Groom Speech : How To Get The Right Words That Will Help You Write A Heartfelt Groom Wedding Toast For Your Bride
Choosing the right words will not only make your groom's speech heartfelt but make your speech very memorable.
It stands then to reason that, you should put some thought into the words you use for your speech.
I know that it can be very hard to come up with such words in a short amount of time and so I am happy to show you proven ways to get words that will make your speech very special on your big day.
Here we go:
Put Down Any Funny Incident That Comes To Mind
Do you recall the last time you really had a good laugh? What made you giggle?
Did the person crack a joke? Or did that person tell a funny story? Pause for a moment and reflect on what the person said or did to get you excited.
If you can recollect moments you have had with your wife that really made your day, you have to put them down as they come to you. It could be things you said to each other that made you happy or joyous events you have had.
Write as many of them that come to you down because you never know which idea will help you to write a very compelling speech.
Quotes Can Help You
Get quotes on love, marriage, friendship, and so on.
Now, let’s look at some quotes and how we can use some
of those quotes to put something down.
- Love may be blind but marriage is a real eye-opener-Unknown
- You know you’re in love when you can’t fall asleep because reality
is finally better than your dreams- Dr.Seuss - Love is temporary insanity curable by marriage- Ambrose Bierce
- Loves conquer all things except poverty and toothache- Mae West
- Love is a fire. But whether it is going to warm your heart or burn
down your house, you can never tell-Joan Crawford
Let’s see how to be creative with quote # 1
Example # 1- Love may be blind but marriage is a real eye-opener-Unknown
Many people think love is blind but I don’t think so. You know before I
married Amanda, I was a blind man - but her love has really opened
my eyes.
I hope you can write something now!
Use Jokes
If you’re going to use jokes or stories to write a funny wedding speech, make sure they’re connected to the theme of your speech.
Watch Videos For Ideas
Go right now to any of the search engines and look up-groom wedding speech videos and many results will pop up. Here are some video examples.
Watch those you find interesting and write down ideas you think you can use in your own speech. Well, that’s what we do ''in-house'' when we are stuck!
Other search terms like the father of the groom videos, mother of the groom, bride speech among other things can help you because they all have great expressions and ideas you can use. But, make sure, you don’t copy verbatim something you hear. Let them serve as a light to your dark path.
Music Can Also Help
Have you ever been to a wedding where the groom gave his speech in song? Well, that is one of the most beautiful ways to make your speech memorable. That’s if you can sing.
If you don’t have a great voice like mine, you can listen to love songs and country music, and even inspirational tunes and you will get so many ideas to help you write your speech. This works for me whenever I have to write a speech for a client.
Watch Wedding Movies
You might not have the time to watch wedding movies but if you do, great ideas will come to you. Take for example this beautiful line that comes from the movie.
"I guarantee that we'll have tough times. I guarantee that at some point, one or both of us will want to get out. But I also guarantee that if I don't ask you to be mine, I'll regret it for the rest of my life, because I know, in my heart, you're the only one for me." —Maggie, Runaway Bride
Using Similes And Metaphors To Your Best Advantage
The use of similes and metaphors play a crucial role in the writing of great groom wedding speeches. In fact, they can transform a rather boring presentation into a memorable presentation.
They enable us to see in our mind’s eyes what you are saying as though it’s relayed in a movie.
For instance, let’s see how we can transform the following
sentences into something entertaining using both similes and metaphors
When I met her at the poolside, I felt happy.
There’s nothing wrong with that. But we can add some power to it
when we change it to:
When I met her at the poolside, her tenderness fell on me like the first rain of spring.
You can even personalize it. Let’s see how to do just that.
When I met her at a poolside, her tenderness fell on me like the first rain of spring. Our eyes met and my heart raced like crazy. Then
something whispered into my ears and said: she is the mother of your
children.
How about this one? He was deeply in love. Notice any difference when we inject it with a simile?
She was deeply in love. When she spoke, he thought he heard bells,
as if she were a garbage truck backing up. When I popped the question, she looked at the floor, lifted up her eyes, looked at me, and said: I had been always looking forward to this day…
I hope that gives you a fair idea of how to write something meaningful from similes and metaphors!
For these literary devices to achieve the desired effect, you should connect them to the theme of your groom's speech to something you and the guests can relate to.
