Father of the Groom Speech or Toast: Proven and Easy Ways To Write A Memorable Introduction That Will Get Yon Tons of Compliments On Your Son's Wedding Day

Need to write a great father toast or speech for your son on his wedding day but can't seem to get started? Then, please read on

These easy to follow ideas can help you give a very beautiful groom’s dad speech even if you hate speaking in public, have never given a father of the groom speech before, or if you’re not too sure if you can pull off something great without trying so hard!

I don't really enjoy going to the movies. But I can flip through a 5000-page novel without blinking an eye. I can barely watch an hour’s movie unless it’s very engaging like ''The Titanic.''

One thing that thrills me a lot about that blockbuster is the way it starts. Besides, its accompanying beat, pace, and tempo make it even more engaging.

The opening scene of that motion picture reminds me of the importance of starting your father of the groom speech with a bang.

As you prepare to say something that will make your son and your family very proud, I want to stress the need to start your speech well

since it’s the main thing that’s going to capture their attention and give them a reason to listen to your entire story.

Granted, it’s not that easy to come up with something remarkable. It’s not like eating a piece of cake because anytime we are asked by fathers to write their speeches for them, we really ponder for a long time to write

something that will connect with the audience.

It comes as no surprise that many fathers find it very hard to come up with a great opener.

That’s the main reason why we decided to show you how you can effortlessly come up with one.

If you fail to make a good first impression when you are called to speak, then you can be sure you won’t get another chance to make a second impression because weddings don't happen that often in most families.

It stands then to reason that, you have to start on a rousing note and these...

12 easy to follow steps have been gleaned from the exact strategies we

use to help make our clients’ work successful and they can help you too.

So, feel free to use a couple of them but make sure you use them wisely and creatively when writing your entire father of the groom's speech.

Here you go:

STEP #1

Connect Your Son’s Big Day To An Important Date In World History.

For example, if your son’s wedding falls on 15^thApril, you can

connect your message to the story of the Titanic, because 15th April is the day that great ship sank.

This illustration can be useful:

''Ladies and Gentlemen.Thanks for coming to honor the union of Jerry and his

charming wife Alice.

Today, it is indeed a very special day because on this day the loyalty of two love birds was tested.

On this same day, the great ship The Titanic sank. Thousands of people died but

two people decided to live for each other and they made it despite the odds.

They were Jack and Rose, two love birds that were always there for each other.

Today, it’s a very beautiful day because on this same day in history this happy couple made a sacred vow to be there for each other and their words and

loyalty will be tested too as they begin life together ...''

Let’s be honest here.

Don’t you think this will grab their attention?

It definitely will!

It will because the writer made an allusion to a popular story, everyone will want to listen to it over and over again.

Wondering how to get such dates that connect with your son’s wedding day? Just look it up online.

Let’s say your son’s big day is on 20^th June, then you can use the search term 20^th June in history and a series of events will pop out.

Now, flip through the search results to find an event or incident that’s exciting and you can use it for your speech.

As an example, it could be that the wedding day is his birthday.

If it so happens, then, we can say:

There are two important events that shape every man. The day he’s born and when he gets married.

Today, Mark is surrounded by love from family and friends.

Many of you may not know this. Guess what? Today is not only his wedding day but a very special day in his life. He’s 26 years today!

Did you notice how I tied an event to his big day? I did it once for one of my clients and he really loved it.

Bringing up stuff like that will make your dad of the groom's speech very memorable than you ever thought.

STEP #2

Tie The Date Of The Wedding To An Important Date In Your Family’s History.

How to accomplish that? Glad you have asked

Once I wrote a speech for this guy from Pennsylvania and he asked that I include his mother’s wedding anniversary as part of his speech.

His request got me thinking hard and long. But I realized it could be done. So I took my pen and wrote my draft.

An example:

There are two reasons why I am thankful for this day. First, it’s a fulfillment of our

joy that our son’s dream of Marrying Mrs. Right has come to pass.

Second, it is even more special because today’s ceremony falls on the exact date Dan's grandparents(my mom and dad) tied the knot some 50 years ago...

