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Eulogy For Wife: From A Husband

Eulogy for Husband: From A Wife

If you have lost your precious husband and are looking for tips and ideas to help you write a heartfelt and touching eulogy for your husband, then you are at the right place at the right time.

 

Just stick with me for a little while and I will share with you easy-to-follow tips and ideas so you can write an emotional funeral tribute for your husband that will praise, bless, and honor his memory in a very unique way.

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Let’s face it. It’s so hard to find a man who will really love, honor, cherish you and even treat you with respect and kindness.

 

Life can be so sweet when you find such a rare gem. But it can get you down when such a wonderful man dies suddenly.

 

I am sure your husband was a wonderful, caring and responsible man and I cannot begin to imagine what you and your children are going through at this very difficult time.

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I know you for sure your loving husband has been a tremendous blessing in your life and your life will never be the same without him in it. Please accept my deepest sympathies for the loss of your spouse. You can count on me to comfort you by sending me a message and I will do my very best to send you more healing words.

 

 

By the way, I know you are looking for the right words to write a very moving eulogy that will praise, bless and honor the memory of your loving husband.

 

 

Don’t worry if you’re not good with words or are simply overwhelmed that you can’t think clearly. Only God knows best, so please wipe your tears and let me walk you through everything you need to know so you can easily and quickly write a beautiful eulogy for your husband.

 

Well, before we do. Please take note of this.

 

Don't Let This Sabotage Your Best Efforts

As you know, prior to any speaking performance, you’re going to feel the nerves and that might make you wonder if you are going to make it.

 

This happens from time to time because of our past failures. If you failed to impress an audience sometime in the past or you don’t have the gift for writing, there’s this little nagging voice in your subconscious mind that will remind you of your fears and make you feel as though you are going to fail. 

 

I know you’re going through a whole lot but please focus on giving your husband a beautiful funeral speech and don’t listen to that voice.

Just hold beautiful memories of your husband constantly and your heart will swell with confidence.

 

Now, let’s get down to business by looking at some proven ways to get beautiful words to help you write the best ever eulogy for your husband.

 

How To Easily Get The Right Words

 

As a eulogy speechwriter, I see most wives make this mistake when they are crafting their eulogies: copying examples they find online. Though sample eulogies can inspire creative thinking, that’s not the way to go.

 

To come with good ideas, you first have to put yourself in the mood.

To get in the mood to write, you should watch a few video clips about eulogies. So, go to video sharing platforms like youtube.com or your personal favorite and look for some video examples.

 

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With a paper and pen in hand, watch a few of those videos and jot down words, ideas, poems, and quotes you think you can incorporate into your speech to make it very meaningful.

 

You may pop into the search box any of these keywords to get the good videos: a eulogy for husband, eulogy for dead husband, funny eulogy for husband.

By the way, I found these video clips to help you calm your nerves and give you an idea of how you can do a eulogy for your husband. Enjoy and prosper!

 

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Another great resource I often refer to which I recommend you use are eulogy examples for husband.

 

Like I said before, most wives don’t know how to use examples the right way.  You can model your funeral speech after them due to the obvious benefits.

 

By the way, I want to make life easier for you, so I found this example especially for you.

After you’ve read it, I will show you how you can use it to effortlessly put together your exact thoughts and emotions into very beautiful words.

Here are some excerpts…Go here for the complete version.

 

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You know how sometimes you’ll meet a person and think to yourself or even tell everyone around you, “Oh my gosh, he was the nicest man you could ever want to meet!” Well, that wasn’t my husband.

 

I’m not saying he wasn’t nice, of course, he was, he was nice and got nicer with age, as men tend to do. I’m just saying that “niceness” wasn’t the most overriding quality he left you with when you met him for the first time.

 

He wasn’t out there trying to bowl you over with his charm.

Jim Blanchard was so much more than that.

He was good.

In fact, in all my life I never met a man who was, quite simply, more good.

 

Because he wasn’t licking you up one side and down the other, blinding you with his sparkle, it would be so easy for an obtuse or distracted person to overlook or even miss altogether the substantive qualities that made him the finest man any of us will ever have had the privilege of knowing.

When I started dating Jimmy, (we were both 18) to use an antiquated phrase, I ‘’set my cap for him’’ and I’ll just admit right here now, he was entirely out of my league.

 

He was extremely handsome, remarkably intelligent and possessed a confident James Dean Swagger that was both indefinable and irresistible. We had a large group of friends who witnessed this romance unfolding and forecasted ‘’uh-oh this ends badly for this girl. She’s bound to get hurt. She’s way out of her depth’’

 

A few years later, when we were married, there was a bit of a snafu on our wedding day and the cousin who was supposed to transport Jimmy’s grandmother to our wedding dropped the ball somehow.

