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Eulogy For Mom By Son Or Daughter: What To Say

 

If you have lost your beloved mom and are looking for tips and ideas to help you write a heartfelt eulogy for your deceased mother, then you are at right place at the right time.

 

Just bear with me for just a little while and I will share with you…

 

Losing a mom really hurts no matter how long she has lived on this terrible planet because a mom’s love is undeniably the most potent force in the entire universe.

 

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When a mom dies, it feels like her son’s or daughter’s world has come to a screeching halt as her death causes hearts to break into a million little pieces.

 

When your heart is broken into a million pieces and it can be very hard for you to write a great eulogy for your loving mom.

 

Before we look at how to start a eulogy your mom, let me take a moment to express my condolences on the passing of your dear mom.

 

I can’t just imagine what you’re going through at this very moment in your life.

I am sure your mom was your life’s greatest blessing and I know for sure losing such a precious woman is like losing your own soul.

 

Your mom is unique in her own right and no one can take her place. May you draw strength and comfort from the priceless memories you made and the legacy of love and compassion she left behind.

 

At this sad moment, inspiring music should be your abiding compassion as it can uplift your spirit and bring a smile to your face. The tune below can help you feel a lot better.

 

 

 

Once again, I am very sorry for your loss. If you need someone to talk, then don’t hesitate to send me a note here and I will get back to you.

 

How To Write A Great Eulogy For Mom

 

Now, let’s look at how you can write a great eulogy that honors your mom.

I like to compare writing a eulogy speech to ascending a flight of stairs to the top of an apartment.

You need to take one step at a time to get to your destination.  That’s not how many writers see it, unfortunately. They dive right in without first figuring out the steps to get it done.

 

Grieving someone like a mom is already a difficult thing, so you need to simplify things so you are not stressed out.

 

To make the writing process a breeze, you need to go through these steps:

  • Jot down your goals for mom’s eulogy
  • Decide if you want a long or short tribute
  • Find out how to get content ideas for your message
  • Study eulogy for mom speech examples
  • Take inspiration from the examples to write your tribute for your late mom

Can we go through them together? Ok, let’s get started.

 

The first on the list is:

Write Down Your Goals For Mom’s Eulogy

I always find it shocking when folks pour out their thoughts on paper without actually figuring what they want to accomplish with their tributes.

 

Having written goals will provide you with a sense of direction and also help express yourself eloquently.

So, grab a pen and pen ask yourself these simple questions?

  • What aspect of mom’s life should I highlight?
  • Should I make my eulogy very inspiring or touching or even funny? For example, if your mom had a great sense of humor, you may write a funny eulogy for her. Again, if mom was a Christian, then you can make it a Christian eulogy for mom.
  • Who am I? And what am I known for? For example if you have a special ability to tell stories? Am I fun to be around?

 

It’s best to weave in bits and pieces of your own personality into your speech even though the mourners are not there because of you.

 

Just imagine how powerful your tribute would be if your good singing voice helps you end mom’s tribute with a song she loved to sing.

 

Also, consider how impactful your words would be if you are a poem guy and are able to somewhat add a very beautiful poem to your script.

 

This comes next:

What Should Be The Length Of My Eulogy?

 

Most people are overly obsessed with what the ideal length of such speeches should be.

 

But, I think this obsession is needless. Here’s why: I have read long and short tributes before and what makes them super memorable were the stories behind them and how they are delivered.

 

As a professional eulogy speech writer, I have written both long and short eulogies for moms and I can tell you that not of that really matters.

 

Your ability to properly honor your deceased mom with the right words and stories in a way that brings comfort to her family and friends should always be given due prominence.

 

Nonetheless, a few factors might influence how long or short mom’s eulogy goes.

 

Here they are:

 

  • You should keep it short if lots of people want to eulogize your mom.
  • Your own family may ask you to keep it brief and concise and you have to respect their wishes.

 

When there are no such restrictions, you can do something long or short. Just make sure it’s not like a cross country road trip. 

 

How to write eulogy tribute for mom

 

Let’s get to another thing:

Find Out How To Get Content Ideas For Your Mom’s Eulogy

 

I know when given the chance, you can talk about your mom for hours on end without blinking your eye.

But with a eulogy, you have to drill down and come up with really good stories your siblings and the entire family can relate to. 

 

When piecing your story, the stories you choose shouldn’t be centered about your relationship with her alone.

 

Make it very inclusive by adding in memories she made with her whole family if you are the sole speaker at her funeral or memorial service.

 

If that’s not the case, however, you have to ask your siblings to share their favorite anecdotes with you.

You can also follow these steps to come up with right stories if you are not blessed with a magnetic memory.

 

Step #1: Flip through her photo album and write down what each photo represents or brings back to mind.

Step # 2: Talk to your uncles and aunts and ask them to share beautiful stories about her life and they would be happy to share their thoughts with you.

Step #3: Have you prepared mom’s memorial slideshow yet? Watch it, back to back if possible and see if it brings back really fond memories you can add to your mom’s tribute speech.

