Don't Go For Bride Speech Examples Until You Have Read This!
You certainly owe your husband, family and friends a memorable bride speech right?
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To ensure you come up with one, you need to invest in bride speech samples. It is mandatory because they take away the pressure of not knowing what to write.
Plus, they have several ideas that take away the guesswork and worry that comes with having to write a memorable message.
Here at Standing Ovation Wedding Speeches, we have seen over and over again, mistakes many brides make regarding their usage and we're here to help you discover how to use them correctly.
It's for this reason that
First, a lot of brides copy the ideas and the examples as they find in such speeches without really knowing the steps involved in scripting it.
To really extract the ’’gems’’ out of a bride speech example, you first need to study it carefully.
This means that you should dedicate enough time to it; so you are not distracted by other things on your to- do list.
For example, you could study it at a dawn, very early in the morning or at anytime you are mentally alert.
How To Use Them To Achieve Your Goals
Then, grab your pen and carefully read through it a second and may be a third time and put down ideas you find interesting and would like to use for your won speech.
There are two things to take note of: your foremost observation should be the style and the second should be the structure of your speech.
The style is the voice of the bride speech sample you have been studying all along. Lots of brides mistakenly copy and paste examples they find without tweaking it to suit their personalities and styles and that’s just wrong.
To avoid this, you have to choose a style that you will be comfortable doing.
For instance, if you are a hilarious figure, then a hilarious speech will be best for you .Other styles include the narrative (story telling), sentimental or a fusion of all styles.
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Another thing is the theme. The theme is usually what the subject matter of your bride speech is all about.
You can write about how your relationship has evolved through turbulent times and the lessons you have learned for example.
The next thing is the structure. The structure essentially comprises of: the introduction, body, and the conclusion (toast).
Your introduction should capture the attention of the audience and make them feel like they are in the cinema watching the thriller-Titanic. You shouldn’t leave it to chance. It’s like meeting a guy on a date for the first time. You will do everything to impress him and he will also do everything to win your heart.
I cannot overemphasize how important a great opening is.
Do a short self presentation as part of the introduction because not everyone probably knows who you are and don’t forget to greet the audience and say some nice words about them.
Thank the previous speakers and do say something nice about their wedding speeches.
The opening lines of your groom speech have the power to break the ice and relieve you from nervous tension if it's done well.
The body is the part everyone will be anxiously waiting for and you should make it exciting. To make it very memorable, you can relate a story about your relationship you think the guests will be happy to hear. An exciting one of course!
It may have the following key elements if you want it to remain on the minds of the guests for a long time.
- Where and how you met
- Who hooked you up and what the experience was like the first time you met.
- Let the audience know what you were looking for in a husband.
- Never mention previous relationships. You will be only be embarrassing yourself if you do so.
- State how your association has remolded you as a lady. Don’t forget to thank your mom, dad and your family for helping you to become the person you are today.
- Comment on how handsome your husband looks
- Share your optimism and plans for your future.
- Thank the maid of honor, best man, florists, preacher, and so on. Be specific with the kind of help you received from them and avoid generalizations.
- End it all by proposing a toast to the bridesmaid. You may also toast to your parents.
My dear lady, that’s exactly how to make use of bride speech samples.
So, go grab your notepads, pens or highlighters and write. Just write –don’t worry about the flow. Pour down whatever is in your head and go back and review it over and over again till you are completely satisfied with your speech.
Before I fly away, let me leave you with the following examples so you can be motivated to write a great speech without racking your brain!
Here’s My Wedding Gift For You!
Good evening generous ladies and gentlemen. Thanks for being part of my big day and I’m grateful for your support. People like you make the world go around. To feel your support means more for us than you could ever imagine.
We love you so much!
It is often said that men don't have much worries until they are married. But I don’t agree with that.
It’s rather we women you have more than one million worries: before, during and after our wedding.
The most pressing is the ideal mate we did like to marry. Let me confess that prior to coming here I was so nervous about how this day will go.
Overwhelmed with stress and anxiety, I did not know what to do. So I called my husband and asked him to come over.
I needed to hear something from him at that tense moment.
When he arrived, my tears fell like rain drops. So he brought out his white hankie and cleaned my cheeks and gave me a kiss. I almost melted like wax on fire.
With his arms thrown around my waist, he whispered into my ear and asked’ Honey, what's gone wrong?
Haven't i told you not to worry? You have nothing to fear...You can make it! When we get to the church and you are scared just look into my eyes and you will find the strength to carry on.
His reassuring voice ignited the flame of confidence within me and at that moment i knew he’s ……
Can you write something like that? I bet you can do that and come up with something better. Just give it a try!
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