There’s nothing more touching than locking hands with the bride and looking into her eyes as you exchange vows. Most grooms have said that they cried with joy when they made their vows.
Nevertheless, it’s not so easy to eloquently put together what you feel about the bride and what you both want to achieve as you meld your lives together.
Even if you wish to make a funny vow, you certainly have to incorporate some serious elements in it since vows are meant to a sacred expression of your love for someone you just can’t live without.
Unfortunately, most grooms concentrate on the consuming aspects of the wedding that they forget about their vows until it’s a few days or even hours to the wedding.
That shouldn’t happen to you because you will come under intense pressure if you do and you will come across as someone who didn’t prepare very well for this solemn and memorable act.
I want your wedding vows to be unique, sweet, and memorable so that the bride will love and adore you more.This is a rare chance to publicly tell everyone how much you love her.
Ok, Is This Offer For Me?
Yes, if you really love your wife with your whole heart and you want to reassure her of your deepest love for her.
Yes, it’s for you if you are overwhelmed by the pressures of work and don’t have the time to put your vows together.
Yes, if you are not too eloquent or not too sure if you are on the right track.
Yes, if you don’t want to feel any tinge of embarrassment or screw-up!
Yes, if you feel speaking in public is not your thing and you’re not too sure if you will succeed or not make it.
Yes, if you are struggling to find the right words but still want to make a heartfelt vow. So you are showered with tons of sincere compliments!
Yes, if you have a day or less to the wedding and you are worried that you might make some horrible mistakes!
Yes, if you are a good speaker but you still want someone to look over or review what you've come up with!
Just imagine not having to worry about what to say and how best to say it in a very meaningful way. Wouldn't you love that? I hope you do...
Do you want me to help me out?You should by first filling out this form.
Wedding not too far away? Or happening in less than 24 hours?Trust me, we can deliver!it doesn’t matter if your speech is today, tomorrow, next week, next month, next year,... we can make things work for you
Do you want me to help me out?You should by first filling out this form.
Ok, I am Interested, What’s the Cost?
You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your wedding vow.
Why? As you know, the current health and economic crisis has caused severe hardships for most people.
Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.
Yet, some couples are still getting married and have to make vows since it’s something you can’t take out of the wedding ceremony. Nonetheless, not everyone could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.
So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your vows.
Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.
So, please take advantage of it now even if your big day is in the future.Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your vows will be captured on video, and your family and friends and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.
So, please take advantage of it now even if your big day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your vows.
Oh Ok, How Then Do I Get Started Since I Want To Get On Board Right Away?
After that, we will send you a very short questionnaire to fill out via email! You only have to check your email a few hours after you have made your request.
Then, you fill out the questionnaire sent through your email, and please have it sent back to us…
We will confirm receipt of it…If something is not too clear, we will ask you to clarify….
If not, we will send you a wonderful draft in a couple of hours if this on very short notice….If not, after a few days
Then, you look it over and tell us if you are okay with it or you want to amend or revise it till you are happy with it--although we always get it right even with the first draft
Then, we ask you to pay for it.
Please note: The information collected through the questionnaire is only for the purpose of writing your speech. I wouldn’t even need it if I could read your mind. So, your information is very confidential and no one will know about it.
Just a reminder of what you pay after it’s duly completed.
You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your vows.
Why? As you know, the current health and economic crisis has caused severe hardships for most people.
Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds. Yet, some couples are still getting married and have to make their vows.
Nonetheless, not everyone could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us. So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your vow.
Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.
So, please take advantage of it now even if your big day is in the future.
Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video, your family and friends, and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.
So, please take advantage of it now even if your big day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get it.
Please note: Don’t fill out this form if you’re a dishonest individual. This offer is for a limited time.
Forget about money and let’s write something for you. We believe in the values of honesty and integrity and we think you should be happy with our work first.
Even if you wish to make a funny vow, you certainly have to incorporate some serious elements in it since vows are meant to a sacred expression of your love for someone you just can’t live without.
Unfortunately, most brides concentrate on the consuming aspects of the wedding that they forget about their vows until it’s a few days or even hours to the wedding.
That shouldn’t happen to you because you will come under intense pressure if you do and you will come appear as someone who didn’t prepare very well for this solemn and memorable act.
I want your wedding vows to be unique, sweet, and memorable so that the groom will love and adore you more.This is a rare chance to publicly tell everyone how much you love him.
Ok, Is This Offer For Me?
Yes, if you really love your husband with your whole heart and you want to reassure him of your deepest love for him.
Yes, it’s for you if you are overwhelmed by the pressures of work and don’t have the time to put your vows together.
Yes, if you are not too eloquent or not too sure if you are on the right track.
Yes, if you don’t want to feel any tinge of embarrassment or screw-up!
Yes, if you feel speaking in public is not your thing and you’re not too sure if you will succeed or not make it.
Yes, if you are struggling to find the right words but still want to make a heartfelt vow. So you are showered with tons of sincere compliments!
Yes, if you have a day or less to the wedding and you are worried that you might make some horrible mistakes!
Yes, if you are a good speaker but you still want someone to look over or review what you've come up with!
Just imagine not having to worry about what to say and how best to say it in a very meaningful way. Wouldn't you love that? I hope you do...
Do you want me to help me out?You should by first filling out this form.
Wedding not too far away? Or happening in less than 24 hours?Trust me, we can deliver!it doesn’t matter if your speech is today, tomorrow, next week, next month, next year,... we can make things work for you
Do you want me to help me out?You should by first filling out this form.
Ok, I am Interested, What’s the Cost?
You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your wedding vow.
Why? As you know, the current health and economic crisis has caused severe hardships for most people.
Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.
Yet, some couples are still getting married and have to make vows since it’s something you can’t take out of the wedding ceremony. Nonetheless, not everyone could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.
So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your vows.
Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.
So, please take advantage of it now even if your big day is in the future.Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your vows will be captured on video, and your family and friends and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.
So, please take advantage of it now even if your big day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your vows.
Oh Ok, How Then Do I Get Started Since I Want To Get On Board Right Away?
After that, we will send you a very short questionnaire to fill out via email! You only have to check your email a few hours after you have made your request.
Then, you fill out the questionnaire sent through your email, and please have it sent back to us…
We will confirm receipt of it…If something is not too clear, we will ask you to clarify….
If not, we will send you a wonderful draft in a couple of hours if this on very short notice….If not, after a few days
Then, you look it over and tell us if you are okay with it or you want to amend or revise it till you are happy with it--although we always get it right even with the first draft
Then, we ask you to pay for it.
Please note: The information collected through the questionnaire is only for the purpose of writing your speech. I wouldn’t even need it if I could read your mind. So, your information is very confidential and no one will know about it.
Just a reminder of what you pay after it’s duly completed.
You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your vows.
Why? As you know, the current health and economic crisis has caused severe hardships for most people.
Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds. Yet, some couples are still getting married and have to make their vows.
Nonetheless, not everyone could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us. So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your vow.
Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.
So, please take advantage of it now even if your big day is in the future.
Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video, your family and friends, and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.
So, please take advantage of it now even if your big day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get it.
Please note: Don’t fill out this form if you’re a dishonest individual. This offer is for a limited time.
Forget about money and let’s write something for you. We believe in the values of honesty and integrity and we think you should be happy with our work first.
Are you looking for ideas and ideas to help you write a heartfelt wedding vow for the groom or him but can’t seem to get started? Just bear with me for a while and I will share with you….
Tips and ideas about how to write a heartfelt wedding vow for him
How to write a funny wedding vow for the groom
How to model your wedding vows after wedding toast examples/templates
John and Jenny were two people who weren't looking for love, but fate brought them together in an unlikely place—a garbage dump! Both of them had suffered heartbreak and had resigned to never believing in love again.
On that fateful day, they just exchanged polite pleasantries, but John felt something deeper in his heart; he knew that she was the one he'd been waiting for.
A year later, they met again on the beach and realized they couldn't deny their connection any longer. This time, they decided to take a chance on love, leading to the start of their beautiful relationship!
They had each gone to the same place to reflect on what had gone wrong and think about how they could make their lives better. John's curiosity got the best of him, and after speaking with her for one hour, they became the best of friends.
Eventually, they found themselves mutually infatuated, and marriage soon followed. Shortly before the wedding, John was involved in a horrific car accident that left his legs broken and immobilized for months. His doctor said he may not be able to walk again.
Despite the heartbreak Jenny and her family experienced after Mike's accident, she remained committed to standing by him, even if it meant getting married to him from a wheelchair.
Deeply believing in her faith, Jenny kept praying for a miracle that would bring him back on his feet, so they could tell their story one day on their wedding day.
As the days passed without any notable progress, the couple flirted with the idea of cancelling their wedding plans at some point. However, Jenny persistently refused to accept this thought every time Mike proposed it.
The entire family was overwhelmed with emotion and desperation. To everyone's relief, Chris received news that Mike was making a quicker-than-expected recovery, and the family was filled with joy once more.
Two months after Mike had been released from the hospital, he and his partner returned to their wedding plans. After thinking about different ways to do something meaningful and inspiring, they chose a unique way to show how they felt about each other: writing their own vows and then reading them out loud on their wedding day.
This way, they could keep it a surprise while at the same time offering a heartfelt and touching message. Michael's wedding vow to his wife left everyone stunned and in awe. No one could predict what she would say, as she was not normally very versatile with words.
With tears in her eyes, the bride began reading out loud her wedding vows with deep emotion:
My dearest Michael,
From the moment I met you at the garbage dump, I knew there was something special about you. But I never could have imagined the incredible journey we would embark on together.
You have shown me what it truly means to love and be loved. Your unwavering support and encouragement have been my rock through the toughest of times.
I promise to always stand by your side, to hold your hand through thick and thin, and to love you with every fiber of my being.
You have brought light to my life and filled it with happiness beyond measure. I am forever grateful to call you my partner, my friend, and my soulmate.
I vow to be your faithful companion, to share in both the joys and challenges that life may bring us. I will support you, encourage you, and stand by your side every step of the way.
With you, I am home. And I promise to spend the rest of my life making sure that you always feel the same.
I love you now and forever.
Her tenderness and sincere feelings moved many people after she finished saying her vows.
You might be wondering what you are going to say and how you are going to say it since you are probably not so eloquent or even a gifted speaker.
You Don’t Have To Worry About This
If you’re feeling nervous about writing your wedding vows, don’t worry! You might think eloquence and a gift for public speaking are two of the most important things you need to craft beautiful, heartfelt vows.
While those skills certainly don’t hurt, they aren't absolutely necessary either. I’ll share tips and tricks to help even the most unspeakably shy person write amazing wedding vows that will make everyone cry or laugh. With these ideas handy, you'll be able to write something truly special!
Are You Prepared To Take The Plunge?
Okay, before we begin, let us address an impediment that can hinder people from expressing themselves well in front of a crowd.
You may know exactly what you want to say, but if you don’t have the self-assurance to put it into action, your words might not reach any ears.
So, let's kick off by looking at how to construct the inner strength required for you to speak with conviction, even when you feel as anxious as a fish out of water!
I'm constantly inspired by the powerful words in Proverbs 23:7, which state: "As a man thinks in his heart, so is he." This verse emphasizes how our beliefs and patterns of thinking shape our lives and who we become. Our past decisions and actions stay with us even after we put them behind us.
Everyone knows that feeling of panic when they have to address a large crowd. It can be really intimidating! Unfortunately, those memories don't just go away and can come back when we least expect them.
But all hope is not lost—with the right attitude, potential setbacks can turn into spectacular successes! Being open to facing new challenges is true for huge or small moments in life. So don’t be afraid. You don’t have to see this as a way to getting out of your comfort zone by holding a positive image in your mind about how will speak confidently and you will be a step away from doing so with poise.
What Should My Bridal Vows Include And What Should I Leave Out?
While it's important to think about what you should include in your bridal vows, it is also crucial to consider what should be left out. A thought-provoking question to ask yourself is, would you accept a job in a firm without knowing anything about the organization?
With that said, where do you start when considering your marriage vow words? Having common sense will help you avoid making foolish decisions like writing your vow for your significant other and best friend without doing research first. To eliminate scrambling and put together meaningful story, search the Web for different inspiration and ideas.
Websites, such as YouTube, are perfect resources to get an idea of what goes into creating a romantic vow for your man. Don't forget to consider this before making a decision!
If you’re writing your own wedding vows for your husband, one of the best things you can do is get inspiration from other couples. Start by searching for keywords like
''wedding vows for my husband''
''wedding vows from the bride to the groom''
''sample bride wedding vows''
''Wedding vows for him''
''Wedding vows from bride to groom''
Once you find some really good examples and ideas, take a pen and paper, watch several clips and jot down any phrases or words that stand out to you. To get started, here are two classic videos to watch and inspire you - please enjoy!
Wedding Vows For Groom Video #1
Wedding Vows For Him Video# 2
Now, here’s how to put your thoughts and emotions into very touching Words
Before you even start writing your wedding vows for him, there's one important thing to consider: the style of your vows.
After watching all those video clips, you may have an idea of what should go into your wedding vows, but don't make the mistake of just copying or slightly modifying examples found online.
Instead, pick a style that reflects who you truly are and that makes you feel comfortable. Your guests will be able to relate more closely to your words if they come from the heart - not just because it's what is in vogue at the moment.
When you write your promises, make sure you put your own spin on them and make them truly special. Express yourself in a way that is unique to you and can’t be replicated - this will show those close to you that the words are coming straight from the heart and haven’t been crafted from something heard at another event.
Writing your own personalized vows will also help keep your promises more meaningful and memorable.
This Will Help If You Wish To Make Your Wows Hilarious
Are you looking for a funny and unique way of expressing your love for your spouse during your wedding vows? Laughter is said to be the best medicine, and a hilarious vow can bring joy and light-heartedness to your special day.
If you have ever been to a wedding, you know how much guests appreciate it when someone throws in a joke or another funny comment.
No one expects you to produce comedy gold for your wedding vows, but a humorous twist on the traditional will ensure your wedding guests remember it long after the rice has been thrown.
Writing funny vows doesn’t have to be an intimidating task either – even someone who isn’t normally comically inclined can come up with something clever and memorable!
This is what I suggest you do now.
In order to give a memorable and humorous speech at the wedding, one should take some time out to reflect on all the moments that made them smile and laugh from the beginning of the relationship.
Drink some water, then sit back comfortably with all the fun and happy memories shared between you and your partner. Think about all the things that have made you smile since your first meeting, from moments of friendship and courtship through till the proposal.
Jot down anything that stands out and use those highlights to craft an amusing story for your vows or letter.
As an added bonus, if you’re stuck for ideas, take inspiration from other brides who’ve crafted touching wedding vows for the groom. All you need to do is give their words a personal touch so they carry more meaning for you!
Here are examples you can model your wedding vows after.
