario to explain things. Let’s take Monday as an example. 

The 30 minutes allotted to writing your toast on that day is all you have to spend on your message on that particular day. The purpose of this is three-fold. One, it helps you a lot if you are always on the go and you have less time to complete your speech.

 

Second, it takes out the stress of trying to do everything at once.

 

Third, it’s a great way of overcoming writer’s block since you won’t have to worry much about writing a speech all at once.

 

Sometimes, the ''old-fashioned approach'' of putting together your thoughts at a go can be very problematic and time-wasting if you don't have a way with words.

 

But by starting with any part of a speech you find convenient, you’ll not only save time but have ample time to write something from your heart. The above timetable is meant to serve as a guide. You can change it to suit you.

 

 

What To Do If You Still Can’t Get Ideas To Write

First, look at the introduction of any well-written speech and make some slight changes to it.

 

Make the body of the sample yours by changing a few words here and there. Replace the trait of the bride in that sample speech with your daughter’s. Then, you do the same for the groom.

 

Finally, make some changes to the toast too. Finally, look it over your speech one more time to correct some mistakes. However, make sure you are able to write your own unique speech using the examples you find.

 

How To Know If Your Speech Will Achieve Its Intended Purpose

 

Please keep your speech away in a safe spot for a day or two or a few hours depending on the time left for your wedding speech. After this time has passed, get back to it, and look over it and you will discover errors that slipped through the cracks when you first wrote it. 

 

You can also read it out loud and see how it flows. But you might want to print it out if you’re really pressed for time or simply let your spouse look it over.

 

 

The First Draft Is Important

All great writing doesn’t look good the first time it’s written so don’t let that put a damper on things. You have to keep reviewing it till it is free from poor punctuation, spelling, and the like as it can change the meaning and tone of your speech.

 

 

Don’t forget to take off portions you think are not that relevant to your entire speech. Cut those parts that don’t add to the overall tone of your speech and don’t forget to tighten up loose sentences.

 

 

 

Vary your sentences to prevent them from becoming monotonous. For instance, beginning every sentence with the pronoun ''I'' in all of your paragraphs will make your speech lack the shine it deserves.

 

Keep It In A Secured Location

Once you assessed the speech, you need to keep it in a convenient place so you don’t misplace it. There’s nothing more frustrating than losing a speech you have poured your whole heart and mind into.

 

 

That can stress you out and affect your performance in the long run. So, keep it in a safe place so you can get it anytime you want.

 

P.S: Most dads of the bride use this....Have you considered it? Want to write and give a great wedding speech but can't seem to get started because you don't know the exact words to use?

Or not too sure if what you intend writing will be well received by the guests?

Let's help you make your daughter, wife, and family proud and let the wedding guests say great things about your speech.

 

Here’s what one nervous and skeptical dad called Glen sent over after the wedding was over

Hey Dan, I just wanted to thank you once again for the speech you wrote with me. My goal was met afterward, I was told by many "what a beautiful speech" and received a standing ovation. I couldn't have done this without you. God Bless Dan!- Glen, U.S.A

Want to know how he did just that? We helped him with his speech.

Want to get on board? You should by first filling out this short and simple form.

This is letter a dad sent us after we helped him deliver his speech(Please click on it to enlarge if you can't see it)

Ok, Is This Offer For Me?

• Yes, if you are expecting nothing less than a very special, beautiful, unique and memorable speech.

• Yes, if you are overwhelmed by the pressures of work and don’t have the time to put together a very meaningful speech, so you can have your peace of mind

• Yes, if you want your family, children, friends and wedding guests to shower you with very sincere compliments…just imagine how you will feel

• Yes, if you are not good with words and you feel you’re not a natural writer and you are struggling to find the right words but still want to give a great speech.

• Yes, you get so scared anytime you’re asked to say something before an audience and you really want to save yourself from any form of embarrassment on your daughter’s big day.

• Yes, if you are not too eloquent or not too sure if you are on the right track.

• Yes, if you absolutely hate speaking in public or feel this is not your thing but you want to make your daughter feel very proud

• Yes, if you have a day or less to the wedding and you are worried that you might make some horrible mistakes

• Yes, if you are a good speaker but you still want someone to look over or review what you've come up with!

Wedding not too far away? Or happening in less than 24 hours? Trust me, we can deliver! it doesn’t matter if your speech is today, tomorrow, next week, next month ,next year,... we can make things work for you 

Just imagine leaving your entire presentation in the hands of skilled wedding speech consultants who will take away your pain of spending hours thinking hard and long about what to say and what not to say.

This is another letter a dad sent to us when the wedding was over. (Please click on it to enlarge if you can't see it) 

Also, envision being patiently guided to say something that will leave a favorable impression on the mind of your listeners.

And also imagine the thrill and feeling of excitement and pride you’re going to experience when the audience leap onto their feet and scream and shouts and even sing your praises.

Won’t you love that? I hope you do...

Ok, I am Interested, What’s the Cost?

You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.

Why? As you know, the current health and economic crisis has caused severe hardships for most people.

Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.

Yet, some daughters are still getting married and asking their fathers to give speeches.

Nonetheless, not every father could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.

So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.

Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.

So, please take advantage of it now even if your daughter’s big day is in the future.

Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video and your daughter and son-in-law and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.  

So, please take advantage of it now even if your daughter’s big day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.   

Oh Ok, How Then Do I Get Started Since I Want To Get On Board Right Away?

Ok, here’s how it works

All you have to do RIGHT NOW is to click on this link to receive an easy-to-fill-in questionnaire via email. Check your email a few hours after you’ve submitted your request for your questionnaire.

So,

1)CLICK HERE  NOW TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT THIS QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind!

2. After that, we will send you a very short questionnaire to fill out via email! You only have to check your email a few hours after you have made your request

3. Then, you fill out the questionnaire sent through your email, and please have it sent back to us…

4. We will confirm receipt of it…If something is not too clear, we will ask you to clarify….

5. If not, we will send you a wonderful draft in a couple of hours if this on very short notice….If not, after a few days

6. Then, you look it over and tell us if you are okay with it or you want to amend or revise it till you are happy with it--although we always get it right even with the first draft.
7. Then, we ask you to pay for it.

Please note: The information collected through the questionnaire is only for the purpose of writing your speech. I wouldn’t even need it if I could read your mind. So, your information is very confidential and no one will know about it.

