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Funny Best Man Speech Toast For Your Friend Or Brother

At last, you too can give a very funny best man speech like a pro even if you are not a funny person! Using the same ideas, tips, guidelines, and examples…accomplished toastmasters use to bring down their audience

 

Ready? Let’s go on.

Alex and Dan had been best friends since childhood.

From chasing girls to drinking their head off to gambling at a local casino, they had gained fame locally for being very close pals.

They had completed their college education ten years ago, and both had become successful and responsible adults.

 

Best man speech ideas and tips

 

Dan was promoted to vice president of the manufacturing division of a pharmaceutical company after doing well on the job for seven years. Alex was chief executive of a construction firm he owned. However, neither of them was married.

 

After some time, Alex met Stella and everything was set for their wedding after they had dated for two years. Dan was asked by his friend to be the best man and he gladly accepted that honorable responsibility.

 

He loved the duties of being one but he hated being in the public eye, so when he found out that he had to give a speech, he got so nervous like a cockroach in a hen coop.

 

He had never spoken before a large group of people and his new assignment seemed very intimidating. The last time he addressed some people at a meeting was eight years ago, and that made him sweat so much

 

However, he talked with a friend who had a standing ovation for giving a humorous best man speech to learn the tricks of the game. After that brief encounter, he poured his heart and mind into writing what he felt was a hilarious best man speech.

 

On his friend’s wedding day, he made fun of his friend and even made reference to a time spent in chasing girls and their drinking sprees. As you can imagine, those unsavory comments didn’t go down well with his friend and the guest

 

But, who are we to blame Dan?  He wasn’t simply skilled at speaking before a crowd.

I am sure, like Dan, you too want to make a funny wedding speech for your brother or friend that will stay in the minds of the wedding guests for a very long time.

 

But, did you know that how you go about it will go a long way to determine whether your words will make the wedding guests happy or bored?

 

Don’t worry if you are not a great speaker or even horrible at putting your thoughts and ideas together because I am going to show you time-tested tips and examples that will you come up with a great best man speech for your friend or brother.

 

Before we do, please take note of this very carefully as it will decide what you should say and what you shouldn’t at his wedding.

 

Start With This And End With It

If you want your performance to go down well, you need to believe in what you are going to say or do else nothing can really work for you. To be clear, you need to believe in yourself.

 

Whatever you wish for in life depends a great deal on your own set of beliefs. You cannot succeed if all you see around you is doubt and despair.

 

I know you are probably wondering if you are going to excel because your mind has relayed a picture of a past incident where you panicked when you were asked to say a few words before a group of people.

 

Don’t let that bog you down! You are the product of your imagination, so believe you can and you will be a step away from delivering your toast with poise and flair.

 

Don’t Leave It Till The Last Minute

This isn’t a university assignment that you forget about and hurriedly write the night before the submission date. While you may get a decent grade in school, writing a best man speech is a whole different ball game though.

 

You aren’t just the ring safeguarder or the morale booster. Your role is to be your best friend’s reliable right-hand man, and this speech falls under that category as well.

 

Therefore, start well in advance, or else you might find yourself scrambling to finish it in time (with your thoughts scrambled by the time you finish it).

 

This speech is going to be your version of a heartfelt and humorous send-off to your best friend, so naturally, it does occupy quite an important part in the occasion’s itinerary.

 

A unique best man speech doesn’t need to be delivered with the aplomb of an actor or actress accepting an Oscar - as long as it is sweet, sincere, and special, you’re going to be a hit (with your best friend or brothers and of course, the ladies).

 

Stay Sober

What’s worse than a best man who thinks he can wing his speech? A best man who shows up shitfaced and slurs through it. We know and understand that public speaking can be nerve-wracking, but you throwing back the champagne is just going to wreck things.

So do try to avoid getting tipsy and end the night on a celebratory note instead.

 

Leave The Past In The Past

Picture this - everyone’s having a good time, drinking, eating, and laughing at your jokes.

 

But then, the incident comes up - awkward glances are exchanged, tiny coughs fill the room, and you can almost hear the sound of crickets. If there is a surefire way to bring down the mood, it’s mentioning what should not be mentioned.

 

At any cost, please leave out the drunk bachelor trip shenanigans (don’t give your best friend’s Uncle Muriel a coronary), definitely avoid mentions of wild parties, and do not breathe a word about a past relationship.

 

Don’t Drone On

A good speech is short and sweet. It shouldn’t be a 25-page novel that makes the audience wish they’d never stepped foot into that room. Choose anecdotes that are appropriate, stories that are easy to explain, share fond memories of your best friend or brother, and wind it up within 5 minutes.

 

If you do, you will be well on your way to being heralded as the groom’s ‘witty and wickedly-funny’ best friend in no time at all.

 

Now, let’s look at how to get ideas for the content of your presentation. Principally, there are two ways. From best man speech videos and well-written examples.

 

Let’s watch some video clips you can learn from and adapt to writing the structure of your speech.

 

Action Tip: Get a piece of paper or a sheet and pen and write down thoughts and phrases you would like to incorporate into your storyline as you watch these short clips.

Video #1

 

Video#2

 

 

I hope you enjoyed watching them and have learned a thing or two from both?

So without further ado, let’s crank up the charm, shall we?

 

Talking about charm, below is a best man speech example for a friend.

If you are his brother, then, you may scroll down the page for a speech template from a brother to the groom and bride.

 

P.S   Both samples can help you know what to say and what not to say. So, my advice is to read the two and jot down ideas that you think will help you write yours quickly.

 

First, here’s an example for your friend. I found this at www.hitched.co.uk and I am glad to share it with you because it perfectly captures the essence of what the writing process is all about. 

“Good afternoon everyone – for those of you that don’t know me, my name’s Scott and after all these years it’s nice that Steve has finally admitted that I’m the best man!

 

I hope you’ve all had a lovely time so far and continue to have a fantastic time as the day and evening goes by – I’d also like to apologize in advance if I, in any way, ruin that in the next five minutes.

 

Talking of five minutes, it’s often said that the best man’s speech is the worst five minutes of the groom’s life – I’m also told (by reliable sources) that the worst five minutes of Laura’s life comes later on when all the guests have gone home!

 

I know from personal experience that it’s a difficult task choosing a best man, I’m still not sure about my choice four years on eh Steve?!

 

But with Steve, like most things in life, it became more difficult as time went on – his first choice was his funniest friend but unfortunately, he said no, so then he thought he’d choose his cleverest friend but again, unfortunately, the offer was declined.

 

At the third attempt he turned to his most handsome friend but sadly it was a no yet again and at this point, as you can imagine Steve was getting pretty desperate – that’s when my phone rang!

 

And, to be honest, hearing Steve’s quivering little voice on the phone I decided I couldn’t possibly turn him down for the fourth time!