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After the event was over and we were driving away from the reception, Jimmy got to the end of the pull-through, laid his head on the steering wheel and started to cry.

 

I was of course alarmed as my new bride covered in hopes and future dreams would be. When I asked him what was wrong, he said, ‘’ I just never thought I wouldn’t be with my grandmother on my wedding day.

 

Early on in our marriage, I took a bible study where I was introduced to the concept of tithing. Apparently, unbeknownst to me and Jimmy, God had issued a mandate, expecting us to give away 10% of our income.

 

All the young wives were encouraged to discuss this with their husbands that very evening. Well, I wasn’t worried one bit. I knew we were ‘’off the hook’’ as my husband was a very frugal man who would never agree to such an outlandish request, even it did come straight from the Lord.

 

But I went ahead and told him about it that night and surprisingly and enthusiastically he said, you know what- I’m in!

 

I think I would like to conclude all of this by giving you the last few days of Jimmy’s life.

 

Three days before he was killed, last Thursday, I was at our daughter’s home babysitting our grandson when Jimmy swung by on his way to work. I let him in and he gingerly took the infant from my arms and down in their rocking chair cooing and stroking and doting on him.

 

I sat on the couch beside them smiling and he snuggled closer to Luke, deeply inhaled his baby scent and looked over at me.

 

Jimmy paused dramatically to give it all some thoughts and these are the poignant words of wisdom and comfort that he laid upon my heart:

 

He said: You know I was reading recently that in those Viking cultures, oftentimes when a Viking warrior died, they just buried his wife alive in the cave with him. I don’t know what those chics did in there all that time, but I would imagine they starved to death eventually!’’

I was quiet and pensive for a moment. Sensing my hesitation, he added: we would definitely get you some Swedish fish and Milk Duds and Coca Cola in there to tie you over for a while.

 

He had a quirky sense of humor, but honestly, I don’t he ever wanted to face life or death without me.

Fair well my love-good bye…

 

Did that example leave you in tears?

Don’t you think it will be nice to pay tribute to your husband with something close or even better than that?

You’ve got more strength than you can ever imagine and I think you can put together something beautiful and memorable.

 

This is a very moving eulogy by all standards. But, let’s see how this can be improved.

 

Let’s start…One thing I felt should have been added to the start of that example was a brief introduction of who the speaker is and her relationship with the deceased.

 

 

For example, it could have rendered like this:

I am Liz. We are gathered here today to mourn and celebrate the life of my husband, Jimmy.

 

Many people would be wondering who gave that funeral speech. So, telling everyone who you are and would make people pay more attention to you because you probably might have spent a great deal of time together and the mourners would like to hear what your love story has been like throughout the years.

 

Oh my goodness…I almost forgot to tell you this.

 

A well-crafted introduction has the power to break the nervous ice and grab the attention of the audience from the onset.

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So, you should spend a great deal of time and effort into jotting down something that resonates with the mourners.

To be honest with you, writing a captivating intro is not so easy for even those of us who help people put together their thoughts and emotions into words.

 

Well, I have proven methods I employ when I get stuck and you can follow suit to get the desired result.

 

  • First, you can begin with a poem or song lyrics or even a quotation.

You may use this poem:

 

‘’To my Dear and Loving Husband’’ (Anne Bradstreet)

 

If ever two were one, then surely we.

If ever man were loved by wife, then thee.

If ever wife was happy in a man,

Compare with me, ye women, if you can.

I prize thy love more than whole mines of gold,

Or all the riches that the East doth hold…

Then while we live, in love let’s so persevere,

That when we live no more, we may live ever.

 

For example, if I were to use this poem to write a tribute for a late husband, this is how I will begin:

 

Anne Bradstreet says in her poem that if ever two were one, then surely we.  My husband and I were one in word, deed, and spirit….

 

Did you notice how I borrow those lines and made them mine?

 

  • Second, you can begin with a story.
  • Third, you can begin with a question.
  • Fourth, you can make a simple statement of fact.

 

That being said, let’s look at how to write the body of your eulogy.

 

But first, let’s recap the body of our example.

 

Jim Blanchard was so much more than that.

 

He was good.

 

In fact, in all my life I never met a man who was, quite simply, more good.

 

Because he wasn’t licking you up one side and down the other, blinding you with his sparkle, it would be so easy for an obtuse or distracted person to overlook or even miss altogether the substantive qualities that made him the finest man any of us will ever have had the privilege of knowing…

 

How To Write The Body Of Your Eulogy

 

The body, like the rest of your delivery, is very crucial and it’s usually the narration of the deceased’s life.

To come up with the right content, you need to use two main things:

  • Biographical stories and
  • Personal attributes of your husband.