Just a reminder of what you pay after it’s duly completed. You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.

Why? As you know, the current health and economic crisis has caused severe hardships for most people.

Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.

Yet, some daughters are still getting married and asking their fathers to give speeches.

Nonetheless, not every father could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.

So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.

Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.

So, please take advantage of it now even if your daughter’s big day is in the future.

Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video and your daughter and son-in-law and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.  

So, please take advantage of it now even if your daughter’s big day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.  

Please note: Your speech draft comes with a proven and simple tip to master your speech or remember your speech just as you want it without carrying a paper with you.

Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise and clarity!

''Hi Dan,

The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice).  Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.

All the best,

Matt''

Please note: Don’t fill out this form if you’re a dishonest individual. This offer is for a limited time.

So, CLICK HERE TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT A QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind and not lose money. The risk is on us!

You don't have to worry about paying our per speech for now.

Forget about money and let’s write something for you. We believe in the values of honesty and integrity and we think you should be happy with our work first.

So, Here Are The Benefits You Get When You Get On Board!

• A great speech written by our wedding speech consultants that reflects what you want to say exactly

• We coach you on how to use your voice to make your speech very exciting.

• We show you a simple but often overlook strategy to rehearse your speech even if you have a very poor memory. This method is used by great speakers like Obama and was used by Abraham Lincoln and his compatriots

• The most effective way to get your entire speech into your head without memorizing your speech. Guaranteed to help you even if you have a very poor memory or your memory is like a gold fish…most of our clients still wonder where we got this idea from. This ensures that you don't read off a sheet of paper...

Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise and clarity!

''Hi Dan,

The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice).  Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.

All the best,

Matt''

• Ways to include humor in your speech and what it takes to do so

So, CLICK HERE TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT A QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind and not lose money. The risk is on us!

Remember, you have to see your speech first before you pay. So, you can relax and let us sweat it out at our expense!

''The wedding was GREAT. There were about 120 guests. About 15 people came up to me afterward and told me I gave a great speech. I had to tweak it little because of my tardiness getting it to you but, it all turned out great. Thanks for all your help. I really appreciate it''- Phil Australia 

 

Father of the Bride Wedding Speech Ideas: Here Are Father Of The Bride Speech Tips And Ideas To Help You Write Your Speech Like A Pro

 

Have you ever wondered what makes all things possible on earth? I know a lot of things are going through your mind as you ponder about the question asked.

 

As you might know, words have a very powerful way of influencing the course of events and even determining what we get out of life. So, always make sure you think good thoughts as it will either make your life better or bitter.

A positive mental attitude will go a long way to ensuring that you develop the inner strength and resilience you need to speak confidently. 

 

That said, let's look at this great father of the bride speech sample by a revered royal so you can write a heartfelt father of the bride's speech without trying so hard.

 

 

Now...

 

Let One Of The World’s Best Fathers Show You How He Gave The Best Father Of The Bride Speech!

When King Carl XVI Gustaf of Sweden wanted to give the most valuable gift to Princess Victoria her daughter, he sought not to do it with gold or any of the valuables in his great palace but he gave her words.

 

He knew that a father’s word would give her beautiful daughter the stability she needs in her married life and so he delivered a very heartfelt speech that was applauded by Swedes and other people around the globe.

 

Today, we are going to look at the words he said about his daughter on her big day and how you can adapt his words to write your own speech.

 

Let's Go!

Now let us begin with his father of the bride's speech and let us examine it so you can write your wedding speech like a royal! By the way, here's a video of his speech.

 

 

Behold, The Text Of The Great King!

First, here are his introductory remarks

 

Your Majesties,
Your Imperial Highness,
Your Royal Highnesses,
Ladies and Gentlemen,

Her Majesty the Queen and I wish to greet you all with a most heartily welcome to the Royal Palace and to this wedding gala dinner. It is wonderful to see you all here!

 

On behalf of my family — and especially on behalf of my oldest daughter and my son-in-law — I wish to thank you for coming and for participating in our joy! You will always be a part of this unforgettable and memorable day!

 

What can you say about the opening lines of the king’s speech? To get something out of this example, we need to first find out what the components of a captivating opener are.

 

Remember, he addresses the guests and thank them for honoring the invitation to the wedding gala dinner. 

 

You also have to first greet the audience and thank them for coming too. Besides, you should tell the guests who you are and your relationship with the bride.

 

You can even start with:

''On behalf of my wife or family, I wish to…''

Many fathers don’t start this way and I think it’s not the best given that you probably raised your daughter as a team.

 

If you are the father of the bride, please tell the guests who you are and your relationship with the guests like the bride's mother, your parents, and other relatives. The king didn’t do that because he is well-known in Sweden and beyond.

 

 

Ok, let's keep it going then

Your Royal Highnesses Crown Princess Victoria and Prince Daniel!
Dear newly-weds!

The Queen and I would like to wish you — The Crown Princess of Sweden and Prince Daniel — all the best for the life ahead together!

 

It is a major step in life to enter into marriage. Not only for the bride and groom but also for their parents.

 

The promise you have given to each other today on mutual support and loyalty ties the two of you further together. It is, however, an unavoidable consequence of your decision that the ties to your parents thus will be changed. From now on, your first loyalty will be to one another.

 

We as parents take joy in the affection by which you look at each other. But — as so many parents before us have experienced — the joy of seeing one's children standing on their own to build their families, is also spiced with a touch of grief. I wish that you also one day will be able to experience such happiness that we feel today.

 

Though there are so many ways of engaging the wedding audience, King Carl XVI Gustav begins by addressing the royal couple and reminding them of the significance of their vows.

 

At the end of that paragraph, he expresses his deepest emotions on this beautiful day.  What do you think will run through your mind and that of the wedding guests as you talk about that?

 

Pouring your feelings out will make your father of the bride's speech, not only very touching, heartfelt, and memorable but it will also enable you to connect with your audience in a unique way.

 

It thus came as no surprise that many people thought the king’s speech was one of the best royal wedding speeches they have ever heard as it stirred up their sentiments.

 

Let’s see what he said next

 

Dear Victoria!
You are the successor to the throne of Sweden. It is a mission that comes with duties and responsibilities and it is with pride and gratitude I have seen you grow into this role.

One day you will — because so it is stated in our constitution — succeed me as the head of state of Sweden. My mind is put at ease when I see the wisdom and determination by which you prepare yourself for this task.