Here are at least some similes and metaphors you can use to
spice up your presentation.
As bald as a newborn babe-Anonymous
Her eyes were as blue as the ink in my pen that trickled its life’s blood
gently down the front of my pocket, as I tried in vain to get her attention
Anonymous
As supportive as a good recliner- Anonymous
They melted away like snow from a fire-Anonymous
Looked like a sunrise, extravagant and full of promise-Anonymous
She was as stiff and unyielding as a lawn chair- Anonymous
Sweet as the last smile of sunset. — Edwin Arnold
Looked like a sunrise, extravagant and full of promise-Anonymous
Sweet as the last smile of sunset. — Edwin Arnold
Our marriage is on the rocks- An example of a metaphor
I have been high on love for weeks- An example of a metaphor
I want to help you once again to use two or more of these similes to
describe the bride.
You can also use groom speech samples if you are really pressed for time as they will help you put down your exact thoughts. But, you just have to know how to use those samples you find.
Did I tell you we can help you come up with an amazingly brilliant groom speech that will make your family and even your wife proud of you so you can get head-swelling compliments?
Here’s what one nervous person called Glen sent over after the wedding was over.
Hey Dan, I just wanted to thank you once again for the speech you wrote with me. My goal was met afterward, I was told by many "what a beautiful speech" and received a standing ovation. I couldn't have done this without you. God Bless Dan!- Glen, U.S.A
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Ok, Is This Offer For Me?
- Yes, if you are expecting nothing less than a very special, beautiful, unique, and memorable speech.
- Yes, if you are overwhelmed by the pressures of work and don’t have the time to put together a very meaningful speech, so you can have peace of mind
- Yes, if you want your family, your wife, friends, and wedding guests to shower you with very sincere compliments…just imagine how you will feel
- Yes, if you are not good with words and really struggling to find the right words but still want to give a great speech.
- Yes, you get so scared anytime you’re asked to say something before an audience and you really want to save yourself from any form of embarrassment on your wedding day.
- Yes, if you are not too eloquent or not too sure if you are on the right track.
- Yes, if you absolutely hate speaking in public or feel this is not your thing but you want to make your wife feel very proud
- Yes, if you have a day or less to the wedding and you are worried that you might make some horrible mistakes
- Yes, if you are a good speaker but you still want someone to look over or review what you've come up with!
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Just imagine leaving your entire presentation in the hands of skilled wedding speech consultants who will take away your pain of spending hours thinking hard and long about what to say and what not to say.
Also, envision being patiently guided to say something that will leave a favorable impression on the mind of your listeners.
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Why? As you know, the current health and economic crisis have caused severe hardships for most people.
Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.
Yet, some couples are still getting married and giving speeches like never before.
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So, please take advantage of it now even if your big day is in the future.
Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video, and the bride, your friends and family, and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.
So, please take advantage of it now even if your big day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.
Oh Ok, How Then Do I Get Started Since I Want To Get On Board Right Away?
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All you have to do RIGHT NOW is to click on this link to receive an easy-to-fill-in questionnaire via email. Check your email a few hours after you’ve submitted your request for your questionnaire.
So,
- After that, we will send you a very short questionnaire to fill out via email! You only have to check your email a few hours after you have made your request.
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- Then, you look it over and tell us if you are okay with it or you want to amend or revise it till you are happy with it--although we always get it right even with the first draft
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Just a reminder of what you pay after it’s duly completed.
You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.
Why? As you know, the current health and economic crisis have caused severe hardships for most people.
Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.
Yet, some grooms are still getting married and have to say something about the bride.
Nonetheless, not everyone could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.
So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.
Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.
So, please take advantage of it now even if your big day is in the future.
Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video, and your wife, family and friends, and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.
So, please take advantage of it now even if your big day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.
Please note: Your speech draft comes with a proven and simple tip to master your speech or remember your speech just as you want it without carrying a paper with you.
Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise, and clarity!
''Hi Dan,
The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice). Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.
All the best,
Matt''
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Just see what someone said about that great tip that's proven to calm your nerves and help you speak with purpose, poise, and clarity!
''Hi Dan,
The speech went very well, I modified it a bit and practiced it as you suggested (great advice). Thanks for all your help and if I need a prepared speech again I’ll definitely contact you.
All the best,
Matt''
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