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Christian Eulogy For Husband Or Wife

How Any Godly Husband Or Wife Can Easily and Quickly Write A Beautiful And Memorable Eulogy That Will Praise, Honor and Bless Their Loving Spouse….

 

Eulogy

 

This is guaranteed to help you deliver something great even if you are not good with words or overwhelmed with grief

 

Scripture reminds us in Proverbs 19:14 that wealth is handed down from parents but a good spouse comes from the Lord.

 

If you were blessed to have married a godly wife or husband, then I am sure you lived life to the fullest.

 

It really hurts when someone you really love suddenly joins the Lord.

 

I know your live will never be the same without your loving spouse but one thing is certain. God gives us strength and hope so that we can comfort those in pain and afflictions.

 

On this note, I would like to express my condolences on the passing of your husband or wife. I am sorry for the loss of your precious and please know that you’re constantly in my thoughts and prayers.

 

 

If you feel lonely and need someone to encourage you, don’t hesitate to send me a personal message and I will do all I can by the grace of God to send you comforting words from Scriptures.

 

 

By the way, scripture tells us that in Ecclesiastics 6: 3 that a man might have a hundred children and live to be very old.

But if he finds no satisfaction in life and doesn't even get a decent burial, it would have been better for him to be born dead.

 

What the means is you have to see off your loved one with a Christian eulogy that will praise, bless and honor your husband and wife.

 

Granted, it’s not so easy to sit put your thoughts down into a very coherent eulogy speech when you are really hurting.

 

It even gets worse if you are not a natural writer or you simply don’t know how to string your words together.

 

Don’t worry because I have your back. By the grace of God, I have been helping people with their speeches and I am happy to share with you ideas, tips and examples you need to know so you can easily and quickly write a very beautiful eulogy speech for your departed husband or wife.

 

This Can Make All The Difference…So, Don’t Ignore It

 

But first, please let’s consider this as it can impede your chances of coming up with a very touching funeral speech.

 

In scripture (Proverbs 23:7), we are told that a man is the product of his thoughts.

 

What that means is that your mindset will spur you on to success or otherwise at the funeral or memorial service.

 

You see, prior to any speaking engagement, our minds have a funny way of reminding us of events where we goofed when we were asked to speak before an audience and that might make you feel nervous.

 

Please, you don’t have to listen to those voices as the enemy will always deploy that to get you distracted.

 

Remember the spirit of God dwells in you and he has given you everything (including the confidence) you need to face the crowd and say something remarkable about your loving spouse.

 

 

Whenever you feel anxious and not so sure if you will make it, please bring back your mind to God’s word in (2 Timothy 1:7): You didn’t receive the spirit of fear. But of power, of love and of a sound mind.

 

 

How To Get The Right Words For Your Speech

That being said, let’s look at how to get the good words, ideas, and phrases to help you write a very memorable eulogy for your godly spouse.

 

To come up with the right words, you have to first put yourself in the mood for the clever expression of your thoughts and emotions.

 

You can do that by surfing your favorite video-sharing platforms for video clips of how other surviving spouses did that.

 

So, this is what I want you to do now. Please go grab your pen, note pad or paper, and head over to your favorite platform (mine is youtube.com) and input keywords like Christian eulogy for husband, Christian memorial speech for wife, touching eulogy for husband or wife.

 

Wait a minute for a couple of them to pop up and watch a few of them. Don’t forget to put down ideas and tips you feel you can include in your own tribute.

 

By the way, I found these videos to stimulate your creative thinking.

 

If you’re a husband, please see this

 

 

If you’re a wife, please watch this(see below) instead...

 

 

Here’s A Very Beautiful Example 

Now, here’s the transcript of the first video. Please look it over carefully.

 

When you’re through with it, we will see how to make the most of it so you can put together your script beautifully.

 

Here you go:

 

"I’m thankful for all the people that showed up today. It’s a pretty tough time, not just for me but for all of you as well. I’m mindful of that.

"I’m thankful for my family. My children have been unbelievably resilient this past week. All of my relatives who’ve flown and drove.

 

"Many friends, some people flew in for the day just to spend a few hours with me and didn’t even get that accomplished. But it all is well received by my family and especially me.

 

"The Bible says in Psalms 133:1, “Behold how good and pleasant it is when brothers dwell in unity.” And I think that’s what we’ve done, and that’s what Ingrid would have wanted.

 

"Psalms 73:1 says, “God is good.”

 

"And I John 4:16 says, “God is love.”

"During times like this, it’s easy to forget that because what we’ve gone through is pretty tough and it’s hard and we want an answer.

 

We don’t always get that answer when we want it, but we can’t lose sight of the fact that God loves us and that’s what my wife and that’s what I, however badly, exhibit on a daily basis. But God does love us.