I promise to take out the garbage, even in the pouring rain or freezing cold.
I promise to love you at all times and give you the keys to your car - even during the football season.
Can you modify those free examples or even personalize them? Ok, please let me help you out.
Some of you don’t know this, but Dan is a car junkie but he owns just a single car…too bad for a bald young man who tells me that he loves cars more than anything else except me.
He’s a soccer fan too and I don’t know why this happens but his soccer matches usually occur when I have to go to the salon.
Since we have only one car, he’s always the first to grab the keys and I end up walking for about an hour to get my hair done. He never tells me when his team is playing.
So, guess what I do? I called his best friend and asked him about their team's schedule and hid the car keys on match day so I don't have to go on that long walk down the street.
So this is my promise to him from this day forward.Dan, sometimes I hide the keys to your cars and that leaves you a bit crazy when your team is playing.
Well, in my hands are your car keys…sorry that the keenly anticipated match is over…Forgive me for that and I am not going to do that again.All kidding aside, I love you Dan and for the sake of peace, I have rescheduled all my future appointments with my hairdresser.
So from this moment on, I will join you at the arena when your favorite team is playing. So, please buy me a jersey and I will be right there with you.
All kidding aside, I love you wholeheartedly and will stick by your side in good times and bad because true love is meant to last forever and my love for you is so true.
Did you enjoy that funny wedding vow by the bride to his groom?
If so, and if you want to make a funny promise like that for your husband, it's essential to add some sentimentality. After all, your vows are a lifelong commitment, not something to be taken lightly. Here are some ideas you can use to make your vow both funny and heartfelt.
First, before discussing your relationship, take some time to consider the journey that you have been through together.
Then, jot down any issues that you have encountered so far as a couple — this could include any problems before or during your wedding day, or even a car accident before marriage.
Next, reflect on all of the experiences you have gone through together. Did you break up and come back multiple times, or survive a long-distance relationship?
Lastly, think about any particularly difficult experiences that are unique to your relationship.
Once you have thought through these questions, it will be clear what lessons can be learned from your personal journey. Talking about your struggles in marriage can be a valuable source of inspiration for those who need it. You can share your experiences briefly and include any promises you have made to each other.
Your words have the power to save marriages, bring back hope, and give couples the strength to continue working on their relationships.
Additionally, you can even mention aspects of your spouse that you don't like - this is incredibly important for giving honest accounts of how marriage works!
So, what’s the point here? If you have been with your significant other for some time, chances are you have noticed their flaws. Rather than expecting them to change and fit your ideal image of a partner, accept that both of you are different people and make it work for the betterment of your relationship.
However, make sure that you don't bring up topics or issues that could be potentially embarrassing or hurtful to him or his family.
You can instead use this lighthearted phrase to break the awkwardness:
“I promise to love you through thick and thin, to laugh with you and not at you. I will never give up on us and always make sure that my cup is “half-full” so it can overflow with happiness and joy into our life together.”
Have You Seen The Movie 10 Things I Hate About You?
It's a romantic comedy with some lines that could help you express what's in your heart:
There are a few lines in that movie that can help you say what’s on your heart.
Here we go:
I hate the way you talk to me, and the way you cut your hair. I hate the way you drive my car. I hate it when you stare. I hate your big dumb combat boots and the way you read my mind.
I hate you so much it makes me sick; it even makes me rhyme. I hate it, I hate the way you're always right. I hate it when you lie. I hate it when you make me laugh, even worse when you make me cry. I hate it when you're not around, and the fact that you didn't call.
But mostly I hate the way I don't hate you. Not even close, not even a little bit, not even at all.
Guess what? Extracts like what we have just seen can enrich your promises as well as quotes from wise men and women, proverbs about love or marriage, or even sources like movies.
Yes, movies. Quotes from the pictures can make your vows so sweet.
"I guarantee there'll be tough times. I guarantee that at some point, one or both of us is gonna wanna get out of this thing. But I also guarantee that if I don't ask you to be mine, I'll regret it the rest of my life, because I know, in my heart, you're the only one for me." - Ike Graham
What about this one?
When Harry Met Sally (1989)
''I love that you get cold when it’s seventy-one degrees out. I love that it takes you an hour and a half to order a sandwich. I love that you get a little crinkle in your nose when you’re looking at me like I’m nuts.
I love that after I spend the day with you, I can still smell your perfume on my clothes. And I love that you are the last person I want to talk to before I go to sleep at night.''
Ever thought of using movie quotes to make your wedding vows even more special? Well, it's totally possible!
From funny lines to heart-warming romantic quotes, you can use all kinds of extracts from movies to enrich your promises and give your wedding ceremony a truly unique touch.
Let's look at some examples together! What about this one?
Friends: Monica and Chandler
Monica: For so long I wondered if I would ever find my prince, my soulmate. Then three years ago, at another wedding, I turned to a friend for comfort. And instead, I found everything that I'd ever been looking for my whole life. And now here we are, with our future before us, and I only want to spend it with you, my prince, my soulmate, my friend. Unless you don't want to. You go!
Chandler:I thought this was going to be the most difficult thing I ever had to do. But when I saw you walking down the aisle, I realized how simple it was. I love you. You are the person I was meant to spend the rest of my life with.
Did you know? Adding bible verses or other religious scriptures to your conversations can be an uplifting and meaningful way to interact with others.
For instance, one could start with this excerpt: ''Two are better than one because they have a good return for their labor''.
By the way, try using this phrase in your conversations and see how it positively impacts the interchanges:
“Dan, I'm so thankful to have you in my life. You were sent to me by the Lord at just the right time and I could not be more grateful. The Bible says that two are better than one and my love for you has grown to be a perfect example of that truth. Thank you for being everything I could ever need, without you I would not be where I am today.”
Ecclesiastes 4:9: "Two are better than one because they have a good return for their labor: If either of them falls down, one can help the other up. But pity anyone who falls and has no one to help them up. Also, if two lie down together, they will keep warm. But how can one keep warm alone?"
4 Behold, thou art fair, my love; behold, thou art fair; thou hast doves' eyes within thy locks: thy hair is as a flock of goats, that appear from mount Gilead.
2 Thy teeth are like a flock of sheep that are even shorn, which came up from the washing; whereof every one bear twins, and none is barren among them.
3 Thy lips are like a thread of scarlet, and thy speech is comely: thy temples are like a piece of a pomegranate within thy locks.
4 Thy neck is like the tower of David builded for an armoury, whereon there hang a thousand bucklers, all shields of mighty men.
5 Thy two breasts are like two young roes that are twins, which feed among the lilies.
6 Until the day break, and the shadows flee away, I will get me to the mountain of myrrh, and to the hill of frankincense.
7 Thou art all fair, my love; there is no spot in thee.
8 Come with me from Lebanon, my spouse, with me from Lebanon: look from the top of Amana, from the top of Shenir and Hermon, from the lions' dens, from the mountains of the leopards.
9 Thou hast ravished my heart, my sister, my spouse; thou hast ravished my heart with one of thine eyes, with one chain of thy neck.
We can probably use the underlined words in that text: ''Two are better than one because they have a good return for their labor'' to start with the brief example below:
Dan, the Lord knew you need me but he was sure I needed you more. Scripture assures us that two are better than one and your love gives meaning to that verse. Thank you so much for making me a much better person. I honestly don't where I'd be if you were not in my life.
You are in the right place at the right time if you are…
looking for a wedding vow writer to help you organize your exact thoughts and feelings into beautiful words
really looking for help with your wedding vows
looking for a professional wedding vow writer to help you to express your love for that special person in your life
If any of those bullet points got you nodding, then please bear with me for just a while and I will share with you everything you need to know about hiring the best wedding vow writer for your needs.
As for me, the most sacred part of the wedding ceremony is when two people who are truly in love lock hands and gaze into each other’s eye and exchange promises while friends and family look on.
That solemn pledge and act often leave me with goose bumps and I think those vows shouldn’t be taken lightly by the bride or groom.
Nonetheless, it’s not so easy to eloquently put thoughts together or say what you feelabout your partner and your future ambitions because translating your feelings and emotions into powerful words is not an easy thing to do for most couples.
That’s where a professional wedding vow writer comes in. While there's nothing wrong with sticking with the traditional vows of saying ''for better and worse'' a good vow writer can help make your vows very sincere.
Well, you should considering hiring a wedding vow writer if you ever find yourself in any of these situations:
You have strong emotions you want to convey to their partner but are stressed out by the wedding planning and can’t seem to get your ideas together.
You are simply overwhelmed with how best to articulate your thoughts into very meaningful words.
If you really love your spouse with your whole heart and you want to reassure him of your deepest love for him or her but don’t know where to start.
If you are overwhelmed by the pressures of work and don’t have the time to put your vows together the way you want it to be.
If you are not too eloquent or not too sure if you are on the right track.
If you are deeply anxious that your vows will not be touching enough.
If you feel speaking in public is not your thing and you’re not too sure if you will succeed at it or not.
If you are struggling to find the right words but still want to make a heartfelt vow.
If you have a day or less to the wedding and you are worried that you might make some horrible mistakes.
Yes, if you are a good speaker or writer but you still want someone to look over or review what you've come up with!
If you find yourself in any of those situations, please click here for help with your wedding vow.
I know a lot of people feel guilty asking others to write their wedding vows for them because they feel it’s so personal. I get it. But asking for help is way better than doing it by yourself and not getting the results you would expect.
So, it’s better that you at least collaborate with a wedding vow writer to help you write a deeply meaningful vow on the most important day of your life.
In a lot of ways, asking for help with your wedding vows is a lot like hiring other wedding vendors such as a videographer or caterer. No one will feel bad about hiring a caterer to serve the wedding guests.
Would you? So, in essence, the vow writer succinctly and meticulously captures your love story beautifully, the difficulties you’ve been through and how they have made your love stronger, and what you both hope to achieve together in the years ahead.
I Am Sure You Are Wondering Who I Am?
I am glad you asked. First and foremost, I am Jean Daniel, founder of Standing Ovation Speeches and I created this agency in 2011 due to my love of writing and delivering speeches.
Since then, I have helped countless panic-stricken wedding speakers like you make great speeches even when they thought they were not cut out for speaking in public.
Now, let me ask you this simple question. Do you wish to make a sweet wedding vow like this one?
Or even something like this one?
If you do, then you obviously need help with your wedding vow. Just imagine asking for help with it so you can focus on other aspects of the wedding planning. That can be very freeing, right?
I can only imagine how happy you will be when I capture your love story in the most impactful way. I want your wedding vows to be unique, sweet, and memorable so that your loved one will love and adore you more.
This is a rare chance to publicly tell your family and friends as well as the love of your life how much you care for him or her.
Do you want me to help me out?You should by first filling out this form.
Wedding not too far away? Or happening in less than 24 hours?Trust me, we can deliver!it doesn’t matter if your speech is today, tomorrow, next week, next month, next year,... we can make things work for you
Do you want me to help me out?You should by first filling out this form.
Ok, I am Interested, What’s the Cost?
You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your wedding vow.
Why? As you know, the current health and economic crisis has caused severe hardships for most people.
Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.
Yet, some couples are still getting married and have to make vows since it’s something you can’t take out of the wedding ceremony. Nonetheless, not everyone could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.
So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your vows.
Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.
So, please take advantage of it now even if your big day is in the future.Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your vows will be captured on video, and your family and friends and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.
So, please take advantage of it now even if your big day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your vows.
Oh Ok, How Then Do I Get Started Since I Want To Get On Board Right Away?
After that, we will send you a very short questionnaire to fill out via email! You only have to check your email a few hours after you have made your request.
Then, you fill out the questionnaire sent through your email, and please have it sent back to us…
We will confirm receipt of it…If something is not too clear, we will ask you to clarify….
If not, we will send you a wonderful draft in a couple of hours if this on very short notice….If not, after a few days
Then, you look it over and tell us if you are okay with it or you want to amend or revise it till you are happy with it--although we always get it right even with the first draft
Then, we ask you to pay for it.
Please note: The information collected through the questionnaire is only for the purpose of writing your speech. I wouldn’t even need it if I could read your mind. So, your information is very confidential and no one will know about it.
Just a reminder of what you pay after it’s duly completed.
You simply pay what you wantafter you’ve got your vows.
Why? As you know, the current health and economic crisis has caused severe hardships for most people.
Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds. Yet, some couples are still getting married and have to make their vows.
Nonetheless, not everyone could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us. So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your vow.
Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.
So, please take advantage of it now even if your big day is in the future.
Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video, your family and friends, and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.
So, please take advantage of it now even if your big day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get it.
Please note: Don’t fill out this form if you’re a dishonest individual. This offer is for a limited time.
Forget about money and let’s write something for you. We believe in the values of honesty and integrity and we think you should be happy with our work first.
Those lucky enough to have experienced the unbreakable bond between a father and son can attest that it is incredibly rewarding and elevating. There is no other type of affection comparable to this kind.
I truly believe that you did everything in your power to make sure that your family was taken care of. Had you known the time you had left with your son was limited, I am sure that you would have spent every moment with him.
However, there comes a time that when your son finds the person he truly loves and cares for and decides to spend the next chapter of his life with that person and you have to deliver a heartfelt father of the groom speech that encapsulates your friendship, what he means to you, and what you look forward to as he starts a new union with the bride.
Don't fret if it feels like you don’t have a way with words or don’t have the confidence to speak before your family and friends.
In this post, I am going to share with you easy-to-understand tips and ideas you can weave into your script so you come up with the best ever father of the groom speech or toast.
It All Starts With A Plan
Having a well-planned out goal or objective for your wedding toast is an essential first step to helping you come up with the right content for your wedding speech for your son and daughter-in-law.
So, spend a little time to consider what you want to communicate in your message, and make sure it is clear and concise. Once you have this theme figured out, use it as your basis for coming up with new ideas and developing them until your message is finished.
For your father of the groom wedding speech toast, you should first ask yourself these simple questions to figure out the theme of your speech:
Do people know that I'm funny? And can I really make a very funny wedding toast?
Do tears come to my eyes when I talk about my own kids? Should I say something about how much I care about them?
Don't most wedding speeches from the father of the groom sound the same? And can I do something different and memorable with mine?
Am I a person with a lot of wit? And should I write my speech like a poem?
People know me for my ability to tell stories. Should I just talk about my son and his bride?
Do I have a very nice voice? Can I write a short song about the bride and groom and sing it however I want?
Am I good enough to take bits and pieces from each of the above speech styles and make them my own?
Action Tip: Which of those speaking styles fit your personality and style? Just write it down.
Having settled on something that you are comfortable with, you should watch a few father of the groom speech videos to get a handle on the way father of the groom speeches are delivered at the wedding reception or rehearsal dinner night.
For example, if you will be speaking at the wedding reception or rehearsal dinner night, you can watch these short videos for some insights about how such presentations are made.