 

As part of my job today I get the task of saying a few words about today’s main man – I can honestly say that he’s one of the most handsome, most funny men you’ll ever meet and I’m proud to call him my friend.

 

So if you if bump into him today – where’s Lloyd? Today is his birthday so please buy him a drink – happy birthday Lloyd!

 

Now, I was asked by Steve and Laura to be careful with any content that may be a little risqué and, in particular, remove any innuendos – so I just wanted to reassure you both that I’ve been through it carefully and vetted it but if I do come across anything I’ve missed I’ll whip it out as quickly as I can!

 

In all seriousness I’ve known Steve now for around 18 years since I interviewed him for a job as a 16/17-year-old – he turned up late, with the very popular ‘curtain’ hairstyle, proudly wearing his Arsenal tie and he somehow managed to convince me that I’d found a gem.

 

I’d like to point out that several times over the first few years I was given the opportunity by the HR department to get rid of him, but somehow those eyes were still convincing me otherwise.

 

Now because most of the stories I could tell about Steve over the years would no doubt incriminate myself, again I decided to be careful about what I would say – so I definitely won’t be telling you about the times he used his ‘one phone call’ to tell me he couldn’t make it to work, I definitely won’t be telling you about his love of urinating in public places when under the influence (in particular on my neighbour’s car!) and I definitely won’t tell you about the time I got a call from head office to say that Steve had some charges for extras against his room whilst away on a training course – he swore blind, as he does when under pressure, that it wasn’t for him.

 

So you can tell by looking at Steve that not a lot has changed really – although unlike most people he’s actually lost weight over the years I’ve known him, quite a lot to lose at one point as I recall Steve?!

 

And over those years I think it’s fair to say we’ve got into a few scrapes and one way or another we’ve always been there for each other when things have been tough – I’m proud to call you my friend and long may it continue!

 

Now, despite what I said before things have definitely changed for him since he got together with Laura 5 years ago, particularly over the last 18 months when their daughter came along – he’s a brilliant Dad and I’m sure that he’ll be a brilliant husband too!

 

I’m also impressed that he’s chosen to whisk Laura away on honeymoon in the UK – North Wales isn’t it Steve?…oh ok, I obviously got confused when he said he was going to Bangor for two weeks after the wedding!

 

I could honestly stand here and take the mick out of Steve all day long but I could definitely do with a beer now – although I do just want to impart one last bit of wisdom on you Steve… so, if Laura could just place her hand on the table, palm down… etc.

How does that feel Steve? I can personally guarantee you that will be the last time you ever have the upper hand so make the most of it while you can!

 

On behalf of the bridesmaids, Claire and Isla, I would like to thank Steve & Laura for asking us to be a part of your special day – I genuinely hope, and I know that you will be very happy together, please look after him Laura because he struggles to look after himself at times!

So if I could ask you all to join me in a toast – TO THE HAPPY COUPLE, THE BRIDE AND GROOM, STEVE AND LAURA!!”

 

Best man speech for brother

 

Now, here’s another one for a brother. I have broken this example down so you can get an idea of what went into writing it and I hope it will help you come up with yours without breaking a sweat.

This is it. I found this at www.hitched.co.uk and I am glad to share it with you because it perfectly captures the essence of what the writing process is all about. 

 

“For those who don’t know me, my name is Graham and I’m today’s best brother. I say best brother as there’s less competition in that category than in the best man competition.

So if you like Craig’s speech better, then at least I still win something.

The last time I gave a speech at a joint event with my brother was at our 18th and 21st birthday party.

A good portion of the people here were at that event and you’ll be glad to know my speech uses ‘fabulous’ a lot less this time around.

Stuart and Demi, it’s an honour to stand up here today as one of the best men. I’m delighted for you both and I’m so glad we can celebrate with friends and family who have travelled from around the country. They’re all here to wish you well (and can’t wait for their free food and drink).

 

Let me tell you a bit about growing up with Stuart - we met in the 90s, back in a time where it was fine to dress your children in popper tracksuit bottoms. Stuart managed to pull his off as he was certainly the more athletic between us, whereas my bright yellow pair forever cemented me as our version of Augustus Gloop.

 

We had a great childhood and I was delighted to have a brother. We got on well - I used to get up early in the morning to let him out of his cot. I didn’t need to do this for long as he soon learned to get himself out and cause my parents no end of grief when he learned to walk. Unfortunately, their trick of sticking me in front of a TV with chocolate didn’t work so well on Stuart.

 

All the ornaments had to be hidden. Fast forward a couple of years and we’d be out playing in the streets having water fights and coming to the door absolutely drenched. We both also seemed to have quite the talent for winding up our neighbour Moira - bad enough on one occasion for her to phone the police on us for getting her plants wet!

 

We were lucky enough to go on plenty of day trips and holidays whilst we were growing up including trips up to Florida and the Dominican Republic. This is where some of our favourite embarrassing stories come from. The classic that we all still talk about to this day was in the Dominican Republic back when we were much younger so we were sharing a bed.

 

One morning I woke up and had the misfortune to discover that Stuart had wet the bed, left me in it and went into my mum and dad’s bed! He did this so much that the maids left a note saying they had put on plastic sheets for the remainder of our stay. His exploits didn’t stop there and I can remember when we each got the bunk bed/futon (that was all the rage at the time) and he wet the bed the first night! I remember mum raging down the phone to Trisha asking for the orange cleaner!

 

There are a lot of other stories on this subject that can be exchanged for a gin and tonic at the bar. Cheers.

Stuart had always proven himself as the cheeky outgoing type but you wouldn’t have thought so when we went to some of the theme parks in Florida. Although the rollercoasters scared him, it was when he was met with any of the wonderful characters in Disney World in Florida that really got him going. Crying and screaming, he would refuse to go up to the Queen of Hearts to get her autograph. Watch The Rocky Horror Make-Up Show? Forget it.

 

I think we have Trisha to thank for this. She used to get our cousin Brian’s scary masks from his room when Stuart was misbehaving and jump out at him or chase him up the stairs. The other classic was her removing her false teeth which really scared him senseless!

I couldn’t come up here and not talk about the stag weekend either. We went to Krakow back in September with the first night ending up in a karaoke bar of all places.

 

Having Stuart up singing with absolutely no change in his tone or voice to Madonna’s Like A Virgin was amazing. This wasn’t even the best part as on the second night we dressed Stuart up as Princess Peach with the rest of us as Mario. Some of the Mario costumes were extremely dodgy too. We were like celebrities walking around Krakow that night with everybody wanting their picture taken with us.

 

And when I think back on it, it’s really amazing that the gay brother managed to get his straight brother to sing Madonna and dress up in drag for his stag weekend!