"He loved me so much that he sent his son to die for my sins, and I for one know I’m not the man that you guys see every day. And only God could cover that. 

 

"He loved me so much that he gave me a wife that loved every part of me, and she fit me perfectly, and I know different players that I’ve had over the years probably got tired of me talking about my wife. I used to think to myself, “Who else was I going to talk about?” So, that never bothered me.

 

"Romans 8:28 says, “And we know that God causes all things to work together for good to those who love God, to those who are called according to His purpose.”

 

"All of this will work out. As hard as this is for me and my family and for you, this will work out. I know this because I’ve seen this in my life.

 

"See, back in 1990, at the University of Notre Dame, I had a doctor look me in the face and say, “You’re gonna die if you keep playing basketball.”

 

And I had testing done. Test after test, shipping me all over the place trying to find a way for me to play, and it didn’t work out.

"And I kept that from Ingrid. She knew I was having some tests done, but she didn’t know the severity of the situation.

 

"So, my career was over at the age of 18, and we had a press conference, and I left the press conference by myself and I went to her dorm room and I told her what happened. And the very next word out of her mouth, words out of her mouth after we probably cried a little bit, she said, “Honey, Jesus can heal your heart.”

 

"And I’m evidence that God can work it out.

"I don’t care what you’re going through. This is hard for my family, but this will work out. And my wife would punch me if I were to sit up here and whine about what’s going on.

 

That doesn’t take away the pain. But it will work out because God causes all things to work out. You just can’t quit. You can’t give in.

 

"See, the Bible says Satan comes to steal, kill and destroy. And America teaches us to just numb that and it’s not true. But it is true. All you gotta do is look around you. Get outside of these walls and you know it’s true.

"This will work out.

(Story continued below...)

"It doesn’t mean it’s not hard. It doesn’t mean it’s not painful. It doesn’t mean we’re don’t have tough times and we’re gonna have tough times. But what we need is the Lord, and that’s what my wife tried to exhibit every single day.

 

"Now, I’m gonna close with this, and I think it’s the most important thing that we need to understand. Everybody’s praying for me and my family, which is right.

 

But let us not forget that there were two people in this situation. And that family needs prayer as well.

 

"And we have no ill will toward that family.

"In my house, we have a sign that says, “As for me and my house, we will serve the Lord.” We cannot serve the Lord if we don’t have a heart of forgiveness.

 

"That family didn’t wake up wanting to hurt my wife. Life is hard. It is very hard. And that was tough, but we hold no ill will toward the Donaldson family, and we as a group, brothers united in unity, should be praying for that family because they grieve as well. So let’s not lose sight of what's important.

 

"God will work this out. My wife is in heaven. God loves us. God is love. And when we walk away from this place today, let’s celebrate because my wife is where we all need to be. And I’m envious of that.

 

"But I’ve got five crumb-snatchers that I need to deal with.

"I love you guys for taking time out of your day to celebrate my wife.

 

"We didn’t lose her. When you lose something, you can’t find it. I know exactly where my wife is.

 

"I’ll miss holding her hand. I’ll miss talking with my wife.

"Sam (Presti) and Coach (Billy) Donovan probably couldn’t figure out why I always wanted to get out of the office. Me and Mo Cheeks.

 

Mo probably wanted to go do something else, but we always wanted to get out of the office. I just enjoyed being with my wife. I enjoyed being with my family, and most of the time, we didn’t do anything. We’d just be at the house, sittin’ around, doin’ nothin’. I’m gonna miss that.

 

"Let’s not lose sight of what’s important. God is important. What Christ did on the cross is important.

 

"Let’s not lose sight of that family that also lost someone that they love.

 

"I love you guys. I hope I get a chance to hug and shake a hand and give a kiss on the cheek. But let’s keep what’s important at the forefront.

"Thank you."

 

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P.S: You can modify the above example if you want to use it for your wife. Thank you

Now, let’s take it by bit and since how the various parts of this inspiring eulogy speech for a very good wife was written.

 

How To Make Your Script Very Memorable From The Get-Go

 

First, let’s look at the introduction. The opening lines of every tribute have the power to capture attention.

 

The example started with this:

‘’ I’m thankful for all the people that showed up today. It’s a pretty tough time, not just for me but for all of you as well. I’m mindful of that…‘’

 

Though it isn’t as captivating as it should, it showed the speakers respect for those who’ve come from far and near to celebrate the life of his dear wife.

 

Well, there are so many other ways of starting your opening remarks on a brilliant note and the ideas below can help you write the introduction of your speech so it sounds impactful.

 

Here are a couple of them plus examples to help you out.

 

First, you can thank everyone as the speaker did.

 

Second, you can begin with a question or a profound statement.

 

This is to give you an idea of how to employ idea#2

 

So, this is an example for a wife or husband who died under very mysterious circumstances or passed on suddenly.