Father of The Groom Speech Video #1
Father Of The Groom Speech Video#2
Afterwards, you need to understand how the writing process works.
This Is How the Writing Process Works
The writing process begins with understanding your audience and your purpose for writing. After that, it's important to brainstorm ideas, decide on an organization structure, and outline your points.
From there, you're ready to begin the actual crafting of your father of the groom toast by researching and creating your content. Finally, check it thoroughly for errors and start practicing to build your self-confidence.
Now, let’s examine how to write your father of the groom speech itself. As with every kind of write-up, your father of the groom speech should have these:
An introduction
Body or content
Conclusion…
Don’t worry about the three bullet points because we are going to look at each point one step at a time.
First and foremost, let's talk about how to write your opening words or what’s known as the introduction. This part of your speech is pretty easy to write. But you should make sure that it includes everyone you want to say thank you to.
For example:
Your wife and the mother of the groom
His uncles and aunts
His teachers and other figures who have helped shape him into the person he is today
His grandparents—if they are not alive, you can simply say, "They are not physically around." But I know they are here with us in spirit and feel so proud of who their grandson has become.
You can also mention the parents of the bride and thank them for welcoming your son into their family with open arms.
You may as well thank the event planners and everyone who helped plan the wedding.
Here’s my homework for you: Please write down the names of personalities you would like to acknowledge in your toast.
Here’s an example:
I would like to acknowledge a few guests who have been in Steven’s life throughout his 33 years of life. Of course, and most importantly is Steven’s mom and my lovely wife Evelyn. The Hezi family is a large, united and loving bunch and we are so happy to officially include Martha into our family.
This Comes Next After Your Opening Lines
After you've introduced yourself and welcomed the guests, your opening words for the father of the groom's speech should hook the audience and keep their attention throughout.
That being the case, how can you ensure that they listen to every word that you say? Honestly, it's not that hard. Most dads will jump right in with a tale from their own upbringing. Most people, I believe, choose this path since it's what they're most used to hearing.
There are, however, more effective methods of getting the attention of your audience right from the off in a speech. Here are two approaches to take.
First, before delivering a speech, it may be of value to begin with a prayer or blessing, especially if you come from a Christian family. Starting with this can set the tone for your words to come.
Here’s an example to get you started
Dear Lord,
We come before you today to give thanks for the love and guidance that fathers provide. We ask for your blessings on this special day as we celebrate the union of [bride and groom's name].
We pray for [father of groom's name], that you would give him wisdom and strength as he gives his son away. May he know that his love and guidance has helped shape the man his son has become and that he can take pride in the person his son has become.
We ask that you bless this new union, that it may be filled with love, joy, and respect. May [bride and groom's name] continue to grow in their love for each other and may they always seek your guidance in their marriage.
We give you all the praise and honor, in Jesus' name we pray. Amen.
Second, you can start the anecdote by providing an account of the events that transpired before and after your son's birth. The example provided above can help you to do this well.
Once upon a time, my wife and I were blessed with the arrival of our first child, our son [son's name]. It was a long journey to get to that point, as we had been trying to start a family for many years. We had gone through multiple rounds of fertility treatments and had even considered adoption at one point. But, through it all, we never gave up hope that we would one day become parents.
When [son's name] was finally born, it was a moment of pure joy and elation. We were overjoyed to finally hold our little bundle of joy in our arms and couldn't believe that we were actually parents. From that moment on, our lives were forever changed for the better.
As [son's name] grew up, we watched in amazement as he developed his own unique personality and interests. He was always curious and eager to learn new things, and had a heart full of love and kindness. We were so proud of the young man he was becoming and couldn't wait to see all that he would accomplish in life.
Third, if you are an emotionally expressive person, consider sharing a story about the emotions you experienced at your own wedding to the groom's mom. Then it can be connected with your own son’s upcoming nuptials.
Fourth, if you are a singer or a musician, why not write a unique song about your son's life? Learning to play and sing the song will be quite an experience as loved ones admire your musical talent. Such a musical video could then become an inspiring keepsake. Just take a look at this classic.
Fifth, are you renowned for your wit? If so, then you should use some memorable quotes in your wedding toast to commemorate the occasion.
"I may be the father of the groom, but don't worry, I won't be stealing the spotlight today. After all, I've had my time in the spotlight, it's my son's turn now. But just in case, I brought my own spotlight, and a disco ball”
Now, Let’s See How to Write The Body Of Your Speech
It goes without saying that this part of the speech should be relatively easy to write, since it's all based on your own memories and stories. After all, I'm sure you can easily remember humorous and heartfelt accounts of your son's life without breaking a sweat.
Compiling what stories to tell and where to start is usually the hardest part since many people have an abundance of anecdotes but can get them confused at times.
To prevent yourself from getting overwhelmed, it is important to start with an outline or a few bullet points detailing what you want to say. This means that your stories should have these three parts:
When your son was young
Your son's adolescence
The years he grew up
Now that these have been broken down into these simple categories, sit down and jot down any stories you can remember from each period of his life. Pick out which stories you think are truly meaningful and include details about the kind of man he has grown up to be.
Lastly, don't forget to mention a few of his wonderful qualities that make him an amazing husband and father!
These lines can give you an idea.
Now, as I stand here today, watching [son's name] marry the love of his life, [bride's name], I can hardly believe how quickly time has flown by. It seems like only yesterday that he was a little boy, and now he is a grown man, starting a family of his own. I am so proud of the person he has become and I know that he will make a wonderful husband.
Talk About The Bride Or Your Future Daughter-In-Law Too
It doesn't matter whether you're fond of your daughter-in-law or not, it's important to mention some noteworthy characteristics during the wedding speech. If you know her well, you should make sure to highlight her attributes that make her a good match for your son.
Even if there is a less than favorable opinion of the bride, you can still focus on her best attributes or give a general description without being too specific.
You may this example to help you write something brief about her.
So, to [bride's name], I want to say that you have my blessing, my love and my support. And to my son, [son's name], I want to say that I love you and am so proud of the person you have become. May your marriage be filled with love and happiness, and may you have a lifetime of blessings.
"When my son first introduced me to [daughter-in-law's name], it was as if a ray of sunshine had burst into my life. Her warmth and kind-heartedness radiated like the sun's rays and immediately made everyone around her feel at ease. Her heart, like a blooming flower, was full of love and compassion.
[Daughter-in-law's name] was a pearl among the oysters, not only beautiful on the outside but also possessing a sharp and brilliant mind. Her wit was sharper than a razor's edge, always ready with a quip to lighten the mood in any situation.
She was a force to be reckoned with, her determination and hard work were admirable. She brought with her an effervescence that was impossible to ignore, and I had no doubt that she would be a great partner for my son.
I am blessed to have [daughter-in-law's name] in our lives and in our family. She brought with her a new energy, a new perspective, and a whole lot of love. I eagerly anticipate to see what the future holds for the two of them and am confident that their union will be like a ever-blooming garden, forever flourishing with love and happiness."
Finally, let’s look at…
How To Write Then Closing Remarks Of Your Father of the Groom Speech
Want to know how to end your speech or presentation in an impactful way? Here are a few tips to help you finish off on a strong note.
First, you can end with basic father of the groom wedding toast like this one.
Here’s an example below:
‘’As I conclude my speech, I would like to leave you with a final thought that will linger in your mind long after the celebrations are over. Just like a symphony, the union of my son and [daughter-in-law's name] is the coming together of different melodies, rhythms, and beats to create a harmonious whole.
Like a stanza in a poem, their love story has its own unique rhythm and flow, but when combined with the love stories of all the other couples here today, it creates a beautiful and moving piece of literature.
As they embark on this new chapter in their lives, may their love continue to flourish and deepen like a crescendo in a symphony, reaching new heights of joy and happiness.
Let us raise our glasses in a toast, to the newlyweds, may their love be like a symphony, ever-evolving, and forever beautiful.
If that won't suffice, you can copy what this funny dad did this, if you have a great voice.
Second, finish off your wedding speech by presenting the happy couple with an amazing gift. A couple had a very wild dream. They fantasized about bringing a chimpanzee to their wedding. Really?
When the father of the groom realized that, that wasn't going to happen, he gifted them a chimpanzee toy and it was so funny when the groom told that story after his father-in-law gave them a surprise gift.
Alternatively, you could present them with something special that will last for years to come. You may consider gifting something timeless such as framing the advice part of your wedding speech. Ultimately, it is up to your discretion - select whatever you think is best!
If you so desire to copy that funny father, you may start with these words before you give a gift to the couple.
“Now , I would like to present the newlyweds with a gift that I believe will be treasured for many years to come. I have chosen a beautiful set of custom-made wedding bands, crafted from the finest materials, to symbolize the eternal nature of their love. These bands are not only a symbol of their love but also a tangible reminder of the special day they have shared with their loved ones.
I hope that these bands will be worn with pride, and that they will serve as a constant reminder of the commitment and love they have made to each other. May they always be a symbol of their love, loyalty and devotion to one another, and may they wear them with as much love and joy as they have for each other.”
“As I stand here today, watching my son marry the love of his life, I can't help but reflect on my own marriage and the lessons I've learned along the way. I would like to offer a few words of advice to my son as he begins this new chapter in his life.
First, always remember to communicate openly and honestly with each other. Communication is the foundation of any strong relationship and it's important to always make time to listen and understand each other's perspectives.
Second, always make time for each other. Life can get busy and hectic, but it's important to make sure that your relationship is a priority. Make sure to set aside time for date nights, weekend getaways, and just simply spending quality time together.
Third, always be willing to forgive and be forgiving. No one is perfect and mistakes will be made, but it's important to always be willing to forgive and move forward.
Always remember the reasons why you fell in love and why you decided to get married. Keep that love and passion alive, and never take each other for granted. Marriage is a journey, and it's important to enjoy the ride and make the most of every moment together.
I am confident that if my son and his wife keep these things in mind, they will have a strong and loving marriage just like mine.”
You are husband and wife. Forever starts now. Let me tell you…forever can feel like a long time some days, but others it will seem to be flying by. So don’t ever take each other for granted, always say I love you every chance you get, and give each other room to grow.
It also helps if you have your own tv’s. And if you can, also have your own bathrooms. That will help immensely.
And on those days, when forever means spending a Saturday afternoon in Walmart, shopping for housewares with an empty stomach, remember how excited you were today.
While that excitement will dim sometimes (especially at Walmart on a Saturday afternoon!) the love you have for one another will not. Cling to it, and cling to each other, and you will be blessed.
P.S: Most dads do this...Have you considered it? Want to write and give a great wedding speech like the one above but can't seem to get started because you don't know the exact words to use?
Or not too sure if what you intend writing will be well received by the guests?
Let's help you make your son, wife, and family proud, and let the wedding guests say great things about your speech.
Here’s what one nervous and skeptical dad called Glen sent over after the wedding was over
Hey Dan, I just wanted to thank you once again for the speech you wrote with me. My goal was met afterward, I was told by many "what a beautiful speech" and received a standing ovation. I couldn't have done this without you. God Bless Dan!- Glen, U.S.A
Want to know how he did just that? He got on board our wedding speech program and one of our talented speech consultants helped him out.
This is letter a dad sent to us after we helped him deliver his speech(Please click on it to enlarge if you can't see it)
Ok, Is This Offer For Me?
Yes, if you are expecting nothing less than a very special, beautiful, unique and memorable speech.
Yes, if you are overwhelmed by the pressures of work and don’t have the time to put together a very meaningful speech, so you can have peace of mind
Yes, if you want your family, children, friends, and wedding guests to shower you with very sincere compliments…just imagine how you will feel
Yes, if you are not good with words and you feel you’re not a natural writer and you are struggling to find the right words but still want to give a great speech.
Yes, you get so scared anytime you’re asked to say something before an audience and you really want to save yourself from any form of embarrassment on your son’s big day.
Yes, if you are not too eloquent or not too sure if you are on the right track.
Yes, if you absolutely hate speaking in public or feel this is not your thing but you want to make your son feel very proud
Yes, if you have a day or less to the wedding and you are worried that you might make some horrible mistakes
Yes, if you are a good speaker but you still want someone to look over or review what you've come up with!
Wedding not too far away? Or happening in less than 24 hours?Trust me, we can deliver!it doesn’t matter if your speech is today, tomorrow, next week, next month ,next year,... we can make things work for you
Just imagine leaving your entire presentation in the hands of skilled wedding speech consultants who will take away your pain of spending hours thinking hard and long about what to say and what not to say.
Also, envision being patiently guided to say something that will leave a favorable impression on the mind of your listeners.
And also imagine the thrill and feeling of excitement and pride you’re going to experience when the audience leap onto their feet and scream and shouts and even sing your praises.
Won’t you love that? I hope you do...
Ok, I am Interested, What’s the Cost?
You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.
Why? As you know, the current health crisis has caused severe hardships for most people.
Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.
Yet, some sons are still getting married and asking their fathers to give speeches.
Nonetheless, not every father could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.
So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.
Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.
So, please take advantage of it now even if your son’s big day is in the future.
Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video and your son and daughter-in-law and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.
So, please take advantage of it now even if your son’s big day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.
This is another letter a dad sent to us after we helped him deliver his speech(Please click on it to enlarge if you can't see it)
Oh Ok, How Then Do I Get Started Since I Want To Get On Board Right Away?
After that, we will send you a very short questionnaire to fill out via email! You only have to check your email a few hours after you have made your request.
Then, you fill out the questionnaire sent through your email and please have it sent back to us…
We will confirm receipt of it…If something is not too clear, we will ask you to clarify….
If not, we will send you a wonderful draft in a couple of hours if this on very short notice….If not, after a few days
Then, you look it over and tell us if you are okay with it or you want to amend or revise it till you are happy with it--although we always get it right even with the first draft
Then, we ask you to pay for it
Please note: The information collected through the questionnaire is only for the purpose of writing your speech. I wouldn’t even need it if I could read your mind. So, your information is very confidential and no one will know about it.
Just a reminder of what you pay after it’s duly completed.
You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.
Why? As you know, the current health crisis has caused severe hardships for most people.
Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.
Yet, some sons are still getting married and asking their fathers to give speeches.
Nonetheless, not every father could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.
So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.
Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.
So, please take advantage of it now even if your son’s big day is in the future.
Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video and your son and daughter-in-law and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.
So, please take advantage of it now even if your son’s big day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.
Please note: Your speech draft comes with a proven and simple tip to master your speech or remember your speech just as you want it without carrying a paper with you.
Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise, and clarity!
''Hi Dan,
The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice). Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.
All the best,
Matt''
Please note: Don’t fill out this form if you’re a dishonest individual. This offer is for a limited time.
You don't have to worry about paying our per speech for now.
Forget about money and let’s write something for you. We believe in the values of honesty and integrity and we think you should be happy with our work first.