 

I know that I share this confidence with a large number of the Swedish people. You could, perhaps, with a reference to our ancestor Karl XIV Johan, say "The love of the people is my reward."

 

Our relation is, however, deeper than that between a monarch and his successor. I am your father. You are my beloved daughter.

 

No one should believe anything else than that my highest wish has always been — and is — to see you happy. It has therefore always been self-evident to your mother the Queen and me, that you — as any person in our country — should have the freedom to choose your life´s companion as your heart desires.

 

I have today sought to make this point clear by accompanying you to your future husband, and thereby confirming the decision to approve of your marriage according to our constitution.

 

Again, let us see how we can glean some insights from the above narration. You have to tell the wedding guests about your daughter while she was growing up.

 

You can simply do that by sharing an interesting anecdote.

 

Furthermore, the King reminds Victoria of her responsibilities as the future monarch. You have to remind your daughter of her role in her new life.

 

In order to do that, you talk about the fact that she is now a wife. After you have said that, you can add what her duties as a mother will be like when your grandchildren come on the scene. Then, give her your blessings and wish her well in the journey ahead.

 

Now let’s see what he said about his son- in- law, Daniel Westling 

 

Dear Daniel!

On behalf of the Queen and myself, I would like to welcome you most warmly into our family. We would also like to congratulate our daughter on her choice of husband. And we — your parents-in-law — congratulate you on your choice of wife.

 

We have got to know you as a very ambitious and skillful entrepreneur. I have often been impressed by the purposefulness and the go-ahead spirit which you have shown and we have with approval noticed the energy and determination by which you have been preparing yourself for your mission as Prince Consort. That is: to give your wife, the Crown Princess, support and confidence.

 

We are also delighted to have made the acquaintance with your parents Eva and Olle West ling as well as your large and lovely family.

 

Addressing your daughter without saying something about your son- in- law is a mistake many fathers make when giving their speeches, and it is something you should definitely avoid. Proper speech etiquette demands that you do so. 

 

Here’s What To Do Instead

First, sincerely tell your son––in–law why you admire him and how you felt when you met him for the very first time. Comment on his qualities and formally invite him and his family into yours.

 

You will only be breaking tradition if you don’t do so since you have the sacred responsibility as host of the event to introduce him to your own family.

 

Please use this fine opportunity to advise and give him some tips on how to be a great husband and dad if you can.

 

Now back to the kings’ words'

 

Dear Victoria and Daniel!
The Queen and I, Prince Carl Philip and Princess Madeleine would like to congratulate you and wish you all the best. On your walk through life together, you can always count on our support and affection and we pray that God Almighty always will be merciful to you.

 

Finally, I would like to propose a toast to — and that we all raise a cheer for — the Crown Princess and Prince Daniel, our beloved and beautiful bridal couple.

Four cheers for them!

 

 

Finally, he congratulates them and wishes them well as they start a life together. Did you notice how he addressed the couple before making his toast?

Anyway, you might borrow his exact words as used above. But please remind the couple always of your love and support in good times and bad.

On the wedding day, your daughter and family will demand nothing from you but an exceptional speech. Do you really have what it takes to deliver a great speech like what the king came up with?

Want to write and give a great wedding speech like the one above but can't seem to get started because you don't know the exact words to use?

Or not too sure if what you intend writing will be well received by the guests?

Let's help you make your daughter, wife, and family proud and let the wedding guests say great things about your speech.

Here’s what one nervous and skeptical dad called Glen sent over after the wedding was over

Hey Dan, I just wanted to thank you once again for the speech you wrote with me. My goal was met afterward, I was told by many "what a beautiful speech" and received a standing ovation. I couldn't have done this without you. God Bless Dan!- Glen, U.S.A

Want to know how he did just that? We helped him with his speech.

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This is letter a dad sent us after we helped him deliver his speech(Please click on it to enlarge if you can't see it)

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• Yes, if you are expecting nothing less than a very special, beautiful, unique and memorable speech.

• Yes, if you are overwhelmed by the pressures of work and don’t have the time to put together a very meaningful speech, so you can have your peace of mind

• Yes, if you want your family, children, friends and wedding guests to shower you with very sincere compliments…just imagine how you will feel

• Yes, if you are not good with words and you feel you’re not a natural writer and you are struggling to find the right words but still want to give a great speech.

• Yes, you get so scared anytime you’re asked to say something before an audience and you really want to save yourself from any form of embarrassment on your daughter’s big day.

• Yes, if you are not too eloquent or not too sure if you are on the right track.

• Yes, if you absolutely hate speaking in public or feel this is not your thing but you want to make your daughter feel very proud

• Yes, if you have a day or less to the wedding and you are worried that you might make some horrible mistakes

• Yes, if you are a good speaker but you still want someone to look over or review what you've come up with!

Wedding not too far away? Or happening in less than 24 hours? Trust me, we can deliver! it doesn’t matter if your speech is today, tomorrow, next week, next month ,next year,... we can make things work for you 

Just imagine leaving your entire presentation in the hands of skilled wedding speech consultants who will take away your pain of spending hours thinking hard and long about what to say and what not to say.

This is another letter a dad sent to us when the wedding was over. (Please click on it to enlarge if you can't see it) 

Also, envision being patiently guided to say something that will leave a favorable impression on the mind of your listeners.

And also imagine the thrill and feeling of excitement and pride you’re going to experience when the audience leap onto their feet and scream and shouts and even sing your praises.

Won’t you love that? I hope you do...

Ok, I am Interested, What’s the Cost?

You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.

Why? As you know, the current health and economic crisis has caused severe hardships for most people.

Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.

Yet, some daughters are still getting married and asking their fathers to give speeches.

Nonetheless, not every father could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.

So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.

Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.

So, please take advantage of it now even if your daughter’s big day is in the future.

Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video and your daughter and son-in-law and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.  

So, please take advantage of it now even if your daughter’s big day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.   

Oh Ok, How Then Do I Get Started Since I Want To Get On Board Right Away?

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All you have to do RIGHT NOW is to click on this link to receive an easy-to-fill-in questionnaire via email. Check your email a few hours after you’ve submitted your request for your questionnaire.

So,

1)CLICK HERE  NOW TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT THIS QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind!