Step#4: Was she active on social media? If so, head over to her profile pages and look for photos and videos and read the comments below them for what others thought about her and possibly add the warm comments to your presentation.

Step# 5: Did mom love to keep journals or jot down stuff every now and then?  If so, why not leaf through them and share her personal insights and experiences with the mourners.

 

By doing so, you can really honor the memory of your mother in a way that will inspire others to strive for the best in their personal lives.

 

Step# 6: Talk to dad or her husband if he’s still alive and well. He would regale you with beautiful stories about your mom and their relationship. As they say, good memories come straight from the horses own mouth.

 

That being said, this comes next:

Start by studying….

 

Eulogy For Mother Examples/Templates

 

Where can you find some really good ones? Online! I know you would be happy to see one. But, here’s a fair warning: Don’t copy any example you will ever find; even if it’s coming from me.

 

The reason being that lots of people will also be reading those examples and you don’t want to come across as that lazy bum who just copy ideas and phrases off the internet!

 

Well, I am going to share with you an example I wrote a while back. Afterwards, we will break it down bit by bit so you can figure out how to write one even if you have never written a eulogy your whole lifetime.

 

This is it…

 

Short Eulogy Example For Deceased Mother

 

Good Afternoon. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for coming from far and near as we mourn the passing of a great person who was not only my beloved mom but also the best friend of so many people in this room who are united in grief and love for an amazing woman whose true measure and value goes beyond words.

 

My mother, Mary Helen, did two things religiously, every day – She prayed and she helped people. Every single day; it was her calling, her purpose, and mission on earth.

 

Looking around this room, I can see many people who were recipients of her kindness; I see many eyes flooded with sadness at her loss and gratitude that she had been here. That’s because she helped so many of us here and many of us who are not.

 

If it weren’t for her body letting her down - when her soul was still so young and vibrant, determined and adventurous - she would still be here today, seeking out people who needed her assistance and giving her all to whoever she could help.

 

I was her only son and after I was born, along with me, she committed her time to helping other children. She fostered more than one-hundred-and-fifty children and teens in the Chicago area over the course of seventeen years.

 

There will be a lot of young people out there who would remember her with such fondness and love – for some it would have been a short space of a day where they were blessed with her as a safe haven during a transitional period, but for others, she was a solid and supportive part of their lives for five years.

 

My mother was used to being around a lot of children; she was one of seven siblings; sister to Alice, Josephine, Stella, Cesar, Carolyn, Lisa and Martha. One might suppose that was how she felt most comfortable – in a communal group; sharing and helping one another.

 

She was born in Sahuayo, Michoacan, Mexico and immigrated to the United States with her family at the age of 14, moving to Chicago in 1954. She served as a Nun for five years, as a Maryknoll Sister of St. Dominic in New York.

 

Due to a family tragedy, she had to leave, but then with a fundamental basis of caring and teaching others, she found her own way to a path that enlightened others and fulfilled her calling.

 

My mother was hungry for knowledge, travel, new experiences – she lived every moment of her life with such enthusiasm and vivacity.

 

She taught Confraternity of Christian Doctrine in the State of Illinois in schools and colleges and at the age of sixty, she completed her Master’s in Education at the Loyola University in Chicago.

 

As well as education and knowledge, she loved to try new food; she would eat sushi, octopus, squid and travelled to more than twenty-five different countries in her life, always eager to try their new delicacies.

 

She didn’t shy away from change. Each new experience was a new opportunity to learn something and make her life much better. She encouraged me always to try hard and learn more.

 

She lived by example; working several jobs while I was young, to ensure I never wanted for anything and she set such a work ethic in me so that during times in my life where I have had to deliver pizza and wash dishes to make ends meet, I did it because I knew she would have done it to help me.

 

My mother certainly used any opportunity she could to travel to a new country – when I was twenty and serving in the U.S Air Force, I was stationed in the United Kingdom and my Mother wanted to join me for my first legal drink. 

 

She flew to England for two weeks to make sure she could be there for the occasion. During her trip, we watched all the James Bond movies together and – as a result – my first legal drink ended up being a Martini, shaken not stirred. I hated it. Though I’m pretty sure that wouldn’t have impacted her love of that trip

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People would laugh with Mary – mostly owing to the fact that she just made people smile. But additionally because she would often mix her Mexican Spanish words with her American words and they would sound so funny; luckily she was always happy to laugh at herself too.

 

She had an energy about her and was the soul of any party. She would walk into a room of one-hundred strangers and would leave with ninety-nine new friends. She would always say ‘You can’t be perfect, but you can try.’

 

My mother was entirely committed to her faith; the Roman Catholic Church and the service of others. She found joy and depth in praying – she would pray every day with her rosary because; whilst she recognised that we could commit our kindness and energy selflessly here one earth, she also trusted that there was a higher power capable of doing things we cannot.

 

She prayed for those she helped and gave so much of herself to her community. And I am hopeful that she’s now being rewarded by her maker for loving her neighbor as herself.