So, Here Are The Benefits You Get When You Get On Board!
A great speech written by our wedding speech consultants that reflects what you want to say exactly
We coach you on how to use your voice to make your speech very exciting.
We show you a simple but often overlook strategy to rehearse your speech even if you have a very poor memory. This method is used by great speakers like Obama and was used by Abraham Lincoln and his compatriots
The most effective way to get your entire speech into your head without memorizing your speech. Guaranteed to help you even if you have a very poor memory or your memory is like a gold fish…most of our clients still wonder where we got this idea from. This ensures that you don't read off a sheet of paper...
Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise, and clarity!
''Hi Dan,
The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice). Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.
All the best,
Matt''
Ways to include humor in your speech and what it takes to do so
Are you feeling so dejected by the passing of your loved one that you are really struggling to put together a deeply meaningful eulogy?
If you are, then you need…
A professional eulogy writer to help you organize your thoughts and emotions into a very moving tribute?
A eulogy writer online so you can take care of other funeral arrangements and burial?
Eulogy writing help from the best eulogy writers out there
Eulogy writing help and assistance
Just read through this piece carefully and you will find and hire a eulogy speech writer who will help you capture memories about your loved one and the depth of your relationship with the deceased in a very meaningful and deeply fulfilling way.
I think you will agree with me writing about someone you truly love and care for through tears and heartache can be one of the most difficult aspects of the grieving process.
In your mind, you have very vivid images and warm memories of all the great moments you have had with your dead friend or loved one.
But as soon as you pick up your pen to jot down a few thoughts, bitter tears flow down your checks and before you know it you’ve spent hours just grieving with no words on the screen or paper.
If you find yourself in this situation, then I really feel your pain and I think you shouldn’t struggle to come up with a very beautiful tribute your family, friends and loved ones will never, ever forget.
Karen found herself wondering how best to capture the life of her late son poignantly. But for some reason, spilling it all out became burdensome and with a few days to his burial, she realized belatedly that her notes were not ready.
Thankfully, she reached out me when it was less than 24 hours to the burial service and we put together a very touching tribute right up against the day of the burial.
Four days after her son was lowered deep down into the earth, she wrote back to say this:(Please click on the image to read it if you can't see it)
(This is another too...Please click on the image to read it if you can't see it)
(This is another note...Please click on the image to read it if you can't see it)
Think of how liberating this would feel if you deliver a eulogy like this one?
Or even something better than this stirring tribute?
Do you want to achieve the same level of success like Karen or even come up with something better than she did? I know that’s your dream. You have two options when it comes to writing a good tribute for your loved one.
First, you can choose to write your own tribute which is a very honorable thing to do. But with a million things on your mind and stuff to work on before the funeral service or celebration of life, you might be overwhelmed and get stuck as you go through the writing process. Thus, making you stressed out which is not good for your health.
Second, you can hire me (a professional eulogy writer) to work on your eulogy so you can have peace of mind and grieve your loved one more deeply without worrying so much about how to honor and celebrate his or her life with the right words.
When you hire me to write a moving and inspiring tribute, my words will calm you down and help you articulate eloquently and beautifully a lifetime of memories about someone who truly love and care for.
Just imagine delivering your tribute and receiving several complimentary remarks from family and friends….Wouldn’t you feel proud that you honored your lost loved one in a very meaningful way? Just think twice about that.
I know by now, you might be wondering who the guy behind the curtain is?
I am a total stranger. This is probably the first time you are hearing about me so it makes sense that you know who I am and why you should hire me to help compose your eulogy speech.
By the way, I am Jean Daniel, founder of Standing Ovation Speeches and I am a eulogy speech writer too.
I created this writing agency and service in 2011. But I actually started writing eulogies in 2019 and have since gone on to write several inspiring tributes for many grief-stricken individuals, some of whom may be your friends and family.
In that same year, I wrote an eulogy for a close for a friend who died through cancer. Last year, I gave a tribute at my grandmother’s funeral and got tons of compliments for painting a beautiful picture of her life.
Karen mentioned at the outset of this post isn’t the only one who has felt the impact of our soul-soothing words. There are many other folks too.
Hi Dan,
It was amazing thank you for everything here are a few comments from my friends.
It was amazing...YOU had me feeling all the feels.
Your love and pride, the closeness of your family, the impact of Aden’s adventurous, loving and generous spirit shines through every word and story. So very moving.
You did an AMAZING job. The eulogy was so powerful and shows the love you all had for such an amazing boy.
Thank you for being a light and blessing during a difficult time.
All the best.
Sent from my iPhone
I think it wouldn’t be fair if I don’t show you an example of a tribute I have written so you can get a clear idea of what I can do for you. Here is an example to help you decide if I am the right guy for you. This is for a spouse…But I can write about anyone and anything.
Samantha was my best friend, business partner, one true and first love, and my wife of 30 years. Ever since her dad brought her to my dad’s farm when we were young, I knew she was the one. And was she the one!
We farmed during the 70s, when farming was a challenge to be sure! We raised hog and cattle and grew grain. She had two school bus routes to help make ends meet. We actually had to buy the busses. But it was good money, and after the whole experience, we had busses to sell for ½ what we paid for them. She also had a live in mechanic. Yes, me. So that helped with the upkeep of the buses.
When our daughter was born, it was like she had even more joy, more love, and more compassion inside her. I thought she had more of those things than anyone I had ever met BEFORE she became a mom. After, wow…
She loved taking care of us, and she did it so well. She would always bring me lunch out to wherever I was working. She was the keeper of the finances and she saved money like a squirrel hoarding nuts for the winter. But she also loved shopping and going to dinner with our daughter, and traveling with me.
She was always checking in on us, and on her friends. She was the one friend that if you needed to talk out a problem she was there with a clean shoulder ready to listen and advise.
We got to see the world. We made friends Australia and they came over here to visit us several times. We saw many countries and experienced many cultures. When we went to Rome every year we always stayed in the same hotel. It became a tradition.
Her family was from the Norway, and we went to Amsterdam and Italy. It was amazing seeing where her people were from. I was looking forward to spending so many more years with her, seeing more.
She made every Christmas, Easter, and birthday special. Everything from salad to dessert and on the special dishes. If someone had a problem, she would not only help but she would check on you later.
About 8 months ago, she said it perfectly. She said we had a tough life, but a
good one.
She adored her daughter and loved doing everything with her. Even just the day-to-day things. She loved to cook and was very good at it. She was…let’s say…passionate about looking good all the time.
She was strong- willed, some would say stubborn even. She was protective of everyone she loved.
She was generous. She would go to the ends of the earth for you if she thought you needed her, but she could rip you in half if she thought you were taking advantage. She could collect on our 90-day receivables better than I can. She was perfect. Absolutely perfect.
Now I have to learn how to live in a world without her. When she passed we were holding her hands. I felt the life leave her and I felt her take my heart with her.
I feel lost and confused and I think it’s very unfair. Samantha, I’m going to miss you more than I can say. But I know we will see each other again someday.
I can’t wait to see that smile again. Until then, I will hold the fort down. I will try to keep the house the way you like it. We have this. Rest in peace, my love.
Happy with what you’ve read? Then, you should consider hiring me right away.
This eulogy speech writing service is for you if you find yourself in any of these situations.
You want to feel a great sense of warmth and relief without the pressure and stress of coming up with something at this incredibly difficult time of your life.
Your loved one died under circumstances like suicide, drug abuse, murder, didn’t do anything with her life, etc. and you really can’t seem to put pen to paper because of the overwhelming emotions involved.
You’re simply overwhelmed with grief… and you have less than 24 hours to the funeral and have suddenly realize that you don’t have written anything yet
You are expecting nothing less than a very special, beautiful, unique and a memorable eulogy speech that will bless, praise and honor the memory of your friend or loved one
You want to take off the heavy burden of expectation off your shoulders so you can give a meaningful, uplifting and heartwarming speech that will warm hearts and bring your loved one’s admirable personality alive
You don’t have much time to write a perfect speech because of the stress of preparing so many things for your wife ’s funeral arrangement so you can have your peace of mind.
You’re overwhelmed with work demands and other pressures of life.
You want your family and friends to shower you with very sincere compliments…just imagine how you will feel…
You are not good with words and you feel you’re not a natural writer and you are struggling to find the right words but still want to give a great eulogy speech for your loved one
You get so scared anytime you’re asked to say something before an audience and you really want to save yourself from any form of embarrassment
You are not too eloquent or not too sure if you are on the right track and take out the guesswork…Remember, what you say will speak volumes about your love for your loved one
You absolutely hate speaking in public or feel this is not your thing but you want to make your wife feel so proud of you.
You have less than 24 hours to the funeral and you are really stressed out and scared you might make some horrible mistakes
You are a good speaker but you still want someone to look over or review what you've come up with!
Just imagine leaving your entire presentation in the hands of skilled speech writing consultants who will take away your pain of spending hours thinking hard and long about what to say and what not to say.
Also, envision being patiently guided to say something your family and mourners will never, ever forget
And also imagine the peace of mind you will have when you relax and sleep well knowing full well that you have someone to hold your back so you can make your loved one feel so proud
Won’t you love that? I hope you will...
Funeral or burial service around the corner? Or happening in less than 24 hours?Trust me, we can deliver!It doesn’t matter if your speech is today or tomorrow we can make things work for you.
Here's another note someone sent us after a funeral service(Please click on it to enlarge it if you can't read it)
Ok…I need your help…What’s Involved In This Process? Read On To Find out How It Works
After that, we will send you a very short questionnaire to fill out via email! You only have to check your email just a few hours after you have made your request.
Then, you fill out the questionnaire sent through your email and please have it sent back to us…
We will confirm receipt of it…If something is not too clear, we will ask you to clarify….
If not, we will send you a wonderful draft in a couple of hours
Then, you look it over and tell us if you are okay with it or you want to amend or revise it till you are happy with it--although we always get it right even with the first draft.
Then, we ask you to pay for it.
Please note: The information collected through the questionnaire is only for the purpose of writing your speech. I wouldn’t even need it if I could read your mind. So, your information is very confidential and no one will know about it.
You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.
Why? As you know, the current health and economic health crisis has caused severe hardships for most people.
Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.
Yet, very loving men and women like you have to speak at the burial service.
Nonetheless, not everyone could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.
So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.
Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.
So, please take advantage of it now.
Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video and your family and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.
So, please take advantage of it now by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.
After that, we will send you a very short questionnaire to fill out via email! You only have to check your email just a few hours after you have made your request.
Then, you fill out the questionnaire sent through your email and please have it sent back to us…
We will confirm receipt of it…If something is not too clear, we will ask you to clarify….
If not, we will send you a wonderful draft in a couple of hours
Then, you look it over and tell us if you are okay with it or you want to amend or revise it till you are happy with it--although we always get it right even with the first draft.
Then, we ask you to pay for it.
Please note:The information collected through the questionnaire is only for the purpose of writing your speech. I wouldn’t even need it if I could read your mind. So, your information is very confidential and no one will know about it.
You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.
Why? As you know, the current health and economic crisis has caused severe hardships for most people.
Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.
Yet, very loving men and women like you have to speak at the burial service.
Nonetheless, not everyone could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.
So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.
Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.
So, please take advantage of it now.
Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video and your family and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.
So, please take advantage of it now by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.
Please note: Your speech draft comes with a proven and simple tip to master your speech or remember your speech just as you want it without carrying a paper with you.
Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise, and clarity!
''Hi Dan,
The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice). Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.
All the best,
Matt''
Please note: Don’t fill out this form if you’re a dishonest individual.
Forget about money and let’s write something for you. We believe in the values of honesty and integrity and we think you should be happy with our work first.
So, Here Are The Benefits You Get When You Get On Board!
A great speech written by our speech consultants that reflects what you want to say exactly
We coach you on how to use your voice to make your speech very exciting.
We show you a simple but often overlook strategy to rehearse your speech even if you have a very poor memory. This method is used by great speakers like Obama and was used by Abraham Lincoln and his compatriots
The most effective way to get your entire speech into your head without memorizing your speech so you can sound smart. Guaranteed to help you even if you have a very poor memory or your memory is like a gold fish…most of our clients still wonder where we got this idea from. This ensures that you don't read off a sheet of paper...
Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise, and clarity!
''Hi Dan,
The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice). Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.
All the best,
Matt''
Ways to include humor in your speech and what it takes to do so
Are you stressed out and just want to hire a professional wedding speech writer who will calm your nerves and help you deliver an amazing wedding toast?
Are you looking for the best wedding speech writers to help you craft a truly memorable wedding speech or toast?
Are you looking for a professional wedding speech writer to help you write an unforgettable wedding toast?
If any of those questions got you nodding your head, then you certainly need a wedding speech writer to help you with your toast.
No matter what your relationship with the bride and groom is (maid, groom, father, mother, you name it) I can help you write and deliver an amazing wedding speech with ease, So, please take a moment and read through this carefully.
Glen was once like you. He needed help with his wedding speech too. In the spring of 2014, he wrote to us expressing how much he loved his son. But he knew he didn’t stand any chance of making his son and family proud with his wedding speech.
He was not a great speaker or writer and was deeply worried that he might not live up to the task because he was not so good with words. However, he really wanted a speech that will capture who his son was as well as his relationship with his entire family.
After reaching out to us, he proceeded to fill out this simple form. When he sent his questionnaire over, I asked him to clarify a few things here and there and set out to write his wedding speech the way he wanted it.
After transmitting the first draft, he asked for a few edits to be made and was so happy when we sent over his final draft. He loved it so much and was doubly sure that his speech would make his son and the entire family proud.
Did his dreams come true? You be the judge! As a matter of fact, he blew the guests away and he even got a standing ovation for delivering what was a truly beautiful speech by all standards.
When the event was over, he emailed this note:
He’s not the only one I’ve helped. I helped Christine too when her sons were getting married. She was grateful for I wrote and sent me this note afterwards:
They say that a good job done earns you another one. So, when his other son was getting married, she naturally reached out to us and later gave us this warm feedback as well.
(Please click on the image to enlarge it if the font size is small and you can't read it)
At this point, I know you might be wondering…
Who I am And Why You Should Hire Me To Be Your Wedding Speech Writer?
I am not very famous. But that's okay. I am only known by clients most of who have become like family. But I love it because it allows me to write and come up with great ideas on the fly.
By the way, I am Jean Daniel, founder of Standing Ovation Speeches and I am a wedding speech writer too. I created this writing agency and service 12 years ago due to my love of writing and delivering speeches.
Since 2014, I have helped countless panic-stricken wedding speakers like you make great wedding speeches even when they thought they were not cut out for speaking in public.
Please don’t take my word for this. I hate it when people brag. So other than the examples I shared earlier, here are notes and emails I have gotten from tongue-tied wedding speakers suddenly turned great speakers on the wedding day, thanking me abundantly for helping them deliver this once in a lifetime speech.
