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Sample Wedding Anniversary Speech Samples or Examples For Your Sister

 

Did You Remember This?


Last time, we looked at how and where to get ideas to help you write a beautiful wedding anniversary speech for your sister.
One of the tools we kept referring to was speech samples.


I remember writing that those examples were important if you really want to come up with something unique because you are able to write a beautiful speech by changing a few words here and there.


In that piece, I showed you a very short sample and how you can use it to write something great.
However, I didn’t go in details about that piece was written.

 

Today, I want to do you a quick favor by bringing on a board another wedding or marriage anniversary speech sample you can simply look at and make a few changes so it becomes yours.


Not only that, we will take each portion of the speech and try to get into the writers mind and see why she decided to use certain words and phrases as we march along.


So, please take your pen and paper and come along with me. Ready? Let us get started right away.
Oh sorry, I forgot one thing. I guess it is not too late to bring it up anyway.



Choose A Style That Fits Your Personality

 

Before you put your ideas and thoughts together into a beautiful speech, you have to first decide on the style to go for.

There are various styles to choose from anyway. You can decide to make your speech very funny. Very poetic. You can make it a simple narrative or being sentimental or even spiritual. It is also possible to combine two or more styles.

I usually see most speakers merging the funny and sentimental styles. Those who have a good voice sometimes decide to write a very short piece and just sing it.


Whatever style you go for, should something that reflect your own personality and voice.
For example, if you are a naturally funny person, then, you can decide to make your piece hilarious.

 

By the way, you have to decide as I cannot ask you to go for my style, which is usually a mixture of hilarity and sentimentality.

 

Is This The Greatest Ever?

 

With that in mind, let us see the start of our example


''Has it ever occurred to you that celebrating a wedding anniversary is like flicking through a photo album? It is a day for remembering old friends and shared occasions.


Tonight one of the photos in that album of memories is a wedding photo. Tonight we are celebrating that wedding of Mary and John and their years together since that special day.


So we are celebrating commitment, love and loyalty. We are celebrating the marriage of a couple who believed in being true to their wedding vows.


We are celebrating how two totally different people became a unit while still retaining their individuality. We are definitely celebrating the attraction of opposites.''


You may not agree with me, but this narrative is by far one the brilliant pieces I have ever seen anywhere.
It is one that piece that is very creative and as a speech writer myself, there are many things am learning from it even as I write.


Do you know why I said so? You see, most people would have simply used the words: '' I remember….''
But not this writer. Did you notice how he started it all?


''Has it ever occurred to you that celebrating a wedding anniversary is like flicking through a photo album? It is a day for remembering old friends and shared occasions.


Tonight one of the photos in that album of memories is a wedding photo. Tonight we are celebrating that wedding of Mary and John and their years together since that special day.''


Have you ever been to a wedding where the speaker has made this similar approach? You realize that she asks a question.

Please see it again here: ''Has it ever occurred to you that celebrating a wedding anniversary is like flicking through a photo album?''
Asking the wedding guests a question is undoubtedly one way of getting their attention and making them bond with you and I really salute her for her brilliance and courage.

 

Use This And They Will Love You Forever

 

Though a masterpiece, I wanted her to begin her speech by doing a short self-introduction and its components include telling everyone your name, your relationship to the addresses, and proceed to thank them for coming to support your sister and your brother-in-law.
Having done that, you can use the following ideas to give an attention-grabbing opener.


You can start with a joke.


You can also start with a quote on love.


You can also start with a quote about friendship or simply look up the search term: sister quotes


You can also use a personal narrative and use it to support your story line.


You can also use imaginary stories, but you have got to tie the message to your content anyway, so it makes sense.


Okay, I want to make things easier, so let me use a quote on sisters to craft a simple sister wedding anniversary speech for your sister.
By the way, the following are quotes about sisters you can use.


''I have a wonderful shelter, which is my family. I have a wonderful relationship with my brother and sister; this makes me feel that I know always where I belong.''--- Jose Carreras

 

''For there is no friend like a sister in calm or stormy weather; To cheer one on the tedious way, to fetch one if one goes astray, to lift one if one totters down, to strengthen whilst one stands.''--- Christina Rossetti

 

''As I grew up, one of my strongest allies has been my sister.''--- Patti Smith

 

''If you have a brother or sister, tell them you love them every day - that's the most beautiful thing. I told my sister how much I loved her every day. That's the only reason I'm OK right now.'' --- Amaury Nolasco

 

''I always like to win. But I'm the big sister. I want to make sure she has everything, even if I don't have anything. It's hard. I love her too much. That's what counts.''--- Venus Williams

 

Now let us use Christina Rossetti’s quote and Patti Smith’s quote to get something short written.