2. After that, we will send you a very short questionnaire to fill out via email! You only have to check your email a few hours after you have made your request

3. Then, you fill out the questionnaire sent through your email, and please have it sent back to us…

4. We will confirm receipt of it…If something is not too clear, we will ask you to clarify….

5. If not, we will send you a wonderful draft in a couple of hours if this on very short notice….If not, after a few days

6. Then, you look it over and tell us if you are okay with it or you want to amend or revise it till you are happy with it--although we always get it right even with the first draft.
7. Then, we ask you to pay for it.

Please note: The information collected through the questionnaire is only for the purpose of writing your speech. I wouldn’t even need it if I could read your mind. So, your information is very confidential and no one will know about it.

Just a reminder of what you pay after it’s duly completed. You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.

Why? As you know, the current health and economic crisis has caused severe hardships for most people.

Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.

Yet, some daughters are still getting married and asking their fathers to give speeches.

Nonetheless, not every father could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.

So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.

Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.

So, please take advantage of it now even if your daughter’s big day is in the future.

Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video and your daughter and son-in-law and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.  

So, please take advantage of it now even if your daughter’s big day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.  

Please note: Your speech draft comes with a proven and simple tip to master your speech or remember your speech just as you want it without carrying a paper with you.

Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise and clarity!

''Hi Dan,

The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice).  Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.

All the best,

Matt''

Please note: Don’t fill out this form if you’re a dishonest individual. This offer is for a limited time.

So, CLICK HERE TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT A QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind and not lose money. The risk is on us!

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Forget about money and let’s write something for you. We believe in the values of honesty and integrity and we think you should be happy with our work first.

So, Here Are The Benefits You Get When You Get On Board!

• A great speech written by our wedding speech consultants that reflects what you want to say exactly

• We coach you on how to use your voice to make your speech very exciting.

• We show you a simple but often overlook strategy to rehearse your speech even if you have a very poor memory. This method is used by great speakers like Obama and was used by Abraham Lincoln and his compatriots

• The most effective way to get your entire speech into your head without memorizing your speech. Guaranteed to help you even if you have a very poor memory or your memory is like a gold fish…most of our clients still wonder where we got this idea from. This ensures that you don't read off a sheet of paper...

Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise and clarity!

''Hi Dan,

The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice).  Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.

All the best,

Matt''

• Ways to include humor in your speech and what it takes to do so

So, CLICK HERE TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT A QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind and not lose money. The risk is on us!

Remember, you have to see your speech first before you pay. So, you can relax and let us sweat it out at our expense!

''The wedding was GREAT. There were about 120 guests. About 15 people came up to me afterward and told me I gave a great speech. I had to tweak it little because of my tardiness getting it to you but, it all turned out great. Thanks for all your help. I really appreciate it''- Phil Australia 

Funny Father Of The Bride Speech

 

Do you want to give a funny father of the bride speech that will impress your daughter and family as well as the guests but don’t know how to come up with something humorous?

Just follow these easy steps and your speech will bring the house down with your speech even if you have never made someone laugh all your life or you absolutely hate being in the public eye.

Ever Heard This Funny Joke?

There was this Texan rancher who was doing agricultural consulting for a farmer in Germany. 

He asked the German farmer about the size of his property, to which he replied, ''About a mile square. ''

When the German asked the Texan about the size of his ranch, the rancher explained that if he got in his pickup truck at dawn and drove until sunset he would still be on his ranch.

Not to be outdone, the farmer replied, ''I used to have an old truck like that.''

                                                             photo credit: www. sundaynoises.com.wordpress.com

 

All kidding aside, when fathers have to give a funny wedding speech at their daughter’s wedding, the question that keeps coming up is…

 

Why Use Humor In Your Speech For Daughter?

That hilarious joke captures the essence of using humor in wedding speeches to entertain the audience as well as say something memorable about your daughter. 

Although funny father of the bride speeches toasts are always a big hit with the wedding guests, most fathers find it so hard to give a hilarious speech that will delight and amaze the audience.

 

Granted, this piece has been written to equip you with the right tips and ideas and examples you need to write a funny father of the bride speech toast that will make your daughter, son-in-law, and others feel so proud.

Before we do that, let us get a few things right.

 

First You Have To Change This Poisonous View You Already Hold

Most fathers are unable to come up with great speeches on the wedding day because of fear and past failures.

You see, anytime you are asked to speak before a crowd, your mind will bring back memories of events where you failed to deliver a good performance, and you might think you are going to fail once again.

 

If you feed on this fear, you will lose heart and you might end up not doing your very best.  It doesn't matter if you are a great speaker or not, you have to believe you can handle whatever happens to you because self-confidence plays a vital role in every facet of our lives, including how you deliver your wedding speech for your daughter and son-in-law.

 

Here’s the thing my friend.  Most fathers underestimate their own abilities, but you don’t have to. The truth is that you are endowed with the free gift of speech and this natural endowment makes it possible to excel in situations that demand the use of that ability. But, we often let doubt and low self-esteem dominate our lives and thinking.

 

That being said, let's get on to the business of writing a memorable funny father of the bride speech for your daughter on her wedding day. But first, a simple word about making funny father wedding speech toasts.

 

Some folks erroneously believe that you need to have the funny gene to come up with something funny. Contrary to what most people think, you don’t necessarily have to be a naturally funny person to write the best father of the bride toast even though it helps to a certain extent.

 

Remember, you are only there to tell a story about your relationship with the bride. So, all you need are good memories of the best moments you and your precious daughter has spent together.

 

If there’s something funny along those lines, that would make your toast fantastic. Don’t force it if you don’t have a funny anecdote to back it up.

 

Look Up Father Of The Bride Speech Videos For Help

 

Well, if you still want to make it hilarious despite the odds, then you have to figure out how such toasts are made. Father of the bride speech YouTube videos can help give you an idea about how to go about things.

 

Thankfully, I found two humorous father speeches for you and I really want you to watch them for inspiration and guidance. All you have to do is to grab your journal and pen and write down ideas you think you can use for your own speech as you watch these video clips.

 

Here you go:

Funny father of the bride speech video example # 1

Hilarious father of the bride speech video example # 2

 

I really enjoyed watching both videos and I am sure you did too. What was your favorite clip? Mine was the second video!

 

Well, if you look at those videos you will notice that one or more of the following comic techniques were employed.

 

Which Of These Comic Techniques Can You Use?

 

First is a situational comedy: a kind of comedy arising out of ordinary or everyday situations.