''The wedding was GREAT. There were about 120 guests. About 15 people came up to me afterward and told me I gave a great speech. I had to tweak it little because of my tardiness getting it to you but, it all turned out great. Thanks for all your help. I really appreciate it''- Phil Australia
A good wedding speech writer should have the ability to ask the right questions, I can do that because I am a naturally curious person.
A good wedding speech writer should be empathetic, I know how it feels like to be in your situation and I am not just a speech writer but also a person with a heart of gold.
A good wedding speech writer should hard and fast like a horse. This is so important when you suddenly realize that your speech is not ready.
In this case, you need to think on your feet. Unfortunately, you can’t do that if you are stressed out. So, it makes sense to get help. That’s where I come in because I am famous for delivering wedding speeches in about 24 hours or less than that.
Just imagine delivering a great speech like this one?
Or even this one?
You can also make it no matter how you are feeling right now.
Just imagine how you good you will feel when you hire us to be your wedding speech writer and hear such great comments after receiving several generous rounds of applause:
''I didn’t know you were this good!''
''You’re an amazing speaker. Have you considered running for public office someday?''
''Oh my goodness…You are so blessed''
''You’ve made the family so proud…You’re such a great speaker''
''How did you manage to capture this beautiful story articulately in such a short amount of time?''
''Do you mind helping me out when I am about to get married?''
''Do you mind sharing a copy of your maid of honor speech with me so I can learn from you? ''
…Plus a whole lot of smiley responses that will earn you the respect and admiration of everyone at the wedding.
Ok…Why should you Hire A Wedding Speech Writer?
Consider this; would you hire a plumber to teach your little kids? No one in their right mind would do that, right? That’s the job of a dedicated job.
So it is with every other profession or vocation out there in God’s magnificent earth. A professional wedding speech writer can capture your voice and feelings and bring out your story to life in a way that will make everyone think you actually wrote it yourself.
You need the services of a wedding speech or toast writer if you ever find yourself in any of these situations:
You absolutely hate speaking in public or you feel this is not your thing but you still want to make the bride or groom feel very proud
You have a day or less to the wedding day and you are worried that you might make some horrible mistakes
You are expecting nothing less than a very special, beautiful, unique and memorable speech.
You are overwhelmed by the pressures of work and don’t have the time to put together a very meaningful speech, so you can have peace of mind
You want the groom, the bride, and wedding guests to shower you with very sincere compliments…just imagine how you would feel
You are not good with words and you feel you’re not a natural writer and are struggling to find the right words but still want to make a great speech.
You get so scared anytime you’re asked to say something before an audience and you really want to save yourself from any form of embarrassment on the bride’s or groom’s wedding day.
You are not too eloquent or not too sure if you are on the right track.
Yes, if you are a good speaker but you still want a professional wedding speech writer to look over or review what you've come up with!
This is a note Deb sent over when the wedding was over
'' Hi Dan,
My apologies for not responding sooner. It has been rather busy with the wedding and then a prolonged trip home with multiple delays and travelling through poor conditions.
I would like to thank you for your assistance with my speech, providing a terrific structure. I needed to reduce it by another five minutes in the few days prior to the wedding, but it was well received. Mine were not the only dry eyes!
Many of the people present congratulated me on my speech and said that they were also teary and that what I had to say was touching. I had tried to set myself up to avoid tears but that went out the window when my son was also teary when giving his speech.
The best man also found it hard to hold back tears and the father of the bride quivered a little when he was speaking. Overall, the day was incredibly emotive and wonderful for all in attendance.
While I read some of my speech I was also able to give some of it without my notes.
Again, thank you for your help.
Cheers,
Deb
So, How Does Your Writing Speech Writing Service Works?
Wedding day not too far away? Or happening in less than 24 hours?Trust me, I can deliver!it doesn’t matter if your speech is today, tomorrow, next week, next month ,next year,... I can still help you out
After that, we will send you a very short questionnaire to fill out via email! You only have to check your email a few hours after you have made your request.
Then, you fill out the questionnaire sent through your email and please have it sent back to us…
We will confirm receipt of it…If something is not too clear, we will ask you to clarify….
If not, we will send you a wonderful draft in a couple of hours if this on very short notice….If not, after a few days
Then, you look it over and tell us if you are okay with it or you want to amend it till you are happy with it--although we always get it right even with the first draft.
Then, we ask you to pay for it.
Please note: The information collected through the questionnaire is only for the purpose of writing your speech. I wouldn’t even need it if I could read your mind. So, your information is very confidential and no one will know about it.
This is a note Anthony sent over when the wedding was over.
Just imagine leaving your entire presentation in the hands of skilled wedding speech consultants who will take away your pain of spending hours thinking hard and long about what to say and what not to say.
Also, envision being patiently guided to say something that will leave a favorable impression on the mind of your listeners.
And also imagine the thrill and feeling of excitement and pride you’re going to experience when the audience leap onto their feet and scream and shouts and even sing your praises.
Won’t you love that? I hope you do...
Ok, I am Interested, What’s the Cost?
You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.
Why? As you know, the current health and economic crisis has caused severe hardships for most people.
Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.
Yet, some couples are still getting married and asking their family and friends to give speeches.
Nonetheless, not everyone could afford my wedding speech writing services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.
So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.
Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.
So, please take advantage of it now even if the wedding day is in the future.
Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video and the bride and groom and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.
So, please take advantage of it now even if your big day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.
Oh Ok, How Then Do I Get Started Since I Want To Get On Board Right Away?Ok, here’s how it works
After that, we will send you a very short questionnaire to fill out via email! You only have to check your email a few hours after you have made your request.
Then, you fill out the questionnaire sent through your email and please have it sent back to us…
We will confirm receipt of it…If something is not too clear, we will ask you to clarify….
If not, we will send you a wonderful draft in a couple of hours if this on very short notice….If not, after a few days
Then, you look it over and tell us if you are okay with it or you want to amend it till you are happy with it--although we always get it right even with the first draft.
Then, we ask you to pay for it.
Please note: The information collected through the questionnaire is only for the purpose of writing your speech. I wouldn’t even need it if I could read your mind. So, your information is very confidential and no one will know about it.
Just a reminder of what you pay after it’s duly completed.
You simply pay what you wantafter you’ve got your beautiful speech.
Why? As you know, the current health crisis has caused severe hardships for most people.
Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.
Yet, couples are still getting married and asking their loved ones to give speeches.
Nonetheless, not every one could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.
So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.
Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.
So, please take advantage of it now even if the wedding is in the future.
Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video and the bride and groom and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.
This is a note Vernan sent over when the wedding was over.
So, please take advantage of it now even if the wedding day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.
Please note: Your speech draft comes with a proven and simple tip to master your speech or remember your speech just as you want it without carrying a paper with you.
Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise, and clarity!
''Hi Dan,
The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice). Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.
All the best,
Matt''
Please note: Don’t fill out this form if you’re a dishonest individual. This offer is for a limited time.
You don't have to worry about paying our per speech for now.
Forget about money and let’s write something for you. We believe in the values of honesty and integrity and we think you should be happy with our work first.
So, Here Are The Benefits You Get When You Get On Board!
A great speech written by our wedding speech consultants that reflects what you want to say exactly
We coach you on how to use your voice to make your speech very exciting.
We show you a simple but often overlook strategy to rehearse your speech even if you have a very poor memory. This method is used by great speakers like Obama and was used by Abraham Lincoln and his compatriots
The most effective way to get your entire speech into your head without memorizing your speech. Guaranteed to help you even if you have a very poor memory or your memory is like a gold fish…most of our clients still wonder where we got this idea from. This ensures that you don't read off a sheet of paper...
Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise, and clarity!
''Hi Dan,
The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice). Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.
All the best,
Matt''
Ways to include humor in your speech and what it takes to do so
Just stick with me for a while and I will share with you everything you need to know about…
How to use father of the bride speech templates or examples to help you express your thoughts and emotions into a great father of the bride speech
What to include and what not to say in your father of the bride wedding speech…get this wrong and you will feel deeply ashamed that you even got up to speak
Plus several other proven tips you can adapt for the content of your father of the bride wedding toast
I strongly believe that one of the greatest gifts you will ever give your daughter is words. Good words have been the heart and soul of your family’s existence and you certainly owe her a great father of the bride speech as she starts the next chapter of her life with that wonderful person she can’t live out.
Well, if you’ve never delivered one or are not blessed with the gift of words, your heart will pound like a roaring African drum. And if you ever made a blunder while speaking in public, then I can imagine what’s going through your mind at this very moment.
You shouldn’t worry about what has gone wrong in the past because I am going to share with you a well-written father of the bride speech or toast sample or template.
Afterwards, we will break it down and examine it so you can figure out how you can use its contents to write an amazing speech for your daughter and son-in-law.
First and foremost, let’s look at this…
Father of the Bride Speech Example/Template
Hello, good evening. For those of you who don’t know me, my name is Frank and I’m Michelle’s proud dad.
On behalf of my wife Jeanette, the groom’s parents and the happy couple Dave and Michelle, can I say what a pleasure it is to welcome the friends and relatives of both families. It’s really great to see you all.
Thank you for coming to help celebrate this very special day. And by your presence today, you show your friendship and love, and bring even greater joy to this wonderful day and I hope that you all have a wonderful evening.Michelle, you look absolutely stunning tonight.
When you made your grand entry, I was overwhelmed with beautiful emotions of love, pride, and excitement. Those feelings grew more intense as I walked you down the aisle to give you away to Dave.
As we took our memorable last walk together, fond memories came rushing back of our first walk together when we brought you home from the hospital all bundled up like a precious gift.
At birth, you were so cute and adorable, and like the rest of our children, our hopes and dreams were to love and inspire you, and keep you safe from harm.
Far beyond our wildest dreams, you grew up into a very happy and thoughtful little girl with a true heart of gold. At an early age, you were so concerned about the well-being of her siblings, friends, and loved-ones.
Her caring attitude reminds me of a time she pestered us for a new baby. Michelle had already had two older brothers and every day, she would often come to either me or my wife and tell us that she wanted a baby sister.
She felt we weren’t doing our best, so she started praying every night for a sister and she would tell us that she was praying for a very long time but that God still didn’t get her one.
She eventually got her prayers answered with her little sister Nini whom she adored and cared for like a little princess. Growing up, she was fun to be with, but like most kids, she sometimes drove us crazy.
When she was about five years old, she disappeared from home and her sudden disappearance shot our blood pressure unexpectedly through the roof! We had the police combing the neighborhood for over an hour.
When it felt like all hopes were gone, I shouted frantically in exasperation. Finally, she heard me calling out for her and she responded by saying that she was in her doll house. Believe it or not, when I entered, she was fast asleep like a log!
It’s hard to imagine that the years have gone so fast and it’s a heartfelt blessing to see that our precious daughter has grown up from that little girl who brought so much joy and happiness into our lives, into a very caring, loving, thoughtful, and responsible young woman!
Michelle, we are so proud of you and how far you’ve come down the road of life. Every woman looks forward to that beautiful day when she’s joined together with that special person she just can’t live without.
Today, as you exchanged promises with Dave, I could feel from the excitement in your voice that you’ve found your love, rock, balance, and inspiration in him.I am so ecstatic that you’ve found the man of your dreams, but we will never stop loving you from afar, and praying for your everlasting happiness because you hold such a special place in our hearts.
It gives me joy to see that you will be sharing the rest of your life with someone who loves you as much as we do. We wish you the very best and can’t wait to see what the future holds for you both.
Dave, when someone loves you, they don’t have to say it. You can tell it by the way they treat you. For all these years, you have shown time and again that you really love Michelle with your whole heart.
I remember that after you went into the Army upon graduation from dental school and was stationed in New York for 4 years, you and Michelle had a long distance relationship to navigate. But that didn’t make your love for her grow so cold.
You both rose to the challenge by visiting each other when you could, and you even showed each other what matters most. To me, that’s a testament of your commitment and total love.
Not only have you decorated her life with your love, but you’ve helped enriched her appreciation of life’s good things, and I am eternally gratefully for that.
I couldn’t be more proud that you are getting married to our precious daughter. Dave and Michelle, you both have are a wonderful couple and your love for each other is so refreshing like the morning dew. I really love the fact you both have similar hopes, dreams and aspirations because couples with shared values often flourish beautifully.
Nevertheless, you still have a lot to fight for as you build your lives together.You both have what looks like great rivers to cross and majestic mountains to climb.
The good thing is your love for each other will give you the courage and strength to go through the ups and downs of life.
So, as you embark on this journey of love, always love, respect, support and put each other first in whatever you do and you will have a full and rich life.
So, to Dave and Nellie, let’s all raise our glasses to the union of this lovely couple! May you two enjoy a loving, wonderful marriage for years to come. I wish you all the happiness in the world. We love you and God bless you.
I really love this father of the bride speech example and I applaud the writer for coming up with this great speech. It’s emotional, funny, and heartfelt. What better way to pay tribute to your daughter on her wedding day.
It seems funny to think that you can easily write that at first glance. But if you probe further, you will come to realize that a lot of stuff went into writing that father of the bride wedding speech.
Guess what? There are a lot of processes involved in stringing your thoughts together to compose a beautiful speech. They include the following elements:
Pre-writing stage
Writing stage
The performance stage
Let’s start with the pre-writing stage. If you have never given a father of the bride speech before, then you first have to find good ideas and tips for your father of the bride speech.
Two resources come to mind: well-written father of the bride samples or templates and video examples.
First of all, I would like you to watch these videos and see if you can learn a thing or two from them. As you do, please jot down ideas that jump out at you and see if you can somehow work those thoughts into your own script.
Here they are:
Father of the bride speech example video #1
Father of the bride speech templates video #2
Now, let’s dive deeper into the writing process by first creating an outline or structure for it. If we read the above wedding toast for a second time, you will realize that it is anchored on these bullet points.
Greetings…Telling the guests who you are
Short self-introduction
Thanking the guests and other personalities who helped to mold your daughter’s character or personality. For example, your wife or the mom of the groom
Start your speech on a positive note
Talk about your daughter in a positive light
Talk about your son-in-law too
Talk about how the bride and groom complement each other
End with a bit of marriage advice or best wishes
End with a toast or on a hilarious note
Okay, that’s it. Let’s look at each of those bullet points in detail and back them up with the appropriate examples.
Let’s look at the first item on the list: Greetings…Telling the guests who you are(short-self introduction)
When you are handed the microphone, introduce yourself and let the wedding guests know your relationship to the bride and groom. I am sure you can write this part of your father of the bride wedding toast without blinking an eye, right?
Let’s examine at the next idea on the list: Express gratitude to the wedding guests and other personalities who helped to mold your daughter’s life
Here’s a brief example to get your creative juices flowing:
They say “It takes a village” to raise a child, and that is particularly true for me, since Maggie and her sister were taken good care of my mom(their grand mom)So I have to take a moment to mention my mom whom we all miss terribly.