 

We were all so privileged to have had her in our lives; I feel so lucky to have been loved by her and I acknowledge that the frustration she felt with being stuck in a body that needed dialysis was not the way she chose to live – being stuck herself, she wasn’t free to help others and live her purpose. Now she is free – no longer constrained within her body, but in the loving energy we feel when we think of her.

 

Thank you to everybody who has attended today to pay your respects to my wonderful mother, Mary Helen, who I love and will miss forever and forever.

 

That is quite sentimental. Well, it’s not so hard to write something like that as you might imagine it to be.

 

To do that, you can start by spliting up the example above into three parts to make things a lot simpler. The three parts include:

  • The introduction
  • The body
  • The conclusion

 

The introduction sets the stage for your tribute and it has two main parts:

  • The opening remarks
  • The hook

 

The opening remarks comprise the following:

  • Greeetings: An example is:

Good morning. I am also grateful that this room is filled with so many people that knew and cared for my mom.

 

  • Thank you notes. Here you can thank the following personalities.
  1. Your dad for loving her until the end
  2. The medical staff for their help and support
  3. Your siblings for their love and support
  4. Your extended family

 

Question: Can you write down names of people you wish to express gratitude to? This basic writing exercise can put you in the mood for the right expression of your ideas.

 

The hook follows the introduction. It is that part of the intro that captures the attention of the mourners from the get go. 

 

Here are some practical ways of doing just that.

  • Start off by sharing how you feel on such a sad day. Here’s an example:

I’ve struggled to understand and accept this situation. Losing your mom is a deeply painful experience. It comes with a hurricane of emotions, processing, and reflection.  My mind wants to reject it all. But this is the reality. My mom is no longer with us in this world.

 

  • Share a little memory about your mom.
  • You can start with a poem about the loss of a mom if you wish to convey how you have been impacted by her loss.

 

The body follows the introduction. Now, let’s look at this:

 

How To Write The Content Of Body Of Your Mom’s Eulogy

The body is actually the outline of your entire presentation. To write the body of your eulogy, you should center your ideas on these themes:

  • Who was your mom?
  • What was her impact on your family and those she came into contact with?
  • What made her a very wonderful mom?
  • What was one striking thing about her personality?

 

This is what you can do with those questions. Write down your answers and try to use them to create a rough first draft.

Now, let’s look at the conclusion.

 

How to end eulogy for mom

 

How To End A Eulogy For Mom

 

What you say as you wrap up is as important as how you start. Hence, you need to end well because most people will remember what you say at the tail end of it.

 

Below are a few tips to help you end your tribute for mom on a resounding note.

  • You can conclude by wiping off your own tears no matter how hurt you are. That, in itself can be very therapeutic.
  • You can end by thanking everyone for coming out to mom’s celebration of life.
  • You can honor mom’s memory by sharing her favorite verse or poem or how she ended a long talk.

 


Eulogy For Mother(Mom)...Now, Let The Pros Help You With Your Eulogy Speech So You Can Relax And Have Your Peace of Mind

 

Dear Loving  Son Or Daughter,

I am Renee

Let’s face it…Life can sometimes be so unfair...After losing several members of my family within a few years, I lost my mom too. We were more than best friends. 

She was my world and everything to me. With her departure, life became hard and I wondered how my life was going to be like without her by my side.

I began to grieve for months until I realized that her funeral service was around the corner. It was then that I began to panic because I had to deliver a tribute and I didn't know what to say. Let alone begin one.

Looking for help everwhere, I frantically landed on this page you are currently reading and it made all the difference. 

This Helped Me Out!

Initially, I was skeptical when Dan and his team said they could help give a great speech even if I hated speaking in public or short on time.

Well, I remember the old age nothing ventured, nothing gained. So, I took a leap of faith when I found that I didn’t have to pay first to get my speech and that allayed my fears. I thought I had nothing to lose after all.

Quickly, I got started by first filling out this form. Dan and his team delivered as promised. 

Below is the note I sent to Dan after he'd transmitted my speech. (Please you can double click on the image if you can't see it clearly)

Eulogy for my motherAt the funeral service, I delivered my tribute with so much ease people said that they never knew I was so gifted.  

 

Let’s face it…Putting together your thoughts and emotions into a very beautiful tribute without letting the tears flow isn’t an easy thing and I experienced that recently when I wrote a eulogy for someone who was very dear to my heart.

 

I really feel sorry for you at this very painful time and I think you shouldn’t struggle to come up with a very beautiful tribute your family, brothers, and sisters, and loved ones will never, ever forget.

 

Granted, writing a unique, memorable, and inspiring eulogy for your mom is not an easy thing at all at this painful time even if you’re a very gifted writer.

 

I want to take his very heavy burden off your shoulder by helping you come up with a funny, inspiring, and memorable eulogy that truly captures your mom’s life.

 

Just imagine how great it would feel when you give your speech with such ease and grace and your family comes to hug and compliment you on a great job done.

 

Yes, that can be possible when you let me help you out.

 

Want to get on board? Of course, you should by first filling out this simple form

Funeral not too far away? Or happening in less than 24 hours? Trust me, we can deliver! it doesn’t matter if your speech is today or  tomorrow we can make things work for you  

Here's a letter an old client sent to us after the service.

