21st Birthday Speech or Letter From Uncle Or Aunt To Nephew or Niece
How To Easily and Quickly Write A Very Memorable 21st Birthday Speech Or Letter For Your Nephew Or Niece
Did you know the best gift you can ever give your nephew or niece on his 21st birthday is a beautiful speech?
All other gifts will fade sooner or later but your words won’t because they have the power to turn the celebrant’s life around and inspire him or her down the road of life.
I know you’re looking forward to coming up with something heartfelt, funny and sentimental and you’re probably wondering how to effortlessly write one that will express your exact emotions.
I know how hard it is to come up with the right words, so just relax as I am going to share with you everything you need to know concerning what to say and what not to say.
Don't Let This Sabotage Your Efforts
But, first, let’s get this right as it might hinder your success. Let me ask you this. Do you really have what it takes to face a crowd and speak confidently?
If you ever failed to impress an audience, there is a likelihood that memories of those events will come back to haunt you and put you under a great deal of stress and strain.
It gets even intimidating when you envision how the guests will receive your speech. Whatever it is, you have to put the past behind and really focus on getting this done.
You don’t have to be a natural writer or a talented public speaker to do so well. You just need to have a positive mindset by believing you can and you will feel this surge of energy running through you.
How To Get The Right Words For Your Speech
That said; let’s look at how to get the right words.
To get them, you first have to put yourself in the mood for a clever expression of your ideas. You just can’t grab your paper and pen and put anything down.
So, this is what I recommend you do right away. Go grab your pen and note pad, and go to any of your video sharing platforms and insert your keywords.
For this purpose, let’s assume youtube.com is your personal favorite. You may use any of these keywords: 21st birthday speech from uncle or aunt to nephew or niece
Then, wait a couple of seconds for your results to pop up and watch just a few.
As you do, please put down ideas, tips, and phrases you feel you can use in your own speech. By the way, here is a video to inspire you to think creatively.
Can These Really Help?
If you are really pressed for time and trying to figure out how to pen your thoughts fast and easy, then I suggest you take a look at well-written speech samples like this one.
Why? Because speech examples usually have so many ideas, phrases, tips, and secrets that can inspire you to come up with what you have in mind.
Besides, you can model your speech after them. I often consult them when writing speeches for my clients.
Here’s An Impressive Example
By the way, I found this one and I would like to thank Anupam Mittal for allowing us to share it with our readers.
Please take your time and read through it carefully.
21! Wow! How and when did that happen? Blink of an eye. I still think of you as the little girl who cunningly sneaked into my suitcase every time I was packing to leave for the US.
Yes, I am stuck in time as most of us old farts are, but you? That’s another story.
From a naughty eyed little toddler with infectious laughter to a tomboyish young kid.
From an often-loving but sometimes-distant young girl to a warm, mature-beyond-her-years, incredibly talented artist, Illesha Khandelwal you have come a long way. Did I say stunningly beautiful?
As adulthood arrives, so does trepidation. And questions. Lots of them. Will things change now that I am 21? Should I be behaving differently? Am I making the right choices? What should I do with my life?
Will Gus ever grow up? Will my family finally stop harassing me? These are perplexing questions with no certain answers except perhaps for the last one.
Leshu, as you stand at the cusp of adulthood, I thought I would share some advice with you instead of the usual expensive gift — Twizzlers cost good money you know. What’s heartening is that given your fiercely independent nature we don’t run the risk of you actually taking it.
Health is wealth — Yes, I know. That’s probably the worst start ever but since I am now approaching middle age I have earned the right to say corny stuff like that. Seriously though, life is 10X better when you wake up feeling great.
More than sweating it out at the gym find a sport that you love and play it 2–3 times a week (Candy Crush is not a sport). You will be far healthier and happier. It’s taken me all of my 35 years to figure that out.
Don’t define yourself — Acid will not liberate you :-), being in tune with yourself will.
Beyond the physical impressions that we call the body and the mind, there is an intuition that is you. Hone this intuition and trust it more than anything else.
Some people use Yoga, others use meditation but I suspect in your case it will be your art. Use your art to discover yourself but don’t define yourself as an artist. Don’t define yourself as a girl either.
Nor as a Hindu or as an Indian. In fact, don’t define yourself by any man-made boundary. We have created more problems in the world through narrow definitions than we have solved. You are more than all these boundaries put together.
Stress kills, literally — More people die of stress-related issues than any other disease in the world. Nothing is worth losing your peace and your sleepover, ever.
Remember, our natural state of being is relaxed, not having an agitated mind.