She lived for her family and adored her children and grandchildren.
She was like a second mom to our girls as she did everything in her power to make life easier for us. Unfortunately, my wife Tammy was diagnosed with cancer at the time. Thank God, she’s now cancer free. But my mom did everything in her power to make life easier for me and reduce my stress during our tough times.
Here are some notable personalities you can add to your gratitude list:
Your wife
The bride’s mom
The bride’s grand mom and granddad
Your neighbors
Your pastors and friends
Your baby sitter
Your brother and sisters
The list goes on. The trick here is to first identity individuals who have been of tremendous help and support through the years. Then, write down their names and state how they have impacted your daughter’s life positively.
Let’s look at the next idea on the list: Start your speech with a bang
Having written several fathers of the bride speeches, I can’t overemphasize how crucial the opening remarks are. They are like appetizers served before the main meal. If you get it right, you will end up making your father of the bride toast memorable, unique, and engaging.
Sadly, most speakers start on a very dull note because they are accustomed to hearing most fathers deliver the same lines at weddings. Hence, they copy the speaking styles of others which often takes the shine off of what you would have otherwise been a very successful presentation.
But, you can stand out from the pack with one or more of these techniques.
First, if you have a great singing voice, you can set your speech to a song. You may use this beautiful song and change a few lyrics here and there to reflect what the father-daughter relationship has been like over the years.
Here it is:
Second, you can start off with any of these quotes:
“Daddy, thanks for being my hero, chauffeur, financial support, listener, life mentor, friend, guardian, and simply being there every time I need a hug.” – Agatha Stephanie Lin
When you’re young, you think your dad is Superman. Then you grow up, and you realize he’s just a regular guy who wears a cape.” – Unknown
No one in this world can love a girl more than her father.” – Michael Ratnadeepak
A good father will leave his imprint on his daughter for the rest of her life.” – Dr. James Dobson
“Fathers, be good to your daughters. You are the god and the weight of her world.” – John Mayor
Ok, to give you an idea, let’s use the second quote ‘’ When you’re young, you think your dad is Superman ‘’ to write a short extract.
Here you go:
When Michelle was a little girl, her favorite TV series was Superman. That didn’t come as a surprise because she looked like a tom boy. It didn’t take long before she started wearing a cape and began imitating Superman’s move. First, she….
I will stop here. This is not a superman movie. Now, don’t you think this little story will perk ears up? It will because we love good stories.
Third, you can start your father of the bride wedding toast in a dramatic fashion as this dad did at her daughter’s wedding. It is quite demanding but if you can do it skillfully, your efforts will be rewarded.
Let’s look at another item on the list: talk about your precious daughter in a very positive light
Talking about your daughter is undeniably the easiest part of the writing process. But it can be hard to know where to start. If you have so many memories about her and can’t seem to get started, then you can follow this simple plan to get great ideas to come to you.
Divide your daughter’s life into these developmental stages:
Her toddler years
Pre-adolescent period
Her puberty or teenage years
Her growing up years
Those transitions can help you develop your storyline. To make things fairly easy, you may start from when she was a little girl to when she found the love of her life. If not, you can build your storyline from another angle. For example, you can just focus on a little memory about her growing up.
This is a mini-assignment for you: Grab your notepad and write down a few stories about your darling daughter. Then, highlight the cool ones you would like to feature in your father of the bride wedding toast.
That’s not all. Your father of the bride wedding speech or toast shouldn’t be lopsided. After you have written down a few ideas about the beautiful bride, you have to share some thoughts about your son-in-law as well.
If the groom has been part of your family (so to speak) for a very long time, then you can write a whole lot of stuff about him. Stuff like your get-togethers, vacation travelshobbies and shared interests, how you feel about him, and so on.
Here’s a homework assignment for you: Using the underlined words above, write down a few anecdotes about your future son-in-law.
You may go a step further by letting everyone know how the couple complements each other.
Now, let’s look at idea number five: how to end your father of the bride speech
There’s this beautiful quote by the late renowned poet Maya Angelou that says that “I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.”
This equally applies to the closing remarks of your father of the bride toast too. Most fathers pour their heart and soul into creating memorable opening lines. But not so much when it comes to crafting the conclusion because they feel it’s the end of the show.
You definitely have to end on a very strong note if you want it to be super-memorable. Here are some tips and ideas to help you end well.
First, you can end with words from the Bible if you are a Christian or end a special prayer for the couple. Here’s my favorite prayer.
Numbers 6:24-26
King James Version
24 The Lord bless thee, and keep thee:
25 The Lord make his face shine upon thee, and be gracious unto thee:
26 The Lord lift up his countenance upon thee, and give thee peace.
Second, if you’ve been married for a while, you may conclude with some practical words of wisdom that have keep both of you going strong all these years.
Here’s a funny marriage advice I read at marriage.com
‘’When you argue, you have to start taking your clothes off. You’ll either end up laughing or doing something else, but at least you’ll forget why you were fighting in the first place. ‘’
Third, if you have nothing to say, just end with a simple toast and your best-wishes.
P.S---As the father of the bride, everyone will be on the lookout for your great speech and you can't let the bride and her husband, friends, and family down by giving an ordinary speech.
By getting help, you can give the best speech of the day with poise and confidence even if you don't have a way with words.
Here’s what one nervous and skeptical dad called Glen(who asked for help) sent over after the wedding was over
''Hey Dan, I just wanted to thank you once again for the speech you wrote with me. My goal was met afterward, I was told by many "what a beautiful speech" and received a standing ovation. I couldn't have done this without you. God Bless Dan!-'' Glen, U.S.A
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Why? As you know, the current health and economic crisis has caused severe hardships for most people.
Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.
Yet, some daughters are still getting married and asking their fathers to give speeches.
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Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video and your daughter and son-in-law and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.
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Just a reminder of what you pay after it’s duly completed. You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.
Why? As you know, the current health and economic crisis has caused severe hardships for most people.
Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.
Yet, some daughters are still getting married and asking their fathers to give speeches.
Nonetheless, not every father could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.
So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.
Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.
So, please take advantage of it now even if your daughter’s big day is in the future.
Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video and your daughter and son-in-law and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.
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''Hi Dan,
The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice). Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.
All the best,
Matt''
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''Hi Dan,
The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice). Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.
All the best,
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Ways to include humor in your speech and what it takes to do so
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''The wedding was GREAT. There were about 120 guests. About 15 people came up to me afterward and told me I gave a great speech. I had to tweak it little because of my tardiness getting it to you but, it all turned out great. Thanks for all your help. I really appreciate it''- Phil Australia
How to express your deepest sentiments about your daughter-in-law without offending her and her family...get it wrong and you will embarrass yourself and your son
Plus several practical ideas you can weave into your own toast.
Are you ready for this? Now, this is what I want you to do now. Please put away every distraction and let’s get to work right away. Have you ever wondered why most mother of the groom speeches don’t pass muster while a few ones really hit the mark?
You see a lot of things come into play when you are planning to deliver a memorable mother of the groom wedding toast. You need excellent writing and presentation skills so your words can resonate with the wedding crowd. But, let’s face it. How many of us are blessed with those gifts?
Just a few I guess! Yet, in spite of your shortfalls, your son and your family will be counting on you to tell a memorable story about who your precious son is, how far he’s gotten in life, and what you look forward to as he starts the next chapter of his life with the bride.
That can be a little disheartening if you don’t know where to start or fear speaking before a small crowd. No matter how anxious you may be, this treasured tool can be your savior if you use it wisely. Can you guess what it is?
Mother of the groom speech examples! Mother of the groom speech templates because they have several ideas you can learn from and adapt for your own script even if you haven’t mastered the art of writing and speaking in public.
Well, in the next few lines, I am going to share with you a well-written mother of the groom wedding speech. Afterwards, we will break it down and analyze its components so you can figure out what goes into writing a unique and heartfelt mother of the groom wedding toast so you can have peace of mind. Please read through it carefully.
Here it is:
A Mother of the Groom Speech Example/Template
Hello everyone. I’m Amanda, Dan’s mom and I am so happy that we are finally here to celebrate with Dan and Stephanie and their true love story. We waited a year, but they finally got the wedding they deserve!
Dan has always been such a good heart. Evenwhen I was pregnant with him, it was a dreampregnancy, so easy. Of course, the birth part was a bit less of a dream. 26 hours of labor.
Eric and I wore a path in that maternity ward,walking and walking all night long. Every time we’d pass the nursery we would stop and look at the babies. I couldn’t wait to finally meet him, but apparently you were just fine.
And your father with his camera! He took pictures of the whole thing to document my level of pain. But he stayed with me the entire time, and when the three of us could finally go home, he rented a limo to take us. Your first ride in a car was in a limo!
Dan was always very smart and basically a great kid. He did well in school, was loved by his teachers, had many friends, and he loved playing sports.
Dan was the best big brother in the world. Always looking out for his little brother, a great role model, very helpful, very supportive, they have a close relationship to this day, even though they are as different as night and day. That is always something that makes me so proud.
Growing up, Dan did not like riding on the horse, so we would always end up sitting on the bench. Going round and round sitting on a bench with a toddler.
One day when his grandparents were visiting, we went to the Fio Zoo. When Dan saw the elephant ride, he got excited and wanted to ride the elephant. There was a very long line and I thought , “oh great, we’re going to wait on this long line, I’m wearing a skirt and will have to straddle this elephant and I know he won’t go on.”
When we got to our turn sure enough, he jumped right up there and loved riding the elephant. He was afraid of the carousel horse; he had no problem riding the grand elephant. I think that says something about Dan.
He may be cautious when it comes to cheap thrills, but when it comes to something real? He embraces that part of life with everything he has.
In his teens, Dan played football and when they had to go for away games, he would just sit on the bus doing his homework. Dan was 1 of 10 valedictorians at his high school graduation.
Then he was off to college where he graduated in 4 years. I always thought he would make a great leader, like mother like son, right?
He is extremely passionate about what he does and his clients are full of praise for him. That’s why I could not imagine a more perfect partner for him than Stephanie . She’s also so hard- working and intelligent. And I’m still so glad that she’s actually family now.
You know, I started running in my 60’s and Stephanie and I completed our first half marathon together. She was a big support to me and always very encouraging.
When I ran the Boston Marathon she and the rest of my family was there to cheer me on. The reason I’m telling you this is it is a good example of something my husband always makes a point of saying.
He says that our “family’s vein” which did mean the four of us, and now that means the five of us. Me, my husband, Dan, his sister Mark and now Stephanie. We always stick together. I know that someday our family tree will be even bigger when Dan and Stephanie have beautiful babies.
We are always going to be here for the two of you as you go on this great marathon we call life. Don’t ever forget that.
And I hope that your home is always filled with love and laughter. To Dan and Stephanie!
Did that make your day? I enjoyed reading this short example. Guess what? This short template has several ideas you can model your speech after. We are going to dive right in by looking at how you can make the most out of that example.
But first, let’s take note of a few things that prevents wedding speech givers from delivering great speeches and how to make sure you don’t make those same classic mistakes.
I love this verse of scripture (Proverbs 23:7) that says that as a man thinks so he is. That scriptural verse reminds of a thoughtful little poem that reads like a wise father’s advice to his son.
I brought this up because panic attacks or nervousness might actually stop you from stepping up to the plate even if you feel you are up to the task.
Having worked with wedding speakers the world over, I have realized that there’s no such thing as a terrible speaker. But, what sets great orators apart has to do with their mindsets.
If you consciously cultivate a positive mindset about speaking in public, you will gradually be shattering those widely-held limiting beliefs that hold most moms back from putting their best foot forward.
Limiting beliefs like:
I am not a natural speaker
I failed to impress last time…so, I am probably not going to live up to expectation…Such wrong thinking can ruin your performance…so, please leave the past in the past
I would probably not do too well this time…but I will try anyway
It goes on and on
Well, you can turn the tide around if you take control of the situation by preparing well ahead of time.
By the way, if stage fright makes you sick to death, then I would recommend that first watch this video.
It can be tempting to start jotting your thoughts down if you feel that you have some great memories about the groom. You can do that if your head is brimming with useful ideas and have a fair idea of how to start.
But, if you are still wondering how, then, it makes sense to cool down and watch a few mother of the groom speech videos so you can figure how it is done.
This is what I would like you to do now. Just watch these videos…say once or twice and write down ideas you think you can slot into your own mother of the groom wedding speech.
Here you go:
Mother of the groom speech sample (video#1)
Mother of the groom speech example (video#2)
I hope you enjoyed watching both clips. Now, let’s see how we can come up with our ideas using those visual and written resources.
To make things much easier, you first have to create an outline for your mother of the groom wedding toast. By studing the above example, we can deduce that the structure is built on these bullet points:
Greetings
Short self-introduction
Thank your guests and other personalities
Start your speech
Talk about your son
Talk about your daughter-in-law
Talk about the bride and groom
End with a bit of marriage advice or best wishes
End with a toast
Most wedding speeches follow this format. You can simply follow that too if you want to stay in your comfort zone. If not, you are free to think outside the box if God gave you a creative mind before you landed on planet earth.
My drama professor used to say that it’s always best to know the rules before you think of breaking them. So I think we should stick to the above plan for the sake of convenience.
Let’s start with the first idea on the list: greetings
That’s the easiest part of the speech to write, right? This is how it’s captured in the above example.
''Hello everyone. I’m Sandra, Dan’s mom and I am so happy that we are finally here to celebrate with Dick and Stephanie and their true love story. We waited a year, but they finally got the wedding they deserve!''
Let’s look at the next item on the list: Short-Self Introduction
Here are a few examples:
For those of you who don’t know me, I am Mary.
I am the proud mother of the groom and right by side is my side chick of the last 40 years! I call him 50 cents…there’s a reason for that and I will get to that in my speech
Most of you know as the mother of the groom with a nice nose….Well, I am actually his best friend and our friendship started from birth…
I could go on …But did you notice how I made the second and third points quite hilarious? Yeah….Most self-intros are boring but yours can pack a punch if you make it a little bit different. So, why not give it a try? Just make sure it’s not over the top .
Let’s now consider the third idea on the list:Thank your guests and other personalities
You certainly can’t take the credit alone for where your son is now. This reminds me of the popular African proverb that says it takes a village to raise a child. It certainly has taken the positive influence of so many loving and caring family and friends to help raise him so well and you can’t let his big day slip away without acknowledging them.
Here’s an example:
To Lori and Pat, I’d like to thank you for raising
such an amazing lady. She’s an absolute credit to you both.
This is a mother thanking the parents of the bride. There are obviously many other persons she could have expressed appreciation to. Can you write down a few names you wish to give a shout out to?