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Ok, Is This Offer For Me?

  • Yes, if you want to feel a great sense of warmth and relief without the pressure and stress of coming up with something at this incredibly difficult time of your life.

 

  • Yes, if you’re simply overwhelmed with grief… and you have less than 24 hours to the funeral and have suddenly realized that you don’t have written anything about your mom

 

 

  • Yes, if your dad died under circumstances like suicide, drug abuse, murder, etc...didn’t do anything with his life and you really can’t seem to put pen to paper because of the emotions involved.

 

 

  • Yes, if you are expecting nothing less than a very special, beautiful, unique and a memorable eulogy speech that will bless, praise and honor the memory of your precious mom

 

  • Yes, if you want to take off the heavy burden of expectation off your shoulders so you can give a meaningful, uplifting and heartwarming speech that will warm hearts and bring your mom’s admirable personality alive

 

 

  • Yes, if you don’t have much time to write a perfect speech because of the stress of preparing so many things for your mom’s funeral arrangement so you can have your peace of mind

 

  • Yes, if you’re overwhelmed with work demands and other pressures of life.

 

Then, let’s take care of it and the guests will definitely sing your praises.

 

 

 

  • Yes, if you want your family, to shower you with very sincere compliments…just imagine how you will feel…

 

  • Yes, if you are not good with words and you feel you’re not a natural writer and you are struggling to find the right words but still want to give a great eulogy speech for your mom

 

  • Yes, if you get so scared anytime you’re asked to say something before an audience and you really want to save yourself from any form of embarrassment at your mom’s funeral…Remember, you can’t wing it

 

  • Yes, if you are not too eloquent or not too sure if you are on the right track and take out the guesswork…Remember, what you say will speak volumes about your love for your mom

 

  • Yes, if you absolutely hate speaking in public or feel this is not your thing but you want to make your mom feel so proud of you

 

  • Yes, if you have less than 24 hours to the funeral and you are really stressed out and scared you  might make some horrible mistakes

 

  • Yes, if you are a good speaker but you still want someone to look over or review what you've come up with!

Here's a letter another old client sent to us after the service.

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Just imagine leaving your entire presentation in the hands of skilled speech consultants who will take away your pain of spending hours thinking hard and long about what to say and what not to say.


Also, envision being patiently guided to say something your family and mourners will never ever forget


And also imagine the peace of mind you will have when you relax and sleep well knowing full well that you have someone to hold your back so you can make your mom feel so proud


Won’t you love that? I hope you will...

 

Funeral not too far away? Or happening in less than 24 hours? Trust me, we can deliver! it doesn’t matter if your speech is today or  tomorrow we can make things work for you

 

Here's a letter another old client sent to us after the service.

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Ok, I am Interested, What’s the Cost?

You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.

Why? As you know, the current health crisis has caused severe hardships for most people.

Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.

Yet, a very loving child like you has to speak at the burial service. 

Nonetheless, not everyone could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.

So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.

Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.

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Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video and your family and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.  

So, please take advantage of it now by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.  

Oh Ok, How Then Do I Get Started Since I Want To Get On Board Right Away? Ok, here’s how it works

All you have to do RIGHT NOW is to click on this link to receive an easy-to-fill-in questionnaire via email. Then, please check your email a few hours after you’ve submitted your request.

So,

1) CLICK HERE NOW TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT THIS QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind!

  1. After that, we will send you a very short questionnaire to fill out via email! You only have to check your email just a few hours after you have made your request.
  1. Then, you fill out the questionnaire sent through your email and please have it sent back to us…
  1. We will confirm receipt of it…If something is not too clear, we will ask you to clarify….
  1. If not, we will send you a wonderful draft in a couple of hours
  1. Then, you look it over and tell us if you are okay with it or you want to amend or revise it till you are happy with it--although we always get it right even with the first draft.
  1. Then, we ask you to pay for it. It's as simple as that!

Please note: The information collected through the questionnaire is only for the purpose of writing your speech. I wouldn’t even need it if I could read your mind. So, your information is very confidential and no one will know about it.

 So,

1) CLICK HERE NOW TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT THIS QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind!

Just a reminder of what our offer entails 

You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.

Why? As you know, the current health crisis has caused severe hardships for most people.

Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.

Yet, a very loving child like you has to speak at the burial service. 

Nonetheless, not everyone could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.

So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.

Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.

So, please take advantage of it now.

Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video and your family and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.  

So, please take advantage of it now by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.  

Please note: Your speech draft comes with a proven and simple tip to master your speech or remember your speech just as you want it without carrying a paper with you.

 

Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise, and clarity!

 

''Hi Dan,

The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice).  Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.

All the best,

Matt''

Please note: Don’t fill out this form if you’re a dishonest individual.

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  • The most effective way to get your entire speech into your head without memorizing your speech so you can sound smart. Guaranteed to help you even if you have a very poor memory or your memory is like a gold fish…most of our clients still wonder where we got this idea from. This ensures that you don't read off a sheet of paper...