 

 I can’t thank you enough for how you haven’t changed one bit since the day I came out and I’m so grateful that you accepted it and get on so well with Simon.

So here we are now, our families combined. We’ve already had a joint event and I had the most brilliant time at Christmas back at Stuart and Demi’s house.

 

We all played a friendly game of Cards Against Humanity, which for those of you who don’t know, is a game that you win by providing the funniest and/or most offensive answers to the questions asked.

 

Demi’s mum was a particular pro at this game and kept providing absolute belters for answers. Demi was far too embarrassed to even play along with us. I had to actually start writing things down because some of it was so good I thought it would be great for this speech. On reflection though, some of it was just too dirty to include. Our Grandma is here!

The one thing that I can tell you is that when someone played the ‘Cottaging’ card in answer to a question she responded with ‘WE USED TO DO THAT!’.

 

I had to step in to explain what cottaging actually was by which point Demi and Roxanne had died of embarrassment whilst we were crying with laughter. Clearly, she hadn’t paid much attention to George Michael’s fun back in Hampstead Heath.

 

If that’s not the biggest icebreaker to a family coming together, then I don’t know what is.

Demi, you look absolutely fabulous today as we all knew you would. I hope you are enjoying your day so far and are happy with our shirt collars, bridezilla.

 

It’s great to have you as a sister in law so I could get away with that and I look forward to many more games of Cards Against Humanity with you.

Stuart, thanks for asking me to be one of your best men today. It’s been a privilege to do this. I can see how happy you make each other and I wish you both nothing but happiness for your future together.

So then, ladies and gentlemen, I invite you all to stand and raise your glasses to toast the new husband and wife! We wish you well and your own happily ever after. To Stuart and Demi!”

If you found yourself smiling or laughing at certain bits during that, the good news is that this can be you in a while as well!

 

You Have To Start Strong With A Good Introduction

Not only does an impactful introduction make the audience sit up and take notice of you, but it also helps alleviate any potential nerves you might have.

A good tip is to induce laughter right from the get-go - after you tell the wedding guests who you are as seen here:

 

“For those who don’t know me, my name is Graham and I’m today’s best brother.

I say best brother as there’s less competition in that category than in the best man competition. So if you like Craig’s speech better, then at least I still win something...

 

Then try working in a small joke or a wry observation to get the ice breaking. Once you hear the laughs break out, that will give you the momentum you need to launch into the body of your message.  

 

Thanksgiving Isn’t The Only Time To Give Thanks

Once you’re done establishing who you are in your opening remarks, the next (and natural) step is to express your gratitude towards the men and women of the hour.

A nice gesture would be to extend your thanks to the couples for organizing the event.

Then thank your friend or brother for giving you this honor.

Afterward, say thank you to the guests for being present  This always makes the wedding party feel good and appreciated - as a bonus, you might even get warm smiles directed your way (which in turn, can fuel your confidence).

 

How to write your best man speech

 

Have you thought about the groomsmen too? If you are not the only best man, then it makes sense that you express gratitude to them as well.

 

If you the only guy, you can ‘’thank yourself’’ and that will surely bring the house down. I must emphasize here that I haven’t heard any best man do this. But if you do, your brother or friend and the wedding guests will not forget what you said.

 

Now, let’s see how to write the body of your speech with.

 

Here’s an excerpt to refresh your memory.

‘’…Let me tell you a bit about growing up with Stuart - we met in the 90s, back in a time where it was fine to dress your children in popper tracksuit bottoms…’’

 

Here are a couple of ideas to help you come up with the main part of your message: walk down memory lane

 

A big chunk of your speech will undoubtedly cover your equation with the groom.

After all, he’s your ride or die (just not in the romantic sense). This is your chance to actually tell your best friend or brother the stuff that you’ve always just thought about - so make the most out of it.

  1. Talk about how and where you met him
  2. The kind of person he is
  3. How he’s made a difference to your life,
  4. What you admire the most about him
  5. What he’s taught you 

Relate a couple of anecdotes where he’s had your back, talk about shared experiences that have shaped your lives, and narrate touching incidents that have strengthened your bond.

 

We’re sure that the end of your speech will result in your best friend suffocating you in a gruff, chokehold hug (#aw).

 

Bring It In For The Happy Couple

However, don’t spend all your time just talking about the groom.

Take this opportunity to talk about your new sister as well. Whether you’re narrating how your best friend or brother told you he was in love or a heartfelt story about how they met, it’s important for you to talk about them as a couple.

 

Always speak from the heart - telling the bride how beautiful she looks and how lucky your friend is to have her in his life is a beautiful way of getting those radiant smiles on both faces. Don't forget to praise the bridesmaids too for taking a huge weight off the bride's shoulder.

 

As you go about it, use metaphors and similes to share your experiences. For instance, you can use a simile to tell the wedding guests how the ‘’gloom’’ felt when he met the bride.

Remember that the spelling of gloom is deliberate here. You too can use it purposefully when you are talking about the groom.

 

For example, the gloom (oh my goodness, did I say gloom) is perfect for the blide because….

 

Now, let’s see how to tap into the power of similes.

Here we go (a short example)!

When Mike first met Angela after they had left school, I knew they were destined to be together. My sister was very distrustful of men but he used all the tricks he knew to woo her because she was unyielding like a rock.

 

Feeling like a disappointed goat, Mike almost gave up but I told him not to because quitters never win and he sure was not one.

He got to know that Angela was like a box of chocolate when he persisted and eventually won her heart.

 

Notice how I used those similes…like a disappointed goat… to write that short best man speech? That’s exactly the way to harness smiles to your advantage.

 

Another technique is the deliberate corruption of the English language. For example, you can say blide instead of the bride.

 

An example being… I got to know the blide during a school reunion..

 

Another example could be …Mike, I know you are a great guy and you’ve found the lady of your dreams. And I know you will adore her, care for her, and protect her. And to you Angela the blide(oh, what’s happening to me today…gloom and now blide)……..

 

This speech, more than acknowledging the groom’s presence in your life, is meant to celebrate the couple on the most important day of their lives. So, if you feel that this is the happiest your friend or brother has ever been, say it.

 

Thirty years down the line, you’re going to be looking back at some beautiful pictures, timeless smiles, and the memories of a truly unique speech and look back and be thankful that you made the groom proud.

Best man speech toast

 

Here’s How To End Your Speech With A Bang

Once you’re done recounting your adventures and addressing the ''amore'' in the room, make sure you end on a strong note. All great speeches have one singular element in common - a memorable ending.

 

Here are some pointers to help you close on a memorable note.

  1. Did you know that music or a well-known song can make your speech funny?

Most best men try so hard to find some funny words to spice up their messages. But it shouldn’t be so if you pick a soundtrack the guests can sing along.