Ok…l am going to list a few below.
Your mom (the groom’s grandmom)
Your dad(the groom’s grandma)….if they are both deceased, you can simply say they are looking down at him with pride
If they played an integral role in molding him, you can mention that briefly without casting a sad shadow over the event.
Your husband or the father of the groom. If you are divorced or a single parent, you need not mention it. It would make sense if you forgive him. If you do that from a very sincere heart, your story might go viral and you will be admired for that. Remember, life is too short to keep a bitter record of one’s wrongs and rights.
Action Tip: Think for a moment, persons you wish to express gratitude to. Put down their names and indicate why you are referencing them in your speech.
Having seen that, let’s move on to the fourth item on our list:Start your speech and talk about your son
This is the part most folks call the opening remarks or introductory address. This is how it’s captured in the mother of the groom speech template we saw at the onset.
‘’ Dan has always been such a good heart. Even when I was pregnant with him, it was a dream pregnancy, so easy. Of course, the birth part was a bit less of a dream. 26 hours of labor. Chris and I wore a path in that maternity ward…’’
If you read that extract a second and probably a third time, you will realize that it starts with a story and that’s what the wedding crowd love most. Stories are the heartbeat of all great wedding toasts. So, please start with one if you can think of a very good one.
Of course, there are many other interesting ways to start your mother of the groom speech and get everyone involved from the start to the end. I would like to share with you a few ways of opening with a bang.
First, you can begin on a happy note by rendering it like a song as seen in this video.
If your son’s birthday falls on the same day as his wedding date, you can mention this and humbly ask everyone to join you in singing a happy a birthday song before you deliver your speech.
If you have a little story to share, that would be great. It could be a beautiful story about when you were pregnant with him, a story about what happened on his due date or another nice story about how events unfolded when you brought him home.
I once reviewed a speech of a mom who said that when her child was born, her husband was so excited that he drove her to a dump! Can you imagine that? You just have to reflect on the good and bad times and you will come up with some really good stories.
If you can’t remember the exact details, then I have this question for you.
Do you remember how you felt when you brought your son home from the hospital? If you do, then, please write it down.
This is what a new mom said about her first few days with her cute baby boy.
Mike was born one sunny morning when we were living in Florida. On that day, I was overcome with joy, pride and a deep sense of love and belonging when he was placed into my arms. He was a beautiful gift and when I saw him, it was love at first sight, at second sight, and at every sight. I still remember how several times at night, I’d look into his beautiful, smiling eyes and be completely overwhelmed with a sense of joy and pride. There and then, I closed my eyes and imagined what the future held for both mom and son.
Now, here he is a perfect picture of a mom’s dream come true and I couldn’t be more proud that he starts the next chapter of his life with someone he loves with this whole heart.
Now, let’s look at the next item we are going to look at:Talk about your son and daughter-in-law and how they complement each other
With so many stories about your son to choose from, you can be end up writing what sounds like a biography. But that shouldn’t be the case at all.
This is what I want you to do now. Starting from when he came into your life, write down series of stories about his life. Allow it to sink in for a day or two and then choose from the pool of events, stories you would like to share with your family and friends.
After writing down a few words about him, you should jot down a few words about your daughter-in-law even if you think she’s not a great match for your son or you don’t really know her.
I know you are thinking, Dan, what am I going to write about someone I don’t really know? Great question and I am glad you asked it. This example can free your mind from this mental stress.
It’s obvious that you both love each other and I hope that your love continue to burn brighter forever.
Finally, Let’s look at the last item on the list: end with nuggets of advice about marriage
The last item on the list or your closing remarks are equally as important as the introductory remarks because when all is said and done, the wedding attendees will remember how your closing thoughts made them feel. You may wrap up with any of these cool ideas.
First, just share some fundamental truths about what makes a marriage tick. Here’s an example.
Make time together a priority. Budget for a consistent date night. Time is the “currency of relationships” so consistently invest time into your marriage. There are no shortcuts. Building a strong marriage takes time.
Second, if you are a spiritual person, you can end with a prayer or even use a few words from the scriptures. My favorite is from I Corinthians 13.
Third, you can end with a thoughtful poem like this one.
A marriage works on give and take
And learning how to share
Always thinking of your loved one
And to show how much you care
To trust each other always
And to forgive when there’s a need
To say how much you love them
Is a wonderful thing indeed
Your love upon your wedding day
Will grow throughout your life
And build upon that moment
When you became husband and wife
P.S: Is the thought of giving you a great wedding speech keeping you up at night? It shouldn’t if you do what most moms do. By following this simple plan that's guaranteed to help you write a great mom speech like the one you read above.
Claire was quite skeptical when she came to us but we kept assuring what she will make her son and family proud-and this is what she sent over after the wedding was over
'' Hello Dan, their wedding went very well. The usual stress beforehand for the couple organizing the event but all things to do went so smoothly. I also like to say that I'm so proud of my speech, almost got a standing ovation, lol! I'm so glad I've found you. I will definitely recommend you to my friends and family in future weddings. I wish you the very best.''- Claire, New Zealand
Want to know how she did just that? She got on board our wedding speech program and one of our talented speech consultants helped her out.
This is letter a mom sent to us after we helped her deliver her speech(Please click on it to enlarge if you can't see it)
Ok, Is This Offer For Me?
Yes, if you are expecting nothing less than a very special, beautiful, unique, and memorable speech.
Don’t have much time to write a perfect speech just as you want it because of work demands and other life's pressure or even sick? Then, let’s take care of it and the guests will definitely sing your praises--we have done it for so many others and it's your turn now!
Yes, if you are overwhelmed by the pressures of work and don’t have the time to put together a very meaningful speech, so you can have your peace of mind
Yes, if you want your family, your son, friends, and wedding guests to shower you with very sincere compliments…just imagine how you will feel
Yes, if you are not good with words and you feel you’re not a natural writer and you are struggling to find the right words but still want to give a great speech.
Yes, you get so scared anytime you’re asked to say something before an audience and you really want to save yourself from any form of embarrassment on your son's big day.
Yes, if you are not too eloquent or not too sure if you are on the right track.
Yes, if you absolutely hate speaking in public or feel this is not your thing but you want to make your son feel very proud
Yes, if you have a day or less to the wedding and you are worried that you might make some horrible mistakes
Yes, if you are a good speaker but you still want someone to look over or review what you've come up with!
Just imagine leaving your entire presentation in the hands of skilled wedding speech consultants who will take away your pain of spending hours thinking hard and long about what to say and what not to say.
Also, envision being patiently guided to say something that will leave a favorable impression on the mind of your listeners.
And also imagine the thrill and feeling of excitement and pride you’re going to experience when the audience leaps onto their feet and scream and shouts and even sing your praises.
Won’t you love that? I hope you do...
Wedding not too far away? Or happening in less than 24 hours?Trust me, we can deliver!it doesn’t matter if your speech is today, tomorrow, next week, next month ,next year,... we can make things work for you
Ok, I am Interested, What’s the Cost?
You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.
Why? As you know, the current health and economic crisis has caused severe hardships for most people.
Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.
Yet, some sons are still getting married and asking their moms to give speeches.
''It was perfect Dan. I changed a few things in the speech. And I had several people come up and tell me how well done it was. I couldn't have done it better. Thanks for your help''- Marilyn, Canada
Nonetheless, not every mother could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.
So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.
Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.
So, please take advantage of it now even if your son’s big day is in the future.
Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video and your son and daughter-in-law and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.
So, please take advantage of it now even if your son’s big day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.
This is another letter a mom sent to us after we helped her deliver her speech(Please click on it to enlarge if you can't see it)
Oh Ok, How Then Do I Get Started Since I Want To Get On Board Right Away?
After that, we will send you a very short questionnaire to fill out via email! You only have to check your email a few hours after you have made your request
Then, you fill out the questionnaire sent through your email, and please have it sent back to us…
We will confirm receipt of it…If something is not too clear, we will ask you to clarify….
If not, we will send you a wonderful draft in a couple of hours if this on very short notice….If not, after a few days
Then, you look it over and tell us if you are okay with it or you want to amend or revise it till you are happy with it--although we always get it right even with the first draft.
Then, we ask you to pay for it.
Please note: The information collected through the questionnaire is only for the purpose of writing your speech. I wouldn’t even need it if I could read your mind. So, your information is very confidential and no one will know about it.
Just a reminder of what you pay after it’s duly completed.
Ok, I am Interested, What’s the Cost?
You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.
Why? As you know, the current health and economic crisis has caused severe hardships for most people. Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.
Yet, some sons are still getting married and asking their moms to give speeches.
''It was perfect Dan. I changed a few things in the speech. And I had several people come up and tell me how well done it was. I couldn't have done it better. Thanks for your help''- Marilyn, Canada
Nonetheless, not every mother could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.
So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.
Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.
So, please take advantage of it now even if your son’s big day is in the future.
Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video and your son and daughter-in-law and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.
So, please take advantage of it now even if your son’s big day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.
Please note: Your speech draft comes with a proven and simple tip to master your speech or remember your speech just as you want it without carrying a paper with you.
Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise, and clarity!
''Hi Dan,
The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice). Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.
All the best,
Matt''
Please note: Don’t fill out this form if you’re a dishonest individual. This offer is for a limited time.
You don't have to worry about paying our per speech for now.
Forget about money and let’s write something for you. We believe in the values of honesty and integrity and we think you should be happy with our work first.
So, Here Are The Benefits You Get When You Get On Board!
A great speech written by our wedding speech consultants that reflects what you want to say exactly
We coach you on how to use your voice to make your speech very exciting.
We show you a simple but often overlook strategy to rehearse your speech even if you have a very poor memory. This method is used by great speakers like Obama and was used by Abraham Lincoln and his compatriots
The most effective way to get your entire speech into your head without memorizing your speech. Guaranteed to help you even if you have a very poor memory or your memory is like a gold fish…most of our clients still wonder where we got this idea from. This ensures that you don't read off a sheet of paper...
Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise, and clarity!
''Hi Dan,
The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice). Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.
All the best,
Matt''
Ways to include humor in your speech and what it takes to do so
Is the thought of writing a great mother of the bride toast stressing you out? If it does, then, please kiss your worries goodbye because in this revealing post, I will share with you…
I feel sad whenever I read such messages and I always help without any hesitation. Well, you will agree with me that most wedding speeches are unexciting to say the least. So I understand their frustrations in many ways.
Most of those concerns and worries stem from the fact most moms don’t really have what it takes to come up with a touching mother of the bride speech.
Granted, you don’t have to worry so much about what to say and what not to say because I will be sharing with you tips and ideas interspersed with relevant examples so you can write and deliver a lovely mother of the bride wedding speech like my friend Michelle did a while back.
First and foremost, I would like us to read this mother of the bride speech sample/template carefully as I will be using that plus other helpful tips to make things so much easier for you.
Here it is:
Mother Of The Bride Speech Example/Template
Hello Everyone! For those of you who don’t know me, I am Jacqueline, the proud mother of the bride. What a happy and wonderful occasion for all of us to gather and celebrate.
Dan and Evelyn both look fantastic, and that is just partly because of the expensive clothes. I have always said that the way they look at each other gives away their feelings every time. They are just a gorgeous couple!
I love the fact that they met over pizza. I know everyone here knows the story, right? Dan delivered a pizza to my house. Evelyn started craving pizza often. Always calling for delivery and requesting Dan. When she left for nursing
school, Dan delivered a pizza and his phone number and asked me to pass the number onto Evelyn . She was always great with her sisters, especially Marilyn, who got two mothers when she was born. Me and Evelyn.
She was funny and so girly. Except when she was shoving macaroni up her nose. She loved being at home. She always preferred sleepovers at her house because we had the best snacks, always hated having to eat dinner at someone else’s house, and when she was very small she loved sleeping in Mommy’s bed.
She adored her first dog York, driving her Barbie car in the driveway. I remember once, just once when she was a teenager and she got busted having a party because I came home early from vacation and didn’t tell her. But overall she was always a great kid.
We were so close from the time she was small until, well until forever. I adored her and we did wonderful things together. She loved to play dress up, and go to work with me when she could. We were attached at the hip for a long time.
Today I got to play dress up with her for her most important day, and that means the world to me.
My daughter loved two things her whole life. The first was cheerleading. She started cheering at 5 years old, went on to lead her cheer team to win all kinds of competitions in South Hampton, including the state championship.
Her senior year she was cheer Captain, and she still coaches young girls today. The second thing was being a nurse, especially for babies. She always wanted to be a nurse, graduated nursing school with honors, and excelled in every nursing job she’s had. She has dedicated her life to the infants and parents in the NICU. That makes me so proud. Not only of her dedication and accomplishment, but also her sense of purpose that she has carried with her
for so long.
My sweet, smart, funny and caring girl met the man of her dreams over pizza. It was difficult at first because she was far away in Washington. I think I realized that he was the one when she transferred to be closer to him.
He is the best thing a mother could hope for as a son-in-law. He is kind, genuine, sensible, and loves my daughter deeply. He always opens the door for her, makes her smile every day, and is a good balance for Eveyln. He’s patient, while she can be a bit feisty.
I think they will make great parents for my grandchildren. Yep, I dropped the grandchildren bomb in your wedding speech! No pressure…just saying. I can’t wait to see the two of you as parents!
I want to say that marriage can be the hardest thing you’ve ever done, but like anything difficult, it can also be the most rewarding. Just hold onto each other during the storms, and enjoy the sunny days together.
Always keep love and laughter in your home every day. Be partners in every way, and may all your dreams come true! I wish you nothing but blessings, poured out on both of you.
To Bob and Mitchelle, I’d like to thank you for raising such a tremendous guy so that my daughter could find him. And I’d like to also welcome the both of you to our family.
Let’s raise a glass and with it send all of ourbest intentions to this lovely couple. To Dan and Evelyn!
Most mothers see great examples like that one and conclude that, this is something they could have written. While that seems like a walk in the park, it actually went through a simple process to get it done.
Guess what? The writing process is like embarking on a journey to a place you’ve never been to. You have to plan and prepare for it from start to finish way ahead of time.
The three steps involved here are:
The mental preparation stage
The drafting stage
The re-drafting stage
All these parts are vital to coming up with a great mother of the bride speech. So, let’s take it one step at a time.
First, let’s look at the first one: the mental preparation stage
Believe it or not, no one becomes a great speaker by virtue of their gift of oratory or writing skills. Most folks have a fair idea of what to write. But, the overwhelming majority dread speaking in public and that hampers the creative expression of their ideas.
If you can get past this crippling fear, then you are just a step away from mastering your speech and delivering it with ease. Wondering how you can shake off this mental shackle and put on a great show?
At some point in our lives, we all had to endure some kind of embarrassment when we were asked to deliver a few remarks because we goofed up a couple of times. That glaring reality makes most speakers think that they are not good speakers by virtue of their past experiences and it’s quite sad.
