Maid of Honor Speech For Friend Or Sister: Here Are Easy To Follow Tips And Ideas You Can Use To Write An Amazing Maid Of Honor Speech For Your Friend or Sister
Need easy-to-follow tips and ideas to help you write a heartfelt maid of honor speech for your friend or sister? But, can’t seem to make headway?
Just stick with me for a while and I will share with you tips and ideas about…
- How you can model your maid of honor speech after maid of honor speech examples or samples
- How to create an outline and structure for your maid of honor speech for your friend or sister
- How to write a great maid of honor speech for your sister or friend using the exact steps I use to create stellar wedding speeches
Ok…let’s dive right in.
Here’s Why You Need A Good Maid Of Honor Speech
There’s no greater joy than standing by your friend or sister as she exchange promises with that special person in her life.
That’s an honor you shouldn’t take lightly.Well, another honor up for grabs is when you confidently grab the microphone and make an amazing maid of honor speech for your sister or friend.
If you are not good with words or an eloquent speaker, that can be pretty mesmerizing and you might find yourself wondering where to start and how to connect your jumbled thoughts and ideas into a deeply meaningful maid of honor speech.
If you are stuck, please don’t worry because the following easy-to-follow tips can help you get started even if you think you are a very terrible writer.
It Starts From Here And Ends Here
Writing and delivering a maid of honor speech first begins in the mind. How so?
If you never delivered a speech your whole lifetime, your mind will bring up images of when you failed to impress your listeners with your speaking skills. If you dwell on it, you will magnify your fears.
So, you have to leave the past in the past and keep your sights on developing your confidence no matter you are feeling right now. That, in essence, is the first step to calming your nerves so you can work up the nerve for your wedding speech for your friend or sister.
Here’s How to Get Content Ideas for Your Maid Of Honor Speech
If you are clueless about this whole speech writing thing, then the best way to move forward is to first watch inspiring maid of honor speech YouTube videos.
You may watch several entertaining clips a couple of times and write down ideas and tips you think you can weave into your own script.
Here are some really good video clips for your viewing and learning pleasure.
Maid of Honor Speech Video Example For Sister#1
Maid of Honor Speech Video Template For Friend# 2
Have You Also Thought About This For Your Maid Of Honor Speech?
Another handy resource that’s a real ‘’goldmine’’ for rich ideas is maid of honor speech examples/samples. The trick here is to find a well-written example, analyze it to find out how it was written, and then model your maid of honor speech after it.
We are going to cover that and more in detail in the next few lines. So, please stay tuned.
First and foremost, let’s look at this:
Maid Of Honor Speech Example/ Template
I would like to thank hitched.co.uk for posting this on their website.
Liz… I’m so happy to be here today as your maid of honour, and to be able to tell everyone here how perfect Liz and Mike are for each other.
For those of you who don’t know, I’m Michelle, best friend of Liz’s for nearly 20 years. We were in 6th grade when we first met, and bonded because we were both going through our cringy anime phase together (and are still going through). She was obsessed with the anime Gundam Wing and I was a weird, nerdy kid who happened to like it too.
You were by my side on my actual wedding day as my maid of honour, and now I am by yours, finally getting to see you walk down the aisle to the man of your dreams.
I never would have thought that this friendship that started from passing notes in class and doodling anime boys to one another would be my most treasured and long-lived friendship. But it wasn’t hard, since, over time, I learned that Liz is one of the most dedicated and loving people you will ever meet.
When she decides to be loyal to someone, she will put her whole heart into it. I really could go on and on about how wonderful she is, and god knows I have many stories of our shenanigans, from anime and boy drama through middle school and high school, to drunken all-nighters and Anime Expos in college. But when I think about our friendship, I like to recall us sneaking off to the apartment pool one night because summers in Riverside are hot as hell even after sunset.