Then rehearse it and or even substitute some of the lyrics with your own words. If you can play a musical instrument, that would be great.

 

Here is what I want you to do now. If you can sing a love song well, why not change the words and end your speech with it.

 

  1. A touching poem can also serve this purpose. There are so many of them online.
  2. You can dispense marriage advice to the bride and groom if you are married. If you are the father of the groom as well as his best man, you should bring your experience to bear. If you are not married yet, you can just mention what you admire about them and why you think they will make a lovely couple.
  3. Another great idea is to wish them well before you raise your glass for a toast.
  4. Are you a religious person or a Christian or are the couple rooted in faith? If you nodded yes to that, you can end with a bible verse or even a word of prayer from the scripture.

 

Let’s look at these verses:

 

Bible verse#1: Psalm 128: Blessed are all who fear the LORD, who walk in his ways. You will eat the fruit of your labor; blessings and prosperity will be yours. Your wife will be like a fruitful vine within your house; your sons will be like olive shoots around your table. Thus is the man blessed who fears the LORD.

 

Bible verse #2: Romans 12:10 Be devoted to one another in love. Honor one another above yourselves.

 

Suppose you want to wish the couple well with the first verse, we will end up with this short word of exhortation.

Mike and Linda, God bless you so much for honoring him and bringing us together.

Your marriage has given us a glimpse of the Lord and savior Jesus Christ has for his church and the whole. As you start this union, may you acknowledge him in everything you do and he will always direct your steps.

Scripture says that those who walk in the paths of the Lord will be blessed in everything they do and they will be like olive shoots. My hope and prayer is that in good times and the bad, you will love each other so your lives will bring glory to the God of heaven and earth.

 

Always remember in your walk together that God brought you together to show others that true love still exists.

 

It’s the perfect time to hold your glass up, ask everyone to follow suit, look the couple in the eye, and offer a final, fitting tribute to seal your speech’s deal. If you’d like to add humor, that’s great, but do hone in on a sentimental finish to set the mood for the rest of the evening. 

  

There you go, folks. One fresh, piping hot best man speech served!

As a final word of advice, don’t be afraid to write down parts of your toast; very few best men are blessed with an eidetic memory.

 

It’s fine to refer to these notes from time to time - but the more you practice and the more confident you get, you’ll be delivering one of the best ever best man speeches  (without even glancing at them).

Best man speech examples and templates

 


Best Man Speech Toast Examples For Friend Or Brother

 

Looking for the best man speech examples to help you write the best ever best man wedding speech for your friend or brother?

 

Don’t lose hope because I am going to share with you all the proven ideas and tips and templates the best men have used and continue to use to make their speeches heartfelt and memorable.

 

Best man speech example or templates for brother

 

But first, let’s see look at this joke as it holds the key to helping you start on the right note.

 

A young man was on his way home from work when he realized that he had forgotten his young daughter’s birthday. Knowing she liked dolls, he stopped off at a toy store and asked the sales assistant whether they had any Barbie dolls in stock.

 

‘’Sure, ‘’replied the sales girl. ‘’ We have  Barbie Goes to the Gym at 119.95 dollars; Barbie Goes to the Ball at 19.95 dollars; Barbie Goes Shopping at 19.95 dollars, Barbie Goes Night clubbing at 19.95 dollars; and Divorced Barbie at 250 dollar.

 

Hmm ‘’What do you recommend I get for my daughter’s birthday?

The salesgirl said’’ I think your daughter would love Barbie Goes Shopping’’

‘’ No…I am not going for that. He’s become a shopaholic since I bought her one last year and I can’t afford to have an empty bank account anytime soon’’

‘’ Then, I guess you should get her Baby Goes to the Gym so she can begin to get some muscles and probably think more like a man’’

 

Sure…That’s a great idea!!! Thank you and I am sure if she gets a little masculine…we can go to the gym together and she would stop shopping for good because she can change her mind at will.

 

The perplexed father then asked, ‘’ Why are the others all 19.95 dollars and yet Divorced Barbie costs 250 dollars?’’

‘’ Because,’’ replied the salesgirl, ‘’ divorced Barbie comes with her husband’s house, car, boat, and furniture!

 

Your best man speech doesn’t come with any of that stuff. But it comes with a dose of expectation and you are expected to make your friend or brother proud even if you are not too good with words or not a very confident speaker.

Wondering about how to do that? It’s actually simple than you think.

 

Before we do that, I want to bring to your attention some critical issues that stop most wedding speakers from giving off their best and how you can make them work in your favor.

 

 

First, you don’t necessarily have to be a naturally funny person to write the best ever best man speech even though it helps to an extent if you have the funny bone.

 

Second, some best men copy the speaking style of others and that takes away from the shine of writing a unique best man speech for your brother or friend.

 

Third, you need not become so fixated on what you are going to say. That would make you out of steam, lose your momentum, or accidentally say something that isn’t in the best interests of the evening (which would put a dampener on the celebrations). You just have to consult well written best man speech samples for a brother or friend to help you say what you want to say.

 

Remember, you are only there to tell a story about your relationship with the groom. So, all you need are good memories of the best moments you have spent together.

 

If there’s something funny along those lines, that would make your toast fantastic. Don’t force it if you don’t have a funny anecdote to back it up. It’s about him and not you, my friend!

 

That said, let’s see…

How To Use Best Man Speech Examples To Write A Great Speech For The Groom And Bride

 

Here’s what I want you to know: there are two kinds of best man speech templates and they are video and written examples.

 

To come up with the best ideas for your best man toast, you first have to put yourself in the mood by watching a couple of best man speech videos you find online or elsewhere.

 

There are so many poor ones flying around, so I scoured the internet and found these to help you out.

 

This is what I recommend you do: Please grab a pen and notepad and put down ideas and tips you wish to add to your speech as you watch the following video clips.

 

Best Man Speech Video # 1

 

 

Best Man Speech Video # 2

 

I hope you enjoyed the presentations and got some great ideas too?

 

I earlier talked about written examples. So, let’s now at two examples in detail and we will analyze one of them so you can have an idea of how to make the most of them.

 

 

Since this content is tailored for/to either a brother or friend, I am going to show you two scripts, and then we will look at how you can effortlessly write one of the best best man speech anyone has ever heard.

 

 

I urge you to read both speeches carefully as they will give you hints of what to say and what not to say.

 

Example # 1: Best Man Speech Example For Brother

 

“For those who don’t know me, my name is Graham and I’m today’s best brother. I say best brother as there’s less competition in that category than in the best man competition. So if you like Craig’s speech better, then at least I still win something.

 

The last time I gave a speech at a joint event with my brother was at our 18th and 21st birthday party. A good portion of the people here were at that event and you’ll be glad to know my speech uses ‘fabulous’ a lot less this time around.

