Father Of The Bride Speech: How To Write A Great Father of The Bride Wedding Toast For Your Daughter and Son-in-Law

Father of the Bride Speech: An Easy-To-Follow Approach To Writing A Great Speech Even If You Have Little Time To Spare

Many fathers of brides usually ask for help when they have a few days to their daughter's wedding ceremony.

Our research indicates that they do that at the last moment because they think that writing a great father of the bride speech doesn’t involve much time and effort.

Others too try to do it in their own way but get stuck when their ideas don’t follow in chronological order or they don't really like what they have written.

There are also some who are very busy and think they can wing it. Sometimes, we all become busy even in days leading to our daughters’ big day. It could be that you are engaged in one thing or the other and you don’t really have much time to put something together.

When you leave things till the last moment, the quality of your speech can be compromised and things might not go as planned.

Whatever the case might be, you shouldn't wing it unless you are a very talented speaker or you have a good story inside your mind.

Nevertheless, you can’t take your father of the bride's speech for granted if you really want to make your daughter and family proud. That’s why I have come up with this to help you write something you can be proud of even if you are as busy as a bee or you don't have the right words!

Here’s how to write your speech or toast quickly and easily.

You can start writing any part of the speech you find fairly easy.

Let’s say you have only 30 minutes to work out things each day right? Then this easy –to- follow piece can be your writing timetable. Tweak it to suit your own unique case if you so desire.

Study the chart below carefully as it is going to be like our compass for the remainder of the article.

Monday-- 30 minutes-- The toast
Tuesday-- 20 minutes-- The introduction
Wednesday-- 20 minutes-- Advice
Thursday-- 10 minutes-- Her childhood
Friday 30-- minutes-- Her Teenage Years, your wishes for them
Saturday-- 30 minutes-- Her achievements, work
ethics, something about the groom
Sunday-- 1 hour --Put all the parts together

Let me use this scenario to explain things. Let’s take Monday as an example.

The 30 minutes allotted to writing your toast on that day is all you have to spend on your message on that particular day. The purpose of this is three-fold. One, it helps you a lot if you are always on the go and you have less time to complete your speech.

Second, it takes out the stress of trying to do everything at once.

Third, it’s a great way of overcoming writer’s block since you won’t have to worry much about writing a speech all at once.

Sometimes, the ''old-fashioned approach'' of putting together your thoughts at a go can be very problematic and time-wasting if you don't have a way with words.

But by starting with any part of a speech you find convenient, you’ll not only save time but have ample time to write something from your heart. The above timetable is meant to serve as a guide. You can change it to suit you.

What To Do If You Still Can’t Get Ideas To Write

First, look at the introduction of any well-written speech and make some slight changes to it.

Make the body of the sample yours by changing a few words here and there. Replace the trait of the bride in that sample speech with your daughter’s. Then, you do the same for the groom.

Finally, make some changes to the toast too. Finally, look it over your speech one more time to correct some mistakes. However, make sure you are able to write your own unique speech using the examples you find.

How To Know If Your Speech Will Achieve Its Intended Purpose

Please keep your speech away in a safe spot for a day or two or a few hours depending on the time left for your wedding speech. After this time has passed, get back to it, and look over it and you will discover errors that slipped through the cracks when you first wrote it.

You can also read it out loud and see how it flows. But you might want to print it out if you’re really pressed for time or simply let your spouse look it over.

The First Draft Is Important

All great writing doesn’t look good the first time it’s written so don’t let that put a damper on things. You have to keep reviewing it till it is free from poor punctuation, spelling, and the like as it can change the meaning and tone of your speech.

Don’t forget to take off portions you think are not that relevant to your entire speech. Cut those parts that don’t add to the overall tone of your speech and don’t forget to tighten up loose sentences.

Vary your sentences to prevent them from becoming monotonous. For instance, beginning every sentence with the pronoun ''I'' in all of your paragraphs will make your speech lack the shine it deserves.

Keep It In A Secured Location

Once you assessed the speech, you need to keep it in a convenient place so you don’t misplace it. There’s nothing more frustrating than losing a speech you have poured your whole heart and mind into.

