21ST Birthday Speech or Letter from Mom to Son or Daughter
How Loving Moms Easily And Quickly Write Inspiring And Memorable 21st Birthday Speeches or Letters For Their Sons Or Daughters-and how you can do the same even if you're not good with words
Once upon a time, a wonderful young woman had a dream. Like most women, she dreamed of getting married to one of the finest men on earth and it was a dream come when he tied the knot with Dan.
But the couple had a problem afterward. They found it very difficult to conceive and they went from one hospital to the other but nothing seemed to work.
Sherry loved children and she had no trace of infertility in her family line and wondered why she couldn’t bore a child of her own.
After 10 years of marriage, she found herself pregnant for a month only to miscarry. But her deep faith in God kept her hopes alive.
5 years after that incident, her bump began to protrude and this time, God favored her with a baby girl, a miracle she had been expecting for such a very long time.
Margaret’s birth rekindled the love Dan and Sherry had for each other and the whole family was so grateful for the life of the precious little daughter.
As Margaret grew older, her mom’s dream for her was two. To see her grow up into a pretty and very responsible daughter and get married to a very loving man.
Her 21st birthday came in a flash and her mom had to give a 21st birthday speech, something she had never done her whole life.
Her worst fear was speaking in public. But after looking for tips and ideas from friends, she gave this message on her daughter’s 21st birthday.
Margaret, I always believed in having a wonderful daughter like you, and I longed to hold and cuddle you in my arms.
But you never seemed to arrive when your dad and I were expecting you.
Well, they say where there is a will, there’s a way and we kept hoping and praying that someday we would hold you and plant a warm kiss on your cheeks.
We did everything we could but it seems God had another plan for us.
When the time was right, God opened the doors and we saw you at last.
It feels like only yesterday, I went to the delivery room and our entire family was around.
It felt like a family reunion and in less than 30 minutes, you showed up and even though my energy was all gone, I could hear faintly the entire family gasp in the excitement that our girl is here at last.
You looked fresh as a daisy and you are still so beautiful.
You meant so much to me and I wanted everything to be perfect.
I still remember feeding before you dozed off and your baby cries woke me up in the deep of the night to look after you like a guardian angel.
You were an easy baby and I vowed to make sure you grow feeling truly loved no matter what life threw at us.
Growing up, you were a ball of energy and you kept me on my toes.
I have lost count of the many times I run after you and you scared the daylights out of me when you got lost on April Fools.
You apparently had gone into hiding in the wardrobe and I looked all around frantically for you.
Something told me to open it and when I did, you were…oh my gosh... soundly asleep like a log.
Though parenting you wasn’t easy as I thought it would, it was very fulfilling because you gave me so many reasons to be proud of you every step of the way.
I could never count my many wishes for you…
Now, here you are ready to take on the world and I am confident you will weather the storms of life because your dad and I have shown you by example what it really means to make a difference in your own world.
I want you to realize that life will not always fair. When you are at the end of your rope and feel you have nowhere to turn, please remember what I have tried so hard to teach you, God is always there.
You will forever be our bright morning star but from this moment on, you have to be the salt and light of your world.
To the world, you may be seen as an adult but to me, you will always be my baby, my first love, my heart, my only child. We love you so much!
Can you write a short and sweet 21st birthday speech for your son or daughter like that one?
I bet you can.
Don’t worry if you can because I am going to share with you, ideas, tips plus examples to help you write a very effective birthday speech.
Get This Right And You’ll Make It
Before we get down to business, I want you to take note of this as it can impede your progress.
You see, it’s pretty normal to feel nervous when you are asked to address any audience.
It gets even more terrifying as if you had been spooked when you don’t even know what to say or you goofed big when you had to say a few words before an audience at some point in the past.
As you get set to say something at your son’s birthday celebrations, a little voice I refer to as the voice of defeat will remind you of your past failures and if you dwell on it, you’re going to feel humiliated.