''As I grew up, one of my strongest allies has been my sister.''--- Patti Smith

And

''For there is no friend like a sister in calm or stormy weather; To cheer one on the tedious way, to fetch one if one goes astray, to lift one if one totters down, to strengthen whilst one stands.''--- Christina Rossetti

 

A Very Short Example Just For You

 

''Growing up, Mary was my trusted confident and strongest ally. There has been no like her in both calm and stormy weather. She cheered me up when I lost my own husband and she’s been like my moral compass. She taught me to be selfless and love people because she believed we are all brothers and sisters from different parents. She believed that God was our parent and his rich blow flows through each one of us.
I know Mike is so blessed to have married such a wonderful person.''


Do you see how we used the lines: ''strongest ally'' and ''calm or stormy weather'' to connect what was on my mind?

 

Now, let us continue with our speech sample.

 

''Mary and John, you see, are two separate people with different ideas. They share the same values, of course, but they each have their own outlook and characteristics.


Mary, like many wives, wonders why John cannot simply ask somebody for directions when he is lost instead of driving around in circles.
John, like most husbands cannot understand why his wife takes such a long time to buy a dress.
So over the years they have learned to be tolerant of each other.

 

Mary has got used to taking the scenic route and John brings a good book with him when Mary goes shopping. Alternatively he bribes a female friend to go with her.''

 

Do You Know Your Speech Has Wings?

 

After you have got down to the body, you have to address your sister and brother-in-law separately as you see right here.
You can also address them both.

 

In case, you decide to do that, you have to tell a story and that tale should be centered on their lives.
Here, you talk about how their relationship has evolved. Probably, you can talk about how the trials and tribulations they have gone through, and how they overcame those crises.

 

I always advise people to do that because you have to use your speech as therapeutic or healing tool.
There are some couple who will be at the wedding anniversary and may be going through tough times like your sister and brother did,
and if you do share their story, you are going to inspire hurting couples to still hold on a little longer till they experienced miracles in their marriage.


Enough said. Let us go on to see the writer’s next lines.


'' Marriage, you see, is about tolerance. It's about a shared sense of humor.
In a hard world it needs to have a network of family and friends to support it.

Today, I know Mary and John are delighted too that you are here with them to share this special occasion. We, on the other hand, are delighted to be here to wish them well on their anniversary.
Their marriage has had its trials and tribulations of course. It has also had its golden moments.

There have been births and birthdays. There have been triumphs and disasters but over all the years John and Mary clung together and survived it all.


I have no doubt but that they have cried and wiped each others' tears. I know for a fact that they have laughed long and often and that, I think, is the secret of their happy marriage.''


Oh my God, I love this piece. It seems like we sat down to write his speech together as we are thinking alike.
These lines:

Their marriage has had its trials and tribulations of course. It has also had its golden moments.
There have been births and birthdays. There have been triumphs and disasters but over all the years John and Mary clung together and survived it all.


I have no doubt but that they have cried and wiped each others' tears
Captured what I told you about: the importance of making your speech very inspirational.

 

Wrap It Up With These Ideas

 

Finally, you begin to conclude by telling your friends and family why they are a special couple as you can see below

''Mary and John are very special people. They always have time for others. They are generous to a fault and they have an open door policy when it comes to family and friends.


In fact they are wonderful parents, marvelous family members and the best friends anyone could have.
So tonight we are gathered to thank them for what they have meant to us over the years. Tonight we want to wish them many more years of happiness together. ''


Don’t forget to wish them well in the coming years and tell them how you desire that their marriage will be an excellent model.
You can use the medium of prayer, reciting a poem or chanting a psalm or simply expressing your wishes by writing a poem and using it as your toast as you see here


'' In fact ladies and gentlemen (or family and friends) I think you will all agree that a toast is in order. So please raise your glasses in a toast to a couple whose marriage was definitely the prototype for marriages made in Heaven. Mary and John!