We dipped our feet in the water and gushed about being at each other’s weddings and even having kids around the same time so our kids could be best friends like us (OR MAYBE MORE…). And here we are now…
You were by my side on my actual wedding day as my maid of honour, and now I am by yours, finally getting to see you walk down the aisle to the man of your dreams. And I know there’s no man more worthy of your love and intense loyalty than Mike.
I watched their relationship bloom, from cute virtual dates in World of Warcraft, to sneaking off to Disneyland during the summer, and I saw that both of them were romantics who genuinely wanted to make it work.
Liz has always had a type – she loves the cool, mysterious, quiet types with good jawlines. In Mike’s case, his cool exterior as they got to know each other in high school was likely him just being socially awkward and shy.
But I watched their relationship bloom, from cute virtual dates in World of Warcraft, to sneaking off to Disneyland during the summer, and I saw that both of them were romantics who genuinely wanted to make it work. And I know you both worked your asses off to make it work.
Few people realise how many challenges you two overcame to be together and stay together. You were long distance for half of your relationship – over high school AND college, across the country, from California to Ohio. That’s a huge accomplishment.
People change so much from those ages, become totally different people with different goals. Yet Liz and Mike made it work. They grew together and always, always made an effort to intertwine their lives together.
They never stopped communicating, never stopped dating each other, even when they finally closed the distance. This is a couple that still kiss and hug and look at each other like love-struck teenagers several years later...
As Liz’s roommate, I can tell you she was always on the phone or webcam with him. She’d lovingly craft comics and art of them two to send in care packages to him, and I remember Mike drawing something for her, even though he’s not the drawing type, and running it by me for the sake of reciprocating her love.
And they kept this up for years. They never stopped communicating, never stopped dating each other, even when they finally closed the distance. This is a couple that still kiss and hug and look at each other like love-struck teenagers several years later, yet have the confidence and intimacy of one that’s grown old and wise together.
Liz and Mike, as a couple, you two are exactly where you should be. To the happy couple and their happily ever after!
As someone who has watched their relationship from the very beginning, you two truly embody a piece of advice I once heard about marriage:
“A wedding ceremony should only, ever and always, be an affirmation that the relationship is where the couple wants to be, and a promise to keep it like that.” Liz and Mike, as a couple, you two are exactly where you should be. To the happy couple and their happily ever after!
Well, Let's Dive In! - We're Going To Draft A Beautiful Maid Of Honor Toast
Recall that maid of honor speech sample? It has an introduction, body, and conclusion. Pretty standard, right? But these three components form the basis for every speech.
So, let’s now focus on how best to write the first part of your maid of honor speech: an introduction
To get a fair idea of how to write the opening remarks, let's revisit that introduction, digest it, and then you'll know what to say. Also, what not to say, which is equally important.
"Hello all. Your presence here, to cheer on Brooke and Brian, means the world. I'm Faith, if you didn't know. Brooke's little sister. And today, I stand here as her Maid of Honor."
Take a pause here, let that sink in. Then, show your gratitude.
"A special thank you goes out to our parents. Mary, Robert, your love for us is undeniable. Gloria, William, your support for Brian has been immense. All of you, together, made this day possible. The love you've shown, it's a shining beacon. It's the essence of true marriage. From the bottom of my heart, thank you."
Let's break it down, shall we? The first few lines should include two things (Part A):
- First, who you are and how you're connected to the bride.
- Second, a warm welcome and expression of appreciation.
Let's say you're the bride's sister. Go ahead and express your gratitude to your parents, grandparents even, especially if they've played a significant role in your upbringing. If you are a friend of the bride, simply thank everyone for coming to the wedding and deliver your speech.
Take a moment to thank her for the honor of being asked to speak. Make sure she knows how deeply honored and excited you are to stand beside her side as her maid of honor. There's magic in expressing your emotions, believe me. The crowd will feel it too.
Let's take a little task to start things off. Grab a pen, a piece of paper. Write down names. Names of the folks you'd like to acknowledge, right at the start. Jot them down in this space.
1)…………
2)…………
3)…………
Believe it or not, there’s actually a second part connected to the introduction. Shall we look at it?