 

Now, here is how to apply this style of humor to your wedding speech.  Cast your mind back to the events surrounding your daughter’s birth, how she was like when she was growing up, her preteen years, her time in school, or a prank she played on her siblings, on you or her mom.

 

Those stories may strike a hilarious note if you do a little brainstorming and jot down stories about her life.

 

The second is, stand up humor or comedy. Stand up humor is a comic delivery in which someone entertains an audience with jokes and funny stories.

Again, here is how to apply this style to your own writing. If you know a really good joke, you can work into your speech. But make sure it is related to the theme of your speech.  Most speeches you heard at weddings often make use of this method.

 

Another style is satirical comedy: a kind of comedy that mocks human weakness. Such a style is mostly used by most fathers but their usage often backfires because the speakers end up saying things that don't have to be said. 

 

 

For example, you shouldn’t say that your daughter was in an abusive marriage or say anything negative about her character or even speak ill about the groom. That will embarrass her and the entire family.

 

Last is self-deprecating humor. Using this requires that you say something awful about yourself to catch the attention of your audience. Such an approach needs to be done with caution since it can take the attention of the wedding guests from your daughter to you. Remember, it is her big day(not your day) and you have to put the spotlight on her.

 

With all that being said, let us see a short and sweet example. Afterward, we will see how it was written so you can model your speech after the ideas I will be bringing up.

 

This is a speech by a UK guy. But we can still learn a thing or two from it. So please study it carefully. I found this at www.hitched.co.uk and I am glad to share it with you because it perfectly captures the essence of what the writing process is all about. 

Here you go:

 

Funny Father Of The Bride Speech Example/Template

 

Ladies and Gentlemen, Boys and Girls.

On behalf of both families, I would like to warmly welcome each and every one of you here today on this wonderful occasion, be your relatives, friends, neighbours, colleagues or godparents.

You have all played some part in positively enriching the lives of Danielle, Nick, Harry & Martha and you are sincerely valued because of that. Your presence here today is therefore important to us.

You have given your precious time, travelled long distances, and made special arrangements to be here to celebrate the wedding of Danielle & Nick, and for that, we are all extremely grateful. There’s a Swedish proverb that claims a joy shared is a joy doubled, so thank you all very much for making Danielle’s and Nick’s day extra special!

We do hope you enjoy the magnificent setting and participate in the day as much as us, and that you too will have treasured life long memories of this special day.

I would like to take this opportunity to compliment you all on how good you all look today, and thank all of those involved in the planning and delivery of this glorious celebration.

 

To all of those on the top table who have travelled hundreds of miles and undertaken weeks and weeks of research; to Jean and Keith who have done a tremendous job with the floral displays, and to the staff and suppliers of Peckforton Castle. You have all done a wonderful job, and you should be very proud of your efforts.

 

It’s on days like this that you hope everything goes without a hitch, but I’m pleased to report after such a long, long courtship there has finally been a hitch today.

 

Well done. I think you are all worthy of a round of applause.

A wedding is of course a time for joy, fun, and celebration, with friends and family gathered to see the happy couple off as they start their new life. But it is a time, too, when our thoughts inevitably turn to those people who have meant so much to us and shaped our families, but sadly could not be here today.

 

In particular, Helena’s Mum, doting Nana Audrey would have dearly wished to witness the wedding of her first granddaughter Danielle, and seeing Helen, Melissa, Joe, and Gabby and her great-grandchildren Harry & Martha looking so happy, smart and glamorous.

 

I know Audrey and many others will be looking down from Heaven and celebrating today just as we are. So let us raise a glass and toast those who we miss greatly but remember with love and pride. Here’s to absent friends.

 

As the proud father of the beautiful bride, it is my duty, honour and privilege to give the first speech. I must admit, I am a little apprehensive today but it’s not just because I’m making this important speech.

Bear in mind that I’ve had to save and shelve two thirds of my best material as I have two other daughters to give speeches for when they eventually get married. And being a Wigan Athletic fan I’m not used to being in large gatherings, so please bear with me for the next 45 to 50 minutes.

 

I’ve been married for 30 years and during that time spent with a household of females, it’s very unusual for me to get to speak for longer than 30 seconds without being interrupted, and if I do get to speak for longer than 30 seconds it is even more unusual to be listened to! So it’s going to be a whole new experience for me!

 

For this speech, Danielle insisted on severe restrictions on time limit, and excluding content such as ex-boyfriends, driving behaviour, secondary school parents evenings, police visits, etc which was sad, as it removed at least 45 minutes worth of humorous, embarrassing and quite frankly, shocking material. Of course I reluctantly agreed, I really don’t want to embarrass my first daughter during this speech, or do I?  No maybe not, I’ll save that for the dance floor later.

 

Danielle Jane Miller was born on the 9th May 1988, just 11,282 days ago. And much as the same as when I first saw the MOB ( Mother of the Bride or Most Outstanding Beauty), it was Love at first sight. Now I’m not going to go through each and every one of these precious days.

 

But let's just set the scene – It was a Monday, under the star sign of Taurus. It was the era of Ronald Reagan and Margaret Thatcher. We were an integral part of the EU – but there will be more Brexit talk at the bar later on!

 

Pupils sat their GCSEs which were just replacing O Levels (or CSE’s if you went to Cansfield High!). Liverpool were Champions after a draw against League Cup Winners Luton Town. A few days later Wimbledon won the FA Cup, the Poll Tax was launched, and the £1 paper note had just gone out of circulation (I was reminded of that Keith, when I saw a few left in your wallet earlier!). How time flies!

 

And drawing parallels to today, BBC1 airs Episode 523 of Neighbours, featuring the wedding of Scott and Charlene (played by Jason Donovan and Kylie Minogue), which is watched by 20 million viewers, some of whom are here today – hands up?

 

Topically, and appropriately, in that special week of May the best Selling Single, according to Top of the Pops was Perfect by Fairground Attraction. Say no more!

 

It’s is hard though on a day like today not think back to the magical day Danielle was born. The miracle of birth. I can still picture it now as if it were yesterday. Helen in the delivery room in Warrington Hospital absolutely exhausted after many hours of labour, two midwives encouraging and cajoling her to give one last push and sat in the corner was a sheepish-looking delivery driver from UPS with Danielle’s very first New Look parcel. Got that commercial plug in there for you Nick!