Did you see now how I blended it beautifully?

If your parents are still alive, it will make your speech very unique because you can acknowledge them on their grandchild’s big day. That’s another technique that will surely endear you to the audience.

STEP # 3

You Can Also Bring In Your Own History

By this, I am referring to the time you got married.

An example could be as follows:

Today is a day meant to be treasured and I know for sure it will be a memorable day in the life of this couple.

Just like Abigail and Dan, Alice and I got married exactly thirty(30) years ago on this very day and their union brings nostalgic

memories of the time I…..

Well, you can fill in the gaps later…

Let’s go on to

STEP#4

Why Not Lace The Introduction With A Movie Quote?

The titanic example mentioned earlier can still be used here. So can this quote

from the movie: ''My Best Friend’s Wedding''

''I had the strangest dream. I dreamed that some psychopath was trying to break

the two of you up. Luckily, I woke up, and I saw that the world is just as it should. For my best friend ... has won the best woman."

Now, let’s try to make something out of that quote.

Many years ago, I had a very beautiful dream. I dreamed that I had a baby boy and this boy was making a difference all over the world.

He was bringing hope to the hopeless and inspiring people everywhere on earth. Looking back, I have seen that Mike, my son, was the boy I dreamed about.

Growing up, he was kind, curious and.....

That was just to give you an idea…hope that makes things easier.

STEP #5

Have You Also Considered Linking The Theme Of A Story Book or Joke With Your Opening Remarks Or Speech?

As an example, let’s take a line from Shakespeare’s ''Romeo and Juliet''

This is it:

William Shakespeare says that some people are born great, some have greatness thrust upon them and others work for their greatness.

This quote by Shakespeare makes me believe that some lovers are born lovers, others have their marriages arranged in heaven before they eventually tie the knot, and some by sheer accident.

But I just think Jennifer and Dan are a perfect match made in heaven because…

STEP #6

You Can Sound Very Philosophical.

An example, I wrote for a client was ''having a baby is like finding a rough

diamond in your own back yard. Polish the diamond and you will get a beautiful, bright, priceless sparkling diamond.

In a sense, my daughter was once a rough diamond but I’m happy to announce

that she’s now sparkling diamond because ..............''

STEP#7

Often, the best opening lines come from your own mind because it is the fountain of all great ideas.

To do this, you could read several wedding speeches, verses, quotations and so on or even watch memorable father of the groom speech videos

and allow those ideas you find to settle deep down in your brain.

Rest for some time and start work and you would be amazed at the new ideas and insights that will come to you when you grab a pen and a sheet of paper.

STEP #8

Bible Verses Can Also Inspire You. It Even Becomes More Impactful If It’s A Christian Marriage

An example can be taken from

''Proverbs 15:20 -A wise son Brings Joy and Honor to his father''

''Alexis arrival on earth 20 years ago brought many blessings and favor upon

our family. He is symbolic of the favor parents have when.....''

Again, that was to give you a rough idea of what to expect when writing your father of the groom speech toast.

STEP #9

A Poem Can Also Help You Out

You don’t have to be a poet to write a beautiful poem about your son.

Technology has made it possible for almost everyone to be a ''poet'' of some sort.

So, please go to the search engines, and look for poems about sons, marriage or love- and they will

help you write something around your son.

STEP #10--Ever Considered This?

If you are a good singer, you could render your speech in a song.

It will definitely go viral if you put on a good show. It’s by far the best way of connecting to your audience on an emotional level since we all love good music.

But ask yourself if you can do that. Stay away from it if you can’t.

P.S: Do you really want your family, friends, and guests to genuinely compliment you for giving a great wedding speech? But, still wondering how to put your exact thoughts and emotions into beautiful words?

You certainly owe it to your son to come up with an incredibly great speech that will make the wedding guests deeply love you!

Here’s a chance to make that dream a reality!

