Father Of The Bride Speech Samples or Material

How Father of the Bride Speech Examples Can Help You To Write Brilliant Speeches

In order to find the right words for their daughter’s big day, many fathers resort to free speech samples to cure their writing anxieties, but

too often, they copy precisely any example they find and that’s very unfortunate.

You see, every example you’ll find online and in other places comes in a different voice and style; and just copying it word for word won't make your speech very unique.

If you want to praise your girl with graceful words but don't know how to do just that, don't worry because the secrets (used by successful wedding speakers) I am going to share with you will help you make the most out of any free father of the bride speeches you'll ever find.

Here’s What To Do With Those Free Speech Samples

As you look at those examples over and over, there is the natural tendency to swipe the content, structure, and style of the words you’ll find exactly. But you shouldn’t do that.

Here’s what to do instead

First, make time to study the content carefully. Give it a quick read. Then critically read through it a second time and possibly a third time.

Using your pen or highlighter, mark out portions that you find useful and you'd like to adapt for your own speech. Review it once again to identify how it was written.

As you do that, ask yourself if you can write something close to that or even better. That self-inquiry will ensure that great ideas come to you and you’ve got to write them down as soon as you get those brain waves else you will lose them. You will later need those thoughts when putting your words together. So never ever ignore them.

This Part Is So Vital

Style is another thing to look out before you begin to write.
Now, here’s how to create your own writing style. Have you ever read a book or seen a movie that made you sad, happy or even angry?

The feeling you had as you buried your head into that book or watched the motion picture comes because of the style the writer or producer used.

Now, let's see the different types of speech styles you can use.

The first is the narrative-which tells a story. The second is a funny speech. The third is an emotional piece and the last is a mixture of the three speech styles I just described which is preferred by most speakers.

Your preference will ultimately shape the direction your talk will go. The audience will enjoy your speech if your ideas are original and the good thing is that you can just alter sections of an example like this one to make it yours.

Don’t Forget To Do This One Thing Well

Another thing to look out for is the content. The subject matter of your speech samples should have three principal parts (the introductions, the body, and conclusion.)

So, always make time to critically review how those parts follow one another.

You’ll notice that the opening line of any brilliant speech has a short self-introduction, greeting, and expression of gratitude.

The opening remarks should not only be impressive but should also be engaging enough to make people want to listen to you.

Next is the body. That’s where the details of your daughter’s life reside but you shouldn't reveal lots of facts. Stick to the very fascinating points and leave out ideas that might embarrass her and your family.

That way, you won't ruin your daughter's day. Remember it's a joyous mood and you shouldn't let something bad slip from your tongue.

Avoid Talking About These Things If You Don’t Want To Ruin Her Day

Talking about how stubborn she was, her attitude to boys, and her past relationships is a no-go area.

The following points can give you some clues on how to write the body of your speech.

Stories about her growing up
Funny stories about her life
Her accomplishments
The qualities that will make her an amazing wife and mother
Also, weave into your message any advice you want to give

Say This About Your Future Son-In-Law

Write something nice about your son-in-law too. Things like how lucky he is to have your daughter’s hand. Tell him to take care of your daughter well and formally welcome him to be a part of your family.
The toast is last to come.

These ideas should help you write whatever you have on your mind.

Before we part company, we let’s see a father of the bride speech example and let's critique it so you can understand what I have been trying to say all this while.

Here you go:

Good evening (greet based on the time of the day) Ladies and gentlemen, my family is grateful for coming to support us. But let me ask you this.

How would you feel if you are told there is '' trouble'' at home after recording a sweet victory at a major sporting champion

(comment: many people don’t do this but asking questions is a sure-fire way of gaining the attention of the audience and bonding with them)

Minutes after receiving gold in the 1964 Olympics for being the best sprinter in the world, I had a phone call from my wife and it cut short my joy.

She told me she had gone for pre-natal care and she was told she might have to undergo surgery. That news broke my heart so I immediately flew back home.

(comment: Here, the speaker starts the body with a story and that's a perfect way to bond with any wedding audience.)

When I reached home, the sun was scorching and the atmosphere was dead silent. So I rang the bell and the gardener came to my aid. I quickly dashed to our bedroom to see my lovely wife.

''Are you okay honey?'', I asked nervously

''A bit '', she replied tearfully

She continued ''Honey I have a surprise for you.''
What’s it? ''It's in that white-painted room''

When I got to the other room I couldn’t believe what I saw. I screamed and my joy rebounded. I saw something swaddled in white cloth.

When I went to the bedside and removed the blanket, I saw Marilyn lying in a pink-painted crib looking so beautiful and cute. Small wonder pink is her favorite color but I wonder why she didn't wear something pink today (pause for laughter)....that might have been very odd, right?

Ok, back to the story. From one corner of the room to the other, i burst out singing like a rock star.