 

Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise, and clarity!

''Hi Dan,

The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice).  Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.

All the best,

Matt''

  • Ways to include humor in your speech and what it takes to do so

So, CLICK HERE TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT A QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind and not lose money. The risk is on us!

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Eulogy For Mother: Here Are Proven Tips And Ideas You Can Easily Use To Write A Touching Eulogy For Your Mother

 

Have you lost your mom recently? And you are looking for ideas to help you write an inspiring eulogy for your mother through the years?

Just stick with me for a little while and I will share with you everything you need to know about writing a eulogy that will praise, bless, and honor the memory of your mom.

 

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Growing up with a mom is a blessing and having a very caring mom can make all the difference in your life. 

 

This heart-melting quote says it all.

''A Mother’s love is something that no one can explain, It is made of deep devotion
and of sacrifice and pain…It is endless and unselfish  and enduring what may come

 

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For nothing can destroy it or take that love away . . . It is patient and forgiving
when all others are forsaking, And it never fails or falters even though the heart is breaking . . .

 

It believes beyond believing when the world around condemns, And it glows with all the beauty of the rarest, brightest gems . . .

 

It is far beyond defining, it defies all explanation, And it still remains a secret like the mysteries of creation . . .

A many splendored miracle men cannot understand and another wondrous evidence of God’s tender guiding hand'' - Helen Steiner Rice

 

Considering the profound impact of a mom’s love, I have come to the conclusion that losing a mom can be heartbreaking no matter how old you are. 

 

I know for sure that losing a mom is one of the deepest sorrows the human heart can ever experience. Let me use this opportunity to express my condolences about the loss of your beloved mom.  

 

Please feel free to get in touch if you feel lonely and need someone to talk to. Once again, I am deeply sorry for your loss.

 

Before we get into the heart of it, let’s look at one thing that might prevent you from not doing so well and how you can take advantage of it to write the best ever eulogy for your mom.

 

Take Note Of This Or You Make It

 

Have you ever wondered why most people feel nervous prior to making speeches? It’s not due to fear or lack of proper preparation. Rather, memories of past speaking encounters are responsible for that.

 

You see, whenever you are asked to speak before an audience, your mind will bring back memories of your speaking failures and you will feel like you don’t have what it takes to perform well.

 

Guess what? You don’t have to listen to those little nudging voices in your head.

Here’s what you should do instead. Sit for a moment and envisage who your mom was, what she stood for, and the role she’s played in your life.

Keep this at the back of your mind, believe in yourself,  and keep focusing on those beautiful qualities of your mom and an unstoppable surge of energy will come to you even if you feel speaking in public is not your thing.

 

That being said, let’s consider how to get the right words for your mom’s eulogy.

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How To Get The Right Words For Your Mom’s Eulogy

 

To get the words for mom's eulogy, you first have to put yourself in the right frame of mind for the clever expression of your ideas. You can do this by watching short video clips to put yourself in the mood.

 

Being a eulogy speechwriter, this is what I often tell people to do and it will work for your good too.

 

Just go to your favorite video sharing platform and put it into the search boxes your preferred search term. My personal favorite is youtube.com (any other channel is fine).

 

So, when you get on that platform, please grab a pen and paper and use any of these keywords: a eulogy for mom, eulogy for mom from son or daughter, etc.

 

I really want your writing to be a breeze so I found these great video clips for you…Please take a few minutes to enjoy it.

 

Please see this video example if you are a son

 



If you're a daughter, please check out this video example.

 

 

 

That takes me to the next point: 

This Example Holds The Key To Writing A Great Eulogy

 

 

Wouldn’t it be great if you found a super cool resource that will help you come up with your funeral tribute speech in a short amount of time?

 

 

Most people don’t really consider this but eulogy samples have been proven time and again to help anyone put together something funny and heartfelt. But most sons and daughters don’t how to use this goldmine.

 

 

Don’t worry if you don’t because I am going to share with you a short example and then I will explain how to get the most of it.

 

Here you go:

 Short Eulogy Example For Mom

Thank you all -- for coming to commemorate my mother’s life.

 

Before I go on to celebrate my mother and what she stood for I must share with you the reality of what life was like for my mother and the family since she was first diagnosed with cancer in October.

 

Of course, nobody suffered more than my mother, but Dad you’re definitely second. We all shared my mother’s pain. It was like we were all on trial.

 

 

At any one point, as a family, we were in denial, we were angry, or we were depressed. And there was conflict. We disagreed with the doctor’s findings. We didn’t always agree with each other on a course of action. It was a confusing time.

 

In the end, I felt we all put up a good fight. We did what we could do.

 

I have to ask myself what my mother would want for us right now.

I think she’d want us to heal ourselves and move on. She’d want us to talk with our creator and deal with her death in our own way, but also put her death behind us and live a life that she would be proud of.

 

I would like to thank all of you for coming here today to help us, as a family, to heal, and to celebrate my mother’s life.