Here’s what one nervous and skeptical dad called Glen sent over after his son's wedding was over

''Hey Dan, I just wanted to thank you once again for the speech you wrote with me. My goal was met afterward, I was told by many "what a beautiful speech" and received a standing ovation. I couldn't have done this without you. God Bless Dan!-'' Glen, U.S.A

P.S: Most dads do this...Have you considered it? Want to write and give a great wedding speech like the one above but can't seem to get started because you don't know the exact words to use?

Or not too sure if what you intend writing will be well received by the guests?

Let's help you make your son, wife, and family proud, and let the wedding guests say great things about your speech.

Here’s what one nervous and skeptical dad called Glen sent over after the wedding was over

Hey Dan, I just wanted to thank you once again for the speech you wrote with me. My goal was met afterward, I was told by many "what a beautiful speech" and received a standing ovation. I couldn't have done this without you. God Bless Dan!- Glen, U.S.A

Want to know how he did just that? He got help with his speech and one of our talented speech writers helped him out.

Want to get on board? You should by first clicking here to fill out this short and simple form.

This is letter a dad sent to us after we helped him deliver his speech(Please click on it to enlarge if you can't see it)

Ok, Is This Offer For Me?

Yes, if you are expecting nothing less than a very special, beautiful, unique and memorable speech.

Yes, if you are overwhelmed by the pressures of work and don’t have the time to put together a very meaningful speech, so you can have peace of mind

Yes, if you want your family, children, friends, and wedding guests to shower you with very sincere compliments…just imagine how you will feel

Yes, if you are not good with words and you feel you’re not a natural writer and you are struggling to find the right words but still want to give a great speech.

Yes, you get so scared anytime you’re asked to say something before an audience and you really want to save yourself from any form of embarrassment on your son’s big day.

Yes, if you are not too eloquent or not too sure if you are on the right track.

Yes, if you absolutely hate speaking in public or feel this is not your thing but you want to make your son feel very proud

Yes, if you have a day or less to the wedding and you are worried that you might make some horrible mistakes

Yes, if you are a good speaker but you still want someone to look over or review what you've come up with!

Wedding not too far away? Or happening in less than 24 hours? Trust me, we can deliver! it doesn’t matter if your speech is today, tomorrow, next week, next month ,next year,... we can make things work for you

Just imagine leaving your entire presentation in the hands of skilled wedding speech consultants who will take away your pain of spending hours thinking hard and long about what to say and what not to say.

Also, envision being patiently guided to say something that will leave a favorable impression on the mind of your listeners.

And also imagine the thrill and feeling of excitement and pride you’re going to experience when the audience leap onto their feet and scream and shouts and even sing your praises.

Won’t you love that? I hope you do...

Ok, I am Interested, What’s the Cost?

You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.

Why? As you know, the current health crisis has caused severe hardships for most people.

Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.

Yet, some sons are still getting married and asking their fathers to give speeches.

Nonetheless, not every father could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.

So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.

Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.

So, please take advantage of it now even if your son’s big day is in the future.

Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video and your son and daughter-in-law and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.

So, please take advantage of it now even if your son’s big day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.

This is another letter a dad sent to us after we helped him deliver his speech(Please click on it to enlarge if you can't see it)

Oh Ok, How Then Do I Get Started Since I Want To Get On Board Right Away?

Ok, here’s how it works

All you have to do RIGHT NOW is to click on this link to receive an easy-to-fill-in questionnaire via email. Check your email a few hours after you’ve submitted your request for your questionnaire.

So,

1)CLICK HERE NOW TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT THIS QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind!

After that, we will send you a very short questionnaire to fill out via email! You only have to check your email a few hours after you have made your request.

Then, you fill out the questionnaire sent through your email and please have it sent back to us…

We will confirm receipt of it…If something is not too clear, we will ask you to clarify….
If not, we will send you a wonderful draft in a couple of hours if this on very short notice….If not, after a few days
Then, you look it over and tell us if you are okay with it or you want to amend or revise it till you are happy with it--although we always get it right even with the first draft
Then, we ask you to pay for it

Please note: The information collected through the questionnaire is only for the purpose of writing your speech. I wouldn’t even need it if I could read your mind. So, your information is very confidential and no one will know about it.

Just a reminder of what you pay after it’s duly completed.