 

Stuart and Demi, it’s an honour to stand up here today as one of the best men. I’m delighted for you both and I’m so glad we can celebrate with friends and family who have travelled from around the country. They’re all here to wish you well (and can’t wait for their free food and drink).

 

Let me tell you a bit about growing up with Stuart - we met in the 90s, back in a time where it was fine to dress your children in popper tracksuit bottoms.

 

Stuart managed to pull his off as he was certainly the more athletic between us, whereas my bright yellow pair forever cemented me as our version of Augustus Gloop.

We had a great childhood and I was delighted to have a brother. We got on well - I used to get up early in the morning to let him out of his cot.

 

I didn’t need to do this for long as he soon learned to get himself out and cause my parents no end of grief when he learned to walk.

 

Unfortunately, their trick of sticking me in front of a TV with chocolate didn’t work so well on Stuart. All the ornaments had to be hidden. Fast forward a couple of years and we’d be out playing in the streets having water fights and coming to the door absolutely drenched.

 

We both also seemed to have quite the talent for winding up our neighbour Moira - bad enough on one occasion for her to phone the police on us for getting her plants wet!

 

We were lucky enough to go on plenty of day trips and holidays whilst we were growing up including trips up to Florida and the Dominican Republic. This is where some of our favourite embarrassing stories come from.

 

The classic that we all still talk about to this day was in the Dominican Republic back when we were much younger so we were sharing a bed. One morning I woke up and had the misfortune to discover that Stuart had wet the bed, left me in it and went into my mum and dad’s bed! He did this so much that the maids left a note saying they had put on plastic sheets for the remainder of our stay.

 

His exploits didn’t stop there and I can remember when we each got the bunk bed/futon (that was all the rage at the time) and he wet the bed the first night!

 

I remember mum raging down the phone to Trisha asking for the orange cleaner! There are a lot of other stories on this subject that can be exchanged for a gin and tonic at the bar. Cheers.

 

Stuart had always proven himself as the cheeky outgoing type but you wouldn’t have thought so when we went to some of the theme parks in Florida.

 

Although the rollercoasters scared him, it was when he was met with any of the wonderful characters in Disney World in Florida that really got him going. Crying and screaming, he would refuse to go up to the Queen of Hearts to get her autograph.

 

Watch The Rocky Horror Make-Up Show? Forget it. I think we have Trisha to thank for this. She used to get our cousin Brian’s scary masks from his room when Stuart was misbehaving and jump out at him or chase him up the stairs. The other classic was her removing her false teeth which really scared him senseless!

 

I couldn’t come up here and not talk about the stag weekend either. We went to Krakow back in September with the first night ending up in a karaoke bar of all places.

 

Having Stuart up singing with absolutely no change in his tone or voice to Madonna’s Like A Virgin was amazing. This wasn’t even the best part as on the second night we dressed Stuart up as Princess Peach with the rest of us as Mario. Some of the Mario costumes were extremely dodgy too.

 

We were like celebrities walking around Krakow that night with everybody wanting their picture taken with us. And when I think back on it, it’s really amazing that the gay brother managed to get his straight brother to sing Madonna and dress up in drag for his stag weekend! I can’t thank you enough for how you haven’t changed one bit since the day I came out and I’m so grateful that you accepted it and get on so well with Simon.

 

So here we are now, our families combined. We’ve already had a joint event and I had the most brilliant time at Christmas back at Stuart and Demi’s house.

 

We all played a friendly game of Cards Against Humanity, which for those of you who don’t know, is a game that you win by providing the funniest and/or most offensive answers to the questions asked. Demi’s mum was a particular pro at this game and kept providing absolute belters for answers. Demi was far too embarrassed to even play along with us.

 

I had to actually start writing things down because some of it was so good I thought it would be great for this speech. On reflection though, some of it was just too dirty to include. Our Grandma is here!

 

The one thing that I can tell you is that when someone played the ‘Cottaging’ card in answer to a question she responded with ‘WE USED TO DO THAT!’. I had to step in to explain what cottaging actually was by which point Demi and Roxanne had died of embarrassment whilst we were crying with laughter.

 

Clearly, she hadn’t paid much attention to George Michael’s fun back in Hampstead Heath. If that’s not the biggest icebreaker to a family coming together, then I don’t know what is.

 

Demi, you look absolutely fabulous today as we all knew you would. I hope you are enjoying your day so far and are happy with our shirt collars, bridezilla. It’s great to have you as a sister in law so I could get away with that and I look forward to many more games of Cards Against Humanity with you.

 

Stuart, thanks for asking me to be one of your best men today. It’s been a privilege to do this. I can see how happy you make each other and I wish you both nothing but happiness for your future together.

 

So then, ladies and gentlemen, I invite you all to stand and raise your glasses to toast the new husband and wife! We wish you well and your own happily ever after. To Stuart and Demi!”

 

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Example# 2: Best Man Speech For A Friend

 

Good afternoon ladies and gentlemen. May I first of all introduce myself to those of you who don't know me, or who haven't bought me a drink yet, my name is Craig, and I'm on JD and Coke ?

 

I'm absolutely honoured to be standing here today, and humbled that Rich has asked me to be his best man. I know there are 3 reasons Rich has asked me to be best man. First of all, he knew I could organise a decent night out for the stag do, also, he knew the speech would be one to remember, and finally, I think he just wanted to look taller in the photos.

 

I've never been a best man before, so I started where most people go when they're stumped, and went online. I'd only been on a few minutes, and I found a brilliant site, full of some seriously good stuff, there were videos, hints and tips, it was great.

 

After about an hour though, I heard my wife pulled onto the driveway, so I deleted the browsing history, and started looking for best man speech ideas.

Obviously, there are certain duties as best man I have to do.  I'd like to thank rich on behalf of myself and the bridesmaids for the kind words, and honestly feel touched by them.

 

I'd like to thank the bridesmaids for not only doing a great job in the church earlier today, but also for helping Grace this morning and getting her ready, calming her nerves, and I'm sure she'll be thankful of them today every time she needs the loo. It goes without saying, they all look fantastic, but obviously, not as much as Grace.

 

Let's face it, it's her wedding day, she planned it like that. Kind of a “you can look nice but not as nice as me” kind of deal. No doubt everyone here today thought the same 2 things as Grace walked in the church- firstly how beautiful she looked, and secondly, that Rich is MASSIVELY punching above his weight. I'd also like to thank Adam, Will and Liam the ushers, where are you lads?

 

I'd like to thank them for the absolutely bang up job they did of telling people where to sit in the church. That was worth the suit hire fee on its own, nice one lads.

 

Now, I do have some messages from people who couldn't attend but wanted to send their wishes To Rich, all the best on your wedding day, don't be a stranger! From Destiny, Sahara, and all the girls at the fantasy lounge

 

This one's from all the lads at the Rugby club, “Rich was useless in every position. All the best to his new Wife”.