Ok…here you go: I picked up those lines from the maid of honor speech above.
''Brooke, as a big sister, you were incredible. Growing up, I didn’t fully grasp the extent of your love and support.''
Guess what? It's the preface to your speech's body, the hook if you will. Here's how you can make your speech captivating from the get-go with a ‘’killer’’ hook.
First, start off with a compliment, simple and sweet. Look at this example:
Anita, you radiate beauty tonight, sitting next to your charming prince.
Next, got a good singing voice like this maid of honor? Use it. Serenade the audience with your opening lines. Entertain the guests with a popular tune. One they can hum, sway or even dance along to. Make it an unforgettable moment. Trust me, they'll love it! Here's an example:
Next, open with a quote. A quote about love, marriage or friendship. Here are a few heart-warming ones to kick start your speech:
- Moulin Rouge said, “The greatest thing you'll ever learn is just to love and be loved in return.”
- Jean Dan said, “Every woman deserves happiness. Yet, she becomes her true self when she finds the one who completes her joy.”
- Jean Dan also said, “A good man is the best gift God can give a good woman from His treasure chest.”
- Here's another from Jean Dan, “True love remains elusive until you meet the one your heart and soul yearn for.”
- Megan said “I never knew what love was until I met you, and when distance separated us, I discovered what true love meant."
Now, let's ask ourselves. Can you transform any of these quotes into an enchanting intro? Let's try this exercise together.
"I discovered the true meaning of love when I met my best friend two decades ago."
Feel the warmth in that? It pulls at your heartstrings, doesn't it? Noticed how seamlessly I incorporated the quote, "'I never knew what love was until I met you. When distance pulled us apart, I discovered what true love is'"? The result is touching and genuine. That's the power of a well-placed quote.
Another tactic? Play with words. Make your speech humorous. Something like this:
"Good afternoon, all. I'm 'berry' happy…(pause and laugh) Maybe it's because I had berries for breakfast? It warms my heart seeing so many of you traveled from afar to be here. It means the world."
(Note: switch 'very' with 'berry' to engage the audience)... (pause, wait for chuckles, then add)...
Better still, you may start with a rhyming poem like this one:
These I Can Promise - Mark Twain
I cannot promise you a life of sunshine;
I cannot promise riches, wealth, or gold;
I cannot promise you an easy pathway
That leads away from change or growing old.
But I can promise all my heart’s devotion;
A smile to chase away your tears of sorrow;
A love that’s ever true and ever growing;
A hand to hold in yours through each tomorrow.
Now, a question for you. Which technique resonates with you for the second part of your introduction? Pick one. Scribble down some thoughts and see what happens.
Next up, let's learn...
How to Write The Body of Your Maid of Honor Speech Using This Example
Let's take inspiration from the example above. The path to guide us, so to speak.
"Almost every childhood memory of mine involves you, all the more wonderful because of you. Remember our all-day 'Olden Days' games?"
Faith discussed memories. And that's precisely what your maid of honor speech should be.
How to gather those memories? It's easy. Get your notepad, pen, and answer these questions:
- When and where did you first meet the bride? If you're her sister, talk about her birth. If you are not her sister, you can just mention how and when you first met and became friends.
- How did your bond grow? Share childhood memories if she's your sister. Stick to the good ones. No embarrassing tales, unless they're humorously spun.
- What shared interests do you have? Travelling? Shopping? Sports? Reading? Just write them down and embellish it with a good story if you can
- What funny and sweet memories do you have of the bride?
- Mention the groom too. If you don't know him well, tell him he's lucky to have married your friend or sister and share with him a few tips for making her happy.
Here's what I suggest: Answer the questions above, use those to create an outline or bullet points. Then, pen a first draft. Edit and polish it until the content and style sing in harmony. If your storyline is too long, just go with what you would like to share with your family and friends.
Alright, now we come into the last part...
Wrapping Up Your Maid of Honor Speech Unforgettably!