 

Let’s face it. The Christian walk is not a piece of cake.

 

In scriptures, we are told that faith can do all things. It can move mountains, it’s a defense when we are deep deep down the valley of death, and it can bring back the death to life because we understand that through faith, God created the visible and invisible worlds.

 

In Luke 17:6, Jesus reassures us that if we have faith like a mustard seed, we can tell the mountains to move.

 

Each of us has our mountains of pain and agony…it could be a sickness you’re battling wife or a personal issue in your own life you’ve been trusting God to see you through.

 

But, sometimes, in spite of our trusting obedience, God’s perfect will prevails and we can’t help but accept his will because our ways are not his ways….

 

I have been trusting the Lord to heal my wife but I still can’t understand why she died…Maybe when I meet Jesus someday, he will tell me why..

 

Hope you saw how I did that.

 

Third, you can start with scripture about love, faith, gratitude, etc.

 

Fourth, you can start with a song your spouse loved to sing. If it’s a very familiar tune, the audience will love every bit of it.

 

Fifth, you can start by talking about how you feel about the loss and how you’ve been affected as a family.

 

Here’s how this writer did it:

"During times like this, it’s easy to forget that (God still loves us) because what we’ve gone through is pretty tough and it’s hard and we want an answer.

 

Now, let me ask you…which of the five points do you feel you can use for your own eulogy?

Now, let’s quickly move on to the body of the eulogy.

 

Here are excerpts

See, back in 1990, at the University of Notre Dame, I had a doctor look me in the face and say, “You’re gonna die if you keep playing basketball.”

 

 

"So, my career was over at the age of 18, and we had a press conference, and I left the press conference by myself and I went to her dorm room and I told her what happened.

And the very next word out of her mouth, words out of her mouth after we probably cried a little bit, she said, “Honey, Jesus can heal your heart.”

 

The body of every speech is usually a recollection of the time you’ve spent together and the impact your wife or husband has had on your life.

 

To come up with good ideas, you should first decide if you want to give:

  • A touching or sentimental speech
  • A funny speech
  • A story based speech
  • A eulogy based on your wife’s personal attributes or virtues

 

After you have decided on the style to go for, you should craft an outline for your speech. You can simply do that by creating a simple sketch you can fill out later.

 

I really don’t want you to struggle at this painful moment, so please put down answers next to the following questions:

 

  • How you met and fell in love
  • How life before and after you got married
  • You can share memories of family events(go see past photo albums and letters you sent each other)
  • You can share how your significant other impacted your life
  • Why you will miss him or her

 

If you want to touch on his or her personality, then you can build your storyline around these too:

  • His or her personal attributes as wife
  • His or her role as the mom or dad of your children

 

 

If you had grandchildren, then you can share how your grandkids felt whenever your partner was around.

 

Well, let me illustrate using the ideas I have just presented.

 

This is it.

‘’It’s said that the best gifts come from the heart and I know for sure it’s so true because my wife gave me a reason to believe that the greatest gift of life is love.

 

You see, before I met her 30 years ago, I had one heartbreak after another and I wasn’t deserving of any woman’s love. But, she proved me wrong when I felt I was ready to settle down with the love of my life….

Do you see where this is going? I am confident you can do the same.

 

Let’s see how you can write the conclusion or ending of your faith-based eulogy for your Christian husband or wife.

 

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How To Make Sure Your Eulogy Will Be Remembered For Years To Come

 

As always, let’s see excerpts (conclusion) of this inspiring speech so we can take it from there

 

"…Let’s not lose sight of what’s important. God is important. What Christ did on the cross is important.

 

"Let’s not lose sight of that family that also lost someone that they love.

 

"I love you guys. I hope I get a chance to hug and shake a hand and give a kiss on the cheek. But let’s keep what’s important at the forefront…"

 

Just as you have to start with a killer introduction, you have to end on a high note because your last words will stay on the minds of the guests for a very long time.

Now, the tips below will help you create a memorable ending for your narrative.

 

These include:

  • Reminding the audience of your wife’s or husband’s praise-worthy characteristics and encouraging people to emulate these attributes.

 

  • Telling your own children, family and everyone why you will miss him or her

 

 

  • Thanking the grievers for their love, well-wishes, and support.

 

  • You can share your dreams and wishes for the future and this is very common in Christian eulogies.
  • You can simply thank God for the gift he brought into your life…

 

For example, this is how to use the last idea to come up with something short and sweet.

 

Even though I am totally devastated and heartbroken that the precious gift of my life is no more, I’ll always miss the golden moments we have spent together and I know that my life would never be the same without Amanda, but I thank God for blessing me with such a rare gem! God bless you so much

Dear Loving Spouse,

 

Let’s face it…Putting together your thoughts and emotions into a very beautiful tribute without letting the tears flow isn’t an easy thing and I experienced that recently when I wrote a eulogy for someone who was very dear to my heart.