 

“To Rich, all the best! Friday's just won't be the same without you!” – That's from Bruce, Julian and all the other lads at British Beef men's Saunas.

 

Now, everyone here knows Rich in a different capacity, so not everyone will know things about him that others know. Some know him from work, some from Uni, some through Grace, and some through family. So, what I'm going to do now is share with you some little known facts about Richard.

 

  1. You may have noticed Rich mentioned the time we saw the Courteeners. He tells everyone this was the first concert he went to. It was at the MEN in Manchester on a lads’ weekend. Brilliant gig from an amazing live band, a top night out afterwards in a cool club, absolutely fantastic.

 

This in actual fact, was his 2nd gig. His first – Rhidian from X Factor. If you can't remember exactly who that is, and let's be honest, who could blame you, it was the Welsh blonde opera singer. Rock and Roll. 

 

  1. Rich went through a phase where his favourite drink was an Archers and orange juice.

 

This only came to an end when as his friends, we quite rightly refused to order him one. Saying “2 Guinness, a pint of Stella, a double JD and Coke and an Archers and Orange please mate” in a rough pub when it's a bunch of lads just wasn't on.

 

If we did have to get him one, we always made sure it had a little cocktail umbrella so the old boys at the bar drinking a pint of mild were all sure to give him a dodgy look.

 

  1. I've got to thank Grace for sharing this one. Rich once re-wrote the song “IT girl” as a poem for grace, calling it Stoke girl. I'm not going to read it all out, but I'll give you the highlights. “Down Selly oak, in the soak, trying to find you/tell them other guys they can lose your number because I've found the girl of my dreams/ you can be my Stoke girl/ baby this is it girl/better than a 2:1, that's what you mean to me”.

 

 

Now, even though it was Grace who told me about this, what she doesn't actually know, is the reason behind it. Basically, the day before Valentine's Day, Rich realised her forgotten to get Grace a card, so Rich being the penny pincher he is, decided to screenshot and print out a moon pig card.

 

However, even Rich realised this moon pig knock off looked kind of bad, so heard It, Girl, on the radio, and just decided to change the words. As you can see from his efforts though, it's pretty obvious it's not English he teaches. 

 

  1. Final fact about Rich – his only other serious girlfriend very helpfully, for the purposes of my speech anyway, finished with him around this time of year. His time-hop recently showed his Facebook status from the break up. Timehop, if you're not aware of it, is an app that shows what your Facebook updates were on that day however many years ago.

 

 

Luckily for us, Rich decided to go on Facebook after getting the elbow. I'm not one to kick a bloke while he's down, but it's been 7 years now, so I'll share the status updates from that day with you now. “This shouldn't be happening”.

 

“The summer is ruined”, and my favourite, “if there's one thing I know for sure, I'm always going to be there for you, I'll be waiting X”. She probably thought she'd split up with Rod Stewart.

 

 

The main aim of the best man's speech is of course pretty much telling stories about the groom from drunken nights out, embarrassing him in front of all his family and friends.

 

Anyone who actually knows Rich knows that he is more than capable of doing that on his own, but I'll follow tradition and give it a go anyway.

 

This is where I hit a bit of a problem though, as I have to be aware of the audience…so Rich has been telling me almost daily for 18 months.

 

Not only are Rich's new in-law's present, but also his grandparents, and also my 3 year old. That rules out pretty much the vast majority.

 

 

I know everyone always says that, but I genuinely mean there are dozens I can't say. One in particular, but in Rich's defence, I honestly thought it was a woman as well. Eventually however, I did remember one I can share with you.

 

We were in Wolverhampton one night, in a club called blast off. Now back in the day, we didn't so much have a seduction technique, more “eye contact then close dancing when Call on Me by Eric Prydz came on”, but Rich was always different. As Dave and Lorraine will be pleased to hear, Rich always tried to be a complete gentleman.

 

His tried- very tried- and tested method was to approach a girl, say to them, “I've noticed you from across the dance floor, I think you're very attractive, could I please buy you a drink?”

 

Bearing in mind though.… this….was Wolverhampton, so usually he'd buy them a Bacardi breezer, and then they'd go and dance with a lad in a striped Henri Lloyd sweatshirt called Daz, so it never actually worked. One night however, Rich spotted a young girl, and made his way over.

 

By the time he got there though, she's moved. And believe me when I say for the next 3 hours we weren't stood in the same place for more than 2 minutes before rich moved us again looking for this girl. Eventually, at about 1am, he conceded defeat, and we went outside for a fag, and Rich, who's never smoked, tagged along.

 

Anyone who's ever been on a night out with Rich knows that he can't handle his drink. A sniff of the barmaids apron and he's hammered, so by this time, he was more than merry.

 

Then who do we see coming out of another door, but the girl in question. Rich then decides to make a last gasp romantic gesture and go over. In his head it no doubt was like Colin firth as Mr Darcy emerging from the lake in pride and prejudice.

 

In reality though, it was much different. He starts to walk toward the taxi, and thinks it'll look cooler, more dangerous, if he's got a cigarette, so he grabs one out of my mouth. He walks over, and that's when the rest of us realised, this wasn't a taxi…it was the girl's mother, fetching her daughter from up town.

 

As she shuts the door, Rich blocks it, she looks up, and sees Rich, an embassy number one hanging from his mouth, squinting from the smoke going in his eye, a can of red stripe in one hand, his phone in the other, mumbling what sounds like the lyrics to “I bet you look good on the dance floor”, swaying on the spot. Shockingly, he didn't get her number.

 

I still remember when Rich told me he'd met Grace. He said he'd met her up town, and was instantly smitten with her, and all he went on about for days was how they'd been texting and finally arranged to meet at an expensive restaurant in Birmingham.

 

Then, the nerves kicked in when he realised that on that night, they were both drunk, to be honest, I'm assuming grace was the more drunk out of the 2, and he couldn't really remember too much about her, and he could only gather so much from stalking her profile on Facebook, and even then he'd accidentally liked a photo from 2 years before, so he'd deactivated his profile for a few days just to be safe.

 

As luck would have it, my wife and I were in Birmingham than night in a different restaurant, so Rich came up with a plan. If he got there, and it was all going pear shaped, or he wanted to leave, he'd give me a ring, I'd ring him back, he'd pretend there was an emergency at work and I would pick him up. And now, here we are all these years later, on their wedding day.

 

All I can say is it's lucky my phone was on silent and I didn't see the 36 missed calls, 9 texts and 15 voicemails from Rich until the next morning.

 

In all seriousness now though, I'd like to thank Rich and Grace for including all of us here on their special day. Especially Ed, who didn't stop the fact he was only invited in the night stop him from being here now. To be honest we should all be saying that, he has been brutal with the guest list. Rich is a good friend, who I've had some great times with over the last 10 years, and he's found a true soul mate in Grace.

