Father Of The Bride Speech Samples: How To Use Father Of The Bride Speech Examples To Come Up With An Amazing Speech For Your Daughter

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How father of the bride speech samples can help you to easily and quickly write a beautiful speech for your daughter on her wedding day even if you don't know what to say

The following tips and ideas are guaranteed to help you put down your exact thoughts and emotions into beautiful words so you can make your daughter feel so proud.

Samuel John, a philosopher was right when he said that a father’s love is an ancient treasure. But his message could have been more profound if he had said that a father's word is the light that illuminates his children’s heart.

Sam’s quote brings to the mind the words father's use on their daughter’s big day. As a dad, there are many heartwarming gifts you can give your daughter as she ties the knot with the man of her dreams.

But, I think you’ll agree with me when I say that your words are the best giftS you can ever give your precious daughter because they can go a long way towards helping her become a fantastic wife and mom.

Even though most dads dream of giving the best father of the bride speeches, a lot of dads do that because they don’t know how to get the right words and ideas, let alone put down their exact thoughts and emotions together to create a speech that will make their daughters feel so proud.

Well, if you find yourself having to write down something heartfelt or you even have an idea of what to say, but not too sure how to go about it, don’t worry.

By God’s grace, I have been writing speeches for dads all over the world, and I will be happy to share with you how you too can effortlessly write something short, sweet, and unique without beating your brains out.

Before we do, I want you to get this fact right since it’s the bedrock of your success.

Why Most Dads Might Fail To Make It And What To Do Instead

What plagues most dads when they write to me is how to put up splendid performances without embarrassing their daughters.

Well, I totally understand their concerns and fears and I always do my best to help those I can. I can only attribute their fear of failure to

Fear of the unknown
Fear of past failures coming back to haunt them

You might a little nervous because of those reasons and more. It gets particularly daunting if you’re someone who hates speaking before a crowd or you know deep down in your heart that your performance at your child's wedding or birthday party sometime back wasn’t so impressive.

Can you please forget about all that and let your sense of optimism shine through this instead? I believe you’re destined for success so just ignore that little nagging voice that seems to spook you.

Now, Here’s The Proven Tool I Use All the Time and I Recommend You Use It Too

Father of the bride speech samples has proven over and over again to be the antidote to all your speech worries.

And guess what they do? They help get rid of the guesswork and the worries that are associated with saying something touching about your daughter.

However, if you don’t use it well, it can be a real drawback. I have seen so many father's misuse them poorly that they wished they used them verbatim to help express their deepest desires of their heart.

Now, Here’s How to Use Them Well, So You Can Make Your Daughter Proud

First, get some proven or well-written speech samples like this one and study them over and over again to get a feel of their structure, theme, and tone.

There are many of those examples online but I found out that great videos are really helpful if you need some dose of inspiration.

I sometimes watch them before jotting down my ideas. So this is what I recommend you do before writing

please go get your pen and a writing pad
Next press the play button of the videos below and jot down ideas, words, and phrases you feel you can use for your own script.

Father of the bride speech sample video#1

Father of the bride speech sample video#2

How About This One?

That's not all...The written word should complement videos like a good husband and wife. So, there are times I read short speeches like this brief example to get my creative juices flowing.

Well, you can read this short example below and also see if you can find some great ideas in there. This is a rather short father of the bride speech.

For those of you who don’t know me or yet to met this loquacious old man, then you are missing out on something because they say I love to talk.

Well, I am Mike a.k.a The Man with the white beard. I don’t know where that name came from though. But I understand that when I was a teenager, I love the shape of my first moustache that my parents nicknamed me Mr. Moustache. When I became a man, friends thought I looked with that beard so they nnicknamed me The Man with the white beard.

What do you expect when you are lucky to come from a fun-loving family like mine?

Now, let me talk about my little girlfriend Sandy. Sandy was like a side chick. We were very close and she loved coloring. She was never one to color within the lines. She made it a point to color outside the lines as well.

She developed a love for animals at a young age. Animals mostly dog and cats seem to respond very favorably to her. I can still remember her marrying her cats and dogs in our backyard and asking them to recite them their vows while cheering them on.

Sandy could walk miles without breaking a sweat as though she was a robot. On one occasion she disappeared from home when she was about 5 years old. We had the police combing the neighborhood doing a search. She finally heard me calling out for her. I said “where are you”…she said... ''I’m sleeping in my

Dollhouse...You don't have to worry about me''

She had fallen asleep in her dollhouse while we were totally drenched in sweat. Sandy didn’t like to be told she couldn’t do something or she would be unable to. She took on those instances as a challenge to prove to herself she could.

