21st Birthday Speech or Letter from Dad To Son Or Daughter
How Dads Easily And Quickly Write Unique And Memorable 21st Birthday Speech or Letters For Their Sons Or Daughters-and how you can do same even if your writing sucks
World renowned preacher of the gospel of Jesus Christ, Reverend Billy Graham once said that the greatest legacy one can pass on to one's children and grandchildren is not money or other material things accumulated in one's life, but rather a legacy of character and faith.
I think you agree with him wholeheartedly…don’t you?
The great man’s quote makes a lot of sense particularly as your daughter or son celebrates his 21st birthday.
This milestone demands that you give your child the best gift.
When I say this, most dads imagine giving their daughters and sons give that don’t last.
I am talking about giving your daughter or son a unique, beautiful and a very inspiring 21st birthday speech.
Have you thought about that? You see, our world, our dreams and the quality of our relationships and life depends entirely on words and the appropriate use of them can be a tremendous blessing on his or her 21st and beyond.
However, for most dads, writing speeches that tug at the heart is not an easy thing to do.
Well, I have some good news for you because I am going to show you how to get the right words and how to use them to express your exact thoughts and emotions more easily.
Take Note Of This Before You Pen Anything Down
Before we jump right in, let’s look at something that might prevent you from getting the result you have in mind.
Have you ever wondered why you probably felt nervous when you were asked to give a small talk before a group of people some time ago?
Your thoughts were responsible for that setback.
You see, anytime you are asked to speak in public, there is this small voice in your head that will remind you of all that happened in the past and what you do with that nudging voice will determine how things will go in the long run.
As a speechwriter, I always tell my clients that the secret to success doesn’t lie entirely in preparing a brilliant speech per se, but how you present it.
So, if that intimating thought hits you like a storm, just believe you can by constantly holding a mental picture of you speaking confidently and you will feel energized from within.
That said; let’s see how you can get the good words.
This Is The Secret of Coming Up With Great Ideas- Fast
First, put yourself in the mood for the clever expression of your thoughts and ideas.
To do that, you have to go grab your pen and note pad or whatever and go to over to your favorite video sharing platforms like youtube.com and the like.
Next, pop your keywords into the search box and wait for a few clips to pop up.
For example, you may use keywords like 21st birthday speech for daughter, 21st birthday speech for son…etc.
Watch a few of those clips after they pop up and put down ideas you feel you can use for your own speech.
By the way, here’s a great video that can stir up ideas.
This Is What I Call The Lazy Man’s Tip For Writing Dad’s Speech in Less Time
Another great tool I use all the time when writing speeches is consulting well-written speech samples.
Not only can you model your speech after them, but its contents are a treasure trove of rich ideas, words, and phrases.
By the way, here are excerpts of the speech I talked about above. You can see the full contents here.
P.S…This is from a dad to daughter but you can modify it a bit if you’re writing something about your son.
Here you go:
21 years ago today, you were born at 02h10 in the morning. I remember it so well, because I was fixated with those deep blue eyes scanning this new world when you made your entrance….Without you, I would have missed some of the great mysteries of life. You are an exceptional person; you are complete in yourself….
….To you, people look – at your beauty, your selfless spirit, your grace, the way you own your own being – awed at your light on earth.
In the eyes of the world this will make you legally an adult. You will have new choices to make, new paths to follow and dreams to catch in your net like butterflies passing on the wind…
As a father I understood the responsibility of having a child, a responsibility that keeps growing and maturing as the years pass by. I wanted to be the very best father that had ever been or ever will be.
From an early age you had an exploratory and inquisitive spirit. You were eager to know what the world was all about. Our heavenly Father allocated to you a bubbly personality and an outgoing style of engagement and connection with people. And to that spirit you have always been true.
I also want you to realize that life will not always be plain sailing. When you are at the end of your rope and feel you have nowhere to turn, please remember what I have tried so hard to teach you, God is always there.
You are never alone. It is my prayer now that you will continue on the path we have traveled together. Lean on God for everything. Seek his will. He will never leave you…
You have grown into a responsible, moral young woman who will someday be an awesome wife and mother…
The man who wins your heart will have the greatest treasure known to mankind. I hope you choose well…
We have often talked about this and I believe, as I think you do, God has been preparing the perfect man for you…
Thank you for being the example of everything a sister should be. You have raised the bar and set a clear example to your siblings…
Thank you for your love for your family. During the times when we had nothing, except each other, thank you for helping out….
Within your hands are special gifts and talents, a creativity you are destined to share with others….
… You are my greatest source of pride and my greatest hope for the future. And I will always love you….
May you find the path that leads you to the life you want. May you find the courage and the strength to create the world you want to live in….
Happy Birthday, my darling girl.
Can you write something short and sweet like that?
Well, let’s take it by bit and analyze it so you can get the exact picture of how to use 21st birthday speech samples to effortlessly write the very sentiments of your heart.