 

My mother was born to Albanie and Velma Bourque in a small French community called Scoudouc, just outside of Moncton, in 1937. Just to give you an example of what life was like back then, my mother didn’t live in a house with electricity until she was 15. Imagine that, if you will.

 

Imagine doing homework using a gas lantern. Despite this hardship, she did well in school.

 

In the early 50s, my grandfather had a tough choice to make. The government of New Brunswick said that they could get electricity, but only if they moved the house a mile from its current location.

 

So, he did. Things then started to pick up for my grandfather. He started to work for CN and could afford to send my mother to a business college. In true, Acadian French spirit, my mother excelled. She became the first French person to work at Eaton's in the accounting department.

 

This was a monumental achievement at the time. Today, in New Brunswick, you pretty much have to be bilingual to get a good job, but back then the English dominated the business and government world.

 

For a French person to be hired, they had to be top of their class. And my mother, as I understand it, was top of her class.

 

Before she started working at Eaton's, however, she went into Moncton to visit her cousin, and they went to a dance. The “Bunk House Boys” were playing. My dad must have been starstruck by her. Despite being a relatively shy young man around women, he got up the courage to ask my mother to dance. The song was “The Tennessee Waltz”.

A love was born.

 

My dad feared that once she went to work at Eaton's, that she would soon meet other men and that would be the end of it.

 

To make matters worse, my father was shipped overseas by the military for two years and their only means of communication was by mail.

 

Their love for each other endured this absence, however, and my father and mother were married two years later when he returned to Canada.

 

Dad also shared something with me last week that I never knew. My grandparents always had boarders to help pay the bills.

 

One of these boarders was a musician and taught my mother how to play the guitar and harmonica – at the same time – just like Bob Dylan does. I would have loved to have seen that.

 

I love to remember my mother when she was full of life, and taking risks. In the 60’s, of course, one of those risks was wearing a mini-dress.

 

 I remember my mother getting the McCall’s pattern, and putting together that dress. She looked great. While I wouldn’t have wished the 60’s on any parent, my mom and dad made it through safely. It was around this time, that I remember hearing rock and roll records playing downstairs.

 

It was around this time that I remember my mother and father starting to go out regularly.

 

While they didn’t have a great deal of money, they seemed to have this intuitive sense that they needed to work at keeping their love alive, even while they had three kids. As a child, it was great for me to see my parents dating.

 

Like many mothers, my mother took special pride in giving us kids all she could at Christmas time. One of the things that I thought was unique to the Lannigan household, was our Christmas stockings.

 

While other kids may have had those wimpy stockings, maybe this high, or even this high, my mother would hang her nylon stockings for us. As a kid, I thought this was great. When I woke up Christmas morning, Santa Claus had filled it to the brim with goodies. Far more than any other kid got.

 

Another time my mother made herself stick out from the crowd was at one of Gerry’s hockey games. The most popular coach in Moncton, at the time, was Father Mike.

 

It seemed that some God-given divinity that allowed him to develop a winning team most every year. One year, when Gerry played for Father Mikes team, the final game was tied and went into overtime. There was a slapshot from the point and Gerry tipped it in for the winning goal. The crowd cheered.

 

The players all ganged up on top of Gerry in celebration. But wait. Who was this 98lb woman jumping over the boards to land on the pile. It was my mother!

 

…Dad, I can’t know what it’s like to lose someone you love that much. These days, however, all I know is that I feel she is watching over me.

 

When I’m at work and there is some V.P. trying to lure me into something I don’t believe in, I hear Mom telling me to be true to my own character and values. And thus, my mother will live on within me, and through me, for the rest of my life.

 

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I’d like to leave you all with this quote, by Helen Keller. She said, “The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched. They must be felt with the heart”

 

IF, by the end of her life, my mother ended up touching all of your hearts ----then I ask you, what else can anyone ask for in this world, but to touch people’s hearts. Thank you, Mom.

 

That is a great piece. Now, let’s review what went into writing it.

      Beautiful eulogy for mother

 

 

First off, let’s recap the intro:

''Thank you all -- for coming to commemorate my mother’s life…''

 

 

How To Get The Audience To Love Your Words

 

This is by far one of the best ways to start a eulogy on a very positive note; I feel the writer should have mentioned his name.

 

 

By the way, the introduction is very crucial to grabbing the attention of the audience from the very beginning. So, you need to spend a great deal of time and effort into crafting one.

 

Sadly, however, most sons and daughters don’t really know how to write something that captivates the attention of the audience from the onset.

 

 

Let me use this opportunity to share with you proven ways of doing just that.

 

Ready? Let’s jump right in.

 

· You can start with a poem about mothers

 

· You can begin with a question…

 

For example…How would you feel if someone you truly love and cherish suddenly dies? This past Tuesday my mom, the love of my life passed away….

 

Now, wait a minute…Don’t you think everyone would be moved by that question?