That can stress you out and affect your performance in the long run. So, keep it in a safe place so you can get it anytime you want.

P.S: Most dads of the bride use this....Have you considered it? Want to write and give a great wedding speech but can't seem to get started because you don't know the exact words to use?

Or not too sure if what you intend writing will be well received by the guests?

Let's help you make your daughter, wife, and family proud and let the wedding guests say great things about your speech.

Here’s what one nervous and skeptical dad called Glen sent over after the wedding was over

Hey Dan, I just wanted to thank you once again for the speech you wrote with me. My goal was met afterward, I was told by many "what a beautiful speech" and received a standing ovation. I couldn't have done this without you. God Bless Dan!- Glen, U.S.A

Want to know how he did just that? We helped him with his speech.

Want to get on board? You should by first filling out this short and simple form.

This is letter a dad sent us after we helped him deliver his speech(Please click on it to enlarge if you can't see it)

Ok, Is This Offer For Me?

Yes, if you are expecting nothing less than a very special, beautiful, unique and memorable speech.

Yes, if you are overwhelmed by the pressures of work and don’t have the time to put together a very meaningful speech, so you can have your peace of mind

Yes, if you want your family, children, friends and wedding guests to shower you with very sincere compliments…just imagine how you will feel

Yes, if you are not good with words and you feel you’re not a natural writer and you are struggling to find the right words but still want to give a great speech.

Yes, you get so scared anytime you’re asked to say something before an audience and you really want to save yourself from any form of embarrassment on your daughter’s big day.

Yes, if you are not too eloquent or not too sure if you are on the right track.

Yes, if you absolutely hate speaking in public or feel this is not your thing but you want to make your daughter feel very proud

Yes, if you have a day or less to the wedding and you are worried that you might make some horrible mistakes

Yes, if you are a good speaker but you still want someone to look over or review what you've come up with!

Wedding not too far away? Or happening in less than 24 hours? Trust me, we can deliver! it doesn’t matter if your speech is today, tomorrow, next week, next month ,next year,... we can make things work for you

Just imagine leaving your entire presentation in the hands of skilled wedding speech consultants who will take away your pain of spending hours thinking hard and long about what to say and what not to say.

This is another letter a dad sent to us when the wedding was over. (Please click on it to enlarge if you can't see it)

Also, envision being patiently guided to say something that will leave a favorable impression on the mind of your listeners.

And also imagine the thrill and feeling of excitement and pride you’re going to experience when the audience leap onto their feet and scream and shouts and even sing your praises.

Won’t you love that? I hope you do...

Ok, I am Interested, What’s the Cost?

You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.

Why? As you know, the current health and economic crisis has caused severe hardships for most people.

Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.

Yet, some daughters are still getting married and asking their fathers to give speeches.

Nonetheless, not every father could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.

So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.

Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.

So, please take advantage of it now even if your daughter’s big day is in the future.

Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video and your daughter and son-in-law and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.

So, please take advantage of it now even if your daughter’s big day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.

Oh Ok, How Then Do I Get Started Since I Want To Get On Board Right Away?

Ok, here’s how it works

All you have to do RIGHT NOW is to click on this link to receive an easy-to-fill-in questionnaire via email. Check your email a few hours after you’ve submitted your request for your questionnaire.

So,

1)CLICK HERE NOW TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT THIS QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind!

After that, we will send you a very short questionnaire to fill out via email! You only have to check your email a few hours after you have made your request

Then, you fill out the questionnaire sent through your email, and please have it sent back to us…

We will confirm receipt of it…If something is not too clear, we will ask you to clarify….

If not, we will send you a wonderful draft in a couple of hours if this on very short notice….If not, after a few days

Then, you look it over and tell us if you are okay with it or you want to amend or revise it till you are happy with it--although we always get it right even with the first draft.
Then, we ask you to pay for it.

Please note: The information collected through the questionnaire is only for the purpose of writing your speech. I wouldn’t even need it if I could read your mind. So, your information is very confidential and no one will know about it.

Just a reminder of what you pay after it’s duly completed. You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.