First, let’s recap the introduction
21 years ago today, you were born at 02h10 in the morning. I remember it so well, because I was fixated with those deep blue eyes scanning this new world when you made your entrance….Without you…
A great opener by all standards but the speaker could have added a few things…Do you have any idea what they are?
I am sure some of the party guests might be wondering who the speaker is and I think this dad should have told us who he was.
He could have done it like this…
Hello everyone and thanks for coming…I am….dad and it gives me great joy to see family and friends and loved ones….
Did you notice how I did that?
Well, there are other interesting ways of saying your opening lines as it’s one of the most important pieces of your presentation.
To make yours unique, you can start with a story or even a quote.
To give you an idea, I am going to share with you how to make yours different with a story so the audience will compliment you for having done a marvelous job.
Here’s how to do that. You may use an imaginative tale or a real anecdote about your son or daughter.
Ok…Let’s get things underway.
This is so hard to believe but I still wonder why our birthdays fall on the month of December.
My wife and my three other children, Mark, Judith and Alex were born on December and before Mark arrived, the doctor told us to expect him in October.
But that didn’t happen even though that was Sandra’s due month.
As you can imagine, that made us quite apprehensive, so we went back to Dr. James Oz and he only told us after screening her thoroughly that everything was ok.
Believe it or not, on the morning of December 1, my wife’s water broke and……
That story got you hooked right?
You cannot underestimate the power of a very compelling and if you can recall a story that can fit into the overall theme, your speech will be so so nice.
We are not done yet…so, let’s once again look at the body of his speech.
From an early age you had an exploratory and inquisitive spirit. You were eager to know what the world was all about. Our heavenly Father allocated to you a bubbly personality and an outgoing style of engagement and connection with people. And to that spirit you have always been true.
The body typically follows your introductory remarks unless you want to go with something creative like rendering your speech in song (will talk about it later)
Coming up with good memories isn’t as hard as most people think but connecting the bits and pieces are.
Here’s How To Come Up With Beautiful Stories About Your Son Or Daughter
Let me show you how you can come up with good memories for your body.
The questions below can unlock the key to getting those ideas…so please go once again for your notepad or…and pen and get them answered.
- 1. How was your son or daughter like growing up?
- What were his or her hobbies or interests?
- Any funny memories of her growing up?
- What issues did you face and how did you stand by her through thick and thin?
- What do you envision his or her future to be?
This is what I want you to do now. Scroll up this page and read that example once more.
Once you’ve mastered it, you can use that as a guide to creating an outline for your speech.
Next, just create a rough draft for your presentation using the answers you wrote next to those questions asked.
Don’t worry about how it flows for the very first time because you can keep revising it till you’re happy with it.
Can You End With A Bang?
Finally, let’s look at this loving dad’s closing lines below…
Here’s a summary anyway
You are my greatest source of pride and my greatest hope for the future. And I will always love you….
May you find the path that leads you to the life you want. May you find the courage and the strength to create the world you want to live in
Now, I assured you that I was going to talk about songs…hope you remember?
A perfect ending to a memorable delivery is singing your lines to the beat of a well-known song.
Let me ask you this question? What’s your favorite happy birthday song?
Did you know how can adapt your best song into your message.
For example, if Steve Wonder’s is what you prefer, then you can borrow some of his lyrics for your ending by singing it out loud if you have a good voice.
Don’t worry if your voice is as croaky as mine. You can still end with one or more of these techniques.
If you’re a Christian, you may end with a prayer by using this favorite verse of mine:
Psalm 128
Psalm 128
A song of ascents.
1 Blessed are all who fear the Lord,
who walk in obedience to him.
2 You will eat the fruit of your labor;
blessings and prosperity will be yours.
3 Your wife will be like a fruitful vine
within your house;
your children will be like olive shoots
around your table.
4 Yes, this will be the blessing
for the man who fears the Lord.
5 May the Lord bless you from Zion;
may you see the prosperity of Jerusalem
all the days of your life.
6 May you live to see your children’s children—
peace be on Israel.
Alternatively, you can go for any of these well-wishes
- Wishing you all the best on your 21st…Hope you enjoy every second
- Congratulations on blissfully overcoming two decades of your life. Welcome to the next chapter of your life…Happy Birthday.
- Congratulations on your 21st birthday! For you only today is a special day but because you were part of our lives every day of these past years have been special for us. Remember, the celebrations will come to end but your birthday won’t end…Happy Birthday
Hope this helps you write something memorable for your daughter or son’s 21st birthday.
PS This time-sensitive message is for only dads who are hell-bent on giving the best speech ever! Don't read if you want an ordinary speech.
Do You Know This Simple And Very Easy-To-Follow Plan Can Help You Come Up With The Best Birthday Speech Ever? That's What Most Moms And Dads Use But You Probably Haven't Thought About It!