(comment: to make it interesting you have to play-act or dramatize your speech if you want it to sound impactful. For instance, if you're speaking like a woman, you have to assume a feminine voice or act as in the dialogue between husband and wife above. Again, the speaker could have sung that song)

Later, I went to my wife, took her by the hand and we rocked and rolled. She later confessed that he just tricked me(pause for laughter) so I could home early to see her and daughter because she was lovesick and lonely and she feared I might party hard and long with my teammates before coming back.

She later told me that she had Jennifer without any hitch. No surgery!

Jennifer, my daughter came to this earth miraculously and I'm not surprised her life has been full of miracles from childhood till now and I’m so happy my miraculous baby girl is tying the knot with Dan, a gentleman I admire and respect a lot.

P.S ---You know you owe it to your daughter and family to come up with an incredibly great and heartfelt speech? And do you know the wedding guests will judge you by the words you'll deliver?

Want to write and give a great wedding speech like the short father speech above but can't seem to get started because you don't know the exact words to use?

Or not too sure if what you intend writing will be well received by the guests?

Let's help you make your daughter, wife, and family proud and let the wedding guests say great things about your speech.

Here’s what one nervous and skeptical dad called Glen sent over after the wedding was over

Hey Dan, I just wanted to thank you once again for the speech you wrote with me. My goal was met afterward, I was told by many "what a beautiful speech" and received a standing ovation. I couldn't have did this without you. God Bless Dan!- Glen, U.S.A

Want to know how he did just that? We helped him with his speech.

Want to get on board? You should by first filling out this short and simple form.

This is letter a dad sent us after we helped him deliver his speech(Please click on it to enlarge if you can't see it)

Ok, Is This Offer For Me?

Yes, if you are expecting nothing less than a very special, beautiful, unique and memorable speech.

Yes, if you are overwhelmed by the pressures of work and don’t have the time to put together a very meaningful speech, so you can have your peace of mind

Yes, if you want your family, children, friends and wedding guests to shower you with very sincere compliments…just imagine how you will feel

Yes, if you are not good with words and you feel you’re not a natural writer and you are struggling to find the right words but still want to give a great speech.

Yes, you get so scared anytime you’re asked to say something before an audience and you really want to save yourself from any form of embarrassment on your daughter’s big day.

Yes, if you are not too eloquent or not too sure if you are on the right track.

Yes, if you absolutely hate speaking in public or feel this is not your thing but you want to make your daughter feel very proud

Yes, if you have a day or less to the wedding and you are worried that you might make some horrible mistakes

Yes, if you are a good speaker but you still want someone to look over or review what you've come up with!

Wedding not too far away? Or happening in less than 24 hours? Trust me, we can deliver! it doesn’t matter if your speech is today, tomorrow, next week, next month ,next year,... we can make things work for you

Just imagine leaving your entire presentation in the hands of skilled wedding speech consultants who will take away your pain of spending hours thinking hard and long about what to say and what not to say.

This is another letter a dad sent to us when the wedding was over. (Please click on it to enlarge if you can't see it)

Also, envision being patiently guided to say something that will leave a favorable impression on the mind of your listeners.

And also imagine the thrill and feeling of excitement and pride you’re going to experience when the audience leap onto their feet and scream and shouts and even sing your praises.

Won’t you love that? I hope you do...

Ok, I am Interested, What’s the Cost?

You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.

Why? As you know, the current health and economic crisis has caused severe hardships for most people.

Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.

Yet, some daughters are still getting married and asking their fathers to give speeches.

Nonetheless, not every father could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.

So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.

Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.

So, please take advantage of it now even if your daughter’s big day is in the future.

Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video and your daughter and son-in-law and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.

So, please take advantage of it now even if your daughter’s big day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.

Oh Ok, How Then Do I Get Started Since I Want To Get On Board Right Away?

Ok, here’s how it works

All you have to do RIGHT NOW is to click on this link to receive an easy-to-fill-in questionnaire via email. Check your email a few hours after you’ve submitted your request for your questionnaire.

So,

1)CLICK HERE NOW TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT THIS QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind!

After that, we will send you a very short questionnaire to fill out via email! You only have to check your email a few hours after you have made your request

Then, you fill out the questionnaire sent through your email, and please have it sent back to us…

We will confirm receipt of it…If something is not too clear, we will ask you to clarify….

If not, we will send you a wonderful draft in a couple of hours if this on very short notice….If not, after a few days

Then, you look it over and tell us if you are okay with it or you want to amend or revise it till you are happy with it--although we always get it right even with the first draft.
Then, we ask you to pay for it.

Please note: The information collected through the questionnaire is only for the purpose of writing your speech. I wouldn’t even need it if I could read your mind. So, your information is very confidential and no one will know about it.

Just a reminder of what you pay after it’s duly completed. You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.