She was not one to back down from a challenge. A competitive edge she gets from her mom.

It’s so amazing how time flies and it was just like yesterday she held my hands and said, Dad you would always be my number one. She means the world to me. But when I saw her with Mike, I knew it was only a matter of time.

And how right I was. Now, they are. Mike is a great guy. He’s fun to be around. She makes my daughter happy and I couldn’t be happier to call him my son.

They are both driven and I am confident that both of them will draw the strength and love and inspiration they need to love each other. God bless you and keep you until the end of time.

Please turn off your cell phone, P.C, or anything that is likely to distract you and look at the above example again.

Now, grab a pen and give it a second or even a third look, and identify how it was written and also put down any idea that comes to you. A final observation will not be a bad idea at all.

Afterward, get a theme for your own speech. The theme is basically what your delivery will be all about.

I have written speeches on themes like achievement, love, and compassion for others.

While most dads don’t mind asking me to add feats chalked by their daughters (scholarly or sports), they always ask me to share their beautiful qualities like:

Love and compassion
Perseverance and persistence
Fun and hilarity
Making a difference in the life of others
Being there for the family at all times

So, cast your mind back to what the years have been like and write down what really makes your daughter a unique person.

How To Put Your Thoughts Together To Form A Beautiful Speech

Having listed as many points as you can plus some stories about your daughter, you can start writing your wedding speech for your daughter.

Just write whatever is on your mind without worrying about the flow because you can always go back to re-frame your thoughts or even clean it up .

Deciding to make your speech long or short depends on your storyline but make sure it’s interesting and that your speech doesn’t go beyond the allotted time unless it's very entertaining.

A Few Key Points (Below) To Note As You Put Your Words Together

As you work on your speech, you have to write it in your own voice or style without borrowing from the example you have got. Again, your choice of words should be a reflection of your personal demeanor and not based on sentimentalism or on the opinion of others.

No matter how eloquent you are or your intellectual capabilities, you shouldn’t use big words in such endeavors as they break the rhythm, flow, and understanding of your father of the bride speech.

Use simple and easy to understand phrases and words and your audience will enjoy every bit of it.

Follow This Order Unless You Are A Genius

Next is the structure of your script. The structure is made up of the intro, heading and conclusion.

The introduction should re-iterate who you are and your relationship to the happy couple. It is also a fine opportunity to flatter the audience and to thank them for participating in the wedding celebration.

By the way, here’s an another example of a well-written introduction by a great king that's worth reading.

Today, many people are so much concerned about the future of today’s world but the message of this celebration in this room and far beyond is the right one – this is a joyful day!

It is good that my family and you -lovely guests - are able to share in these celebrations because this is, as every wedding day should be, a day of hope, a day of warmth and, a day of strength when you know that many people have come from far and near to make it memorable.

In a sense, every wedding is a royal wedding with the bride and groom as a king and queen of God’s creation, and you as witnesses. Good evening, Ladies and Gentlemen. I am Mike, Amanda’s dad and Jerry’s father-in-law.

(Now pause here and read that sample once more and ask yourself if you can write something similar or better... I am sure you can )

Have you seen how the speaker succeeds in grabbing the attention of the wedding guests even before he tells them who he is? (comment: what you write should be close to that, if not better)

The body is the part that hooks the audience and paints a picture in their mind’s eye when she was growing up.

Here’s what to include in this part and what not to include here (We will cover an example later)

How your daughter was when growing up
Share memorable events or funny memories
Pay a tribute to her mom or anyone who helped in her upbringing.
It is also important to say some kind words about her siblings if they helped
How you felt when she told you about your son-in-law
Welcome your son-in-law formally into your family and share some marital advice
Refrain from commenting on her previous love life
Express your hope for this marriage
Always end with a toast to the happy couple

Now, let me be kind enough and show the body of a father of the bride's speech sample since I love examples.

Please feel free to borrow from this father's speech sample or simply tweak it a bit to make it your own. The example below is part of the great king's introductory remarks.

A Very Short Father Of The Bride Speech

The promise you've made to each other today reminds me of what my dad told me about the wedding ring some 30 years before I got married to Amanda.

He told me to always look at my ring when times get tough for they will remind me of my never-ending love.

Over the years, I have seen what he told me unfold before my very eyes. But through it all, we've been there for each other.

Victoria, Dan, listen to my words and they will heal you like the balm of Gilead.

In your walk together, you'll experience pain. You'll laugh sometimes and you'll face the pressures of life too.