 

This is what I want you to do now if you want to so a storytelling tribute speech.

Go grab your paper and pen and write down good memories of the time you've spent together.

 

Ask yourself these questions to come up with the right ideas.

  • How did you met?
  • What/who brought you together?
  • What was the day you got married like?
  • What were the early years like?…You can share your dreams and goals and aspirations as a couple

 

If you were married for a very long time, you can add stuff like:

 

  • How you raise your children together and the challenges you overcame
  • Funny or light-hearted moments can really help

 

Alternatively, you can blend in storytelling with his personal attributes: caring, humor, kindness, integrity,

 

You may choose one or more of those fine qualities and match them up with stories.

 

 

To give you an idea, you can choose his quality of kindness and buttress it with anecdotes of how he was so kind to you, your children, and others.

 

If don't have a great memory like a goldfish, please don’t worry.

You can consult stuff (the ones below) to rekindle lost memories.

  • Old pictures
  • Gifts he bought for you
  • The letter he wrote, his journals or yours, etc…. can help you recapture all those wonderful memories.

 

Then, you can make a rough outline based on the answers you provided to the questions I asked.

 

After a first try, your write-up will look very rough but you shouldn’t let that stop you. Get back to it and clean it up till you’re okay with it.

 

Let’s now review the conclusion so we can get an idea of how you can end your eulogy on a good note. 

 

Here is a summary of what we looked at.

''He had a quirky sense of humor, but honestly, I don’t he ever wanted to face life or death without me.

Fair well my love-good bye''

 

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How To Close On A Good Note

 

Your concluding remarks are as important as the introduction because that’s what will stay with your listeners for a very very long time.

 

If you’re at a loss as to how to end or close your eulogy, you may end with at least one of these proven techniques:

  1. Asking questions, making comparisons or otherwise reminding the audience of the loved one's chief praiseworthy characteristics and imploring those left behind to emulate his beautiful qualities

 

  1. Telling everyone why you will miss him

 

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For example….Jimmy was a very loving man. He loved me from the day we met till he died and will love him as long as I still have breath.

 

  1. Calling on God to offer words of comfort and blessing.
  2. You can let your tears flow without uttering a word and you will feel better than you realize.
  3. In a few lines, you can add to your eulogy the impact your husband had on others.
  4. You can thank the mourners for their love, kind words, and support.
  5. You can even thank your late husband for demonstrating so much love and kindness.

For example, Jimmy you gave your love away and I will forever be thankful for having such a precious gentleman like you in my life…I love you so much!

P.S Read this time-sensitive message only if you want to give a beautiful eulogy that will bless and honor your husband’s memory…Most wives who give beautiful and heartfelt eulogies you hear at funeral use this powerful tool…have you ever considered it?

 

Dear Loving Wife,

 

Let’s face it…Putting together your thoughts and emotions into a very beautiful tribute without letting the tears flow isn’t an easy thing and I experienced that recently when I wrote a eulogy for someone who was very dear to my heart.

 

 

I really feel sorry for you and I think you shouldn’t struggle to come up with a very beautiful tribute your family, children, and loved ones will never, ever forget.

This is a letter someone sent to us after we've helped her with her tribute(You can click on the image to read it)

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Granted, writing a unique, memorable, and inspiring eulogy for your husband is not an easy thing at all at this painful time even if you’re a very gifted writer.

 

I want to take his very heavy burden off your shoulder by helping you come up with a funny, inspiring, and memorable eulogy that truly captures your husband’s life.

 

Just imagine how great it would feel when you give your speech with such ease and grace and your family comes to hug and compliment you on a great job done.

 

Yes, that can be possible when you let me help you out.Funeral not too far away? Or happening in less than 24 hours? Trust me, we can deliver! it doesn’t matter if your speech is today or  tomorrow we can make things work for you  

 

Want to get on board? Of course, you should by first clicking here to fill out this simple questionnaire !

 

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Ok, Is This Offer For Me?

  • Yes, if you want to feel a great sense of warmth and relief without the pressure and stress of coming up with something at this incredibly difficult time of your life.

 

  • Yes, if you’re simply overwhelmed with grief… and you have less than 24 hours to the funeral and have suddenly realized that you don’t have written anything about your husband

 

 

  • Yes, if your husband died under circumstances like suicide, drug abuse, murder, didn’t do anything with his life, etc. and you really can’t seem to put pen to paper because of the emotions involved.

 

 

  • Yes, if you are expecting nothing less than a very special, beautiful, unique, and memorable eulogy speech that will bless, praise, and honor the memory of your precious husband.