 

I have absolutely no doubt he'll be just as good a husband, and one day as good a father. Rich, Grace, if you could both just look at each other for a moment, don't worry, I'm not doing the “last time you've got the upper hand” gag. I'd like to say that everyone here is so happy that you have found each other, and that you have taken the next step on a long and wonderful life together.

 

And as you sit here, gazing into each other's eyes, never forget that statistically, you are looking at the person most likely to murder you.

 

Ladies and gentlemen, it has truly been an honour delivering this speech to you, so please, be upstanding, and raise your glasses for the new Mr and Mrs ….hold on, Rich hasn't got a drink….

 

I'm not surprised after how many toasts were in his speech….can we get him one.… (Waiter brings out an archers and orange with a cocktail umbrella in it)….ah, there we go……ladies and gentlemen, the new Mr and Mrs!

 

Best man speech toast tips and ideas for rehearsal dinner

I do hope you enjoyed the second speech as well.

 

Now, let’s see what went into it and how you can use the nuggets discovered to write your own best man toast.

To make this smooth sailing, I want us to relook at parts of the introduction so we can be guided as to how to write one.

 

From the above, you can clearly see that every introduction principally comprise of these elements:

  • Greeting the audience and thanking them for coming
  • Your name and relationship with the bride and groom
  • Thanking the groomsmen and the bridesmaid for their support.
  • Thanking the groom for asking you to be his best man and describing you felt when you realized that you are going to deliver a speech. If you do this well, you can score some good points with your friend or brother as well as the wedding guests.
  • If you are the brother of the groom, you can thank your parents and other relatives for the impact they have had on his life.

 

Let me ask you this: Based on what I just said, could you please write down the names of the people you would like to say a big thank you to? Do a little brainstorming and do that right way.

 

Well, the introduction has a twin brother and I personally call him: introduction (b)

You know what? After you have mentioned the names of people you wish to a big shout to, you should start your speech in a way that makes them want to listen to you until you wrap up.

 

Unfortunately, the overwhelming majority of best men do such a terrible job at this. If you don’t start on a bright note, the wedding attendees will tune out and begin to fidget. If that happens, you will really struggle to gain their attention even if the remainder of your best man's speech is like a tasty bar of chocolate.

 

I know that this means the world to you, so I am going to share with you proven and simple methods and ideas you can easily use to capture their hearts right from the very beginning.

 

  • The most popular way to begin is to dive right into the story by sharing how and where you met the groom. Once again, if you are his big brother, you can share how you felt when your little brother was born.

 

  • Second, you can start with a joke about married couples.

For example,

  • Third, you may start with a quote about love or marriage or friendship. Here are a few ones you can use.
  1. Some people come into our lives for a season. Others for a reason ; and some others for a lifetime.
  2. A real friend is one who walks in when the rest of the world walks out.”
    – Walter Winchell
  1. We came into the world like brother and brother; and now let’s go hand in hand, not one before another.” – William Shakespeare
  1. Don’t make friends who are comfortable to be with. Make friends who will force you to lever yourself up.”
    – Thomas J. Watson
  1. “Brothers are playmates in the beginning and best friends for life.”
  1. ‘’A brother is a gift to the heart, a friend to the spirit.”

 

If you are the younger brother of the groom, you can use a quote about positive influences or even this funny one:

 

‘’Happiness is having a younger brother who is taller than you.”

 

Here’s a practical example  of how to use those quotes. I will go for quote #1 underlined in the short extract below.

 

Ladies and gentlemen, some people come into our lives for a season. Others for a reason; and some others for a lifetime.

If you are blessed enough to have a very warm and loving brother like John in your life, then, you have to treasure him more than anything else in the world because people like him are so rare.

When I became sensible enough to understand the effects of my reckless actions, I was only 19 and he had grown wiser as a 30 year old man. That happened only 3 years ago when…..

 

Did you see how I used that quote to start with the above short example? That’s how to go about it.

Now, let’s see

 

How To Write The Body Of Your Best Man Speech

Let’s see look at snippets of the second example to guide us along the way.

‘’Now, everyone here knows Rich in a different capacity, so not everyone will know things about him that others know. Some know him from work, some from Uni, some through Grace, and some through family. So, what I'm going to do now is share with you some little known facts about Richard.’’

 

If you go back to read the second example, you will notice that the storyline is about   Richard’s relationship with Craig.

 

To come up with the right stories for the body of your speech, you should do a little brainstorming and put down memories of what the years of your friendship with the groom have been like.

 

The following pointers can help you come up with the right anecdotes. So, put down your answers on a sheet of paper or in your journal

  • Where and when did you first meet him?
  • What drew him close to you?
  • What are some things you share in common?
  • Why do you really like?
  • What are some of his superb qualities?
  • Why are so proud of your friend or brother?
  • In what ways does he motivate you to do your best?
  • What fun and fond memories do you want to share?

 

This is what I want you to do now. If you have written down answers to the above questions, then please try putting your thoughts together in a logical order taking cues from the examples we have seen.

 

How to write your best man toast speech

 

Don’t force yourself to sound funny. Just be yourself and make good use of the stories you have and your friend and the wedding guests will appreciate what you said about the groom.

 

By the way, don’t write about anything that will upset him like past relationships or anything else like that. If any story you have used gives you a second thought, don’t hesitate to strike it out.

 

As you do, just make sure your speech isn’t lopsided. Talk about your sister-in-law or the bride. If you have known her for a long time, then you can say so much about her.

 

If you don’t know the bride, you can simply say that she’s well-suited for the groom. Welcome her to the family if you are the brother of the groom and say some nice things about her.

 

Oh, I almost forget about this. There’s a raging debate about the length of the best man speech.

 

Wondering how long your best man speech should be?

Let me do justice to it based on my experience as a wedding speechwriter. You see, there’s nothing like a short or medium or long speech.

 

As long as your best man's speech gives them a reason to be happy or make them realize certain aspects of his character which they didn’t know before the wedding day, then no one will be concerned about how long you stand behind the microphone.

 

If you are still not convinced that your speech doesn’t always have to be short, please watch how the guests enjoyed this ten minutes speech. No wonder, it has so many views.

 

After you have put down what’s on your heart, put it aside, and later get back to it as you have might have fresh insights when you go back to revise it.

 

Now, let’s see

 

How To End Your Best Man Speech On A Memorable Note

 

Once again, let’s see portions of our example for inspiration.

‘’I have absolutely no doubt he'll be just as good a husband, and one day as good a father. Rich, Grace, if you could both just look at each other for a moment, don't worry, I'm not doing the “last time you've got the upper hand” gag. I'd like to say that everyone here is so happy that you have found each other, and that you have taken the next step on a long and wonderful life together. ‘’

 

  • First, you can simply say why the groom will be a good husband and father as seen in this example.

