Mother Of The Bride Speech Ideas And Tips And Examples: How To Write The Best Ever Mother Of The Bride Speech Like A Pro!
Plus proven ideas to help down your exact thoughts and emotions into very beautiful words that will make the wedding guests give you rousing applause and say nice things about your words!
Won’t you be happy to effortlessly put down your exact thoughts and emotions into words that will wow the wedding audience, and get you that standing ovation you’ve been dreaming of?
Trust me, it’s very possible if this is the first speech you’re making or even if you goofed the last time you gave a speech because we’ve helped so many mothers do just that and it’s your turn!
I know for sure that pouring out what’s really on your heart and mind to compose a well-thought-out speech can be a real pain in the butt.
It gets worse if you’re not accustomed to giving speeches or you just feel you are not cut out for speaking in public.
Whatever your case, kiss your worries goodbye because this post will give you a fair idea of what to expect as you craft your presentation.
What Is Your Preference?
You see, there are three main types of mother of bride speeches you hear when the couple is getting married:
- The ordinary which is fairly common.
The truth is, just anyone can write an ordinary speech. A teenager who doesn’t know much about love can even write one...Such speeches often don’t grab the attention of the guests.
Unfortunately, many of the words you’ll ever hear at most weddings plus the free wedding speeches you’d find online belong to this category.
Next on the bill are….
- good speeches. This kind of wedding speech tries to use words you can relate to but has no power to get you excited.
Finally, we have
- the ''wow '' speech and below is a beautiful example
Have You Ever Heard This?
Have you ever been to a wedding where the speech was sung or even recited like a poem?
If you have, then you probably have listened to a great mother of the bride speech.
Such speeches remind us of our past lives, make us smile, and it touches our hearts in ways that leave some people in the audience with moist eyes.
This kind will definitely make your family proud; it will make the audience sing your praises, and you are bound to get tons of compliments after you’re done speaking.
This is what the audience wants to hear from you and this should be your dream speech.
Wondering how to do that? Don’t worry because I am going to show you how to combine wit, humor, and a story in the same speech to create a wow effect, so don’t throw in the towel yet.
Being a wedding speech consultant to several mothers around the world, I know what it takes to write one.
To create a simple outline for the speech I intend to write, I start off by myself these simple questions:
- How did you feel when your daughter was born?
- What were your dreams for her?
- How was she like when she was a toddler?
- How was she like when she reached her teens?
- What are her accomplishments in life?
- What are your proudest moments about her life?
- Why will you miss her?
- Why do you think the groom is a perfect match?
- Why do you really love her?
- What do you want to say to her? For example…Amanda, you’ve always made me so proud but no words can describe the joy I feel deep inside my heart as you’re getting married to the man who has the key to the door of your heart.
- What advice do you have for her or well-wishes?
- What do you want to say about the groom?
- What are his wonderful qualities?
Noticed how these questions follow one another?
Well, I have deliberately arranged it in that order so that your speech can flow coherently after you have provided answers to them.
Let’s use answers to questions 1-4 to write a brief extract.
How did you feel when your daughter was born? I was happy
What were your dreams for her? To be successful
How was she like when she was a toddler? Very creative, loving and loved to dress up
How was she like when she reached her teens? Very focused, obedient and very supportive
Now, let’s write our speech using the words in red.
GREETINGS, SELF-INTRODUCTION AND APPRECIATION
Good evening, ladies and gentlemen, thanks a lot for coming to support the family.
I would like to thank you for coming and I wish you well. I am Grace, Mary’s mom and Jerry’s mother-in-law.
On behalf of my family, I would like to welcome you all.
SPEECH BEGINS
Words cannot just describe how I felt when Mary came into our lives one beautiful afternoon on Valentine’s Day.
At birth, it was prayer and hope that she becomes a successful person.
As a toddler, she was very creative, loving and loved to dress up.
I remember when he would put on makeup and put on my fedora hat and tell me that he wanted to go on a date with his dad.
Growing up, she was much focused and kind.
Mary worked so hard to support me when her dad passed away. When she got her first job as a salesgirl, she helped me...
I hope you have a clear idea of how we used our answers (see in red) to write a brief mother of the bride's speech. Noticed how each answer is built on the other?
That’s exactly how wedding speech pros write speeches; the wedding guests love to listen to over and over again.
I guess by now you can write your speech. You can. Just find some well-written mother of the bride speech samples and you will get a fair idea of what I have been trying to explain so far
Study those examples and you’ll find more ideas for crafting a very beautiful speech that will make your daughter and family proud!
P.S: Can you come up with a great speech like the one above? As the mother of the bride, everyone will be on the lookout for your great speech and you can't let the bride and her husband, friends, and family down by giving an ordinary speech.
You certainly owe it to your loving daughter to come up with an incredible speech.
If the thought of giving a great wedding speech is hanging over you like a death sentence, then you have to follow this simple plan that's guaranteed to help you write a great mom speech like the one you read above.
Claire was quite skeptical when she came to us but we kept assuring what she will make her son and family proud-and this is what she sent over after the wedding was over.
Want to know how she did just that? She got on board our wedding speech program and one of our talented speech consultants helped her out.
Want to get on board? You should by first filling out this form.
This is a letter a mom sent me after her wedding. (Please click on the image to enlarge it so you can read it)
Ok, Is This Offer For Me?