The grand finale of your toast should leave an imprint like the words of a sacred book. You want the memory of your words to linger. To achieve that, here are some foolproof strategies:
- Are you married? Share a golden nugget about what keeps a marriage thriving.
- Share encouraging words or wishes for the newlyweds. Simple yet heartfelt. Can you write one? Not too hard to jot one down, right?
- How about ending with a love quote from a movie? Here are some contenders:
From "Angels in the Outfield" (1994), "Love is that can't-eat, can't-sleep, reach-for-the-stars, over-the-fence, World Series kind of stuff."
- If the couple met online, borrow this from "Her" (2013), "The heart's not like a box that gets filled up. It expands in size the more you love."
- Or, the tongue-in-cheek quote from "Knocked Up" (2007), “Marriage is like a tense, unfunny, version of Everybody Loves Raymond, only it doesn’t last 22 minutes. It lasts forever."
- Or, a touching poem could be just the thing. Poetry has a way of expressing feelings like nothing else.
- If you or the couple holds Christian beliefs, ending your speech with a Bible verse or scriptures could add a special touch.
I'm drawn to using Psalm 128 as my wrap-up. It's such a heartwarming scripture!
Psalm 128 from the New International Version reads like a song rising to the heavens:
I would like to use Psalm 128 to wrap up….it’s such a beautiful bible quote!
Psalm 128(New International Version)
A song of ascents.
1 Blessed are all who fear the Lord,
who walk in obedience to him.
2 You will eat the fruit of your labor;
blessings and prosperity will be yours.
3 Your wife will be like a fruitful vine
within your house;
your children will be like olive shoots
around your table.
4 Yes, this will be the blessing
for the man who fears the Lord.
5 May the Lord bless you from Zion;
may you see the prosperity of Jerusalem
all the days of your life.
6 May you live to see your children’s children— peace be on Israel.
These are all great choices. But remember, it's about what resonates with you, what you feel will best encapsulate your sentiments, and importantly, what you believe will be a meaningful note to end on for the bride, groom, and the audience.
Your maid of honor speech is your gift to them, so make it as unique and special as they are.
Let me ask you this simple question: Can you really use all the tips and ideas on this page to write your own maid of honor speech for your sister or friend.
If you are not too sure, you might want to find out how Li did with incredible ease when her friend was getting married.
She badly wanted to give a great maid of honor speech that would make my friend feel not only proud but also express how much she loves and adores her.
But, juggling her 9-5 and helping the bride plan for the wedding were a real struggle that she didn’t know where to start or even find the right words that would express her deepest love and admiration for the bride and his groom.
They say nothing ventured, nothing gained. So, she took a leap of faith by first filling out this very simple form when she found out that she didn’t have to pay first to get her speech done.
She asked for a few edits and when we asked her how her speech went, she sent over this note: (Please note: Kindly click on the image below to make it legible)
Li's not the only one we have helped. We helped another nervous person whose testimonial is in his own pen below.
We have helped several others give memorable speeches too, So, your case is not hopeless. There’s hope for you.
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We have helped several others give memorable speeches too. So, your case is not hopeless. There’s hope for you.
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''The wedding was GREAT. There were about 120 guests. About 15 people came up to me afterward and told me I gave a great speech. I had to tweak it a little because of my tardiness getting it to you but, it all turned out great. Thanks for all your help. I really appreciate it''- Phil Australia
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Just a reminder of what you pay after it’s duly completed.
You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.
Why? As you know, the current health and economic crisis have caused severe hardships for most people.
Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.
Yet, some brides are still getting married and asking their friends or siblings to make maid of honor speeches.
Nonetheless, not everyone could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.
So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.
Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.
So, please take advantage of it now even if the bride's big day is in the future.
Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video, and the bride, your friends, friends and family, and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.
So, please take advantage of it now even if the wedding day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.
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''Hi Dan,
The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice). Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.
All the best,
Matt''
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Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise, and clarity!
''Hi Dan,
The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice). Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.
All the best,
Matt''
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