 

So we now have a beautiful and healthy daughter. Danielle was a sweet little girl, and never any trouble. I will always treasure the special Father/daughter moments we shared together, playing, reading, horse riding, swimming trips to the park and local library, making paper chains and lanterns, painting our nails, playing Barbie and Ken, overnight camping out at Toys R Us, primary school parents evenings, and adding almost daily £10 top ups to your Nokia 3310 PAYG phone when you were a teenager. Special times.

 

As she grew from a sweet child into a typical teenager, she scraped through school and college, she amazed me when she said she was going to Liverpool University to study Contract Law to become a Buyer for a Nuclear Engineering Company. I guess I should have been proud, but was actually shocked, astounded.

 

I had of course assumed she wouldn’t need an academic qualification to do this, after all her Mum Helen has no formal training in this area, but her Mum buys lots of things of great expense all the time!

 

On reflection, I guess I should have encouraged Danielle to study geography when after watching the news during the Mad Cow disease outbreak, and seeing that some animals were poorly in quarantine, she then asked me what country quarantine was in!

Helen admirably stayed at home to bring up the children, and to keep them safe and happy. And she did a world-class job. Thank you. I may, however, just may, have spoiled Danielle a little, or given her too high expectations. Because within days of moving in with Nick, Danielle was distraught, and called home in tears, saying that she was unhappy and that Nick was being unreasonable and using 4 letter words.

 

Naturally, as her parents, we were horrified, and went to her to see what was going on – turns out Nick was asking her to cook, wash, wipe, tidy!

But now our girl has matured into a kind and wonderful woman, and a great Mum. I have looked forward to this day for many many many years Nick. Today was the first of me seeing Danielle in her wedding dress and she looks beautiful.

 

Danielle makes a stunning bride, and yes as her Father you would expect me to say this but it does not make it any the less true! She may be dressed to kill today, however, but unfortunately for Nick, that’s also how she cooks!

 

I’m so happy Danielle and Nick have married in a scenic Castle – it brings to life her dreams and wishes as a little girl, dressing up watching the Disney classics such as Cinderella, Shrek and Beauty and the Beast.

Which kind of brings me on to Nick.

 

Intelligent, kind, suave, handsome, humorous, athletic, a born leader – but that’s enough about your new Father-in-Law, let's focus on you, Nick.

Danielle’s early boyfriends were, let's diplomatically say, not great! The phrase ‘Scraping the Barrel’ springs to mind. My first impressions of Nick were no better: he arrived at our house wearing a Man United top in a clapped-out Fiat Punto which dripped oil onto my drive, and the car itself was like a mobile recycling centre, full of litter, plastic bottles, and McDonald’s packaging. Shocking!

 

However, in hindsight, I have to hand it to Nick, it was a great strategy, as there was only one direction things could go from that point on – upward! So after this introduction, like any wary respectable father, I did conduct thorough Police and Financial background checks on him.

 

I learnt from Leigh CID as a young boy he would often bang on neighbours doors and disappear without trace before they had a chance to answer – no surprise he ended up working with a parcel delivery company then.

 

From his Purchasing history, I noted he bought a succession of goldfish, which he named Eric Cantona, apparently after a French Kung Fu expert. When choosing the gold fish, the pet shop owner asked Nick if he wanted an aquarium – Nick said he didn’t mind what star sign the fish was!

 

But I did warm to Nick when my credit file search revealed he was employed on a good salary and commission-based bonus at the Carphone Warehouse; now I immediately saw him as an ally, someone who could help subsidise me in keeping Danielle in the extravagant lifestyle she was now accustomed to.

He could now handle all the requests for mobile phone top ups and daily clothing orders from the likes of New Look, Top Shop, Dorothy Perkins, etc. That’s when I realised he was the one!

 

So their relationship blossomed, and they made home together, and went onto have two wonderful children. Anyway, when Nick eventually decided to make an honest woman of Danielle, he asked me in the traditional manner if he could have my daughters hand in marriage. It was a really classy thing to do Nick, and I didn’t expect that of you. But it did take 10 years though, 10 years! Talk about Fergy time.

 

On balance, however, I do have praise for Nick here, about a page and a half, about what a super, cool guy he is, and what great deeds he has done but sorry Nick, I can’t read your writing! Now if you’d have married Danielle ten years ago before I needed bi-focals, or printed it at 24 font, I may have managed.

 

However, seriously, I know Nick is a good solid man, who has already impressed us with his thoughtfulness and unshakable love for our daughter and grandchildren. And what more could a parent want for their child?

 

So Nick, Welcome to the family. You are joining a large, loving, and loyal family. I’m not losing a daughter, because I can’t ever give her away, you know that, but instead, I’m gaining a strapping son-in-law who will clean my car and cut my grass when I get older.

 

I’m a very lucky man, I know. I have been married to my soulmate Helen for 30 years now, and for that, I’m very grateful. As we were preparing for today’s wedding, I did see her reading intently our marriage certificate.

 

I thought, how romantic, how loyal, how touching, so I put my arms around her and asked what she felt about it. “Is there an expiry date on this certificate?”, she asked. But in all seriousness I hope that Danielle and Nick have an equally long and rewarding marriage.

 

Also Bridesmaid, second daughter and Mum-to-be Melissa & current boyfriend Tom who are just about to move into their love nest in Lowton.

Likewise, congratulations are also in order for Bridesmaid and youngest Daughter Gabrielle and her boyfriend Mark who have now been together 5 years.

Nothing to report on Joe, I’m afraid !

 

Good luck to you all. You know you are precious to us, and we will always be around to love and support you.

Apparently, Its traditional for the FOB to give constructive marital advice. So based on my experience here goes...

 

To you both it is worth bearing in mind, neither of you will ever be perfect, but you can be a perfect match for each other. A successful marriage is not about finding a person you can live with, but finding a person that you can’t live without and I know that you’ve found that with each other. Be good communicators, good listeners, and be kind and tolerant.

 

A minute spent feeling sad or angry is a minutes of happiness lost forever. I wouldn’t change a thing about our lives, but it would be nice to have the chance to do these 30 years over and over again.

So, Ladies and Gentlemen I’d like to ask you to please stand and raise a glass and join me in a toast to our two VIP’s, my beautiful daughter Danielle and my son in law Nick.

May your lives be entwined like the strong leaves of ivy on a high castle tower. May your joy never end like the circles of your wedding rings. To the Bride and Groom. God Bless You!