 

· You can relate a quote about mothers and use one or two to personalize your intro

 

Here are some quotes:

 

''All that I am, or hope to be, I owe to my angel mother.''- Abraham Lincoln

 


''Mama was my greatest teacher, a teacher of compassion, love, and fearlessness. If love is sweet as a flower, then my mother is that sweet flower of love.''-Stevie Wonder

 

''No man succeeds without a good woman behind him. Wife or mother, if it is both, he is twice blessed indeed''- Godfrey Winn

 

Can you use any of these quotes to engage your listeners?

 

How so?  Ok, let me illustrate with Steve Wonder’s quote: ''…If love is sweet as a flower, then my mother is that sweet flower of love.''

 

My mom was a sweet flower of love and it comes as no surprise that her costly fragrance of love has drawn amazing people like you from far and near to celebrate the legacy of this rare gem….

 

 

Did you notice how I did just that?  Yes, you can too.

 

 

Now, let’s go over to the body.

Again, here are excerpts: ''My mother was born to Albanie and Velma Bourque in a small French community…''

 

This is What Your Family and Friends Want You To Talk About

 

The body of your eulogy speech for mom is usually an account of your mom’s life.

 

 

To make things fairly easy, you can simply do a narration of your mom’s life as our example depicts.  But that approach is not engaging enough except your stories are very memorable.

 

To make your presentation stand out, you can single out the most admirable quality about your mom and support it with stories.

 

Alternatively, you can share how he made a difference in your life.

 

Now, I want you to create a rough outline for your loving mom as that will be the basis for your write-up.

 

So, please go grab your pen and paper and answer the following questions:

 

· How did she play her role as a mom?

 

· What are the lessons she taught you?

 

· How those did lessons impact your life or helped make you a much better person?

 

 

· Can you recount memories that are hilarious?

 

· Any anecdote that will inspire the listeners?

 

Using answers to those questions, please write a very rough of your speech.

 

Don’t worry about how messy it looks like on paper because you can always go back to review your speech until you’re happy with it.

 

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How To Close Your Speech On A Memorable Note

 

 

Finally, let’s look at how to write the ending of a moving tribute speech that will praise, bless and honor your mom.

 

 

Once the body of the eulogy has been drafted, it needs a conclusion to provide a sense of closure and emotional release.

 

Believe it or not, the closing remark of your delivery is as important as the intro because those last lines will stay with your sympathizers for a very long time.

 

Winging it won’t do you any good. If you are wondering about how best to close on a memorable note, then these tips can help you out.

How to write eulogy for mom examples

1.        You can thank your family, siblings, and friends and loved ones for their love, kindness, message, and support.

 

2.        Sometimes, you don’t have to say anything but let the tears flow because it will bring complete healing and refreshment.

 

3.       You can encourage people to emulate your mom’s great attributes.

 

4.      If you’re Christian or a very religious person, you can end with a prayer and a few words of encouragement.

 

For example, you can say…My mom is no longer with us but I look forward to that beautiful morning when I will be reunited with her in heaven. God bless her so much.

 

5. You can end with a poem like this one by Belinda Stotler.

My mother seems so far away from me
On that beautiful white shore across the sea.
Yet I remember love's soft glow upon her face
And the feel of her touch and tender embrace.

When I am weary from the burdens I've borne,
And the path is unclear and I feel so forlorn,
I remember her loving support was always near
And her advice made the path ahead seem clear.

When I feel there is no one who seems to care,
Or when the heartache seems too hard to bear,
I remember how she always stood by my side
And would tenderly wipe away the tears I cried.

When there are moments of great joy and pride
And I wish my Mother was standing at my side,
I remember she saw more than I thought I could be,
And know I owe my triumphs to her belief in me.

When I reminisce about the things she used to say
And I miss her and think she is so far away,
I remember what she gave lives on through me,
And one day I'll see her on the shore across the sea.


P.S This is how to give the best eulogy ever for your mom...have you ever considered it? Most sons and daughters use this and you should too!

 

Dear Loving  Son Or Daughter,

 

Let’s face it…Putting together your thoughts and emotions into a very beautiful tribute without letting the tears flow isn’t an easy thing and I experienced that recently when I wrote a eulogy for someone who was very dear to my heart.

 

I really feel sorry for you at this very painful time and I think you shouldn’t struggle to come up with a very beautiful tribute your family, brothers, and sisters, and loved ones will never, ever forget.

 

Granted, writing a unique, memorable, and inspiring eulogy for your mom is not an easy thing at all at this painful time even if you’re a very gifted writer.

 

I want to take his very heavy burden off your shoulder by helping you come up with a funny, inspiring, and memorable eulogy that truly captures your mom’s life.

This is a letter someone sent to us after we've helped her with her tribute(You can click on the image to read it)

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Just imagine how great it would feel when you give your speech with such ease and grace and your family comes to hug and compliment you on a great job done.

 

Yes, that can be possible when you let me help you out.

 

Want to get on board? Of course, you should by first clicking here to fill out this simple questionnaire !!

Funeral not too far away? Or happening in less than 24 hours? Trust me, we can deliver! it doesn’t matter if your speech is today or  tomorrow we can make things work for you  

 

Read On To Find out How It Works

 

Ok, Is This Offer For Me?