 

  • You can end with a song about the theme of love for all times if you don’t have a sad singing voice like the waves of the sea. If you want to employ this, just make sure you look for one the wedding guests can sing along. But you don’t have to sing the entire verses, just use the lyrics you love to conclude your toast.

 

  • If you are married, you can share a bit of simple marriage advice. If you are not married, you still can in a very clever way.

 

Here’s a short example of how to do that even if you have yet to tie the knot.

I think I am not the best person to give you marriage advice since I have not walked on that road before but Brandon’s love for me has taught me that the most important foundation of love is friendship. So, make sure you always love each other.

 

  • You can simply say how happy you are for them and offer your well wishes for the journey ahead.

 

  • Do you know of a lovely marriage or love poem? You can use that to wrap up.

 

  • Are you or the couple Christians? Do they believe in God? If so, you can use bible verses to end on a strong note. You may use this scripture.

 

Psalm 128

A song of ascents.

Blessed are all who fear the Lord,
    who walk in obedience to him.
You will eat the fruit of your labor;
    blessings and prosperity will be yours.
Your wife will be like a fruitful vine
    within your house;
your children will be like olive shoots
    around your table.
Yes, this will be the blessing
    for the man who fears the Lord.

May the Lord bless you from Zion;
    may you see the prosperity of Jerusalem
    all the days of your life.
May you live to see your children’s children—
    peace be on Israel.

1 John 4:12, NIV: "No one has ever seen God; but if we love one another, God lives in us and his love is made complete in us.

Using 1 John 4:12, I made this up…

Alex and Amanda, your love is a very beautiful gift. So always love each other. As  long as you love one another, God will guide your path and his love will be complete in you.

  • If you don’t know what to say, just wrap up with a sweet toast.

 

How to write your best man speech

 

 


BestMan Speech- If you fail to do this, the audience won't compliment you

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What do you think is the most essential part of your bestman speech? Is it the intro?The body? Or the toast?

Well,you might think it's the body because it's the part of the speech that delight the audience the most.

However, many bestmen miss the mark when writing their wedding speech. They fail to capture the attention of their friends and audience right from the minute they are called to speak .The reason being that,they simply don't know how to hook their attention with a great intro.

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The best way to win them to your side is by starting with a captivating introduction.There are several ways to get the guests as happy as a flea in a doghouse. Below are tidbits to help you to go about it.

  • The audience will see the gentleman in  you if first  greet them . Afterwards,you should welcome them to the ceremony before you proceed to do a short self introduction.
  • You can also compliment the audience and share your sentiments about your friend's or brother's big day.
  • It is often better to begin with a joke or something witty.But please make sure you don't say anything that will  embarrass the groom. Issues like commenting  about his ex-girl friends, temperament, political affiliations and his soft spots shouldn't come out from your  mouth.
  • You can also  tie the opening part of your bestman speech to any memorable incident.
  • You can also commence with a thoughtful quote about marriage.For example" Marriage makes men stronger even if they are as weak as water.''

 Let me help you with this example

Good afternoon beautiful ladies and handsome gentlemen, it's a great pleasure to    see you at  Roger's wedding. I do hope you are having a great time! Thanks for coming to his aid. I wonder  what will have become of him if he came to meet an empty room. All his palns will have been foiled. I guess he will have been the first chap to wed in a room without guests.

Joking aside, I am Cly, Roger's best man. I got to know him some twenty years ago when we were both  students at the ''Bachelor University.'', the only university for unmarried men like myself

Please remember that  a great opener will thrill the guests and they will come up to you to compliment you for a job well done after you are done.Thank you

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Best Man Speeches-How to come up with a best man speech that will thrill your friend and the guests

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Bestman-1 Being a best man is a great honor.Your friend/brother has chosen you because he knows you are someone he can depend on.Aside serving as the groom's personal adviser, and helping organize the other groomsmen,you are expected to give a best man speech.

Many best men don't have what it takes to speak in public and they get  worried when they have to give their wedding speech.That shouldn't be the case.

After the groom has spoken ,you  have to take your turn and the ideas on this page will help you write a speech that will impress your friend/brother, and the guests.

To give a memorable speech,you need to prepare. Preparation begins in the mind and you should have a positive mental attitude. Ignore those ringing voices inside your head which seems to say you can't make it. Let your mind run wild with images of the audience applauding you for your delivery and confidence will naturally come to you. Just change the way you think about being in the public eye and you will make it. Think success and success will knock at your doors.

You should also set goals you want your speech to achieve. Do you want your delivery to come across  as humorous,witty,sentimental or even poetic?

Just because others tell you  best man speeches are funny doesn't mean you should give a funny piece. Pick a style that's unique to you.Your style is what your friend/brother and guests will remember you for.

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As the ''groom's vice president'', your busy schedule may compel you to procrastinate the writing of your speech.To prevent  this from occurring, you should get specific days and times to writing your speech.  Doing this, ensures that you remain focus.The setting you choose should quiet.

If you are at home, you can pick  a room that's not used regularly by a lot of people. At times, great ideas can hit you at the oddest time of the day.To make sure you don't lose them , you should keep a note pad and paper in handy.

You also need the right facts to work with. This is essentially information about your friend. The facts should be something your friend and his family can relate to. For instance,you can tell of your relationship with him and how you became best pals.

Tell amusing stories about him and how he met his wife.Don't mention anything that will taint reputation.Eg-past relationships.Come up with light hearted comments about his behaviour,skills,achivements and anything that's not offensive.

Working with best man speech samples will do you a lot of good. Firstly,it will save you time and spare you the agony of not knowing what to write. And it will also takeout the guesswork out of writing your speech.

Writing your speech isn't difficult as you think;  have  a positive mental outlook and you will give a speech will make you the hero of the night.

Did I Ever Tell You There Was This One Thing Most Best Men That Give Very Beautiful Wedding Speeches Do Prior To Their Brother's/Son's Wedding?

This proven secret is guaranteed to not only calm your nerves but also help you write a beautiful speech without spending hours trying to figure out what you think might be a great speech.

Just imagine how you will feel if you come up with a great speech...the groom and your friends will be proud of you and you are not going to forget that experience...

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  • Next, fill it out and send it to us on the email on that form you'll get and then your beautiful speech is delivered by one of our expert writers. After, you look it over and tell us whether you are okay with it or you want to amend it.
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       CLICK HERE TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have your peace of mind!

You only have to pay after you have seen your speech. So, you can understand that we want you to be happy with your speech first before we take money from you later.

        CLICK HERE TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered.

So, you can relax and let us sweat it out at our expense!