It’s a special day for your son or daughter and the entire family you have to speak with poise, power, and flair because friends and family will be counting on you to make your child very proud.
What that means is that you have to motivate yourself by letting go of the past and envisioning yourself speaking confidently before the guests.
It doesn’t matter if you hate public speaking or not good at writing speeches, a healthy mental attitude can make all the difference.
Remember, most moms who felt so inadequate have excelled at this and I wonder why you can’t too…
Believe it or not, you too have what it takes to make a difference!
How To Get The Right Words With Ease
Now, let’s consider how to get the right words and how to use those words to craft a story that’s heartfelt, funny, and very inspiring.
To get the best words, you have to first put yourself in the mood.
What does that mean exactly? I’m glad you asked.
As a speechwriter, I frequently do this when I have what seems like a tough task to handle.
I go to youtube.com, my favorite video sharing platform, and pop into the search box my keywords.
So, in this case, your keyword and its variants will be the 21st birthday speech for your daughter if you’re paying tribute to your lovely girl.
If it’s for your son, then you should use 21st birthday speech for your son…
Then, wait for a few seconds for videos to pop up and watch a couple of those clips for inspiration.
As you do, grab your pen and paper and put down ideas which you feel you can use for your own speech.
To give you an idea, please press the play button and watch this video.
As you do, please look out for ideas you can incorporate into yours.
Do You Have This Master Key?
By the way, did you know this is the fastest and easiest way to write something great without spending too much time and effort?
It’s been proven time and again that birthday speech samples are the most effective tool for making your writing better.
What’s more, you can get rich ideas from well-written ones and the good thing is you can just change a few things here and there to suit your style.
I love to teach by examples, so let’s use what Sherry said at the onset of this post to help you get an idea of how to use birthday speech samples.
We are going to take parts of it, so let’s first go for her introduction.
Here’s a quick recap of her opening lines.
Margaret, I always believed in having a wonderful daughter like you and I longed to hold and cuddle you in my arms.
Can you write something close to that or even better? You sure can!
By the way, let me tell you why the opening lines of any speech is so crucial and how to write the best ever opener.
If well-executed, it can be a stress-buster and also grab the attention of the audience from the get-go.
However, most moms don’t get right. What we just saw is great, but it could have been better…How?
The speaker should have greeted the audience and introduce herself.
For example, she could have said:
Hello everyone and thanks for coming…It’s a pleasure and honor to have you all here on the occasion of Dan’s 21st. I am Margaret, Dan’s happy mom.
Well, there are other great ways the speaker could have engaged the audience?
I am happy to share one or two ways of stimulating your creative thinking.
First, the speaker could have started with a quote instead.
Can you show me an example? Sure!
This is how I would have jazzed things up if I had to give that message.
Here you go:
The greatest moment in every mom’s life is when your child is born…
Did you see how I started?
You can use any of the following quotes to help you do likewise
Quote #1: There are two great days in a person's life - the day we are born and the day we discover why. William Barclay
Quote #2: The greatest gift that you can give to others is the gift of unconditional love and acceptance. Brian Tracy
Quote #3: The great thing about getting older is that you don't lose all the other ages you've been. Madeleine L'Engle
Quote #4: Every year on your birthday, you get a chance to start new. Sammy Hagar
Quote #5: You don't get older, you get better. Shirley Bassey
Quote #6: The way I see it, you should live everyday like its your birthday. Paris Hilton
Second, you can begin with a few lines from a birthday poem by like this one by Christian Rosetti (1830-1894)
My heart is like a singing bird
Whose nest is in a water'd shoot;
My heart is like an apple-tree
Whose boughs are bent with thick-set fruit;
My heart is like a rainbow shell
Because the birthday of my life
Is come, my love is come to me.
I hope you can make the most of that. What I wrote should inspire you to use this stanza.
The show is not over yet…so let’s look at other excerpts.
But you never seemed to arrive when your dad and I were expecting you. Well, they say where there is a will, there’s a way and we kept…
We did everything we could but it seems God had another plan for you…
Make Sure It’s In This Order
The body follows the introduction and the ideas should follow in chronological order.