But if you look beyond the cares and burdens of this world, and look to each other for support, your love will burn brighter. This is the meaning of your vows fulfilled and your lives made richer and prosperous.

(Comments: there are many ways to write the body of your father of the bride speech and adding a piece of advice at the end is just a step in the right direction)

Dan, my son in law, we most heartily welcome you into our family and we congratulate you on your choice of spouse. You are very blessed to have Victoria.

(comments: your speech should formally invite your son-in-law to your family so you need to add it to what you will write too)

P.S ---As the father of the bride, it's mandatory that you come up with an incredibly great speech that will make your daughter and family proud of you.

And you can't afford to let her down. That's why I have great news for you today. By getting help you can give the best speech of the day with poise and confidence.

Here’s what one nervous and skeptical dad called Glen(joined the program) sent over after the wedding was over

''Hey Dan, I just wanted to thank you once again for the speech you wrote with me. My goal was met afterward, I was told by many "what a beautiful speech" and received a standing ovation. I couldn't have done this without you. God Bless Dan!-'' Glen, U.S.A

Want to know how he did just that? We helped him with his speech.

Want to get on board? You should by first filling out this short and simple form.

This is letter a dad sent us after we helped him deliver his speech(Please click on it to enlarge if you can't see it)

Ok, Is This Offer For Me?

Yes, if you are expecting nothing less than a very special, beautiful, unique and memorable speech.

Yes, if you are overwhelmed by the pressures of work and don’t have the time to put together a very meaningful speech, so you can have your peace of mind

Yes, if you want your family, children, friends and wedding guests to shower you with very sincere compliments…just imagine how you will feel

Yes, if you are not good with words and you feel you’re not a natural writer and you are struggling to find the right words but still want to give a great speech.

Yes, you get so scared anytime you’re asked to say something before an audience and you really want to save yourself from any form of embarrassment on your daughter’s big day.

Yes, if you are not too eloquent or not too sure if you are on the right track.

Yes, if you absolutely hate speaking in public or feel this is not your thing but you want to make your daughter feel very proud

Yes, if you have a day or less to the wedding and you are worried that you might make some horrible mistakes

Yes, if you are a good speaker but you still want someone to look over or review what you've come up with!

Wedding not too far away? Or happening in less than 24 hours? Trust me, we can deliver! it doesn’t matter if your speech is today, tomorrow, next week, next month ,next year,... we can make things work for you

Just imagine leaving your entire presentation in the hands of skilled wedding speech consultants who will take away your pain of spending hours thinking hard and long about what to say and what not to say.

This is another letter a dad sent to us when the wedding was over. (Please click on it to enlarge if you can't see it)

Also, envision being patiently guided to say something that will leave a favorable impression on the mind of your listeners.

And also imagine the thrill and feeling of excitement and pride you’re going to experience when the audience leap onto their feet and scream and shouts and even sing your praises.

Won’t you love that? I hope you do...

Ok, I am Interested, What’s the Cost?

You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.

Why? As you know, the current health and economic crisis has caused severe hardships for most people.

Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.

Yet, some daughters are still getting married and asking their fathers to give speeches.

Nonetheless, not every father could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.

So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.

Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.

So, please take advantage of it now even if your daughter’s big day is in the future.

Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video and your daughter and son-in-law and other viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.

So, please take advantage of it now even if your daughter’s big day is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.

Oh Ok, How Then Do I Get Started Since I Want To Get On Board Right Away?

Ok, here’s how it works

All you have to do RIGHT NOW is to click on this link to receive an easy-to-fill-in questionnaire via email. Check your email a few hours after you’ve submitted your request for your questionnaire.

So,

1)CLICK HERE NOW TO GET STARTED NOW TO GET YOUR GREAT SPEECH NOW BY FILLING OUT THIS QUESTIONNAIRE---you only pay after your beautiful speech has been delivered. So, you can have peace of mind!

After that, we will send you a very short questionnaire to fill out via email! You only have to check your email a few hours after you have made your request

Then, you fill out the questionnaire sent through your email, and please have it sent back to us…

We will confirm receipt of it…If something is not too clear, we will ask you to clarify….

If not, we will send you a wonderful draft in a couple of hours if this on very short notice….If not, after a few days

Then, you look it over and tell us if you are okay with it or you want to amend or revise it till you are happy with it--although we always get it right even with the first draft.
Then, we ask you to pay for it.

Please note: The information collected through the questionnaire is only for the purpose of writing your speech. I wouldn’t even need it if I could read your mind. So, your information is very confidential and no one will know about it.

Just a reminder of what you pay after it’s duly completed. You simply pay what you want after you’ve got your beautiful speech.