To calm your nerves and regain your mental composure, you should clear out the mental cobwebs in your mind by putting the past behind you and constantly imagining yourself speaking confidently to the admiration of your family and friends.
As you hold this positive mental image in your head from time to time, you will be empowered from within even if you feel you are not a naturally talented writer or speaker. That’s the first step to overcoming stage frightand calming the nervous tension spreading throughout your body.
Now, let’s dive into the writing process itself. To start off, you should first create an outline for your bride’s mother wedding toast. If we scroll up and read the mother of the bride speech example above, you will find out that the whole thing is built on this framework:
Greetings
Short self-introduction
Thank your guests and other personalities who helped to mold your daughter’s character or personality
Start your speech on a bright note
Talk about your daughter in a positive light
Talk about your son-in-law from a place of love
Talk about the bride and groom(how they complement each other)
End with a bit of marriage advice or best wishes
End with a toast
With this structure in place, it should be easy to create ideas to help you write your mother of the bride speech for your daughter and son-in-law.
Now, Let’s Start With The First Idea On The List: Greetings
That’s so easy to write, right? Ok, then I won’t dwell on that.
Now, Let’s Move On The Second Idea On The List: Short-Self Introduction
Let’s go back for a moment to the opening lines of the speech and see how the writer captures it.
‘’ Hello Everyone! For those of you who don’t know me, I am……the proud mother of the bride. What a happy and wonderful occasion for all of us to gather and celebrate. Dan and Evelyn both look fantastic, and that is just partly because of the expensive clothes. I have always said that the way they look at each other gives away their feelings every time. They are just a gorgeous couple! ‘’
Here’s why this portion of the speech matters.
It falls in line with wedding speech etiquette or protocol and it shows you really appreciate the fact that your family and friends took time off to attend the wedding of your daughter and son-in-law.
Now, Let’s Look At The Third Idea On The List: Thank Your Guests And Other Personalities Who Molded Your Daughter
Here are a few examples you can model your gratitude notes after.
Hello everyone. To anyone who doesn’t know me, I’m Mica, Jenny’s very proud mother. I want to thank you all for being here today. It’s such a special occasion and it’s been made more meaningful by having each of you with us to celebrate the love of Jenny and Mike.
I need to specially thank Mike’s mom and dad for raising such a handsome, strong minded, driven son. Mike is definitely the person she is today because of you both and your expectations of him.
You should be so very proud of who he has become today. I thank you both every single day for sharing your wonderful son with our family and please always rest assure he is very much loved and adored by us.
Thank you for opening your hearts to Jenny and accepting her as part of your family.
Margaret, I know it was hard being a single mom. I hoped that I was some help. Know that all of us look at you with awe and inspiration. You raised a lovely lady. Please let’s give her a round of applause for that.
Here’s an action plan to get your brain brimming with ideas: Please write down names of people you would like to express gratitude to and mention why you are thanking them. For example, you can say how appreciative and fortunate you are for their help and support every step of the way.
Having Seen That, Let’s Look At The Fourth Idea On The List: Start Your Speech On A Bright Note
Starting on a captivating note will set you apart from every other speaker at the wedding reception. How then do you start with a bang? Ok…I would like to share a few examples to help you start on a memorable note.
First, you can dive right in by telling a little story about who she was when she was just a little girl.
Here’s an example of how this works
‘’ Evelyn was funny and so girly. Except when she was shoving macaroni up her nose…’’
Second, you can start with a song if you want to really strike a chord with the wedding guests. Take this very popular song some father’s sing at their daughter’s wedding.
If you want to imitate this style, you can modify it a bit by substituting a few words here and there. Let’s see how it can be done.
Here you go:
Look at the two of you dancin' that way Lost in the moment and each other's face So much in love, you're alone in this place Like there's nobody else in the world
I was enough for her not long ago I was her number one, she told me so And she still means the world to me, just so you know So be careful when you hold my girl Time changes everything, life must go on And I'm not gonna stand in your way
But I loved her first, I held her first And a place in my heart will always be hers From the first breath she breathed When she first smiled at me
I knew the love of a father (comment: you just have to change father to mother) runs deep And I prayed that she'd find you someday But it's still hard to give her away I loved her first
That is sweet, right? Oh, thank God I found a mother-daughter version online. Please listen to this song from a mother’s perspective.
Believe me; the guests will always remember you whenever they hear this song and they will most likely not forget your wonderful performance.
Third, if you want to start on an emotional note, you may recall what happened before or after your daughter was born. I remember a mom telling me that she was so excited that when her first daughter was born, she couldn’t close her eyes at night. Prior to her birth, her doctor said they would have a boy.
She had always dreamed of being surrounded by girls so she was devastated by that unfortunate news and gave up hopes altogether. But on her due date, she shockingly discovered that her dream had come true. A baby girl was placed on her chest!
Stories like that form the very stuff of great wedding speeches. After you have delivered your opening address or introductory remarks, you then have to tell a short speech or story about your daughter.
Here are simple ideas to help you craft this all-important part of the storyline. Here are a few questions that can help you come up with great ideas for the body or content of your toast.
Write down how your daughter was like when she was a little girl
You can jot down stories about her teen years.
Write down how you felt when she told you about her husband-to-be.
Jot down how you felt when she brought the groom home for the very first time
Write down your best wishes for the couple
Ok. Now, write down answers for each question and put the bits and pieces together to form a rough draft. It may look bad on your first try but don’t let it put a damper on things. You can always look it over a second and third time to smoothen the rough edges.
Your mother of the bride speech shouldn’t be lopsided. Write about the groom too. If you don’t like him or think he won’t be a great husband, just keep this to yourself else you will ruin a happy occasion and no one will be happy with you.
You don’t want to destroy the precious friendship with your daughter, right? If you have nothing on your mind or don’t know him very well, just say that you are excited that your daughter has found someone she can’t live without.
Well, if you are struggling to write a few words about him, these simple questions can help you say something about the groom.
What was meeting like when you first met him?
How long have you known the groom?
What are the great qualities of the groom?
How do the bride and groom complement each other?
Why do you think he will make an amazing husband and father?
In what ways does he bring out the best in your daughter?
Do you recall any stories you’ve been involved with him?
Once, you have answers to the above questions, then, you can use them to write your script.
Here’s an example of how to say a few words about your future son-in-law.
Dan, your humor, and even your cheekiness are definitely your superpower! You are genuine, loyal, kind and caring. You leave a lasting effect on anyone who crosses your path. You are a tower of strength - you know what to say and when to say it.
You are always willing to help, support and encourage the people you love. I love your strength, courage and your determination to always want to be better and I am very confident that you will take good care of my daughter until the end of time.
That ends the drafting and redrafting process.
Now, Let’s Look At The Last Item On The List: How To End Your Mother Of The Bride Speech
Your concluding remarks are as important as your opening address. So, you would have to take the pains to wrap up on a very memorable note. Here are tips to help you end well.
First, you can simply end with a simple toast if you are completely lost for words.
Second, you can end with a touching poem that expresses your love and admiration for the bride. Here’s a great one you can adapt for your toast.
Jane Lazenby wrote it and i think you can learn a thing or two from it.
YOU, SWEET GIRL,
HAVE BROUGHT SUCH JOY TO MY LIFE.
FROM THE VERY FIRST MOMENT I HELD YOU
AND GLANCED INTO YOUR EYES, I HAVE LOVED YOU.
I WATCHED YOU GROW AND LOVED CELEBRATING EACH MILESTONE.
I AM SO PROUD TO SEE THE BEAUTIFUL YOUNG LADY YOU HAVE GROWN TO BE.
AS YOU BECOME A BRIDE AND YOUR LIFE BEGINS ANEW,
I LOOK BACK IN MY MIND AND WONDER HOW IT HAPPENED SO QUICKLY FOR ME AND YOU!
THE MEMORIES OF THOSE GROWING UP YEARS, THE UPS AND DOWNS,
WILL BE TUGGING AT MY HEART.
WHEN I SEE YOU IN YOUR WEDDING GOWN.
SO ON THIS, YOUR WEDDING DAY AND ALWAYS,
MAY YOU REMEMBER THAT
YOUR WORTH IS NOT JUST IN WHAT YOU DO OR SAY,
IT IS A DEEP PART OF YOU.
MAY YOU LIVE AND LOVE WITH KINDNESS THAT ABOUNDS
AND MAY YOU ALWAYS REMEMBER
THAT YOU ARE LOVED SO VERY MUCH,
MY DAUGHTER, MY FRIEND.
Third, if you are doing a Christian or mother of the bride speech, you can end with a prayer or a few verses from the scripture. You may use this example.
1 Corinthians 13: 4-8
4 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.5 It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. 8 Love never fails.
Fourth, if you are a married mom, you can end with some nuggets about what makes marriage work. Here's an example:
Fight fair –Never bring up similarities between your spouse and your mother-in-law during an argument. Don’t talk about past digressions. Keep the discussion about the here and now and keep the disagreement constructive. Contrary to popular wisdom, I think It’s okay to go to bed angry, but it’s important not to let fights drag on too long.
Compromise, Compromise and Compromise: In a marriage no one gets their way all the time. That’s not how it works. When my husband and I got married, he liked Crest and I liked Colgate. We use Colgate for everyday and Crest when we travel. He was a Mets fan and I was a Yankees fan.
P.S: Is the thought of giving you a great wedding speech keeping you up at night? It shouldn’t if you do what most moms do. By following this simple plan that's guaranteed to help you write a great mom speech like the one you read above.
Claire was quite skeptical when she came to us but we kept assuring what she will make her son and family proud-and this is what she sent over after the wedding was over.
'' Hello Dan, their wedding went very well. The usual stress beforehand for the couple organizing the event but all things to do went so smoothly. I also like to say that I'm so proud of my speech, almost got a standing ovation, lol! I'm so glad I've found you. I will definitely recommend you to my friends and family for future weddings. I wish you the very best.''- Claire, New Zealand
Want to know how she did just that? She got on board our wedding speech program and one of our talented speech consultants helped her out.
This is a letter a mom sent me after her wedding. (Please click on the image to enlarge it so you can read it)
Ok, Is This Offer For Me?
Yes, if you are expecting nothing less than a very special, beautiful, unique, and memorable speech.
Don’t have much time to write a perfect speech just as you want it because of work demands and other life's pressure or even sick? Then, let’s take care of it and the guests will definitely sing your praises--we have done it for so many others and it's your turn now!
Yes, if you are overwhelmed by the pressures of work and don’t have the time to put together a very meaningful speech, so you can have your peace of mind
Yes, if you want your family, your daughter, friends, and wedding guests to shower you with very sincere compliments…just imagine how you will feel
Yes, if you are not good with words and you feel you’re not a natural writer and you are struggling to find the right words but still want to give a great speech.
Yes, you get so scared anytime you’re asked to say something before an audience and you really want to save yourself from any form of embarrassment on your daughter's big day.
Yes, if you are not too eloquent or not too sure if you are on the right track.
Yes, if you absolutely hate speaking in public or feel this is not your thing but you want to make your son feel very proud
Yes, if you have a day or less to the wedding and you are worried that you might make some horrible mistakes
Yes, if you are a good speaker but you still want someone to look over or review what you've come up with!
Just imagine leaving your entire presentation in the hands of skilled wedding speech consultants who will take away your pain of spending hours thinking hard and long about what to say and what not to say.
Also, envision being patiently guided to say something that will leave a favorable impression on the mind of your listeners.
And also imagine the thrill and feeling of excitement and pride you’re going to experience when the audience leaps onto their feet and scream and shouts and even sing your praises.
Won’t you love that? I hope you do...
Wedding not too far away? Or happening in less than 24 hours?Trust me, we can deliver!it doesn’t matter if your speech is today, tomorrow, next week, next month ,next year,... we can make things work for you
Ok, I am Interested, What’s the Cost?
You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.
Why? As you know, the current health and economic crisis has caused severe hardships for most people.
Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.
Yet, some daughters are still getting married and asking their moms to give speeches.
Nonetheless, not every mother could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.
So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.
Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.
So, please take advantage of it now even if your daughter’s big day is in the future.
Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video and your daughter and son-in-law and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.
So, please take advantage of it now even if your daughter’s big day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.
''It was perfect Dan. I changed a few things in the speech. And I had several people come up and tell me how well done it was. I couldn't have done it better. Thanks for your help''- Marilyn, Canada
This is another note a mom sent me after her wedding. (Please click on the image to enlarge it so you can read it)
Oh Ok, How Then Do I Get Started Since I Want To Get On Board Right Away?
After that, we will send you a very short questionnaire to fill out via email! You only have to check your email a few hours after you have made your request
Then, you fill out the questionnaire sent through your email and please have it sent back to us…
We will confirm receipt of it…If something is not too clear, we will ask you to clarify….
If not, we will send you a wonderful draft in a couple of hours if this on very short notice….If not, after a few days
Then, you look it over and tell us if you are okay with it or you want to amend or reviseit till you are happy with it--although we always get it right even with the first draft.
Then, we ask you to pay for it. It's as simple as that!
Just a reminder of what you pay after it’s duly completed.
You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.
Why? As you know, the current health and economic crisis has caused severe hardships for most people.
Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.
Yet, some daughters are still getting married and asking their moms to give speeches.
Nonetheless, not every mother could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.
So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.
Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.
So, please take advantage of it now even if your daughter’s big day is in the future.
Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video and your daughter and son-in-law and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.
So, please take advantage of it now even if your daughter’s big day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.
''It was perfect Dan. I changed a few things in the speech. And I had several people come up and tell me how well done it was. I couldn't have done it better. Thanks for your help''- Marilyn, Canada
Please note: Your speech draft comes with a proven and simple tip to master your speech or remember your speech just as you want it without carrying a paper with you.
Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise, and clarity!
''Hi Dan,
The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice). Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.
All the best,
Matt''
Please note: Don’t fill out this form if you’re a dishonest individual. This offer is for a limited time.
You don't have to worry about paying our per speech for now.
Forget about money and let’s write something for you. We believe in the values of honesty and integrity and we think you should be happy with our work first.
So, Here Are The Benefits You Get When You Get On Board!
A great speech written by our wedding speech consultants that reflects what you want to say exactly
We coach you on how to use your voice to make your speech very exciting.
We show you a simple but often overlook strategy to rehearse your speech even if you have a very poor memory. This method is used by great speakers like Obama and was used by Abraham Lincoln and his compatriots
The most effective way to get your entire speech into your head without memorizing your speech. Guaranteed to help you even if you have a very poor memory or your memory is like a gold fish…most of our clients still wonder where we got this idea from. This ensures that you don't read off a sheet of paper...
Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise, and clarity!
''Hi Dan,
The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice). Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.
All the best,
Matt''
Ways to include humor in your speech and what it takes to do so