To come up with good ideas for your draft, you should create an outline of your speech.
Here are pointers to help you do that.
Provide answers to these simple questions
- How did you feel before your son or daughter was born?
- How did you feel on the day your child was born?
- What were the early years like?
- How did you feel when she was growing up and what was your dream for him or her?
- What fond memories do you have of your son or daughter?
- What is your dream for the next chapter of your child’s life?
- What are your best wishes for your son or daughter?
If you go back to that example, you will notice that Sherry’s delivery is built on the questions above.
So, this is what I want you to do now.
Go grab your pen and notepad and answer those questions in that order.
Then, create a rough draft based on your responses.
Finally, let’s review Sherry’s conclusion briefly.
You will…light of your world.
To the world you may be seen as an adult but to me you will always be my baby, my first love, my heart, my only child. We love you so much!
Your concluding remarks are equally as important as your introduction because last impressions stick the most when it comes to delivering speeches.
To end with a bang or make your last lines stand out, you can employ some of the tools I recommended for your opener.
Do you remember what they are? Poem, quotes and those stuff.
But I feel the best way to end your 21st birthday speech for your son or daughter is to wish your child well.
It’s always a delight when a mom ends with her story with a song but not all of us are blessed with good voices. If you can sing well, then please do so and your speech will be very memorable.
God bless you and your child and I am so proud of you for sacrificing so much for your son or daughter.
PS This time-sensitive message is for only moms who are hell-bent on giving the best speech ever! Don't read if you want an ordinary speech.
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Dear Loving Mom,
Let’s face it. You can buy your son or daughter the best gift ever on his or her birthday and your son or daughter will be so happy with it.
But, here’s the thing. The precious gift you give your son or daughter will fade sooner rather than later.
But your words will forever live in your child’s heart and make him or her a much better person down the road.
What that means that the right words are the best gift you can give your child, especially on this significant milestone of his or her life.
Unfortunately, most moms are not so good with words and it gets a bit terrifying when you imagine what to say before your own friends, friends of your child, and even your own family.
The young ones in the crowd will be judging you. And so, you shouldn’t embarrass your child in any way.
By the way, we know how hard coming up with the right words can be. So, we are giving you a chance to come up with something inspiring, funny and memorable without pulling your hair out!
Just imagine how you would feel when your son or daughter or even family comes up to congratulate you after you have given a great birthday speech!
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- Yes, if you are not good with words and you feel you’re not a natural writer and you are struggling to find the right words but still want to give a great birthday speech for your son or daughter.
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And also imagine the thrill and feeling of excitement and pride you’re going to experience when the audience leap onto their feet and scream and shouts and even sing your praises…..your son and daughter will be so proud of you
Won’t you love that? I hope you will...
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Ok, I am Interested, What’s the Cost?
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Why? As you know, the current health crisis has caused severe hardships for most people.
Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.
Yet, birthday celebrations are going on and parents have to still inspire and motivate their kids with the right words.
''Hi Dan, The speech was well received. Everything went well''- Marshall, Australia
Nonetheless, not every parent could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.
So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.
Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.
So, please take advantage of it now even if your child's special day is in the future.
Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video, and your offspring and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.
So, please take advantage of it now even if your child's birthday is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.
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Ok, I am Interested, What’s the Cost?
Why? As you know, the current health crisis has caused severe hardships for most people.
Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.
Yet, birthday celebrations are going on and parents have to still inspire and motivate their kids with the right words.
Nonetheless, not every parent could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.
So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.
Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.
So, please take advantage of it now even if your child's special day is in the future.
Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video, and your offspring and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.
So, please take advantage of it now even if your child's birthday is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.
Please note: Your speech draft comes with a proven and simple tip to master your speech or remember your speech just as you want it without carrying a paper with you.
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''Hi Dan,
The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice). Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.
All the best,
Matt''
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''Hi Dan,
The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice). Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.
All the best,
Matt''
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