We've gathered today to tell you
Just how much you mean to us
That's why we've sent you those greetings
And that's why we are making a fuss
It's great to see two people

As happy as you two are
In a sad world we're lucky that

Your marriage is our guiding star.
So now I say to you well done

You've shown wedlock can be fun
Demonstrated what a marriage should be
And I know the guests agree with me

That as a couple you deserve more than most ‘’
Our best wishes and a happy anniversary toast.

 That, in essence, is how to make use of wedding anniversary speech samples to writing an awesome speech for your sister.
And I think you can write one without trying so hard right?

 


Wedding (Marriage) Anniversary Speech For Sister


Ideas and tips as well as wedding anniversary speech samples to effortlessly help you write a beautiful speech for your sister

 

How Did She Make It?

 

Let me ask you this simple question: How many years have your sister been married?
And are you married yourself or you have yet to find your soul mate?

If have yet to, don’t worry, you are surely going to get a helpful soul mate soon. I will be praying for you so you find someone who loves and have you at heart.

 

If you answered yes to the first question, then I want to know how marriage is like? Not too easy right?
Well, by the grace of God, your loving sister will be celebrating her marriage anniversary very soon and I know she is asked you to say something sweet on that beautiful day.

 

I know you are dreaming of giving a great speech. However, you need to get some good words and ideas to help you write your message and that’s why I want to help you write your speech like a pro, without trying so hard.

 

This Is All You Have To Do

 

But, first please take this from me as it’s the first step to putting your house in order.

Having a positive mental attitude is the first thing you have to do if you really want to say what is on your heart with flair and confidence.


Sadly though, most people have this weird mindset about speaking in public and I think if you have that mental disposition too, then you better get rid of it by all means.


The truth of the matter is that you don’t need any special public speaking skills or writing skills to write so well.

 

You can call the shots when you make up your mind to succeed no matter what you feel about the honorable task ahead.
Probably, you failed to perform way back in school or in the office when you were asked to speak before your classmates or your co- employees, and you are wondering if you are going to fail this time again.

 


No, you won’t if you believe you can do so well on this special occasion.

 


All you have to do is to hold a mental image of yourself addressing the audience constantly as this mental exercise will keep your fears at bay, calm your nerves, and boost your ego and self-confidence.
That, in essence, is the first step to a victorious performance.

 


How To Get Great Ideas


Having said that, let us now see how and where to get other ideas.

First, get true and fake stories to support your speech. Funny stories about your sister as well as humorous comments you have said or discussions you both have had can be worked into your speech.

 

Add Stories To The Mix

 

You can you infuse true love stories too. But, make sure your message is in consonance with the theme of your message.

 

Pick A Style

 

In doing that, you have to decide on the kind of style you want to use for your wedding anniversary speech for your sister. Narrative, funny, song-like speech or a poetic piece are styles to choose from.

 


Go For Marriage Jokes


Next, you have to use marriage jokes or quotes to help add a bit of freshness to your speech.
But, please make sure you use them creatively to give your speech a unique touch.

Here a few quotes on love and marriage you can use

''A great marriage is not when the ‘perfect couple’ comes together. It is when an imperfect couple learns to enjoy their differences ''- Dave Meurer


''I love you, not only for what you are, but for what I am when I am with you. I love you, not only for what you have made of yourself but for what you are making of me.'' Roy Croft

''Whatever our souls are made of, his and mine are the same.''- Wuthering Heights


''To love and be loved is to feel the sun from both sides.''- David Viscott


''Love me and the world is mine.''- David Reed


''You know you’re in love when you don’t want to fall asleep because reality is finally better than your dreams.''- Dr. Seuss

''A happy marriage is a long conversation which always seems too short.''- Andre Maurois


''What lies behind us, and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us.''- Ralph Waldo Emerson

''Faith makes all things possible. Love makes all things easy.'' Dwight Moody


''There is no greater happiness for a man than approaching a door at the end of a day knowing someone on the other side of that door is waiting for the sound of his footsteps.''- Ronald Reagan


''You don’t marry one person; you marry three: the person you think they are, the person they are, and the person they are going to become as a result of being married to you.''- Richard Needham


Now, let’s pick this quote and see if we can do something with them by way of writing a very short anniversary speech for your sister.