  • Yes, if you want to feel a great sense of warmth and relief without the pressure and stress of coming up with something at this incredibly difficult time of your life.

 

  • Yes, if you’re simply overwhelmed with grief… and you have less than 24 hours to the funeral and have suddenly realized that you don’t have written anything about your mom

 

 

  • Yes, if your dad died under circumstances like suicide, drug abuse, murder, etc...didn’t do anything with his life and you really can’t seem to put pen to paper because of the emotions involved.

 

 

  • Yes, if you are expecting nothing less than a very special, beautiful, unique and a memorable eulogy speech that will bless, praise and honor the memory of your precious mom

 

  • Yes, if you want to take the heavy burden of expectation off your shoulders so you can give a meaningful, uplifting and heartwarming speech that will warm hearts and bring your mom’s admirable personality alive

 

 

  • Yes, if you don’t have much time to write a perfect speech because of the stress of preparing so many things for your mom’s funeral arrangement so you can have your peace of mind

 

  • Yes, if you’re overwhelmed with work demands and other pressures of life.

 

Then, let’s take care of it and the guests will definitely sing your praises.

 

This is a letter someone sent to us after we've helped her with her tribute(You can click on the image to read it)

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  • Yes, if you want your family, to shower you with very sincere compliments…just imagine how you will feel…

 

  • Yes, if you are not good with words and you feel you’re not a natural writer and you are struggling to find the right words but still want to give a great eulogy speech for your mom

 

  • Yes, if you get so scared anytime you’re asked to say something before an audience and you really want to save yourself from any form of embarrassment at your mom’s funeral…Remember, you can’t wing it

 

  • Yes, if you are not too eloquent or not too sure if you are on the right track and take out the guesswork…Remember, what you say will speak volumes about your love for your mom

 

  • Yes, if you absolutely hate speaking in public or feel this is not your thing but you want to make your mom feel so proud of you

 

  • Yes, if you have less than 24 hours to the funeral and you are really stressed out and scared you  might make some horrible mistakes

 

  • Yes, if you are a good speaker but you still want someone to look over or review what you've come up with!

 

Just imagine leaving your entire presentation in the hands of skilled speech consultants who will take away your pain of spending hours thinking hard and long about what to say and what not to say.


Also, envision being patiently guided to say something your family and mourners will never ever forget


And also imagine the peace of mind you will have when you relax and sleep well knowing full well that you have someone to hold your back so you can make your mom feel so proud


Won’t you love that? I hope you will...

 

Funeral not too far away? Or happening in less than 24 hours? Trust me, we can deliver! it doesn’t matter if your speech is today or  tomorrow we can make things work for you  

 

This is a letter someone sent to us after we've helped her with her tribute

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Ok, I am Interested, What’s the Cost?

You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.

Why? As you know, the current health crisis has caused severe hardships for most people.

Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.

Yet, a very loving child like you has to speak at the burial service. 

Nonetheless, not everyone could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.

So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.

Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.

So, please take advantage of it now.

Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video and your family and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.  

So, please take advantage of it now by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.  

Oh Ok, How Then Do I Get Started Since I Want To Get On Board Right Away? Ok, here’s how it works

All you have to do RIGHT NOW is to click on this link to receive an easy-to-fill-in questionnaire via email. Then, please check your email a few hours after you’ve submitted your request.

So,

1) CLICK HERE NOW TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT THIS QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind!

  1. After that, we will send you a very short questionnaire to fill out via email! You only have to check your email just a few hours after you have made your request.
  1. Then, you fill out the questionnaire sent through your email and please have it sent back to us…
  1. We will confirm receipt of it…If something is not too clear, we will ask you to clarify….
  1. If not, we will send you a wonderful draft in a couple of hours
  1. Then, you look it over and tell us if you are okay with it or you want to amend or revise it till you are happy with it--although we always get it right even with the first draft.
  1. Then, we ask you to pay for it. It's as simple as that!

Please note: The information collected through the questionnaire is only for the purpose of writing your speech. I wouldn’t even need it if I could read your mind. So, your information is very confidential and no one will know about it.

 So,

1) CLICK HERE NOW TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT THIS QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind!

Just a reminder of what our offer entails 

You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.

Why? As you know, the current health crisis has caused severe hardships for most people.

Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.

Yet, a very loving child like you has to speak at the burial service. 

Nonetheless, not everyone could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.

So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.

Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.

So, please take advantage of it now.

Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video and your family and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.  

So, please take advantage of it now by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.  

Please note: Your speech draft comes with a proven and simple tip to master your speech or remember your speech just as you want it without carrying a paper with you.

 

Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise, and clarity!

 

''Hi Dan,

The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice).  Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.

All the best,

Matt''

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  • The most effective way to get your entire speech into your head without memorizing your speech so you can sound smart. Guaranteed to help you even if you have a very poor memory or your memory is like a gold fish…most of our clients still wonder where we got this idea from. This ensures that you don't read off a sheet of paper...

 

Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise, and clarity!

''Hi Dan,

The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice).  Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.

All the best,

Matt''

  • Ways to include humor in your speech and what it takes to do so

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