Dear Loving Dad,
Let’s face it. You can buy your son or daughter the best gift ever on his or her birthday and your son or daughter will be so happy with it.
But, here’s the thing. The precious gift you give your son or daughter will fade sooner rather than later.
But your words will forever live in your child’s heart and make him or her a much better person down the road.
What that means that the right words are the best gift you can give your child, especially on this significant milestone of his or her life.
Unfortunately, many dads are not so good with words and it gets a bit terrifying when you imagine what to say before your own friends, friends of your child, and even your own family.
The young ones in the crowd will be judging you. And so, you shouldn’t embarrass your child in any way.
By the way, we know how hard coming up with the right words can be. So, we are giving you a chance to come up with something inspiring, funny and memorable without pulling your hair out!
Just imagine how you would feel when your son or daughter or even family comes up to congratulate you after you have given a great birthday speech!
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Ok, Is This Offer For Me?
- Yes, if you are expecting nothing less than a very special, beautiful, unique and memorable birthday speech.
- Yes, if you don’t have much time to write a perfect speech because of work demands and other life's pressure or even sick?
Then, let’s take care of it and the guests will definitely sing your praises.
- Yes, if you are overwhelmed by the pressures of work and don’t have the time to put together a very meaningful speech, so you can have your peace of mind
- Yes, if you want your family, your son or daughter, friends of your child, and other party guests to shower you with very sincere compliments…just imagine how you will feel
- Yes, if you are not good with words and you feel you’re not a natural writer and you are struggling to find the right words but still want to give a great birthday speech for your son or daughter.
- Yes, if you get so scared anytime you’re asked to say something before an audience and you really want to save yourself from any form of embarrassment on your son’s or daughter’s birthday.
- Yes, if you are not too eloquent or not too sure if you are on the right track.
- Yes, if you absolutely hate speaking in public or feel this is not your thing but you want to make your son or daughter feel very proud on their special day.
- Yes, if you have a day or less to the party and you are worried that you might make some horrible mistakes
- Yes, if you are a good speaker but you still want someone to look over or review what you've come up with!
Just imagine leaving your entire presentation in the hands of skilled speech consultants who will take away your pain of spending hours thinking hard and long about what to say and what not to say.
Also, envision being patiently guided to say something that will leave a favorable impression on the mind of your listeners.
And also imagine the thrill and feeling of excitement and pride you’re going to experience when the audience leap onto their feet and scream and shouts and even sing your praises…..your son and daughter will be so proud of you
Won’t you love that? I hope you will...
Birthday party not too far away? Or happening in less than 24 hours? Trust me, we can deliver! it doesn’t matter if your speech is today, tomorrow, next week, next month ,next year,... we can make things work for you
Ok, I am Interested, What’s the Cost?
You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech or letter.
Why? As you know, the current health crisis has caused severe hardships for most people.
Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.
Yet, birthday celebrations are going on and parents have to still inspire and motivate their kids with the right words.
''Hi Dan, The speech was well received. Everything went well''- Marshall, Australia
Nonetheless, not every parent could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.
So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.
Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.
So, please take advantage of it now even if your child's special day is in the future.
Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video, and your offspring and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.
So, please take advantage of it now even if your child's birthday is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.
Oh Ok, How Then Do I Get Started Since I Want To Get On Board Right Away?
Ok, here’s how it works
All you have to do RIGHT NOW is to click on this link to receive an easy-to-fill-in questionnaire via email. Check your email a few hours after you’ve submitted your request.
So,
- After that, we will send you a very short questionnaire to fill out via email! You only have to check your email a few hours after you have made your request
- Then, you fill out the questionnaire sent through your email, and please have it sent back to us…
- We will confirm receipt of it…If something is not too clear, we will ask you to clarify….
- If not, we will send you a wonderful draft in a couple of hours if this on very short notice….If not, after a few days
- Then, you look it over and tell us if you are okay with it or you want to amend it till you are happy with it--although we always get it right even with the first draft.
- Then, we ask you to shell out your cash for it. It's as simple as that!
Just a reminder of what you pay after it’s duly completed.
Ok, I am Interested, What’s the Cost?
Why? As you know, the current health crisis has caused severe hardships for most people.
Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.
Yet, birthday celebrations are going on and parents have to still inspire and motivate their kids with the right words.
Nonetheless, not every parent could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.
So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.
Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.
So, please take advantage of it now even if your child's big day is in the future.
Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video, and your offspring and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.
So, please take advantage of it now even if your child's birthday is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.
Please note: Your speech draft comes with a proven and simple tip to master your speech or remember your speech just as you want it without carrying a paper with you.
Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise, and clarity!
''Hi Dan,
The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice). Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.
All the best,
Matt''
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Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise, and clarity!
''Hi Dan,
The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice). Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.
All the best,
Matt''
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