I will go for

''There is no greater happiness for a man than approaching a door at the end of a day knowing someone on the other side of that door is waiting for the sound of his footsteps.''- Ronald Reagan

And

''You don’t marry one person; you marry three: the person you think they are, the person they are, and the person they are going to become as a result of being married to you.''- Richard Needham

Here’s our example:


When Mary first got married, our dad said something very deep that has remained with me for a very long time. I remember on Mary’s wedding when he grabbed the mic , he said in marriage, you marry three persons, not one.

You marry the person you think they are, the person they are and the person they are going to be.
I didn’t really understand what our dad said but as this day fast approached, I began to think through those lines.

I have seen dad’s come to pass in ways that baffles me. You see, before Dan married Mary, she was such a caring, loving and responsible lady who had a deep sense of compassion.

It’s being 25 years since they tied the knot, and I know how deeply loving she has become because she met an equally loving partner who loves her with all his strength and energy.


Do you see realize how we use these lines: and the person they are going to become as a result of being married to you.” to craft our speech without mentioning the author’s name?


That, in, effect is how to make someone’s quote yours.

 

Add Music To Your Message


Do you love songs? I know we all do and did you know love or marriage songs can help you write your speech? Sit, and reflect on your favorite love songs and see if the lyrics will be okay for what you want to say.

 

Use Jokes


Funny jokes like you see here can also help you. So, feel free to enrich your presentation with any of them. May I remind you that you have to make sure that whatever you decide to go for is in line with the theme of your message overall.

 

What About Seeing Videos?


I know you might not have the time to watch a two-three hour movie,
but if you can watch excerpts of wedding movies on any of those video sharing platforms or look them up in the search engines, then you can get a pen and paper hand to record ideas that pops in your mind as you watch those movies.

 

How About This Message?

 

Have you also thought about using your maid of honor speech or a similar wedding speech you have ever given for this wedding anniversary speech for your sister? If you still have those speeches, that’s great because you can borrow a few lines from that script to enhance your presentation.

 

Just See This Sample Or Example, And Your Troubles Will Be Gone For Good

 


Finally, if you are at a complete loss and don’t know what to do, just see wedding anniversary speech samples for your sister.
If you get a good sample like this one, it can help a lot because you can just borrow from here and there and tweak the words and phrases and style you find in that sample to make it yours.

 


That way, your speech will be unique and no one will look down on you.
What’s more, you can simply look it over and over and simply add or modify or infuse to make the wedding anniversary speech for your sister your own.


Here’s an example by Gilian


Brian, you are one lucky guy to get to be Gill’s husband. I know this because I got to be her pseudo-husband when Gill and I lived together in San Francisco during your first deployment.

 

She and I would make nachos and watch our favorite TV shows every week, go grocery shopping together, and even be each other’s date for weddings. (Sorry, that’s why she tries to lead now every time you two dance.)


When she moved away, I missed my partner in crime like crazy. I used to burst into tears every time I walked past her bedroom door.


The only thing that made it easier was knowing that you two were happy. Plus, I bought a spinning wheel and a few dozen cats to keep me company until I met Darren.


Gill, I can’t believe that you’re all growns up. I can’t tell you how much you mean to me, and how happy I am that you’ve found the perfect guy for you.


I can’t wait until we live in the same place again.


Brian, I know you appreciate Gill as much as I do, and you’ll be as good a husband to her as I was. Welcome to the family. You fit right in, and we love you already.


Now, everyone, please raise your glasses for a toast. Baby Sis, and my new Little Bro, may your lives continue to be better together. Cheers!


Now, let’s attempt to make Gilians’ words our own by tweaking it a bit.


Dan, you are one lucky guy to get to be Gill’s husband.


I know this because she loves you so much and everyone in the family loves you too.
I got to be her pseudo-husband when we both lived together in New York during your first deployment.
When you became part of her life, my role ceased and yours began in earnest. And I saw you play the role of a responsible husband.

 

I was not married at the time, and every night, I would curl up in bed and look at our photos and miss her sorely.
But, I was content because she was in your safe, loving arms.


Gill, I can’t believe that you’re all grown up. I can’t tell you how much you mean to me, and how happy I am that you’ve found the perfect guy for you.


There are more years ahead of you to love each other like never before. And always love each other as if you had just a minute left to depart the earth.


Did you see, how I used Gilians' words to write something up? That’s how to use samples and I am sure by now you too can write a great wedding or marriage anniversary speech for your beautiful sister.