 

  • Yes, if you want to take the heavy burden of expectation off your shoulders so you can give a meaningful, uplifting and heartwarming speech that will warm hearts and bring your husband’s admirable personality alive

 

 

  • Yes, if you don’t have much time to write a perfect speech because of the stress of preparing so many things for your husband’s funeral arrangement so you can have your peace of mind

 

  • Yes, if you’re overwhelmed with work demands and other pressures of life.

 

Then, let’s take care of it and the guests will definitely sing your praises.

 

 

  • Yes, if you want your family, your son or daughter to shower you with very sincere compliments…just imagine how you will feel….Your husband will be so proud of you too!

 

  • Yes, if you are not good with words and you feel you’re not a natural writer and you are struggling to find the right words but still want to give a great eulogy speech for your husband

 

  • Yes, if you get so scared anytime you’re asked to say something before an audience and you really want to save yourself from any form of embarrassment at your husband’s funeral…Remember, you can’t wing it

 

  • Yes, if you are not too eloquent or not too sure if you are on the right track and take out the guesswork…Remember, what you say will speak volumes about your love for your husband

 

  • Yes, if you absolutely hate speaking in public or feel this is not your thing but you want to make your husband feel so proud of you

 

  • Yes, if you have less than 24 hours to the funeral and you are really stressed out and scared you  might make some horrible mistakes

 

  • Yes, if you are a good speaker but you still want someone to look over or review what you've come up with!

 

This is a letter someone sent to us after we've helped her with her tribute(You can click on the image to read it)

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Just imagine leaving your entire presentation in the hands of skilled speech consultants who will take away your pain of spending hours thinking hard and long about what to say and what not to say.


Also, envision being patiently guided to say something your family and mourners will never ever forget


And also imagine the peace of mind you will have when you relax and sleep well knowing full well that you have someone to hold your back so you can make your husband and family feel so proud


Won’t you love that? I hope you will...

 

Funeral not too far away? Or happening in less than 24 hours? Trust me, we can deliver! it doesn’t matter if your speech is today or  tomorrow we can make things work for you  

 

Ok, I am Interested, What’s the Cost?

You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.

Why? As you know, the current health crisis has caused severe hardships for most people.

Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.

Yet, caring wives like you have to speak at the burial service. 

This is a letter someone sent to us after we've helped her with her tribute

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Nonetheless, not everyone could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.

So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.

Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.

So, please take advantage of it now.

Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video and your family and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.  

So, please take advantage of it now by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.  

Oh Ok, How Then Do I Get Started Since I Want To Get On Board Right Away? Ok, here’s how it works

All you have to do RIGHT NOW is to click on this link to receive an easy-to-fill-in questionnaire via email. Then, please check your email a few hours after you’ve submitted your request.

So,

1) CLICK HERE NOW TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT THIS QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind!

  1. After that, we will send you a very short questionnaire to fill out via email! You only have to check your email just a few hours after you have made your request.
  1. Then, you fill out the questionnaire sent through your email and please have it sent back to us…
  1. We will confirm receipt of it…If something is not too clear, we will ask you to clarify….
  1. If not, we will send you a wonderful draft in a couple of hours
  1. Then, you look it over and tell us if you are okay with it or you want to amend or revise it till you are happy with it--although we always get it right even with the first draft.
  1. Then, we ask you to pay for it. It's as simple as that! 

Please note: The information collected through the questionnaire is only for the purpose of writing your speech. I wouldn’t even need it if I could read your mind. So, your information is very confidential and no one will know about it.

 So,

1) CLICK HERE NOW TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT THIS QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind!

Just a reminder of what our offer entails 

You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.

Why? As you know, the current health crisis has caused severe hardships for most people.

Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.

Yet, caring wives like you have to speak at the burial service. 

Nonetheless, not everyone could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.

So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.

Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.

So, please take advantage of it now.

Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video and your family and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.  

So, please take advantage of it now by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.  

Please note: Your speech draft comes with a proven and simple tip to master your speech or remember your speech just as you want it without carrying a paper with you.

 

Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise, and clarity!

 

''Hi Dan,

The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice).  Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.

All the best,

Matt''

Please note: Don’t fill out this form if you’re a dishonest individual.

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  • A great speech written by our speech consultants that reflects what you want to say exactly
  • We coach you on how to use your voice to make your speech very exciting.
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  • The most effective way to get your entire speech into your head without memorizing your speech so you can sound smart. Guaranteed to help you even if you have a very poor memory or your memory is like a gold fish…most of our clients still wonder where we got this idea from. This ensures that you don't read off a sheet of paper...

 

Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise, and clarity!

''Hi Dan,

The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice).  Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.

All the best,

Matt''

  • Ways to include humor in your speech and what it takes to do so

So, CLICK HERE TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT A QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind and not lose money. The risk is on us!

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