 

Now, let us see how you can use this hilarious speech template to make the best speech of the night.

 

If you read through the piece carefully, you will notice that there are three main parts of this toast: introduction, body, and conclusion.

First, let’s look at what goes into writing a memorable introduction. Before we begin, let’s look at snippets of it to guide us along the way.

'' Ladies and Gentlemen, Boys and Girls.

On behalf of both families, I would like to warmly welcome each and every one of you here today on this wonderful occasion, be your relatives, friends, neighbours, colleagues or godparents. You have all played some part in positively enriching the lives of Danielle, … Helena’s Mum, doting Nana Audrey would have dearly wished to witness the wedding of her first granddaughter Danielle….''

 

The opening remarks serve dual purposes: to thank the wedding guests for coming, and to get the attention of the audience right from the start of your presentation.

 

As you can see from the excerpt above, the writer began by greeting everyone and thanking them for coming.

 

Action Tip: Write down the names of people you really want to thank for their help and support for your daughter over the years. It could be her mom or your wife, her siblings, grandparents, teachers, neighbors, etc.

 

Well, this father of the bride didn’t tell us who he was. Although you are going to introduced by the wedding emcee, it still makes a lot of sense to tell the relationship you have with her.

 

For example, if you are her real father or her stepfather, you may let the guests know about that.

After you have said that, you should dive right into what you have to say because if you do it so well everyone will listen to the entire speech. There are several ways of starting with a bang and I am happy to share with you a few time-tested tips that can bring the house down.

 

Here they are:

• If your daughter is getting married to a guy from a foreign country, you can learn how to greet the audience or even express words of gratitude in English and in your son-in-law’s dialect and you will get some good laughs out of that.

• You may start by saying: ''I promise that this is going to be the shortest and funniest father of the bride speech you have ever or read’’ and then you roll down a very long sheet of paper and jokingly add this: ''Seriously, did you believe me when I said that?  Remember, her mom and I have raised her for 28 years now and you shouldn’t expect anything less than that. You are even luckier to have gotten these few pages considering how long she’s been under our roof…I just didn’t have the budget for a short movie…I was actually considering making a movie about her life! ''

 

• Funny father of the bride speech toast one-liners or jokes can help you put one foot in the door :

 

Here’s a funny quote by Elizabeth Stone: ''Making the decision to have a child is momentous. It is to decide forever to have your heart go walking around outside your body."

 

Now, let me show you how to use that funny quote to make a short funny father speech about your daughter.

 

A wise woman once said that making a decision to have a daughter is momentous. It is to decide forever to have your heart go walking around outside your body. Well, I didn’t know that until Danielle was born.

 

If you are planning to use idea #3, then you have to make sure the anecdote you will share has a connection with the strength of a woman’s heart or an event that demonstrated how tough she is.

• You may start with a good joke. Inside jokes may help to an extent but bear in mind that not everyone will get it. You may make fun of the bride, the groom, the best man, and others. But make sure you don’t embarrass them in the end.

• A lot of fathers have very horrible singing voices like toads croaking in water in the dead of the night. And so, they don’t usually sing their intros. But if you can, your introduction will go down as the best speech ever father of the bride speech. Here’s an example:

 

 

• You can also come to upstage in funny clothes or with props and ribs will crack.

• You may share a funny story about how you felt when she was born as seen in the example above…I am sure that will be so easy to do.

 

It’s now over to you….which of those tips or ideas do you think will work best for you?

 

Now, let’s see how we can create the outline or structure for the body of your presentation.

Once again, here’s a brief example to give us a perfect idea of what to write.

''As she grew from a sweet child into a typical teenager, she scraped through school and college, she amazed me when she said she was going to Liverpool University to study Contract Law to become a Buyer for a Nuclear Engineering Company. I guess I should have been proud, but was actually shocked, astounded. I had of course…Naturally as her parents we were horrified, and went to her to see what was going on – turns out Nick was asking her to cook, wash, wipe, tidy…!  ''

 

If you look at this piece carefully, it segues right into her teenage years from her childhood years. This aspect of your daughter’s story is not too difficult to write because it’s usually an account of how life has been like for both of you as she grew up into a young lady.

 

So, this is what I want you to do now. Grab your journal or diary and your pen and put down answers right next to the following questions.

• What was her life like when she was growing up?
• What was her attitude like when she was a teenager?
• Do you have any accomplishments you want to share?
• Do you recall any trips or vacations or anything you were involved in that you wish to add to your speech?
• Do you have any fun and fond memories you want to add to your toast?

 

Since a funny father of the bride speech toast is what you are aiming at, you have to do a little more brainstorming and come up with hilarious anecdotes (one or two stories) to each of the above queries. Then, use them to construct a rough draft, which you can later go back to spruce up.

Having said that, let’s look closely at…

How You Can Write A Memorable Ending To Your Funny Speech For Your Daughter And Son-In-Law

In our example, we saw how the writer gave a piece of well-worn parting advice to the couple.

''Apparently Its traditional for the FOB to give constructive marital advice. So based on my experience here goes. A successful marriage is not about finding a person you can live with, but finding a person that you can’t live without and I know that you’ve found that with each other. Be good communicators, good listeners, and be kind and tolerant. ''

 

That’s a fail-proof of wrapping up. But there are several other ways as well.

For example, if you know of a funny marriage quote like the ones below you can use them.

''When a man opens a car door for his wife, it’s either a new car or a new wife''-Prince Phillip

''What’s the best way to get your husband to remember your anniversary? Get married on his birthday.''- Cindy Garner

''Marriage is like vitamins: we supplement each other’s minimum daily requirements''- Kathy Mohnke

''The best way to get most husbands to do something is to suggest that perhaps they’re too old to do it''- Ann Bancroft

''Marriage is an alliance entered into by a man who can't sleep with the window shut, and a woman who can't sleep with the window open''- George Bernard Shaw

 

Your speech shouldn’t be funny from the start to the end, so you may close with a bible verse if you a deeply religious person or a Christian. You may use either of these:

''There is no fear in love, but perfect love casts out fear. For fear has to do with punishment, and whoever fears has not been perfected in love.'' - 1 John 4:18

''Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails.'' - 1 Corinthians 13:4-8

 

Additionally, you can compare how they both look like to inspire laughter.