 

I really feel sorry for you and I think you shouldn’t struggle to come up with a very beautiful tribute your family, children, and loved ones will never, ever forget.

This is a letter someone sent to us after we've helped her with her tribute(You can click on the image to read it)

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Granted, writing a unique, memorable, and inspiring eulogy for your spouse is not an easy thing at all at this painful time even if you’re a very gifted writer.

 

I want to take his very heavy burden off your shoulder by helping you come up with a funny, inspiring, and memorable eulogy that truly captures your spouse’s life.

 

Just imagine how great it would feel when you give your speech with such ease and grace and your family comes to hug and compliment you on a great job done.

 

Yes, that can be possible when you let me help you out.Funeral not too far away? Or happening in less than 24 hours? Trust me, we can deliver! it doesn’t matter if your speech is today or  tomorrow we can make things work for you  

 

Want to get on board? Of course, you should by first filling out this simple form!

This is a letter someone sent to us after we've helped her with her tribute(You can click on the image to read it)

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Read On To Find out How It Works

 

Ok, Is This Offer For Me?

  • Yes, if you want to feel a great sense of warmth and relief without the pressure and stress of coming up with something at this incredibly difficult time of your life.

 

  • Yes, if your spouse died under circumstances like suicide, drug abuse, murder, didn’t do anything with her life, etc. and you really can’t seem to put pen to paper because of the emotions involved.

 

  • Yes, if you’re simply overwhelmed with grief… and you have less than 24 hours to the funeral and have suddenly realized that you don’t have written anything about your spouse

 

 

  • Yes, if you are expecting nothing less than a very special, beautiful, unique and a memorable eulogy speech that will bless, praise and honor the memory of your precious spouse

 

  • Yes, if you want to take off the heavy burden of expectation off your shoulders so you can give a meaningful, uplifting and heartwarming speech that will warm hearts and bring your spouse’s admirable personality alive

 

 

  • Yes, if you don’t have much time to write a perfect speech because of the stress of preparing so many things for your spouse’s funeral arrangement so you can have your peace of mind

 

  • Yes, if you’re overwhelmed with work demands and other pressures of life.

 

Then, let’s take care of it and the guests will definitely sing your praises.

 

 

 

  • Yes, if you want your family, your sons or daughters to shower you with very sincere compliments…just imagine how you will feel….Your spouse will be so proud of you too!

 

  • Yes, if you are not good with words and you feel you’re not a natural writer and you are struggling to find the right words but still want to give a great eulogy speech for your  spouse

 

  • Yes, if you get so scared anytime you’re asked to say something before an audience and you really want to save yourself from any form of embarrassment at your spouse’s funeral…Remember, you can’t wing it

 

  • Yes, if you are not too eloquent or not too sure if you are on the right track and take out the guesswork…Remember, what you say will speak volumes about your love for your partner

 

  • Yes, if you absolutely hate speaking in public or feel this is not your thing but you want to make your spouse feel so proud of you

 

  • Yes, if you have less than 24 hours to the funeral and you are really stressed out and scared you  might make some horrible mistakes

 

  • Yes, if you are a good speaker but you still want someone to look over or review what you've come up with!

 

Just imagine leaving your entire presentation in the hands of skilled speech consultants who will take away your pain of spending hours thinking hard and long about what to say and what not to say.


Also, envision being patiently guided to say something your family and mourners will never, ever forget


And also imagine the peace of mind you will have when you relax and sleep well knowing full well that you have someone to hold your back so you can make your partner feel so proud


Won’t you love that? I hope you will...

 

Funeral not too far away? Or happening in less than 24 hours? Trust me, we can deliver! it doesn’t matter if your speech is today or  tomorrow we can make things work for you  

 

Ok, I am Interested, What’s the Cost?

You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.

Why? As you know, the current health crisis has caused severe hardships for most people.

Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.

Yet, a very loving spouse like you has to speak at the burial service. 

Nonetheless, not everyone could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.

So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.

Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.

So, please take advantage of it now.

Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video and your family and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.  

So, please take advantage of it now by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.  

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Just a reminder of what our offer entails 

You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.

Why? As you know, the current health crisis has caused severe hardships for most people.

Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.

Yet, a very loving spouse like you has to speak at the burial service. 

Nonetheless, not everyone could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.

So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.

Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.

So, please take advantage of it now.

Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video and your family and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.  

So, please take advantage of it now by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.  

Please note: Your speech draft comes with a proven and simple tip to master your speech or remember your speech just as you want it without carrying a paper with you.

 

Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise, and clarity!

 

''Hi Dan,

The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice).  Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.

All the best,

Matt''

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Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise, and clarity!

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The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice).  Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.

All the best,

Matt''

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