Observe a kid and you will know. It is external expectations that put us in a restless state. You do not need to over-intellectualize this.
Just find little tricks that can help you de-stress quickly and get back to your natural state of restfulness.
Claim your life — Life is not that complicated but it can be pretty confusing.
Almost everybody you meet will try to tell you what is right. They have no idea. They are simply seeking validation. Look deep within.
You already know who you are and what you must do. You just need to realize it. Every year, take a few days for yourself.
Find a place that puts you at peace and retreat to this place whenever you are faced with the big questions or feel weighed down and distracted.
When you need to get back in touch with yourself. When you need to shake off the impressions you have picked up along the way. The answers will present themselves.
Stay 21 forever — Here’s a technical fact. If you can get old only if you stop growing, then the opposite must also be true. Don’t stop growing and you will stay young forever.
As you achieve one milestone after another, maintain your humility and know that you have much to learn. That way you will keep exploring and keep growing.
You will become mature and become wise but you will not become old. Couple this with the enthusiasm of a child and life will be wondrous.
So, Happy Birthday Leshu and I hope you have a blessed year ahead.
Oh, one last thing — If it all gets much at times and you feel you need a rest, my suitcase awaits. I will happily carry you along for as long as you like.
Mama
That was very hilarious…ok, now let’s take each part of the speech, and let’s analyze it so you get an idea of what went into writing it.
First, here’s a recap of the introduction
21! Wow! How and when did that happen? Blink of an eye. I still think of you as the little girl who cunningly sneaked into my suitcase every time I was packing to leave for the US.
My comments/take-home writing ideas:
As you can see, this is a very beautiful introduction but some basic facts were left out.
Got any idea what they are?
The speaker could have told the party attendees who he was and his relationship to the celebrant.
Well, the opening remark of any speech has the power to calm you down and grab the attention of the audience.
There are so many proven ways of starting well, but here are a couple of them.
- First, after you’re a brief self-introduction, you can start with a story.
Stories like how you felt when your nephew or niece was born or something similar above.
- Second, you can start with a quote about life, birthday quotes, or quotes about new beginnings.
Here are some good ones you can use.
Quote #1: My life is my message- Mahatma Gandhi
Quote #2: Not how long, but how well you have lived is the main thing- Seneca
Quote #3: I love those who can smile in trouble- Leonardo da Vinci
Quote #4: Be happy for this moment. This moment is your life-Omar Khayyam
Quote #5: Life is what happens when you’re busy making other plans- John Lennon
Enough said for that…so, let’s look at some aspects of the body of the speech.
From an often-loving but sometimes-distant young girl to warm, mature-beyond-her-years, incredibly…
Leshu, as you stand at the cusp of adulthood, I thought I would share some advice with you…
My comments/take-home writing ideas:
If you look carefully at this extract and even the fuller version, you’ll realize that the body is comprised of stories.
To come up with great ideas for your nephew’s or aunt’s speech, you should create an outline for your delivery and put in the right details like:
How you felt when your nephew or niece was born
How you saw him or her grow and mature as the years passed by and how you felt
How you helped him or her become a much better person
You can share memories of trips, graduations, sports events, etc.
Finally, let’s review parts of the conclusion
So, Happy Birthday Leshu and I hope you have a blessed year ahead.
Oh, one last thing — If it all gets much at times and you feel you need a rest, my suitcase awaits. I will happily carry you along for as long as you like.
Mama
This is absolutely hilarious…By the way; you can model your conclusion after this brilliant example…
If that has no connection with what you’re working on, you can employ one or two or even more of the following techniques.
- You can end with any of those quotes above.
- You can end by saying your nephew or niece’s favorite song or any song the audience can sing along…Can be funny or inspirational
- You can say a prayer if you’re a Christian…my favorite verse
Psalm 128
A song of ascents.
1 Blessed are all who fear the Lord,
who walk in obedience to him.
2 You will eat the fruit of your labor;
blessings and prosperity will be yours.
3 Your wife will be like a fruitful vine
within your house;
your children will be like olive shoots
around your table.
4 Yes, this will be the blessing
for the man who fears the Lord.
5 May the Lord bless you from Zion;
may you see the prosperity of Jerusalem
all the days of your life.
6 May you live to see your children’s children—
peace be on Israel.
You may sign off with one of these best wishes.
- Wishing you all the best on your 21st, hope you every day count
- Wish you nothing but joy and peace and all the finest gifts of life
- Happy 21st birthday to you, nephew. May this day mark the beginning of great things for you.