For example, you can say that the couple is a lot like Tom and Jerry.

That can become: 

I really love the fact that Amanda and Dan is like Tom and Jerry. Their differences are very obvious but I admire how they seem to be on the same page when they are bent on accomplishing a plan and I am sure that will take them very far on the marriage journey.

P.S---

As the father of the bride, everyone will be counting on you to you come up with an incredibly great speech that will make your daughter and family proud of you.

And you can't afford to let her down. That's why I have great news for you today. By getting onboard our speech program, you can give the best speech of the day with poise and confidence without lifting your finger.

 

Here’s what one nervous and skeptical dad called Glen(joined the program) sent over after the wedding was over

''Hey Dan, I just wanted to thank you once again for the speech you wrote with me. My goal was met afterward, I was told by many "what a beautiful speech" and received a standing ovation. I couldn't have done this without you. God Bless Dan!-'' Glen, U.S.A

Want to know how he did just that? He got on board our wedding speech program and one of our talented speech consultants helped him out.

 

Want to get on board? You should by first filling out this short and simple form.

This is letter a dad sent us after we helped him deliver his speech(Please click on it to enlarge if you can't see it)

Ok, Is This Offer For Me?

• Yes, if you are expecting nothing less than a very special, beautiful, unique and memorable speech.

• Yes, if you are overwhelmed by the pressures of work and don’t have the time to put together a very meaningful speech, so you can have your peace of mind

• Yes, if you want your family, children, friends and wedding guests to shower you with very sincere compliments…just imagine how you will feel

• Yes, if you are not good with words and you feel you’re not a natural writer and you are struggling to find the right words but still want to give a great speech.

• Yes, you get so scared anytime you’re asked to say something before an audience and you really want to save yourself from any form of embarrassment on your daughter’s big day.

• Yes, if you are not too eloquent or not too sure if you are on the right track.

• Yes, if you absolutely hate speaking in public or feel this is not your thing but you want to make your daughter feel very proud

• Yes, if you have a day or less to the wedding and you are worried that you might make some horrible mistakes

• Yes, if you are a good speaker but you still want someone to look over or review what you've come up with!

Wedding not too far away? Or happening in less than 24 hours? Trust me, we can deliver! it doesn’t matter if your speech is today, tomorrow, next week, next month ,next year,... we can make things work for you 

Just imagine leaving your entire presentation in the hands of skilled wedding speech consultants who will take away your pain of spending hours thinking hard and long about what to say and what not to say.

This is another letter a dad sent to us when the wedding was over. (Please click on it to enlarge if you can't see it) 

Also, envision being patiently guided to say something that will leave a favorable impression on the mind of your listeners.

And also imagine the thrill and feeling of excitement and pride you’re going to experience when the audience leap onto their feet and scream and shouts and even sing your praises.

Won’t you love that? I hope you do...

Ok, I am Interested, What’s the Cost?

You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.

Why? As you know, the current health and economic crisis has caused severe hardships for most people.

Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.

Yet, some daughters are still getting married and asking their fathers to give speeches.

Nonetheless, not every father could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.

So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.

Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.

So, please take advantage of it now even if your daughter’s big day is in the future.

Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video and your daughter and son-in-law and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.  

So, please take advantage of it now even if your daughter’s big day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.   

Oh Ok, How Then Do I Get Started Since I Want To Get On Board Right Away?

Ok, here’s how it works

All you have to do RIGHT NOW is to click on this link to receive an easy-to-fill-in questionnaire via email. Check your email a few hours after you’ve submitted your request for your questionnaire.

So,

1)CLICK HERE  NOW TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT THIS QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind!

2. After that, we will send you a very short questionnaire to fill out via email! You only have to check your email a few hours after you have made your request

3. Then, you fill out the questionnaire sent through your email, and please have it sent back to us…

4. We will confirm receipt of it…If something is not too clear, we will ask you to clarify….

5. If not, we will send you a wonderful draft in a couple of hours if this on very short notice….If not, after a few days

6. Then, you look it over and tell us if you are okay with it or you want to amend or revise it till you are happy with it--although we always get it right even with the first draft.
7. Then, we ask you to pay for it.

Please note: The information collected through the questionnaire is only for the purpose of writing your speech. I wouldn’t even need it if I could read your mind. So, your information is very confidential and no one will know about it.

Just a reminder of what you pay after it’s duly completed. You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.

Why? As you know, the current health and economic crisis has caused severe hardships for most people.

Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.

Yet, some daughters are still getting married and asking their fathers to give speeches.

Nonetheless, not every father could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.

So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.

Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.

So, please take advantage of it now even if your daughter’s big day is in the future.

Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video and your daughter and son-in-law and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.  

So, please take advantage of it now even if your daughter’s big day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.  

Please note: Your speech draft comes with a proven and simple tip to master your speech or remember your speech just as you want it without carrying a paper with you.

Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise and clarity!

''Hi Dan,

The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice).  Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.

All the best,

Matt''

Please note: Don’t fill out this form if you’re a dishonest individual. This offer is for a limited time.

So, CLICK HERE TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT A QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind and not lose money. The risk is on us!

You don't have to worry about paying our per speech for now.

Forget about money and let’s write something for you. We believe in the values of honesty and integrity and we think you should be happy with our work first.

So, Here Are The Benefits You Get When You Get On Board!

• A great speech written by our wedding speech consultants that reflects what you want to say exactly

• We coach you on how to use your voice to make your speech very exciting.

• We show you a simple but often overlook strategy to rehearse your speech even if you have a very poor memory. This method is used by great speakers like Obama and was used by Abraham Lincoln and his compatriots

• The most effective way to get your entire speech into your head without memorizing your speech. Guaranteed to help you even if you have a very poor memory or your memory is like a gold fish…most of our clients still wonder where we got this idea from. This ensures that you don't read off a sheet of paper...

Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise and clarity!

''Hi Dan,

The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice).  Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.

All the best,

Matt''

• Ways to include humor in your speech and what it takes to do so

So, CLICK HERE TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT A QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind and not lose money. The risk is on us!

Remember, you have to see your speech first before you pay. So, you can relax and let us sweat it out at our expense!

''The wedding was GREAT. There were about 120 guests. About 15 people came up to me afterward and told me I gave a great speech. I had to tweak it little because of my tardiness getting it to you but, it all turned out great. Thanks for all your help. I really appreciate it''- Phil Australia