- Yes, if you are expecting nothing less than a very special, beautiful, unique, and memorable speech.
- Don’t have much time to write a perfect speech just as you want it because of work demands and other life's pressure or even sick? Then, let’s take care of it and the guests will definitely sing your praises--we have done it for so many others and it's your turn now!
- Yes, if you are overwhelmed by the pressures of work and don’t have the time to put together a very meaningful speech, so you can have your peace of mind
- Yes, if you want your family, your daughter, friends, and wedding guests to shower you with very sincere compliments…just imagine how you will feel
- Yes, if you are not good with words and you feel you’re not a natural writer and you are struggling to find the right words but still want to give a great speech.
- Yes, you get so scared anytime you’re asked to say something before an audience and you really want to save yourself from any form of embarrassment on your daughter's big day.
- Yes, if you are not too eloquent or not too sure if you are on the right track.
- Yes, if you absolutely hate speaking in public or feel this is not your thing but you want to make your son feel very proud
- Yes, if you have a day or less to the wedding and you are worried that you might make some horrible mistakes
- Yes, if you are a good speaker but you still want someone to look over or review what you've come up with!
Just imagine leaving your entire presentation in the hands of skilled wedding speech consultants who will take away your pain of spending hours thinking hard and long about what to say and what not to say.
Also, envision being patiently guided to say something that will leave a favorable impression on the mind of your listeners.
And also imagine the thrill and feeling of excitement and pride you’re going to experience when the audience leaps onto their feet and scream and shouts and even sing your praises.
Won’t you love that? I hope you do...
Wedding not too far away? Or happening in less than 24 hours? Trust me, we can deliver! it doesn’t matter if your speech is today, tomorrow, next week, next month ,next year,... we can make things work for you
Ok, I am Interested, What’s the Cost?
You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.
Why? As you know, the current health and economic crisis has caused severe hardships for most people.
Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.
Yet, some daughters are still getting married and asking their moms to give speeches.
Nonetheless, not every mother could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.
So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.
Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.
So, please take advantage of it now even if your daughter’s big day is in the future.
Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video and your daughter and son-in-law and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.
So, please take advantage of it now even if your daughter’s big day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.
''It was perfect Dan. I changed a few things in the speech. And I had several people come up and tell me how well done it was. I couldn't have done it better. Thanks for your help''- Marilyn, Canada
This is another note a mom sent me after her wedding. (Please click on the image to enlarge it so you can read it)
Oh Ok, How Then Do I Get Started Since I Want To Get On Board Right Away?
Ok, here’s how it works
All you have to do RIGHT NOW is to click on this link to receive an easy-to-fill-in questionnaire via email. Check your email a few hours after you’ve submitted your request.
So,
- After that, we will send you a very short questionnaire to fill out via email! You only have to check your email a few hours after you have made your request
- Then, you fill out the questionnaire sent through your email and please have it sent back to us…
- We will confirm receipt of it…If something is not too clear, we will ask you to clarify….
- If not, we will send you a wonderful draft in a couple of hours if this on very short notice….If not, after a few days
- Then, you look it over and tell us if you are okay with it or you want to amend or reviseit till you are happy with it--although we always get it right even with the first draft.
- Then, we ask you to pay for it. It's as simple as that!
Just a reminder of what you pay after it’s duly completed.
You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.
Why? As you know, the current health and economic crisis has caused severe hardships for most people.
Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.
Yet, some daughters are still getting married and asking their moms to give speeches.
Nonetheless, not every mother could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.
So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.
Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.
So, please take advantage of it now even if your daughter’s big day is in the future.
Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video and your daughter and son-in-law and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.
So, please take advantage of it now even if your daughter’s big day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.
''It was perfect Dan. I changed a few things in the speech. And I had several people come up and tell me how well done it was. I couldn't have done it better. Thanks for your help''- Marilyn, Canada
Please note: Your speech draft comes with a proven and simple tip to master your speech or remember your speech just as you want it without carrying a paper with you.
Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise, and clarity!
''Hi Dan,
The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice). Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.
All the best,
Matt''
Please note: Don’t fill out this form if you’re a dishonest individual. This offer is for a limited time.
So, CLICK HERE TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT A QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind and not lose money. The risk is on us!
You don't have to worry about paying our per speech for now.
Forget about money and let’s write something for you. We believe in the values of honesty and integrity and we think you should be happy with our work first.
So, Here Are The Benefits You Get When You Get On Board!
- A great speech written by our wedding speech consultants that reflects what you want to say exactly
- We coach you on how to use your voice to make your speech very exciting.
- We show you a simple but often overlook strategy to rehearse your speech even if you have a very poor memory. This method is used by great speakers like Obama and was used by Abraham Lincoln and his compatriots
- The most effective way to get your entire speech into your head without memorizing your speech. Guaranteed to help you even if you have a very poor memory or your memory is like a gold fish…most of our clients still wonder where we got this idea from. This ensures that you don't read off a sheet of paper...
Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise, and clarity!
''Hi Dan,
The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice). Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.
All the best,
Matt''
- Ways to include humor in your speech and what it takes to do so
So, CLICK HERE TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT A QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind and not lose money. The risk is on us!
Remember, you have to see your speech first before you pay. So, you can relax and let us sweat it out at our expense!