PS This time-sensitive message is for only Uncles Or Aunts who are hell-bent on giving the best speech ever! Don't read if you want an ordinary speech.
Do You Know This Simple And Very Easy-To-Follow Plan Can Help You Come Up With The Best Birthday Speech Ever? That's What Most Uncles Or Aunts Use But You Probably Haven't Thought About It!
Dear Loving Uncle Or Aunt,
Let’s face it. You can buy your nephew or niece the best gift ever on his or her birthday and they will be so happy with it.
But, here’s the thing. The precious gift you give your nephew or niece will fade sooner rather than later.
But your words will forever live in your nephew's or niece's heart and make him or her a much better person down the road.
What that means that the right words are the best gift you can give your nephew or niece, especially on this significant milestone of his or her life.
Unfortunately, many uncles and aunts are not so good with words and it gets a bit terrifying when you imagine what to say before your own family, siblings and loved ones.
The young ones in the crowd will be judging you. And so, you shouldn’t embarrass your nephew or niece in any way.
By the way, we know how hard coming up with the right words can be. So, we are giving you a chance to come up with something inspiring, funny and memorable without pulling your hair out!
Just imagine how you would feel when your nephew or niece or even family comes up to congratulate you after you have given a great birthday speech!
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Ok, Is This Offer For Me?
- Yes, if you are expecting nothing less than a very special, beautiful, unique and memorable birthday speech.
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Then, let’s take care of it and the guests will definitely sing your praises.
- Yes, if you are overwhelmed by the pressures of work and don’t have the time to put together a very meaningful speech, so you can have peace of mind
- Yes, if you want your family, your nephew or niece, siblings, and other party guests to shower you with very sincere compliments…just imagine how you will feel
- Yes, if you are not good with words and you feel you’re not a natural writer and you are struggling to find the right words but still want to give a great birthday speech.
- Yes, if you get so scared anytime you’re asked to say something before an audience and you really want to save yourself from any form of embarrassment on your nephew’s or niece’s birthday.
- Yes, if you are not too eloquent or not too sure if you are on the right track.
- Yes, if you absolutely hate speaking in public or feel this is not your thing but you want to make your nephew or niece feel very proud on their special day.
- Yes, if you have a day or less to the party and you are worried that you might make some horrible mistakes
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Just imagine leaving your entire presentation in the hands of skilled speech consultants who will take away your pain of spending hours thinking hard and long about what to say and what not to say.
Also, envision being patiently guided to say something that will leave a favorable impression on the mind of your listeners.
And also imagine the thrill and feeling of excitement and pride you’re going to experience when the audience leap onto their feet and scream and shouts and even sing your praises…..your nephew or niece will be so proud of you
Won’t you love that? I hope you will...
Birthday party not too far away? Or happening in less than 24 hours? Trust me, we can deliver! it doesn’t matter if your speech is today, tomorrow, next week, next month ,next year,... we can make things work for you
Ok, I am Interested, What’s the Cost?
You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech or letter.
Why? As you know, the current health crisis has caused severe hardships for most people.
Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.
Yet, birthday celebrations are going on and people have to still inspire and motivate birthday celebrants with the right words.
''Hi Dan, The speech was well received. Everything went well''- Marshall, Australia
Nonetheless, not everyone could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.
So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.
Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.
So, please take advantage of it now even if the event is in the future.
Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video and viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.
So, please take advantage of it now even if the event is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.
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Oh Ok, How Then Do I Get Started Since I Want To Get On Board Right Away?
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So,
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- If not, we will send you a wonderful draft in a couple of hours if this on very short notice….If not, after a few days
- Then, you look it over and tell us if you are okay with it or you want to amend it till you are happy with it--although we always get it right even with the first draft.
- Then, we ask you to shell out your cash for it. It's as simple as that!
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Ok, I am Interested, What’s the Cost?
Why? As you know, the current health crisis has caused severe hardships for most people.
Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.
Yet, birthday celebrations are going on and people have to still inspire and motivate birthday celebrants with the right words.
Nonetheless, not everyone could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.
So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.
Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.
So, please take advantage of it now even if the event is in the future.
Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video, and viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.
So, please take advantage of it now even if the birthday is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.
Please note: Your speech draft comes with a proven and simple tip to master your speech or remember your speech just as you want it without carrying a paper with you.
Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise, and clarity!
''Hi Dan,
The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice). Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.
All the best,
Matt''
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Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise, and clarity!
''Hi Dan,
The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice). Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.
All the best,
Matt''
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